Let's Talk π₯ on Thursday π₯: Recent Episodes
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This podcast is a starting point for you to think seriously on what's happening in your life and in the society.Sometimes we talk about society, cultures as if they are some alien stuff that's out there when we are the community and we create these cultures. I am not hear to tell anyone what to do however I'm just point some stuff that we don't take serious or take for granted then they bite us at the end, lets learn to grow together and build each other
We are constantly trying to finding out why people hurt us and we forget that a relationship is about 2 people .we want to believe we are innocent yet we don't want to partake in being responsible to be better , so on this episode we preach taking control and responsibility over our toxic traits so we can correct and hopefully make better decisions in the next episode βΊ Enjoy
Lobola is not a business transaction and the loss of the some of the processes is the reason why some people are misusing the tradition... the more I dug deep the better i understand how the unity is formed and is made to maintainβ€ lets not use this as a way to pay off our debts but men show your effort as well and know your woman and make sure she fully knows your financial status. That's how some Pple are charged because they pretend something they are not
On this overwhelming topic we talked about the lobola process, it was a bit glitchy pardon me but i think I tried to do justice.. however in as much I tried to explain please note culture is fluid so processes may differ from person to person ....due to too much info and less time I had to record another recording to finish up this topic β€ the key issue is to learn more than being entertained
We talk about kuroora nebadza we talk about ukulobola ngenkomo .. we talk about the similarities between the ndebele and shona culture through lobola
We talk parents taking advantage and wanting mukwasha/ mkhwenyana to pay them for raising their daughter because she went to Varsity as if it wasn't their responsibility LOL ... It's only part 1 but it's already interesting βΊ as you listen to this episode please listen to learn udzikamise hana/ yehlis'umoya...
Brown skin girl , skin just like pearl the best thing in the world β€ππΏββοΈππΎββοΈππ½ββοΈππΌββοΈβ€β€ I will never trade you for any body else all shades are beautiful and let's treat it that way β€
We have been trying to embrace our African roots the best way we can and sometimes being too hard on ourselves because we don't know some traditions but it starts from the colour of your skin to your hair even language... Africa is more than that βπΏ
The society needs to understand these men THAT are being labelled trash do not come from planet mars , they are our brothers, fathers, neighbours.. we need to understand where we are going wrong and how to fix the problem
One of the still debated hashtags, it sounds like it's coming from a bitter ex right!! I lt took me a while to understand this hashtag and that's because i listened to it with an open mind
What then if the heart shaped Is evolving? Let's contine the conversation about love and it's uncertainties. Is it worth it or its just a gamble
On this episode we dive into the complexity and uncertainty of love.. Loving and being scared of them at the same time π the hearts shaped heart is slowing changing... what do you think ?
Welcome to my world π crazy, fun and honest is the norm. Hope you enjoy this as much as I did making it β€