Chris and Rowan discuss some of the traps that can develop in our relationships and what we can do to avoid them. We look at the work of John and Julie Gottman, who, in a study, were able to predict whether or not couples would divorce within 15 minutes with 90% accuracy. We talk about what they identified in a relationship that allowed them to predict divorce so accurately, plus what we can do to ensure we don't fall into these same traps.