That you cannot live a healthy, sexual, loving relationship with the opposite sex! Our inner path should not be an escape from the world.I read honest biographies of the famous Gurus in the last 100 years.Almost everyone had a sexual relationship that he/she was hiding and was lying to be in celibacy…When we cannot surrender our heart to the opposite sex: Then we cannot surrender our hearts to God.Because we have blocked our heart chakra, true spirituality is impossible with a blocked heart chakra.Then we cannot unite our male and female energy or Yang and Yin to become neutral and that is necessary! Our darling is a reflection and represents ourselves, in the form of the opposite sex. Every bad habit that we see in our darling is hidden in ourselves or that actually represent us.Our sins we see first in other people (Goethe). How can we discover the opposite pole in ourselves be it yin or yang if we reject the opposite sex? This is not possible. The worst thing on the spiritual path is to block our sexual energy because sexual energy is the only energy that we can use for our spirituality. And 33% of our energy is sexual energy.Then we have sexual shame and that hinders us from raising up our sexual energy or even more our Kundalini from the root chakra to the crown chakra.Without Kundalini we never can experience our real spirituality. For instance The true Guru Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan gave so many people a higher spiritual experience during his concerts than anybody before him; - he was married and had one daughter.The true Guru Radha Mohan Lal, of Irina Tweedie, book: Daughter of Fire: A Diary of a Spiritual Training with a Sufi Master. He was married, had kidsDilgo Khyentse Rinpoche, the highest Guru of the Tibetan and Guru of the Dalai Lama was married and had 5 kids. When King Ramana refused to marry and wanted to renounce the world, his Guru told him, tell me what is not God, so why should it not be holy to marry? Read the Book Siddhartha by Herman Hesse.My Video: What is the biggest obstacle on the spiritual path? https://youtu.be/bktJWHT2fL0My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/What-is-the-biggest-obstacle-on-the-spiritual-path.mp3