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The Relational Ministry of Jesus
Introduction:
- Jesus had a very relational ministry.
- “I came not to be ministered unto, but to minister…” - Matthew 20:28
- Relationships are the core of our mission.
- Without proper relationships we will struggle to see the mission go forward.
- We will look at some of the most pivotal relationships in Jesus’ life and apply principles that he showed us to our lives today.
Jesus and Mary
Proposition: In order for you to have growing relationships that will help the mission go forward, there needs to be two characteristics present: Respect and Love.
Jesus Respected Mary
- Luke 2:41 - 52
- Vs. 48-49 - And when they saw him, they were amazed: and his mother said unto him, Son, why hast thou thus dealt with us? behold, thy father and I have sought thee sorrowing. 49 And he said unto them, How is it that ye sought me? wist ye not that I must be about my Father's business?
- Jesus was doing exactly what he was supposed to be doing.
- He was questioned, and his mother was worried.
- He could have very easily responded “Don’t you know what I’m doing it important?” Or, “Who are you to tell me what to do?” I’m Jesus!
- No He had great respect for His mother and simply stated a calm, respectful questions to her when she was frantic.
- Even though her view of the situation was different then Jesus, his response brought Mary to place of understanding.
- In our society, we have lost respect for one another/authority.
- We have vilified each other.
- We see differing opinions, likes, dislikes, genders, and ethnicities, as a challenge and as a negative thing.
- Instead of respecting the differences God has created us with, we have in fact created barriers in our minds for difference.
- Every relationship you have will either be nurtured or diminished based upon the respect you have for the other party.
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This is true in families, job situations, church, social media. EVERY Relationship.
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Jesus Loved Mary
John 19:25-26
- He was hanging on a cross, beaten and in deep pain.
- When someone comes to the end of their life, the ones closest to them often come to mind, and most people have a plan to take care of the ones the love most dear.
- Jesus was no different.
- Even in his death, how horrific it was, he was loving his mother.
- He made sure John knew to take care of her, to look after her, and to call her mother.
- Love is shown in this passage in a very deep and intimate way.
- Our relationships can flourish if love is at the center of them.
- Jesus wants us to “Love one another as I have loved you…”
- Often times we have a skewed view of what love is.
- We believe love is happiness, fulfillment, or even joy.
- But at is simplest meaning, love is a choice/action.
- You must choose to love someone.
- You must choose to put their needs above your own.
- You must choose to put their desires above yours.
- You must choose to put their well being above yours.
- You must choose to help someone that cannot help you.
- When you love someone, their is never a thought of “what can I get out of this”, there is only “how can I help?”…..
- 1 Corinthians 13 - Love is patient, kind, envies not, is not puffed up, seekers not her own, is long suffering, thinks no evil, rejoices not in iniquity, but rejoices in truth. Bears, believes and hopes all things.
- Our love for others can cause of to have flourishing relationships.