It’s time to own your own pain and difficulties and do the best out of it.

What has and it’s still helping me to move forward is my painful past experiences and my struggles coping with my painful and sick emotions and thoughts.

Coping with the multiples traumatic experiences in my life.

Coping with the demage that has been done to me that has caused me to not function as I was made to and that has automatically put me in unwanted financial crisis.

You can’t expect healing or changes if you continue to walk in the circle of pain and do the same things you have been doing for years without changes.

My pain has helped me to conquer unthinkable situations.

Has helped me to be more stronger, wiser, sensitive, loving, caring, supportive, giving, more awakening, clear, knowing what I want and what what not.

Believe me by just talking about it, by just being angry and frustrated about it, by just blaming others, by blaming yourself for your own mistakes, by hiding your pain or ignoring your pain, by destroying yourself and taking drugs/alcohol dearly to numb your pain, by locking yourself in and allowing anyone in your life nothing will change but you will just destroy yourself more and more.

Nothing will change until you stop lying to yourself about what is really going on in you.

Nothing will change until you really want it so badly.•Nothing will change until you say yes to yourself and start taking the full responsibility for yourself and your life.

Find out what works best for you my Brother’s and sisters or my teenagers in the house.•Find support support in some areas you need help to.

Nobody in this world have it all by themselves because we are all humans.

We all need each other’s support from time to time.

Figure out what kind of support you really need to change, fix, let go, forgive your problems.

From my own experiences the only best person who can ever help you, is you.

Yes from time to time we need support from the Family, Friends, colleagues and sometimes from completely strangers.

Sometimes we also need professional support from the doctors, therapist, mentor, Coaches.

It doesn’t matter from where the support comes from.

What matters is how you feel about the support and the progress.

Find out what works best for you. I am wishing you a wonderful day. Lots of love. Thulani ❤️🙏🏾