Modern Family Matters: Recent Episodes
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Modern Family Matters is a podcast based out of the Pacific Northwest that discusses a variety of different topics that can impact the family unit, such as divorce, custody, estate planning, adoption, personal injury accidents, and bankruptcy. We believe that there is no such thing as "broken" family, and that true family can take on many different forms. Join our host, Steve Altishin, as he interviews attorneys and other industry professionals on all matters pertaining to the modern family.
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Your will can be perfectly written and still do almost nothing you intended. That’s the hard truth behind estate planning when beneficiary designations, joint titling, retirement accounts, and real estate deeds aren’t coordinated with your legal documents.
We sit down with CPA and certified financial analyst Jesse Hurst to connect the dots between retirement planning and estate planning in plain English, including how pop culture can make complicated money topics easier to remember. We dig into what actually drives outcomes for families: a clean asset inventory, a beneficiary audit, and teamwork between your estate planning attorney, financial advisor, and CPA. If you’ve ever assumed “the will decides,” we explain why many assets bypass probate entirely and how that can unintentionally disinherit children, skew “equal” splits, or leave a trust unfunded.
We also talk through the human side: naming executors, trustees, and health care decision-makers, then having the conversations that spare your loved ones from guessing. And because tax and retirement rules keep changing, we break down how the Secure Act and the inherited IRA 10-year rule can create a tax hit for adult kids, plus why some families explore tools like trusts and life insurance strategies to manage timing and taxes.
If you want fewer surprises and a plan that holds up in the real world, listen now, share this with someone updating their will or trust, and subscribe so you don’t miss what’s next. After you listen, will you review the show and tell us what part of estate planning feels most confusing right now?
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To learn more about Jesse and how he can help you, you can visit his website at: https://www.impelwealth.com/
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Divorce can leave you holding a stack of statements and a knot in your stomach, wondering what you actually own, what it means, and whether retirement is still possible. We sit down with Jesse Hurst, a CPA and Chartered Financial Analyst, to talk through the real-world money decisions that hit right after a divorce and how to replace fear with a plan you can live with. Jesse’s twist is simple and surprisingly effective: use pop culture, music, and familiar stories to make complicated financial concepts stick, so you’re not just being “told” what to do, you understand it.
We dig into why people often feel frozen after a major loss, and how to restart with small steps: take an inventory, clarify what matters most to you, and map out the levers that actually drive outcomes. That includes cash flow planning after spousal support ends, deciding when to claim Social Security, and turning a collection of accounts like a 401(k), IRA, brokerage account, CDs, and home equity into a coordinated retirement strategy with an age-appropriate risk profile.
We also get concrete about taxes and planning traps. Jesse explains why divorce can come with cost basis headaches that don’t exist after a spouse’s death, and why filing status changes can feel like a penalty when someone becomes a widow or widower. If real estate is part of the picture, we talk about rental property cash flow, concentration risk, and when selling a non-producing property can improve liquidity and diversification.
If you’re rebuilding after divorce and want a calmer, clearer way to think about retirement planning and financial independence, hit play. Subscribe to Modern Family Matters, share this with someone who needs it, and leave a review so more families can find real guidance.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about Jesse and how he can help you, you can visit his website at: https://www.impelwealth.com/
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Divorce can feel like stepping into a fog where every rumor sounds like fact: you will lose the house, you will be broke, the case will drag on for years, and the court will air every private detail. Steve Altishin sits down with Founding Attorney Lewis Landerholm to name the concerns people bring to an initial divorce consultation and to explain what’s real, what’s misunderstood, and what you can actually control.
We start with the fear that hits first for most families: financial security. We talk about the pressure of going from two incomes to one, funding two households, and protecting the biggest assets for many couples the family home and retirement accounts. We also dig into why negotiated settlements and mediation can create options beyond the rigid “split everything and sell the house” storyline, especially for Oregon and Washington family law cases where practical compromise can reduce disruption.
Then we get concrete about the divorce process, including timelines, legal fees, and why trial is usually the most expensive route. We address discovery and the “dirty laundry” anxiety, plus how transparency can prevent hidden asset fights that explode costs. Finally, we cover kids: whether to move out, why a temporary parenting plan matters, and how child support differs from the more subjective spousal support analysis. If you’re wrestling with the question of “should I get divorced,” we also explain where legal advice ends and where therapists and other professionals can help most.
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Retirement planning can feel like a wall of jargon and spreadsheets, so we brought in someone who makes the numbers feel human. CPA and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst Jesse Hurst joins us to break down how to start retirement financial planning at any age and why the first step is not picking investments. It is getting honest about where you are today, then turning “someday I want to retire” into real retirement goals you can measure.
We get practical about the questions that trip people up: how much should you put into a 401(k), why an employer match matters, and why starting at 22 versus waiting until 32 can completely change the outcome even if you save the same way. Jesse shares a simple strategy for increasing contributions over time so you still feel your raises, while your retirement savings rate quietly grows. We also talk about the gap in financial literacy for younger adults, and why many traditional wealth management firms ignore people who are still building, even when they have strong income and big decisions like buying a first home, choosing benefits, setting up insurance, or handling 401(k) rollovers after job changes.
Then we move into the part nobody warns you about: the emotional switch from saving to spending. Many retirees have done everything “right” and still feel like they are not allowed to use their money. Jesse explains how a retirement income plan can create permission to spend, and how to prepare for market volatility with a liquidity strategy that helps you avoid selling at the worst possible time. If scary headlines make you want to change your plan, this conversation will help you trade anxiety for a process.
If you find this helpful, subscribe, share it with someone who needs a clearer retirement plan, and leave us a review so more families can find the show.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about Jesse and how he can help you, you can visit his website at: https://www.impelwealth.com/
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Your business is not “just an asset.” For a lot of owners, it’s years of risk, late nights, pride, and a sense of security for the future. That’s why business ownership in an Oregon divorce can turn into one of the most intense parts of the entire case, and why the wrong assumption early on can cost you later.
We sit down with Lewis Landerholm to map out what actually needs to be answered when a company is on the table: Is it marital property or is there a credible separate property claim tied to premarital value or limited marital contribution? What happens when a spouse works in the business and gets underpaid? How do you handle the very real “double dipping” problem where the business is valued for property division and the business income is still used in spousal support?
Then we get practical about business valuation. Different industries require different expertise, and expert opinions can land far apart, sometimes by hundreds of thousands of dollars. We also dig into the messy edge cases that show up in real life: OLCC and other regulated licenses, cannabis-related complications, intellectual property like copyrights, and whether an asset can even be transferred the way people assume. Finally, we talk about entity structure, bylaws, partners, enforcement language in the judgment, and why mediation often gives business owners the time and flexibility that court can’t.
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Five assets keep showing up when divorcing couples hit a wall, and the reason is almost never just emotion. It is value. I sit down with founding attorney Lewis Landerholm to unpack why retirement accounts, the marital home, business interests, investment portfolios, and valuable personal property become the flashpoints in divorce and family law cases, especially when each asset carries different tax rules, different volatility, and different paperwork.
We get practical about the hidden math: why pre tax 401(k) dollars are not the same as cash, when pensions require an actuary, and how premarital versus marital components can change the division. Then we move to the marital home, where the deed is often easy but the mortgage can be the real obstacle, particularly when a refinance means higher interest rates and a smaller buying power for the spouse who keeps the property. We also explain why judges tend to choose the simplest clean break if a plan is not realistic, and why vague terms in a divorce decree can lead to expensive enforcement fights years later.
From there we dig into business valuation, including why picking the right valuation expert matters, what happens when both spouses work in the business, and how buyouts can collide with future cash flow and support issues. We also cover investment accounts, RSUs and stock gains, cost basis, and the tax surprises that can dwarf the “headline” account value. Finally, we talk about appraisals for cars, jewelry, art, and even bitcoin, where volatility makes timing and documentation critical.
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A “high-value asset” is not the same thing as a “high-value check,” and that gap can wreck a divorce settlement. We sit down with Professor Kelly Lise Murray, a wealth dispute resolution educator and real estate collaboration divorce specialist, to unpack the assets that look impressive on a spreadsheet but become brutally complicated the moment you try to divide or sell them.
We talk through the real-world mechanics of divorce asset division when the property is unusual: art collections that have an insured value but no practical resale market, wine collections that can literally disappear bottle by bottle, firearms that raise eligibility and safety questions, and timeshares that can act like a negative asset once annual fees are considered. Along the way, we highlight why judges decide cases based on admissible evidence, why “only one side brought proof” can become the final number, and how the right experts and documentation can prevent costly post-divorce enforcement fights.
You’ll also hear how some courts get surprisingly practical with unique property, including creative approaches to splitting collections, plus what it means to negotiate for enforcement before mediation so you can actually receive what you bargained for. If you’re facing a high net worth divorce, equitable distribution questions, asset valuation disputes, or concerns about dissipation, this conversation will help you think more clearly and prepare more strategically.
Subscribe for more family law guidance, share this with someone sorting out property division, and leave a review if it helped. What’s the strangest or most emotionally charged asset you’ve seen people fight over?
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Divorce can flip your financial life overnight, especially if you were not the person paying the bills, tracking accounts, or managing investments. We sit down with Ryan Finley, CPA and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, to map out what a real “ground zero” financial reset looks like and how to replace panic with a clear plan you can actually follow.
We start with the basics that make everything else possible: gathering documents, building a marital balance sheet, and translating tax returns and pay stubs into a simple picture of income. Then we get practical about divorce budgeting by categorizing 12 to 24 months of bank and credit card activity so your monthly spending is based on facts, not memory. From there, we walk through the tough decisions that hit fast, like whether keeping the house helps your kids or quietly harms your future cash flow, and how child support or spousal support may fit into the math.
Ryan also explains why equal looking assets can be wildly unequal after taxes, especially when dividing retirement accounts and investments with different cost basis and capital gains exposure. We dig into advanced issues that often show up in negotiations, including vesting bonus plans, forensic accounting, and tracing dissipation. The through line stays the same: build a plan that helps you feel steady now and capable later.
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If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about how Ryan can help you or to learn more about Freedom Financial Services Group, you can view his website at: https://www.freedomfsg.com/
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Money problems in divorce are rarely about “one weird transaction.” They’re about complexity: multiple accounts, transfers that look harmless until you see the full trail, business income that blends into personal spending, and documents that do not tell the whole story. We bring in CPA, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, and mediator Ryan Finley to show what forensic accounting really looks like when a case needs facts, not guesses.
We talk through how litigation support helps attorneys and clients during discovery, including how a forensic accountant organizes financial disclosures, builds a marital balance sheet, and translates confusing items like investments or bonus plans into plain English. Ryan also explains the core workflow of following the money across bank statements, credit cards, and investment accounts, then isolating the transactions that do not reconcile so the right questions get asked fast.
From there, we get into the moments that change outcomes: hidden accounts created during advisor changes, tax return red flags like strategic overpayment, and dissipation claims when marital funds support a girlfriend, boyfriend, trips, or gifts. We also cover why self-employed income and business valuation can be the hardest issues in divorce, plus what to watch for with real estate partnerships, missing parcels, and paperwork that looks “off.” We even touch on practical settlement strategy, like when keeping a low-rate mortgage might actually improve post-divorce cash flow.
If you want clearer numbers, smarter questions, and fewer surprises, listen now, then subscribe, share the episode with someone who needs it, and leave a review so more families can find trustworthy guidance.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about how Ryan can help you or to learn more about Freedom Financial Services Group, you can view his website at: https://www.freedomfsg.com/
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Spousal support in Oregon sounds simple until you’re the one trying to predict what a judge will do and what a “fair” monthly number really means. We sit down with Pacific Cascade Legal's Founding Attorney, Lewis Landerholm, to clear up the confusion by breaking spousal support into the three categories Oregon courts actually use: maintenance support, transitional support, and compensatory support. Along the way, we explain why compensatory support is rare, why transitional support is often paired with maintenance, and how the facts of your marriage shape both the amount and the duration.
We also get practical about timing and real-life pressure points. We talk about temporary spousal support during the divorce process, what “indefinite” support usually means (and why it does not automatically mean forever), and how retirement can trigger a reanalysis. Since Oregon doesn’t use a spousal support calculator, we dig into the judge’s discretion, how income disparities are evaluated, and why “income” can mean potential income if someone is underemployed. For complex cases, we touch on vocational and occupational experts who can help estimate earning capacity after years out of the workforce.
To round it out, we cover the post-2019 tax treatment of spousal support, how spousal support interacts with Oregon child support calculations, and negotiation strategies like a lump-sum buyout or trading support for assets. If you’re facing a divorce, considering a settlement, or worried you’re leaving money on the table, this conversation gives you a clearer map of the spousal support landscape. Subscribe, share with someone who needs this, and leave a review, then tell us: would you prefer a monthly payment or a clean buyout?
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Divorce decisions are rarely made in a calm, rational bubble. When fear hits, money can turn into leverage, conflict can become a reflex, and old power dynamics can keep running the show even after you decide the marriage is over. We sit down with negotiation professor and mediation coach Merideth Thompson, Ph.D. to unpack the real drivers behind “bad deals” in divorce and how to protect yourself before the process protects you.
We dig into how finances get weaponized through control, hidden information, and pressure tactics, and why that uncertainty makes people more likely to settle out of panic. We also talk about the “conflict lens” and how constant fighting doesn’t just raise attorney fees, it drains assets, delays closure, and creates instability that kids feel first. Meredith brings negotiation and relationship science into plain language, helping us shift from rigid demands to underlying interests like security, workable co-parenting, and a future you can actually live with.
Then we get practical about divorce mediation and negotiation preparation: writing down goals, naming non-negotiables, and rank-ordering priorities so you know where to fight hard and where to trade. Meredith explains the research behind aspiration points and why your target matters, plus the role of creativity under high stakes, including a memorable “peace and freedom account” strategy that reduces emotional friction while you rebuild your life.
If you found this helpful, subscribe to Modern Family Matters, share this with someone navigating divorce or separation, and leave a review so more families can find real guidance. What part of divorce decision-making feels hardest to you right now?
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To learn more about how Merideth can help you, you can view her website at: https://merideththompson.com/
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Not every marriage ends in a divorce—and not every separation means the same thing.
This episode of Modern Family Matters explores the significant differences between annulments, divorces, and legal separations—three distinct ways marriages can be dissolved.
Host Steve Altishin and Founding Attorney Lewis Landerholm explain that annulments are increasingly rare in modern law because they require proving specific grounds (such as fraud, bigamy, or incest), whereas no-fault divorces are available in all states without proving wrongdoing.
While annulments theoretically erase a marriage as if it never happened, the practical and financial burden of proving grounds makes them impractical for most people. The discussion clarifies that children's legal status, custody, and support remain unaffected regardless of which dissolution method is chosen, and that legal separations maintain marital status while dividing assets—a distinction that can create complications if parties later reconcile or decide to divorce.
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One of the biggest surprises in divorce?
The law often assumes equal contribution, even when one spouse earned the paycheck and the other carried the invisible labor.
This episode of Modern Family Matters explores the critical distinctions between marital and separate property in divorce proceedings, with particular emphasis on how these principles apply to business assets.
Host Steve Altishin and Founding Attorney Lewis Landerholm explain that Oregon courts have jurisdiction over all property, but the presumption of equal (50-50) contribution applies specifically to marital assets—property that came into existence during the marriage, regardless of whose name appears on the title.
The discussion emphasizes that while courts can divide any property, the burden of proof shifts dramatically depending on whether an asset is presumed marital or separate. When businesses are involved, complexity multiplies exponentially due to valuation challenges, emotional attachments, overlapping areas of law (trademark, copyright, regulatory compliance), and potential post-divorce complications.
Let’s talk about separate vs. marital property, where this presumption comes from, and how it protects both spouses.
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Just like baseball, divorce has curveballs, foul balls, and unexpected plays. We sit down with Founding Attorney, Lewis Landerholm, to discuss the parallels between baseball and divorce, centering on the importance of keeping your eyes on the ball throughout the divorce process. They explore how setting clear priorities and goals from the outset helps clients navigate the often lengthy and emotionally taxing divorce journey. The conversation covers common pitfalls such as emotional fatigue, the temptation to fight over assets like the family home, and the risks of losing focus during discovery and negotiation. Louis emphasizes the attorney's coaching role in helping clients stay grounded and make decisions aligned with their long-term best interests, rather than reacting emotionally in the moment.
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⚾️ “It ain’t over ’til it’s over.” — Yogi Berra
In baseball, you don’t know the game is done until the last out is made. And in divorce? The same is often true.
In this interview with Founding Attorney, Lewis Landerholm, we break down why divorce isn’t always “over” when you think it is, what typically happens next, and how to avoid surprises during the final stretch.
Lewis and Steve discuss the various stages of divorce proceedings, from reaching agreements to judge rulings, and explain why the process continues well after a judgment is signed. The conversation covers the complexities of drafting final judgments, post-divorce obligations, and the potential need for enforcement or modification actions. They also highlight the importance of having ongoing support for clients navigating the numerous administrative and practical tasks that follow a divorce decree.
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Join us as we sit down with Enrolled Agent, and Founder of Golden Lion Tax Solutions, Morgan Q. Anderson, to discuss the immense financial benefits of taking the time to understand the relationship between taxes and family law matters.
The conversation covers joint tax liability, innocent spouse claims, strategic asset liquidation, capital gains considerations, and the importance of assembling a team of trusted professionals (attorneys, CPAs, and financial advisors) to navigate these complex situations. The overarching theme is that "an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure" when it comes to managing tax consequences during divorce proceedings.
As a leading divorce firm in Portland, our attorneys provide guidance on custody, alimony, separation, estate planning, and more. Learn what to expect in Oregon and Washington divorce cases and how we can help.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about Morgan and how she can help you with your tax questions, you can visit her website at: https://www.goldenliontaxsolutions.com/
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Join us as we sit down with Marriage & Family Therapist, Laurel van der Toorn, to discuss what you can do when a pending or active divorce starts to drudge up suppressed trauma for the high achiever.
Laurel explains how EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) therapy works to help people process traumatic memories and heal attachment wounds. The conversation explores why high achievers often struggle during divorce, how childhood attachment styles affect adult relationships, and the importance of addressing trauma early. Laurel provides insights into the window of tolerance, the grieving process, and how effective trauma therapy can create permanent, positive change.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about how Laurel can help you, you can view her website at: https://www.laureltherapy.net/
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Join us as we sit down with Psychologist, Dr. Jack Stoltzfus, to talk about launching your child into adult life, ranging from whose responsibility it is, to the characteristics of a successfully launched child.
Dr. Stoltzfus shares his expertise on navigating the delicate balance between supporting adult children and encouraging their self-sufficiency, while maintaining caring connections. The conversation covers the growing issue of estrangement between parents and young adults, the impact of divorce on launching, and practical strategies for parents to help their children achieve the four developmental goals: identity, independence, intimacy, and intention. Dr.
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In this episode, Steve Altishin speaks with Speaker and Author of Financial Epiphany, Scott Yamamura, about making personal finance accessible and actionable through simple principles.
Scott introduces the concept of "the power of 16," explaining how money can multiply over a 40-year career when invested early. He breaks down complex financial concepts like compound interest into relatable terms, comparing financial ability to athletic ability that diminishes over time.
The conversation covers practical strategies for retirement savings, college planning, debt management, and aligning financial goals with life purpose.
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In this insightful conversation, Steve Titian from Pacific Cascade Legal speaks with Dr. Bruce Chalmer, a couples therapist with over 30 years of experience, about the complex dynamics of betrayal, forgiveness, and rebuilding trust in relationships.
Dr. Chalmer explains that betrayal uniquely hurts because it not only involves
someone breaking our trust, but also causes us to doubt our own judgment and sanity. He introduces a three-step forgiveness process—forgiving yourself, forgiving the person who hurt you, and "forgiving God" (accepting
reality as it is)—emphasizing that forgiveness is an "inside job" that doesn't necessarily mean restoring the relationship.
The discussion covers how couples can heal from infidelity, the importance of faith (not necessarily religious) in accepting reality, and how both the betrayed and the betrayer must work through trust issues to move forward, whether together or apart.
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Join us as we sit down with Psychologist and Author, Gloria Vanderhorst, to discuss how our early histories can jump into the present without our awareness and undermine our interactions with our children and co-parenting abilities.
Gloria, who has practiced for 50 years, explains how the brain stores every experience—both accessible and hidden—and how these memories can suddenly emerge to affect our present-day interactions. The conversation explores gender differences in emotional expression, the impact of technology on children's communication skills, and practical strategies for divorced parents navigating co-parenting challenges. Gloria also introduces her journal book, "Read, Reflect, Respond," designed to help adults access deeper emotional insights through visual and written expression.
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Join us as we sit down with Founder of Reynolds Defense Firm, Dan Reynolds to discuss the concept of a "window of clarity" - a brief period following traumatic life events like divorce or arrest when people are uniquely open to making significant personal changes. Reynolds explains how trauma temporarily shatters our
protective ego shell, creating an opportunity to implement lasting change with less resistance than in everyday life.
The conversation explores how this window can be utilized through structured coaching and curriculum to help individuals emerge from difficult experiences as better versions of themselves. Reynolds emphasizes that this window is temporary and must be seized quickly before the brain's natural defenses rebuild and the opportunity for transformation passes.
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To learn more about Dan and Tammy and how their firm can help you, you can view their website at: https://www.reynoldsdefensefirm.com/
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Join us as we sit down with Bankruptcy Attorney, Darin Wisehart, to discuss the warning signs that indicate it might be time to consult with a bankruptcy attorney. Rather than focusing on the technical aspects of bankruptcy law, the conversation centers on practical indicators such as mounting credit card debt, missing payments, borrowing from retirement accounts, and the mental health toll of
financial stress. Darren emphasizes that initial consultations are typically free and that reaching out early—before a financial crisis becomes unmanageable—is always better than waiting. The episode provides valuable guidance for anyone wondering whether their financial situation warrants professional legal advice.
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In this episode of Modern Family Matters, Steve Altishin and Founding Attorney Lewis Landerholm discuss the common pitfalls of DIY divorces in Oregon and what can be done when things go wrong.
They explore how seemingly simple divorces can become complicated when parties don't understand legal requirements, procedural deadlines, and the long-term implications of their agreements. The conversation covers topics including property division, spousal and child support, parenting plans, and the limited options available for modifying judgments after they're finalized.
Lewis emphasizes that investing in legal advice upfront can save thousands of dollars in litigation costs later and prevent irreversible mistakes that impact people's lives for years to come.
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Join us as we sit down with Founding Attorney, Lewis Landerholm, to discuss how pendente lite court orders can protect you in the midst of a divorce case.
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In this episode, Steve Altishin interviews Ron Platt, CEO of the National Association for Single and Divorced Families (NASDF), about creating a comprehensive resource hub for individuals going through divorce or managing single-family households. Ron shares his personal journey of bringing his late father's vision to life—a unique insurance product that guarantees child support and alimony payments in cases of death, disability, or involuntary unemployment. Beyond insurance, NASDF offers nationwide resources including career services,
mental health support, childcare discounts, legal assistance, and real estate benefits. Ron's passion stems from his own experiences as a foster parent and witnessing the struggles of friends navigating toxic relationships and custody battles. The organization aims to grow its membership to advocate for foster care reform and family law court improvements, following the successful model of organizations like AARP.
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Join us as we sit down with Co-Founder of "Been There Got Out", High-Conflict Divorce Strategist and Certified Domestic Violence Advocate, Lisa Johnson, to discuss your options when a contentious divorce results in legal abuse, and how you can fight back.
In this episode of Modern Family Matters, host Steve Altishin interviews Lisa Johnson about legal abuse and what to do when an ex-partner uses the
court system as a weapon of harassment. Lisa shares her personal experience of a decade-long divorce battle that included over 100 court appearances and resulted in a published case in the Connecticut Law Journal. The conversation explores the psychological motivations behind legal abuse, including personality disorders and
addiction to revenge, and provides practical strategies for combating this form of harassment. Lisa emphasizes the importance of strategic communication, maintaining "clean hands" in court, and understanding that
traditional logical approaches often fail when dealing with high-conflict personalities.
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Join us as we sit down with Family Law Attorney, Kimberly Brown, to discuss how living in a no-fault state when it comes to divorce does not necessarily mean there won't be financial and legal implications for acts such as infidelity, abuse, or abandonment.
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Join us as we sit down with CLPF, Sara Ecklein, to discuss why the traditional idea of a "reading of the will" is misleading, and how thoughtful conversations and proper planning can help prevent misunderstandings and surprises after death.
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Join us as we sit down with Founding Attorney, Lewis Landerholm, to discuss what happens when a child is in immediate danger and how emergency child custody orders work. You'll learn what qualifies as "immediate danger," how to file for an emergency custody order, what evidence is typically needed, and what to expect during the legal process.
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Join us as we sit down with Founding Attorney, Lewis Landerholm, to discuss temporary orders that are available in an Oregon divorce to help provide financial support during the legal process.
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Join us as we sit down with speaker and author of multiple best selling children's books, Anna Maria Didio, to discuss how books can be a powerful tool for adopting parents to help address the love and loss associated with these family transitions.
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Join us as we sit down with Employment Lawyer and Founder of Crabill PLLC, Taylor Crabill, to discuss how you can combat workplace discrimination amidst a family law matter, whether it's divorce and returning to work, or estate planning and age discrimination.
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Join us as we sit down with Best-Selling Author and Open Adoption Advocate, Ayo Haynes, to talk about the process of pursuing an open adoption as a single adult who is ready to be a parent.
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To learn more about Ayo and how she can help you through your open adoption journey, you can visit her website: https://openadoptionsuccess.com/
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Join us as we sit down with Marriage and Family Therapist, Dr, Becky Whetstone, to talk through the emotional stages of divorce, and how to move from grief to growth once you've made the decision to leave your marriage.
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Join us as we sit down with Pacific Cascade Legal's Founding Attorney, Lewis Landerholm, to discuss the ins and outs of temporary orders in a divorce, separation and custody case.
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Join us as we sit down with Pacific Cascade Legal's Founding Attorney, Lewis Landerholm, to discuss what a status quo order is, and when they might benefit a family law case.
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Join us as we sit down with Financial Advisor, Author, and Owner of Modern Wealth, Jennifer Lee, to discuss how you can begin preparing for financial transition if you're contemplating divorce.
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To learn more about Jennifer Lee and how she can help you, you can visit her website at: https://modern-wealth.com/ or https://squeezethejuicebook.com/
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Join us as we sit down with Pacific Cascade Legal's Founding Attorney, Lewis Landerholm, to discuss why it's beneficial to continue following your divorce decree even if your ex-spouse is not, and the consequences of ignoring it entirely.
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Join us as we sit down with Author, Katie Kuperman, to discuss her new children's book, which aims at teaching kids how to cope with everyday struggles and difficult emotions through the power of humor and laughter.
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Join us as we sit down with Family Coach and The Stress Nanny, Lindsay Miller, to discuss how parents can communicate with their children during difficult life events, such as a divorce, to ensure that false narratives and stress are not internalized.
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To learn more about Lindsay can help you and your family, you can visit her website: https://www.thestressnanny.com/
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Join us as we sit down with one of America's Leading Mid-Life Dating Coach, Jonathon Aslay, to discuss some of the biggest the hurdles that adults face when re-entering the dating world after divorce, and tips for how to know when you're ready, as well as how to navigate this new landscape with confidence and open eyes.
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To learn more about Jonathon can help you and your family, you can visit his Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@JonathonAslay
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Join us as we sit down with Family Law Attorney, Zach Santos, to discuss how self-representation in a family law matter might actually cost you more money and inconvenience in the long-run, and how an attorney can save you money, time, relationships, and stress when navigating a divorce.
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Join us as we sit down with Enrolled Agent, and Founder of Golden Lion Tax Solutions, Morgan Q. Anderson, to discuss what Divorce Mediation Testimony is, and how it can help you avoid tax headaches after a divorce is finalized.
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To learn more about Morgan and how she can help you with your tax questions, you can visit her website at: https://www.goldenliontaxsolutions.com/
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Join us as we sit down with Enrolled Agent, and Founder of Golden Lion Tax Solutions, Morgan Q. Anderson, to discuss everything you need to know about Innocent Spouse Protection and Relief when filing jointly on an income tax return.
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To learn more about Morgan and how she can help you with your tax questions, you can visit her website at: https://www.goldenliontaxsolutions.com/
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Join us as we sit down with Enrolled Agent, and Founder of Golden Lion Tax Solutions, Morgan Q. Anderson, to discuss "the ostrich syndrome" that Morgan often sees tax payers fall into, and what you can do to combat it.
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Join us as we sit down with Co-Parenting Coach, Leslie Holthoff Martin, to discuss how parents can approach the conversation of the birds and the bees in a comfortable manner, teach their children a healthy appreciation for their bodies, and build a foundation for ongoing dialogue in the future.
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To learn more about Leslie can help you and your family, you can visit her website: https://lesliehopecoaching.com/ or her Facebook page: Leslie Hope Coaching
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Join us as we sit down with Personal Injury Attorney, Andy Kralios, to discuss the four main stages of a personal injury case, from determining liability to distributing proceeds, and how you can prepare for each.
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Join us as we sit down with Child Psychologist, Tamara Soles, to discuss why twice-exceptional children can be at risk of having their strengths overshadowed, and strategies for parents who are wanting to support and embolden their twice-exceptional child.
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Join us as we sit down with Psychotherapist, Dr. Foojan Zeine, to discuss how new parents, step-parents, and adopting parents can prepare for and combat the inevitable questions, doubts and fears that pop up when preparing to welcome a child into their life.
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Join us as we sit down with Landlord-Tenant Attorney, Troy Pickard, to discuss your tenancy rights when divorcing, and whether your spouse or landlord can evict you from your home when navigating this legal landscape.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://pacificcascadelegal.com.
To speak with Troy about how he can help you, you can do so via the following website: https://portlanddefender.com/attorney-troy-pickard/
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Join us as we sit down with Personal Injury Attorney, Andy Kralios, to discuss five common mistakes that you should steer clear of if you've been in a car accident.
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Join us as we sit down with Certified Life Coach, Amy Stone, to discuss how stepparents can battle feelings of being an outsider, how to foster connection in your blended family, and even how to set boundaries in order to create a strong foundation.
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To speak with Amy about how she can help you with the transition of becoming a stepparent, you can contact her via her website: https://amysaysso.com/
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Join us as we sit down with Bankruptcy Attorney, Darin Wisehart, to discuss what you can expect from a Chapter 13 Bankruptcy repayment plan.
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Join us as we sit down with Bankruptcy Attorney, Darin Wisehart, to discuss how to prepare for the meeting of creditors in a Chapter 7 bankruptcy, and ensure that all runs smoothly not only for the meeting, but for the bankruptcy as a whole.
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Join us as we sit down with Divorce Coaches, Bill Miles & Kristen Noel, to discuss how you can approach "the talk" with your spouse once you've decided you want a divorce, from how to prepare beforehand, to how you can remain both calm and resolute throughout.
As a leading divorce firm in Portland, our attorneys provide guidance on custody, alimony, separation, estate planning, and more. Learn what to expect in Oregon and Washington divorce cases and how we can help.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com
To speak with Bill and Kristen about how they can help you with the difficult hurdles of divorce, you can contact them via their website: https://learning.bestselfmedia.com/intuitive-divorce or their Facebook profiles: Best Self Magazine and Best Self Intuitive Divorce Coaching
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In this podcast episode, Family Law Attorney, Kimberly Brown, joins us to discuss how committing a crime can influence child custody, parenting time, spousal support, child support and the division of marital assets and debts in a divorce case, and what you can do if you're approaching a divorce with a criminal record.
In this podcast episode, Steve and Kimberly discuss the following topics:
- The legal landscape of divorce can become significantly more complex when one spouse has been involved in criminal activities.
- Unfortunately, life choices do matter, and some can have severe consequences on divorce proceedings, potentially affecting the entire process.
- The added cost of dealing with a crime in your divorce case.
- How a spouse's criminal record can influence the child custody, parenting time, spousal support, child support and the division of marital assets and debts
- Not all crimes are the same.
- When a criminal record can be used in court.
- Understanding how crimes involving drugs, driving, abuse, assault, sexual violence theft and fraud can affect a divorce.
- What to do if you, or your spouse has criminal issues that arise in your divorce.
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In this podcast episode, we sit down with Family Law Attorney, Jonathan Steele, to discuss how you can protect sensitive information and personal data during a family law dispute.
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To learn more about how Jonathan can help you, you can visit his website at: https://www.steelefamlaw.com/
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In this podcast episode we sit down with Dr. Mort Orman to discuss the high cost of living in anger through a divorce, the benefits of letting anger go, and anger elimination tactics.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about how Mort can help you, you can read his book, which is available on Amazon: Dr. Orman's Life Changing Anger Cure: Eliminate Unwanted Anger, Without Anger Management, So You Can Be Happier, Healthier, and Don't End Up Alone.
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In this podcast episode, we sit down with Wellness Coach, Melissa Harris, to discuss what to do when you're facing a major de-stabilizing life event, such as bereavement, divorce, empty-nesting, illness, retirement, or addiction, and how to get yourself back on your feet and moving forward in a positive direction.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about how Melissa can help you, you can visit her website at: https://linktr.ee/melissawyshbone
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Join us for our podcast interview as we sit down with Author and Speaker, Katie Kuperman, to discuss how parents create a safe environment for their kids to open up about any potential bullying they may be experiencing.
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Join us for our podcast as we sit down with Certified Financial Planner, Gregory Kurinec, to discuss how retirement investment accounts fit into your overall retirement plan.
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To learn more about how Gregory can help you, you can visit his website at: https://pennantplanning.com/
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Join us for our podcast as we sit down with Certified Financial Planner, Gregory Kurinec, to discuss smart social security claiming strategies as you begin budgeting for an upcoming retirement.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about how Gregory can help you, you can visit his website at: https://pennantplanning.com/
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Join us for our live event as we sit down with Private Investigator, Jennifer Brissenden, to discuss when you should consider hiring a private investigator to gather evidence for your case, and what exactly they can testify to in a family law matter.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about how Jennifer can help you, you can visit her website: https://brissenden-investigations.com/
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Join us for our live event as we sit down with Founding Attorney, Lewis Landerholm, to discuss what a "win" in a dissolution case might look like, when facing inevitable loss.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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Join us for our live event as we sit down with Marriage and Family Therapist, Julia Hoffman, to discuss why it's important for parents to leave their marital baggage at the dissolution door when transitioning into a co-parenting role.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about how Julia can help you, you can visit her website: https://juliahoffmancoaching.com/
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Join us for our live event as we sit down with Children's Book Author and Parenting Expert, Danielle Lindner, to discuss how co-parents can begin preparing for their first child to go to pre-school from separate households.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about how Danielle can help you, or to order any of her children's books, you can visit her website: https://daniellelindner.com/about-danielle-lindner/
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Join us for our live event as we sit down with Founding Attorney, Lewis Landerholm, to discuss what a legal retainer is, why it's required, and how it works in a legal matter.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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Join us as we sit down with Private Investigator, Jennifer Brissenden, to discuss practical steps you can take to protect yourself from cyber stalking, and what to do if you find yourself in this situation.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about how Jennifer can help you, you can visit her website: https://brissenden-investigations.com/
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Join us for our live event as we sit down with Founding Attorney, Lewis Landerholm, to discuss seven things NOT to do when navigating a dissolution of marriage.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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Join us for our live stream as we sit down with ACC, CCP, Author of "Smart Conflict" and Founder of Oculus Inc, Kat Newport, to discuss how you can use smart conflict principles when navigating challenging dynamics during a family law case.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about how Kat can help you, you can visit her website at: https://www.smartconflictbook.com/
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In this podcast episode, we sit down with Psychologist, Tamara Soles, to discuss what to do if you and your co-parent disagree on the best ways to support your neurodivergent child.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about how Tamara can help you, you can visit her website at: https://drtamarasoles.com/
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Join us for our live event as we sit down with Founding Attorney, Lewis Landerholm, to discuss what you can expect from an initial consultation with our firm when contemplating a legal matter.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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We sit down with Family Law Attorney, Michael Trotter, to discuss the various co-parenting apps available on the market, as well as the uses and benefits of using these apps to help facilitate amicable communication between parents post-divorce.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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We sit down with Family Law Attorney, Alicia Doling, to discuss the most important elements that comprise a great parenting plan. In this episode, Alicia covers the following:
- Plans for important decisions that must be made in an emergency.
- What parenting plans do and don’t cover.
- Who gets to decide on what goes into a parenting plan.
- Sharing Information between parents and access to communicate with the child.
- Alternative arrangements for when the child is with each parent.
- Dealing with joint legal and physical custody.
- Addressing the child’s physical and emotional needs.
- Methods for resolving issues that arise.
- Modifying and enforcing a parenting plan.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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We sit down with Pacific Cascade Legal's Partner, Will Jones, to discuss the importance of reviewing your divorce decree even after your divorce is finalized, to ensure it's up to date and accurately reflects your circumstances. In this episode, Will answers the following:
- Does A Divorce Decree Expire?
- What Circumstances Can Occur After a Divorce to Need a Modification?
- Can The Ex-Spouses Just Agree to A Change in The Divorce Decree?
- Can Either Ex-Spouse Get a Post-Divorce Modification?
- What Happens When an Ex-Spouse Doesn’t Follow the Divorce Decree?
- What Can Someone Do If They Can’t Comply with Their Divorce Decree?
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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Join us for our live event as we sit down with Founding Attorney, Lewis Landerholm, to discuss how you can know when it's time to consider a Will, and the repercussions on family members when they are left without direction.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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We sit down with Pacific Cascade Legal's Partner, Will Jones, to discuss what grounds you need to get a sexual abuse protective order in Oregon, and what you can expect from the legal process.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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Join us for our live stream event as we sit down with Pacific Cascade Legal's Partner, Will Jones, to discuss what grounds you need to get an elderly abuse protective order in Oregon, and what you can expect from the legal process.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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We sit down with Pacific Cascade Legal's Partner, Will Jones, to discuss what requirements need to be met in order to obtain a stalking order in Oregon, and what you can expect from the legal process.
- Stalking order requirements for minors and family members in Oregon.
- Elements of a stalking order, including direct threat and present ability.
- The process of obtaining a stalking protective order, including the requirements and the importance of serving the order on the respondent.
- How restraining orders can be tailored to fit the specific situation, taking into account factors like workplace and job loss.
- Lifetime restraining orders are more difficult to prove and grant, but can be granted for stalking protective orders due to their long-term nature.
- The seriousness of stalking orders and their consequences.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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We sit down with Author and Coach, Lori Sugarman, to discuss how parents can help their children take personal pride in their family and domestic responsibilities. In this episode, Steve and Lori discuss the following:
- Valuing unpaid care work and its impact on society.
- Valuing and connecting children with domestic labor and coparenting.
- Involving children in household responsibilities and setting standards based on family values.
- Empowering children to contribute to household tasks.
- Gender roles in household chores and childcare.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about how Lori can help you, you can visit her website at: https://ourhomeourpride.com/
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We sit down with Wealth Manager, Bruce Weinstein, to discuss the value in having a detailed financial strategy in place when starting to create your estate plan. In this episode, Steve and Bruce discuss the following:
· Financial planning and estate law with an expert.
· Estate planning, financial projections, and tax implications.
· Estate planning, liquidity issues, and transferring assets to next generations.
· Life insurance planning for wealthy couples.
· Estate planning, financial planning, and small business ownership.
· Financial planning and estate law with a focus on trusts and taxes.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about how Bruce can help you, you can visit his website: https://weinsteinwealth.com/
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We sit down with Founding Attorney, Lewis Landerholm, to discuss common pitfalls to be mindful of if you're considering representing yourself in a dissolution matter.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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Common pitfalls of representing oneself in a divorce case.
- Pitfalls of representing oneself in a divorce include lack of legal knowledge and court experience.
- The importance of hiring an attorney for divorce proceedings.
- Lewis Landerholm highlights the importance of understanding legal nuances and fact-checking in divorce cases.
- Landerholm and Altishin discuss the complexity of navigating the judicial system without legal experience.
- Steve Altishin and Lewis Landerholm discuss the importance of understanding court procedures and evidence in family law cases.
- Landerholm highlights the potential consequences of not following proper procedures, including losing the opportunity to modify decisions later on.
The challenges of representing oneself in a divorce.
- Lewis Landerholm and Steve Altishin discuss the challenges of representing oneself in court.
- They emphasize the importance of understanding the legal system and the limitations of self-representation.
- Steve Altishin and Lewis Landerholm discuss the pitfalls of representing oneself in a divorce.
- Landerholm highlights the importance of understanding evidentiary rules in family law cases.
We sit down with Family Law Attorney, Kimberly Brown, to discuss the role that mental health plays in the experience and trajectory of a divorce case, and what changes can be made within the legal system to help support individuals with chronic mental illnesses who are navigating difficult family law matters.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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How mental health impacts divorce cases with a family law attorney.
- Kimberly Brown highlights the importance of mental health in divorce cases.
- Brown highlights the grief and mental health impact of divorce, stressing it's distinct from other life events.
Understanding clients with mental health issues during divorce.
- Kimberly Brown describes a case where a client's trauma was exacerbated by the divorce process.
- Brown emphasizes the importance of understanding and believing clients, especially during difficult times.
- Clients with mental health issues may act out or be unresponsive during divorce proceedings, making it challenging for lawyers to represent them effectively.
- Lawyers must be aware of these behaviors and direct clients to appropriate resources to ensure their well-being and ability to make informed decisions during the divorce process.
Mental health challenges in family law cases.
- Kimberly Brown: Clients with mental health issues may struggle with objectivity in family law cases.
- Attorneys must work with clients to understand their interests and advocate for them in court.
- Kimberly Brown highlights the misuse of mental health diagnoses in court cases, emphasizing the importance of accuracy and diagnosis from a licensed professional.
- Brown notes that courts often do not take mental health issues into account when making decisions, and instead focus on the individual's fitness as a parent or spouse.
Mental health evaluations in custody cases.
- Examining mental health impact on parenting abilities in custody cases.
- Attorney Kimberly Brown discusses the potential for psychological testing in divorce cases.
- Attorney prepares client for courtroom experience, managing emotions to present case effectively.
Mental health and its impact on family law cases.
- Kimberly Brown highlights client's mental health issues and how they've addressed them in court.
- Kimberly Brown validates clients' fears about losing custody due to mental health issues, emphasizing the importance of educating judges about these issues.
- Brown prepares clients by gathering information from therapists or psychologists to present to the judge, highlighting their mental health issues and how they impact parenting.
- Kimberly Brown and Steve Altishin discuss the challenges of family law and provide legal advice.
We sit down with Founder and Creative Director of Ketshop, Mari Collins Harris, to discuss the importance of teaching children financial literacy in this digital age, and how her app, Ketshop, can be used as a tool for financial education and responsible spending. In this episode, Mari discusses the following:
- Breaking the taboo about talking about money
- Building financially and personally responsible kids
- Encouraging your child to reach their goals
- Releasing control and handing over responsibility
- Empowering kids to choose their own path
- Fostering charitable habits in kids
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about Ketshop or to get in touch with Mari, you can visit her website at: https://ketshop.com/
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Join us as we sit down with Bankruptcy Attorney, Darin Wisehart, to discuss the path of debts throughout the bankruptcy process, with a focus on how they're treated after a bankruptcy is filed.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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Join us as we sit down with Bankruptcy Attorney, Darin Wisehart, to discuss the path of debts throughout the bankruptcy process, with a focus on how they're treated once a bankruptcy is filed.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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In this podcast episode, Bankruptcy Attorney, Darin Wisehart, explains the path of debts throughout the bankruptcy process, starting with how they're treated before a bankruptcy is filed.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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We sit down with Pacific Cascade Legal's Partner, Will Jones, to discuss the various types of money awards that might be ordered by a judge, and how long they last after a family law matter finalizes.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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Join us as we sit down with Bankruptcy Attorney, Darin Wisehart, to discuss who you pay in a Chapter 13 bankruptcy, and the details of what to expect from the process.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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We sit down with Pacific Cascade Legal's Partner, Will Jones, to discuss what types of changes in circumstances or violations need to proven in a modification or enforcement case.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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We sit down with Private Investigator, Jennifer Brissenden, to discuss important safety tips to be aware of when you're planning on leaving an abusive relationship. In this podcast episode, Steve and Jennifer discuss the following:
- Abuse Can Happen To Anyone, Regardless Of Someone’s Education, Profession, Neighborhood, Age, Gender.
- Recognizing Abuse In A Relationship Can Be Difficult.
- Steps That Will Help Keep You Safe While Preparing To Leave Or After You Leave.
- Leaving Is The Most Dangerous Time For Someone In An Abusive Relationship.
- Knowing When To Go.
- Things You Can Do To Help You Stay Safe While In An Abusive Relationship.
- Making A Plan For When You Will Leave
- The Importance Of Safe Phones And Computers.
- Safety Planning To Keep You And Your Children Safe.
- The Essential Things To Take With You.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about how Jennifer can help you, you can visit her website: https://brissenden-investigations.com/
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Join us as we sit down with Therapist, Shannon Petrovich, to discuss what Narcissistic Personality Disorder is, and how you can break emotional ties with a narcissist when you're in an unhealthy romantic relationship.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about Shannon can help you, you can visit her website: https://www.nofoggydays.com/
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Join us for our live event as we sit down with Founding Attorney, Lewis Landerholm, to discuss what your options are if your limited scope representation ends, but you still require further legal assistance.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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We sit down with Founding Attorney, Lewis Landerholm, to discuss what limited scope representation entails in a family law matter, and how your attorney is able to help you under this type of representation. In this episode, Lewis covers the following:
- What limited scope representation means and how it differs from full legal representation
- What limited scope representation includes
- Some examples of limited scope representation
- Benefits of limited scope representation
- How limited scope services work
- When limited scope services terminate
- What to do if you need further assistance
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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Join us for our live event as we sit down with Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert, Laura Rumford, to discuss why real estate is an important discussion in any divorce, and living arrangement options to consider as you navigate this big transition.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about how Laura can help you, you can visit her website: https://laurarumford.premierepropertygroup.com/
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In this episode, we sit down with Family Law Attorney, Andrew Hays, to discuss tips for how co-parents can navigate common stressors around holiday planning in order to reduce conflict. In this interview, Andrew and Steve cover the following:
· Why are the holidays so hard?
· For most divorced families, splitting the holidays is an emotionally wrenching task
· When parental consent may be necessary for some holiday plans.
· Ways to ease the holiday transition from family to family.
· There is no one pre-set way to divide the holidays or vacations:
· Getting the holiday plans arranged advance so there are no last-minute disagreements.
· Avoid competing with your co-parent to give the best gift.
· Why co-parents should discuss what gifts they plan to buy for their children.
· Helping your kids shop for a present for their other parent.
· Understanding the child’s best interests during the holidays can be hard.
· Prioritize your children and their happiness even if you and your co-parent are less than amicable.
· Holidays and supporting your child’s relationship with their other parent.
· Don’t try to one-up the other with who has the better holiday planned with the kids.
· Be Flexible, the holidays are never perfect, and something may go awry.
· If your child is not going to be with you on the holiday, all is not lost.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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Join us for this episode as we sit down with Pacific Cascade Legal's Partner, Will Jones, to discuss how you can manage your expectations and set attainable financial, familial and personal goals throughout your divorce to help focus on a successful outcome.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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Join us for our live event as we sit down with CPA, Gary Massey, to discuss how divorce impacts joint tax liability, when there might be relief granted for separation of joint liability, and other important tax considerations when navigating divorce from your spouse.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about how Gary can help you, you can visit his website: https://masseyandcompanycpa.com/
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Join us for our live event as we sit down with Family Law Attorney, Kimberly Brown, to discuss the best way to store your estate planning documents once they've been signed, and why it's important to have a plan in place. In this interview, Kimberly addresses the following:
· What constitutes “estate planning documents”?
· Should you store your original estate planning documents in your safe deposit box?
· Should you store your original estate planning documents in your home safe?
· Should you ask your estate planning attorney to store your original estate planning documents?
· Should you give your original estate planning documents to your personal representative??
· What sort of other items can you include with your estate plan documents?
· Who should you give information to about how to access these documents?
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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Join us for our live event as we sit down with Pacific Cascade Legal's Partner, Will Jones, to discuss what life looks like after a Family Abuse Prevention Act (FAPA) restraining order is filed, including how you renew or dismiss a FAPA, and what happens if it's violated.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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In this podcast episode, we sit down with Pacific Cascade Legal's Partner, Will Jones, to discuss the purpose of a Family Abuse Prevention Act (FAPA) restraining order, how long they can last, and the restrictions they can impose.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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In this podcast episode, we sit down with Family Law Attorney, Kimberly Brown, to discuss why home studies are required for adoptions, the documentation that will be needed, topics that might be covered in an interview, and what a home study adoption professional will be looking for in the home so that you can prepare. In this interview, Kimberly covers the following:
- Why are home studies required?
- What kinds of documents need to be submitted?
- What goes into the in-home visits?
- What kinds of topics are covered in the interviews?
- Does it help to try to prepare for the home study?
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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Join us as we sit down with Family Law Attorney, Kimberly Brown, to discuss how long various types of adoption can take, and important pieces of information you should know before getting started on the process. In this interview, Kimberly discusses the following:
• How long does an adoption take?
• What are the different kinds of adoption?
• Adopting through the Oregon dept. Of human services (DHS)
• Stepparent and second parent adoptions
• Adopting through a private adoption agency
• Independent adoptions
• What information is needed to get started?
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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Join us for our podcast as we sit down with Lead Paralegal, Lisa Parsons, to discuss the importance of updating your personal and public documents once your divorce is finalized. In this interview, Lisa covers the following:
• Why It Is Important to Update Your Documents
• Types of Documents that Might Need Changing
• How to Start the Process of Updating Documents
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
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Join us as we sit down with Best Selling Author, Shaunna Lee, to discuss how to move forward from your divorce and start the process of introducing dating and love back into your life. In this interview, Shaunna covers the following:
• So You're Divorced, So What?
• The Art of Self-Care
• Taking time to yourself to tend to your wounds.
• Self-Discovery and permission to create a new version of yourself.
• Shifting your focus and expanding your vision for what is possible
• Defining what you want in a future partner.
• Self-sabotaging your success because of an upper-limit problem.
• How your beliefs are holding you back from being successful in the dating world.
• Steps to keep your working relationship with your ex focused on what is best for the kids
• How to move from searching for love to being In Love.
• Ways to have fun with the process and make it feel lighter.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about how Shaunna can help you, you can visit her website: https://www.shaunnalee.com/
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
In this podcast episode, we sit down with Digital Wellness Coach and Mindfulness Educator, Gwenyth Jackaway, Ph.D., to discuss how technology has changed parenting tactics over the years, and key steps that parents can take today to model and teach healthy digital habits. In this interview, Gwenyth covers the following:
· Ways that parenting changed with the advent of social media and the internet.
· How does how media impact childhood and what are the effects of digital media on childhood development?
· What are the problems with Screentime contracts?
· Why it is necessary for coparents to have a unified stance on their kid’s screen time.
· Non-judgmental conversations with coparent about your kid’s technology use and screen time
· Socialization and group activities vs. isolation and individual activities
· Traditional parental controls do not address the root of the problem.
· Why imposing blind time limits can trigger reactance and negative behavior when children are ordered around.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about Gwenyth can help you, you can visit her website: https://carrotsandcake.com/
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us as we sit down with Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and Founder of the non-profit organization, Savvy Ladies, Stacy Francis, to discuss social security laws and how they impact widowed parents. In this interview, Stacy discusses the following:
• Who qualifies for Social Security survivors’ benefits?
• What is the difference between spousal benefits and survivor benefits?
• How does the Social Security Administration handle survivors benefits for widows with dependent children, and what factors determine eligibility for these benefits?
• What happens to widows who get remarried?
• What happens to widows who go back to work?
• What are the potential advantages of delaying social security benefits for widows?
• Can you collect both survivor benefits and spousal benefits at the same time?
• What advice do you have for widows who are struggling to navigate social security and other financial matters during such difficult times?
• Are there any recent updates or changes to social security laws that widows should be aware of, and how might these changes impact their benefits?
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about Stacy can help you, you can visit her websites: https://www.savvyladies.org/stacy-financial-advice/ and https://francisfinancial.com/
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Join us as we sit down with Lead Paralegal, Lisa Parsons, to discuss the importance of having a strong team of experts on your team when navigating a high asset divorce, and the types of experts you might consider retaining. In this interview, Lisa covers the following:
- Why it may be necessary to retain expert witnesses.
- Types of experts you might need to retain, such as CPAs, appraisers, evaluators, and investigators.
- The value of having additional support when you’re navigating a high-asset divorce.
- How your legal team can help you get connected with the experts you need.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us as we sit down with Bankruptcy Attorney, Darin Wisehart, to discuss who you pay in a chapter 13 bankruptcy, and the details of what to expect from the process. In this podcast interview, Darin covers the following:
• In a Chapter 13 bankruptcy, every month the debtor is required to make payments to secure property they want to keep.
• When you pay the trustee and when you pay the lender in a bankruptcy.
• Two aspects that determine payment: what you must pay and what you can pay.
• What you must pay to secure items you want to keep like cars, furniture, etc.
• What you can pay is generally based on your expenses and your income.
• How we work together with you and the trustee to arrive at a reasonable payment.
• How a Chapter 13 bankruptcy allows debtors to regain control of their financial lives and to get a meaningful fresh start.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
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Join us for our live event as we sit down with Lead Paralegal, Lisa Parsons, to discuss the purpose of the discovery process in a family law case, what to expect, and how you can start preparing for it ahead of time. In this interview, Lisa covers the following:
· What is discovery?
· When does the discovery process get started?
· Why is discovery required in a divorce?
· What kind of information needs to be produced?
· What happens if your ex withholds information?
· How can you make the discovery process more cost effective?
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
We sit down with Lead Paralegal, Lisa Parsons, to discuss the purpose behind mandatory mediation and parent education classes in a family law case. In this podcast episode, Lisa touches on the following:
· What is Mediation in a Family Law Case?
· When Is Mediation Mandatory?
· Is Mandatory Mediation Confidential?
· Do Parents Need to Come to An Agreement During Mediation?
· What Are the Benefits of Mediation?
· What Are Parenting Education Classes?
· Are Parenting Education Classes Mandatory?
· What Are Some Things That a Parent Education Class Covers?
· What Are the Benefits of Parent Education Classes?
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us as we sit down with Bankruptcy Attorney, Darin Wisehart, to discuss the best time to file a bankruptcy when it comes to your property. In this interview, Darin discusses strategies for the following situations:
- If you have a big tax refund coming.
- If you have an inheritance coming.
- If you have high-value property or nonexempt assets.
- If you have a home with a mortgage or car you're still paying on.
- If you want to sell property to spend on necessities.
- If you are about to get married or divorced
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us for podcast episode as we sit down with Licensed Family and Marriage Therapist, Sue Horton, to discuss the irreparable damage that parental alienation can have on a family after divorce, and what to do when you see it happening. In this interview, Sue addresses the following:
· What is parental alienation and how does it impact children?
· Parental alienation is one of the more underrated forms of abuse parents engage.
· What are the telltale signs of this kind of abuse?
· What kinds of behaviors in the children can follow parental alienation after a divorce?
· What are it's long-term effects on children?
· Why parental alienation can create low self-esteem and self-hatred, depression and substance abuse in the child.
· Parent alienation can create irreparable damage to every relationship in the family.
· How parents who do this justify it.
· What do you tell a parent who is engaging in this behavior?
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about how Sue can help you, you can visit her website at http://www.raisingaresilientfamily.com or email her directly at sphorton915@gmail.com
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us for our live event as we sit down with President of Woodson Wealth Management and Founder of Allegiant Divorce Solutions, Jamie Lima, to discuss how you can prepare for and restore your financial well-being before, during or after a divorce. In this interview, Jamie discusses the following:
• How to organize financial documents
• Experts to contact as you begin preparing for a divorce
• The value of an emergency fund and how to build a safety net
• Understanding why valuing your assets is so important
• Creating a post-divorce financial plan to help manage expenses
• Updating financial goals and adjusting your budget
• How to begin rebuilding your credit and financial independence
• … and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about how Jamie can help you, you can visit his website to set up a consultation: https://calendly.com/woodsonwm
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us as we sit down with Attorney, Sarah Bain, to discuss the most important things to know when considering divorce while pregnant, and how it might affect your case.
• Why a divorce may take longer and be more complicated if you file while pregnant.
• When you can file for a divorce during pregnancy; and when you can’t.
• Determining custody, parenting time and child support is affected when you are pregnant.
• What can’t be determined by the court until after the child is born.
• Whether paternity of the child can be established while you are pregnant.
• What happens if the spouses cannot agree on paternity.
• Weighing the timeline of a pregnancy with the timeline of a divorce.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us as we sit down with Founding Attorney, Lewis Landerholm, to discuss why your attorney might withdraw from your case once your judgment of dissolution is filed and signed by the judge. In this interview, Lewis answers the following FAQs:
• When Does My Case End?
• When Do You Stop Representing Me?
• Why Do You Withdraw from My Case?
• What Do You Do with Documents I’ve Sent You for My Case After You Withdraw?
• What Should I Do After You Withdraw as My Attorney of Record?
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
We sit down with co-author of "Your Child Learns Differently, Now What?", Betsy Hill, to discuss the importance of a child's cognitive readiness to learn, how to identify your child's cognitive skills, and how co-parents can work together to help their child develop a growth mindset. In this interview, Betsy answers the following frequently asked questions:
- Why do we need to know how a child learns?
- What are cognitive skills?
- How can parents support their children who learn differently?
- Why is it especially important for co-parenting families to understand how children learn?
- What is the relationship between learning struggles and anxiety/stress?
- Are there any learning or intellectual disabilities that don’t respond to building cognitive skills?
- How does childhood trauma impact cognitive skills?
Is there a relationship between cognitive skills and mental health issues?
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about how Betsy can help you, you can visit her website: https://mybrainware.com/
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us as we sit down with Private Investigator, Jennifer Brissenden of Brissenden Investigations, LLC, to discuss the benefits of hiring a private investigator for your legal case, and what they can and cannot do in their line of work. In this episode, Jennifer discusses:
• The wide range of services private investigators offer in both investigation and consultation.
• What things private investigators can do, what they can’t do.
• How PIs are like and not like the ones you see on TV.
• Types of information private investigators have access to that the general public is unable to obtain.
• How PIs find property, public records and social media posts.
• The different types of tools and devices that private investigators use.
• How a P.I. can help in divorce and personal injury cases.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about how Jennifer can help you, you can visit her website: https://brissenden-investigations.com/
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us as we sit down with Therapist, Shannon Petrovich, to discuss how to approach the hurdle of severing emotional ties with an abusive partner once you've made the decision to physically leave. Shannon will be discussing the following:
- Types of emotional abuse, including invalidation, creating chaos and emotional blackmail.
- Understanding trauma-bonding and the dysfunctional attachment it keeps alive.
- The endless cycle of love bombing, criticism, manipulation, resignation, distress and repeat.
- How to untangle the unhealthy attachments that emotional abuse creates.
- Strategies to help you take stock of the fear, obligation, and guilt that currently live inside you.
- Boundaries; how to create and maintain them with people who don’t respect them.
- Grappling with grief and rebuilding your sense of self.
- Creating healthy self-care strategies, self-compassion, and self-support.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about Shannon can help you, you can visit her website: https://www.nofoggydays.com/
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Join us as we sit down with Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and Founder of the non-profit organization, Savvy Ladies, Stacy Francis, to discuss how women in financially abusive relationships can safely break free and establish financial independence.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about Stacy can help you, you can visit her websites: https://www.savvyladies.org/stacy-financial-advice/ and https://francisfinancial.com/
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us as we sit down with award-winning science writer, Rachel Lehmann-Haupt, to discuss the expanding concept of what it is to be a parent, and important considerations surrounding collaborative reproduction. In this interview, Rachel touches on the following:
• The technologies, social customs, and policies driving the future of collaborative reproduction.
• How reproductive technology plays a central role in the way many families are planned.
• How collaborative reproduction can expand what it means to be a family.
• Why accepting a nontraditional family opens doors for LGBTQIA+ families.
• Reducing the social stigma of being a single parent.
• How co-parenting works when having a child with someone you don’t plan to marry.
• Collaborative reproduction and the evolution of gender roles.
• The complexities of an “open-source family,” modern families that integrate donors, surrogates, co-parents, and other non-biological relationships.
• The dangers of anonymous sperm donation and how important transparent parenting can be.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about Rachel can help you, you can visit her website: https://www.lehmannhaupt.com/about
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
We sit down with Family Law Attorney, Andrew Hays, to discuss how pets are viewed in the eyes of the law during a divorce, and your options for negotiating custody. In this interview, Andrew addresses the following questions:
• Why Is This an Important Issue To Talk About?
• Are There Pet Custody Laws in Oregon?
• How Would a Court Determine Who Gets the Family Pet?
• How Can Disputes About the Family Pet in A Divorce Be Avoided?
• Can Spouses Negotiate a Custody Agreement for Their Family Pet?
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
In this episode, we sit down with Bankruptcy Attorney, Darin Wisehart, to discuss the best time to file a bankruptcy when it comes to your debts and income. In this interview, Darin discusses strategies for the following circumstances:
• You anticipate having new debts or if you have certain debts you want to pay
• Your creditors are threatening to file a lawsuit
• You have a judgement, wage garnishment filed against you.
• You have a child or spousal support enforcement case pending
• Your income is high and going down, or if it is low and going up.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
In this podcast episode, we sit down with Family Law Program Director for Commons Law Center, Christine Zenthoefer, to discuss affordable options available to those who need family law assistance. In this interview, Christine discusses the following:
• What is Commons Law Center?
• Who Does Commons Law Center Serve?
• What is a Sliding Scale Legal Service?
• What Is Pay-As-You-Go Legal Coaching?
• Does Commons Law Center Provide Full Representation?
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about how The Commons Law Center can help you, you can visit their website: https://thecommonslawcenter.org/
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us as we sit down with Certified Divorce Recovery Coach, Leah Marie Mazur, to discuss how with clear, actionable steps, women can rebuild their confidence, know their worth, and put an end to harmful patterns after a divorce. In this interview, Leah covers the following:
• Obstacles that many women face after divorce.
• Common mistakes women make after divorce.
• What women should focus on while recovering from a divorce.
• How to adjust to being alone.
• How to gain acceptance.
• Blame, shame and how to release negative self-talk.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about Leah can help you, you can visit her website: https://www.mindfullyready.com/
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us as we sit down with Co-Parenting Coach, Leslie Holthoff Martin, to discuss co-parenting hurdles that have the ability to trip parents up, and how you can anticipate and address them before they become a problem. In this interview, Leslie covers the following:
• Even the best parenting schedule is not written in stone.
• Co-parenting challenges change as the children grow older, and not always in ways you expect.
• Pre-school, elementary school and high school all require adjustments to how you co-parent your child.
• Anticipating conversations from “who pays for the braces?” to “to who pays for the car?”.
• The challenges of introducing step-parents to children.
• Ways to improve your communication skills and avoid the blame game.
• The negative impacts of using the children as messengers.
• Pros and cons of using email or text to communicate with your co-parent.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about Leslie can help you and your family, you can visit her website: https://lesliehopecoaching.com/ or her Facebook page: Leslie Hope Coaching
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
We sit down with Personal Injury Attorney, Terrance Hogan, to discuss the relationship between a personal injury case and automobile insurance, and what you should and shouldn't do in the event of an accident. In this interview, Terry discusses the following:
• The types and minimum amounts of automobile insurance that are required in Oregon.
• Understanding how minimum and maximum coverage works in an accident.
• What bodily injury and property damage liability covers.
• The difference between liability coverage and personal injury protection (pip).
• Coverages that pay if you or your passengers are injured in an accident, regardless of who is at fault.
• When you should and shouldn’t talk to insurance companies in the event of an accident.
• What you need to be very aware of when providing a recorded statement.
• Understand that the other person’s insurance company is your adversary.
• What happens if the other driver is uninsured.
• Why you may need the assistance of an attorney even when talking with your insurance company about the accident.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
We sit down with Counselors, Dr. Ray and Jean Kadkhodaian, to discuss the impact that family synergy counseling can play in helping to set healthy boundaries and open up communication avenues for blended families. In this interview, Dr. Ray and Jean discuss the following:
• Understanding the challenges that blended families encounter.
• How Family Synergy Therapy can help identify the roots of conflict in a blended family.
• Why The presence of an advocate for each member of the family can help to create a safe environment.
• Challenging disruptive dynamics within the family and developing better functioning within the family unit.
• How and when to communicate your values clearly to everyone in the family.
• What boundaries are and the importance of setting boundaries.
• Five positive things boundaries produce.
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To learn more about how Dr. Ray and Jean can help you and your family, you can visit their website: https://couplessynergy.com/ or visit their Facebook page: Couples Synergy with Dr Ray & Jean Kadkhodaian
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
In this episode, we sit down with Family Law Attorney, Kimberly Brown, to discuss the impact that divorce can have with virtually everything in your life, such as your relationship with your kids, your family, your home, and yourself, and how you can mentally prepare for and embrace those changes. In this interview, Kimberly touches on how divorce might have an impact on the following:
• Your Relationship with Your Children
• Your Relationship with Your Home.
• Your Relationship with Your Finances
• Your Relationship with Your Family
• Your Relationship with Your Friends
• Your Relationship with Your Community
• Your Relationship with Yourself
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us as we sit down with Forensic Accountant, Tracy Coenen, to discuss tips for making wise financial decisions during a marital dissolution, and what to do if you suspect that your ex is hiding money. In this interview, Tracy covers the following:
• Techniques for uncovering fraud that anyone can apply.
• How to spot financial “red flags” in a marriage.
• Financial Infidelity vs. Financial Abuse.
• Who needs a forensic accountant in their divorce?
• How do you save money with your divorce attorney?
• How you can protect yourself if you suspect your partner is hiding money.
• Simple tips to find hidden money in the bank statements and tax returns.
• …and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
If you're interested in getting in touch with Tracy, you can do so by visiting her website at https://www.fraudcoach.com/
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us as we sit down with Bankruptcy Attorney, Darin Wisehart, to discuss what will happen if you miss a payment, or have an income change, during a Chapter 13 bankruptcy. In this interview, Darin discusses the following:
• What Payments Are Required in a Chapter 13 Bankruptcy?
• What Is Paid to The Trustee in a Chapter 13 Bankruptcy and How Are They Calculated?
• How Are Mortgage or Car Payments Made In a Bankruptcy, And What Happens If You Miss a Payment?
• What Happens If You Miss a Payment to the Trustee?
• Does The Amount You Have to Pay Change If Your Income Goes Down – Or Up?
• What Happens If You Can’t Pay Because of a Lost Job?
• If a Chapter 13 Bankruptcy Gets Dismissed, Can You Ever File Again?
• …and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us as we sit down with Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Mardi Winder-Adams , to discuss the benefits of partnering with a divorce coach alongside your legal team when navigating a contentious separation. In this interview, Mardi answers the following questions:
• Why Is Divorce Coaching Needed, and Who Does it Best Serve?
• Are There Common Situations that Warrant a Divorce Coach?
• What’s Involved in Divorce Transition Coaching?
• Is There a Best Time To Start Working With A Divorce Transition Coach?
• What Are the Benefits A Divorce Transition Coach Can Provide?
• Can Using a Divorce Transition Coach Help Reduce The Cost Of Divorce?
• …and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
If you're interested in getting in touch with Mardi, you can do so by visiting her website at https://www.divorcecoach4women.com/
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
We sit down with Life Coach, Amy Says So by Amy Stone, to discuss how adults who are stepping into a stepparent relationship can prepare and find contentment in this new role. In this interview, Amy discusses:
• Unique challenges that blended families can face.
• How to prepare to enter into a stepparent relationship in a way that honors yourself, your spouse, and your stepchildren.
• The importance of open communication within a blended family when experiencing a shift in family dynamics.
• How to resist comparisons—marriage and parenting are not contests.
• How to lovingly detach from things that are outside of your control.
• …and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
If you're interested in getting in touch with Amy, you can do so by visiting her website at https://www.amysaysso.com/
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
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Join us as we sit down with Certified Financial Planner, Ann Garcia, to discuss how co-parents can work together to save for their child's future education. In this interview, Ann discusses the following:
• Identifying the right time to begin financial planning for college.
• Setting priorities for your student’s college choices.
• How to find the colleges most likely to give your child scholarships.
• How to find colleges that are good fits, not just financially but also academically and socially.
• Utilizing a 529 account or a savings account.
• How co-parents can set aside money for a college fund without ruining their retirement.
• How financial aid, merit aid, and scholarships work for co-parents.
• What co-parents should know about the FAFSA.
• How to think about college from the perspective of “why college” and not “which college”.
• …and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
If you're interested in getting in touch with Ann, you can do so by visiting her website at www.howtopayforcollege.com or by emailing her at hello@howtopayforcollege.com
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us as we sit down with Family Counselor, Sandra Kwesell, to discuss the key pillars to successful and constructive co-parenting. In this podcast episode, Sandra discusses the following:
• Common issues that co-parents run into as they adjust to new dynamics.
• How to separate your relationship with your ex from your child’s relationship with their parent and move forward from past hurts.
• Unique co-parenting considerations for custodial and non-custodial parents.
• How co-parents can identify challenges that need work, but stay focused on shared goals.
• How to communicate with children in a way that mitigates damage and honors their relationship with both parents.
• …and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
If you're interested in getting in touch with Sandra, you can do so by visiting her website: https://www.pillarsforsuccess.com/
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
We sit down with Limited License Legal Technician, Christy Carpenter, to discuss the factors needed to get your Washington child support modification, including the legal steps involved. In this interview, Christy discusses the following:
• Who can change a child support order?
• What is Required to Get a Child Support Modification?
• Are informal agreements between ex-spouses binding on their child support obligations?
• When where and how you can modify a child support order.
• Why it’s important to act quickly if you need to modify your child support order.
• What to do if your original child support order was made in another country or state.
• Why documenting life events and changes in circumstances is important.
• How your child going to college will or will not affect your child support order.
• …and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
We sit down with Certified Divorce Lending Professional, Manya Williams, to discuss how a lending professional can identify strategic solutions for creating desired outcomes using legal and tax codes, while working directly with the professional divorce team. In this episode, Manya covers the following:
• How a CDLP can identify conflicting objectives between the proposed divorce settlement agreement and mortgage guidelines and requirements.
• The dangers with relying on income awarded through the divorce settlement to qualify for a new mortgage.
• Just as the IRS has specific tax rules for divorcing clients, there are specific mortgage lending guidelines specific to divorce situations as well
• The mortgage interest deduction is one of the biggest benefits for carrying a mortgage
• Potential tax liabilities for spouses who retains the marital home when the departing spouse is required to make the mortgage payment.
• Understanding the difference between ‘Income” and “Qualifying Income” for mortgage financing purposes.
• …and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
If you're interested in getting in touch with Manya, you can do so by emailing her at manya@manyawilliams.com or calling her at 541-429-3229.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
We sit down with Rev. Dr. Ken J. Gordon, Jr to discuss the faith principles of fatherhood for divorced men, and the importance of being an engaged co-parent as a means of protecting and supporting children. In this interview, Ken covers the following:
• Why a divorce doesn’t sever your father-child relationship.
• How to be an engaged, and not just present, for you children.
• Why amicable co-parenting is vital for all children impacted by divorce.
• Fathers who do not engage with their children do damage that lasts a lifetime.
• Faith principles and commonsense realities of fatherhood for divorced men.
• Understanding the psyche of men and their often-unspoken perspectives on fatherhood and responsibility.
• …and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
If you're interested in getting in touch with Ken, you can do so by emailing him at kgordonjr66@gmail.com, or you can continue learning via his book: Divorced, But Still Dad: The Faith Principles of Fatherhood for Divorced Men.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us as we sit down with Bankruptcy Attorney, Darin Wisehart, to discuss the specifics of a 100% bankruptcy plan, and when it's an option worth considering. During this interview, Darin discusses the following:
• What A 100% Bankruptcy Plan Is And How It Works.
• Can A Debtor Sue You Or Garnish Your Wages In A 100% Plan?
• Understanding The Benefits And Downsides Of A 100% Plan.
• How To Know If It’s A Good Option For You.
• Some Alternatives To A Chapter 13 Plan.
• …and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us as we sit down with Founding Attorney, Lewis Landerholm, to discuss the different factors that play into the total expense of a divorce, and steps you can take to help keep costs down. In this podcast episode, Lewis addresses the following:
• The cost of divorce is more than just the attorney fees.
• Understanding costs vs. rewards in settling your divorce case.
• Discovery is an important, and sometimes costly, component of a divorce case.
• Attorney fees in uncontested cases vs. attorney fees in contested cases.
• How forensic accountants, custody studies and appraisers can add to the costs of your divorce.
• How the divorce process can be made less costly.
• Why the side that is better prepared usually ends up better off in the end.
• When mediation can help keep expenses down, even though it costs money upfront.
• The cost of wanting everything your way.
• …and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
In this podcast episode, we sit down with Clinical Counselor, Dawn Friedman, to discuss steps parents can start taking now, whether they're approaching or currently navigating a divorce, to help reduce their child's anxiety, and support their mental well-being through difficult transitions. In this interview, Dawn covers the following:
- Divorce does not have to be bad for kids.
- Parents staying in unhappy marriages can be bad for kids’ mental health.
- Many parents are struggling with the other parent “letting down” the child.
- Recognizing that you and your child are having different experiences.
- Getting support for your child makes a big difference in how kids weather divorce.
- There are many, many ways to be a happy family.
- It’s not your fault, but it is your responsibility.
- Parenting an anxious child is confusing and exhausting. It’s hard to make the right decisions when those decisions aren’t always clear.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
If you're interested in getting in touch with Dawn, you can do so by visiting her website: https://childanxietysupport.com/
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us as we sit down with Child Behavior Therapist, Laura Reardon Coaching, to discuss how parents can help support their children through changing family dynamics, and how to set them up for success in learning how to manage big emotions. In this interview, Laura discusses the following:
• Why your kids are acting out – it’s not what you may think.
• What are those feelings communicating to you about your unmet needs?
• Why we Ignore unwanted emotions and behaviors.
• The number one predictor of a child’s well-being is a parent’s self-understanding.
• Setting yourself up for success in managing your emotions and behavior.
• A 3-step plan for setting our kids up for success in learning to manage their big emotions.
• …and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
If you're interested in getting in touch with Laura, you can do so by visiting her website: https://laurareardoncoaching.com/
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
We sit down with Aging Advisor, Allison O’Shea of Openly Aging, to discuss why it’s important to plan ahead for post-retirement, and how to avoid last minute decision making about managing major life events. In this interview, Allison discusses the following:
• Why older adults need to plan ahead.
• Putting a support plan into place before you need help.
• The advisor triangle of legal advisor, financial advisor and ageing advisor
• How and when to put an aging plan in place.
• Why every decision in early retirement needs to look at what can happen in post-retirement.
• Learn how the adult children fit into a good support system.
• Understanding resources that are available.
• The role of a geriatric care manager.
• ...and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
If you're interested in getting in touch with Allison, you can do so by visiting her website: https://openlyaging.com/
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
We sit down with Aging Advisor, Janice Goldmintz, to discuss how adult children can approach the conversation of end-of-life care with their aging parents. In this interview, Janice covers the following:
- Key conversations and considerations to have early on as a family
- Important documents that are needed to ease aging and end of life concerns.
- The reason behind families avoiding these important conversations
- How a health directive explaining preferences for end-of-life care is a gift, not a burden, to children.
- Tools and resources for you to navigate your aging and the aging of your loved ones.
- Finding professional help to facilitate family meetings and create plans for long term needs.
- Where to find information on aging concerns.
- …and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com/
If you're interested in getting in touch with Janice, you can do so by visiting her website: https://www.talkaboutaging.com/
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
We sit down with Author, Ted Speaker, and self-described "Humanity Propulsion Engineer", Nathaniel A. Turner, to discuss how parents can create a life template that can give every child a real chance to succeed. In this interview, Nate discusses the following:
- Why understanding how to change our future by changing how we think in the present is critical for anyone who wants to be a better version of themselves today.
- The value of knowing why we must carefully guard whom we allow in our inner circle because birds of a feather do indeed flock together.
- Things men should do the moment they discover they are going to be fathers.
- Why envisioning and journaling our best life is an essential part of planning for children.
- Practical steps parents can start taking at any point in their parenting journey to create a path toward success, from the moment of conception to the day of graduation.
- ...and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
If you're interested in getting in touch with Nathaniel, you can do so by visiting his website: https://www.nathanielaturner.com/
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
We sit down with Bankruptcy Attorney, Darin Wisehart, to discuss the bankruptcy meeting of creditors, including what it entails, why it’s important, and how you can prepare. In this interview, Darin answers the following questions:
• What is the meeting of creditors, and why is it important?
• How long does the meeting normally take?
• Who runs the meeting of creditors?
• Will you have to answer questions under oath?
• How many creditors usually attend the meeting?
• What can you expect on the day, and how can you prepare?
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
We sit down with Bankruptcy Attorney, to unravel the stereotypes around filing for bankruptcy, and the importance of viewing bankruptcy as an ethical and legal right, rather than a shameful last-resort. In this interview, Darin discusses:
- Bankruptcy is something that can happen to anybody.
- Understanding the stigmas around bankruptcy that can make people feel as if they are doing something immoral or unethical.
- The many situations beyond a person’s control that can lead to bankruptcy.
- Bankruptcy isn’t some sort of scam; it’s lawful, ethical and moral.
- The bankruptcy system was put in place by Congress as a safety net to catch people who have fallen and need help getting back up.
- Bankruptcy is an important part of the economic system and exists for a reason; it's available for anyone who truly needs the relief.
- Why you SHOULDN’T feel ashamed about filing for bankruptcy.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
We sit down with Limited License Legal Technician (LLLT), Christy Carpenter, to talk through the scope of practice for an LLLT, and the benefit of having one on your family law case. In this interview, Christy answers the following:
• What Exactly Is An LLLT?
• In What Types of Legal Matters Are LLLTs Allowed to Provide Services?
• What Kinds of Legal Services Can an LLLT Provide?
• Are There Services That an LLLT Cannot Provide?
• What Is the Advantage Of Using An LLLT In A Family Law Case?
• …and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys or LLLTs, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
In this episode, we sit down with Master Life Coach, Nancy Pickard, to talk through the relationship between self-worth and net-worth for women who are navigating divorce. In this interview, Nancy discusses the following:
• Understanding how self-worth is directly tied to net worth.
• Why self-care and healthy boundaries are key for women going through a divorce.
• How childhood self-esteem wounds can create shadow beliefs around money.
• Why low self-worth can be financially costly in a divorce.
• Learn some basic skills to develop self-trust and self-love.
• How you can gain strength and move forward with your new life and new identity.
• The importance of not being other-referenced and how to reference yourself first.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
If you're interested in getting in touch with Nancy, you can do so by visiting her website: https://nancypickardlifecoach.com/ or send her an email at: nancy@nancypickardlifecoach.com
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
We sit down with Founding Attorney, Lewis Landerholm, to talk through the various factors that impact the timetable of a dissolution case. In this interview, Lewis discusses the following:
• Legal and financial reasons that a divorce can’t just be rushed through.
• What a divorce decree is and what needs to get decided in a divorce.
• How court scheduling and rules affect the length of a divorce.
• How discovery, pre-trial motions, and hearings can extend a divorce proceeding.
• Why a divorce case can only go as fast as the slowest person.
• Learn about the court system’s built-in delays.
• What you can do to make your divorce go faster.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
We sit down with Attorney, Darin Wisehart, to talk through the various factors that will determine if you can keep your vehicle through the bankruptcy process. In this interview, Darin covers the following:
- How your car and other secured loans are handled in both Chapter 7 and Chapter 13 bankruptcy cases.
- Your options and how reaffirmation, surrender, and redemption work in a Chapter 7 bankruptcy.
- You may be able to keep your car by reaffirming the loan agreement – but is that choice right for you?
- Understanding why sometimes the best option is returning a vehicle with a car loan to the lender.
- What happens if you have cosigned on someone’s auto loan and they file for bankruptcy.
- When your vehicle may be counted under an exemption that protects it from repossession.
- …and MUCH more!
If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us as we sit down with Attorney, Kimberly Brown, to talk through what you can expect from the probate process in Oregon. In this interview, Kimberly covers the following:
• What probate is, and what type of property will go through probate
• Important probate terminology to understand
• How to file for probate
• The impact that a will, or the lack of one, has on the probate process
• The role of personal representatives in the process
• An outline of the steps involved in a probate
• Filing tax returns and paying taxes
• …and MUCH more!
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us as we sit down with California Family Law Attorney, Joseph Willmore, to discuss the most important differences between Oregon and California divorce laws. In this interview, Joseph answers the following:
- Is California a Community Property state, and what does that mean for my divorce?
- Can a California divorce deal with out of state property?
- What happens to separate property in a California divorce?
- What are the residency requirements in California?
- How does California calculate spousal support?
- Does California distinguish between short-term and long-term marriages?
- Is a legal separation the same as divorce in California?
- When might California courts consider fault in a divorce?
- ...and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
To speak with Joseph regarding your California family law matter, you can contact him via his website: https://www.willmorelawfirm.com/
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us as we sit down with High Conflict and Divorce Relationship Coach, Barbara La Pointe Coaching LLC, to talk through skills and strategies to help de-escalate difficult interactions when divorcing a high-conflict ex.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
If you would like to seek out additional coaching support from Barbara as you navigate your separation or divorce, you can contact her via her website: https://www.barbaralapointe.com/
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us as we sit down with Educator and Author, Portia Y. Clare, to discuss the power of books in helping children process divorce and changing family dynamics, along with specific book examples for parents to consider.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
If you would like to learn more about Portia, or are interested in purchasing her award-winning book, "Best Friends Forever: A Puppy's Tale", you can visit her website: https://www.portiayclare.com/
Portia's recommended list of books include:
- My Body Sends a Signal: Helping Kids Recognize Emotions and Express Feelings by Natalia Maguire and Anastasia Zababashkina
- My Family’s Changing: A First Look At Family Break Up by Pat Thomas
- Dinosaurs Divorce: A Guide For Changing Families by Laurie Krasny Brown and Marc Brown
- Two Homes by Claire MacDonald Denton
- I Have Two Homes by Marian De Smet
- Divorce Is Not The End Of The World by Zoe and Evan stern with Ellen Sue Stern
- Mom and Dad Love Me The Same by Melissa Torres
- Two Homes Filled With Love by Steve Herman
- When Parents Separate by Dawn Hewitt and Ximena Jeria
- Mum and Dad Glue by Kes Gray and Lee Wildish
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
In this interview, we sit down with Family Law Attorney, Zach Santos, to talk through the most important elements to consider when crafting a high-caliber parenting plan with your co-parent. In this interview, Zach answers the following:
• How will the age of my child have an effect on the schedule?
• Who’s in charge of creating the parenting plan—the parents, or a judge?
• What should I include in my custody and visitation schedule?
• Is a visitation schedule the same thing as a parenting plan?
• What if I’m worried about my (or my children’s) safety around the other parent?
• Does a parenting plan address child support?
• How can parenting time schedules be built around the specifics of our situation?
• … and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us for our Facebook Live event as we sit down with Family Law Attorney, Natalie Thorp, to talk through common conduct missteps that parents should actively try to avoid when navigating a custody case. In this interview, Natalie answers the following questions:
- What does the court consider when determining who gets custody?
- What are the big mistakes parents often make when navigating custody cases?
- Are there safety issues that can arise with parents fighting for custody?
- How important is it that each parent supports the child maintaining a healthy relationship with the other parent?
- How does the court view move-aways in regard to inclusive parenting?
- ...and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us for our Facebook Live as we sit down with Bankruptcy Attorney, Darin Wisehart, to answer your most pressing bankruptcy questions. In this interview, Darin answers the following questions:
- Do I Have To Be A Certain Age To File For Bankruptcy?
- Can Filing For Bankruptcy Stop Evictions, Foreclosures Or Repossessions?
- Can My Income, Assets or Debt Amounts Affect My Ability To File For Bankruptcy?
- Can A Bankruptcy Get Rid Of My Back Taxes and Student Loans?
- If I Have A Marijuana Business, Can I File For Bankruptcy?
- Will I Lose My Retirement Funds When I File For Bankruptcy?
- Will Filing For Bankruptcy Stop Collections Calls And Creditor Harassment?
- If I Have Cosigned On Someone’s Loan And They File For Bankruptcy Am I Liable For Paying It?
- ...and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us for our Facebook Live as we sit down with Attorney, Adriana Gomez, to talk through the role that social media can play in a dissolution case, and the best way to manage your social media presence when you're in the thick of your legal proceedings.
In this interview, Adriana answers the following:
• Can A Court Consider Evidence from Social Media?
• How Much Harm Can Social Media Posts Really Cause in a Legal Case?
• How Can An Attorney Utilize or Access Social Media for Evidence?
• What Advice Do You Have About Using Social Media Before, During, and After a Divorce?
• What’s on Your Do and Don’t List for Social Media Use During a Dissolution?
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
In honor of Father's Day, join us as we sit down with Transformation Coach, Mike Forrester, to talk through the role that childhood trauma plays in parental decision making, and how Father's can put in the work to break these generational cycles and create a new legacy for their children. In this episode, Mike discusses the following:
• We can either imprint our children with the same unhealthiness we received, or we can become the dad we're dreaming to be.
• How childhood trauma influences our parental decision process and current reality.
• Changing your perspective of yourself from casualty to conqueror.
• Breaking the cycle of passing along unhealthy patterns as a generational legacy.
• How to use affirmations and afformations to shape your future self.
• Why our past does not dictate our future path, and developing healthy boundaries.
• How to move from depressed to daring and improving current mindset.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
To speak with Mike about your transformation journey, you can contact him via his email: mike@hicoachmike.com or visit his social page at: @hicoachmike
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us as we sit down with Divorce Coaches, Bill Miles & Kristen Noel, to talk through steps that you can take to help claim control over your divorce and make the transition a healthier and easier process. In this interview, Bill and Kristen discuss:
• Harnessing the power of your intuition and understanding the critical role it plays.
• The importance of establishing clear goals for the outcomes you want for yourself and your kids.
• How to become the CEO of your divorce.
• Why self-care should not be an afterthought, something to catch up on once the dust settles.
• Critical mistakes made in the early stages of divorce can leave lasting imprints upon your children.
• Why you need to make proactive, tactical, practical and intuitive decisions that resonate with you.
• Designing how you want your divorce — and life — to look.
• Why it’s critical to lay the groundwork and set the tone of your divorce is during the first hundred days.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
To speak with Bill and Kristen about how they can help you claim control of your divorce, you can contact them via their website: https://learning.bestselfmedia.com/intuitive-divorce or their Facebook profiles: Best Self Magazine and Best Self Intuitive Divorce Coaching
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Join us as we sit down with Certified Financial Planner and College Funding Consultant, Brad Baldridge, to talk through financial strategies that co-parents can employ to save for their child's future higher education. In this interview, Brad discusses the following:
• Understanding The Real Cost Of Sending Your Children To College
• Developing Financial Strategies For Saving For College
• Planning Early To Put Your Child On The Path To A Bright Future
• How Financial Aid, Scholarships And Loans Fit Into Reducing The Cost Of Going To College
• Understanding The Different Types Of Colleges And How To Plan For Each Of Them
• Why Your Child Being Undecided About Their College Major Isn’t A Bad Thing
• Ways To Increase Your Child’s Chances Of Admission To Their College Of Choice.
• Planning To Take The Stress And Uncertainty Out Of College Planning
• Understanding The DOs And DON’Ts Of Financial Aid
• Avoiding Or Minimizing Student Loans
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
To speak with Brad further about financial strategies to save for your child's college education, you can contact him via his website: https://www.bradbaldridge.com/ or visit his Facebook page: Taming The High Cost of College
Disclaimer: The information provided to you today is for educational purposes only. It is not intended to be specific recommendations or advice. Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such. Please consult with a qualified professional before acting on any of this material. Investing involves risk. Depending on the types of investments, there may be varying degrees of risk. Investors should be prepared to bear loss, including total loss of principal.
Join us as we sit down with Senior Wealth Strategist, Blake Brogan, to talk through alternative investment ideas that can help you maximize your money in order to help create a family legacy in years to follow. In this interview, Blake discusses the following:
• Strategies to maximize retirement income, while using the fewest dollars possible.
• How insurance policies can be used to be an important part of your estate plan.
• Understanding what leveraging your income is and how it works in retirement and estate planning.
• What Indexed Universal Life Policies are and how they fit into an overall estate plan.
• Using Tax-free growth and creditor protection to help build a legacy plan for retirement or passing on to your heirs.
• Using insurance to balance your retirement income with the amounts you pass on to your heirs at your death.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
To speak with Blake further about alternative investment ideas, you can contact him via his website: https://moneyinsights.net/about/
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
In honor of Mother's Day, join us as we sit down with certified TRE® (tension and trauma releasing exercises) provider and nervous system educator, Christa Bevan, to talk about the important roles that nervous system regulation, as well as breaking cycles of generational trauma, can play in helping mothers to feel more empowered in their journey through motherhood. In this interview, Christa answers the following:
• What is nervous system literacy, and how does it show up in our daily lives?
• What can we do to maintain a healthy, well-regulated nervous system?
• What does it mean to be a radical mother dedicated to breaking cycles of trauma?
• How can TRE (tension and trauma releasing exercises) help you eliminate panic attacks and get your anxiety under control?
• Why is it so important to view your stress responses as super powers instead of stumbling blocks?
• Why is it so important to include your body in the conversation when working to heal from trauma?
• What is dynamic self-care, and how can we incorporate it into our day-to-day routines?
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
To learn more about how Christa can help you, or to set up a free phone consult with her, visit her website: https://christabevan.com/
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Join us as we sit down with bankruptcy attorney, Darin Wisehart, to talk through the differences between a Chapter 7 and Chapter 13 bankruptcy, and how to decide which option is best for you. In this interview, Darin answers the following:
• How do I know which of these types of bankruptcies I may—or may not—qualify for?
• What are the benefits and consequences of filing a Chapter 7 or Chapter 13 Bankruptcy?
• What are the differences between a liquidation and a reorganization?
• When does a Chapter 7 or a Chapter 13 Bankruptcy let me keep my property?
• Which should I consider if I own a home and want to keep it?
• Which should I file if I’m dealing with substantial unsecured debts like medical and credit card bills?
• What if I earn enough to cover an adjusted repayment of my debts?
• Which one costs more, a Chapter 7 Bankruptcy or a Chapter 13 Bankruptcy?
• Is there a difference about which debts go away and which I still have to pay?
• If I’m getting divorced, which type is right for me?
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
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Join us as we sit down with Pacific Cascade Family Law attorney, Michael Reid, to talk about how community property plays a role in family law and bankruptcy cases. In this interview, Michael answers the following:
• What Does It Mean That Washington Is a Community Property State?
• What Is Community & Separate Property, and How Do They Differ?
• Can Separate Property Ever Become Community Property?
• Can Our Property Be Community Property If We’re Not Married?
• How Are Community and Separate Property and Debts Divided in A Divorce?
• Will The Court Just Split Our Community Property 50/50?
• Do I Get All of My Separate Property Back After a Divorce?
• When Is Community Property Given to The Other Spouse in a Divorce Or Bankruptcy?
• What Happens If My Spouse Files a Bankruptcy in Washington?
• Does a Prenup Overrule Community Property Laws?
• What Happens When an Ex-Spouse Does Not Pay the Community Property Debts?
• How Do Community Property Laws Affect Filing for A Bankruptcy?
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
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Join us as we sit down with bankruptcy attorney, Darin Wisehart, to talk through the options available to those who are facing wage garnishments. In this interview, Darin answers the following:
• What is a garnishment, and when can it happen to you?
• If there is a judgment is against you, can all of your personal property, including your wages, be subject to garnishment?
• When can your wages be garnished?
• How much of your wages can be garnished?
• Can you stop a garnishment before It starts?
• What is exempt from garnishment?
• What types of income are exempt from wage garnishments?
• Does filing a bankruptcy stop a garnishment?
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
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Join us as we sit down with personal injury attorney, Terry Hogan, to discuss the most important steps to be mindful of if you've recently been in a car accident, especially in regard to strengthening a claim to compensation.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
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Join us as we sit down with family law attorney, Ben Brown, to discuss Washington's protection orders, and how you can utilize these court orders to help prevent contact that is harassing or abusive. In this interview, Steve and Ben discuss the following:
• How do you know if a protection order is the right call for you?
• What protective measures are available for vulnerable adults, victims of domestic violence or victims of sexual assault?
• Who can file for protection orders, when are they allowed, and how long can they last?
• What are the consequences of violating a protection order?
• When should protection orders be temporary vs. permanent?
• When are emergency orders before a hearing necessary, and what should you expect?
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (360) 605-1000, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
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Join us as we sit down with family law attorney, Kimberly Brown, to discuss the cultural and religious stigmas that have historically clouded divorce with a sense of shame, and why it's time to shed this thinking and view divorce through a healthier lens. In this interview, Kimberly discusses the following:
• Is Guilt Different Than Shame?
• How divorce tends to put people at high risk for feeling shame, largely due to lingering stigmas that still surround divorce.
• America’s cultural DNA and how it influences how we think of divorce.
• Why divorce is thought of differently for men and women.
• How the shame of getting divorced can perpetuate domestic violence.
• Theology and religion’s history surrounding divorce.
• “Until Death Do Us Part”: Its history and contribution about shame and divorce.
• Do some Judeo and Christian texts understand and permit divorce?
• The many words for love in Hebrew/Aramaic.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
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Join us as we sit down with attorney, Caryn Jones, to discuss how divorcing spouses can adequately prepare for mediation in order to reach agreements on issues that need resolution in order to finalize a divorce, such as child custody, parenting time, child support, spousal support and property division. In this interview, Caryn addresses the following:
• What is Mediation?
• Is Mediation Legally Binding, Expensive, or Public?
• Do I Need a Lawyer, and How Do I Choose a Mediator?
• Is Mediation the Answer for Everybody?
• How Should I Prepare for Mediation, and What Documents/Information Will be Needed?
• How Can I Shift My Mindset from Winning to Working it Out?
• I Know That I Have Emotional Triggers – How Do I Prepare for That?
• On The Day of the Mediation, How Do I Act - What Do I Need to Make Sure I Do?
• …and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
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Join us as we sit down with attorney, Allison Harper, to talk through the common problem areas for co-parents who are trying to plan spring break for their children, and steps that can be taken to eliminate conflict and stress for all involved. In this interview, Allison discusses the following:
• The importance of understanding and complying with your parenting plan before you make plans.
• Common spring break expenses and understanding whose responsibility they are.
• Safety protocols that are important for co-parents to be on the same page about.
• Vacations are going to create special memories for a lifetime – ways that you can
• The value of flexibility AND communicating plans with ample time
• Preparing to bring all necessary documents, insurance information, medical prescriptions and a list of all emergency contacts.
• Why not having the kids for spring-break is an opportunity in and of itself.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
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Join us as we sit down with Psychotherapist, Dr. Foojan Zeine, to talk through the different emotional stages of divorce, and tips for how divorcing couples can individually process these emotions in a way that replaces resentment and anger with acceptance and forgiveness. In this interview, Foojan discusses the following:
• The psychological process of divorce can be complex and daunting, and often requires a skilled professional to successfully get you through it.
• Understanding why each of the stages of the divorce process can trigger differing emotions and behaviors.
• Working through the first shake-up in the marriage and pre-divorce process, to the post-divorce and emotional ending of the marriage.
• Why understanding the potential psychological effect of these stages is essential to navigating divorce.
• The psychological effects when two people choose to legally, socially, physically, and emotionally end the marriage connection between them and proceed to lead separate lives.
• Ways to move from resentment, anger and unbalanced focusing to forgiveness, acceptance and willingness to cooperate with your ex-spouse.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
To learn more about how Dr. Zeine can help you through your divorce, you can visit her website: https://foojanzeine.com/
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Join us as we sit down with Pacific Cascade's Bankruptcy Attorney, Darin Wisehart, to discuss the relationship between bankruptcy and divorce cases, and important tips to keep in mind when filing to help ensure a smooth process on both fronts. In this episode, Darin discusses the following:
• The different types of bankruptcies and how they interact with a divorce case
• How creditors are impacted by dividing debts in a divorce
• How joint marital debts are treated in a bankruptcy case
• Should you file for bankruptcy before, during, or after a divorce?
• What happens when a bankrupt spouse still owes money to the other spouse as a part of the property division in divorce decree?
• Can property received in a divorce be subject to repossession if an ex-spouse files a bankruptcy?
• ...and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
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Join us as we sit down with Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Grant Johnstone, and his team of financial advisors at Miracle Mile Advisors, to discuss pertinent questions that they wish their clients would have brought to them before negotiating and finalizing their divorce settlement. In this episode, Grant and his team discuss the below topics:
• How Important are the Impact of Taxes in a Divorce Settlement?
• How Does Long-Term Impact of Inflation Figure Into Negotiating My Divorce Settlement?
• How Do you Evaluate a Settlement Proposal?
• What Does it Really Cost to Keep the Family Home?
• Why are My Spouse’s Eligibility for Social Security Benefits Something I Need to Consider?
• Why Do I Need to Insure the Divorce Settlement?
• Do I Need a Post-Divorce Financial Plan?
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
To get in contact with Grant and his team at Miracle Mile Advisors, you can email him at gjohnstone@miraclemileadvisors.com or visit their website: https://miraclemileadvisors.com/
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Miracle Mile Advisors LLC (“MMA”) is a registered investment advisor. Advisory services are only offered to clients or prospective clients where MMA and its representatives are properly licensed or exempt from licensure. Advisory services are offered through Miracle Mile Advisors, LLC (“MMA”). The information provided is for educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute investment advice and it should not be relied on as such. It should not be considered a solicitation to buy or an offer to sell a security. It does not take into account any investor's particular investment objectives, strategies, tax status or investment horizon. You should consult your attorney or tax advisor. All information has been obtained from sources believed to be reliable, but its accuracy is not guaranteed. There is no representation or warranty as to the current accuracy, reliability, or completeness of, nor liability for, decisions based on such information and it should not be relied on as such.
Join us as we sit down with Attorney, Sabrina Owen, to discuss tried and true attorney tips on how to create the most effective visitation and parenting plan schedules that will stand the test of time, reduce conflict, and set your child up for success. In this interview, Sabrina and Steve discuss the following:
• Why it’s important that your parenting plan is created with your child’s best interest in mind
• Understanding pros and cons to common parenting plan blocks and rotations
• Considering holidays, vacations and birthdays when creating your parenting plan
• Tactical ways to look ahead and predict scheduling needs as your child ages
• Programs that help facilitate healthy co-parenting relationships amidst shared parenting time
• Understanding the relationship between parenting time and finances
• ...and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
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We sit down with Pediatric Sleep Consultant, Marie-Eve Gagnon, to discuss factors that can result in sleep challenges for children, and how co-parents can work together across households to create environments that support healthy sleep patterns. In this interview, Marie-Eve and Steve discuss the following:
• Why do children have problems falling asleep or staying asleep in two households?
• How can coparents go about addressing their kid’s sleeping routine now that there will be two places where the kid sleeps?
• What should coparents consider when setting up a sleep environment in each home?
• Is it necessary for each home to have the exact same bedtime systems in order to create a cohesive environment?
• How can you support your child during your visitation if they’re missing their other parent?
• Is it a hopeless cause if your co-parent won’t get on the same page about creating a cohesive environment and sleep routine?
• How do co-parents deal with the lack of routine and upended sleep schedules during holidays or vacations?
• ...and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
To learn more about Marie-Eve and the services she offers families in need of sleep support and guidance, you can visit her website: https://www.slumbertimesolutions.com/ or visit her Facebook page at Slumber Time Solutions
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Join us as we sit down with Behavior Coach and best-selling author, Gail Rudolph , to discuss how you can set healthy boundaries while navigating divorce, and control your own power dynamic not only in separation, but in co-parenting relationships. In this interview, Gail and Steve discuss the following:
• How Can we Harness Power, Control and Personal Choice in Difficult Situations to Influence Others and Create Healthy Relationship Dynamics?
• What Exactly Does Power Up and Power Down Mean?
• What’s the Relationship Between Power, Fear, and Intuition?
• What Role Does Active Listening Play in Powering Up or Down?
• What Are Practical Ways to Set Boundaries When Navigating Divorce?
• How Can You Stop Your Co-Parent from Becoming a Boundary Buster?
• It Can be Incredibly Difficult to Forgive Someone Who’s Inflicted Hurt, Harm and Pain Upon Us—Why Should We?
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
To learn more about Gail, how she can help you, and information about her best-selling book, Power Up Power Down: How to Reclaim Control and Make Every Situation a Win/Win, visit https://gailrudolph.com/
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Join us as we sit down with Attorney, Robert Howell, to discuss how military benefits are typically addressed in a dissolution case, and important things to know to help protect your rights and prepare for the process. Robert and Steve discuss the following:
- Why rules for military divorces differ from non-military divorces.
- Can you even divorce an active member of the military?
- Understanding how military benefits can change based on deployments, base transfers, and combat orders.
- When military pensions can be divided in a divorce – and when they can’t.
- The importance of knowing the various elements of a service member’s pay.
- Benefits that are unique to military spouses and children and can be continued after a divorce.
- ...and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200 or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com/
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Join us as we sit down with Student and Parent Coach, Dr. Jeannine Jannot, to discuss how a high achieving culture can result in a disintegrated student, and how co-parents can work together to find a healthy balance for their child. In this episode, Jeannine and Steve cover the following:
• Today’s high achievement culture, how it impacts our kids and families, and how divorce fits into this culture.
• Introducing the idea of a disintegrating student – bright, capable kids who hit a rigor tipping point, begin to struggle, and may eventually fall apart.
• Practical strategies that divorced co-parents can use to support their kids who are stressed out and overloaded with academics, sports, and activities
• How you define “success” in your family after a divorce and how to get everyone on the same page.
• How the intense pressure kids are under in school can impact the quality of their relationships with parents.
• What parents can do to minimize some of the negative consequences of the achievement culture (burnout, conflict, and anxiety).
• Some common pitfalls parents fall into that may be counterproductive, and how co-parents can deal with their own high levels of stress and burn out.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
For more of Dr. Jannot’s parenting tips and to learn more about her coaching and book, The Disintegrating Student: Struggling But Smart, Falling Apart, & How to Turn It Around, visit jeanninejannot.com, or visit her Facebook page Jeannine Jannot
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Join us as we sit down with parenting coach and interventionist, Aaron Huey, to discuss how separated parents can work together to provide support for a child who is struggling with addiction.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
To further connect with Aaron, you can contact him at aaron@firemountainprograms.com, visit his Facebook page: Parenting Teens that Struggle, or check out his website BRABapp.com. You can download his free parenting contract here: https://firemountainprograms.com/coaching/
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Join us as we sit down with Attorney, Alan Nieczyporuk, and Billing Manager, Claudia Preciado, to discuss how hiring a bilingual attorney can help Spanish-speaking clients avoid misunderstandings with their attorney when discussing legal, financial and other personal matters within their case. This interview is discussed in both English and Spanish, and explores the following topics:
• Why it’s important for a law firm to have a Spanish Speaking attorney available for representation.
• Why it’s important for a client to consider a bilingual Spanish speaking attorney when navigating divorce, separation, custody, and other family law matters.
• How having an attorney who speaks your first language can not only help to develop trust, but result in better legal services.
• The benefits of reducing the need for interpretation services and translators in a legal case.
• Why problems can be multiplied when translating legal terminology, and how a Spanish-speaking attorney can help ensure important information isn’t lost in translation.
Estaremos conversando con el Abogado Nieczyporuk y especialista de facturación Claudia Preciado, acerca de como el contratar a un abogado bilingüe, puede ayudar a las personas que hablan español, a evitar confusión y malentendidos, al discutir detalles de sus asuntos legales, económicos y personales. Esta entrevista sera en Ingles y Español. Alan estará hablando de los siguientes temas:
• ¿Porque es importante que firmas de abogados tengan un abogado que hable español en su equipo?
• ¿Porque es importante que los clientes consideren un abogado bilingüe en su caso de lo familiar, ya sea divorcio, separación o un caso de custodia?
• ¿Come es que contratar a un abogado que hable tu idioma puede ayudar a crear una mejor experiencia y mejores resultados en su asunto legal?
• Los beneficios de no necesitar un traductor en su asunto legal
• Cuales son algunos de los problemas o imprevistos que pueden resultar al traducir terminología legal, y como es que un abogado que hable español puede evitar que informacion importante no se pierda al traducirse.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
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Whether you left a former teaching profession to care for your children, or took a break to pursue other career options, returning to teaching can be more challenging than going back to work in other fields.
Join us for our podcast as we sit down with the Chair of Teacher Education at Lewis and Clark's Graduate School of Education and Counseling, Kimberly Campbell, to discuss how newly divorced individuals can re-enter the workforce and restart their career in teaching. Kimberly and Steve will be answering the following:
• What do I need in order to restart (or start) my teaching career?
• What does the process look like to update teaching certifications, and what are the current education and license requirements?
• How long does it take to get back into teaching, and is there a need for teachers right now?
• How long is the student teaching experience?
• Is it too late to re-start a teaching career, or too expensive?
• …and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys or connect further with Kimberly, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com, or email Kimberly at kimberly@lclark.edu.
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Join us as our Lead Paralegal, Lisa Parsons, sits down to discuss frequently asked questions surrounding child support laws and calculations in Oregon. In this episode, Lisa and Steve answer the following:
• What is child support, and when can it be ordered?
• How is the amount of child support set?
• Can the amount of child support deviate from the guideline amount?
• How is support paid, and how long does it need to be paid?
• Who enforces a child support order?
• Can child support be modified?
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200 or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com/
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Join us as we sit down with Patent Attorney, J. Curtis Edmondson, to discuss intellectual property, what it is, and common issues that clients face in divorce and estate planning cases. In this podcast, Curtis and Steve discuss the following:
• Understanding What Constitutes Intellectual Property
• Issues That Can Arise When Dividing Copyrights, Patents, Trademarks and Trade Secrets in Divorce.
• How Licenses and Assignments of Intellectual Property Are Considered in Divorce.
• Transferring & Dividing Intellectual Property During a Divorce, or by Will or Trust.
• Valuing Intellectual Property in a Divorce or Estate Plan.
• Accumulating Intellectual Property by Spouse.
• Pre-Marital Agreements Regarding Intellectual Property.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200 or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com/
To learn more about how Curtis can help you, you can view his website at: www.edmolaw.com
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Join us as we sit down with Attorney, Triston Dallas, to discuss trusts, what they're used for, how they're created, and when you should consider one. In this podcast, Triston and Steve discuss the following:
• What are the roles of a grantor, beneficiary, and trustee?
• What does the process of creating a trust look like?
• What types of assets can go into a trust?
• What are the advantages and disadvantages of a trust?
• What are the different types of trusts, and how do you choose one that's right for you?
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200 or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com/
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Join us as we sit down with Behavior Analyst, Chris Messina, to discuss how co-parents can help their children handle uncertainty amidst and the ever-changing rules and expectations as the school year approaches. Chris and Steve will be discussing the following:
• Current mandates and state advisories, and how this impacts kids going back to school.
• How co-parents can work together to support their kids amidst uncertainty, and the importance of alignment when approaching difficult conversations.
• The power of controlling emotions, language, and outlooks.
• How to discuss serious matters with your child without creating alarm or fear.
• The silver linings, and how to leverage roadblocks as a teaching moment.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200 or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com/
For more information about Chris Messina and how she can be a resource for your family, you can view her website here: https://precisionparenting.com/
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Behavior Analyst, Chris Messina of Precision Parenting, provides insight for co-parents with a special needs child, and how they can reduce conflict by committing to alignment and open communication. In this interview, Chris and Steve discuss the following:
• What do we mean by “a child with special needs”?
• Why children with special needs are at a higher risk for poor outcomes when their families go through a divorce.
• Sets of roadblocks that require specialized modifications to a co-parenting plan.
• Working with a professional to determine the exact nature of your child’s roadblocks.
• Committing to an alignment for your child with special needs vs. blame and shame.
• Visible and invisible roadblocks to reaching a “Functional Level of Agreement”.
• The importance of identifying the child’s legging skills, and evaluation vs. treatment
• Co-parenting a child with special needs can sometimes feel insurmountable...when is it time to seek outside help?
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200 or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com/
For more information about Chris Messina and how she can be a resource for your family, you can view her website here: https://precisionparenting.com/
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Attorney, Abby Cettel, explains the ins and outs of premarital agreements, what they can (and cannot) accomplish, and when you should consider creating one. In this podcast, Steve and Abby answer the following:
- Who should get a premarital agreement? Are they only for the wealthy?
- Does a premarital agreement mean we don’t trust each other?
- What kinds of things do premarital agreements cover, and how are they created?
- Do premarital agreements only protect the person with the most assets?
- When do marital agreements become effective, and are they hard to legally enforce?
- What is a marital right or obligation?
- Can a premarital agreement resolve child custody and child support?
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200 or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com/
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Residential Mortgage Lender and Certified Divorce Lending Professional, Katie Walsh, talks through the relationship between divorce and mortgages, and important timetables and tips to be aware of.
Katie and Steve discuss the following in this episode:
• Challenges that a divorce brings to refinancing your home loan or getting a new mortgage.
• Tips for how to improve your ability to qualify for a mortgage during a divorce.
• Contemplating a divorce: what the best (and worst) times are to get your mortgage done.
• How a divorce can affect primary factors that affect you qualifying for a mortgage
• Why it’s important to protect your credit in a divorce.
• What the Debt-to-Income Ratio (DTI) is and how it is affected by your divorce decree.
• How spousal and child support fit into the mortgage equation.
• Deciding how to handle an existing mortgage in a divorce.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200 or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com/
For more information about Katie Walsh and how she can be a resource for you, you can contact her via http://cedaroakfinance.com/
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Founding Attorney, Lewis Landerholm, explains what a parenting plan is, and why it's important to have a long-term mindset when creating one with your co-parent. Lewis and Steve discuss the following:
• How a parenting plan differs from a visitation schedule.
• Are parenting plans required and who creates them?
• Things to include in a well thought out, workable parenting plan.
• Who makes major decisions about the child RE: school, religion or where they live?
• How day-to-day decisions about the children are handled.
• How make-up and missed parenting time will be handled.
• How information concerning the children is shared and how to communicate.
• Can you change a parenting plan?
• What to do if a parent is not complying with the parenting plan.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200 or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com/
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Attorney, Triston Dallas, breaks down all of the important components of one of the most common estate planning documents: a last will and testament. Triston and Steve answer the following in this episode:
· What is a will?
· What makes a will legally valid?
· How is a will legally executed and witnessed?
· What different components can be included in a will?
· What are the roles of a guardian and custodian?
· Where should a will be stored, and how often does it need to be updated?
· Can a will be contested, and if so, who is able to contest?
· ...and much more!
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200 or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadefamilylaw.com/
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Attorney, Natalie Thorp, discuss how to get the most out of your client/attorney relationship during a family law matter. Natalie and Steve cover the following:
- What should you expect from your attorney during your case?
- What are the legal duties your attorney owes you during your case?
- Attorney confidentiality and why it’s important to you
- Why competence, diligence, promptness and ethical actions are at the core of an attorney/client relationship
- Why honest and open communication is vital to make your attorney/client relationship successful
- What attorneys (and clients) should be doing to ensure a good relationship and better case outcome
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Behavior Analyst, Chris Messina, sits down with us to discuss how parents can tackle difficult co-parenting hurdles this summer and collaborate effectively. The following is discussed in this podcast:
- Tools and tips to work through your summer parenting schedule with your ex-spouse.
- Similarities between business partners and co-parents.
- What a Business Plan looks like for co-parents.
- Co-parenting is an obligation – co-parenting respectfully and collaboratively is a choice.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200 or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com/
For more information about Chris Messina and how she can be a resource for your family, you can view her website here: https://precisionparenting.com/
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Realtor and Principal Broker, Joe Fustolo, sits down with us to discuss important tips for individuals who are selling their home before, during or after a divorce. The following is covered in this podcast:
• When to Sell Your House (Pros and Cons)
• How Realtors are Selected in a Divorce Case
• Understanding the Role of Everyone Involved (Spouses/ Realtors / Attorneys)
• Beyond Divorce: Estates, Guardianships and Trusts
• Buying and Selling a House in Today's Market, and How to Make an Impression
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200 or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com/
For more information about Joe and how he can be a resource for your family, you can view his website here: https://www.solderaproperties.com/ or email him at joe@joefustolo.com
Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.
Lead Paralegal, Lisa Parsons, discusses the discovery process, and why it’s such an important part of dissolution cases. Lisa and Steve answer the following questions in this episode:
- What is a paralegal?
- What is discovery?
- Is discovery required in a divorce case?
- What are the different types of discovery?
- When does the discovery process get started?
- What types of documents and information will be requested?
- What does possession and control mean?
- Can a lawyer force you to provide them with any information they request?
- Is there information that can be withheld or remain confidential?
- This is a lot of work-- is it really necessary? What are the benefits?
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys, call our office at (503) 227-0200 or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com/ to schedule a free consultation.
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Behavior Analyst, Chris Messina, discusses the impact that high-conflict parenting can have on a child, and 5 tactics you can start using today to help foster a positive co-parenting relationship with your ex. Chris covers the following in our podcast:
• Why Your Divorced Relationship with Your Ex-Spouse is as Important as Your Married Relationship
• How Dysfunctional Interactions Between Ex-Spouses Negatively Impact the Kids
• How to Move from Gridlock to Compatibility with your Ex
• Specific Actions You Can Take to Turn Around the Madness
The 5 tactics that you can start employing today to help promote a healthy co-parenting relationship with your ex include:
· DO: Respond in a timely manner
· DON’T: Purposely avoid communication
· DO: Set a clear objective every time you communicate
· DON’T: Sabotage the conversation with insults or accusations or saying things like, "they don't do it at my house!"
· DO: Pause and collect your thoughts before you make decisions (to ensure your motivations are keeping the best interests of kids at the center)
· DON’T: React impulsively in a way that is intended to punish or insult your ex-spouse
· DO: Try really hard to be open to collaborative problem solving and compromising
· DON’T: Make “No” your default answer
· DO: Honor your commitments to yourself
· DON’T: Simply pay them lip service
To learn more about how Landerholm Family Law and Pacific Cascade can help you, call our office at (503) 227-0200 or visit our website at www.landerholmlaw.com or www.pacificcascadefamilylaw.com
For more information about Chris Messina and how she can be a resource for your family, you can view her website here: https://precisionparenting.com/
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Partner and Lead Litigation Attorney, Will Jones, joins us to discuss how military divorces differ from civilian divorces. In this podcast, he discusses:
-Military Member’s Protection from Default
-Dividing Military Retirement Benefits
-Child Support, Spousal Support and Military Pay
-Child Custody and Parenting Time in a Military Divorce
To learn more about how Landerholm Family Law and Pacific Cascade can help you with your military divorce, call our office at (503) 227-0200 or visit our website at www.landerholmlaw.com or www.pacificcascadefamilylaw.com
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Associate Attorney, Triston Dallas, joins us to discuss why it’s important to reevaluate your estate plan annually.
2020 has been an unusual year specifically, with many families experiencing sudden changes, whether it’s a loss of family member, a business, a retirement nest egg, or a home. Alternatively, some individuals have gained a family member, a home, a business, or a change in life trajectory.
Whether you’ve experienced negative or positive changes this past year, the importance of reviewing your estate plan to ensure that it’s still operating as you intended with appropriate funding and plans in place cannot be overstated.
Listen to our podcast to learn about which areas of your estate plan are especially important to review annually, and how you can take steps to ensure that your assets and family are taken care of and in good hands.
To learn more about how Landerholm Family Law and Pacific Cascade can help you with your estate plan, call our office at (503) 227-0200 or visit our website at www.landerholmlaw.com or www.pacificcascadefamilylaw.com
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Former Judge, Ken Stewart, discusses how to obtain a FAPA, what you can expect from a FAPA hearing, and how these restraining orders are enforced.
To learn more about how Landerholm Family Law can help you with a FAPA order, call our office at (503) 227-0200 or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com.
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If you’re a business owner who is going through a divorce, the first step of the process is to determine the value of your business. There are three different approaches utilized in the valuation of a business by professional valuation analysts: the asset approach, the market approach, or the income approach.
There are two different types of engagements that a valuation analyst will employ. There's what's called a valuation engagement, and there's what's called a calculation engagement. These approaches, and the scenarios that rationalize their use, are very different.
In any divorce, you’re looking at all the assets that exist so that they can be distributed fairly, generally 50/50. When deciding how to negotiate business interests, you’ll consider the worth of all combined assets, the role that each spouse plays in the business and wants to continue to play in the business, and begin negotiations from there to ensure a fair division. This process can vary greatly from couple to couple. Couples will want to consider the basis, and thus taxability, of all assets before making agreements.
When navigating a divorce with a business, it’s important to speak with a professional about how you can utilize certain tax laws to your benefit. A CPA will be able to advice you on how to do this.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys regarding your unique family law matter, please call our office at (503) 227-0200 or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com/ to schedule a free consultation.
If you have questions for Darren Hall, CPA, regarding this topic, you can email him at hall@bgocpas.com, or you can call him at (503) 233-1133, and he’ll be happy to assist you.
Show Notes:
· If a divorcing couple is on a fixed term agreement and they're thinking about breaking it, the landlord would have the right to continue charging the tenants for all of the rent that is due for the rest of the tenancy period that's been agreed upon if a replacement tenant can not be found. Additionally, there is a law in Oregon that allows a landlord to charge the tenants a flat fee of any amount up to a month and a half of rent, regardless of if they find a replacement tenant. This is only applicable if the tenant is breaking a written rental agreement that includes these terms.
· A divorce decree cannot interfere with the rental agreement that already exists between the landlord and the tenants. Therefore, if a divorcing spouse who decides to stay at the rental property stops paying rent, the landlord would have a claim against both spouses for the unpaid rent, regardless of what the divorce decree says.
· If you’re experiencing domestic violence in your home, the first thing you’ll want to do is speak with an attorney and see what your options are for a restraining order, which can provide immediate relief. In additional to this, you can let your landlord know about the domestic violence that has occurred, as they have the ability to terminate the tenancy of a domestic abuser with just 24 hours of notice. The process of evicting an abusive tenant will take far longer than the process of receiving a restraining order, so both options should be considered.
· Oregon has a law, 90.453, that allows victims of domestic violence to legally terminate their lease with no penalties, so long as they provide a 14-days’ notice. As part of that notice, victims of domestic violence will be required to include a qualified third-party verification, which provides proof to a landlord that domestic violence did occur. This law also allows domestic violence victims to get out of their lease even if their abuser does not live with them.
· Oregon law has relatively recently been updated to say that a tenant cannot be held responsible for damage that was caused by the perpetrator of domestic violence as a result of an incident of domestic violence.
· Even though a landlord is not allowed to evict or fail to renew the lease of a victim of domestic violence, they do have grounds to terminate a lease if they give the tenant a warning that the abuser is not allowed back on the property, but the tenant invites the abuser back and property damage occurs. By doing this, the tenant puts themselves at risk of losing the protection provided by Oregon law 90.453.
· If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys regarding your unique family law matter, please call our office at (503) 227-0200 or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com/ to schedule a free consultation. For more information about Troy Pickard and how his firm can be a resource for your family, you can view his website here: https://portlanddefender.com/
Senior Judge, Deanne Darling, discusses courtroom etiquette that everybody is expected to adhere to during their family law hearing.
You should be aware of your court etiquette from the moment you leave your house, to the moment you return. This includes your behavior in the parking lot, in the lobby, how you treat the courtroom staff, within the courtroom, and so on.
The most important thing to remember when deciding how to dress is that the Judge will be looking for clean, respectable, and an honest representation of who you are. You do not need to purchase outfits that you will never wear again, but treat your hearing like a job interview—practice good hygiene, dress in a respectable manner, and avoid anything that might serve as a distraction, such as heavy jewelry, nail colors, audible shoes such as flip-flops, unprofessional t-shirts, heavily exposed tattoos, chewing gum, etc. Avoid wearing any sort of hat if possible, but if you must for health, religious or cultural purposes, avoid hats with bills that could cover your face.
When addressing the Judge, refer to them as Your Honor. Never approach the well without permission, and try to avoid distracting behaviors, such as being overly fidgety, clicking a pen, etc. It’s okay to express emotions appropriately, but try your best to maintain control—it’s okay to ask for a short break if you need a moment to compose yourself.
When inviting guests to attend a hearing, consider the message they might convey to the judge, and how it will better your case. Inviting support is okay, but they should understand the rules and expectations of the court, and not serve as a distraction. As a general rule of thumb, children should not be brought to court hearings.
If a restroom break is needed, or you need to consult with your attorney or support network, it is okay to ask the Judge for a short recess.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys regarding your unique family law matter, please call our office at (503) 227-0200 or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com/ to schedule a free consultation.
Certified Insurance Counselor, Gladys Boutwell, discusses what happens to health insurance in a divorce and how to protect yourself from losing your insurance.
Once a divorce decree is obtained, the spouse that has health coverage would go to their employer with proof of the marriage ending, and request for their spouse and/or children or dependents to be removed.
Once the removal happens, for the most part, the coverage in Oregon will continue until the last day of the month. However, there are circumstances when that end-of-coverage will happen the day that it is being requested, which are plans that are called 'self-funded,' and are usually larger employers that have those self-funded or hybrid self-funded plans.
The party who has lost coverage will typically get notified that their coverage is ending, with alternative options, such as going through marketplace, or directly with the carrier.
Using a broker or agent to explore healthcare options is advisable because it won’t cost you any more than if you were to do it yourself.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys regarding your unique family law matter, call our office at (503) 227-0200 to schedule a free consultation, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com/. To learn more about Gladys Boutwell, you can do so here: https://www.insurancedesignpros.com/
DHS has two divisions. They have the Child Protective Services Division, who investigate allegations of child abuse or neglect and coordinate visits, and they have the ongoing permanency workers, who do the ongoing case work with the family.
Child welfare complaints typically get filed from a teacher, a neighbor, a family friend, or someone who has a relationship with the child. A complaint can be filed via the Child Protective Services hotline.
The hotline staff will divide the reports into several categories that will trigger measured responses, depending on the seriousness of the allegation. If there are signs that a child might be in danger of abuse or neglect, there will be an immediate response within 24 hours.
If CPS knocks on your door, there are two things to know: you are not legally obligated to let anyone into your home unless a warrant is presented, and it’s important to not get agitated or reactive—doing so will almost guarantee an intervention.
If your children are taken, the following court appearances may be required, depending on the facts of each unique case, whether a settlement is reached, and each parent’s willingness to address the area of concern:
· A shelter hearing, a jurisdictional hearing, a dispositional proceeding, periodic reviews, a permanency hearing, and potentially a termination of parental rights trial. We explain each of these in the podcast.
Show Notes:
Landerholm Family Law’s Associate Attorney, Triston Dallas, breaks down the most common components of an estate plan.
An estate plan is an amalgamation of documents that are put together by an attorney on behalf of a client to explain how you would like your estate to be managed upon your death or incapacitation. Included in those documents are things such as a will, a trust, a power of attorney, an advanced directive, a letter of intent, or a disposition of remains.
It's important to make sure that your will, your trust, your insurances, and other aspects of your estate plan coincide and are in line with everything else in your life. For example, if you have life insurance, retirement, a home, a vacation home, etc, you need to make sure that your documents, and the ownership or the rights into those properties of those assets, are in line with what and how you wrote your estate plan.
When you die with a will, it will go through probate, which is the process of the court administering your will, making sure all of your assets are together and accounted for, and then dispersing those assets according to your wishes.
There are two main types of trusts: a revocable living trust, and an irrevocable trust. The biggest differences are that a revocable living trust can be changed anytime, whereas an irrevocable trust cannot be changed without a court order. This is because the assets that are in an irrevocable trust are no longer considered your assets or part of your estate—they belong to the trust, therefor you do not have the right of ownership to act on those assets without permission from the court. Irrevocable living trusts, while offering less flexibility to make changes, allow people to disclaim an asset from their estate, which can have tax benefits, or protect that asset from creditors.
A power of attorney grants another individual the ability to act as if they were you, in the event that you became incapacitated, or when you feel is necessary. This person can then act on your behalf to manage pay your bills, your debts, manage all your assets and make sure that your day to day life doesn't stop because you're not able to take action.
An advanced directive is similar to a power of attorney, but applies solely to healthcare decisions. Whereas a power of attorney makes choices for your financial endeavors, an advanced directive would make decisions such as when to take you off life support, etc.
If you would like to speak with one of our family law attorneys regarding your unique family law matter, call our office at (503) 227-0200 to schedule a free consultation, or visit our website at https://www.landerholmlaw.com/
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Creando el Plan Adecuado para Usted: Desmitificando los Documentos de la Planificación Patrimonial
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Clackamas’ Senior Judge, Eve L. Miller, discusses what mediation is, how it’s handled, and what it can accomplish for families who are hoping to avoid court.
Mediators are trained to be a neutral party, and to not push or persuade one party in any direction. Evaluative Mediation allows a mediator to put their two cents into the situation due to their background and training, such as formerly holding a position as a judge or an attorney.
The focus in mediation is to help parties come to agreements together, outside of court if possible. Generally speaking, people feel better when they have some ownership and control over the outcome, rather than a judge making the decision on their behalf.
A mediator is able to tackle every legal issue, ranging from asset division to custody and parenting time. Even if every issue is not settled within mediation, paring down as many topics as possible will save time, money, and some anguish of going to court.
Mediation is often an appealing process for couples because they aren’t public, whereas a court trial is. For those who value their privacy, this is a great option to work out negotiations off the public record.
Once agreements are made in a mediation, it becomes a contract. Oregon statutes typically encourage and respect the fact that people can make agreements that suit their unique situations better than a judge can, and will ratify agreements made in a mediation, assuming they are made with the well-being of any children in mind.
If you're not prepared to meet somebody halfway, you probably shouldn't be mediating, as it requires both parties to be willing to negotiate for an effective outcome.
It’s highly recommended to have an attorney on your team when going through a mediation, as they can provide you with legal advice and some basic understanding of what you’re agreeing to, while advocating for your best interest.
If you would like to book Senior Judge for an Oregon mediation, you can view her website at https://www.evemillermediation.com/. If you are looking for legal representation, do not hesitate to contact Landerholm Family Law at (503) 227-0200.
Notas del Programa:
Si está en una unión libre y tiene hijos, establecer la paternidad es sumamente importante en caso de separación. Si no se establece la paternidad, no se ordenará la manutención de hijos, a menos que una de las partes decida hacerlo voluntariamente. Además, podría haber problemas para establecer la custodia y el tiempo de crianza. Si no se establece la paternidad, es posible que pueda obtener la custodia y el tiempo de crianza a través de derechos de terceros.
Al dividir los activos y llevar a cabo la disolución de una unión libre, primero se debe determinar si se está registrada como una pareja de hecho. Los registros de parejas de hecho en Oregon solo están disponibles para parejas del mismo sexo, esta existía anteriormente con el propósito de otorgar derechos matrimoniales a parejas del mismo sexo antes de que la constitución ordenara su disponibilidad.
Una pareja de hecho no registrada, la cual es común entre parejas heterosexuales, homosexuales o no binarias, es cuando se han obtenido todos o muchos de sus activos y se ha compartido gran parte de su vida juntos. En este caso, el tribunal observará esta relación bajo la lupa del derecho contractual.
La intención juega un papel muy importante cuando se trata de parejas de hecho no registradas. Al decidir cómo distribuir los activos, el tribunal analizará la intención detrás de la relación. La intención puede ser planteada en una escritura formal, una escritura informal (como mensajes de texto o correos electrónicos), y también pueden ser no escritas pero implícitas.
Behavior Analyst, Chris Messina, and Landerholm Family Law’s Marketing Director, Kari Landerholm, discuss creative ideas to help motivate children as many families prepare for a virtual school year.
The biggest step we can take to set ourselves up for success is to reprioritize our expectations for ourselves, as parents, as well as for our children. Expectations are going to have to, and they should, be shifted and modified.
An activity to help prioritize expectations is to get out sticky notes and make a collection of expectations for yourself, as well as for your child. Once you’ve created a list of expectations that feel feasible, illicit your child’s opinion. Allow them to be part of the conversation and to input their own opinions of what they feel they can accomplish, and the most effective way to structure their day.
Parents should remember that the “shame game” will get you nowhere. Remember that every parent is struggling in some way, shape, or form. If there was ever there was a time to stop shaming and comparing, it's now--it is an exercise in utter frustration and has no utility.
Even if a child has a skill within their repertoire to achieve something in school, that doesn’t mean they will be able to accomplish the same goals within their new home-school environment. A child’s behavior is largely dictated by their environment. It’s not always a realistic expectation to see identical performance from a child within a home environment without social cues. One way to help this is to create a space for your child to work, such as in an office or at a desk within their room, that doesn’t require them to tune out stimuli and will indicate that “this is the place where you work”.
Consistency and a reliable schedule can help to reduce anxiety in children, as they do not always have the ability to self-modulate. At the core of this is the need for empathy and relating to our kids, so that parents can then collaborate with their kids to come up with solutions that everyone can live with.
One silver lining to virtual learning is the opportunity to have concentrated time with children. Take this time to practice empathy and relationship building with your child. If your child is in a position where you’re worried about their mental wellness, remember that you cannot fill all roles within their life—parent, teacher, chef, counselor. Employ the help of professionals, such as the school counselor or a pediatrician.
La analista de comportamiento, Chris Messina, y la Directora de Marketing de Landerholm Family Law, Kari Landerholm, discuten acerca de ideas creativas para motivar a los niños mientras muchas familias se preparan para un año escolar virtual.
El paso más grande que podemos dar para tener éxito es replantear las expectativas para nosotros, como padres, así como también para nuestros hijos. Las expectativas deben, y tienen que ser cambiadas y modificadas.
Una actividad para ayudar a priorizar las expectativas es usar notas adhesivas y hacer una colección de expectativas para usted, así como para su hijo. Una vez que haya creado una lista de expectativas que se sean factibles, tome en cuenta la opinión de su hijo. Permítales formar parte de la conversación y que den sus opiniones sobre cuáles son sus límites y la forma más efectiva de estructurar su día.
Los padres deben recordar que el "juego de la vergüenza" no los llevará a ninguna parte. Recuerde que todos los padres están luchando de diferentes formas o maneras. Si alguna vez ha habido un mejor momento para dejar de avergonzar y comparar es este: es una práctica de absoluta frustración y no tiene ninguna utilidad.
Incluso si un niño tiene una habilidad dentro de su repertorio para lograr algo en la escuela, eso no significa que podrá lograr los mismos objetivos dentro de su nuevo entorno de hogar-escuela.
Financial Advisor, Stefanie Pickard, discusses Behavioral Finance, and how awareness of human tendencies relating to financial decisions can help you work towards financial freedom and risk-reward balance with investments.
Behavioral finance is the study of observed investor and market behaviors. It focuses on the idea that people don’t always make rational financial decisions, however this irrationality is predictable and normal.
Behavioral biases and cognitive errors can be developed from a multitude of different factors, such as past life experiences, general temperament, gender, age, and relationship status.
Examples of types of behavioral biases include: loss aversion, overconfidence, status quo, cognitive dissonance, mental accounting, and sunk-cost effect. These biases are explained in further detail in the podcast.
Understanding these biases and using them to your advantage is important not only for financial freedom, but to “buy happiness”. You can use these biases to plan life experiences that will bring joy and memories, to donate and give to others in a meaningful way, and to utilize your money in a useful and impactful manner.
Financial Advisor, Stefanie Pickard, talks about Financial Therapy, and how she utilizes her training to help clients understand their financial past, how those biases impact their outlook on money and decision making, and how they can work through those barriers towards financial freedom.
An ideal client for financial therapy is someone who recognizes that they are having mental and emotional blocks towards finances, and who can have an open mind to changing.
It’s believed that most money behaviors are rooted in family and experiences with money throughout a lifetime. Financial therapy focuses on exploring and digging out those various relationships and events so that when you do behave in a certain way that goes against your best interest financially, you can identify the reason.
Financial therapy can also help couples who have different opinions and approaches towards money, in turn creating conflict. Applying therapy techniques to both parties within the relationship can help them explore their individual relationships with money, understand the other party’s perspective and experiences, and provide perspective on how to support each other.
Problematic financial behaviors that might be a red flag include overspending, compulsive buying, apathy towards money, workaholism, anxiety surrounding money and the feeling of not being able to get finances under control, and financial abuse towards a partner.
There are a few tools used within financial therapy to help clients:
· The primary tool is called Klontz Money Script Inventory (KMSI), which is an assessment questionnaire, which will reveal certain money tendencies and beliefs, called “scripts”. The four scripts are: Money Avoidance, Money Status, Money vigilance and Money Worship.
· The money genogram is when a client draws a family tree that includes any person who has had a financial influence within their life. Doing this allows the client to then assess how each of these individuals impacted their beliefs and biases.
· The Dow Jones exercise is when a client draw plot points on, above, or below a center line that are positive or negative money experiences in their life. Doing so allows the client to identify trends and visualize the incidents throughout their life that had a financial impact on them and are still influencing them today.
· Another tool is having a client write out life aspirations and authentic goals. The client starts by writing down goals with no parameters or censoring whatsoever. They then narrow them down according to their level of enthusiasm, and eventually focus on the goals that are feasible, determine a dollar amount that is required to achieve it, and what steps need to be taken to make that goal concrete.
If you have questions regarding how Stefanie can help you reach your financial goals, please do not hesitate to contact us at (503) 227-0200, and we can connect you accordingly.
- DACA stands for Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals. It’s a program for children who grew up in the United States, have known this country to be their home, but don’t have immigration documents or eligibility to apply for citizenship or a green card. There are 800,000 people in this situation. These individuals are referred to as DREAMers.
- In 2012, the Obama administration passed a government program that granted “deferred action”, which protected these people from deportation, and allotted them a work permit and the ability to apply for social security. It is renewable for two years at a time, and in exchange, the immigrant has to come forward with their address history, their family history, and have no criminal history in order to be eligible.
- While DACA is better than being undocumented, it doesn’t provide benefits similar to a Green Card. A Green Card gives an individual the right to work, the ability to travel in and out of the United States, the right to take advantage of US law, and provides a path to citizenship after five years. DACA does not provide a pathway to citizenship.
- If an individual with a green card is looking to get divorced, they may need to prove that their marriage wasn’t a “sham” marriage, meaning it was entered into solely for immigration purposes. If they fail, they may be subject to deportation.
- When divorcing with a Green Card, sponsorship requirements from the spouse with citizenship will remain in-tact even after divorce. This expectation will remain for up to ten years, regardless of marital status, or until the migrant spouse becomes a citizen. This is because federal laws trump state law divorce proceedings.
- Undocumented individuals have full access to the circuit court, as they are not required to expose their immigration status in family law cases.
- If an undocumented individual wants a divorce but is wary to go to court due to it being on public record, it is possible to handle the case outside of the court via negotiations with the other party. While documentation doesn’t typically have an impact on asset division, it can complicate child custody or support cases, which is why it’s important to have a knowledgeable family law and immigration attorney by your side.
• DACA significa Acción Diferida para los Llegados en la Infancia. Es un programa para niños que crecieron en los Estados Unidos, y que han visto a este país como su hogar, pero no tienen documentos de inmigración o elegibilidad para solicitar la ciudadanía o una green card. Hay 800,000 personas en esta situación. Estos individuos son conocidos como DREAMers.
• En el 2012, la administración de Obama aprobó un programa gubernamental que otorgó "acción diferida", y protegió a estas personas de la deportación otorgándoles un permiso de trabajo y la posibilidad de solicitar el seguro social. Es renovable por dos años a la vez y, a cambio, el inmigrante debe presentar su historial de dirección, su historial familiar y no tener antecedentes penales para poder ser elegible.
• Si bien DACA es mejor que ser indocumentado, no brinda beneficios similares a los de una green card. Una green card le da a una persona el derecho a trabajar, la capacidad de viajar dentro y fuera de los Estados Unidos, el derecho de aprovechar las leyes estadounidenses y se puede obtener la ciudadanía después de cinco años. No se puede obtener la ciudadanía por medio de DACA.
• Si una persona con una green card busca divorciarse, es posible que deba demostrar que su matrimonio no fue un matrimonio "falso", lo que significa que se celebró únicamente con fines de inmigración. Si fallan, pueden estar sujetos a deportación.
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If you’re unmarried with children, establishing paternity is incredibly important in the event of separation. If paternity is not established, child support will not be ordered, unless it’s voluntary from one party. Additionally, there could be issues establishing custody and parenting time. If paternity is not established, you might be able to obtain custody and parenting time via third-party rights.
When dividing assets and disentangling two unmarried individuals, it first needs to be determined if they’re in a registered domestic partnership. A registered domestic partnership is only available in Oregon to same sex couples, and existed for the purpose of giving marital rights to same sex couples before it was constitutionally mandated that that was available.
An unregistered domestic partnership, which is common amongst heterosexual, homosexual, or non-binary couples, is when you’ve entangled all or many of your assets and life together. In this case, the court will approach this relationship through a lens of contract law.
Intention is a big player when it comes to unregistered domestic partnerships. When deciding how to untangle your assets, the court will be looking at the intention behind the relationship. Intent can be something that's found in a formal writing, informal writing (such as text messages or emails), but also unwritten but implied intentions.
When distributing assets, if the writing of intent is unclear or if there is no writing, the court is going to have to interpret those intentions, and they will do so through the lens of equity.
When it comes to handling this process on your own (DIY), there isn't going to be a statute that tells you "this is how it’s done", like you would see in a divorce. It's case-law and contract driven and is entirely dependent on each unique case.
When in an unregistered domestic partnership, you should mindfully engage with the other person and consider a written relationship agreement that lays out what your intentions are in commingling your life, as well as your intentions in the event of a separation down the line.
Having a good and comprehensive estate plan in place is key for unmarried couples. Everybody should be doing this, but especially when you don’t have a formal relationship that is legally binding. Be mindful of the benefits you can leave your partner and your family with when you pass away.
¿Cuáles son los Derechos Legales de las Parejas de Hecho al Separarse en Oregon?Si está en una unión libre y tiene hijos, establecer la paternidad es sumamente importante en caso de separación. Si no se establece la paternidad, no se ordenará la manutención de hijos, a menos que una de las partes decida hacerlo voluntariamente. Además, podría haber problemas para establecer la custodia y el tiempo de crianza. Si no se establece la paternidad, es posible que pueda obtener la custodia y el tiempo de crianza a través de derechos de terceros.
Al dividir los activos y llevar a cabo la disolución de una unión libre, primero se debe determinar si se está registrada como una pareja de hecho. Los registros de parejas de hecho en Oregon solo están disponibles para parejas del mismo sexo, esta existía anteriormente con el propósito de otorgar derechos matrimoniales a parejas del mismo sexo antes de que la constitución ordenara su disponibilidad.
Una pareja de hecho no registrada, la cual es común entre parejas heterosexuales, homosexuales o no binarias, es cuando se han obtenido todos o muchos de sus activos y se ha compartido gran parte de su vida juntos. En este caso, el tribunal observará esta relación bajo la lupa del derecho contractual.
La intención juega un papel muy importante cuando se trata de parejas de hecho no registradas.
Behavior Analyst, Chris Messina, discusses parenting pitfalls to be aware of in order to help protect your children’s mental hygiene during coronavirus and lockdown measures.
Pitfall #1: Don’t double down on kids and try to over-compensate for what is perceived as missed time.
Many parents feel that they need to set hard rules and push for increased accomplishments in order to make up for lost time in school and around peers. This includes rigorously tracking academics, skills, and lessons, such as music or languages.
Rather, take stock of your child’s mental wellness right now. They may very well need the opposite approach for these coming summer months.
Connectivity is key for children. Create a game plan with your family and discuss what levels of exposure with other’s you’re comfortable with. Plan for events where kids can see their peers while recognizing public health advisories. This may also be a time to relax rules with technology regarding Facetimes, messaging, and other apps that allow kids to stay connected and social with each other from afar.
Pitfall #2: Don’t treat lock-down, especially during school months, as an extended summer vacation
It’s very possible that this spring was not simply a one-off, as it’s becoming more apparent that this situation may not be over anytime soon. Many parents are relaxing their rules and treating this time as an extended summer vacation, such as: ultra-late bedtimes, sleeping past lunchtime, unlimited time on technology, loosening the reins on any kind of real structured day.
The primary way to address this as a family is to generate a weekly schedule by collaborating with your kids, which allows you to roll out your week ahead and have some structure. Get creative with ways that your kids can invest their time this summer. With kids experiencing an abundance of anxiety and depression, they may not generate these ideas organically and by themselves, and may default to phone time, bedroom time, or isolation. Therefore, it’s important that parents advocate, encourage and brainstorm with their kids.
Pitfall #3: Don’t forget to be intentional and check in with your child; simply being at home isn't enough
Most kids communicate their feelings through behavior over words. Signs that your kid is experiencing anxiety, depression, loneliness, or lack of stimulation may be expressed as agitation, physical aggression, sourness in behavior, or mood swings.
To combat this: make sure that you are regularly checking in with your child. Give it the time, listen to their thoughts, get a pulse for where they are and how they’re feeling. Oftentimes, if parents initiate the conversation, and even open up about their own concerns and vulnerabilities, they can create momentum and children will follow suit. Don’t wait for your kids to initiate these conversations- they may be uncertain about how they feel, and initiating mental dialogue may not be in their behavioral or emotional repertoire.
Divorced parents who are struggling with co-parenting during unusual and difficult schedules, research collaborate problem solving. This is an approach and a tool to help develop effective communication and problem solving skill for the well-being of children.
• It’s important that an individual with special needs maintains some level of covered benefits, such as social security or Medicaid, amongst other resources. However, without proper planning it is easy for a family or individual to misstep and lose their benefits.
• A special-needs individual can generally have up to $2,000 in their name- anything above that and they may lose their eligibility for government benefits. While this is not a lot of money, it’s very possible to maintain and stay under that limit with proper planning.
• The two primary planning options to assist a disabled individual in staying under the $2,000 resource limit are: 1) An ABLE account; and 2) a Special Needs Trust (either first-party or a third-party).
• The two major differences between a first-party special needs trust and a third-party special needs trust is that a first-party trust is always irrevocable, whereas a third-party trust can be either irrevocable or revocable. Additionally, a first-party special needs trust has a “Medicaid payback”, meaning if the individual with the disability passes away, any funds left in the trust would go to Medicaid, whereas this is not the case with a third-party special needs trust.
• Common trust strategies:
-Create a testamentary trust: a trust that does not become active until the grantors have passed away.
-Create and fund at third-party trust now, however this will be subject to accounting and taxes.
-Create a third-party trust as a “dry” trust, meaning it’s active but there’s nothing in it. This allows family members to include this third-party special needs trust in their own estate plans.
-Create an ABLE account: this is an account that can accumulate $15,000/annually, or $100,000 in total, of funds that will not count against the resource limit or eligibility of the individual with a disability. This account also allows for the special-needs individual to have access to a set amount of funds via a loadable debit card. Unlike first- and third-party special needs trusts, an ABLE account cannot account for assets; it can only account for money. Therefore, it’s a great option to be considered alongside a trust, rather than in place of a trust.
• Create a list of all personal preferences, details, medical notes and contact information, and activity schedules of the special-needs individual for any person who may assume a guardianship role in their life to help ensure sustained quality of life.
- Landerholm Family Law's Partner, Will Jones, breaks down the divorce process in Oregon by focusing on the last step, the judgment, and working backwards.
- The end of a divorce case for most people is called a general judgment of dissolution, which can be reached in three ways: 1) Trial, 2) Stipulation, which means everybody agrees or 3) Default, which is granted when no one responds to the petitioner.
- The divorce judgment encompasses the end goal of a divorce. It’s essentially the “law of the land” between two divorcing parties/parents.
- D.I.Y.(Do-it-Yourself) divorces can be dangerous because there are many details in the divorce process that can get skipped or lost, causing real problems down the line. If your D.I.Y divorce is not enforceable, or you agree to something that is non-modifiable, you can cost yourself large sums of money.
- When filing a petition, you are setting the goalpost for what you hope to receive. The purpose is to be vague, and not limit the court’s ability to grant what they deem to be fair and equitable. You are stating what you want, and the respondent can state what they want—within these goalposts, the court can work on fair agreements. Requests within a petition should not be considered offensive—simply put, if a party does not ask for it, they will not receive it—so, while there is no harm in asking, there is harm in not asking.
- Mediation and arbitration are alternative ways for parties to reach agreements without having to go to court. These are not means in which one party can “force” the other to comply or agree. If parties cannot reach agreements together, they will need to take these matters to the court via a trial.
- Landerholm Family Law’s Associate Attorney, Triston Dallas, explains what an estate plan and why it’s important for people of all ages to consider.
- An estate is everything you own-everybody has an estate, regardless of their wealth. You don’t need to have millions of dollars to have an estate plan- it isn't based on the value of your estate, but rather it’s based on your specific values and how you want that to pass on to your next of kin, your heirs, the next generation
- An estate is your home, your cars, your personal assets, your bank accounts, etc. An estate plan creates a road-map as to how you want your estate to be managed while you're still alive and how you want it to be passed to your heirs and beneficiaries after you’ve passed away.
- An estate plan allows you to not only assign how you want assets to be distributed, but it lets you plan according your values, such as what religion you would want your kids to be raised in if you were to pass, or how you want your remains to be handled.
- An estate plan allows you to assign who is to handle which roles in your estate if you were to die or become incapacitated or have a terminal illness. You can decide who you want to stand in as power of attorney, personal representative, executor or manager of estate, guardian, custodian, or conservator.
- While there are will kits available, these cover only the basics of estate planning. There are many details that can be missed without the help of an attorney, such as estate tax planning, and other necessary analysis.
- If you don’t have an estate plan in place, the court will look to your spouse, children, siblings, or any next of kin. If you don’t have any living kin, the state will acquire all of your assets. Additionally, without a will, your assets may get distributed by the state in a way that you don’t find agreeable.
- Estate plans should be reviewed every five years, or when a big life event happens, such as having children, remarrying, divorcing, or a rise or decline in income.
- If you have questions about how to get started on your estate plan today, you can call our office at (503) 227-0200.
- Lewis Landerholm, Founding Attorney of Landerholm Family Law, discusses the various options available to those who would like to pursue their family law case in spite of court delays due to Covid-19.
- It’s projected that there's going to be a large wave of cases coming through in the next few months when everybody does decide to file, so getting your place in line and starting the process now is important.
- While the courts are trying to navigate the pandemic with the State’s mandates and restrictions, they are eager to get things moving and provide alternative options so that people can move their cases forward.
- There are outside and remote options available to those who want to move forward with their family law case but may not be able to get a court hearing. The courts are going to be putting pressure on attorneys and parties to use these outside options, such as utilizing reference judges, judicial settlement conferences, mediation, and remote hearings.
- Other industry professionals and services, such as therapists, arbitrators, supervised visitation, appraisers, house-movers, mediators, financial and tax planners, etc. are available at remote capacities. We have referral sources that we are happy to connect you with if needed.
- Coming up with creative options, being as agreeable as possible, and clients being willing to communicate with their opposing party to agree on alternative options, are going to be key in moving cases moving forward so that clients can get what they want without bogging down the system.
- In the event of an emergency and immediate court intervention, a client can still obtain a restraining order, and in extreme circumstances, an immediate danger order. If there is threat of a child being removed from their regular routine, status quo orders can still be entered in place.
- The sudden and forced shift to go remote has helped to shake the old school mentality of “this is the way it has to go”. The courts, attorneys, and other professionals in the family law industry are rewriting how it has to go now, and there will be positive changes that will come out of this in the long run.
- When you decide that it’s the right time to move forward with your family law case, we can help you. We're prepared to help you embrace all of these new, alternative tools that we have and try to solve the problem as efficiently and appropriately as we can. You can contact our office at (503) 227-0200.
Opciones para Continuar Con su Caso de Derecho de Familia Durante la COVID-19
- Lewis Landerholm, abogado fundador de Landerholm Family Law, analiza las diversas opciones disponibles para aquellos que deseen continuar con su caso de derecho de familia a pesar de las demoras del tribunal debido la Covid-19.
-Will Jones, Partner at Landerholm Family Law, explains the QDRO process and aspects to consider when dividing retirement accounts.
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Over 90 million workers in the United States are covered by over 800,000 employer- provided retirement plans, totaling billions of dollars. For many people, these retirement savings represent one of their most significant assets.
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When couples divorce with retirement accounts, these accounts need to be reviewed and a shared denominator needs to be determined so that both parties reach a fair agreement.
-QDROS cannot be handled by a state judge alone, and require federal intervention for approval. This multi-step process can take anywhere from 1-3 months.
-Due to the complexity of QDROs, and the risk of losing out on assets that you may have a legal right to, it’s advisable to discuss your situation with an attorney who can help explain your rights.
¿Qué es Una Orden Calificada de Relaciones Domésticas y Cuál es su Importancia?- Will Jones, socio de Landerholm Family Law, explica el proceso de las QDRO y los aspectos a considerar al dividir las cuentas de jubilación.
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Más de 90 millones de trabajadores en los Estados Unidos están cubiertos por más de 800,000 planes de jubilación proporcionados por los empleadores, por un total de miles de millones de dólares. Para muchas personas, estos ahorros para la jubilación representan uno de sus activos más importantes.
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Cuando las parejas se divorcian con cuentas de jubilación, estas cuentas deben revisarse y se debe determinar un denominador compartido para que ambas partes lleguen a un acuerdo justo.
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Las QDROS no puede ser manejadas solamente por un juez estatal, y requiere de la intervención federal para su aprobación. Este proceso de varios pasos puede tardar entre 1 y 3 meses.
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Debido a la complejidad de las QDRO y al riesgo de perder activos a los que puede tener derecho legal, es recomendable discutir su situación con un abogado que pueda explicarle sus derechos.