In this interview, author, advocate, and therapist Chris Tompkins shares his personal journey of self-discovery as a gay man raised in a religious environment. He discusses the challenges of reconciling his identity with his faith, the impact of religious trauma, and the importance of awareness in parenting to support LGBTQ+ children. Chris talks about why he wrote his book, “Raising LGBTQ Allies,” and emphasizes the need for open conversations and practical strategies for parents to create a supportive environment for their kids, ultimately leading to a more inclusive society.

Takeaways

• Chris was raised in a religious family with conflicting beliefs.
• He experienced religious trauma and internalized homophobia.
• His coming out journey was deeply intertwined with love and acceptance.
• Chris emphasizes the importance of awareness in parenting.
• Parents can inadvertently perpetuate fear-based associations.
• Books and open conversations can help educate children.
• Creating safe spaces for discussions is crucial.
• Understanding societal messages is key to supporting LGBTQ+ kids.
• Chris’s book aims to help parents change harmful narratives.
• Healing from religious trauma is a journey that requires introspection.

Chapters

(02:40) Chris’s Journey of Self-Discovery

(10:13) Reconnecting with Faith and Spirituality

(16:32) Understanding Religious Trauma

(22:30) The Importance of Awareness in Parenting

(27:54) Supporting LGBTQ+ Kids: Practical Strategies

(35:00) Conclusion and Resources

Resources:

• Learn more at https://www.aroadtriptolove.com/
• Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent’s Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground by Chris Tompkins
• Join the Sanctuary Collective Community

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