Most men start off in a strong frame, early in relationships, then through a process of betatization by 1,000 concessions, he becomes unattractive to his girlfriend or wife.

Maintaining frame is paramount to a strong LTR, and most men get it wrong

Some areas I'll cover include, but aren't limited to:

  • Inviting a problem woman into your life
  • Becoming 'exclusive' fast
  • Not spinning plates, or bringing up 'where do we stand' before she does
  • Saying 'yes' too often, and not saying 'no' enough
  • Failing her shit tests
  • Being too needy
  • Lacking in conventional male competency skills
  • Not enforcing boundaries with male friends & social media
  • Getting involved with a woman higher than your own SMV
  • Letting the alpha widow enter your relationship
  • Making her your everything
  • Losing contact with his friends, and hobbies