Duane starts the show taking a question from a listening wanting to know how to stop running the same scenarios through a loop in their head. It is important to remind yourself that it takes time to heal from narcissistic abuse and trauma. A caller shares how they are feeling better about fighting to see their child in court. This brings the topic back to how these people can push our buttons and trigger our fear. Duane shares a few recent examples of how the ex tries to continue “boop” him in the eye. A listener shares how the UK court didn’t care about alienation and games that were “played” during the early days of the COVID-19 lockdown. We then go into a discussion of Guardian Ad Litem and if we should “trust” them. A handful of listener share their bad past experience with a GAL. Finally we end on a discussion of what would be good topics to ask, Melissa Isaak from the Melissa Isaak Law Firm, who will be our guest for Wednesday.
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Table of Contents00:00 - Start of show
06:59 - Question - How do you stop running the scenarios through a loop
14:04 - Results are not quick, give yourself time
19:58 - Reminding yourself WHO they really are
22:40 - Caller - Dealing with the fear and fighting for my child
26:57 - Discussion - The fear these people are able to wield
33:39 - Question - How do deal with the waves of trauma and thinking of the “bad”
41:02 - Discussion - The things Duane’s ex continues to BOOP him in the eye
42:22 - Comment - UK courts did not count COVID alienation
44:35 - Question - Experience with Guardian Ad Litem - can you “trust them”
49:58 - Comment - Oversharing can be our Achilles heel
53:03 - Discussion - What to ask Melissa Isaak for Wednesday’s show
59:13 - End of show wrap-up
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