It's often laughed about how women are 'Chatty Cathies' and men are 'Silent Stans.' It's true, we were created differently, but it's not a pass for spouses to be lax in their communication. Even if you feel discomfort, those discussions bring couples together. Speaking the truth in love, listening with empathy and interest...both parties can provide security and understanding for the other. It's not even always about what's being discussed, but the act of sharing and listening. When children are grown, friends move away, you and your spouse will still have each other. It's your choice...a house of laughter and conversation, or silence and emptiness.