Unfriendly Black Hottie: Recent Episodes

Unfriendly Black Hottie

Hi. I’m Anneshirley. A black feminist, first generation Americana. I hope you learn something here, cause we’ll be discussing all things.

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i want to be clear that being a codependent person does not out you to be bad, but we have to be honest

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do men really prefer ride or die chicks

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Anneshirley discusses why the genders settle.

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When is it time to leave a situetionship? There’s a universal way of knowing

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This week let’s talk about the myths of being worthy because you’re single

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how to tell when they’re faking intimacy?

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How do we manage our anxiousness and need for control?

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Let’s explore how we have allowed trauma to dictate our dating experiences

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Season 5 close. Let’s unpack our fear of intimacy.

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All relationships that lack balance, fail.

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Let’s talk about the impact of being obligation and autonomy

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Let’s talk about why being strong is outdated

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Let’s talk about how the push and pull dynamic is a form of self sabotage

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In this weeks episode, we’re discussing how to tell if you’re just wasting your time in the honeymoon stage

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Hey y’all! In this weeks episode we discuss why folks are commitment phobic and how to identify them so you don’t waste your time


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It’s the season 5 opener !!! Let’s talk. Why do we have trust issues?

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Hey! In this weeks episode we call out millennial dating and how situationhips are just exploitation


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This weeks' episode is looking at the ways you can center yourself when youre going through a breakup

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Have you ever dealt with someone not giving you the same energy you’re giving them? Here’s the tea

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In this episode we talk about attachment styles and how they influence love

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Let’s talk about why men don’t like women who want them

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Should you be patient with men who don’t have it together?

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Let’s talk about how monogamous relationships aren’t for everyone.

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Did you miss the signs that this was just potential?


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Let’s talk about STI MYTHS

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Let’s talk about love bombing. Can you identify when they’re interested?


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HAPPY NEW YEAR let’s talk about how we destroy our boundaries in order to avoid being abandoned

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Can dating multiple people at once save you from cheating?

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YOU MUST BELIEVE IN YOU


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In this episode we talk about how this manipulative tactic is the core of a lot of issues

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This is our first guest speaker on our first episode of season 3, and we talk about how possession and love do not co-exist

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Being hypercritical is a power move.


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Let’s explore why we can’t help but be drawn to certain people!


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Let’s talk about how communication works with narcissistic folks.

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This episode discusses how cognitive dissonance forces you to acclimate to poor thinking patterns.

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Sex is the stimulation of your genitalia for orgasm.

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The way we think can create self sabotaging patterns.

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In fact, even when you do everything to be there for them, it doesn’t matter.

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Don't give up

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Let’s have a frank talk about how mental illness can effect our relationships.

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Standards

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Power dynamics are cyclical.

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We’re taught it we close our legs, wait until marriage and don’t post on Instagram we’re getting married. But that’s not always the case?


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Only you are responsible for your self esteem.

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We need to break down the truth.


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Quickly quipping about how unions evolve over time


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Your childhood is your biggest influence

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Is there such thing as being “too independent”?


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Is it better to be honest with a cheating dude, or be the one in the dark about the cheating?

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Stay single for as long as you can.


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What is emotional cheating?

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When dating, be aware of emotional energy vampires