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Becky
I update, I chat, I rant-- I get into my experiences being both fat and trans. There are an incredible amount of parallels between being fat and being trans, so I just kind of speak my mind. I also read a few poems later in the episode.
How tf do you make music for this...? I considered making a whole tuba track for it but it would've been entirely too much improvising for an hour and twenty minutes on tuba. Maybe some other time. That will be for live shows IMO.
Poems referenced:
https://madaboutit.blog/dumbo/
https://madaboutit.blog/fatphobia-climate-carbon/
https://madaboutit.blog/too-fat-not-fat-enough/
https://madaboutit.blog/fear-of-hips/
https://madaboutit.blog/queer-culture-as-a-forgiveness-pass/
https://madaboutit.blog/fat-shaming-fetish-motivation-to-diet/
https://madaboutit.blog/echo-chamberlings-trans-redditors-we-speak-for-they-them/
https://madaboutit.blog/observations-of-popular-thought-on-reddit-fatphobia-is-common-average-and-everywhere/
https://madaboutit.blog/nicokado-avocado-and-his-audience-agree-on-one-thing-internalized-fatphobia-self-proclaimed-fat-meme/
https://madaboutit.blog/at-the-intersection-of-fat-and-trans-is-a-rock-and-a-hard-place/
https://madaboutit.blog/people-are-super-triggered-by-body-positivity-neutrality/
https://madaboutit.blog/not-a-visible-achievement/
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Life check.
Am alive-- am thriving--
Not sure why, but that's enough to send
This guy into another spiral.
More episodes will follow-- I have a lot I need to catch up on
Loads of completed fully planned episodes
I've been too obsessive over to let go of.
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Just ranting honestly
I have other episodes planned, I announce them
I don't have anything scripted for this episode it's just
Completely off the handle.
I am sorry I haven't been making as many episodes, I've been
More than a bit preoccupied, so keep that in mind
If you want to cancel me-- it's okay--
I have plans anyway.
https://www.netflix.com/title/80168079
That's the documentary on the sochi olympics that mentions testosterone therapy
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School House Mock? Too much? Not enough?
These bills are killing trans kids and no one seems to think about it that way.
Protect the children? Whose children? Where? What? When? Why? How?
How about let's stop selling and killing kids at the border first.
Republicans seem to focus on clickbait topics and turn them into policy, which is what they're always blaming us for. Meanwhile back at the ranch, real trans people are really suffering.
Trust trans kids. Believe trans kids. Stop doubting, stop questioning, stop harassing trans youth.
We can't protect them from everything, but these bills need to go. If any of this shit sticks on the fan, it will blow into other areas. The transphobia will snowball.
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Talk about a friendly goodbye.
"Mean"? Does that really cut it?
Does "mean" hold up against all that ignorance?
I've about had it with Ru Paul and I think it's time the empire started to collapse on itself. Ru Paul's ego is old, fat and bloated--if you don't mind me saying so.
Fat. A word for excess adipose tissue. Something Ru Paul would have, if he didn't look like he had weekly plastic surgery appointments to suck the fat out of every crevice of his body. He would take that as a compliment, certainly!
Gottmik as the first trans contestant? Might as well have a headline that says "Go fuck yourself, trans history!"
Anyway here's all my notes
utica roast outline
Intro
hello, I dunno if I'm becky anymore
But I'm sure as hell still mad about it.
Utica's roast was one of the more revealing parts of the show.
Exposed underlying sentiments long encouraged in the show
Season 2 is a great example of virulent fatphobia scripted by Ru Paul himself into the show
--Raven benefits from her real-time roast of mystique during the food challenge. Her jokes about mystique in the interview clips are at least as mean as Utica's roast material. Except-- no roast in sight. Just another contestant on the show.
--they made them eat brains and all sorts of weird stuff that the other queens found disgusting, so that when mystique won first by a large margin (because it was a speed-eating competition!!!) She was double standard punished for both finishing first and finishing first while eating what the other queens treated as such a disgusting array of foods. Mystique was both setup to win, and setup to be shamed for winning.
Season 9 Sasha Velour, Valentina and Eureka have a confrontation
--Eureka is edited as the loud angry fat person bullying the thin people with eating disorders
--Eureka's own experience with eating disorders is completely edited out.
--There is a clip where Sasha begins to apologize to Eureka and her word is clipped mid-sound. Sounds edited, highly suspicious. Perhaps Sasha velour was acknowledging Eureka's truth, and the show edited it out?
--Eureka recieves the villain edit in season 9 and 10 both. When she talks about her serious injury, and the struggles involved in healing from it-- she is treated as someone grasping at straws for sympathy as some sort of advantage in the competition. This is pretty common in the show, but generally pits real vulnerability as not just weakness, but manipulative intent.
--At least three contestants come forth talking about their issues with eating disoders, and none of the fat contestants are ever interviewed about their issues with body image and food. I have a hard time believing Eureka didn't talk about eating disorders.
Fast forward through Nina West, who is labeled as a plus sized without being plus sized. She is a broad, full sized adult man who doesn't try to become an unhealthy size or weight. She is treated as fat, and has self-labeled as such. She also happens to play devil's advocate whenever possible, "diffusing the situation", "putting out fires" aka BEING A HUGE WET BLANKET.
tbh after this recent footage fuck Nina West.
Silky Nutmeg Ganache also recieved a vicious villain edit in the show. I believe she is a huge diva in real life, but I also fail to understand how this is a disadvantage on the show. In all previous seasons-- the biggest diva wins. Unless she is quite literally the biggest, largest diva.
Kim Chi was robbed. Multiple times. Her song "fat femme and asian" not only puts her in a box, but fails to make it a box anyone would want to open. For a queen with such tremendous artistic talent and emotional depth, I feel that "fat femme and asian" is more than a bit reductive. It definitely hasn't aged well, given America's epidemic of asian violence.
Now we arrive to Utica. I'm sure we missed some other plus girls on the show, but I just wanted to make this about Utica TBH. I would love to have a whole separate episode about fatphobia in all the seasons of ru paul, but I needed to give you some history in case you weren't aware or hadn't seen the later seasons.
Utica starts the episode by pandering for compliments about her lipsync. She clearly intends for people to congratulate her for sending Tina Burner home, and for them to say her lipsync was amazing. It wasn't, so they didn't.
She then writes her jokes, which apparently are so bad that Rose even said something in her cutaway interview that she thought they were insensitive at best. She goes to rehearsal, she starts delivering her material
Her first joke is good, she tells her lion king joke. It flops, Michelle critiques-- the way she would with any other queen. Utica responds by fat shaming her, ignoring and insulting her critique. She then tells the Nina West "whale" joke. Doesn't even make a Dory reference (comedy crime no.1)
Loni Love laughs, because the jokes was horribly fatphobic.
Utica laughs at the whale laughing at the whale joke
Utica drives it to the next level by asking if she's triggered, when she stops laughing--
She stops laughing because she realizes this person is not respecting anything she is saying or doing, so she stop feeding the troll.
The troll keeps whacking. Loni Love, to me, seems to retreat.
Michelle steps in, says its very mean, very harsh, not good.
Utica laughs, rolls her eyes, seems to think to herself "well then the right people will love it"
"I think this is funny, everyone else will think it's funny to"
She literally says later in the dressing room, after the rehearsal--
"If I'm having fun, they will too!"
Nope.
Utica performs every joke as-was in the rehearsal. No edits, nothing changed whatsoever. Well, except that the roast has more jokes. And They’re all worse, somehow.
She smiles and enjoys the whole thing start to finish regardless of what her response was.
Her jokes to Heidi were racist, IMO.
I believe that the secret to Utica's offensive humor was that to her, it was very very funny.
To many other people on twitter and reddit, they also loved it. They also thought it was all very very funny.
In order for those jokes to have any punch, any joke, any humor whatsoever-- you have to fill in the gaps. You have to imply. You have to make implications.
You have to have a series of stereotypes that you find less-than, that you automatically assume about people. Those seterotypes, those implications, those biases you find hilarious are all biases. Those are not proven. Those are assumed negative attributes, that you deem unseemly, that you don't associate yourself with. That you go ahead and assume about someone else, that you dont' know. It's bullshit, It's called being a fucking bigot.
If you thought any of Utica's jokes were funny, it's because of those implications. I believe that if you were the wrong kind of folk, you could definitely enjoy various racist implications insinuiated by Utica's material.
No one even mentioned it. The only people I've seen talking about it online are talking about it in other countries, outside of America. Fuck America TBH
Plenty of other queens made offensive jokes with fatphobic material. The implications of their jokes were nothing like Utica's. Gotmikk's joke about Ross coming when the pizza is delivered in a porno implies literally nothing about Ross's lifestyle or character other than a funny joke about loving pizza abstractly. Calling Kandy a roast is also kind of implying that she is delicious.
Loni Love heckles her that she is bombing and laughs. The whole panel laughs with her.
Ru flips her off twice while laughing and smiling
They get their promo shot for the season
The golden meme from Season 13
Utica is proud of her performance, but seems to understand that she wasn't going to be judged well.
She is very proud and at ease leaving the studio. It is, by all definitions, a completely normal exit interview.
She leaves on a high note, Ru Says she looks amazing, and that she was funny sometimes, but other times too mean.
She says she loves her and that she should sashay.
I think she put Symone in the bottom to make sure that Utica was sent home, but perhaps Symone was only in the bottom for her poor performance. Perhaps I'm being way too optimistic
If Olivia had bombed, Utica very well may have survived another day.
Utica's ractist undertones went completely unchecked.
Ru paul laughed his ass off at the whole thing
I guarantee you she will be back for All stars
Yet another chapter in a long history of Ru Paul's Drag Race promoting and benefiting from fatphobia, and fatphobic sentiment.
Arguable Lawrence Chaney is a winner only because of his willingness to play the part.
I shouldn't have to have personal experience as a fat person to be able to see the various contemptuous intents presenting in this episode, and past episodes. Same as racism, it is plain to see. Sexism, plain to see.
Again, why is it that on a show that claims to uplift and represent the queer community-- Ru is taking credit for discovering, accepting and adapting trans people for the show, all while silencing and editing out all previous trans contestants. Gottmik is just another chapter in a long history of transgender drag queens. Many previous contestants on the show have come out as transgender, and many previous contestants on the show have identified as nonbinary-- even Gigi Goode who almost won. Why wasn't the gentlemen--start your engines line changed for that season? What about gottmik makes it "racers" instead of gentlemen?? Gottmik identifies as male, he uses he/him pronouns, he just happens to be transgender.
Why. Is. This. The. Season. It. Becomes. Racers.
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Black history month is here, so let's talk some intersectionality.
Feminist-- Why I identify as one Feminism is the root of most progress Misogyny is a driving force behind discrimination of women and LGBTQAI folks Who came up with intersectional feminism? Kimberlé Crenshaw, a black American law professor coined the term in 1989. She's still active and working as a lawyer and civil rights advocate.
Why do we still have problems if this has been around since then...? Exactly, my friend. Exactly.
Nothing is perfect. Certainly not social movements, and definitely not this fucking podcast. I dig into some of the problems with how people use intersectionality, as well as how our government ignores it. White feminism does little to help POC thrive.
Ally is a verb, folks. Do it-- don't identify as a verb. You can't identify as an ally, same way you can't identify as a fuck.
Although it is tempting...
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Trans 2020 recap
Becky is sick
Becky is full of it
Becky finally got his name changed
Becky had a health scare
Becky learned th’ software
Also I swear to god I met some real life TERF’s
Elliot Page is here!!!
JK Rowling is a professional TERF
Eddie Izzard is making her own rules
I can’t help but cheer
TERF head cannon of anxiety and fear
I can’t live there any more
not worth it
I can’t even visit
Christine and the Queens is becoming famous
MUNA isn’t…?
What’sherface is disappearing and unqueering herself
Literally all the popstars
*insert rant about queer pop here
All the things you said all the things you said running through my head
MOVING ON
Pandemic gone done shut the whole earth down
I rebooted, so has everyone else
Society is resilient, kinda like this mutating virus
Worst year ever did we really need to
Celebrate it? I mean come on folks I didn’t want to have
Any sort of new years edition
This episode is about plans for
2021
Because we have to move on
Sorry I forgot about the playlists
I’ve been working a ton, I can’t listen to music when I work—
I don’t get anything done.
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I've beyond had it.
If I hear one more person say they want to
"Look more Non-binary"
I'm gonna flip my lid
I've already flipped my lid ten times just this week--
There is tightness in my chest.
AIN'T NOBODY LOOK MORE OR LESS NON-BINARY THAN ANYBODY ELSE
HOW TF YOU SUPPOSED TO LOOK NB
WHY ARE YOU PUTTING SO MUCH PRESSURE ON EVERYBODY
Also some of us don't want to conform
To your ideas of gender, so
What happens to us and them!?!?
What about looking like a man makes you
Less non-binary than looking like a woman?
Vice versa?!?!?
I've been under the impression this whole time, that we are supposed to be
Fighting gender norms--Not gatekeeping them.
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I have had various tough questions since starting my transition.
-Whats the difference between being non-binary and being trans?
-Is microdosing hormones a thing?
-Where are the de-transitioners, why did they stop, and what happened when they did?
Some of them have been "answered"
Most of them haven't. I had to answer most of my own questions, which is just how life goes.
Predictably, people hate curiosity. Also, people love trends!
Microdosing everything is a trend nowadays. I go into briefly what I've been told about microdosing HRT from my endocrinologist, but mostly ya'll-- what is your plan? What's your goal? I would love to be able to control the effects of my hormones... but that's not really how they work?
I'm sure I'll lose a bunch of followers for being anti-microdosing. I've weighed this possibility, and come to terms with it. I don't think I could sleep at night advocating for something that I don't think is healthy.
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The poems are really paying off--what a title! All aboard the struggle bus, party edition.
Brief life updates, lots of crying. Best ignored, perhaps.
Worst trans person ever! Cancel Becky.
I will be making episodes on male sexuality, piss play, herpes, meth in the community, and more music--all after I'm finished with school in the fall. So--maybe never.
Lmao that's a nice way of teasing you, I know.
I've lost it! Tah tah
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Have you read this?
JK Rowling Writes About Her Reasons For Speaking Out on Sex and Gender Issues
Like, actually read it?
I'm being serious--
Did you read someone else's opinion on Twitter
Before you made your own...?
Really actually read all 12 pages
Then join me for this episode.
She has become radicalized in the last few years, all because of twitter!
She quotes all of the biggest features of TERF ideology, and stirs fear over bathrooms.
She says things most all people consider to be transphobic.
She is clearly being a provocateur, but why? Perhaps maybe because she has been harrassed nonstop for her limited understanding of sex and gender?
She has had to self-educate now, and is only listening to TERF's about gender politics. She is responsible for her beliefs and her decision to quote famous TERF writers and leaders. Trans people are also responsible for how they have reacted to her twitter over the years. She has become a target for abuse, and I don't want to be associated with that sort of "activism".
Perhaps saddest of all, is that JK Rowling refers to all of her online abuse as "trans activism". I do not advocate for such speech.
SADDER THAN THAT is how many fans I have lost because I don't want to villainize her further than she has villainized herself! It is not enough for me to simply disagree with JK Rowling, I must degrade her--otherwise I'm not really a trans advocate!
What fucked up version of the twilight zone am I living in???
How am I living such a beautiful life surrounded by feminist trans people, but online--it's a different universe?
https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2020/03/12/gender-recognition-bill-scotland-public-consultation-transgender-rights-non-binary-ally/
here is the gender recognition bill in scotland that Rowling is so terrified of. I don't understand her fears, as the legislation is still strict--still imposes limitations on transition. None of her fears in her treatise are verifiable.
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Not sure how anyone could see any of the recent police brutality in America and be able to say that “All lives matter”. Clearly— not all lives matter. Ahmaud Arbery’s life doesn’t seem to matter as much as the cops that shot him. Breonna Taylor was an EMT, her life mattered more than mine does, and yet she is dead—shot eight times. I don’t know what to say, besides to talk about what is happening, to acknowledge reality. Black lives matter—is a reminder, not a movement. Black lives matter, I will keep reminding everyone I know until I see it reflected in our society. Black lives matter. Black lives matter. Black lives matter.
I am enraged by the “all lives matter” camp and the inherent privilege that comes with it. Hopefully recent events will shake these people out of their fog, and if they don’t, hopefully my screaming helps.
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Hey everybody! MAI is back again! This time we’re tackling anal, and all that comes with it. Anal sex should be enjoyable and pleasurable, for all participants!
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Whoa there Joey Gugliemelli... whoa. Controversy! Drama! HBO special series Bulk!!!! Maybe a bit too good of a drag queen...? You give love a bad name, Joey! Becky is reeling, in more than one way. Only Ru Paul gets under my skin this much, I swear to hell.
I love love loved improvising my own version of talking heads naive melody. fitting.
Also evil woman!!
I missed making the podcast! more to come during the pandemic, no worries!
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Hey Everybody! I love the L Word SOOOOO MUCH. The original series is so important to baby Becky. Generation Q is getting me really excited and I really hope they deliver more serious drama for many more seasons!!!
Where the hell is Max? More importantly, where the hell is Max's baby!?!?!
Why is Bette a cheater, and Tina isn't?!
Is Jenny really dead!?!? Was she murdered ? Was it suicide?
I think Nikki did it TBH she was so weird
My thoughts on the theme song are in the episode...
My version of the theme song is in the episode...
LMFAO there is no theme song to Generation Q because they got burned so bad they stopped having a theme song entirely.
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This music series is a mix of the hits of 2019, and then a few things I found in 2019, which is not necessarily the same as them being from 2019. Oops, oh well! It’s a killer playlist, features Lil Nas X, MUNA, King Princess, Christine and the Queens, Litany, Verzache, Kylie Minogue, Charlie XCX.
If you're wondering where Halsey, Troye Sivan, and everyone else is, it's because they are on the old playlists OR they are on an upcoming playlist. Message me if you need to be certain that I know who you know. Check us out on facebook and twitter @beckywtghmai
I do not go too much into detail with the artists, they are all pretty new. I forgot to mention that Lil Nas X’s real name is Montero Lamar Hill, which is gorgeous. Damn. Opportunity missed. I really should stop rushing the music series. Honestly? The playlist is what I spend the most time on. It’s very good, here is a link!
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3VGPVCjiEtdbdJhE8YfkPJ?si=N-WhI79_TsmeVA9FdjMV-w
Life's not fair I guess. I also kinda don't think she is one. I think Maya whatsername is for sure but like--JK Rowling!?! The creator of my childhood?I can't with this, yo. I can't. I don't? I don't! Hmmm
I don't understand. Honestly the episode comes to zero conclusions. I bamble. I ramble. I bullshit and I stumble. I confuse myself often.
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Hey Everybody! Becky here with another episode of Mad About It, featuring special guest Zac!They are a friend of mine from high school that I haven’t seen or spoken with SINCE THEN! It’s nuts! It’s also kind of embarrassing, we catch up and talk at the same time. Honestly might be my favorite episode of the podcast yet. It’s a reunion, with a therapy session, a bit of comedy, and some seriously heartfelt advice mixed in throughout. OH—And it’s about how to survive the holiday season as a queer person in Trump country. We both have trumping parents, and it’s a bit different to be queer and be related to proud-straights. I overshare intensely. All of it is a bit intense. I love it. follow us on facebook and twitter @beckywtghmai
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Becky breaks down Transtrenders and other myths and monsters. Spoiler alert--nobody is trendy. Except for like, the super trendy people I guess. There are so many stylish and trendy trans folk. But-- their gender isn't the trendy part.
Here is the playlist on Spotify click the link and follow the playlist! This playlist features Halsey, Big Freedia, Lauren Jauregui, Awkwafina, Princess Nokia, Junglepussy, Dai Burger, Quay Dash, Chynna, Kari Faux, Leikeli47, Kali Uchis, Lizzo, and Azealia Banks. I tell a little bit about each and ooze all over the place. Some are queer, some aren't. I am queer, however, so this playlist is queer by association. The artists aren't, however. Doesn't work on humans.
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God rest ye merry gentlethems
We talk some talk. Biphobia is the real deal! I go into some brief definitions and then some random anecdotes. Featuring some Miley Cyrus rants and an acknowledgment of Hemsworthiness. There might also be a lot of screaming. This topic is very sensitive, so I had to go full “why’d you say that” with it otherwise it would be boring.
I tried to stay away from the most basic cliches, but unfortunately most things of the best things in life are cliche.
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Oy there is too much to reflect on so I had to just go ahead and talk about it.
It has been over a year since I started all this mess, and I am a bit blown away by how different things are. They are also weirdly exactly the same. It has been nuts.
The regular programming will resume once I’m able to do what I gotta do. There are lots of good things on the horizon. Thank you so much for everything.
Podcasting has been a weird journey, stick around and live it with me.
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Pronouns! What are they? Who needs 'em? Why you gotta state 'em? Why do they matter?! Tune in, listen to me rant. I don't hit on everything, but I do hit on some things.
Why would a cis person need to state their pronouns?
When would it be appropriate to ask someone their pronouns, and how?
What kinds of pronouns are there? (Full disclosure I do not elaborate on this LMFAO haha sorry I've been watching too much Batman and I am having some joker vibes rn)
I am not a grammar expert sorry yo
I do not go into the nitty gritty of linguistics
There are like
SO MANY GRAMMAR AND WORD AND LANGUAGE PODCASTS
You don't need me for that
Let me be different
Muah
Hey Everybody! We’re Celebrating Stonewall’s 50th anniversary like everyone else with a queer podcast on this earth. We’re doing it differently, cuz its my show not theirs. You will probably hate it, it's probably wrong, it's probably rude, it's probably offensive. I did my best. Shout out to the revolutionaries who paved the way for my loud, rude, queer ass to fuck it up. At least I didn't put vaseline on a float (this time)
Hey Everybody! We're talking about Netflix's latest Queer Eye Season, the third one. I went to Jones BBQ to see if they still have their new sign. They do! Also the food is amazing. We sort through the episodes, I give my general impressions.
Here is the link to the Trevor Project I mentioned in the beginning of the episode. Rest in Power, Nigel Shelby!
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Hey Everybody!
Just a general update over here from Mad About It. I started hormone therapy and things are changing faster than I can ignore, so I thought I'd go ahead and give some details. I still identify as nonbinary and don't really give a single bit of a shit about what anyone calls me, ever, in any circumstance. So, I'm not really sure if I'm coming out as anything. I'm going from being wherever to being wherever. Join me, and see if it makes any sense to you either. Makes no fucking sense over here.
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MAI detour series
Sex stuff
Squirting
You know, the type where the pussy squirts instead of the dick. We briefly discuss the theatrics, and then we mostly talk about how it's totally normal to squirt, and how you should be stoked that you're doing it. Also, try making yourself squirt solo first.
The Queer Eye Review is coming out soon, as is the Music series Episode 4, as is lots more shit. Tell me what you think, or not.
Heyyyyyyy Everybody!!
This playlist isn't particularly "queer" in a "traditional" "sense", I will inevitably piss the entire world off with associating anything queer about these artists. They are NOT!
NOBODY IS GAY
I JUST LIKE MUSIC AND AM QUEER
AND WHEN I MAKE A PLAYLIST
IT GETS ASSOCIATED WITH MY GAYNESS
DON'T MISUNDERSTAND ME
I'm just a queer-them trapped in a cis-ya'll world.
Patsy Cline
Nina Simone
Peggy Lee
Blossom Dearie
Dinah Washington
Ella Fitzgerald
Anita 'O Day
Sarah Vaughan
Etta James
Betty Carter
I appreciate the hell out of these artists. I also chose as many pronoun-neutral songs as possible. I love this playlist, give it a shot!
Here is a link to the playlist on spotify
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We are back with the second episode of the music series!! Teleporting back to the 1920's, we talk about the women of blues. These brave women freed our souls for rock and roll, and Elvis took all the credit. What a jackass, amirite. We talk about Mamie Smith, Ma Rainey, Bessie Smith, Ida Cox, Alberta Hunter, Billie Holiday (just because duh), Sister Rosetta Tharpe, Memphis Minnie, Anita O'Day, Big Mama Thornton, and a little bit of Ella Fitzgerald and Sarah Vaughan just because I couldn't help myself.
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Stay tuned for MANY MORE EPISODES of the music series. We have SO MANY PLANNED. A whole episode dedicated to Dolly Parton, a whole episode dedicated to Tegan and Sara. There will be a Country Queers episode guaranteed. The next episode is going to cover more lady killers who kill me, but from the 1945-1960 time frame.
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I have a lot of "sexuality" episodes. This one is somehow nothing like the others. We talk about everything from Logan Paul to John Locke. Time to get ENLIGHTENED, YA'LL. Self-concept here we go. Nah forreal I think sexuality is one of the most important subjects we could talk about. So, I ranted about it for an hour. Am I factual? Am I correctical? MMmhmmm ok sure. Are fruit loops made with fruit? It's surprisingly not at all dirty. I don't think I ever even talk about genitals or gonads. Very little mention of weenies. I do tell a rather upsetting and boring story about a straight white guy with an anal obsession. It isn't exactly the most uplifting episode, but it also kind of IS the most uplifting episode. Who even knows with this, ya'll.
Next up is another episode of the music series, but I also have a lot of other episodes planned. Will make them when I have the time. It takes like, four-hundred times more time than you think it does to do one of these thingies.
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YAAS
FIRST EPISODE OF THE MUSIC SERIES
I have six artist recommendations. Briefly discuss all of them. I have a playlist on spotify all setup.
Not a crazy amount of detail, mostly just recommending a bunch of queer music.
Episode One covers:
-Troye Sivan
-King Princess
-girl in red
-The Japanese House
-Hayley Kiyoko
-Kailee Morgue
-Kimya Dawson
https://open.spotify.com/user/j7hy8jl566t0o2wjp5gwohxw1/playlist/5pEtI7PRJptOKtymhZPVzQ?si=8OQtkq-DRsGgm1Slnn9sqg
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Also check out this cover of Troye Sivan's "BITE" played on tuba, trombone and other shit.
https://soundcloud.com/user-32315819/bite-on-tuba-and-trombone-24b
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We dive deep into She-Ra. What a blessing to be able to watch this show. BEST SHOW EVER, AMIRITE!? Seriously though, it has ruined all other activities for me. I can't really enjoy anything other than She-Ra anymore. Food is tasteless, music is meaningless, any kind of exercise is just going through the motions... all is lost unless I'm watching She-Ra. Wouldn't it be dope to be able to interview Noelle Stevenson? LMAO right thats supposed to be my job. Next time, I guess.
NOELLE STEVENSON IS MUCH BETTER SPOKEN THAN I
SHE'S REALLY GOOD AT TALKING, read it for proof
https://www.themarysue.com/she-ra-princesses-power-noelle-stevenson-interview/
https://www.vanityfair.com/culture/2015/07/noelle-stevenson-nimona-lumberjanes-comic-con-eisner-awards
https://www.theverge.com/2018/11/15/18097423/she-ra-netflix-interview-reboot-noelle-stevenson-showrunner-nimona-lumberjanes
Love ya'll, stay tuned for the music series. I cannot even wait. My upgrades/updates are all through and all systems are go.
We go totally nuts with an hour and a half long episode about final fantasy. It's a general overview of the series, so don't get too mad about how much we leave out. There is TOO MUCH to cover in one episode. Way too much. It would be impossible.
We identified with this game growing up, and we know we can't be the only queers in the world that found solace in the Final Fantasy game series. It is soooo fantastic. It's not actually outwardly queer or gay in any direct sense, so don't be pissed at us for "queering" something you think isn't queer. It's our perspective on the series, as flaming queers.
The music on this episode was a bit of a daunting task. MIDI is not always best played on real instruments, but I did my best. If you love a certain final fantasy song and want to hear a cover, just leave it in the comments on Facebook, Tumblr, Twitter, Youtube or Wordpress.
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We're going head first into TERF turf this week ya'll. We don't hold anything back, but we also aren't exactly going to burn down the smurf/terf village and ban them from society. Tune in to see my suggestions on what we should do with TERF's, why they're important, and what they symbolize for the gay community.
This is a particularly ranty one
Spoiler alert: I will offend most everyone with this episode. Except, of course, for rational people who don't hate others for sport. Not very friendly for those who get high off contempt and/or pity
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Helloooooooo!!!!!
We take a deep dive into the Crash Pad Series feminist queer porn site. This place is absolutely amazing! I've never had a better experience watching porn in my life. I that for a lot of you, that bar might be kind of low. Put your bar up as high as you want, this website is going to surpass your expectation x10.
Guaranteed to totally blow your mind. They have something for everyone, too, with heavenly spire and Point of Contact. The pink label is dope.
I focused on Crash Pad Series, because that's what I desperately wanted to see more of. It's also legendary in porn, groundbreaking and genre-defining. They've won lots of awards ect. blah blah
Take a peek here at their website, I cannot recommend it highly enough
Did I mention that you won't get any spam or pop-ups?
There are no ads. No banner ads, no dicks, no pop-up walls from hell.
You will not see a penis unless you seek it out. Very impressive
Its just not like other porn sites, ya'll. Please, seriously, I wouldn't suggest some whackass pornsite that didn't have some serious merit. The merit is so real. I'm obsessed.
CHECK OUT THE CRASH PAD
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Crash Pad Series Link
Pink Label On-Demand Services
Heavenly Spire Masculine Sensuality
Point of Contact source of Emerging Pornographers
Complete Feminist Porn Award Winners
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Hey! We get super obsessed with gender dysphoria with this one. I barely talk about mtf, but in my defense I got super duper wormholed with the ftm youtubers (they are all SOOOOO mmmmm).
also Jammi Dodger? Like wut.
theres also of course Stef Sanjati
Also Riley J Dennis
TRANS YOUTUBE IS INCREDIBLE FOLKS
GET ON IT
upperhandmars!
https://www.translifeline.org/
https://blog.feedspot.com/transgender_youtube_channels
https://www.genderconfirmation.com/
BUBBLINE TIME can I get a Yas YAS. Becky holds nothing back as she expresses her undying love for both Princess Bubblegum aka/ Bonnibel and Marceline. Bass bitches gotta support eachother, you know wha' 'm sayin'?
YOU KNAH WHA I' SAYI'?!?
Femslash love festival but tbh I legit never talk about femslashes at all or give any specific recommendations. I expect ya'll to take care of that yourselves. If you're into femslash, you already know where it is and how to find it. Lets be real, fuckers.
Also like legit people are pickier about femslash than they are about porn, so what I like is gonna be so irrelevant.
Here are a few of my favorite episodes of Adventure Time that feature Bubbline
- s2ep20: Go With Me
- s3ep10: What Was Missing
- s5ep29: Sky Witch
- s7ep2: Varmints
- s7ep6-13: all 8 episodes of Stakes
- s7ep27: Broke His Crown
Here is a link to a blog about Bubbline
http://thebubblineblog.tumblr.com/post/141955294967/the-bubbline-guide
ALL OF SEASON 1 AND 2 ARE A MUST WATCH FOR THE SAKE OF ART--especially "memories of boom boom mountain" omfg
LISTEN TO BMO
ART IS A WEAPON
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WOOOOOOOO MAKIN' LADIES CUM--A GUIDE FOR ALL GENDERS
Becky here with some pro tips for some bro/ho nitwits. Similar 20 minute guide for SOLO orgasm coming soon. Everyone deserves to cum! Everyone is invited to the party! Lets all learn how to better understand our female partners' tits and bits. Its never too late or too early to start making women orgasm regularly with ease, I give you a 3-step guide to making your life a guaranteed festival of love.
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Communication
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Trust
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Physical Tips
Episode goes in that order. Starts with a brief bit about CONSENT. CONSENT IS ESSENTIAL, YA'LL. MANDATORY, NO EXCEPTIONS. If she can't respond because she's too drunk or high? She can't consent. Check out this great article about consent from planned parenthood that covers all of the murky gray areas around consent. I don't think they're very murky, but unfortunately I think that people don't always value a woman's sexual experience as much as a man's. If that makes you mad, check out this episode thats all about having sex and feeling free! And making intimate emotional connections with your partner. Again, solo orgasm episode coming soon
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens/sex/all-about-consent
Hello All!! Tuning in with a new episode about sexual roles and labels like top, bottom, switch ect. This one is quite a bit of a rambler, and apologies to my butthole friend for oversharing on his life. He deserves better. Call in with your problems or I will have to ask you about them in person at the coffee shop. I know you're listening.
Hi All, today we're talking about bitterness. What is it? From whence does it hail? What do people say about it, what are their suggestions? How does anyone overcome bitterness? Is it possible? Or is bitterness just a personality flaw of some people? Are you mad yet? Right don't worry I would legit never make an episode bout how your personality is inherently bullshit ya'll WTF but anyway tune in CUZ MAYBE IT IS
How does a drunk becky go to sleep? Counting grievances of course. Mediocre and upsetting, some of my finest work.
Stereotypes suck ya'll listen to me bitch. I love bad jokes as much as the next asshole but like freakin' come up with something witty kthx bass is in the mix
Female Sexuality and female orgasm are what we're feasting on right now ya'll. Don't be mad, this one is helpful if you want a simple how-to for your lady or need bit of liberal courage before your big debut. I added bass to this track lemme kno
LGBT community-targeted hate crimes are the focus of today's episode. Details about the history of Hate Crime Laws and how it does and doesn't the queer community. Includes references to graphic violence.
Today we're talking about the butch/femme relationship dynamic, its roots, its origins, and what it has to do with anything. Mostly we're talking about butches. Femmes will come later yo! Lesbopreciation is the theme of the day. HMMMmmMmMmMMmMmMmMMmmmmmmmmm...
Sexual fantasies can be too much. Should we feel shame about weird dreams or sexual associations? tune in w/b lemmekno
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Intersex people is the spotlight, ever heard of them? THATS THE PROBLEM!! Tune in, not for the faint of heart. You will be outraged guaranteed, or you already are. If you already are, it'll be therapeuatic sympathy rage. or something.
Gender?! I hardly know her/him/they/them/it/xe/fae/ae/xi. Also has a brief intro to intersex people, as well as loads of stuff that will hopefully make your head explode. w/b
The Vixen is on my mind today guys! I address a lot of the biggest concerns with the Vixen, not all of them though. Eureka is mentioned, don't be triggered!!
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Homophobia is on myyyyy miiiiindd! Listen to me guess about why people are so homophobic in this episode
Asexuality is in the spotlight tonight y'all and you bet its gonna get it gud. Omg right stop hypersexualizing everything ur embarassing me W/B YESSS SMAKIT
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Queer Eye is up! I love the new show, but I rant about the old show for a bit and then get into issues with the new one. W/B YESSSSS
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Transphobia f$*%(^ sucks yo! Lets talk!