Couples therapy is not common place in black or ethnic minority communities and if it is, it is very much kept on the hush hush. Blue Therapy is a YouTube mini series where couples share their journey with a therapist and in episode 22 we discuss some of our findings and overservations of those involved. We also ask the question - if there are fundamental difference in expectations, is there room for compromise or should both parties go their separate ways and find the match that can meet their individual expectations?