Spiked Sweet Tea: Recent Episodes
Spiked Sweet Tea
Spiked Sweet Tea is a podcast hosted by Dena Haynes and Aprylle Nicole. We'll discuss a range of topics including pop culture, current events, health, society and even politics.
Y'all know with Dena being the Hip Hop head that she is, these ladies couldn't let this monumental year pass without acknowledging women in Hip Hop. Take a listen as Dena and Aprylle (but mostly Dena) reflect on the influence Hip Hop has had on their lives. #SpikedSweetTea #SpikedSweetTeaPodcast #ProtectBlackWomen #SupportBlackWomen #50yearsofhiphop #womeninhiphop
It's book club time! This episode, Dena and Aprylle both read Worthy by Jada Pinkett-Smith. Listen for the ladies thoughts on what they read. #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #blackwomenpodcast #protectblackwomen #supportblackwomen
Dena and Aprylle are back with another episode. This time the conversation is centered on mental illness. Jump into the convo...#spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #blackwomenpodcasters #protectblackwomen #supportblackwomen
So much has happened since the last time Dena and Aprylle have caught up with you, they couldn't even fit everything in. This week the ladies discuss a myriad of topics from the past couple of months. Listen as they weigh in. #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #blackwomenpodcasters #protectblackwomen
Dena and Aprylle jump into the conversation about bodily autonomy. Does your partner tell you what not to wear? Is there an approval process for going to Vegas? The ladies discuss Keke Palmer, Jonah Hill, and other aspects of this hot topic. #SpikedSweetTea #SpikedSweetTeaPodcast #BlackWomenPodcast #ProtectBlackWomen
Dena and Aprylle read an article listing the 15 Best Rhythm & Blues Songs of All Time and they took issue with it. What songs would you say represent the best of R&B? Take a listen and let us know! #SpikedSweetTea #SpikedSweetTeaPodcast #BestofRnB #BlackWomenPodcasters
Well would you? Dena and Aprylle never answer that question, but they certainly gave their thoughts on all the commentary. What did the ladies have to say? Tune in to find out! #SpikedSweetTea #SpikedSweetTeaPodcast #BlackWomenPodcast #SupportBlackWomen
The ladies have been MIA and it's no wonder, so much has been going on. Both Aprylle and Dena have been busy but their back to chop it up, talking about some of the things they've been doing on this unexpected hiatus. Take listen! #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #blackwomenpodcast #protectblackwomen
Dena and Aprylle are back just in time for the Oscars! Today the ladies about nods and snubs and the history of Black women in the Academy. The ceremony is next week and you know they're rooting for everybody Black. #SpikedSweetTea #SpikedSweetTeapodcast #angelabassett #WakandaForever #Rihanna #RobynFenty
Dena and Aprylle are going back on hiatus, but not before they have one more episode discussing the news of the day. This episode, the ladies discuss #ForeverFLOTUS and her new book, girl groups of the 90s, and other pop culture topics. Happy holidays, y'all! #SpikedSweetTea #SpikedSweetTeaPodcast #SupportBlackWomen #BlackWomenPodcasts
Have you seen Wakanda Forever? Because if you haven't, you might want to hold off on pressing "play". In this episode, Dena and Aprylle dissect the Marvel flick up, down, and sideways. This is a spoiler-rich review, proceed with caution. #spikedsweetteapodcast #spikedsweettea #womenofwakanda #wakandanation
Dena and Aprylle breakdown this Ashanti and Irv Gotti conversation while also talking about the bumpy road to success for women in music. There's lots to unpack. Check us out. #SpikedSweetTea #SpikedSweetTeaPodcast #Blackwomenpodcast #SupportBlackWomen
Do you have friends with whom you are politically misaligned? Is it possible to be in relation with someone who's political opinions run counter to your core values? This week, Dena and Aprylle ask these tough questions. Listen in and tell us what you think. #SpikedSweetTea #SpikedSweetTeapodcast #SupportBlackWomen #Blackwomenpodcasters
Hey y'all! Dena and Aprylle are FINALLY back from their vacations and, whew, so much has gone on in the world they didn't even know what to talk about. So they talked about it all. Check it out! #SpikedSweetTea #SpikedSweetTeaPodcast #Blackwomenpodcast #ProtectBlackWomen #supportblackwomen #TheWomanKing #NiaLong
Hey y'all! Dena and Aprylle are FINALLY back from their vacations and, whew, so much has gone on in the world they didn't even know what to talk about. So they talked about it all. Check it out! #SpikedSweetTea #SpikedSweetTeaPodcast #Blackwomenpodcast #ProtectBlackWomen #supportblackwomen #TheWomanKing #NiaLong
Did y'all see that viral video of the therapist who got fired? Aprylle and Dena did, and as per usual, they have something to say about it, and they didn't exactly see things eye to eye on the situation. Take a listen. #SpikedSweetTea #SpikedSweetTeaPodcast #SupportBlackWomen #ProtectBlackWomen #BlackWomenPodcast
Dena and Aprylle are back with hot takes on the latest album from Beyonce! #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #blackwomenpodcast #supportblackwomen #renaissance
Dena and Aprylle revisit the conversation about who decides what it means to be Black when talking about potential changes happening at the African American History museum in DC. #spikedsweettea #Spikedsweetteapodcast #supportblackwomen
Hey hey listeners! This week, Dena and Aprylle bring on a guest to discuss the challenges that seem to come with parenting adults. They ain't ready. #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #blackwomenpodcast #supportblackwomen
Dena and Aprylle wrap up their conversation about the Black Pearsons...er, the show. #SpikedSweetTea #SpikedSweetTeapodcast
Y'all know this is Dena's favorite show, so the ladies decided to talk about their favorite moments from the past six years. Check us out! #SpikedSweetTea #SpikedSweetTeapodcast
Dena and Aprylle pulled from the Red Table to discuss the book Mother Hunger written by their recent guest, Kelly McDaniel. You're in for a rare treat as the ladies get personal about the relationships with their own mothers. #SpikedSweetTea #SpikedSweetTeaPodcast #Blackwomenpodcasts #supportblackwomen #protectblackwomen #blackgirlmagic
It's been a minute, but Dena and Aprylle are BACK.. and catching up on so much of what's been happening in the world since they've been absent. #SpikedSweetTea #SpikedSweetTeaPodcast #SupportBlackWomen #ProtectBlackWomen #BlackWomenPodcasts
Hey y'all! Dena and Aprylle are back with a real good conversation about how to deal when people you love and respect say or do things that you don't really vibe with. How do you handle it? What should you do? Are they cancelled forever? Do they lose cool points? Hear what conclusions we come to this week. #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #supportblackwomen #protectblackwomen #blackpodcast #blackwomenpodcast
This week Dena and Aprylle discuss transphobia and homophobia; along with how we can all spread a little more compassion and tenderness as we interact with others. Also.. listen for our first blooper reel! Check us out. #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #protectblackwomen #supportblackwomen
YO! Dena and Aprylle had a chat about plastic surgery. But not just any plastic surgery, the BBL to be specific. Have you had any body enhancement? Have you thought about a BBL? The ladies discuss the pros and cons of getting the work done. #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #protectblackwomen #supportblackwomen #blackgirlspodcast
Ooops! Aprylle and Dena are late, but they're here. This week they did a little self-reflection and share with you some things they've learned in the past four and a half decades. It's getting personal this week. Tune in! #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #protectblackwomen #supportblackwomen
We're on a break. but it's just temporary. Enjoy our very first episode this week, and we'll be back soon. Deuces! #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #supportblackwomen #protectblackwomen #blackwomenpodcast
This week, Aprylle and Dena welcome special guest, Dr. Jayme Canty, as they talk about the value of an education for Black folx at HBCUs and PWIs. What do you say? #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #blackandeducated #supportblackwomen #protectblackwomen #blackpodcasts
We're talking about Sha'Carri Richardson, Naomi Osaka, and Simone Biles. We're shouting out Jordan Chiles, Simone Manuel, Sydney McGlaughlin, Brittney Reese, Dalilah Muhammad, Simone Manuel, Allyson Felix, Gwendolyn Berry, Quanera Haynes, Rebeca Andrade, Rachael Adams, Foluke Gunderson, Tara Davis, A'ja Wilson, Vashti Cunningham, Tina Charles, Kendra Harrison, Elaine Thompson-Harah, Shericka Johnson, Shelly-Ann Fraser and all the many many other Black girls in Tokyo doing their thing! #SpikedSweetea #SpikedSweetTeapodcast #Blackgirlpodcast #protectblackwomen #supportblackwomen
This week Dena and Aprylle discuss an article from Vulture dot com written by former Bachelorette Rachel Lindsay. Once they started talking, they realized several similarities to journalist and professor Nikole Hannah-Jones. What happens when a confident Black woman enters into a predominantly white space? The ladies discuss it this episode. #spikedsweetteapodcast #spikedsweettea #blackwomenpodcast #supportblackwomen #blackgirlmagic
This week's episode features special guest, Dr. Falami and her research on body liberation. Join Aprylle and Dena in their interview with Dr. Falami and learn more about how she created a safe space for Black women to be vulnerable about their insecurities. #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #protectblackwomen #supportblackwomen #sisterhood #bodypositivity #bodyliberation #podsofcolor #citeblackwomen
Aprylle and Dena are so excited for the Summer Olympics, and the buzz around certain Black girl athletes has them thinking about how this new generation is different than generations prior. Take a listen as the ladies share their respect for these bold young women who take no prisoners. #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #blackwomenpodcast #supportblackwomen #protectblackwomen #blackgirlmagic
Listen....Dena and Aprylle are loving A Black Lady Sketch Show! Are you watching? This week, the ladies share what they love about the show. Take a listen. #SpikedSweetTea #SpikedSweetTeapodcast #supportblackwomen #protectblackwomen #ABLSS
This week Dena and Aprylle discuss trauma porn. What is it and are assigning the label appropriately? We've seen a lot of content from Black creators recently, but there are those of us who think a line has been crossed. Has it though? Stories like "Them" and "Two Distant Strangers" have some of us questioning the line between telling our stories and being provocative. This is one for the think pieces. #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #blackgirlpodcast #browngirlpodcast #supportblackwomen #protectblackwomen #traumaporn
Did y'all watch the #Verzuz between SWV and Xscape this weekend? Aprylle and Dena did. Take a listen to this week's episode to hear their thoughts. It may not be what you think! #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #verzuzbattle #swvvxscape #swvvsxscape #supportblackwomen #blackpodcast #blackwomenpodcasters
Can Black women self-advocate without being perceived as angry? When we are assertive or require respect, why are we called aggressive? This week Dena and Aprylle talk about how Black women must toe the line to avoid being called the dreaded "angry Black woman". Check it out #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #supportblackwomen #protectblackwomen #blackpodcasts #blackpodcasters #blackwomenpodcast
What defines Blackness? Are there gatekeepers? Should there be? Dena and Aprylle perceive a growing delegation of folks who cry foul to some who racially identify as Black. Check out this weeks episode as they discuss who and why. #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #blackwomenpodcasts #supportblackwomen #protectblackwomen
We're back, did you miss us?
This week, Aprylle and Dena talk about the blame laid on women when a relationship ends. Who's fault is it anyway? #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #blackwomenpodcast #protectblackwomen #supportblackwomen #blacklove
What does it mean to model sisterhood and who does it best? Dena and Aprylle discuss what sisterhood means to them, and they dialogue about seeing it in action and seeing it fail. Check it out. #SpikedSweetTea #SpikedSweetTeapodcast #upliftblackwomen #supportblackwomen #protectblackwomen #blackpodcast #blackwomenpodcast #sisterhood
Has Black History Month become performative? In the 45 years since it's inception, how much progress has been made in incorporating Black history into American history classes. Dena and Aprylle talk about how it's wrong and how to make it right. Check it out. #Blackhistorymonth #blackhistoryeveryday #blackpodcast #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #protectblackwomen #blacklivesmatter
This week Aprylle and Dena chop it up about a recent video from Ms. Tami Roman. In sharing her thoughts about what others considered to be thotty behaviors, Tami questions whether she went too far in preaching NOT-thotisms to her own daughters. What did the ladies think? Listen and find out for yourself! . #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #blackpodcast #blackwomenpodcast #amplifyblackvoices #supportblackwomen #protectblackwomen #thotornot #happinessovereverything
So Dena watched Sylvie's Love, loved it, and encouraged Aprylle to watch it. Aprylle watched it and wanted to talk about it on the pod, which brings us to this week's episode. While watching the film, the ladies had two different interpretations of the relationship between the protagonists and discuss it for you all. Check it out. #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #blackpodcast #blackwomenpodcast #amplifyblackvoices #blacklove #supportblackwomen #sylvieslove
Do you dare to dream? Dena and Aprylle watched a video about pursuing your passion and wonder if Black women missed the memo. Are there limitations on your dreams or is the sky the limit? What would you do if you could do anything? The ladies are talking about it today. #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #blackwomenpodcast #supportblackwomen #blackwomendream #yeswecan
This week, Dena and Aprylle invite two very special guests into the conversation- their lifelong friends. Sit back and sip on your own tea while you enjoy these ladies discussing what Black sisterhood means to them. #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #blackpodcast #sisterhood #blackwomen #protectblackwomen
This week Aprylle and Dena decided to watch and discuss Justin Simien's Bad Hair. The film definitely raised some interesting points and the ladies dissect them. Check us out #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #dopeblackpods #blackpodcast #blackpodcasts #blackgirlpodcasts #browngirlpodcast #blackwomenpodcast #supportblackwomen #amplifyblackvoices #blackcinema #blackfilm #naturalhair #teamnatural #creamycrack #respectmyhair #kinkychicks #kinksandcoils
We know y'all aren't expecting an episode this week but Aprylle and Dena had the time tuh-day! The ladies dissect the interaction between Will Smith and Janet Hubert at their recent reunion. They definitely had some interesting opinions on this 27 year-old beef. Check us out. #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #blackpodcasts #blackwomenpodcast #freshprinceofbelair #thefreshprincereunion #blacktressjanethubert #ogauntviv #auntviv
Dena and Aprylle had to find ways to cope with the election outcomes and share their self-care as well as share their surprise in the results for their home state. #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #blackpodcasts #blackwomen #supportblackwomen #amplifyblackvoices #bidenharris2020 #selfcare #blackgirlselfcare
Do you share too much on social media? Do you know anyone who does? What's at the root of this behavior? Dena and Aprylle explore the area between sharing and sharing TOO much. Aprylle just might be one of those folks, y'all. Jump in the convo and let us know what you think. #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #blackpodcasts #blackwomenpodcast #oversharers #attentionseekers #strengthcouragewisdom #supportblackwomen #amplifyblackvoices
DID YOU VOTE?!!!! Dena and Aprylle discuss the impact that we, as Black women, have on the vote and the importance in both local and national elections. If you haven't yet, go vote y'all! #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #blackwomenpodcast #amplifyblackvoices #supportblackwomen #blacksuperwomen #vote2020 #blacklivesmatter #blackwomenvote #ownyourvote
Dena and Aprylle share their theories behind the unexpected yet fascinating confrontation between Lisa Raye and Da Brat that recently aired on Queens with Cocktails. What's really going on? We may never know, but we can certainly hypothesize. #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #blackwomenpodcast #supportblackwomen #lisaraye #dabrat
This week, Aprylle and Dena discuss R. Jai Gillum and what it means to truly and authentically "stand by your man". Sis is a real one. #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #blackpodcasts #blackwomenpodcasts #blackgirlmagic #blacklove #reallove #protectblackwomen # #friendshipfirst #rideordie #rider #Vote
The current pandemic is providing lots of time to catch up on our binge lists and films we forgot to see. Both Aprylle and Dena finally got around to watching Queen and Slim. They have some thoughts and apparently y'all do, too! SPOILER ALERT Listen at your own risk. #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #blackwomenpodcast #amplifyblackvoices #queenandslim #blacklove #rideordie #blackdirectors #blackwomendirectors #beingblack #blacktrauma #blacktraumaisnotforentertainment #triggered
Aprylle and Dena couldn't wait to listen to the #Verzuz between Monica and Brandy. This week they reflect on the careers of both these women and also identify their favorite songs from the verzuz. #Spikedsweettea #Spikedsweetteapodcast #blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #blackwomenpodcast #Amplifyblackvoices #brandyvsmonica #verzuzbattle #blackgirlmagic
Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion's hit song, WAP, has become the song of the summer. Aprylle and Dena discuss it in an historical and social context while questioning: Is the song appropriate? What does it represent? And, why is it so polarizing? Take a listen. #SpikedSweetTea #SpikedSweetTeapodcast #blackgirlpodcast #amplifyblackvoices #wap #wafflesandpancakes #cardib #megantheestallion #rap #rapmusic #hiphop #blackfeminism #womanism #podcastsincolor #womeninmedia #blackwomenmedia #womenempowerment
This question is popping up in stories all over the place so Dena and Aprylle decided to add their voices to the mix. They kick off the chat with a review of a blog post by Awesomely Luvvie and it takes off from there. Who protects Black women? Who fights for them? Who is responsible for ensuring it's done? Aprylle and Dena don't have the answers, but they do have opinions. Check it out. #Spikedsweettea #SpikedSweetTeapodcast #Blackwomen #protectblackwomen #blackwomenmatter #blackgirlmagic #supportblackwomen #amplifyblackvoices #blackpodsmatter #blackpodcasts #blackpodcasters
In this throwback episode, Dena and Aprylle discuss the Black women characters on TV who have inspired them the most. From Lydia Grant to Rainbow Johnson, the ladies share how seeing these women on a weekly basis had such a profound impact. #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #blackwomenpodcast #blackpodcasters #representationmatters #blackbwomen #lackpodsmatter #actress #dominiquedeveraux #bethpearson #lydiagrant #whitleygilbert #adelewayne #mariongilbert #rainbowjohnson #lenajames #fishmooney #oliviapope #annalisekeating
Hey y'all! It's been a minute, but we're back. This week Aprylle and Dena catch up. It's been several months and so much has happened we gotta talk about it. #blackpodcast #spikedsweettea #spikedsweetteapodcast #blackwomen #blackwomenpodcast #selfcare #gratitude #COVID #education #blacklivesmatter #BLM #pandemic
Aprylle and Dena invite another guest to the show. Nikki Rose is an Atlanta-based author of romance and she is sharing her passion today. You can find her work on Kindle and paperback on Amazon. (Amazon.com/author/nicoletterose) IG: NikkiRose4u Website: NikkiRose4u.blogspot.com #blackpodcast #spikedsweettea #wellreadblackgirl #blackgirlreads #nikkirose #blackromance
Dena and Aprylle jump off the conversation with Summer Walker and continue to talk about their own personal mental health concerns. They also discuss ways to practice self-care. The replay of this is timely in light of the current state of affairs inour nation. Check it out. #blackpodcast #spikedsweettea #mentalhealth #selfcare @blackpeoplementalhealth #blackselfcare
In this 15th episode, Dena and Aprylle discuss films that are frequently referenced in the Black lexicon and are, therefore, must-see movies. Which movies are they? When is the appropriate time to share them with our children? All this is discussed. ALSO..Aprylle demonstrates her poor facial recognition skills and mistakes Lou Gossett, Jr. for Richard Roundtree. Get it together, girl! #blackpodcast #spikedsweettea #blackmovies #blackcinema
This week, Dena and Aprylle reflect on their hair journeys since they were young girls. We know Black women experience joy and pain, frustration and jubilation, rejection and acceptance when it comes to our hair. Enjoy our personal stories in this episode. #blackpodcast #spikedsweettea #blackhair #iamnotmyhair #naturalhair #teamnatural #blackgirls #blackwoman #melanin #afrohair #healthyhair #wigsandweaves #braidsandtwists #blackgirlmagic
Do you tell your sons it's okay to have "alone" time? Do you give your daughters that same message? This week, Dena and Aprylle discuss a tweet by @darealbuttercup in which she states her plans to teach her daughter the art of self-pleasure. Is this appropriate? Should this be the standard? Tune in and listen to us talk it out. #blackpodcast #spikedsweettea #selfgratification #selfpleasure #parenting #sextalk #vibrators #mothersanddaughters #masturbation
Should we still be whupping our kids? Aprylle and Dena chop it up about corporal punishment and if it's really the best way to discipline our children. It's a touch subject, but let's dive in. Referenced is the book, "Spare the Kids: Why Whupping Children Won't Save Black America", Dr. Stacey Patton. #blackpodcast #spikedsweettea #sparethekids #antispanking #peacefulparenting#blackchildren #generationaltrauma
Dena and Aprylle discuss Theo Wilson's Ted Talk about Black male privilege. Ted Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRu2xvJefGQ Damon Young article: https://verysmartbrothas.theroot.com/straight-black-men-are-the-white-people-of-black-people-1814157214 #spikedsweettea #toxicmasculinity #blackandmasculine #blackmaleprivilege #verysmartbrothas #blackmalepatriarchy #metoo #womanist
Here's a throwback from last summer! Dena and Aprylle bumped heads, only a little, on appropriate public attire. Who dictates what is okay to wear, where? Is it okay to wear beachwear at the airport when leaving your Jamaica vacation? Can moms in a rush where a bonnet to drop off their kids at school? These are the questions we tried to answer.
Dena and Aprylle talk about the struggles some single parents have with coparenting. Do some of us allow are personal feelings to impact our child's relationship with their other parent? Sometimes. Let's talk about it.
Dena and Aprylle discuss a Humans of New York featured story about a couple whose 40 year relationship was upended by a shocking secret. Is the couple relationship goals, or is there something else going on? Take a listen and tell us what you think.
Dena and Aprylle have a conversation about attitudes Black women have about Black men dating white women. Is it a problem? Why? Find out on this episode of Spiked Sweet Tea.
A lot of people have had a lot of things to say about the Harriet movie that was released last month. How much of it is true? Dena and Aprylle decided to see for themselves and share their answers with you. SPOILER WARNING...We tell it all. Should Cynthia Erivo have been cast? Is there a white savior? What about misogynoir? It's all packed into this super-sized episode. Settle in and enjoy.
In episode ten, Dena and Aprylle welcome their first guest: poet, educator, and self-proclaimed hip-hop guru, Anon the Griot. Anon asks the ladies to help him understand the line between chivalry and chauvinism.
This week Dena and Aprylle respond to a question from a listener. Is there a myth about "fast" girls in Black families? Let's talk about it!
Sis Sequoia Holmes wrote an article called Black Women Aren’t Allowed To Be Introverted (https://www.bese.com/black-women-arent-allowed-to-be-introverted/) so Dena and Aprylle will discuss it the need for Black women to be who others need us to be. Why are these expectations on us both in and outside of our community?
Aprylle and Dena watched Netflix's "Otherhood" starring Angela Bassett, Patricia Arquette and Felicity Huffman and on this episode they contemplate the fears and challenges that come with being a mother. WARNING This episode is full of spoilers. Also, there's a brief discussion of Rapsody's newly released "Eve". We love that Black Girl Magic!
Aprylle and Dena kick off the Spiked Sweet Tea podcast with a conversation about sisterhood and what it means to be supportive.