Control - it’s such an interesting topic for me because I feel like I’m currently growing aware and understanding this concept of control and what it means to be in control. In this episode I was accompanied by two lovely successful ladies Kamille and Agnes, whom I've been friends with for numerous years and each day spent together is an exciting and unpredictable adventure! Listen to the very end to hear us rap poorly! I think everyday I wake up and realise just a little bit more that I’m not in control of anything other than me, some days it scares me because it’s like oh okay so how can I then navigate my life? How can I then navigate my dreams? My goals? If I’m not in control other days I wake up and I’m excited by the numerous possibilities I could come across simply because I’m not in control. One thing that I am becoming extremely aware of is that in this life we get given what we need in ways we don’t expect and it’s really about releasing this control, its by releasing control that we can take it back (wise words of Kamille). I feel like a lot of us are stuck in our own ways and usually that way is based on what we understand and know. I feel like a lot of us see life as a straight path, like when we look at our lives, our goals and dreams we see it as point A to B, we see it as if I do this I’ll get this result, what I’m learning these days is that that’s probably the furthest thing from the truth because it’s just never that simple, life isn’t a straight path, life doesn’t follow the logic of input = output because life is limitless there are numerous outcomes and possibilities that could occur, so just because I do this doesn’t mean I’ll get this result, and I think by understanding that I’m becoming less resistant to change, and by doing that I’m not fighting change and it allows me to be more adaptive and I feel like when we are able to adapt we are able to succeed because we’re not bound to a situation, we’re not bound to a certain outcome, and when you’re not bound to something, you’re free and when you’re free you’re able to manoeuvre you’re able to make choices and be dynamic with your approach. In the wise words of Agnes let go and let God.