15 WAYS TO STOP CARING WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK Podcast #361 Caring too much about what other people think about you is the fastest way to play small with your life. You can stop yourself from being negatively affected by this psychological fear by learning some practical and proven ways to give yourself permission to not care about what people may or may not say and instead to just be who God created you to be. In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we're chatting about
practical ways to stop caring about what others think how to fire up your heart so that you take more action now to change than you ever have before
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Humanize others - everyone is broken and beautiful in diverse ways Know what everyone actually wants: love and acceptance Address your own judging eye and pride and work on it Embrace your awkwardness See where your pride is making you fall (pride can sometimes be displayed in the perceptions we crave for others to have of us) Get clarity on what you actually want - happiness or perceived happiness Explore yourself and learn to like yourself, when you like yourself it's okay when other people don't Relinquish your control issues Stop fantasizing that you can get everyone to like you or agree with you Remember, more than likely, the thing you are worried about people judging about you never crosses their minds Be thankful for all the things that make you you, and then do your best with them as a gift back to God Start doing bold things that you've always wanted to do Try new things and be happy not being good at them Become a master of your words, knowing how to use them to help you, not handicap you Stop hurrying - rushing your timeline is about other people, not about you
WHAT DID CARING TOO MUCH STEAL FROM ME? When you realize this fear steals life from you,