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Honest Hints is dedicated to sharing unique & unpopular viewpoints on things related to life experiences that influences one's state of mind. We aim to voice opinions that are sometimes "too true" for the masses. It pays to get an honest opinion especially from someone who while calling you out offers recommendations for better. It's not what you say but how you say it that truly makes an impact. Each episode will be of worth; allowing someone to feel better, reminding others they are not alone & it will give that impetus to overcome hardships. Honest Hints - 'More Than Just Words'... Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/honesthintsbyjentlefhiqs/support
Live life as though it is a legacy you will leave behind
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I know sometimes things can be hard and might even throw you off. You might find it hard to take back control but don't let that stop you. Be Brave.
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Expect to change for the better
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Trust the Process
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Let the past be the past and progress forward.
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You have to find that positive vibration so that life can bring you the energy you need. Positive life positive vibes positive everything.
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Don't be any less than your genuine self to fit on in spaced. Let nothing cause you to water down your personality or reality. Be you.
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No one can cheat you out of what is meant for you. It will come to you in time
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All in due time. You have no reason to want to rush anything. Everything will fall into place in due time.
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You have to choose. You can't baby the illness and expect to make the impact you hope to have. You have to stand firm and fix the thing that's wrong with you so you can make the right impact. Hard as it may be, long as it may take. Slow and steady can still win races.
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It's time to change the cycle of just doing the same thing repeatedly. Today is the day you dance to a new song, run on a new beat or sing to a new tune. Change is at hand
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It's not enough to cast stones sometimes you have to get a mirror to see your own flaws.
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If you think you need help then most likely you do. Get up and get help!
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Today's the day we walk away from letting the things of this world control us. Let us take control for once and make the rest of our life the best of your life.
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You'd be surprised what a little gratitude in your attitude could do for you.
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Yes you can. Just do it.
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Many times if you just get past the hardship you'd reap gold. Imagine that. Let's overcome the worst
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We often put ourselves on the back burner and let others feel more important that us and it is in actions like those that we lose ourselves. Today I charge you to find yourself. Get involved in the JenTle FHiQs: Keeping You Motivated family: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCr0o26zds2-amKyHHj-_OLQ or express your interest in one of our 365 Accountability Programs: info@jentlefhiqs.com Be a part of the change you wish to see in the world. Get the help you need and let nothing at all derail you from finding you.
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Yes it is good to have wonderful reflex actions but it is not always the best. Sure there are situations which require it but then there are also situations in which you have to be slow to speech and actions and also just be very thoughtful of the future implications of what you are about to do. Be not dismayed, you will still have an impact just better to be intentional about it.
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You can do anything you believe if you just try. Believe it's possible, stop doubting yourself and surprise yourself.
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Are you obligated to anyone? No, and with that same energy I remind you that no one is obligated to you. Things happen and sometimes you get let down but it is often not on purpose. Understand that people go through things too. You are not the only one enduring hardships so you have to be considerate and stop feeling so entitled.
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Stop hiding inside when things go wrong. Pick yourself up, head out and be great. You are worth much more than staying behind closed doors wallowing in your sadness.
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It's not enough to just survive. You should do the most for yourself and do so with pride. You are worth it, every time.
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Impatience can sometimes derail us and set us on the track to losing our faith or hope in situations. Believe in the reality that you must sometimes go through a slow and trying moment before the worst is over. Stay motivated and accept that the wait is not permanent it is just a part of the process.
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If you are too caught up chasing success it will run away from you. Find the thing you are good at and do that to the best of your ability you might even surprise yourself while you're at it.
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So often we let the fear that so easily consume us keep us from realizing our dreams and truth be told you are not to be fearful but rather fair to yourself. You have what it takes to make it through so be true to you. Be fair and let fear take flight.
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Hobbies are not a waste of your time. It is an important part of your life and could change a lot for you. Invest in your interests👍. It can help you relax more. Make time for your hobbies.💯
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Don't let the fact that you are upset with someone for something that was done that you continue harboring hard feelings and destroy yourself. Endeavour to grow from your place of pain and heal for yourself. Be rich in love, even if you have to be the one loving yourself.
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When you give people the opportunity to be the only love you depend on you set yourself up for failure. Learn to love yourself first. Learn to love yourself even when it seems no other being does. That's a love that's lasting and is the foundation for other love to flow on.
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People can only help us to a point since we are often blinded by the illusions before us. I still want to remind us that we are indeed enough. Tell yourself that much on days when you feel down and out of it all. Just whisper to yourself "I am enough".
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You are special, you are enough, you are loved, the world needs you, you are amazing. Be here as the winner you are. Give yourself healing space and time. Be here to tell how you overcome. Your story is inspiration. Don't give up.
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Never get so caught up in the status you think you hold, that you disregard yourself. You should be your first priority. You should stand firm for you. You should take first your health, strength and rejuvenation into account before anyone else's. You can't truly help someone heal if you yourself are broken. Stand for you first, then others.
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The best things in life are earned. Hard work, dedication and a determination to the cause is always worthwhile. Don't short change what you put in. Don't ever think it's too much. To get the best out of life, you need to put in the best.
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The moment you catch yourself wishing you were that next girl or guy, pack it up. Focus on something else. It's ok to emulate other but it's not okay to compare yourself to them. Yearn to be better than you were last week or last month; using your current state as the point from which your future growth will come.
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For the next phase of your life, make a genuine effort to be better than you were without making any excuses for actions done. It is better to be truthful than excusing. No more excuses.
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In this new year do whatever you desire as long as it is in your best interest. Be all about you, for you, by your own standards. Do you! Happy New Year 🥳🎆🤗
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With just three days left in 2021 you can think of the year to come as a clean sheet. It's the beginning of a new era and your page is clear and has lots of space for you to create and realize the desires of you heart. Leave the excuses behind and focus on writing your new story. Make it exactly what you want it to be. Just start where you are. The time is now.
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When you've endured a lot of negative and disheartening things you can decide to just call it quits to protect yourself, but quitting can have you missing out on invaluable friendships and impactful interactions. Never let this cruel world steal the love that is within you and if for a second you think you've lost it, learn to love again. Love conquers all. It's not even about others it starts with you loving you. Do it for you.
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Sometimes without really meaning to, we are toxic. Toxic to friends, families and people we interact with daily. Imagine being like all the people you just tolerate just because... As hard as it is to fathom, some of us are guilty. We are as toxic as it gets. Does that therefore mean that it's over for us? NO! We just have to make an effort to be better and work daily to be less toxic.
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Sometimes circumstances will have you second-guessing yourself. You'll find yourself wondering whether you are a true friend, but the proof is in the value added. The quality of time spent and the sacrifices given can easily be seen as nothing but at your core you know you gave your last, you gave you best and you chose to be present here instead of elsewhere. If that fails, reminisce on hard times as they do reveal true friends.
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A lot of times there are person who will judge your madness without knowing that there is a method to that madness. Sometimes you just need a break to protect your mental health, because that's what matters. If you're drained you don't need to keep grinding, that's add damaging. Put your needs first. The things that you give your time to tell if you're wasting time and you know it. When you're feeling used, left out, etc; you need to check yourself
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So many of us believe that we are adding zero value to life but that's not true. In the smallest ways we are impacting others. We are the reason some people are living and the reason some people are smiling. We are the reason some people are still pushing through. It's hard to believe that our messy life is doing anything for anyone, but it is. You are inspiring other way more than you think.
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There's a strong misconception that you can only help people by giving them material things. Sure would be nice but not everyone can. Sometimes your character is all you have to give and that is all the help they need. Give a little kindness. Help someone cross the road, carry their grocery or even open the door. Simple acts of kindness count. It is of high value if for those who just want an ear you would listen and for those who need advice that you would share. Each one help the other. grow.
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You can't sit around waiting for success to find you... well you can but you must anticipate a certain outcome. Whether you're a part of a unit or by yourself, you have to invest time and energy to reap the reward you so deeply desire. You can work hard, smart or efficiently, whichever you choose, as long as you're progressing and adding value to your life and anything you touch. Be excellent at whatever you choose, put your very best out there and success will find you.
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If ever you feel as though you've reached a standstill or you've hit a plateau and you want to change everything because nothing seems to be working out. Remember, sometimes we just need to relax and refresh. Remember, from frustration and distress can come excellence. Remember, even in the season of stillness and nothingness there is still hope. Maybe just maybe what you need is to find a new approach.
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You just never know what others are experiencing. Very often we feel we have a right to make comments on others light without knowing their stories. Some people are doing the best they can and we shouldn't act like their efforts aren't of worth. So when their light isn't as bright as you expect, remember you may be shining with loads of energy reserved while they may be using up every energy they have while still experiencing an external power drain. Offer to be a part of the repair instead of opting to ridicule.
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You're way too bright a light to be covered up. Let nothing cause you to small up yourself or to dim your shine. You're an inspiration to other, a leader and even a motivator. Focus on the ones who are being impacted and keep impacting them. You're doing good, keep shining brightly.
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Don't just stay in the space you don't want to be in. Make a conscious effort daily to be better than your yesterday. Remember you need to bounce back from that which make you feel less than yourself after you have bettered the foundation. Learn to love every part of you. Love plays a huge role in your growth so do love yourself through everything and allow others to add extra. Like me, I'll add a little for you 🤗 Loads of love from JenTle FHiQs to you. ❤
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Sometimes all we need to better cope with situations is to make better the grounds on which we go about dealing with them. You may not have the know how now but that doesn't mean you wont. Endeavor to grow and be better at protecting your space and treating with nuisances. You have time and the ability on your side so just do it. Better the foundation.💯
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When you feel as though you're at your darkest moment, take courage in the fact that you are not alone, you are of worth, your efforts are not in vain and you're closer to better. So on the days when you can't recognize yourself work on bettering yourself for the days ahead.
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You cant expect to get strawberry juice from lemon and sugar. It's the same in life you cant expect to get anything other than what you put in. Choose that which you'd like to recieve and order your life in that way.
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Sometime we get so caught up in the fact that things are working that we settle for the outcome not remembering that it can get better. Sometimes all we need to do is to break the cycle once for things to get better. You need not be rigid or stuck in your way, rather display your open-mindedness, flexibility and adaptability. Sometimes all you need to achieve your dreams is to switch things up. So let's switch this up.
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Make the change for once in your life. 💪
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You cannot afford to let anyone box you in especially if this takes away from your happiness. There is a place for persons who excel at different and varying pursuits and have the ability to do so simultaneously. Be that person if it pleases you. Do what's important to you. Change the career next year, add a new language or skill and make them meaningful. Just don't be left with the regret of not doing something you wanted to do.
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Forgive yourself.
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Let nothing and I mean nothing stop you from reaching your goals. Sure you might need to change a few plans or take a different route but at the end of the day you will launch out. Struggle are meant to make you stronger, temptations to give you a testimony and hardships to show you have what it takes to rise above. Fears, mishaps, hatred or even set ups are best spoken of after you came out victorious. So despite all that, be sure your able to say you've made it because you launched out.
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Sometimes our desire to forget the painful parts of our lives causes us to forget the lessons taught in those moments. Sure we want them gone but we should learn to separate the good from the bad because in every bad there is a good lesson to be learnt for the future to be better. The why in the situation is very important and is most times attached to the lesson. Why it happen, why they changed, why it hurt; all very important but none more than what it taught you. So remember why you were taught this lesson.
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No matter how hard it may seem, trust and believe it is better to stay above and keep pushing than to miss out on opportunities by drifting into the unchangable unknown. The true test of character is when there seem to be every single reason to give up but you find the one small reason to keep pushing and you keep pushing even after you've just cried. Remember tears speak when we can't and it release our hearts from carrying load not designed for it. Cry if you must but keep pushing.
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No matter how it is, until you take your last breath it is not the end. You have to keep pushing, you just can't give up. I know you might be overwhelmed with emotions and feel as though you're at the end of your rope but you have to hold on. You have to give yourself a fighting chance. As hard as it seems or as stressed as you might feel keep trying. Entertain positive thoughts, endeavor to be better daily & surround yourself with impactful people. Remember, it will be okay in the end so if is isn't okay then this is definitely not the end!
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Too often our hopes get stuck in the word phase. Too often it's just something we've thought about. We have to change that for us. Work at ensuring your will power becomes want power so that you will pursue your goals without losing motivation or growning tired. It's really great to power through something and reap the reward, but imagine what will happens when the task requires a longterm commitment and the burnout is upon you. In your speech, thoughts and actions be intentional so that your excellence attracts your success.
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The thought of transitioning may be stressing & hard to deal with, but you have to trust that the process is necessary and the change will be good. "Stepping onto a brand-new path is difficult, but not more difficult than remaining in a situation, which is not nurturing to the whole woman." -- Maya Angelou. We shouldn't settle. We are meant to break down barriers, be better than our past & embrace situations that nuture the whole human. The fear of settling should be greater than that of transitioning into your next phase.
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It is never good to compare yourself to anyone other than yourself. For one you don't know what advantages they might have or what their life experiences have taught them. Some of them will be more equipped than you are and that's okay. At the end of the day none of that matters to you because you are not them and their journey is not yours. Endeavor to focus on you and you'll be surprised how much more you'll accomplish as you repurpose the time once spent minding other people's businesses and comparing yourself to some of their impossible ideals and standards. Do it for you. Remember comparison is the thief of joy so get rid of the comparison and make it your aspiration to be an inspiration. You've got this.
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Time constraints are not that bad. Meeting deadlines are not that bad either. Sure, it takes courage, determination and a strong will but at the end of the day you can do it. Though some persons are racing, life is not a race, all the actions done in whatever way eventually adds up. So make them slow and steady if necessary, progressing day by day, with your scheduled rest, goal and will power to keep you going. Skip the pile ups that are hard to work through. Skip the snooze. You can do it.
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Sometimes in the name of finding closure we drag ourselves through some trying situations and it is not worth it. At times we just have to accept the fact that the conversation time has long gone and we don't need to talk it over anymore. Rarely if ever does the conversation impact on our healing but we convince ourselves we need it and so we end up hurting for extended periods. The 'closure' we seek is not always what we get and it can destroys us, so for your own sake after hurting endeavor to find peace, it's all in you, and remember closure is not peace.
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Sometimes you just have to unplug. Whether it is the messages or the location or the friends it's ok to take a break from it every once in a while. Indeed that's one of the best way to keep your mental health in check but the pandemic has not afforded us the opportunity. As borders slowly reopen and spending more time outdoors become possible take the opportunity to go out and see a new place and unwind. Respect the safety precautions of course and live in the moment. Enjoy every second and even then remember the best is yet to come.
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Sometimes in life things come at us unexpectedly. Most often it is nothing that we could control or could even change but it affects us nonetheless. The fact that it is so unexpected is what gives the most pain as internally it can destroy us while externally it shows what we've been through and not everyone wants that to be seen. In all honesty though, what really matters is how we react to it all. So take it boldly, face it head on and stand to the test. Live unapologetically and face the unexpected with a strength that is in no way expected.
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It probably started at 'oops I'm so sorry and I won't do it again' or 'this is the last time, I really didn't mean to', until it become nothing really to do whatever it is that is being done. It becomes just another thing without much thought to it and while it seems ok it really isn't. A popular phrase is to let your conscience be your guide, but how can you activate and utilize the compass if you aren't aware of it. Assess the situation and choose wisely whether wrong or right, good or bad, fair or unfair. Be conscious of your conscience.
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It's about time we stop holding on to things that no longer matter. You see those things that no longer serve you, let them go. Stop convincing yourself that you need to hold on to it for it to get better, that's not necessary. Work on the things that are affecting you to create a positive impact always and remove those things that are just keeping up space. It's ok to clear the clutter so you can grow.
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We are sometimes too busy chasing the next goal or thing, that we forget the hardwork we invested into getting to where we are now. You probably prayed really hard for it or deprived yourself of something to get it, so why not celebrate it? For all that you've invested, it's worth taking a moment to bask in it. After all, you'll probably only achieve this once. Savour it. Don't forget how much you wanted it and use the same energy of want, when you celebrate the success. Don't be so busy chasing the next milestone that you forget to live in the now. Small or big wins celebrate them.
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Sometimes it is ok to be all about you and nobody else. Small moments like these result in better interactions, renewed interest and even a renewed mindset. During this week take some time to focus on you. Evaluate your physical, mental, spiritual, emotional and social health. Build on an aspect you've always wanted to make some progress on. Words can only touch the surface, you have to do the rest of the work for yourself, after all it is personal development. Health is wealth so consciously invest in your future.
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Before you can truly be on your way to accepting anything you must first acknowledge its existence. It's the same with pain or anything that hurts you. In order to heal from it, you must first acknowledge it exists and then accept that you may not be able to change but you no longer have to be bothered by its effect. You can rise above it. Whether you accept it in part or as a whole, your progress plays a major role in your healing process. Free yourself from that prison of pain, accept the hurt and rise above.
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When you take risks you give yourself a chance. You know not how things will work out but you are trusting, hoping, keeping the faith and believing that it might just happen in your favour. You may not have a turn around immediately after taking your first risk, you may not gain much more than knowledge from your first of many risks but those lessons from experience are of incomparable value. Ultimately, there is more good than bad to be gained from taking risks. If you don't believe you can test it for yourself by simply taking a risk.
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Sometimes we feel buried, trapped or even thrown out. We feel as though there is no use trying to get better or do better. It seem you're at your last and need a change but once you are up and about and breathing your job isnt over yet. Once you're alive accomplishing your goals are on the other side of your fears. Remember you are your only limitation so unleash your full potential. Bloom where you are. Bloom now.
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Most things these days seem like a race... who became rich younger & who can buy things quicker. Rarely do you see people emphasizing sustainability. It's more of becoming young millionaires among other things but what's the haste? Now being competitive is very healthy but being obsessed is very unhealthy. The world is ever changing so be resolute in your pursuits and remember we all have our own clock. It's still success if you accomplish it at a different time and age than others. Not all races require speed, some require being slow and steady to win the race.
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We are all expected to function in a certain way and if we behave any less we are frowned upon. Some people would have you give up your feelings to please them, regardless of how piercing their questions or actions may be. Remember not everything should be met with a reaction or answer, sometimes your silence is more deafening than your words. Always be respectful and kind while safeguarding your person. Don't let any pressure cause you to answer something you're not ready or just don't wish to talk about. Choose your conversations well.
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There is no honour in making promises you can't or don't intend to keep. You'll have to carry them knowing you were not interested or just didn't want to take part in it. A quick and easier way to get yourself out of these plans is not to say yes and then find an excuse or theoretically kill a cat but to rather say no. Yep, it is that simple. Be firm and straightforward; you'll be respected more, you'll have to answer once and you'll feel better about yourself. Let your words be of worth.
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The truth is things will always happen around us; some of which are aimed at tearing us down. In some stressful situations we allow what is going on around us to get us down, forgetting that even though we can't change most situations we can change how we react to them. Hold yourself accountable. Tell yourself, no matter what is happening around me I will at least try to feel better within so I can better control my reactions.
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It is easy to think that appreciation has to be done through elaborate gifts or actions. It is even easier for it to remain a thought. Appreciating others can be one of the easiest things you do through simply uttering a kind word or through expressing your gratitude and or the value you place on someone or something. The timing is never off; do it now. It is the thoughts that count.
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Failing is never easy but pretending you didnt fail is harder. Time spent to keep the facts hidden, keep up the facade and to convince yourself that what you're doing is ok, takes away from your comeback. Live your reality; you have failed, but it does not define you. The choices you make after failing help to shape your future. Failures can become a sofa or a staircase. Invest wisely.
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Someone once said 'stop allowing people to live rent free in your mind' and it is the same with your personal space; stop allowing people to live rent free in your space. Some people don't mean well, so once you can identify that what is being offered doesn't match up with the direction you're heading in, serve them notice. Don't let anyone who doesn't add value to your life take up or taint the space in your life.
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At times you're faced with situations that seem bigger than you and you ask questions like 'why me?' or 'what have I done to deserve this?'. Most times we forget that it is nothing we have done but rather the discomfort within others that contributes to our pain. We often forget too that we've played an integral part because no one can make us feel bad about ourselves unless we permit them. So retract consent and live differently. Live happier.
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If you're not proud of the thoughts you produce, change them. If you're not proud of the things you've said, do better next time. Words can never be retracted so don't live as though you can take them back. It all starts in the mind right before words are produced and released. You can create your new and desired reality. Speak positively... Influence the outcome one word at a time.
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Not every act of kindness is something you really wanted to do. For some of us, we find it difficult to say no. As a matter of fact, we wish we knew how to say no because we have become miserable "yes people". When is it too much? What am I doing to myself? We usually ask these questions after the fact. Be in the know so you can find the balance, heal your aching heart or save yourself from sabotage. Endeavor to be truly selfless.
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For too long we've settled for less than we deserve or underestimated the value we ought to receive. We do this so much that we don't know where to draw the line. Whether it is that we are trying to save name or face, we put ourselves last intentionally and unintentionally. Regardless of what aspect of life it is, make it your new goal to daily surpass your own expectations and claim the best for yourself. The time to make a change is now.
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For some of us the slightest of hardships we experience along a journey is an indicator to stop pursuing our goals and dreams. That shouldn't be so. Some of the most important things will not come easily, so if you stop trying or call it quits you'll never accomplish anything. Develop a sense of resilience and stick-to-itiveness, believe you can do it one more time, believe you're closer than before and that if you hold on a little longer you can realize those goals. Yes, you can do it.
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We all have been involved in some conflict. Maybe we argued and things were said that we regretted or maybe it was physical and pain still lingers. No matter how it happened, we have all done some wrong. It should always be our hope to make right what has gone wrong. We should never be too proud or feel as though we are above others or feel as though we are better than anyone. Despite age gaps, gender, sex, status, time since the wrong has been done or even intellectual capabilities always be willing to apologize and at least attempt to correct any and every wrong.
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Without a doubt, there have been countless times that you've been so uncomfortable doing something and you had the choice to change the situation it but you didn't. Maybe it was because you were settling or because you didn't believe that you deserved better. Whatever it was, we sometimes drag ourselves through hard situations only to realise that we could have and should have just been bold enough to let go of that thing so that we could be better. It's not too late. In future, Don't sell yourself short. Let it go! Something better awaits you.
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In the hardest of situations our first response is worrying. We think long and hard of the situation before, during and even after it has ended and then we stress about it even when there is nothing we can do about it. Sometimes it is our fear that makes the situation more intense and depression is usually only a step away. However, hope still exists and in these situations if we exercise that hope and a little faith we can and will have a more fruitful life. So no matter what, for this year and the next, instead of worrying let us hope for better. It wont be easy but I hope you will realize it is worth it.
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It is not unusual for us to feel sad when we experience hardships and take some time alone to feel better. During this period some friends are chastised because to us they are inconsiderate for not checking up on us. However, when the roles are reversed so easily it is said that they are "Avoiding you" and you decide to give them they same energy they give... You do know they too might be having a bad day, right?? They may not be avoiding you...
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So often we lose ourselves trying to do bad to others because that's what they have done to us. It sounds like a trivial thing but so many of us are miserable because we are pushing to be someone we are not. Instead of acting in because of the actions of others, do what you please despite what they do. Be you! Love despite not because.
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It is okay to make sacrifices to let others have their way at times. However, it is not okay to lose who you are while doing so. It is also definitely not okay to depend on someone else to make you happy because no one should have that much power over you. Sometimes you just have to proudly take the highway.
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Some people will forever be distracted from the many blessings they possess by the wants they have. Some things will never be enough and some people will never be pleased but I want you to be reminded, no matter what is happening around you there is always something to be grateful for.
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Sometimes because of the way we view life we are haulted and haunted in life. Depression and stress seem to live wherever we go but maybe with a different view, a different method or a different driving force we may be able to reach the goals we set out for ourselves. Change your "should have been" by changing your mindset.
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So often we hear people try to justify their actions as the effect of someone else's actions. Though they made the choice to do these things, they still create a cause and effect relationship as the reason for which it occured. In this episode we talk about two common examples and end with tips on how to go about changing these habits.
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So many of us believe avoiding the hurt is the best option we have. Sometimes it really does feel that way and we forget that there is a consequence for each action. We often forget how damaging it truly is when we don't face our pains. This episode talks about moments of hurt we avoid and gives a little advice of why you should face the pain.
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After completing studies, we sometimes experience a level of depression we never knew existed. Sometimes it overwhelms us and it is difficult to navigate because it's not something that is talked about. Regardless, it exists and I hope you'll find this useful.
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Sometime we find ourselves torn between money and passion... If I choose money, I'll have everything I want but will I be fulfilled?? If I choose my passion, will I be able to afford everything I want in life?? Sometimes we just have to step away from the situation to be able to chose wisely.
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If you are feeling as though you are not progressing or there is something missing from your life because no matter how much effort you put in you are not fulfilled- maybe you need to find your passion and chase it. Let's help you change your world by finding your passion and helping you chase it.
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Welcome to our podcast. Honest Hints was inspired by the reality that we sometimes live uncomfortably because of norms and the fears we have. Having experienced that and rising above it, I wanted to use all I learnt to help others grows. Living one's passion is simply amazing.
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