That Christian In Recovery: Recent Episodes
Vernon Layne
Vernon is a Christian who's not afraid to share his experience with addiction and recovery. He strongly believes everyone is recovering from something and that the bible is about Jesus as well as recovery. This podcast isn't about drugs but about recovery and trying to help others to not fill their spiritual void with nothing other than God's word.
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In this episode of Sick & Tired Recovery, I shared in a Zoom meeting — my truth from the heart.
I talk about what it was like growing up, and how there was once a time I was completely alright with being me. But somewhere along the way, being myself started to feel different. That’s when I picked up the drink — trying to fit in, trying to belong.
What I didn’t realize then is that every sip pulled me further away from who I really was.
If you’ve ever lost yourself trying to be accepted, this one’s for you. 💛
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In 2016, Ash Perrow nearly lost his life after surgery complications left him with massive internal bleeding.
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That near-death experience forced him to face his own mortality — and in that moment, he realized he hadn’t been living to his fullest potential.
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Ash came back with a clear contract: to stay for the work he does and to walk the planet from his heart. Since then, he’s transformed every area of his life — relationships, work, health, and identity — and now helps others do the same.
In this episode, Ash shares:
The life-changing lessons his near-death experience taught him
How to break free from old patterns when you’re sick and tired of being stuck
Practical ways to reconnect with your intuition and live authentically
Why presence, clarity, and compassion are the keys to true transformation
✨ If you’ve ever felt trapped in cycles of self-sabotage, addiction, or fear — this conversation will inspire you to choose life and live from the heart.
🎙 Listen now on Sick & Tired Recovery and discover what death can teach us about truly living.
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In this episode of Sick & Tired Recovery, my guest William opens up about what it was like to grow up constantly questioning his worth as a man.
Shaped by society’s standards of masculinity—what he should look like, how he should act, and what success should mean—William carried a deep sense of not being “enough.” We talk about how these pressures influenced his choices, his relationships, and his self-image, and how he’s working today to rewrite the story of manhood on his own terms.
This conversation is about breaking free from harmful expectations, finding strength in vulnerability, and discovering that true manhood is about authenticity, not approval.
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In this episode of Sick & Tired Recovery, Hilary opens up about life in the spotlight as a child star and the hidden battles that came with it.
From the pressures of fame to the escape she found in drinking and addiction, Hilary shares her raw truth about how quickly success can turn into struggle.
But her story doesn’t end there. Hilary takes us inside her journey of hitting rock bottom, the turning points that pushed her toward recovery, and how she’s rebuilding her life with strength, honesty, and purpose.
This episode is a reminder that no matter how far you fall, healing and redemption are possible.
Tune in for an inspiring conversation filled with lessons about resilience, recovery, and discovering who you truly are beyond the spotlight.
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As the founder and CEO of the Star of Divine Light Institute and the Azarias Energy Healing Certification Program, Cheryl has spent over 30 years helping women break free from subconscious blocks, reconnect with their true selves, and step into their higher purpose.
We talk about what it really takes to break through when nothing else seems to work, why so many of us feel “meant for more” but stay stuck, and how energy healing can guide us to clarity, confidence, and freedom. Cheryl also shares practical tools for deep healing and spiritual alignment that you can start using today.
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After nearly 40 years of therapy and self-help work, Barb thought she had it all figured out — until she hit the walls of codependence, trauma, and self-neglect that no amount of “trying harder” could fix.
At 52, she walked into a 12-step room and everything changed.
In this episode of Sick & Tired Recovery, Barb — now a boundaries coach, speaker, author, and host of the Fragmented to Whole podcast — shares how recovery melted the iceberg of her life.
She opens up about the deep work of healing childhood wounds, breaking cycles of codependence, and learning to set boundaries that transformed not just her personal relationships, but her professional life too.
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In this heartfelt conversation, Jennifer opens up about growing up in the shadow of generational addiction—a legacy that shaped her beliefs, her relationships, and her sense of self.
From an early age, she carried the heavy weight of feeling like she could never measure up, no matter how hard she tried.
Together, we explore how those deep-rooted feelings of unworthiness took hold, how addiction threaded its way through her family history, and what it took for her to begin breaking free.
Jennifer’s story is one of raw honesty, resilience, and hope—a reminder that the cycle can be broken, and healing is possible for anyone willing to face the truth.
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In this powerful episode of Sick & Tired Recovery, I reflect on the undeniable truth that God was with me—even in the darkest moments of my active addiction. While I couldn’t see it at the time, looking back now, I recognize the protection, the gentle nudges, the narrow escapes, and the quiet guidance that carried me through.
This isn’t just about survival—it’s about grace. I share personal stories of divine intervention, second chances, and the subtle ways God was working behind the scenes to lead me toward healing and purpose. Whether you're in recovery, supporting someone who is, or simply searching for hope, this episode reminds us that we are never alone. God's presence doesn’t wait for our perfection—it meets us in our brokenness.
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In this powerful episode, we sit down with Benny G, who opens up about his raw and honest battle with addiction — and the moment everything began to change. Benny shares how his life spiraled into darkness and the lessons he learned the hard way, but he also speaks about the unexpected spark of hope that came from his mother’s love and wisdom.
It was his mother who first planted the seed of recovery, gently suggesting he attend some meetings when he had nowhere else to turn. That simple suggestion grew into a life of freedom, healing, and purpose. Through his experience, strength, and hope, Benny reminds us that recovery often starts with a small act of faith — and a willingness to show up.
Tune in for an inspiring conversation about family, surrender, and the courage to keep coming back.
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What happens when your brain shuts down the very systems that bring joy, energy, and motivation?
For Andy W, the author of Dopamine Mountain and Anhedonia Wastelands, this wasn’t a theoretical question—it was her reality for nearly four years.
In this powerful episode, Andy shares her journey through severe chronic fatigue, cognitive decline, and anhedonic depression, and how she clawed her way back by hacking the dopamine reward system. With raw honesty and scientific insight, she unpacks the tools, mindset shifts, and lifestyle changes that led to her full recovery—including how she overcame migraines, chronic pain, and rewired her parasympathetic nervous system.
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Brett knows firsthand what it means to be addicted—not to substances, but to approval. As someone who spent years chasing validation to fill an inner emptiness, Brett’s story sheds light on a lesser-known but deeply relatable struggle: the addiction to being liked, needed, and praised. Growing up without a strong sense of emotional fulfillment, Brett learned to shape-shift, perform, and people-please in order to feel worthy. But no amount of applause could quiet the inner voice that whispered, you’re not enough.
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In this powerful episode, Damian joins us to share his raw and inspiring journey through addiction, mental health struggles, and ultimately—recovery. From the depths of pain to the discovery of purpose, Damian opens up about the moments that changed his life, the people who stood by him, and the inner work that led to healing.
Together, we explore the importance of speaking our truth, breaking the silence around mental health, and finding strength in vulnerability. Whether you're on your own recovery path or supporting someone who is, Damian’s story offers hope, perspective, and practical insight for navigating the journey with courage and compassion.
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How Damian faced his darkest days
What turning points led him toward healing
The role love and support played in his recovery
Why speaking out is a crucial part of long-term healing
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In this powerful episode, Calvin and I take a raw and honest look at the inner battle that often goes unnoticed—the struggle to face ourselves. This isn’t about the external fights we show the world, but the private war within: the self-doubt, shame, unhealed wounds, and the fear of truly seeing who we are.
We explore why so many avoid the mirror and how healing begins when we stop running from ourselves. If you've ever felt like you're your own worst enemy, this conversation will meet you right where you are—and guide you toward the courage to confront, accept, and grow.
Are you ready to look at yourself?
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Too many of us have sacrificed our voice, values, and vision just to feel loved or stay connected. But real love doesn't demand that you disappear.
We talk about how trauma, codependency, and people-pleasing patterns can blur the line between love and self-loss — and how healing means learning to show up whole, not half.
You’ll learn how to:
Spot the warning signs of self-abandonment in relationships
Set boundaries without guilt
Rebuild your identity after losing yourself
Love others without betraying yourself
If you’ve ever felt like you gave too much just to be loved — this episode is for you.
It’s time to stop calling it love when it costs you, you.
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In this episode of Sick & Tired LLC, we dive into the powerful tool of “Acting As If” — not faking it, but faithing it. This principle isn't about pretending or putting on a mask. It’s about stepping into the mindset, behavior, and identity of the person you’re becoming — even before you fully believe it yourself.
We explore how "Acting As If" can help shift old thought patterns, build confidence, and align your daily actions with your recovery goals and spiritual growth. Whether you're early in recovery or working to become more connected to your inner Divine, this episode offers practical insight into becoming who you were always meant to be.
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In this powerful episode, I sit down with Bob Martin who transformed his life through mindfulness and spiritual awakening. Bob shares how he left behind a high-stakes world of power and control to become a mindfulness mentor.
We dive deep into the parallels between addiction, codependency, and the relentless pursuit of external validation, discussing how mindfulness and self-awareness can help break destructive cycles. Bob explains how addiction rewires the brain, the role of forgiveness in recovery, and practical ways to find clarity, purpose, and peace.
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In this episode of Sick & Tired LLC, we explore the powerful truth that our reason for being here isn’t just about us. When God calls us back to Him in recovery, He transforms us from the inside out and gives us a purpose beyond our struggles.
We’ll talk about how surrendering to God leads to true healing, why our journey isn’t just for ourselves, and how faith can guide us toward a meaningful life.
Tune in for a deep discussion on how God’s plan is bigger than our past and how He uses our recovery to impact the world around us.
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We all crave control—over our lives, our relationships, our circumstances—but what if control is just an illusion? In this episode of Sick & Tired LLC, we explore why the need for control keeps us stuck in fear, frustration, and self-doubt. I dives deep into the roots of control issues, how they relate to addiction and codependency, and why surrendering can be the most empowering step toward freedom.
You'll learn practical tools to recognize when you're trying to control the uncontrollable and how to shift toward trust, acceptance, and inner peace. Whether you struggle with perfectionism, fear of the unknown, or letting go of past hurts, this episode will help you release the grip and find real power in surrender.
Tune in and discover how to finally let go—and truly live.
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In this episode of Sick and Tired Recovery, Main Man edition, I sit down with my co-host Calvin for a raw and honest conversation about dating women who bring emotional baggage into relationships. Drawing from our personal experiences, we share our strength and hope, exploring how patience, understanding, and self-awareness can help build healthier connections. Whether you're in recovery or just trying to navigate the complexities of relationships, this episode offers insight into loving others through their healing while maintaining your own peace.
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Today, we’re diving deep into the realms of spirituality, meditation, and mindfulness with an incredible guest, Dean Graves. With over 20 years of experience as a meditation teacher, mental health counselor, and spiritual guide,
Dean has helped countless individuals on their journeys to self-awareness and healing. His holistic approach to personal growth combines practical mindfulness techniques with profound spiritual insights, making this episode a must-listen for anyone seeking to deepen their inner peace and awaken to their true self. Get ready for an enlightening conversation that will inspire and uplift you!
Dean's Website: https://www.ddeangraves.org/
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In this episode, I take you through my raw and unfiltered recovery journey.
I lost everything—my sense of self, my hope, and even my faith. Yet, in that darkness, I found a new beginning.
Join me as I share how hitting rock bottom allowed me to align my will with God’s and how three profound changes unfolded when I surrendered my life to Him.
From discovering a newfound purpose to experiencing true freedom and the return of hope, this story is a testament to the power of transformation through faith.
Whether you're struggling with your own challenges or looking for inspiration, this episode will remind you that sometimes, losing everything is the first step to finding a life you never thought possible.
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What if the key to overcoming life’s struggles was found in the intuitive connection with horses? Join us as Nancy McKay, a Certified Equus Coach, explains how she uses this unique approach to guide women through their recovery process. Nancy shares how horses help uncover hidden emotions and empower clients to find new paths forward. Discover how this powerful method is changing lives, one session at a time.
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In this transformative episode of Sick & Tired Recovery, we’re joined by Lauren Fay, an Alcohol-Free Empowerment Coach, Reiki Master Teacher, and Sound Bowl Practitioner, who has helped hundreds of women reclaim their freedom and elevate their lives through elective and conscious sobriety. With almost seven years of continuous sobriety and over a decade of coaching experience, Lauren shares her holistic approach to sobriety as a sacred journey of self-discovery.
Tune in as we explore how Lauren combines mindset shifts, energy healing, and spiritual empowerment to help ambitious women unlock their potential, tap into their intuition, and live fully aligned with their true purpose. Whether you’re on your own sobriety journey or simply seeking personal transformation, this episode is packed with wisdom and inspiration you won’t want to miss!
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In this episode of Sick & Tired Recovery, we sit down with Patrick Casey, a personal coach with a remarkable story of transformation. Entering recovery at just 19 years old, Patrick faced the daunting challenge of overcoming addiction and has never looked back. Now, he dedicates his life to helping men break free from the chains of self-hate, worry, and insecurity, guiding them toward lives filled with self-love, respect, and joy.
Patrick opens up about his personal journey, sharing how he learned to balance his relationships while healing from childhood wounds that once fueled his self-destructive patterns. He discusses the tools and techniques he uses to empower his clients, the importance of sustaining positive change, and how his own experiences continue to inspire his coaching approach. Whether you're in recovery, supporting someone who is, or simply interested in personal growth, this episode offers powerful insights into overcoming adversity and finding lasting fulfillment.
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In this powerful episode of the Sick & Tired Recovery Podcast, we sit down with Noah Asher, the bestselling author of CHAOS: Overcoming the Overwhelming. Noah opens up about his harrowing journey through addiction to drugs and alcohol, revealing the deep shame that led him to a desperate attempt to end his life. But when he hit rock bottom, a Higher Power intervened, setting him on a path to recovery and purpose. Noah's story is one of redemption, resilience, and the transformative power of surrendering to something greater. Tune in to hear how he turned his chaos into clarity and found the strength to overcome the overwhelming.
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Pastor Michael Scholtes Shares his Battle with Depression
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In this episode of Inner Divine Recovery, titled "Three Miracles When You Align with God's Will," we explore the profound and transformative power of spiritual alignment. When you surrender to a higher purpose and allow God's will to guide your life, miraculous things begin to happen. We'll uncover three specific miracles that manifest when you align your life with divine intention, sharing real-life stories and insights that illustrate how these spiritual shifts can lead to extraordinary breakthroughs in recovery, healing, and personal growth. Tune in to discover how aligning with God's will can bring about a profound sense of peace, purpose, and possibility in your journey.
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In this transformative episode, we delve into the powerful journey of letting go and how it can lead to profound personal growth and freedom. Discover why our attempts to control people, places, and things often stem from deep-seated fears and insecurities, and learn how releasing this control can open the door to a more fulfilling and empowered life.
We'll explore the concept of a Higher Power and the importance of trusting the recovery process. Hear personal stories and practical insights on how letting go of control can reduce anxiety, improve relationships, and foster resilience.
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In this compelling episode, we delve into the heart-wrenching story of Brandy, a woman whose deep trust in her pastors was shattered in an unimaginable way. Seeking solace and guidance, Brandy confided her most personal struggles to her church leaders, believing in the sacred bond of pastoral confidentiality. Instead, her private matters were leaked to the entire congregation and splashed across the front page of the local newspaper.
Join us as we explore the profound emotional and spiritual impact of this betrayal. We’ll discuss how Brandy's trust was violated, leading her to be ostracized by her community and plunging her into a severe crisis of faith. This episode examines the critical importance of confidentiality in pastoral care and the devastating consequences when that trust is broken.
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In the vast landscape of human experience, few journeys are as awe-inspiring as the path from addiction to recovery. Neel's story stands as a testament to the miraculous power of faith and the enduring promise of freedom from the shackles of substance abuse.
Neel's journey began like so many others, innocently enough, with experimentation and curiosity. Yet, what started as a casual indulgence soon spiraled into a full-blown addiction, consuming every facet of his existence.
For years, Neel found himself ensnared in a cycle of despair, his life dictated by the relentless demands of his addiction.
It was in his darkest hour that Neil discovered a glimmer of hope—a flickering flame of faith that would ultimately guide him towards redemption. In the depths of his despair, Neel turned to God, seeking solace and strength in a higher power.
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Paulette's upbringing was fraught with challenges, shaped by the specter of her father's alcoholism and her mother's inability to provide the love and support she desperately needed. Growing up in such an environment left scars that lingered long into adulthood, setting the stage for her own battles with addiction and emotional turmoil. Despite the adversity she faced, Paulette exhibited remarkable resilience, determined to forge her own path despite the odds stacked against her.
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Step into the inspiring journey of Dr. Robb Kelly, a renowned addiction recovery expert, as he shares his profound testimony on overcoming addiction with divine guidance.
He delves into his personal struggles with addiction, offering raw and authentic insights into the challenges he faced and the transformative power of faith in his recovery journey.
You will be captivated by Dr. Kelly's unwavering determination to conquer addiction, fueled by his unwavering belief in a Higher Power.
Dr. Kelly's experience inspired him to start his own recovery business, where he has since helped countless individuals reclaim their lives from the grip of addiction.
I encourage listeners to stay tuned until the end, as a surprise awaits, unveiling a special message.
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https://robbkelly.com/
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In the labyrinthine journey of recovery, perhaps one of the most profound odysseys is that of self-discovery.
Shedding the layers of addiction and embracing newfound sobriety initiates a transformative expedition toward understanding one's true identity.
In this podcast episode, we delve into the intricate tapestry of the recovery process, uncovering the profound exploration of self that accompanies the path to healing.
The path to recovery is not solely about abstaining from harmful substances; it is a profound quest to reclaim one's essence, to unearth the authentic self buried beneath the wreckage of addiction.
As individuals embark on this journey, they navigate the depths of their past experiences, beliefs, and behaviors, confronting the shadows that have obscured their true identity.
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A year ago, I had the honor of being a guest on podcast Co-Dependent Me host by Tamala Shaw.
I had the opportunity to share my experience, strength and hope on my journey of reclaiming my life.
The Bible says while we where still sinners (Romans 5-8), Christ died for us.
As I reflect, I can see how I was always being cared for even in active addiction.
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Embark on a profound exploration with Mark McNear as he bravely shares his odyssey through addiction, rehabilitation, and the transformative power of faith in this episode.
Beyond the surface, Mark delves into a profound truth: addiction is not the problem itself but often a desperate solution to deeper issues.
Join us as he reveals how, through his connection with Jesus, he found a profound healing that went beyond overcoming addiction—a healing that addressed the root causes.
Discover the perspective that only a relationship with Jesus can offer, where true restoration begins by addressing the soul's deeper needs.
This episode is a testament to the idea that faith can be the ultimate catalyst for profound, lasting transformation.
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In this episode of "The Sneaky Emotion: How Self-Pity Creeps In," I dive deep into the intricacies of a sentiment that often takes us by surprise: self-pity.
Drawing from personal experiences and heartfelt anecdotes, I explore the insidious ways self-pity can subtly weave its web into our lives.
Listeners gain an intimate look at the real-life struggles we've encountered, making this episode relatable and genuine.
I discuss the various disguises self-pity wears, from seemingly harmless complaints to persistent negative self-talk.
Watch what you tell yourself! 🔥💪🏿💯
But this podcast isn't about dwelling on the problem. So I offer practical insights and actionable tips on how to detect self-pity when it sneaks in, and more importantly, how to confront and conquer it.
Join us on this enlightening journey as we explore the path from self-pity to empowerment, offering strategies and perspectives that can help you reclaim your life from the clutches of this sneaky emotion.
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In this compelling episode, I sit down with Troy Love, a seasoned therapist who brings a unique perspective to the field due to his own deeply transformative journey through trauma.
Troy courageously opens up into the intersections of his personal struggles and professional expertise, offering listeners a rare glimpse into the mind of a therapist who has walked the path of healing firsthand.
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This episode explore into the transformative journey of two individuals, Mia and Robby, who found solace and salvation in their faith while battling their personal addictions.
Robby, once a successful businessman, lost everything due to his addiction. Finding himself at the Salvation Army, he discovered a new purpose and a path towards recovery.
Mia, on the other hand, wasn't actively seeking a relationship when she crossed paths with Robby.
Little did she know that God had a divine plan for their lives, leading them to form an unbreakable bond rooted in their shared journey of walking with Christ.
Mia and Robby courageously open up about their individual struggles and how they persevered through the challenges of being in a relationship early in their recovery.
It's a story of faith, recovery, and boundless possibilities that arise when two addicts unite under the guiding light of Christ.
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In a world where the pressure to succeed often outweighs the courage to ask for support, Eric Daddario is here to inspire and guide today's youth on their journey to overcoming the fear of seeking help when struggling with drugs, depression, anxiety and more.
Eric is a youth motivational speaker who helps youth make better decisions based on his experiences.
Through this thought-provoking interview, we explore the various reasons behind the fear of asking for help that many young people experience.
Whether you're a teenager grappling with internal struggles or a concerned parent wanting to better support the young people in your life, this episode offers guidance, empathy, and encouragement.
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Email: eric@thedecisionswemake.com
Phone: 781-502-8323
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In this episode I interview Adam Gunton who have faced profound challenges such as addiction, loss, and hopelessness, only to be touched by the transformative love of Jesus.
He shares his personal story on how his life was forever changed when he came face to face with the light of Jesus, and how His love penetrated even the darkest corners of his existence.
Encountering the Divine is an episode that invites listeners to reflect on their own spiritual journeys and contemplate the transformative power of encountering Jesus.
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Through candid and heartfelt conversations, my brother in Christ, Johnathan, shared his experience on faith, relationships, and personal growth.
Listeners will hear his thoughts on dating and marriage and how his loyalty to his family's last name guided him to remain faithful to God's word.
Whether you're a Christian looking to deepen your faith or simply curious about the experience of someone who has chosen to remain a virgin, this is a must-listen episode.
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In this episode, we discussed how leaving someone is a form of love and...
- How love is not enabling
- What we learn about love makes it hard to identify
- How expectations get us into trouble
- Understand men can't read minds
- We can't love others until we first love ourselves
Kim Sorrelle is a director of a humanitarian organization, speaker, and author of two books.
Her first book, Cry Until You Laugh, her and her husband's battle with cancer.
Her second book, Love Is, chronicles her year long quest to figure out the meaning of love.
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Maria Mayes is a Well-Being Coach and teacher who helps clients find the freedom from anxiety.
In this episode she shared simple techniques that are easy to apply.
We discussed the most powerful tool we each have for healing.
She is the founder of Take 5 and on a mission to helping others take their power back from anxiety, chronic tension, stress, drugs, insomnia and much more.
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In this episode Traci shares how vibrations outside us affect us physically and more!
How she got started on the journey of subtle energy alchemy
How an emotion causes lower back pain or bladder issues
Which healing technique does she feel is the most beneficial
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In this episode, Dave and I discuss how one song helped thousands of people suffering from addiction and:
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How Rachel's song changed his life
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How he got his music played on radio stations all over the country
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The importance of persevering
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Listening to instrumental music can help with depression
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In this episode we discuss how to recover from suppressed feelings, living our lives as victims and...
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The importance of parenting yourself
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How the brain can heal itself
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The inability to handle life's stressors
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What causes our addiction problems
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She shares her thoughtful and unique perspectives on alcoholism and addiction
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Email her josie@thehashimotosfix.com
Recovery is learning to love and accept yourself.
What happens in a 12-Step meeting are recovering addicts loving on each other until an addict knows how to love themselves.
Addicts become grateful for everything that has happened in their life, knowing their God will use their experience for His good.
They become at peace with themself.
The only way to keep and activate this love is to give it away.
Depression is real.
In this episode, Pastor Michael Scholtes and I discussed his book Darkwater a memoir of his depression and faith.
Michael J. Scholtes is an ordained minister in the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America.
Key Concepts:
He explains the negative voice most of us hear isn't us and that we should listen to the voice of God instead.
He gave his viewpoint on the best way to support a loved one who suffers from depression.
We dove into the dark water of his attempted suicide as a teenager.
And we considered churches who doesn't support people who fall short of God's glory.
Michael's website:
thesholtes.com
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On this episode, I sit down with D Arlando Fortune, a self-publishing strategist, author, and recovering addict.
He shares his story on addiction and his philosophy on making life happen.
D Arlando believes people are one book away from a breakthrough in their lives and business.
If you have ever thought about writing your book, he can help.
We all have responsibilities.
But if we are not careful, we can do too much and forget about ourselves.
Without healthy boundaries, we sometimes say yes to things we don't want to do.
That's why it's essential to learn to stay in your lane.
You will know where your responsibilities end, and the other person begins.
Do you have a friend who knows what goes on in your life?
He knows what you feel and what your fears are.
All men need a Main Man to become vulnerable and share their secrets.
A Main Man is someone who listens without judging.
We understand ourselves as a man beginning with closeness to other men.
Calvin's contact:
Phone: 513-492-1228
In this episode I sat down with author Leslie Davis, and we discussed her book You Can't Eat Love.
If you have a food addiction, you don't want to miss this one.
She teaches us that our relationship with food improves as we learn to love ourselves.
Lesle Davis links:
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Most addicts are confused about life.
There is much growing up needed for us.
Because of our self-centeredness, dealing with everyday living is difficult.
Recovery is a process of maturing and learning how to respond to life.
Not that maturing is easy.
On the contrary, growing up is difficult, especially in the beginning.
But we grin and stay vigilant.
We change and grow up over here.
We are a product of what we tell ourselves, what we believe, and the actions we take.
We must be careful of what we tell ourselves.
Paying attention to how we respond to compliments can tell us a lot about ourselves.
Can we receive them gratefully, or do we minimize them?
Learning to feel good about ourselves is what this episode about.
These tools that help me build my self-worth and self-esteem.
Janice Hatcher Liggins is an author, TV show host and civic leader.
She's an entrepreneur and founder of the non-profit organization called The Clarion Call.
In this episode, Janice and I discuss her book,
- Journey to your Calling, The Path to Receive the Desire of Your Heart
- Not relying on the intellect to understand why the Lord is telling you to do something
- Why we cannot be stubborn or rebellious and please the Lord
- Steps to quiet your mind and hear God
- The importance of attending Church
- Being obedience to God is what's important
- Her non-profit organization The Clarion Call
- The difference between your calling and your purpose
Janice Liggins links:
Janice's Website
The Clarion Call
Life is a series of decisions and consequences.
It's okay to act despite the consequences if you are willing to pay the price.
Sometimes that price can lead you to desperation.
Only through desperation do some people seek a Power greater than themselves.
And that's a blessing.
If you want peace of mind, it's a good idea to focus on yourself.
Focusing on what others are doing is a setup.
Our mind gives us a destructive pattern to live in.
We must break that pattern if we want to live joyous and free.
Keeping our side of the street clean does just that.
It reminds us we only have power over ourselves.
When we get to recovery, our thinking is still insane.
We face a tough decision once the drugs are gone.
Addicts have to deal with what took them to the drugs.
Changing our lifestyle maybe even as hard as it was to quit using.
We learn not to act on negative feelings to recover.
In this episode, Barby Ingle defined Reflex Sympathetic Dystrophy (RSD) and what it's like living with chronic pain.
She discussed her mindset of losing everything she worked hard for.
Barby informed us of the importance of understanding the use of Narcan and how it can be fatal if not properly used.
God restored her life that is purposeful and meaningful when she put her faith in Him.
God wants the best for you.
He's not going to deliver it to you.
You have to be willing to put in the work to get it.
If you want something different you have to be willing to do something differently.
If nothing changes then nothing changes.
When it comes to the battle between intending and action, action wins all the time.
The best way to get a good understanding of ourselves is by becoming aware of our inner child.
When we aren't aware of our inner child, we look for others to heal us or complete us.
The 12 steps take us back to our childhood experiences which had an impact on our development and beliefs.
This process starts our inner healing.
Sadly, without knowing ourselves on this level, many never outgrow the self-centeredness of a child.
In relationships, seek to understand rather than strive to be understood.
A mistake people often make in relationships is looking for similarities.
When they don't live up to our expectations, this causes us to blame others for our unhappiness.
Loving ourselves and appreciating our differences is the antidote to our self-centered fears.
Brian Russell is a professor of biblical studies.
He's also a Coach, Spiritual Leader, Podcaster, and the author of his new book:
Centering Prayer: Sitting Quietly In God's Presence Can Change You Life which will be released 9-21-21
In this interview, Brian Russell and I discuss experiencing God's unconditional love and...
- His book, Centering Prayer: Sitting Quietly In God's Presence Can Change Your Life
- What is Centering Prayer
- Taking ownership of your role in a painful divorce
- The importance of having a true friend
- How to respond when you can't feel God's presence
- How to practice Centering Prayer
- The gift of gratitude
- The connection Centering Prayer have to Recovery
- Why you can't think your way out of a spiritual crisis
Brian Russell's Links:
Brian's Website
YouTube
Many recovering addicts think they have a drug problem when they first get to recovery.
After they are introduced to the 12 steps they find out it's much bigger than that.
It was the drugs that brought us to recovery in desperation.
However, only by living the 12 steps can we find out what took us to the drugs.
Pain and misery are realities.
Most addicts are unwilling to accept reality so they do their best to change what is unacceptable.
They use drugs because they don't want to feel.
Subconsciously they seek help thinking they want to stop using not knowing they just want the pain to stop.
All addicts must ask themselves do they really want to stop using drugs and answer it honestly.
Don't be satisfied with your religious performances. Instead, build a loving personal relationship with Christ by accepting who you are.
Pay attention to what you say about yourself and start experiencing the liberation to be yourself, the person God intended you to be.
The most beautiful, touching thing you can do for your mother is to forgive her.
It's the most beautiful thing she have done for you.
Forgive her now before it's too late.
Life gets better when we lean with the flow of it.
We have to use our intuition rather than our fixed ideas if it's going to make any sense.
Life doesn't care about what we think or feel.
Therefore, we change our pattern of resisting life by learning and accepting who we are. We can't accept it until we accept ourselves.
Whether we realize it or not, we all talk to ourselves.
No matter how hard we try to shut off our minds we can't do it.
Our self-talk reflects the way we feel about ourselves. In this episode, I talk about becoming conscious of the things we tell ourselves so we can be truly free.
Thousands of addicts found recovery despite the crisis they faced. You never have to use drugs again one day at a time for the remainder of your life!
Let us love you until you understand how to love yourself. If I can do it, you can too! Email me @ thatchristianinrecovery@gmail.com
The war is over...
The flesh is trying to teach us how to gain the world and lose our soul. The Spirit enlightens us we can't lose our souls. The Holy Spirit is perfectly aware that we don't recognize our true selves. That's why God put His Spirit in us to steer us to all truth and teach us our worth.
Most men have no inner resources to help them escape the trap of their egos. When our emotions get in the way our vision gets narrow. A spiritual man like Joseph kept one eye on God even when he was in his feelings.
In this episode, I had an informative conversation with a good friend of mine on the Stereo app about accepting reality. Our expectations exert tremendous discomfort in our lives when we don't get what we want.
An intimate relationships must go through major reconstruction during recovery. It pertains to removing self-defeating patterns that have become embedded during active addiction.
Restoring trust takes time.
Our words played an important role in addiction. They helped us stay in our self-made prison. We must proceed to do the next best thing until our words again have value. People who we have hurt learn to trust again by our actions, not our words.
Learn to pay attention to what you tell yourself. Our internal dialogue has the power to calm us or make us feel inadequate. Our sense of who we are is wrapped up in our thoughts.
We have two choices. We can continue making unreasonable demands and becoming frustrated when things don't spin our way. Or we can surrender our lives to God and live at peace with ourselves and the world.
We are so focused on how we have been victimized that we fail to see how we have been harming ourselves. We wounded a lot of people, but most of all, we harmed ourselves.
Spiritual food is just as real as physical food. It satisfies us in a way that cannot be satisfied with anything physical. Fame, sex, or money cannot fill our spiritual void. Until we have a personal relationship with Christ, there will always be something missing in our souls.
Most of us can't be ourselves because we don't know who we are. We learned to be whoever we needed to be to fit in. The Bible is a spiritual mirror revealing and uncovering our defects and assets. We use it to examine our lives and discover the person God intended us to be.
At this time, this pandemic is the worst thing in the world.
However, what we can not see is God orchestrating a whole new calling on our lives. One of God's strategies for directing His children's step is to get us to slow down and reflect on our affairs. Because in hard times, we are inclined to listen to Him more intently. #StayHomeSaveLives
God wants us to grow up. We can grow and learn every moment of every day if we are open to the lesson. Learning isn't limited to the classroom. It takes place in the kitchen and on the streets. The goal of education is to grow to greater insight into yourself. We not meant to remain as children.
We all have moments of gloom in our recovery. We get through those unsettling times by faith. The first thing to leave you when you relapse is your spirit, and it's the last thing that comes back when you stop . No matter how bad you feel in your recovery, a relapse is never the answer.
There comes a time in life; we realize that the way we see ourselves is not necessarily the way others do. When we are physically hungry, we don't think correctly. Well, it's the same way when our spirit is starving for connection and awareness. Sometimes we do stupid things without considering the consequences.
Have you ever experienced some unfair situations in which somebody did you wrong or mistreated you? Maybe you've struggled financially, and you don't see how you can ever get ahead. I have good news for you!
We are part of something much more significant than ourselves. The unity that we have in Christ is part of the grand design. God gave us the ministry of reconciliation. God reconciled us back to Himself, back to each other, and back to life.
Without a spiritual connection with God and others, our greatest need goes unmet. When we are driven by our flesh and ego, we are living as slaves in our self-made prison.
The deeper we look within ourselves, the greater the treasures we will find. Within we will find the joy, strength, peace, freedom and love we have been seeking.
We need to see ourselves as God does-- a creature, wonderfully crated, made by the very hands of God. He has good, pleasing, and perfect plans for us, his children. But first, he needs to transform us from the inside out.
When we know who we are and believe it, our dreams are possible. Our sense of worth must first come from within.
Many people profess they are Christians and think Sunday worship is 'God's time' but the rest of their time is spent living in the world the way that pleasing to themselves.
Guard against judging the lives of others by taking a look at yourself. There will be times in the future for us to help others after we are responsible for our own lives.
Where did Jesus first find you? How did He get you to join Him? What wrongs do you need to make right?
In continuation with the parable of the Prodigal Son, I discuss how the father must have felt when his sons disobey him. This lesson shows us how God must feel when we hurt Him, and He still can forgive.
How social media confuse us with what matters most.
The more we focus on ourselves, the less satisfied we are.
Learn what causes addicts to use drugs. Why it's important not to give money to a using addict. How the Holy Spirit helps an addict stay off of drugs.
That Christian In Recovery tells the stories of what it's like to be an everyday Christian who struggles with addition. It's a place where people can share freely without being judged.