I’ve got Broad hips which I’d like to camouflage so am always aware of what I’m wearing . How to wear my top? I do not like tucked in all around. I’m shy and would like to improve my style but I’m gaining weight and am so used to wearing sports clothing/athleisure that I worry about people noticing me.How do I create an overall cohesive look for example choosing ...proper accessories to match the 'feel' of a look. For example what handbag styles go with casual vs dressy