3 countries. 2 brown girls. 1 podcast.
Late 20s which means we're culturally expired, but that won't stop us from our constant unscripted musings! Join us on this nomadic journey and be entertained. We are basically just going to be having regular conversations about books, shows, mental health and the weird social norms and traditions we grew up with. Meet Meral and Saman as your guides on this insane roller coaster! Being a Pakistani expat has never been cooler ;)
Dear Coconuts,
With great power comes great responsibility. Therefore you have been warned, this episode is nothing but spoilers and discussing details we loved or not liked very much in all the Spider-Man movies! Only listen to this if you have already watched Spider-Man: No Way Home! There are moments where your jaw may drop with what Meral and Saman have said. We tried to avoid stating the ending but it sort of comes out! This episode has banter, laughs, sadness, dark humor, and salutes. Listen at your own risk!
PS. Anarkali has been lost into the Spiderverse.
Time Stamps:
0:00 - 5:50 - Catching up and Dubai's Expo
5:50 - 7:40 - How Spider-man introduced to our lives!
7:40 - 40:20 - Everything that is Spider-Man: Toby, Andrew, and Tom!
40:20 - 52:00 - Life lessons we got!
52:00 - 57:35 - Saman and Meral have blond moments
57:35 - 59:25 - What's in our cups!
Love,
Saman and Meral
Dear Coconuts
This has been a year for the books, in this new dystopian world we were currently living in, we had been reeling from the after effects of the first few waves of Coronavirus only to find out that its still mutating and we may have another lockdown. Went through environmental crises, important pop culture moments and so much more. Through it all, with all the noise outside we all did the best we could, spent time learning about ourselves such as the fact that we are stronger than we thought. Here's to hoping that 2022 will be a bit more gentle on our souls and on the planet!
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Love,
Saman and Meral
Dear Coconuts,
It is a truth universally known that Meral is obsessed with The Umbrella Academy. In this episode, we talk about everything we loved about the show in its Netflix production of Season 1. Needless to say, this episode is sprinkled with spoilers so if you have not watched the season yet, do not listen to this! Gerard Way's comic book series has touched upon themes that tug on our adult heartstrings and this show is the perfect amount of chaos, cynism, love, and heroism!
The podcast by Robert Sheehan (Klaus), Tom Hopper (Luther), and Byron Knight is The Earth Locker Podcast (@theearthlocker on Instagram)
PS. This was made with a lot of love and control to fit within an hour! We hope you enjoy it! our PSA is our request you watch it!
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Love,
Saman and Meral
Dear Coconuts,
In this episode, we discuss the painfully heartbreaking story of a woman who faced many difficulties in her life but managed to maintain her dignity through it all. In Khaled Hosseini's A thousand Splendid Suns we are introduced to Marium, who has a stoic personality that shows us we can face anything and no matter how hard it gets always persevere. Khaled Hosseini also shows us the beauty of a war-ravaged Afghanistan, the colors of the country, the strength of the common man and women, and the overall resilience of the people. It's a gorgeously written book and we recommend it to all our coconuts!
P.S. This episode is loaded with spoilers. You've been warned!
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Love,
Saman and Meral
Dear Coconuts,
Mean Girls in its time was revolutionary, but what no one could have predicted was how important it will continue you be in the future. This movie not only shows us the cruel face of narcissism but also allowing us to appreciate how multidimensional humans really are. When you're young you are quick to see Regina as the main antagonist but as we get older we can appreciate that she was a victim of her circumstances too, with a superficial and childish mother, and a lot of pent-up anger. We are also able to appreciate some of the similar manipulation tactics used by Regina by Janice too. Overall, this movie was groundbreaking, providing a generation with amazing quotes such as "OMG Karen you can't just ask people why they're white"! LOL! The movie shows us what can happen if women work against each other, and how different it would be if they came together and didn't try to tear each other down. There would be peace.
PS. Check out Meral being very passive-aggressive over her drain water iced coffee.
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Love,
Saman and Meral
Dear Coconuts,
When we say we missed y'all we really mean it!! We're bacckkkk from our unscheduled summer hiatus. A lot has happened since then so get ready for a whirlwind of stories. Hopefully these stories can reiterate that us humans are capable of anything, with a little bit of perseverance, some tears and a lot of prayers.
Tell us how your summer has been, we will be active on social media again, and will be reading everything, so tell us how you've been, or how you have dealt with a difficult situation?
P.s: Saman forgot to take my AirPods off so my voice might be a but muffled ( I'm sorry ) ill be careful next time! Also at 33min and then again at 40 mins the music in the background is an ice cream truck pls ignore it
LOVE YOU ALL
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Love,
Saman and Meral
Hey Coconuts!
We had an absolute blast watching Bo Burnham’s Inside. It’s on Netflix! Give it a look see and tell us what you think! In this episode we share our take on Bo’s insight of the world! One of the things we really learnt was that we don't have to have opinions about everything under the sun nor should we demand opinions from 'our influencers' because at the end of the day we are all students.
PS. Meral’s mic was stolen by Anarkali which is why she sounds like she’s underwater. Also Juneteenth is banned in some states not countries!
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Love,
Saman and Meral
Hey Coconuts,
Recording this episode was a lot of fun, we went down a wormhole of how authentic inside out is to the actual way us humans see the world, and how our brains work. We had a chance to revisit our love for the star of the movie "Bing Bong", and our own imaginary friends whom we may have forgotten. This movie has reconfirmed the concept of toxic positivity for us. To live a good and content life you should be able to feel all emotions and acknowledge them, even if that means having a good cry from time to time. That will only make you appreciate Joy more.
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Love,
Saman and Meral
Hey Coconuts!
We are back!!! And decided to talk about one of our favorite trilogies: The Hunger Games! Anyone who knows the books and movies while being aware of the news knows that drawing parallels is an easy feat. We hope you enjoy what we discussed and there’s definitely a lot more that can be said about the books and movies. We tried to keep it a little light-hearted as we didn’t want to be Debby Downers!
PS. Anarkali is still in season break but reminded us of her presence by popping up every now and then.
May the odds be ever in your favor!
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Love,
Saman and Meral
Hey,
This episode is a bit different, its only talking about the vile events that have been taking place. We will also discuss and try to educate ourselves and our friends about the terminology being used. And lastly urge everyone to pray for Palestine and also lets not forgot that very real lives are being lost and a lot of them are children.
Also note well that after we finished recording we also heard that the only Covid centre and lab in Gaza was destroyed in an airstrike.
P.S: Part of our goal is that you have answers ready for people who don't understand what's going on, and are saying this is "too complex" of an issue for them to speak on, well we've provided you with a timeline you can explain it to them using that.
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Love,
Saman and Meral
Hey Coconuts,
There were just so many things we wanted to talk about that we ended up talking about everything. Hopefully the time stamps will help here lol. As we bring Ramadan to a close and celebrate Eid we discussed how the month was for us overall, the few distractions that we had while fasting namely Neflix and the News. We talk about Seaspiracy, an eye opening documentary about the fishing industry ( which could be synonymous with a mafia ). We commented about Disney's movie Soul which was a very cute introspective film about being grateful. And finally for some light hearted comedy we watched Veep which was hilariously quite an accurate juxtaposition of what the US government is actually like.
P.s: Since a lot of things happened during and after Eid we figured this needs a followup, so stay tuned for part 2.
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Love,
Saman and Meral
Hey Coconuts!
MAY THE FOURTH BE WITH YOU!
It is official "Star Wars day" today and we hope the force is with you and keeping you all well! On this very special day for many worldwide and in a galaxy far, far away we are talking about some of our favorite things in Star Wars! Keep in mind that the journey of Star Wars spans 67 years, we did not talk about every single aspect. However, we talked about how Star Wars was an integral part of not only our childhood but our adult life too!
PS. Meral is delirious. Anarkali is nowhere the be found! Saman loves Anakin!
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Love,
Saman and Meral
Hey Coconuts,
This week we discuss Bollywood's Main Hoon Na, which was not only an instant hit when it first came out in 2004, but managed to continue being successful well into present day. This movie has everything, themes that are still very relevant to society, such as family, loyalty and most importantly love. The movie also revolves around the concept of mending the relationship between Pakistan and India which was awesome to see, and if that hasn't sold you to this movie maybe the insane action sequences that defy all laws of gravity will.
P.S: Anarkali couldn't control her excitement throughout this recording, she's a huge Shahrukh Khan fan too.
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Love,
Saman and Meral
Hey Coconuts,
We hope you enjoy our discussion on My Sister's Keeper and some of the ethical questions it raised. We loved this book! It opened doors for people to have conversations on very difficult topics such as parenting, emancipation and the cost of love. One of the conclusions we had was that morals do not necessarily always support ethics. In the case of Anna, it was ethical for her to be an organ donor to Kate, but morally it was wrong as it robbed Anna of a life and childhood.
PS. We acknowledge we aren't mothers but we've learnt about different parenting styles from several mediums, to form an educated opinion! LOL. Anarkali played around with Saman's audio by placing her hand on the mic. We should talk to her and file for emancipation!
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Love,
Saman and Meral
Hey coconuts,
Ramadan Mubarak!! As you all can probably tell from our instagram page we are super excited for this month. Ramadan is a beautiful time of refection and reconnecting with your faith, whilst leaving some of the worldly distractions behind. In this episode we discuss what this month means to us and also give you guys an insight of our previous ramadan spent together in Pakistan. We also discuss the ups and downs of having a twitter account.
P.S: Should Saman make a tiktokk, Should we murder Anarkali ?
TW: We do go into details about getting sick during Ramadan :P
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Love
Saman and Meral
Hey Coconuts!
In this installment we talk about WandaVision! We’re both avid fans of the Marvel Cinematic Universe! We use references from the movies and comics in our daily lives. Some of the things we really enjoyed that WandaVision did so brilliantly was display the different ways a person can grieve their loss, and how they come to accept their new life, and understand themselves better. Also the writers did a great job writing for vision, some of the statements he made were so profound that it takes more then one watch to appreciate them all.
PS. Anarkali our lovely Podcast ghost didn’t make much of an appearance but Meral had a bit of a headache which is why it may sound like she’s got scrambled egg for brains! Also Meral meant to say Regina Mills from Once Upon a Time not Regina George.
Also It goes without saying that there are several spoilers!
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Love,
Saman and Meral
Hey coconuts,
In this instalment we go over the iconic novel written by Louisa May Alcott in the 1800s. Surprisingly though she managed to capture the trials of womanhood and coming of age so well, that the story still rings true in 2021. In this world we hear the tale of 4 sisters, each in her own way a strong and resilient. We learn about a mother or a matriarch who manages to keep her daughters motivated and humble throughout their lives. A story about brilliant little women.
P.s The personality Meral mentions is "Aamna Isani" from Something Haute.
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Love,
Saman and Meral
Hey Coconuts!
We took a different turn in our tenth episode. It’s a little tribute to Pakistan in honor of Pakistan Day! We discuss the Resolution for Pakistan, the things we love about the work some citizens are doing, and our celebrity run ins. Obviously there’s so much more to say about the good that’s being worked towards and a lot to say on the negative aspects too. Even though everything has its pros and cons we’re more focused on the pros today.
PS. Even though Anarkali didn’t make an appearance today. The Internet was not really a fan of us enjoying our podcast ghost-free time. So bear with us if it feels a little rushed? Hehe
Time Stamps:
0:00 - 12:38 Catching up, ASOS and SheIn
12:39 - 24:00 Pakistan Day History
24:00 - 29:00 Saima Haq
29:00 - 36:40 Edhi and his work
36:40 - 47:00 Sabeen Mohammad and T2F
47:00 - 50:20 Saman meets Atif Aslam
50:20 - 53:50 Mahira Khan
53:50 - 1h Random bumps into with celebrities
1h - 1h03 Pakistani Fashion
1h03 - 1h10 Kami Sid, DOW Hospital Clientele, Need for Inclusivity
1h10 - 1h14 Riz Ahmed and the Riz Test
1h14 - 1h19 Talks on more NGOs in Pakistan, Where to donate
1h19 - 1h24 Wrap up and our tea!
Love,
Saman and Meral
Hey coconuts,
We're backkk!!! To the lovely people that are still following us THANK YOU! So we decided to start off with something that is very near and dear to us, and that is the epidemic of body shamming, bullying, and perpetuating impossible narratives about what is considered beautiful. Research has shown that the percentage of young boys and girls, getting cosmetic procedures has sky rocketed, so in this episode we discuss the damaging role that social media, TV and movies play, and the lasting effects it can have, in the form of eating disorders and other mental health illnesses.
P.S The ghost has not left the building, matter in fact it has gotten louder so we decided to name it.. Anarkali and she can be a total pill sometimes so just bear with her. She's opinionated.
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00:00 - 4:32 Welcome back! + Where we see us
4:32 - 8:36 Foster care, Careers and Dr. House
8:36 - 13:20 Body Dysmorphia and Impossible Standards
13:20 - 15:22 Matt McGorry
15:22 - 22:26 Media + Peoples criticism
22:26 - 26:13 How we’re conditioned
26:13 - 29:48 Pretty little things
29:48 - 35:36 Meral’s students
35:36 - 45:15 Body Positivity Movement
45:15 - 51:50 Sisters
51:50 - 56:26 Faiza Saleem
56:26 - 1h04 Eating disorders
1h04 - 1h09 Our drinks
Love,
Saman and Meral
Hey coconuts,
Welcome to the 8th instalment of Unscripted Musings, we will be talking about a past queen and a present day queen, both these women are self made and role models. Through their work they have uplifted millions and millions of women. Madame CJ Walker was one of the first women to give employment to over 3000 women of colour. While Taylor Swift has a different kind of impact, she has allowed women to feel seen and has defined all emotions around love and friendship with the power of her pen. We Stan these queens.
P.S: We will see you in 2 weeks instead of one, for our season 2 premiere.
Time stamps
00:00 - 3:50 Our week
3:50 - 12:11 Going to the gym
12:11 - 20:45 Madame CJ Walkers backstory
20:45 - 29:00 About the Netflix show and what made CJ tick
29:00 - 37:30 What’s on Merals mind + the “My company” conundrum
37:30 - 41:00 A woman’s role + the minute impact of Melenia trump
41:00 - 45:00 Taylor Swift and a story about our pets
45:00 - 54:00 Ms Americana documentary
54:00 - 1h:00 Swift Sexual Harassment Case
1h:00 - 1h:03 Scooter Braun debacle
1h:03 - 1h07 Meme + Announcment
End of season 1
Love,
Saman and Meral
Hey Coconuts,
In this episode we continue with our theme of February being Black History Month. We take a trip to Harlem '89 to discuss and learn more about the atrocities that befell the Central Park Five now known as the Exonerated Five. Reeling from all of this we also watched Malcolm and Marie thinking it would be a cute story of romance but were shocked to learn that it was one of the most toxic relationships seen on screen. Not going to lie, we are both glad we are self partnered. Also we are being very blunt, the internet in the Middle East was very spastic and has become the bane of this podcast's existence.
PS. When Meral says "Yusuf joined the Muslim Brotherhood in Juvie" this means the Muslim Boys in Juvie not ISIS.
Time Stamps:
0:00 - 3:10 Intro, How our Week was, The Sinner
3:10 - 45:15 When They See Us Summary
45:15 - 49:20 The Serial Podcast, Interactions with the Police, Predictions of WTSU’s End
49:20 - 51:35 The Reid Technique
51:35 - 59:59 Malcolm and Marie
1h - 1h 7:50 Would you be with someone despite their flaws that bug you? M&M’s Relationship
1h 7:50 - 1h 17:00 Valentine’s Day and Married People Insecurities vs Single People Insecurities
1h 17:00 - 1h 21:48 What we’re drinking
Love,
Saman and Meral
Hey Coconuts,
Today we take a trip back to the 1960s where interracial marriage was considered a sin and treated like a felony. Last week we spoke of how Atticus's character is an inspiration to generations, but today we want to introduce Richard and Mildred Loving. Their characters and personalities dealt with calamity with a calm approach. Their polite perseverance lead to policy changes impacting not one, not two but 15 states!
We hope you enjoy our discussion on the Loving vs. Virginia case and the acutely accurate movie adaption Loving released in 2016. We also talk about love and how we view it, along with how some of our lovely coconuts define it.
PS. The internet all over the Middle East was cranky so forgive us for the random pauses and static noises. We tried our best to edit it out.
Time Stamps
00:00- 3:00: Witnessed a Shooting Star
3:00-6:00: Siblings
6:00-9:00: Potential lockdown
9:00-17:00: Loving vs Virginia
17:00-28:24: Personal take on Love
28:24-35:07: Instagram Poll
35:07-39:40: Definition of love varies with age
39:40-54:00: Length you would go for love
55:00-58:00: Danial Sloss “jigsaw analogy”
58:00-1h:05: Tea + Work life balance
Love,
Saman and Meral
Hey coconuts,
For everyone that knows us, knows that at some point we have tried to get you to read To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee! In high school, we were lucky enough to read it alongside our peers with a phenomenal English teacher. The impact of the book has followed us throughout our lives. We hope to recreate some magic with the next edition of Unscripted Musings, and what better time to do this than Black History Month! We hope you guys enjoy diving into Atticus’s mind and everything we loved, appreciated and learnt in Harper Lee’s beautifully crafted masterpiece.
Time stamps
0:00 - 6:30 Week Update, Vaccine awaits, Topics of the day!
6:30 - 19:10 Atom’s Sidra’s Thread on HONY
19:11 - 22:14 Saman’s Bangs are bangin’
22:15 - 47:35 To Kill a Mockingbird, our take on it
47:40 - 52:23 BLM
52:25 - 58:40 Parenting Style and Good Person Hack by Atticus Finch
58:41 - 1h8m Impact of Discrimination and Prejudice
1h8m - 1h:13m What's in our cup! Meral has news!
Love,
Saman and Meral
Hey coconuts,
In this next instalment of unscripted musings we will be discussing our favourite Pakistani movie of an inspirational "stereotype breaker" Zenith Irfan. While going over her incredible journey we talk keto diet, toxic work environment at Cannoli, and our day at T2F. We also contemplate about the importance of change and how to own your terrible haircut while reminiscing about stories of our childhood antics.
P.S: You will enjoy this even if you haven't watched the movie :)
Time stamps
0:00 - 2:21 Introduction + “highlights of our week"
2:21 - 8:10 Bougie water and going to weddings as a kid
8:10 - 15:15 Keto diets and there disadvantages
15:15 - 19:15 Who Zenith Irfan is “motorcycle girl”
19:15 - 26:30 What we loved about the movie
26:30 - 38:10 Toxic level of feminism “ Cannoli incidence”
38:10 - 46:20 Our experience at the theatre
46:20 - 54:00 T2F “panel on feminism ft the motor cycle girl cast “
54: 00 - 57:50 A constant in life is change
57:50 - What tea we are drinking, trivia about the movie + The End :)
Love,
Saman and Meral
Hey Coconuts,
I hope you're ready for a third edition of Saman and Meral's journey. We decided to take a tour of the 1800s to the society of the elites, and check out the Diamond of the First Water or as we know her, Daphne Bridgerton. However, she was not the only sight for sore eyes. Sir Simon was quite a delight to meet and learn from!
Netflix's Bridgerton was not at all a cringe binge but something to enjoy while thinking of how it is relatable even three centuries later.
PS. While touring we tried to make sure little to no demonic voices followed us. Enjoy!
Time Stamps:
0:00-5:20 Winter Break, Middle Eastern Holidays and Introduction to Topic
5:20-14:55 Man goes to nature for a break, technology taking over, SOP confusion
14:55-18:13 Bridgerton viewer by an American and Victorian Attire
18:14-44:20 Comparison of Brown Culture and Bridgerton by Besosorority, Older Daughter struggles, Older Brother, Bridgerton
44:20-51:40 Consent, Health Class, Taboo Topics
51:40-53:18 Simon and Daphne’s union, Pembrooke vs Collins from Pride and Prejudice
53:18-56:20 Lady Danbury Appreciation and Anthony Criticism
56:20-57:07 Simon’s Stutter
57:07-1h4 Who was Lady Whistledown?! Eloise Appreciation! The Oldest Daughter Existential Societal Crisis. Equality.
1h4-1h10 Anxiety and Fears displayed in Bridgerton and Courting Nowadays
1h10-1h15 End of Season 1 of Bridgerton
1h15-1h22 Things we cannot stand in shows, our Tea!
Love,
Saman and Meral
Hey coconuts,
I hope you are ready for our second instalment of Meral and Saman talking. In this episode we go over the Netflix show Indian Matchmaking, we share some of our own opinions along with some of our personal experiences with this sort of thing. Personally we believe that the matchmaking process has become a rite of passage for South Asian women. This is a relatively heavier episode and might be triggering for some ladies, but just know that you are not alone.
P.S: A ghost like echo might still be heard in the background, please ignore it. we hadn't acquired the right podcast gear but we are slowly getting there.
TIME STAMPS
00:00-2:14: Topics for the day + introduction
2:15-9:30: News
9:30-12:06: Benefits of a democracy over a monarchy
12:06-15:30: Netflix's Indian matching show, what its about
15:40-47:25: In-depth discussion about the show
47:30-54:30: The impact of millennials on this process
54:30-1h16: Personal stories
1h16-1h24: Things that we have learnt
1h25-1h27: What are we drinking + End
Love,
Saman and Meral
Hey Coconuts,
Here is the first chapter of our podcast, it revolves around the the theme of gender norms in society that are still implemented on women, we discuss the book Jane Eyre and how she was a empowered women ahead of her time. We dive into other aspects of growth and perspectives.
P.S. We are working on the issues :)
Love, Saman and Meral
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Introducing Dr. Saman and Meral, we just wanted to do a brief intro just so you guys know where to find us and who we are.
Our podcast is called Unscripted Musings!
Instagram: @unscriptedmusingz
Twitter: @unscriptedmusi1
YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UChthtZKI-N5N12ex6OGhXJA
Gmail: unscriptedmusingz@gmail.com
Love,
Saman and Meral