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Is "be like a god" sound advice on how to live?
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Is your future self watching over you at the playground?
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How do you define Adventure? My definition might be less standard.
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What does having your shit together actually mean?
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Anytime anything borders on escapism it is too much for me. (30 minute)
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If we basically spend all day hoping for magic to happen in various ways,
why do we refuse to believe in magic?
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More freedom means accepting more solitude? (10 minutes)
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If we aren't supposed to be attached to the outcome, can we at least be
attached to what happens on the inside? (12 minutes)
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Is it true that you can't unless someone has shown you how? (21 min)
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Even if our life gets weird...which it always does, can we find it
perversely comforting? (9 minutes)
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We are drawn to love and laughter...but what about truth? Are we drawn to
that too? (17 minutes)
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Certainty isn't real, right? Why do we still go for it? (27 minutes)
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Is the title family a birthright or something that should be earned? (24
minutes)
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Why do people have such different definitions of unconditional love? (15
min)
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Does the idea of personal growth make us feel incomplete or broken? (15
minutes)
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Is the person who needs the least really the most wealthy? (17 minutes)
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Do you see a difference between Fun and Happy? (16 minutes)
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Are you wise if you have lived the same year for 80 years? (12 minutes)
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Is meeting a person's request the same as giving over control? (14 minutes)
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Should the ending of a relationship always be on the table? (12 minutes)
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Would it be more clear to see yourself as the archetype of your partner's
heart?
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When will I ever learn that NO is a complete sentence? (9 minutes)
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What does it take to be genuinely curious about someone? (15 minutes)
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Is seriousness a form of fear? Or is that too extreme? (10 minutes)
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Have you ever had a person that you didn't like for no real reason? I have
something for you to try (22 minutes)
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Do you jump straight to interpreting when a feeling shows up? (10 minutes)
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What is acceptable to actual put on your online profile? (9 minutes)
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What I wish I had responded when a guy asked me how I felt about surrender.
(19 minutes)
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Isn't relationship still the end goal for most of us? Or is it no longer
the ultimate validation? (18 minutes)
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Is there any part of you that enjoys hearing that all of you is welcome
here? (12 minutes)
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Do you say too many yes' or too many no's? Or an equal amount of both? (23
minutes)
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When someone says something that bothers you! (15 minutes)
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14 minutes calling myself out on a subtle fear of others' boundaries
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13 minutes admitting when someone called me on masking managing of my own
discomfort as simply care and concern for the other person.
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8 minutes on how the fun is in the back and forth, and the answer isn't
just on one side or the other
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26 minutes on when we think that being strong doesn't equate with needing
or giving compassion
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10 minutes expressing the edits I wish I had made before taking a
therapist's advice
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8 minutes asking whether it is too cold and removed when we don't take
things personally
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24 minutes on if all inner problems boil down to relationship skills
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33 minutes refuting an old psychologist's popular article about his
generation
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10 minutes asking whether things that are contributed to being old might
simply be more body awareness
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15 minutes on being relieved instead of burdened by your opposite
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5 minutes on what it would take for non verbal communication to be real
communication
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6 minutes on whether your people are simply the ones who value you
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25 minutes on why I thought resolution and understanding would be all I
needed in a relationship
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8 minutes exploring whether everyone is actually dying to be weird
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7 minutes on calling people crazy as a way to write them off
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14 minutes on how single people get so easily discredited
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13 minutes questioning whether what we are feeling is anxiety or just being
human
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26 minutes on committing to each other instead of fearing missing out on
independence
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10 minutes on the difference between giving up and surrendering
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12 minutes on when I allow myself to use the word "crazy" and when it
bothers me
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10 minutes on how it feels different to actively try versus trying by
thinking about it
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16 minutes exploring our upbringing, convenience, coping and the things
that play into whether we can actually be interested in others.
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Gordon Neufeld
See also "Depending for Maturity" in Biting Side Mini Podcast
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Gordon Neufeld
Also see "Types of Dependency" in Biting Side Mini Podcast
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7 minutes on the language barriers men might be dealing with
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9 minutes on why it sometimes bothers me when people speak of body type
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13 minutes examining why we say 'we turned out fine'
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13 minutes on parents who don't consider themselves your friends
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30 minutes on me not having a relationship....but not THAT self focused.