In today’s show Duane starts off the discussion talking finances. It is so easy to make bad financial decisions that ultimately make things much more difficult. We then talk about the importance of re-baselining your life. Duane then talks about the pitfalls of “working more” and how than can be used against you in family court. The discussion then moves to using child support to deny access to kids. Duane shares a story of a friend who was ground up in the system but ultimately after years has been able to get their life back. The reality, you have to play the long game and set yourself up for success. There is a comment about just wanting it to all be over and stopping the fight to regain your sanity. Duane then takes a caller who was made to feel guilty for fighting instead of taking “the high road” on a Reddit post. This drives the discussion on the importance of keeping negativity out of your life. Duane then talks about how the system has changed from when women would get nothing to now when the men lose everything. We wrap the show up with a discussion on being a nurturing father and how to demonstrate that to the family court.
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Table of Contents00:00 - Start of show
04:04 - Discussion - Finance and Budgeting
16:07 - Comment - Re-baselining works
18:04 - Discussion - Working “extra” to make ends meet
21:33 - Comment - Using child support to deny access
23:30 - Discussion - Recovering when family court grinds you up
25:47 - Comment - Notifying court when you “make more money”
28:08 - Discussion - Planning for the “long game”
32:49 - Comment - Fighting harder but wanting it over
35:12 - Comment - Giving up everything
36:42 - Caller - Feeling guilting for fighting for our kids
49:07 - Discussion - The importance of keep negativity out
52:50 - Discussion - How the system has changed
55:15 - Comment - Be a good nurturing father
57:35 - End of show wrap-up
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