In today’s show we tackle a lot of the issues that complicate making “good” decisions. We oftentimes get stuck trying to prove to ourselves what we are really dealing with. The discussion starts off with a question of, “what is the red pill”. Duane dives into the origins from the movie “The Matrix” and then how it pertains to our situation. We then cover a question where one listener’s son is saying he “wants a new mommy”. Duane then talks about how he was programmed to think his own father was a “bad guy”. Duane then brings Debby in as a guest for a bit of the show. We then go into the question of why do we keep “touching the hot pan” and why it takes a while to “learn the lesson” and trust what is real. We finish up talking about taking the time to heal and how you really owe it to yourself to “jump in” the water and get the work done!
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Table of Contents00:00 - Start of show
01:44 - What is the “Red Pill”
08:06 - Comment - Divorce can turn a normal guy into a criminal
12:09 - How I got through this
15:15 - Comment - When your kids say they want a new mom
18:03 - Comment - When I left son asked if I was still going to be his dad
20:37 - Discussion - Was I programed to view my dad as bad?
25:24 - Brought Debby into the conversation
27:37 - Comment - Marriage is a business contract
32:31 - Clip from Veronika Archer about “You Get to be YOU this time”
35:21 - Discussion - Why we keep toughing the hot pot on the stove
44:28 - Comment - If marriage is to come fine but I’m not going to rush it
49:03 - Get more support on the DSD Discord
50:23 - Comment - Done with relationships for a long time
54:53 - End of show wrap-up
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