What do I mean by that?  Well, I just finished watching another of Donald Miller's really informative https://www.businessmadesimple.com/daily/ (Business Made Simple Daily Videos) on https://www.businessmadesimple.com/video/how-to-control-your-emotions/ (How To Control Your Emotions) (The YouTube video is included on https://voiceoversandvocals.com/?p=3693&preview=true (the original blog page)) - and he makes a lot of really helpful comments. If you're focused on arguing your point, "winning" the smaller battle, you lose sight of the WAR.  And by that, I mean the BIGGER PICTURE. (Listen for more.)