There is nothing wrong with being alone with a pleasant young man.

Well, what are you going on inside of us that we act like idiots in his presence. Or for example, you are a strong adequate employee or partner, and you know what to say, but when you are alone with your opponent, you say something or some hackneyed phrases and get the wrong result of the interaction. And when then you are left Alone with yourself, suddenly you have wonderful thoughts. blame everything internal overstrain