When something is going wrong in your life, your first instinct is probably to try and fix it. If your marriage is troubled, you might think first of counseling, or a couples' retreat. If your finances are weak, you might thing to take on extra work. Our first response to a scary situation should be to go to God. Don't sideline Him when you're struggling...He should be your first place of refuge, your first counselor. If you're willing to let Him lead you, no matter where you end up...He'll be there. Sometimes our idea of fixing things just moves us further away from where He's trying to put us. Humble yourself, seek Him, and He'll hear you and heal you.