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Read 1 John 1:5-10
1) We all have issues/things that we avoid in life and these things can keep us from walking in the light with Christ. What are the top three issues/things you are currently avoiding?
2) To do the right things, we must often choose to walk the narrow path and make the harder decisions. When has this occurred in your life and what were the results? When did you choose the wider, easier path and what were the results?
3) Sometimes we all need practical suggestions to stop avoiding. Here are four to consider: 1. Give yourself time to discern all the facts. 2. Make a plan with small steps that show incremental progress. 3. Make a deadline to have a time limit on your plan to eliminate avoidance. 4. Outsmart your brain by finding ways to help yourself do things you do not want to do? Which of these suggestions resonate with you and why? Have you ever used one of these suggestions or will you in the future?
4) The good news of today’s passage is God is not telling us to just “quit it.” Instead, God is our faithful companion as we step into the light. How does knowing God as your traveling companion - who loves you, forgives you, and sustains you - make a difference in your struggle to avoid issues/things that block your ability to walk in the light?
Read Matthew 6:25-34
1) In today’s passage, Jesus’ audience would have been ordinary peasant people whose most pressing worry was wrapped around hunger and their next meal. What are the top ten things on your “worry list?”
2) Jesus tells us in this scripture to “stop worrying about tomorrow because tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” Does this verse bring you comfort? If so, why? If not, why not?
3) Romans 8:28 tells us “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” Have you seen transformation and even blessing in your life or the lives of others while navigating the deepest valleys? Give examples.
4) To quit worrying, the word most needed is "trust." Do you truly trust Christ to direct your path and lead you through all things? Why or why not?
5) Do you completely surrender your sometimes selfish worries and let God handle them? If so, what are the challenges and the victories of doing so?
Read Philippians 2:14-18
1) Just before today’s passage, Paul tells us to work out our salvation in “fear and trembling” and then immediately gives us a prohibition against grumbling. Does this change your attitude towards grumbling?
2) Grumbling reveals our dissatisfaction and rebellious attitude towards God. When have you grumbled against God without realizing it? Give an example.
3) How can chronic grumbling affect our relationships with the people we love best?
4) Grumbling is a sin, affects our health, blocks our ability to love others as Jesus loved us, and most of all, affects our witness. How can grumbling affect our witness? Give general and personal examples.
5) If you are a chronic grumbler, how are you going to quit the grumbling habit? What are some ways you can chose joy each day? Give examples.
Read Luke 10: 38-42
1) Our text today tells us the story of Martha and Mary. Which character resonates most with you? Why?
2) Our culture encourages us to work more so we will not miss out on all of the “good stuff” in life. How would you define the “good stuff” that matters most in your life?
3) Why is it important to model Mary’s behavior and sometimes live in the moment? How would your life change if you slowed down? Give examples.
4) What would happen this week if you took a moment and sat at the feet of Jesus just like Mary did?
Read Philippians 2: 5-11
1) When were you “saved”? Was it a specific moment in time or a gradual process? Was it a “Damascus Road” flashy experience like Paul the Apostle or rather a strange warming of your heart like John Wesley?
2) Today is the final week of our “We” sermon series when we explore how you and me become “we” with God. What does it mean to your faith and your life that God wants to be in relationship with you? Give specific examples.
3) The Incarnation is the moment in time when God came here to be with us. Why did it happen? What did God have in mind when Jesus came to us to be human like us?
4) What does a human Jesus mean to your faith? Has it changed the way you deal with the challenges of life?
5) How has your life changed when you put Jesus Christ first in your life?
1) What word(s) would you use to describe your relationship with God? Have you ever considered that you have a covenant with God?
2) There are multiple covenants in both the Old and New Testaments. Is there one that speaks most deeply to your heart? Why?
3) In our daily life, we have covenants like our vows of marriage, baptism, and church membership. We also experience covenants in Holy Communion and even within a small group. If you look at them through the lens of covenant, do you have a greater appreciation for them? Why or why not?
4) What does it mean to you that you can become “we” with God? Could it change the way you live out your faith?
Read Genesis 3:1-13
1) In today’s scripture, we see the blame game at its finest; Eve blames the snake and Adam blames Eve. When have you refused to take responsibilities for your own sins and tried to blame others?
2) If someone asked you to define sin in your own words, what would you say? What are the repercussions of sin in your life?
3) What sins are weighing you down and damaging your relationships with others? What sins are damaging your relationship with God?
4) The cross of Good Friday and the empty tomb of Easter mean our sins can be forgiven. What does that mean to you personally? What is your emotional reaction to such a gift?
Read Genesis 2:4-9
1) Read today’s creation story and also the one found in Genesis chapter one. What do both of these creation stories tell us about God? What do they tell us about human beings?
2) After creating human beings, God said it was very good. What does it mean to you that God believes you are very good?
3) We are created in the image of God. What do you see when you look in the mirror? What do you think God sees when He looks at you?
4) How can you renew the image of God in you? Give examples.
Read John 3:1-18
1) What do you have in common with Nicodemus? Give examples.
2) Why do you think Nicodemus came to speak to Jesus after dark? Would you have done the same?
3) John 3:16 is the most famous verse in the Bible. Does hearing it in its original context help you appreciate it even more? If so, why?
4) After his conversation with Jesus, Nicodemus later defends Jesus to his fellow Pharisees and then helps prepare Jesus’ body for burial. What do these actions tell us about Nicodemus?
5) “If we stop at John 3:16, we risk missing out on the transforming moments with Jesus.” What is your response to that statement and what transforming moments have you had with Jesus?
Read Acts 2:1-21
1) What happened on the first Pentecost and why is it still significant to the church today?
2) Peter had been an unstable leader during Jesus’ ministry. The Pentecost Peter is different; he is humble, bold and a dynamic speaker. What changed Peter? Can the power of Pentecost change you? What would those changes look like in your life?
3) Is Christian your title or your life? Is Jesus the defining relationship in your life? If so, give examples.
4) On Pentecost, the Holy Spirit transformed the disciples who subsequently changed the world in Jesus’ name. Is that power still available today? If so, how can our church embrace the Spirit’s power?
Read Acts 1: 15-26
1) We sometimes make unimportant decisions by flipping a coin, playing "rock, paper, scissors," or choosing a number between one and ten. Why don’t we make vital decisions in the same way?
2) After the Ascension, Jesus had told his followers (around 120) to go to Jerusalem and wait for the coming of the Holy Spirit. Why do you think they chose a replacement for Judas before the arrival of the Spirit on Pentecost? Do you think it might have changed the outcome?
3) After prayer, lots were cast between the two candidates, Barsabbas and Mattias, to replace Judas. In scripture, we never hear from the one chosen, Mattias, ever again. What do you think this means?
4) Church tradition tells us Mattias was faithful serving God, bearing witness to the Good News of Jesus, and helping others to become disciples, but he is still virtually unknown among modern Christians. Do you think Mattias is a role model for all the unknown followers of Jesus whose story will never be told? Why or why not?
5) How does God intend to love the world? What is your role in God’s plan? Does it matter that your name or story will ever be known? Why or why not?
Read John 15: 9-17
1) Today’s passage must be savored to understand it. Reread the passage again and this time take note of every time Jesus says something must “be in us.” Make a list of the things Jesus says must be “in us.” Then discuss/consider how all those things on the list are related.
2) In our passage today, Jesus calls us His friends. What kind of friendship do we need to obey his commands? What is His show of friendship? What is ours?
3) What does it mean to you that God “chose you?” You were chosen, though, for a purpose: to go and produce fruit, fruit that will last. What kind of lasting fruit are you producing for Jesus?
4) What does the following statement mean to you: “At the center of the Gospel is the self-giving love of God.” Does this statement bring a new lens of understanding on how to live out your faith?
5) Jesus commands us to “love others as he has loved us.” This is a call to action. How are you loving others as Jesus commanded you to do? Are there situations where this is difficult? How do you deal with these situations?
Read James 2:14-16
1) If you had to explain the difference to someone between being saved by faith and saved by good works, what would you say?
2) “When you serve someone, you see the face of God.” What does that mean to you and have you experienced it? Give examples.
3) Is your faith a “heart faith” or a “hands on faith?” Why are both necessary and how do you achieve that balance?
4) What does genuine faith in Christ look like? Give examples.
5) What are the top three things you have learned from the “Jimmy Knows” sermon series? How will you apply them to your life?
Read James 14:13-16
1) Our scripture today focuses on planning. What kind of planner are you? Are you a “go with the flow” person, do you plan when necessary, or are you one of those folks who plan their work and work their plan in every aspect of life?
2) James talks about “arrogant schemes.” How would you define arrogance?
3) Is James saying we shouldn’t make plans for the future? What’s the point of making long-range plans if we don’t know what tomorrow will bring?
4) How does it make you feel to be compared to a “mist that appears for a while and then vanishes?” Does it make you feel insignificant, does it encourage you to live in the now, or something else?
5) If you lived by the following statement, what would change in your life and in your faith? “Life is precious so we need to value it enough to ask the Creator of Life to help us make our plans so that we can make the most out of each day, each moment, we have.”
Read James 5:13-18
1) In our sermon series, “Jimmy Knows,” the opening question is this: “Is anyone among you in trouble?” What are the troubles in your life?
2) James’ answer to the troubles that are a part of the human condition is prayer. Is prayer a part of your life? Do you regularly pray for others? Do you ask others to pray for you? Why or why not?
3) Richard Rohr says: “Prayer removes the debris of our lives and creates holy spaciousness for God. It is a form of remodeling our lives.” Do you agree with this statement? If so, how will you integrate it into your prayer life?
4) Verse fifteen of today’s passage is deeply troubling: “And the prayers offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise them up.” Most of us have suffered the loss of a loved one who was lifted up in prayer many times. How do you reconcile James’ statement with your own experience? Do you believe that sometimes healing can only happen on the other side? Do you accept there is mystery in prayer that we might never understand in this life?
5) The take away from today’s scripture is that connection to God and connection to one another begins with prayer. How will this statement change your own prayer life or will it?
Read James 13:13-18
1) In our sermon series “Jimmy Knows,” the book of James contrasts divine wisdom versus earthly wisdom and friendship with God verses friendship with the world. What do those phrases mean to you and how do you live them out?
2) James wants us to fight against being a “Lone Ranger” Christian. What is a “Lone Ranger” Christian and what are dangers of living our faith in such a way?
3) If we make heavenly wisdom the compass of our lives, then how will our faith and daily lives change?
4) What is the difference between living a holy life and being nice to everyone?
5) Why is discipleship a team sport? What are the advantages and the challenges?
Read all four of the Gospel accounts of Easter Matthew 28:1-10 Mark 16:1-8 Luke 24:1-12 John 20:1-18
When Mary Magdalene found the empty tomb, she was weeping when the Risen Lord spoke to her, but she thought he was the gardener. She only recognized Jesus when he called her by name.
1) When in your life, have you felt Jesus had been lost to you? What were the circumstances?
2) When in your life have you heard Jesus call you by name? What did it mean to you and how did it affect your faith and your life?
3) When the Risen Lord appeared to the travelers on the Emmaus Road, they did not recognize him until the breaking of the bread. When have you felt the presence of the Risen Lord during Holy Communion in the breaking of the bread and the drinking of the cup? How did you feel?
4) The resurrection of Christ means death has been defeated. How does this knowledge change the way you live your life?
5) Resurrection means death loses, hope wins, and life and love prevail. What does that mean to your faith and your life?
Read John 12:12-19
1) Palm Sunday is the first day of the last week of Jesus’ life. If today began the final week of your life, what would you do, who would you spend your time with, what would you say, and what would you change?
2) As Jesus entered Jerusalem on Palm Sunday, the crowd shouted to him: “Hosanna, hosanna!" or "Save me, save me!” Where in your life do you need Jesus to save you?
3) We cannot go to God, so God, in Jesus, came to us. What does it mean to your life that Jesus came to us in the midst of ordinary people? Give examples.
4) The Palm Sunday crowd wanted a king who would defeat the hated Roman rule and restore Israel to a nation again. But Jesus was a different kind of king and His Kingdom was nothing like the kingdoms of this world. When have you tried to reshape Jesus into a different kind of Savior in your own life? Why?
5) What is the most important faith lesson you have learned during this Lenten season? How will you practice it in your life?
Read John 19:28-30
1) Although we might prefer to turn away, why is it important for us to look at Jesus’ time on the cross?
2) In John’s Gospel, Jesus’ last words were “it is finished!” What do those words mean to God, to Jesus, to you?
3) What does it mean to you to find and define your future through Jesus?
4) Change is possible and new is possible, but it takes effort. Is there a gap between your words and your actions and how would you like that to change? Give examples.
5) During Lent, we have looked at the last week of Jesus’ life. If there was just one week left in your life, what would you say, where would you spend your time, and what would you do?
Read John 18:15-27
1) While praying in the Garden of Gethsemane, Jesus was betrayed by one of his disciples, Judas, and defended by Peter, who cut off the ear of one of the high priests’ servants. Jesus tells Peter to put away his sword and then Jesus heals the servant. What do these actions reveal about Judas, Peter, and Jesus?
2) Peter was one of Jesus’ most trusted disciples and pledged his life and allegiance to his Lord. Yet Peter denied following Jesus, denied being a disciple, and denied even knowing Jesus. When have you, with words or actions, denied following Jesus, being a disciple, or even knowing him? Give examples.
3) Peter completely blew it on that night so long ago. Yet Jesus kept loving him, forgiving him, and calling him. All of us have “blown it” as well; what does it mean to you that Jesus still loves, forgives, and calls you?
4) In what order are your priorities today and what do you need to change to realign them to how Christ calls you to live?
Read John 15: 1-8
1) Jesus tells us that He is the vine and we are the branches. In vineyards, the spot where the vine and the branch are connected is the strongest point. In light of Jesus’ words, what does that mean to you?
2) When we worship together, we are nurtured by Christ and one another. What nurtures you in worship? Give examples. In what other ways are you connected to Christ and others? Give examples.
3) In a vineyard, a branch that doesn’t bear fruit is pruned. What needs to be pruned in your life so you might bear fruit for Christ?
4) What fruit are you bearing for Christ, at home, at work, at school, in the community, and in your church? Give examples.
Read John 13:1-5; 12-17
In today’s passage, Jesus sets a shocking example to his disciples; he acts as a servant and washes their feet.
1) Why did Jesus wash the feet of his disciples? What message was he trying to send to them and to us?
2) In what ways does our society instill in us the desire to be served? As followers of Jesus, why is serving others so critical?
3) What does serving mean to you? How do you serve at home, at work, at school, at church, or in other ways?
4) What is your reaction to the following statement and does it influence your life? “Everybody can be great...because anybody can serve. You don't have to have a college degree to serve. You don't have to make your subject and verb agree to serve. You only need a heart full of grace. A soul generated by love.” -Martin Luther King
Read John 12: 1-19
1) Lent gives us 40 days to prepare for Easter by engaging in spiritual disciplines like fasting, repenting, praying, additional bible study and service. Which of these spiritual disciplines will you add to your life during Lent?
2) During the last week of Jesus’ life, Mary pours an extravagantly expensive jar of perfume on his feet. Judas questioned her decision by criticizing the cost. Do you ever echo Judas by questioning the cost of your discipleship? In what ways?
3) Lent calls for us to empty ourselves of all the reasons and rationalizations we use to limit our discipleship. Where are you holding back in your discipleship?
4) How and where do you need to be more extravagant in your devotion to Jesus?
Read Mark 9:2-9
1) The Transfiguration story is found in three Gospels: Matthew, Mark, and Luke and is referred to in 2 Peter 1:16-18. Why is this repetition significant?
2) In today’s passage, a cloud appears and God’s voice is heard saying: “This is my Son whom I love.” At what other major event in Jesus’ life did we hear these words and why are they important to our faith?
3) In the Transfiguration story, God says from the cloud, this is my Son whom I love and then adds, listen to him. How do the last three words change our faith and our lives?
4) How often in your life would things have been different if you had listened to Jesus? Give examples.
5) Sometimes we develop selective hearing and only listen to Jesus when His words are sweet or simple, but ignore His words when they are challenging or difficult. Based on this statement, what is the difference between nice people and disciples? Which one are you?
Read John 13:34-35
1) The first four questions we have studied: 'Am I being honest with myself...really?, 'What kind of story do I want my life to tell?', 'Is there a TENSION that needs my ATTENTION?' as we make decisions, and asking 'What is the wise thing to do?', are basically focused on ourselves. But today’s question, what does love require of me, is focused on others. Is this shift significant and if so, why?
2) When considering the question, 'what does love require of me?', there are three necessary components for it to be effective in your decision making process. You must ask, answer, and then act upon the question. Which of these three do you find the most challenging to integrate this question into your life?
3) In 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, Paul gives us specific examples of what love requires of us. Read the passage and consider which of these attributes you would find to be the least demanding and the most challenging. Give examples.
4) In our passage, Jesus says “...as I have you, so you must love one another.” Jesus means for us to extend the same grace, love, mercy, and forgiveness that he gives to us. If you follow Jesus’ command, what difference might you see in your relationships as a spouse, a sibling, a parent, a boss, a coach, or any relationship in your life?
5) Jesus goes on to say: “By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” This statement means love is now a verb, an identifier, and a game changer. What does that mean to you in your own faith journey?
Read Ephesians 5:15-17
1) If time machines existed and you could go back in time, what decision/s would you change? Why?
2) Human beings often use the “one more” approach to life: one more drink, one more bite, one more business trip, or one more swipe of the card. When have you made decisions based on the “one more” approach, did it add or subtract from your life?
3) Name some specific decisions that can be “not wrong,” but still “not wise?”
4) In today’s passage, Paul tells us to: “be very careful how you live, not as unwise, but as wise.” Basically Paul is telling us to ask: What is the wise thing to do? Do you believe asking this question would result in better decisions and fewer regrets in your own life? If so, why?
5) Make of a list of where you want to be relationally, professionally, financially, in one year, five years, or ten years. What wise decisions do you need to make now to achieve these goals?
Read: 1 Samuel 24:1-7
In our current sermon series, "Better Decisions, Fewer Regrets," we have learned the path to better decisions is to ask questions. Today’s question is: The Conscience Question: Is there a TENSION that needs my ATTENTION?
Have you ever had a decision, a choice, an option that for some reason just didn’t feel right to you? It gave you pause and you may not even know why you are hesitating. These are called “red flag” moments. 1) Think of some red flag moments in your life. Did you pause and pay attention to the red flag or did you ignore it? What was the end result?
2) Have you ever had a red flag moment when everyone seems to be in a hurry to make a decision and you are the only one who seems to have a problem with that choice? What happened? Did you allow fear of being judged or rejected influence your voice or did you stand your ground?
Sometimes we think our decision is a slam dunk, but the people around us (spouse, parents, adult children, friends) see your decision as a red flag moment. 3) How do you react to those opinions? Do you listen or do you ignore them?
4) In our scripture passage, David, had the perfect opportunity to kill Saul and seize the throne for himself. After all, David had been anointed king as well. Yet David listened to his gut and allowed the king to go free. Did David make the right decision? What would you have done in David’s place?
Many of you are wrestling with a decision right now. All of us need to be making good decisions in the world and nation in which we live. 5) Will you pause even when you cannot pinpoint the cause of your hesitation? Will you explore rather than ignore your conscience?
Read Genesis 37:1-11
1) Have you ever thought of your life as a story written by you one decision at a time? Knowing the power of your daily choices and decisions, what chapters would you like to change in your story?
2) In our scripture story, what decisions that Joseph made resonated in you? Which of Joseph’s decisions would have been difficult for you to make?
3) Reflect on the stories of your life. How did the decisions made by previous generations shape your own life? How are your decisions shaping the lives of your children or grandchildren?
4) The fog of emotion can get our decisions off track. When in your life have you had to press pause - not play - and how did it impact that decision?
5) Last week, we were challenged to be honest with ourselves. This week you are challenged to a second decision. I will decide a story that I am proud to tell. I will not decide anything that makes me a liar for life. Will you accept the challenge and write a better story?
Read II Chronicles 36:5-8, 11-14
1) Our past, our present, and our future are determined by our decisions and they affect others as well. What are the decisions you regret most in your life?
2) “The greatest challenge we face in making good decisions is the face we see in the mirror each day.” Do you agree or disagree with that statement? Why or why not?
3) Do you believe asking the question “Am I being honest with myself . . . really” will lead to better decisions and fewer regrets? If so, think of some examples in your own life.
4) The prophet, Jeremiah, said, “The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?” Do you believe Jeremiah’s words and if so, how will you manage your deceitful heart?
5) How can a deeper relationship with God help you make better decisions with fewer regrets?
Read John 1:1-18
We are told in our scripture passage that Jesus is the Light and the darkness can never overcome the Light.
1) What darkness in your life hides God’s Light?
2) How have you experienced the gift of Light shining in your own darkness? Give examples.
3) John’s prologue tells us that Jesus is the Light. How might it strip from us our false sense of importance to be regularly reminded that we are not the Light, but merely witness to it?
4) In The Message we are told “The Word became flesh and blood, and moved into the neighborhood.” Would your life change if Jesus lived next door to you? Why or why not?
5) What is the potential placed in you by God and how will you use it in 2021?
Read Luke 2:22-40
In today’s passage, we meet Simeon, a devout and righteousness man who had been promised by the Holy Spirit that he would not die until he had seen the Messiah. We also meet Anna, an 84 year old prophet, who lived in the Temple, who also recognized Jesus as the Messiah.
1) What can Anna and Simeon teach us about patience, faithfulness, and waiting for God’s plan to unfold? Would you be willing to wait with patience and faithfulness as these two elderly people did? Why or why not?
2) In modern culture, the elderly are not always held in high esteem. This is certainly not God’s attitude in our Gospel lesson. What can Simeon and Anna teach us about the importance of serving God regardless of our age or season in life?
We may not identify with Anna’s living arrangement in the Temple, but her commitment to the spiritual disciplines of prayer, fasting, and worship remind us that spiritual disciplines allow us to practice God’s presence in our daily life.
3) How often during your average day are you attentive to God’s presence with you? Choose the most mundane activity of your daily life and think of a way you could practice the presence of God while doing it?
4) What do you see in the birth of Jesus for your own life? What do you see in the birth of Jesus for our world?
Read Luke 1:26-37
1) Mary’s story of faithfulness has inspired believers for centuries. What inspires you in Mary’s story?
2) Elizabeth, mother of John the Baptist, seems a much better choice to bear the Holy Child. Yet God chose Mary. What does this tell us about the character of Mary? What does it tell us about the character of God?
3) Our scripture passage tells us that nothing is impossible with God. What does that mean in your own life?
4) In the midst of a pandemic, doubt, fear, and confusion, what does it mean to your life that God’s presence will continue to save us and God’s presence will always be with us?
Read Psalm 150
1) In today’s sermon, we heard the story of a young child telling her younger brother the Christmas story which included baby Jesus, Mary and Joseph, the three Magi, and of course Frosty the Snowman, Santa Claus, and eight tiny reindeer plus Rudolph. If you were telling a young child the Christmas story, what would you say?
2) Our scripture today is about praising God in assorted ways. How do you praise God? Give examples.
3) In our world today, practicing gratitude is difficult. Do you feel practicing gratitude would change the lives of others and your own life? Why or why not?
4) Psalm 150 tells us to praise and celebrate God. Do you believe the discipline of praising three times in the morning and three times at night might change your attitude and your relationship with God? Will you commit to this discipline?
Read Matthew 1:18-25
1) When you think of the Nativity story, who is the first person that pops into your mind? Is it Joseph? Why or why not?
2) Despite the passage of centuries, we have a kinship with Joseph. In our scripture, his life had been turned upside down and, this year, so have ours. What is the one thing in Joseph’s story that resonates in your heart and life?
3) God could have chosen a priest, a scribe, a rich man, or even a king to be the earthy father to his Son, but instead he chose an "ordinary Joe." What does this reveal about God and about Joseph?
4) Joseph was a righteous man who chose to treat Mary with kindness and love despite the demands of his culture. How do you treat those who have hurt or betrayed you?
5) Joseph’s life was transformed through a dream. Is your heart open to the dreams God has for your life? Are you willing to put God first as Joseph did? If so, give examples.
Read Matthew 3:1-6
1) Advent is a time of anticipation and preparation for the coming of the Christ Child into the world and our lives yet again. In this year like no other, how will you anticipate and prepare for the birth of Jesus?
2) John the Baptist used his prophetic voice to proclaim a singular message: “Repent! For the Kingdom of Heaven is near.” What does the word, repent, mean to your life?
3) Someone once said, “To repent is not to feel bad, but to think differently and therefore, to act differently.” Are you living out this kind of repentance? How?
4) Despite our illusions, there never is a perfect Christmas because we are imperfect people. How will you celebrate a Perfect-ish Christmas this year?
5) In the Kingdom of Heaven, the impossible becomes possible and gives humanity hope. Where will you find your hope in this Advent season and how will others see hope in you?
Read Psalm 100:1-5
1) Covid-19 has already taken so many of the traditions and rituals that form a web of love for our lives. How are you dealing with the necessary changes of a Thanksgiving and even Christmas in a pandemic?
2) The words of today’s psalm speak of singing, joy, gratitude, and thanksgiving. Is it difficult to find those emotions at this particular point in your life? Why or why not?
3) What does it mean to you that we are God’s people and the sheep of his pasture? Where do you find comfort in that verse?
4) How are you living out the joyful words of our Psalm reading in a world filled with fear, confusion, and grief for the life that has been taken away from you because of the pandemic?
5) No matter what your Thanksgiving may look like this year, what will you be grateful for in 2020?
Read Matthew 25:31-46
Jesus does not speak much about judges or Judgement Day, but in today’s passage we see Jesus on the throne separating the goats from the sheep or the unrighteous from the righteous.
1) Jesus used the images of sheep or goats to separate the faithful believers from pretenders and unbelievers. What is the criteria Jesus uses in our passage to determine if someone is a goat or a sheep?
2) Do you think a professed Christian can still be judged as unrighteous? Why or why not? Give examples.
3) The real evidence of a Christian is not just our beliefs, but also our actions. How well do your actions separate you from the unrighteous? What could you do to improve?
4) Judgment comes every single day in the things we do and the things we neglect to do. Do you agree with this statement? Why or why not?
5) What would happen if we treat every single person we meet as if that person was Christ: the guy at the freeway entrance asking for help, the worn out mom with two screaming children in the grocery check-out line, your friends, your family or the people you work with?
Read Matthew 25:1-13 (New International Version)
1) Before hearing the sermon on the parable of the Ten Bridesmaids, what did the story mean to you? Is it one of your favorites or one you mostly ignore? Why?
2) 2020 is a year of confusion, upheaval and unanswered questions; it was a time of confusions, upheaval, and unanswered questions when Jesus told this parable. Why do you think Jesus used a story about five wise bridesmaids who had extra oil and five foolish bridesmaids who ran out of oil? What point was Jesus trying to make to his listeners then and now?
3) Which set of bridesmaids do you most identify with: the wise or the foolish?
4) There were three main points in the sermon: 1. The Bridegroom intends to return. 2. No one knows when the return will happen. 3. Plan for a long wait or a short wait. Discuss these points and what they mean to your life now.
5) We must be prepared for Christ’s return spiritually, mentally, and physically. Do you feel prepared in those three areas? What else could you do to get ready?
Read Revelation 7:9-17
1) What is your definition of a saint?
2) John Wesley’s favorite Sunday of the Christian year was All Saints Sunday. It reminded him that we all stand in a great chain of witnesses. What does it mean to you that you stand with all who have come before you and all who will come after you? Does it influence your faith life?
3) Sainthood is a lifestyle where you put Christ first, take the teachings of Jesus seriously, and live counter to our culture. Who have been the saints of your life? How did their influence change you?
4) In today’s scripture reading, we are told that those we love that have passed into an eternal home where there will be no hunger, thirst, or pain and God will wipe away every tear. Do you take comfort in this promise both personally and for those who have gone before you? Why?
5) Saints are not an elite group; any of us could be a saint if we live like Jesus. Do you think you are a saint in someone’s life? If not, why not?
Read Philippians 4:10-20
1) Today is the final Sunday discussing Generosity through the Generations. What have you learned during this series and how has it changed your attitude towards giving?
2) Have you ever considered that your financial giving to God through the church is a way to grow in your faith? If so, give examples.
3) Your giving today is also giving to the future and will benefit people you may never meet. What does it mean to you that your financial pledge will help people you do not know, meet Jesus?
4) Every time you give on-line, write a check and put it in the mail or in the drop box at the office entrance, or place your gift in the offering plate, you are giving pleasure to the One who lived, loved, taught, died and rose again. Does this statement give you new insight into your pledge to God’s church?
5) The connecting thread in this series has been “Why Should I Give?” How would you answer that question?
Read II Corinthians 9:6-8
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The central theme of today’s sermon is generosity. Why is generosity sometimes challenging?
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Why does Paul tell us that “God loves a cheerful giver?” Is there a spiritual component in this message?
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Do you believe the biblical guidance of a tithe (10% of income) is a good discipline to follow? Why or why not?
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In a time of uncertainty, do you struggle with generosity because of fear, worry, or confusion?
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Why is generosity to God through giving to the church in the past, in the present, and in the future so critical? Do you feel you are living out God’s call to be generous?
Read 1 Peter 4:7-11
When we gather as the community of God, whether it is in the Sanctuary, Tyson Hall, On-line, or Outdoor worship, everything we do is part of how we worship God.
1) Name some of the components of worship that allow us to glorify and praise God.
2) Is giving a part of how we worship God? Why or why not?
3) Have you ever considered how the generosity of previous generations built a dream you now enjoy? What does that mean to you as a person of faith?
4) If you could have a conversation with one of the founding members of our church, what would you say to them?
5) As followers of Christ, we are called to use our time, our talents, and our treasure to build God’s Kingdom. Are you doing these things in gratitude and praise? How could you do them better?
Read Philippians 3:4-14
1) What are some moments in the history of our country and of the world when we have come together in a powerful way? Give examples.
2) How has Covid-19 connected our world in ways we had never imagined? Give examples.
3) In verses 7-8, Paul tells us that his achievements and his heritage were worthless compared to knowing Christ. How have you seen placing confidence in self rather than Christ affect your relationship with Christ?
4) What would you need to change in your life to place all your confidence in Christ instead of self?
5) Due to the pandemic, our church is receiving the bread of heaven and the cup of salvation in various ways: in our homes, in outdoor worship, and also inside our worship spaces. Despite the separations, do you still feel connected with the body of Christ at Vestavia Hills UMC? Why?
6) On World Communion Sunday, Christians are gathering around the Lord’s Table in a great wave sweeping around the world. Does this give you hope and if so, why?
Read Luke 28-36
In this 3-week sermon series, Proceed with Caution, the stories and words of Jesus have guided us into a new way of dealing with our noisy and chaotic world.
1) In what ways have you learned to tune out the negative noise of your life? Give an example. In what ways have you learned to tame your tongue? Give an example.
2) In the Transfiguration story, God tells us to “listen to Him (Jesus).” Why do we sometimes overlook this command when studying this story?
3) What changes can you implement in your life that will allow you to “tune in” or listen more closely to Jesus?
4) How would your life be different, if you listened to Jesus before you act, speak, text, or click on the send icon?
5) How would your life be different if you not only listened more closely to Jesus, but also to the people in your life?
This is the third and final of our three video discussions related to our sermon series "Proceed with Caution." In this video, Bill Brunson is hosted by Kipp McClurg as they discuss her upcoming sermon "Proceed with Caution - Tune In."
1) We are living in an unpredictable world and do not know what the next moment might bring. How does this make you feel and what coping skills do you use to deal with this reality?
Read Matthew 16: 21-23
2) Peter tended to talk first and think later. Have you ever been guilty with the same approach? How have you tried to talk less and listen more?
3) How many times in your life would Jesus have looked at you and said, “Get behind me Satan. You are a stumbling block to me; your mind is on earthly things?” Reflect on these moments and how you can guard against them.
Read James 3:2-5
4) There’s an old saying “Sticks and stones may break my bones, words can never hurt me.” Is this true? If so, what influence does it have on your behavior?
5) What positive words do your friends and acquaintances need to hear from you this week? How can you remember to say these things?
Read John 8:3-11
6) Do you believe love is always stronger than words? Give some examples from scripture or your own life.
7) Where are the places in your life where you need to talk less and love more?
This is the second of three video discussions related to our sermon series "Proceed with Caution." In this video, Kipp McClurg is hosted by Sherry Harris as they discuss her upcoming sermon "Proceed with Caution - Talk Less."
Read John 6: 14-15
1) Do you believe we are all living in the “kingdom of noise?” If so, name the sources of noise in your life?
2) Our scripture shows Jesus fleeing from the noise of the crowd. When do you step away from the noise of your life and how do you accomplish it?
3) What does clarity mean to you? Why do you need it?
4) What could you eliminate from the noise in your life to find breathing space and clarity?
This is the first of three video discussions related to our sermon series "Proceed with Caution." In this video, Sherry Harris is hosted by Kipp McClurg as they discuss her upcoming sermon "Proceed with Caution - Tune Out."
Read Matthew 5:13-16
• What do we normally think it means to be the “salt” of the earth”? Describe someone who is considered to be the “salt of the earth”. What does Jesus mean when he says to be the “salt of the earth”?
• What does Jesus’ comment about salt that has “lost its taste” seem to refer to? What is Jesus warning his listeners then and now against?
• What do we normally think it means to be “the light of the world”? What does this “light” seem to refer to? What does it mean to “let it shine before others”?
• Jesus uses the images of a city on a hill and a lamp on a lampstand deliberately. What do those two illustrations add to our understanding of what it means to be the “light of the world”.
• What “good works” is Jesus talking about in verse 16? List some examples.
Read Matthew 5:9-11
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After reading the final three beatitude, do you agree with the statement “Being a Christian is not for sissies?” Why or why not?
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Labels like gender, political affiliation, relationships, or even our favorite football team describe who we are. What are some of the labels that define you?
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Do your actions, words, and even social posts reflect your choice to follow Christ? Why or why not?
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Jesus was a barrier breaker and a bridge builder. Can you think of times in scripture when you saw Jesus do those things? Are you a barrier breaker and a bridge builder? Give examples.
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Where can your true identify be found?
Read Matthew 5:6-8
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As we continue our sermon series of the Beatitudes, what does this quote mean to you? "Let the things most important to God be the most important things to you." Are you living your life based on this idea? If so, in what areas of your life do you need to improve?
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To hunger and thirst for righteousness is to allow God’s will to rule in us. Where in your life is God’s will in charge? Where in your life do you need to allow God’s will to rule?
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Blessed are the merciful for they will receive mercy. Mercy is what we receive when we do not deserve it. When have you received mercy in your life? How did it make you feel? When have you offered someone else mercy? When have you offered judgment instead of mercy to someone?
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Blessed are the pure in heart for they will see God. Far too often we clutter up our hearts with all the wrong things: anger, an unwillingness to forgive, and our drive for more and more material possessions. If our hearts are cluttered with too many other things, there is no room for God. What do you need to “declutter” in your heart to allow more room for God? Is your heart too cluttered to see what God is doing in the world so you can join Him?
1) What does it mean to you to be blessed? Name some examples. A different translation of the Greek word, blessed, can also be happy. What does it mean to you to be happy? Name some examples. Is there a difference between being blessed and being happy?
2) Happy are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. This sounds counter to our culture, but to be poor in spirit teaches us to acknowledge the pretense in our lives and how we are often not honest with ourselves. We are all broken. In what places in your life are you poor in spirit? How will you allow God to work in those broken places?
3) Happy are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. Life is full of all kinds of mourning, but it is more than a death. Mourning can be moving to a new city, loss of a job, even a retirement. Where are the sorrows in your life and how will you make space for God to comfort and heal you?
4 ) Happy are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. This beatitude makes little sense in a world that rewards power. Yet God calls us to look at life in a new way and tells us to work from a place of humility. Where are the prideful places in your life? Where are the places of humility? How will you allow God the space to work so you will have a kingdom life of happiness?
1) John Wesley, the founder of our denomination, urged Methodists to take Holy Communion as often as possible. Why do you think he held that viewpoint? Do you share his attitude?
2) Jesus prayed that all his disciples (that means us) may be as one. We are living in a divided, divisive, and tumultuous time in our history as Americans. What can you do to build bridges and encourage oneness in today’s world? Give examples.
3) The Lord’s Table is where the entire body of Christ comes together. What does this mean to you?
4) What do you need to put away in your life to be as one in the body of Christ as you come to the Lord’s Table. Anger? Resentment? Disappointment? Fear? Confusion? Lack of trust?
Read Luke 15:11-32
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What is this story about? Money? Wild living? Forgiving? Stubbornness? Forgiveness? Anger?
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Do you see yourself as any of the characters in this story? Which one? Why do you relate with that specific character? What does that tell you about yourself?
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How would we describe the behavior of the younger son in the story? Do you know anyone who has behaved this way in your own life or experience? What is your impression of that person?
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How would we describe the behavior of the father in the story? Do you know anyone who has behaved this way in your own life or experience? What is your impression of that person?
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How would we describe the behavior of the older son in the story? Do you know anyone who has behaved this way in your own life or experience? What is your impression of that person?
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How do our own life experiences and practical values seem to influence our understanding of what is going on in this story that Jesus tells?
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When Peter asked Jesus how many times we should forgive someone, he suggested 7 times. Jesus responds with 77 times or 7 times 70 (depending on your translation). Why did Peter set the bar so low for forgiveness? Have you ever done the same?
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Do you believe God’s forgiveness is limitless or limited, unconditional or conditional? How will your answer affect your own faith life?
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In today’s parable, the unforgiving servant accepted the King’s forgiveness, but then refused to forgive someone else. Has this ever happened in your life?
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Someone once said, “refusing to forgive someone is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.” Do you agree and have you ever experienced this in your own life?
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Forgiveness takes practice. Where are you practicing forgiveness in your own life? Where in your life are you refusing to forgive?
Read Matthew 25:14-30 for a better understanding of the Parable of the Talents before you answer the following questions.
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Does knowing that the Parable of the Talents was given in the Temple and was His next to last teaching make a difference in how you view the story?
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What gives power to final words? This parable is among Jesus’ final words. Does knowing the parable is among Jesus’ final words make you pay more attention to the story?
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There are three servants in the parable. Two doubled the money entrusted to them by their Master. One servant buried his treasure in the ground. Which servant do you most identify with? Why?
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What are some ways we can “dig a hole in the ground” and put in it the talents God has entrusted to us?
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Based on this parable, what changes does Jesus want you to make in your life so you will hear the words, “Well done good and faithful servant?”
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Does knowing the Priest and the Levite had legitimate religious reasons for ignoring the injured man, change your opinion of their actions? Why or why not?
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The Jews and the Samaritans despised one another in our parable today. Can you think of modern-day examples of groups who also despise one another. What is their rationale?
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What is your definition of neighbor and how does it affect your understanding of the Parable of the Good Samaritan?
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Do you believe God still speaks through “prophets” today? If so, give an example.
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As we celebrate our Independence Day, what freedoms do you value the most?
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In Philippians 3:17-20, Paul says the Philippians’ citizenship is in heaven. What is the significance of that statement?
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What does it mean to be focused on “earthly things?” What is different about someone who is focused on Jesus?
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How can you allow the rule and reign of God in your life?
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How can you help bring the kingdom of God into our world even now? Give examples.
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In Matthew 6: 9-14, Jesus tells us how to pray by using the Lord’s Prayer. Does the Lord’s Prayer have a different significance to you than other prayers because of its origin?
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In our congregation, our children lead us in the Lord’s Prayer each week. Why is it important for the children to lead us in the Lord’s Prayer? Why is it important for us to hear the children lead the Lord’s Prayer?
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In the Lord’s Prayer, we pray, “thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven”. What do those words mean to you and how do they affect your life?
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How do you help build God’s kingdom on earth right here and right now? Give examples.
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In today’s passage (Matthew 7:13-14), what does the narrow gate represent and what makes the narrow way so difficult?
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What does the broad way symbolize? What makes it so easy and why do so many choose it?
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Why would someone who says, “Lord, Lord,” not enter the Kingdom of Heaven?
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What is the will of the Father and how do we put it into practice?
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In today’s scripture passage, what is Jesus trying to teach us about discipleship?
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Each time we pray the Lord’s Prayer, we pray “thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.” What do those words mean to you.
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When does the Kingdom of God come? Is it already here, yet to come, or somehow both?
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Jesus said God’s Kingdom is already among you? What does that look like? Give specific examples.
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How and why are Christians to live in the Kingdom of God today?
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In today’s sermon (Matthew 13:31-33), Jesus teaches the parables of the mustard seed and the parable of yeast mixed into dough. Why do you think Jesus used these ordinary examples?
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The Kingdom of God is a future hope, but it is also present with us. What are some of the ways you have seen the Kingdom of God in action in the world and in your life?
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When a small amount of yeast is mixed into a large amount of flour, transformation occurs. Where in your life do you need to mix in the Kingdom of God?
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The tiny mustard seed grows into a large plant that produces many more seeds. In what situation, do you need to plant the Kingdom of God in your own life?
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What are you waiting on or anticipating in your life now? Has this changed since the COVID-19 Pandemic?
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Pentecost is considered the “birthday” of the church. When is your “faith birthday?” Was it a specific moment in time or a gradual realization?
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On the eve of Jesus’ betrayal and arrest, he promised his followers he would send the Paraclete/Counselor/Comforter/Advocate that would be with them forever. Jesus kept his promise and the Holy Spirit arrived with a mighty wind and tongues of fire. What does it mean to you that God always keeps his promises?
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The Paraclete or Holy Spirit literally means “called to one’s side.” How do you feel knowing that the Holy Spirit is by your side in life? Does it make a difference in how you live?
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When have you most powerfully felt the power of the Holy Spirit in your life? What changes occurred?
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In the midst of the COVID-19 pandemic, we all know what it means to keep alert, but what does it mean in our faith life to keep alert?
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When have you stood firm in your faith and what happened? What happens when we do not stand firm as Paul admonishes us to do?
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We are all living in widely uncertain times. How has your faith allowed you to be strong and courageous despite the anxiety, confusion and fear?
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How would your life and our world be different if everything we did was done in love?
1) In this week’s sermon based on Romans 8:31-38, we hear that Jesus, himself, who sits on the right hand of God, will intercede for us. What does that mean to you in both the challenges and celebrations of your life? How would you ask Jesus to pray for you today?
2) As Methodists, we sing what we believe. Pastor Bill said the opening lines of a simple, yet profound song can be life-changing. What do the following lyrics mean to you and how have they changed your life? “Jesus loves me this I know, for the Bible tells me so.”
3) Pastor Bill also said other lyrics of this same song are life-giving. What do the following lyrics mean to you and what have they given to your life? “Little ones to him belong, we are weak, but He is strong.”
4) Knowing that we find our strength in Jesus Christ, what improvements can happen in your life, our community, and our world? Relying on Christ’s strength, how can you improve life today?
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In our sermon scripture (2 Chronicles 20:1-17), King Jehosephat is facing overwhelming odds on multiple fronts and the future looks dire. When have you felt overwhelmed during the Covid-19 pandemic and how did you react?
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One of the catch phrases during Sheltering in Place was “we are all in this together.” Where have you see this phrase in action? How has our church put it into action? How have you personally put “we are all in this together” in action?
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In his time of greatest need, King Jehosephat turned to God for guidance. How have you turned to God during the Covid-19 pandemic?
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What is the most useful lesson you have learned from this ancient king who loved and trusted in his Lord?
1) In today’s sermon (Numbers 21:5-9), the Hebrew people are in the wilderness and begin to whine and complain. They were looking back and only remembering the good parts. Unfortunately it took being snake bit to give them clarity. When have you been in the wilderness looking back and only remembering the good parts? What did it take to give you clarity?
2) The snakes of our lives force us to look down and think hard. Has this “new normal” in which we find ourselves, forced you to ask some tough questions? Have you used this time as an opportunity to take stock of your life?
3) Snakes can also cause us to look back and be thankful. What are the things that you are thankful for in your life? When you look back and focus on the good, not the bad, does it change your perspective and your attitude?
4) Snakes also help us to look up. In John 3:14-16, Jesus referred back to our wilderness story. How does this passage help us understand Jesus’ mission?
5) What does it mean to you personally knowing that Jesus can and will give you a better life?
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“Sitting in the catbird’s seat” is a phrase that means life is going well and the future looks bright. David was certainly sitting in the “catbird’s seat.” He was the next anointed king of Israel, best friends with King Saul’s son, Jonathan, and had achieved success in battle. Yet suddenly David’s entire life and future was cut out from under him. Do you feel empathy with David’s situation? What do you share in common with him?
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Covid-19 has taken so much away from us; our sense of control, our work, our ability to plan for the future, even our lives. What are some of the times you and your family have lost?
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Why is it important to allow ourselves to experience appropriate emotions like shock, fear, isolation, depression, and a sense of powerlessness in this time of uncertainty?
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We live in a driven culture where success is the accomplishment we seek. But now holding on and simply surviving is an accomplishment. What does holding on and survival look like in your life and the life of your family?
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Pastor Kipp said, “God’s surprises are sometimes more effective than our plans?” What surprises has God put into your life? What lessons have you learned?
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How do we extend grace to ourselves and to others in this new normal?
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Bill mentioned the “new normal” that all of us are facing. We didn’t ask for it; we didn’t vote for it, yet here it is. What does the “new normal” mean to you?
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So much of the web of our lives has been taken away in this “new normal.” But what has the “new normal” given to you? Was it something unexpected and would you like to hold on to it?
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In Psalm 137, the people were in exile in Babylon and here is their lament: “By the rivers of Babylon, we sat down and wept for we remembered Zion. How can we sing the songs of the Lord while in a foreign land?” How do we as individuals and as a church sing songs of hope in this time of confusion and uncertainty? Give examples.
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We hear in Jeremiah 29:11 these words: “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” What does this scripture mean to you viewed through the lens of this “new normal” in which we all live?
Here is the link to the "Silent Night/7pm News" by Simon & Garfunkel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WgYFXCUEL4Y