When so many couples blame and criticize each other for the things that go wrong in their relationships and in their own lives, you two praise and acknowledge one another constantly, honestly and openly. You focus on the good traits of the other person and not on the negative ones, praising and reinforcing the positive behavior instead of the negative one Will help you in any realtionship and most of all in hard difficult situations to support each other. Working through infidelity can often strengthen a relationship. But it’s essential for you and your partner to be honest about what you can and can’t commit to in your relationship and maintain open communication going forward and a faitful relationship.