Social media train us to go through life in constant anticipation of a potential audience. That's as true for sex as it is for friendship, travel, eating, and "being oneself." The spectacularization of sex, for those who don't have it professionally, might seem like a new frontier for public living. But within this immersion lies the possibility of a perfect privacy.  Read more essays on living with technology at https://reallifemag.com and follow us on Twitter @_reallifemag.