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Season 5, Episode 2: The Wine Down

About: The wine business is a billion dollar industry with < 3% of black and brown entrepreneurs serving as owners/operators within this setting. We’ll be discussing this sector with Tahiira Habibi, Founder/Sommelier of the Hue Society; Cofounder of the Roots Fund Initiative.

Guest Bio:

Tahiirah Habibi is an esteemed Sommelier, Founder and Executive Director. In 2012, Tahiirah opened the prestigious St.Regis, Bal Harbour. Her career ventured through many leadership roles to include, Micheal’s Genuine. Frustrated with the lack of diversity in the industry, she uses her skills to bridge the intersection of wine and culture. In 2017, she launched Hue Society as a safe space for the community to learn, commune and find resources in one place. She had created a cultural space for the Black community to share their developments and experiences in wine. Tahiirah is the first Black woman to grace the cover of Wine Enthusiast 40 under 40 list and has been featured in Ocean Drive as one of the top 5 female sommeliers, VinePair, Wine Enthusiast, Upscale Magazine, and Imbibe Magazine to name a few.

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Season 5, Episode 1: Farming and Reclaiming the Land

About: Today we are discussing Black Sustainability as it relates to increasing our knowledge about urban gardening with Guest Momomologist Iyeshima Harris-Ouedraogo.

Guest Bio:

Iyeshima started her journey in the food justice movement over 10 years ago as a Green Guerillas Youth Tiller. A Jamaican native, she struggled with the process of assimilation into a new culture. Through farming she found great comfort in her community. Throughout her involvement in the movement, Iyeshima has taught food justice, advocated for universal free school lunch, assisted in the development and sustainment of youth-led organizations, and is now the Project Director of East New York Farms! She is dedicated to integrating youth empowerment and leadership into adult dominated sectors. With a double major in Political Science and Sociology, Iyeshima wishes to combine her passion for food justice and her knowledge of American politics to drive the importance of food in people’s everyday life.

References:

  • https://longreads.trust.org/item/black-urban-community-farmers-uproot-food-apartheid-united-states
  • https://www.bnd.com/news/local/article250178725.html

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Season 4: Episode 8: Generational Wealth

Generational Wealth. We hear this term with the connotation devoted to trust funds and inheritances passed down by (white) family members. Can we have thriving Black businesses/communities to pass our level of generational wealth?

..Let’s talk with our guest entrepreneur, Qui Winfield!

Qui Winfield, CEO and Founder of Moms Dance Too . She has been an entrepreneur for more than five years now. She started her first business Cool Moms Dance Too! With her daughter Serenity Marie a few years after the loss of her partner/Serenity’s dad and grew the business to gain partnerships with NAMI GA, Spanx/Sara Blakely Foundation, Kid Bop, The Atlanta Hawks and more. They just released an app via the Apple app store called GenConnect Game: The Game That Gets Families Talking.

Cool Moms Dance Too: https://www.coolmomsdancetoo.com/

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Season 4, Episode 7: The Value of Private School: a look at culture and community

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In Season 2, we discussed school choice, however focusing on all things private school from a prospective parents POV. Today, we will continue this conversation, however, from the side of administration within the private school. Given the outcomes of protests, of education & mask mandates during the pandemic, especially in large metropolitan school districts, is private school still worth it? We are diving into private schools enriching culture and community relationships with our guests, Darnetta Forteau (Director of Admissions) and Kellee Murrell (Principal), from St. Philip's School and Community Center in Dallas, TX.

Guest Momologist, Meet Darnetta Forteau, Director of Admissions . After 18 years in retail leadership and training, Darnetta transitioned into non-profit work and has spent the last 5 years as an Admissions Director. New to St. Philips School and Community Center, she works with an array of different families and genuinely enjoys spending her days helping parents make important educational decisions for their children. Her career shift was born out of her desire to be living a more purposeful life and she sees how God opened many doors to allow for that to happen. Darnetta Forteau lives in Dallas, TX with her husband of 17 years, Damion, and their two little girls, Quinn (10) and Margot (9). They love to travel and are big fans of Korean culture.

Guest Momologist, Kellee Murrell received a Bachelor of Arts Degree in History Education from Clark Atlanta University and a Master’s in Christian Education from Dallas Theological Seminary. She began her career in Dallas at Tyler Street Christian Academy as a history teacher then continued her passion to educate children at Richardson West Junior High in Richardson ISD. It was there that Mrs. Murrell’s role in education was expanded, serving as the 7th grade girls basketball coach, 21st Century after-school program coordinator, and AVID (Advancement Via Individual Determination) campus coordinator and teacher. Mrs. Murrell, a native New Yorker, is married to Mark Murrell, Deputy Chief of Community Prosecution and Community Courts for the City of Dallas, and has two wonderful children, Eden and Mark Jr., both students of St. Philip’s School and Community Center.

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Season 4, Episode 6: Childhood Obesity

Child Obesity has been on a steady rise over the last 5 years. Childhood obesity in the Black population in the US has climbed to 22% versus 25.8% in the Latino community. Today, we have a guest Momologist and mother of 2, Vanessa Rissetto, to discuss obesity and more.

Meet Vanessa Rissetto

Vanessa received her MS in Marketing at NYU and completed her Dietetic Internship at Mount Sinai Hospital where she worked as a Senior Dietitian for five years. She is certified in Adult Weight Management (Levels I & II) by the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics. Her work in private practice also includes treatment of GI disorders, bariatric surgery, weight management, PCOS, and family nutrition. She is mostly interested in helping clients to take an active role in their health journey, any of her clients can tell you she motivates and ensures that they always achieve success. Vanessa was named by Essence magazine as one of the top 5 black nutritionists that will change the way you think about food.

Vanessa lives in Hoboken NJ with her husband, two kids and their new goldendoodle, Freddie. An exercise junkie she is always up for any class as long as it's after she rides her peloton.

Link to Bio: https://culinahealth.com/vanessa-rissetto

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https://www.beckershospitalreview.com/public-health/childhood-obesity-rates-hit-all-time-high-survey-finds.html

https://www.cdc.gov/obesity/data/childhood.html

https://letsmove.obamawhitehouse.archives.gov/sites/letsmove.gov/files/TaskForce_on_Childhood_Obesity_May2010_FullReport.pdf

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Topic: Let’s discuss having a partner and/or being the partner who is neurodiverse with two Momologists: a Therapist, and a Mom who has ADHS herself.

Guest Momologists: Meet LaTisha Thomas, LCSW-S graduated in 2005 with her Bachelor of Social Work from Texas Woman’s University She then received a Master’s in Social Work from the University of Texas at Arlington in 2006. She has worked at the Department of Veteran Affairs as a clinical social worker for 13 years. In April of 2019, she opened a private practice called Tomorrow and Beyond PLLC in Desoto, Texas. The mission of the practice is to normalize mental wellness for black and brown families. Her specialty is in assisting individuals process traumatic experiences that hinders them from being their best selves. She’s a current professor at Texas Christian University where she sees herself as a catalyst to mold future social workers. LaTisha Thomas does all of this in hopes to live out the legacy of her parents and to ensure her four children have the lives they deserve.

Meet Inger Shaye Colzie is an ADHD Coach and Psychotherapist specializing in making a difference for Black woman executives and entrepreneurs, supporting women through clarity, empowerment and resilience. She has successfully run her practice, Alchemy Coaching & Counseling, as a therapist and Licensed Clinical Social Worker for 15 years in spite of being undiagnosed until in her 50s. She offers the benefits of professional expertise with a lifetime of experience.

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You have heard of the CROWN Act (Listen to Season 2, Episode 22) but why aren't most states passing this law?  Have we seen an improvement in the workforce re: perceptions of natural hair? Is the CROWN Act considered political activism 2.0 (1.5-ish)?

Black Moms your voice is your vote!

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How does one get the support and clarity, as black women within the higher education culture. We’ll be talking with Dr. Monique Bruner.

About Guest Momologist Monique Bruner: Dr. Monique Bruner is completed her doctorate while graduating 2 girls from high school and taking in 2 toddlers. Not to mention she raised her husband's sister...we have 35, 21, 20, 6 & 5 year old children. I’ve been in higher education for over 25 years.

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References

American Association of University Women. Fast Facts: Women of Color in Higher Education. Retrieved March 10, 2021, from https://www.aauw.org/resources/article/fast-facts-woc-higher-ed/

Harris, Adam (2019) The Disciplines Where No Black people Earn Ph.Ds, Retrieved https://www.theatlantic.com/education/archive/2019/04/lack-of-black-doctoral-students/587413/

Thomas, T, et.al (2020) Working as a Black Mamademic during COVID-19: Avoid concerns and clarity. Retrieved https://www.citeblackwomencollective.org/our-blog/working-as-a-black-mamademic-during-covid-19-covid-concerns-and-clarities-by-todne-thomas-whitney-pirtle-and-erica-l-williams

Ginder, S. et al (2018) Postsecondary Institutions and Cost of Attendance in 2017-18; Degrees and Other Awards Conferred, 2016-17; and 12-Month Enrollment, 2016-17. National Center for Education Statistics. https://nces.ed.gov/pubs2018/2018060REV.pdf

Hamrick, Karen (2016) Doctorate Recipients from US Universities. NATIONAL CENTER FOR SCIENCE AND ENGINEERING STATISTICS, Retrieved https://www.nsf.gov/statistics/2018/nsf18304/static/report/nsf18304-report.pdf

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Season 4, Episode 2: Corporate Diversity

Mel and Tash discuss how the Black Mom is affected in the new Corporate world of Diversity, Equity, & Inclusion.

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Season 4, Episode 1: 2020 - The Year of the Black Woman

2020 wasn't all that bad was it?

Rest In Power: Afiah Bey

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Season 3, Episode 21: The New Educational Wealth Gap

We'll discuss one of those factors that may contribute to the decisions OUR families are making--the wealth gap of education. Thanks to social media, not only have we heard the about the expansion of ‘learning pods’, we also hearing of other options like concierge-type teaching where teachers come to their homes.

Guest Momologist: Talitha V. Anyabwele is the Founding Director of RISE (Raising Imhotep Scholars of Excellence) Educational Consulting, where they provide African-centered curriculum, as well as education, and cultural diversity training programs to parents, educators and schools. Prior to her consulting business, Talitha was a curriculum developer and specialist for True North Rochester Preparatory School and Uncommon Schools, Principal of Sakkara Youth Institute in Tallahassee, FL, Behavioral Modification Specialist for Hillsborough County Schools, as well as microschool founder and in Singapore and in Atlanta, GA. Talitha is a homeschool parent to two Imani Geniuses for eight years.

www.raisingimhotep.com

Returning Guest Momologist:

Jennifer Henry is a returning Guest Momologist from Season 1, Episode 9: Black Families and Homeschooling. She studied psychology and biology at Howard University and went on to a doctoral program at New York University’s Center for Neuroscience where she was a MacCracken Fellow and an Adjunct Instructor. She earned a Masters of Philosophy in Neuroscience. As a Mom, she became fascinated with the intersection of neuroscience, psychology and early childhood education. She combined these interests to build an award winning private school using her NeuroNurture preschool curriculum and pedagogy. She blogs about her Life, Wife- and Mom-ventures on MilkBrainBlog. She is the founder of HBCU·ish by NeuroNurture on NeuroNurture.org, a new online marketplace that curates and creates educational products and programs that exclusively serve Black children and their multicultural allies.

MilkBrain Blog: http://milkbrainblog.com/

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Topic: We’ve covered a lot of topics during this pandemic, but we’ve never really sat down with ourselves to check in with how the black mother is doing...feeling...surviving during the pandemic. It’s time to schedule an appointment, sit on the couch and make sense of it all with our therapist, Dr. Dahomey Abanishe.

About Dr. Dahomey Abanishe

Dr. Dahomey Abanishe is a Clinical Associate Professor at the University of Florida. She has practiced as a psychologist for over 10 years in Florida, Ohio, Pennsylvania, and Oklahoma. Her clinical focus includes assessment, program development, and cognitive wellness. She often participates in community mental health outreach programming addressing topics such as microaggressions, stress management, healthy relationships, health aging, mindfulness, and career-building.

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Woodus Obstetrics & Gynecology was established to change this narrative and REALITY. We are working hard to create an experience in women’s healthcare where you are celebrated, not just tolerated. We understand the issues & unique risks that inundate black & brown women in our healthcare system. We are committed to providing all women with the Rights, Respect, & Resources necessary to thrive in every aspect of healthcare. We will continue the work to ensure No mama is left behind.

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Topic: With a little over a month away from school reopening, parents are expressing concerns about the protocols for safe social distancing, sanitation practices, and teacher training. Let’s discuss the education options and concerns during COVID-19.

Resources:

Kentucky Department of Education (2020 May 15) COVID-19 Considerations for Reopening Schools: Initial Guidance for Schools and Districts. Retrieved: https://education.ky.gov/comm/Documents/Reopening%20Guidance%20%20051520kf_tkt%20421pm%20TM.pdf

Statista. (2020 July 10)Total number of cases of coronavirus (COVID-19) in the United States as of July 10, 2020, by state Retrieved: https://www.statista.com/statistics/1102807/coronavirus-covid19-cases-number-us-americans-by-state/

American Academy of Pediatrics. (2020 July 2) Children and COVID-19: State Level Data Report. Retrieved: https://services.aap.org/en/pages/2019-novel-coronavirus-covid-19-infections/children-and-covid-19-state-level-data-report/

APM Research Lab. THE COLOR OF CORONAVIRUS:

COVID-19 DEATHS BY RACE AND ETHNICITY IN THE U.S.Retrieved on July 11, 2020: https://www.apmresearchlab.org/covid/deaths-by-race Perelman, Deb (2 July 2020) In the Covid-19 Economy, You Can Have a Kid or a Job. You Can’t Have Both. New York Times. Retrieved: https://www.nytimes.com/2020/07/02/business/covid-economy-parents-kids-career-homeschooling.html?fbclid=IwAR2itr3JW3BdhePUIuUnASc6GEgbWUcmX1Z7bAz73OPLsnWiYknFKvaWe1s

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Topic: When Black women are the token minority in the workforce, we attempt to seek out other Black women co-workers within the office environment. We give the extra inner ‘black fist’ when she is in a higher, executive position. But what happens when that sense of pride and #blackgirlmagic turns to misery and dread the hands of said Black woman? Recently, a collective group of women, called #BlackFemaleAnonymous, wrote a piece in Medium entitled, “The Truth About Essence”, in which they discussed intimidation and possible retaliation upon the demand for resignation of CEO Richelieu Dennis, Michelle Ebanks, Joy Collins Profet, and Moana Luu. We will have the link of the article in our show notes, as well as Essences’ official statement on the criticism of the article. It does bring up an interesting discussion of working under black women in leadership positions. Many love the thought of working under the visual representation of themselves, while others...not so much. Let’s talk bullying is the worst, as an adult, when it’s buy us.

The Truth About Essence

https://medium.com/@blackfemaleanonymous2020/the-truth-about-essence-532152b08051

Essence Official Statement:

https://www.essence.com/business/essence-official-statement-black-womens-anonymous/

Bullied Out of Position: Black Women’s Complex Intersectionality, Workplace Bullying, and Resulting Career Disruption

https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Leah_Hollis2/publication/326107893_Bullied_Out_of_Position_Black_Women's_Complex_Intersectionality_Workplace_Bullying_and_Resulting_Career_Disruption/links/5b6b766745851546c9f78491/Bullied-Out-of-Position-Black-Womens-Complex-Intersectionality-Workplace-Bullying-and-Resulting-Career-Disruption.pdf

INTERPERSONAL BULLYING BEHAVIOURS IN THE WORKPLACE

http://scholar.google.com/scholar_url?url=https://sajip.co.za/index.php/sajip/article/download/256/253&hl=en&sa=X&scisig=AAGBfm184rFhR_GUdaV_VAgBom6FrBM18w&nossl=1&oi=scholarr

A Review of Black and Minority Ethnic (BME) Employee Experiences of Workplace Bullying

http://scholar.google.com/scholar_url?url=https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Sabir_Giga/publication/260246604_A_Review_of_Black_and_Minority_Ethnic_BME_Employee_Experiences_of_Workplace_Bullying/links/02e7e5315fee497fb2000000/A-Review-of-Black-and-Minority-Ethnic-BME-Employee-Experiences-of-Workplace-Bullying&hl=en&sa=X&scisig=AAGBfm3WNsMzlqP4mYxGDjtE80rTa-gi1A&nossl=1&oi=scholarr

Three Perspectives on Workplace Harassment of Women of Color

https://digitalcommons.law.ggu.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1600&context=ggulrev

Women Bullied At Work: Here’s Why Your Female Boss Doesn’t Support You

https://www.forbes.com/sites/heidilynnekurter/2020/02/19/women-bullied-at-work-heres-why-your-female-boss-dislikes-you/#742bc78c654b

Sista' Abuse: The Prevalence of Black-on-Black Female Bullying in the Workplace?

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/263163369_Sista'_Abuse_The_Prevalence_of_Black-on-Black_Female_Bullying_in_the_Workplace

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Last episode we spoke with Awete Tyehimba, owner of Pan African Connection, about reconnecting with our roots...the inspiration behind the reconnecting. One question we asked was where do we begin. It can be quite an overwhelming and daunting task. We’ll be talking about the process of researching your roots with our guest momologist, Bernetta Knighten of BernettaStyle.

Guest Momologist Bio: Bernetta Knighten, is a certified Life Coach who helps motivate women in developing a blueprint to follow their dreams. Bernetta launched the non-profit, The Knighten Project in 2015, with a vision to reinvent how everyday people dream by making one big dream come true for people who have hope, but lack the network, resources, and opportunity.

The Midwest native earned her Bachelor’s degree from Alabama State University in Marketing and is a proud ASU Alumni. She is also an Executive Concierge with PwC, PricewaterhouseCoopers in Tampa, Florida. Bernetta has also run her own lifestyle site, BernettaStyle.com for 10 years, which focuses on Family, Fitness and has allowed her to work with big brands such as Disney, Steve Harvey, Home Depot and many more. She also runs an eCommerce business with her daughter, Bailee’s Nail Box and her most recent venture is the podcast, Dream Girl, Dream!

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Bold Believers United is hosting its fourth annual, C4: Christian, Character, College & Career Summer Camp. Traditionally, C4 is held at Southern Methodist University, but in effort to keep everyone safe from COVID-19, C4 will be completely online. We would love for any 13-17yr olds (7-12 graders) to join us this summer!

Their registration deadline is July 8th.

The C4 camp provides middle and high school students exposure and preparation for college, various career pathways and diverse industry experts who lead workshops, provide mentoring and share expertise throughout the camp. Additionally, students participate in various activities and workshops centered on strengthening their Christian faith, self-esteem, confidence and peer relationships.

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Season 3, Episode 16: Return to Your Roots

Many of us are revamping conversations that we had in 2016 about leaving the United States… Going back to Africa… Reconnecting with our roots. What does that process look like? Where would we begin? We’ll be discussing this with our guest momologist, Aweke Tyehimba.

Guest Momologist, Aweke Tyehimba. Bookstore owner Akwete Tyehimba was born on April 3, 1963 in Waco, Texas to Oblee Monroe and Isiah Monroe. She graduated from Richfield High School in Waco, Texas in 1981 and attended McLennan Community College in Waco, Texas, the University of North Texas in Denton, Texas and night classes at North Lake College in Irving, Texas. Akwete has helped on various local campaigns and Co-Founded the Pan-African Connection with her late husband in 1989. In 2013, Tyehimba was named one of thirty of the most interesting people in Dallas by the Dallas Observer. Tyehimba had three children with her late husband, Bandele Tyehimba; Adjwoa, Bambata and Sekou.

Website: https://www.panafricanconnection.com/

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Topic: The Brown Mama’s Mindset

A little self-care is warranted during this time for our black mothers nationwide. Not self-care in terms of deflecting your feelings and concerns (or maybe that might be true, for the moment, as well), but maybe a sense of reflection of who you are and how you can move forward?? how to prioritize your time for thoughtful conversation in positive mobilization?...or maybe reflect on your personality as a black mother and the tribe you wish to exist in?

Bio: Muffy Mendoza is a tribe builder, informational and motivational speaker, author and executive director at Brown Mamas, a Pittsburgh-based fiscally sponsored nonprofit that works to provide moms-of-color with positive socialization opportunities and connect them with the resources and information they need to raise happy, healthy adults. Most notably, Muffy is known for having cultivated a community of nearly 5,000 African-American moms hungry for social change due to a lack of safe spaces for moms-of-color in the Pittsburgh region. Muffy has leveraged this platform to author her first book, The Brown Mama Mindset, that was featured at the 2018 Essence Festival and is currently sold at various cities across the U.S.Muffy stays focused on tribe building at home as a homeschooling mom of 3 boys and wife of one awesome husband. When she’s low-key Muffy loves reading history books and watching boring documentaries (at least that how her boys describe them)

Links: brownmamas.com

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Topic: Buy Black

Data from the Small Business Administration indicates that just over 19 million businesses, or 70.9 percent of all U.S. businesses, are white-owned. Blacks own about 2.6 million businesses or 9.5 percent of all U.S. businesses, and Latinos own 3.3 million businesses or 12.2 percent of all American businesses. Obvious questions include:

  1. Why the disproportion is fund disbursement?
  2. Is buying black more important today than 70 years ago? Why? Why not?

We’ll get into if and why buying black matters today.

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Topic: Mel and Tash have a deeper conversation on how hip hop, tv, and shopping has shaped us as we were growing up and how it may have affected our motherhood.

Sources:

https://www.nbcnews.com/think/opinion/megan-thee-stallion-cardi-b-lizzo-are-leading-pleasure-politics-ncna1029961

https://www.allthelyrics.com/lyrics/roxanne_shante/brothers_aint_shit-lyrics-1161660.html

https://www.allthelyrics.com/lyrics/roxanne_shante/independent_woman-lyrics-1161663.html

https://www.nytimes.com/1986/06/15/books/sexism-racism-and-black-women-writers.html

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Topic: Have you ever heard of mindfulness meditation? We think it’s fitting to discuss this during these difficult times. According to Wikipedia, Mindfulness is the psychological process of purposely bringing one's attention to experiences occurring in the present moment without judgment, which one develops through the practice of meditation and through other training. Mindfulness meditation asks us to suspend judgment and unleash our natural curiosity about the workings of the mind, approaching our experience with warmth and kindness, to ourselves and others. (Source: mindful.org). The motherhood journey is a stressful one. While we can talk about wine socials as a source of dealing (or escapism),We can imagine others are seeking a different approach for stress management. Let’s explore this thought process of mindfulness meditation with our guest momologist, Alana Sutton Watkins.

Guest Momologist: Alana Sutton Watkins is an entrepreneur (she started an African print curator apparel store), homeschool mom of 3, wife, and now blogger. A Graduate of University of Missouri, a former Board Member of Alley’s House and a Member of Mocha Moms and Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. Alana currently lives in Philadelphia

https://alanasuttonwatkins.com/

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Season 3, Episode 11: Coping During Covid Times

Daily life during the COVID-19 pandemic outbreak has been stressful for people. The need for natural human interaction has abruptly halted with mandates to immediately shelter in place for an unforeseen amount of time. Our lives have shifted. We’re having varied, valid emotions in adults and children. We’re discussing feelings and coping during COVID-19 with our returning guest momologist Sh’Niqua Alford.

1st Episode Appearance: Season 1, Episode 2: How Abuse Affects Black Moms and Our Children

About Restoring Serenity Counseling Center, PLLC Sh'Niqua Alford is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in the state of Texas (license #41470). She holds a Master of Social Work - University of Texas at Arlington and in 2005 recieved her Bachelor of Social Work - Texas Christian University. Over the past 13 years, Sh'Niqua has worked in a variety of social work/clinical settings: Supporting and mentoring pregnant/parenting teenagers to overcome barriers and achieve success as both a parent and a student. Employment in the child welfare system; helping children in foster care and their families overcome trauma, abuse, and neglect. Working at local psychiatric facilities to help children, adolescents, and adults receive proper mental health treatment. Adjunct social work professor; focused on teaching social work students to become strong, competent, and ethical social work leaders. Where to find Restoring Serenity Counseling Center, PLLC 1201 N. Watson Rd. Suite 295 | Arlington, TX 76006 817-989-6336 https://www.restoringserenitycounseling.com/ Twitter: @salfordLCSW Pintrest: @restoringserenitycounselingcen Facebook: @restoringserenitycounseling Email: salford@restoringserenitycounseling.com

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Season 3, Episode 10: The Wild Wild Web

Topic: The current state of sheltering-in-place has forced the use technology more than ever for economic stability (as weak as it is now), social/mental well-being and educational tools for society. Sadly, we’re hearing of hackers displaying explicit images and expressing racist rhetoric within Zoom calls or kid Youtube videos. This behavior of harassment may affect adults as much as it does children, with cyber bullying and cyber crimes on the rise. Today, we will discuss cyberbullying and cyber crimes during COVID-19 with our returning guest momologist, Dr. Alicia Makaye.

Guest Momologist: Alicia Makaye, PhD.

Alicia is a returning guest and VP of GXA. Episode where we met Alicia: Season 2 | EP29: Mompreneur Spotlight

Resources:

https://www.stopbullying.gov/

Mallory’s Story:

https://www.foxnews.com/health/cyberbullying-all-american-little-girl-suicide

Unintended Consequence of COVID-19:

https://phys.org/news/2020-03-unintended-consequence-covid-cyberbullying.html

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Topic: There is a growing number of African-American women who have become pioneers in the country’s burgeoning cannabis industry. More and more black women are becoming marijuana entrepreneurs, creating dispensaries, launching CBD product lines and selling edible cannabis products and weed-themed merchandise (Source: NewsOne) However, we know that marijuana policies disportionaly affect black and brown communities. How do ‘budding entrepreneurs’ of color gain traction and notably recognition when the odds are against us. Let’s discuss this with our guest momologist, Whitney Beatty, CEO of The Apothecarry Brands, INC.

Guest Momologist: Whitney Beatty, CEO of The Apothecarry Brands, INC.

Apothecarry Brands CEO Whitney Beatty is a successful entertainment industry executive turned cannabis storage designer that’s spearheading her quickly growing start-up. After meeting so many like minded cannabis users, who lamented about a lack of good storage system, worried about securing buds away from kids and pets and who were tired of searching around for their stash to discover it dried out from plastic baggies and non-airtight dispensary jars, Apothecarry was born. The brand seeks to redefining the image of cannabis users who take pride and pleasure in their stash, while filling a hole in the marijuana paraphernalia market for everyone from the attorneys who tokes after their high powered workday, to the “stiletto stoners” who are hosting ladies night, to the seniors using medication for health benefits and everyone in between who demands the best in all things.

Website: http://www.theapothecarrycase.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/apothecarry/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/theapothecarry

Instagram: @thehighmommylife

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Topic: Menopause affects all women regardless of race or socioeconomic background. However, recent studies have shown that the experience of menopause is different among different racial groups. African Americans have more estrogen related symptoms (hot flashes, night sweats, vaginal dryness, urine leakage) than all the other ethnic groups. Additionally, African Americans are less likely to have somatic symptoms (headaches, difficulty sleeping, racing heart, stiffness and soreness in joints) than all other ethnic groups. Unfortunately, when it comes time for menopause, you're also likely to have more intense symptoms than your white peers. We will talk, in-depth of the change of life with our guest Momologist, Dr. Tiffany Woodus

References:

https://news.yale.edu/2005/04/26/menopause-and-african-american-women

https://www.verywellhealth.com/menopause-worse-for-african-american-women-3522485

https://sacobserver.com/2015/02/black-women-endure-menopause-longest/

http://www.blackwomenshealthproject.org/aamenopause.htm

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Topic: Rashida Jones, Whoopi Goldberg, and most recent Tiffany Haddish are some of the notable African American Jewish celebrities. We can theorize that their celebrity status makes the transition easier to acclimate than non celebrities. We will discuss the path of being a Black Jewish mom in society with out guest momologist, Aviva Brown.

Guest Momologist:

Aviva Brown and her children converted to Judaism in 2017, but during the preceding years of Jewish study, she noticed a lack of racial diversity among Jewish children’s literature. In late 2018, Aviva read a quote by author Beverly Cleary: If you don’t see the book you want on the shelf, write it. She’s been named North Carolina’s Mother of the Year 2020 by American Mothers, Inc.!⁣ Aviva currently lives in North Carolina with her husband, two cats, and four wild animals who sometimes pretend they’re well-mannered children. When she’s not writing, editing, or reading diverse children’s books, she can be found hiding from housework (no one’s actually ever found her; she’s super good at hiding), eating popcorn, or singing show tunes.

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Topic:On this podcast, we’ve been talking about the American Black motherhood experience. But what’s the journey like aboard? Do they experience racism? Colorism? Educational disparities. We will discuss The Black Motherhood Experience abroad with our guest momologist, Kearie Dee of Woke Mommy Chatter.

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Topic:  Recently, the city of Lancaster ISD sued a board member for a conflict of interest for being an advocate to children with special needs. This discussion leads to the question, shouldn’t our school board be advocating for children’s best interest, with our guest momologist, Carolyn Morris. 

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Season 3, Episode 4: Coping with Grief

The emotional trauma brought on by the death of a close family member is often accompanied by varied emotional responses. Adults have difficulty processing death, but how do we have a healthy and successful discussion about death to their offspring? We will discuss how to talk to your children about death with our Guest Momologist, Kymberly Akpowowo.

Guest Momologist: Kymberly is a xennial blogger, advocate, and licensed social worker with experience in mental health, community administration, and advocacy. She is multi-passionate about health-related topics, politics, poverty, and women’s empowerment just to name a few. Her main focus is supporting youth, their parents, and other youth-focused organizations in the transition from adolescence to adulthood and helping other social workers utilize their current skills and abilities to social work differently. Through her podcast, Unlearned, she has made it her personal agenda to keep the uninformed informed about all things social work. She currently works for the State of Texas Social Services Surveyor where she has the privilege of investigating incidents and auditing long-term care facilities to ensure that the geriatric population are receiving the care they need.

http://voyagedallas.com/interview/meet-kymberly-akpowowo-kymberly-professional-support-services-fort-worth/

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Our prayers and condolences go out to families who have lost a loved one recently. At the time of this taping we send our thoughts to Vanessa Bryant and the families affected in the Helicopter Crash in Los Angeles.

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Season 3, Episode 3: Communal Living

Mel and Tash discuss what appears to be a rising trend in living "Communal Living". With the cost of living on the rise and salaries staying flat could this be the way you and your family live?

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Resources:

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Season 3, Episode 2: Relationships and Finances

Seventy percent of black women are the primary or sole financial breadwinner, but yet are not confident about our finances. Kids definitely take up the finances, but should we be living in a constant hamster wheel/robbing Peter to pay Paul lifestyle? What do we have to do to get better, more confident at obtaining financial freedom? What does your financial snapshot look like in 2020? As some may have lived behind the philosophy of “what’s mine is mine and what’s yours is yours”, does it bring a successful financial plan for our partners? What if you were brought up differently? Can we (the black woman) collectively say we have the financial confidence to pay, save, and invest? Let’s break it down….

Mahogany Mom of the Week: Want to give a shout out to one of our FB Group Momologist Asia Christa Atkinson. She is a single mom and working on her graduate degree. We are praying for your success and keeping Aries in our prayers. We love you sis!

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Giving back is one of the core values of Queendom Finance which translates in it’s founder Leonie Simo serving on PTA boards in the Frisco community and partnering with the Simo Foundation (www.simofoundation.org) to help provide scholarships and backpacks to kids in Cameroon.

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Season 3, Episode 1: Food Desert Solutions

Food deserts tend to be more populated by low-income residents, who are not as attractive a market for large supermarkets, and have reduced mobility. Food deserts lack suppliers of fresh protein sources such as poultry, fish and meat, along with fresh fruit and vegetables, instead, relying on convenience stores, which provide processed and sugar- and fat-laden foods, which are known contributors to the United States' obesity epidemic.

We are discussing the gap to accessible health food options within our community with our guest Momologist Teasha Fridia.

Guest Momologist: Teasha Fridia is the co-owner and co-founder of The Mini Farmers Market, Inc. The Mini Farmers Market has been working collectively in our community for the past 13 years encouraging community members to pool their resources; allowing produce to be purchased bulk and brought back to our neighborhoods which are known food deserts. Along with co- owner Suzette Muhammad, we have recently obtained 501c3 non- profit status and plan to take this Ministry as far and as wide as we can to those in need.

Email: theminifarmersmarketinc@yahoo.com

Facebook: www.facebook.com/MiniFarmersMarketCoOp

Website: https://theminifarmersmarket.wixsite.com/website-1

Mahogany Momologist of the Week: Denishea Williams

Our Mahogany Momologist of the Week is: Denishea Williams. Denishea is leveling up by starting her mental health consulting via a retreat called Healing Inside Out (link is in our show notes). This mother to a special needs child on the spectrum is a certified mindfulness coach, and is passionate about helping women find their inner and higher self while healing with past and present trauma. We wish Denishea the best in business journey and ask you take a look in supporting her as well. Congrats Denishea!

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This episode is brought to you by LACH. Decluttering #momlife is what they do at LACH! LACH is an online marketplace for mothers to buy and sell preloved maternity and children's items.LACH is more than just a marketplace. On the site or on the app, mothers can connect and share the joys of parenting. In this Mompreneur Spotlight we will be chatting with Founder, Kimberly Davis on how and why she created LACH.

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Guest Momologist Bio: Kimberly Davis is mother of two with a passion for saving money and the environment. After giving birth to her daughter Lena in 2016, she suddenly had a stroke. While recovering, she knew she wanted to make a difference in this world and never take life for granted again. When the idea for LACH came to her (an easy way to buy or sell preloved maternity and childrens items) She wanted to make it into a reality and create a useful space online for moms like herself.

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This episode is brought to you by GXA. GXA is an IT Solutions provider that builds stronger businesses and stronger communities. GXA prides itself on giving back to the underprivileged, not only within the community, but internationally. We have the pleasure to continue the discussion about IT awareness and diversity with co-founder, Dr. Alicia Makaye.

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About Dr. Alicia Makaye

Dr. Alicia Makaye is a philanthropist, entrepreneur and co-founder of GXA (she is the “A” in GXA). GXA is an IT Solutions provider that helps other businesses take command and control of their IT. She is an U.S. Airforce Veteran and a graduate of U.T. Dallas with a Ph.D. in Public affairs. Dr. Makaye is an alumni of Goldman Sachs 10,000 small businesses entrepreneurship program (cohort 10). Most recently Dr. Makaye was recognized by Dallas Business Journal as a 2019 Minority Business Leader for her leadership and contributions to the community.

Dr. Makaye frequently speaks and participates in activities that foster youth development. She currently serves on UT Dallas Diversity Advisory Council and MPA Advisory Board and elected as Richardson Chamber as Advisory Board Member.

GXA was recognized as the recipient of the Inc. 5000 award, one of America’s fastest growing companies in 2014 and 2019 and is also a Microsoft Partner. Since GXA inception 14 years ago, the company has served over 300 small to medium sized businesses in the Dallas/Fort Worth area.

Dr. Makaye has led the GXA community outreach initiatives including Adopting a Veteran Family, providing financial literacy workshops for the youth and backpack drives. GXA collected and donated over 100 computers to Imani Bridges to empower men and women in Nigeria. In 2018, GXA collected and donated over 300 computers to the community locally and internationally.

When Dr. Makaye is not running the business or volunteering, she is attending Dallas Mavericks Basketball games with her children or going to Hockey games with her husband of 17 years. Jet Skiing is her favorite vacation leisure activity.

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Topic: The Family Friendly Schools Act will create a first-of-its-kind pilot program to give schools resources to stay open during the entire work day throughout the school year and to invest over $1 billion in enriching summer learning programs – all without forcing teachers to work longer hours or for less pay. Introduced by Sen. Kamala Harris (D)-California and presidential candidate during her campaign, grants will be provided to 500 “family friendly schools” for before school, after school, and summer enrichment. Mel and Tash will break down the Act providing pros and cons.

Mahogany Momologist of the Week: Congrats to Thasunda Brown Duckett who was appointed to the Nike Board of Directors. Duckett, CEO of Chase Consumer Banking, is executive sponsor of JPMorgan Chase’s Advancing Black Pathways program which is directed toward helping black Americans achieve economic success through wealth, education and careers. When not being a boss in the corporate and community streets her and her husband Richard cheer on their award winning fencing kids: Madison and Myles.

Podcast Partner: This episode is sponsored in part by HAK Electronics. Based in Dallas, they focus on making STEM learning fun for kids 5 and up. From after school, weekends, and camps your kids will see the amazing ways their lives are impacted by STEM. Get 10% discount on classes by using the word Momology check them out at www.hakelectronics.com and now on to our show.

Resources:

Article on the Act:

https://www.harris.senate.gov/news/press-releases/harris-introduces-family-friendly-schools-act

Full Act:

https://www.harris.senate.gov/imo/media/doc/Family%20Friendly%20Schools%20Act%20Text%5b1%5d.pdf

Red State:

https://www.redstate.com/alexparker/2019/11/06/kamala-harris-serves-disturbing-ironically-named-bill-family-friendly-act/

Anti - Bill

https://wrenchinthegears.com/2019/11/15/the-family-friendly-schools-act-a-set-up-for-soft-policing-schools-to-profit-impact-investors/

Bill Sponsors

https://littlesis.org/maps/4521-family-friendly-schools-act-sponsors

Mother Honestly

https://www.motherhonestly.com/editorial/family-friendly-schools

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Season 2, Episode 27: What You Didn't Know About Private School. Finding the right educational pathway for your child can be daunting. Private school vs. public vs. charter--what’s best for our children? Whatever your thoughts are on the state of our educational system, we’ll discuss a fraction of it---what you didn’t know about private schools with our guest momologist, Dara Tilghman.

Guest Momologist: Dara Tilghman Founder of Dallas Fort Worth Private Education. DFWPE was founded to help parents find schools and other resources for their children. To learn more about our services or to ask for help finding a school, they are on facebook and we will have the links in the show notes. Originally from DC by way of California she has dived herself in all things private education in Dallas. When not working she spends time with her husband Carl and ensuring Chloe and Tre are enjoying life to the fullest.

Resources:

Dallas Fort Worth Private Education

  • Website: DFWPrivateEdu.com
  • Phone: 214.325.8704
  • Email: info@dfwprivateedu.com
  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dfwprivateedu/
  • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DFWPrivateEdu/
  • Twitter: https://twitter.com/DFWPrivateEdu
  • Other: https://www.linkedin.com/company/dfw-private-education/

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Topic: Teaching your child justice while you fight injustice

Recent news once again is showing the challenges of living in America. #BlackLivesMatter. The untimely deaths of Bothan Jean and Atatiana Jefferson, both in their 20’s & both killed by police officers, has sparked outrage in the investigation process when its one of their own. As black parents, we’ve felt that conversations about race and race relations occur far too young for the mind to even process….or so do adults think. How do we, as black adults, not only teach these lessons to our children, when we struggle with our own challenges with the justice system? Today, we will dive into teaching your child justice while you fight injustice

Mahogany Momologist of the Week: Dr. Karrie G. Dixon, was recently installed as the Elizabeth City State University’s 12th Chief Executive Office and 7th Chancellor. Dr. Dixon holds a bachelor’s degree in Communications and Public Relations from NC State University, a master’s degree in Speech Communications and Rhetoric from the University of North Carolina at Greensboro, and a doctorate of education from NC State. She and her husband Devi have two daughters. https://www.ecsu.edu/about/governance/chancellor/biography.html

Resources:

5 Ways For Kids To Fight Injustice With #MomsReading

ttps://www.momsrising.org/blog/5-ways-for-kids-to-fight-injustice-with-momsreading

3 Ways You Can Teach Your Child Social Injustice

https://www.kars4kids.org/blog/parenting/3-ways-you-teach-your-child-social-injustice/

Raising Race Conscious Children

http://www.raceconscious.org/?fbclid=IwAR35kken-82ZH5qa8QnZ-9tiwKgMjZBcM1TvoIL4vsIoePgJsZIMK73uHM0

The History and Political Power of Black Motherhood

https://www.yesmagazine.org/peace-justice/black-women-mothers-interview-dani-mcclain-20190425

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Mahogany Moms of the Week: This Momologist of the Week is Dr. Raissa Ferron. This wife, and mother of two is an Associate Professor at The University of Texas at Austin, where she teaches undergraduate and graduate coursework within the Department of Civil, Architectural, and Environmental Engineering. Her accolades are too much to mention for our hour-long podcast, but prominent notables include being the first African-American woman to earn tenure in the Department of Civil, Architectural and Environmental Engineering, Engineering News Record 2016’s Top 20 under 40, and American Concrete Institute (ACI) Young Member for Professional Achievement Award in 2018. Dr Ferron is an avid supporter of mentoring children, especially young girls, into STEM fields.

Angel Frazier. This mom of 4 whips many hairstyles back in sassy shape. We commend her for keeping us all on our toes by constantly changing her look and elevating ours too.

Resources:

8 ways you may be encouraging your child to be a bully (https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/parenting/wp/2015/03/10/8-ways-you-may-be-encouraging-your-child-to-be-a-bully/?outputType=amp)

https://techjury.net/stats-about/cyberbullying/

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/bullying

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-couch/201908/what-makes-someone-support-bully

https://www.today.com/parents/how-stop-bullying-schools-what-works-what-doesn-t-t159669?fbclid=IwAR2acsZfzGCozR9KKtOdXHp_v8erCrqUZ1gvwgq676ZJOC6tlgGbrSOI3wM

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Topic: Living Your Authentic Self Financially

Can we talk finances and money management?!? As a mom, I always feel like I’m ‘robbing Peter to pay Paul’. This becomes a bit challenging as a budding entrepreneur. The constant shift our finances may leave one to wonder if this entrepreneur journey is right for them. Only one in 10 African Americans work with a financial professional compared with one in four white Americans, according to the 2015-2016 African American Financial Experience Prudential report said. I get it-- we don’t want everybody to know our financial business. It leaves us open and vulnerable to criticism in how we should be handing our life….not that we should be having that line of thinking. With such a taboo topic (especially in the African American community), we will discuss the factors contributing to the lack of financial confidence in daily living and our small business, with Dorinda Walker.

About Dorinda Walker:

Dorinda Walker is an acclaimed author of the book “Protected by Purpose”, an award-winning multicultural marketer and CEO of Dorinda Walker Cultural Solutions Group, a marketing consultancy that provides strategic insights and solutions for brands to engage diverse consumers.

Having served 20 years in the financial services industry, Walker has dedicated her career to advancing gender, racial and financial equity among underserved consumers. Walker is a highly accomplished innovative leader with outstanding results in marketing and community engagement. She’s a demonstrated change agent who has generated a combined $100M+ in life insurance and annuities revenue be leading campaigns and community engagement initiatives that have enhanced brand affinity among women and diverse markets.

She has received several distinguished honors and awards for her marketing, community and corporate service. Most recently in 2018 named a one of the 25 African American Leaders making a difference in New Jersey, one of New Jersey’s Leading Women Intrapreneurs, recipient of the Marc E. Berson Community Award.

Questions for Dorinda:

  • What are 2 financial products and services a mom and a mompreneur needs to incorporate into their business plan right now? Why and what is the impact? What are the cost ranges?
  • In your interview with Essence you mention the biggest mistake black women make with money is we do not talk about finances. Can you expand upon why this is a big mistake we make? Is the mistake when we talk to girlfriends? significant others? ourselves?
  • Women are less likely to have the confidence to invest in the stock market, do you find this true? Let’s expand on that.
  • What do you suggest moms do today to carry on their financial legacy and break general curses?
  • Talk to us about the book! How can it be useful in our daily life?
  • You mentioned in your recent blog post "Marketers may want to consider developing their womens' marketing strategy by leading with the cultural insights of Black women." What specifically can these mompreneurs do to develop a strategy that showcases and appeal to engage ourselves?
  • What is the perception about marketing black women-centered small developers/owners that misses the mark?
  • What advice do you have for our future generations re: preserving a legacy?
  • Who is Dorinda at home? Do you grocery shop? What is your downtime like?
  • Congrats on 26 years of Black Love! When things get tough what steps or what have you down to re-center the marriage back on track?

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Mahogany Mom of the Week: Our Mahogany Mom this week is K.Rashard. She owns the only black woman owned trucking school in Texas called @On Track Truck Driving School LLC

Where to Find Us Next:

  • The Motivated Mom Retreat on September 21 at the Omni Mandalay in Irving, TX: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/2019-motivated-mom-retreat-registration-54248269033
  • If you would like to consider Private education for your child and not sure about the ins and outs or even how diversity plays a part join us and many other families at the 2nd Annual Families of Color Conference on October 20 in DFW. https://dfwprivateedu.com/focc/

Topic: Human trafficking involves the use of force, fraud, or coercion to obtain some type of labor or commercial sex act. Every year, millions of men, women, and children are trafficked worldwide – including right here in the United States. It can happen in any community and victims can be any age, race, gender, or nationality. Traffickers might use violence, manipulation, or false promises of well-paying jobs or romantic relationships to lure victims into trafficking situations. Language barriers, fear of their traffickers, and/or fear of law enforcement frequently keep victims from seeking help, making human trafficking a hidden crime. (Source: Homeland Security)

Resources:

  • Warning signs that an individual is being trafficked:
  • Signs of physical abuse such as burn marks, bruises or cuts
  • Unexplained absences from class
  • Less appropriately dressed than before
  • Sexualized behavior
  • Overly tired in class
  • Withdrawn, depressed, distracted or checked out
  • Brags about making or having lots of money
  • Displays expensive clothes, accessories or shoes
  • New tattoo (tattoos are often used by pimps as a way to brand victims. Tattoos of a name, symbol of money or barcode could indicate trafficking)
  • Older boyfriend or new friends with a different lifestyle
  • Talks about wild parties or invites other students to attend parties
  • Shows signs of gang affiliation? (ie: a preference for specific colors, notebook doodles of gang symbols, etc.)

1 (888) 373-7888

National Human Trafficking Hotline

SMS: 233733 (Text "HELP" or "INFO")

Hours: 24 hours, 7 days a week

Languages: English, Spanish and 200 more languages

Website: humantraffickinghotline.org

https://www.unicefusa.org/mission/protect/trafficking

https://girlsincsd.org/take-action/advocacy/?gclid=Cj0KCQjw2efrBRD3ARIsAEnt0eiywpYEg0NCKSMEKPEQITuLeIue_Yy6afhQOLkliHNRUQ9egDptPwsaArOIEALw_wcB

Signs:

https://sharedhope.org/join-the-cause/report-trafficking/

What parents can do to prevent child trafficking

https://www.facebook.com/love146.org/videos/225582461687455/

10 Tragic Facts about Human Trafficking: https://youtu.be/sj0ajJ0HQLs

56 Little Known Facts About Human Trafficking: https://www.factretriever.com/human-trafficking-facts

African American Trafficking Numbers: https://thevoiceofblackcincinnati.com/african-american-human-trafficking/

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Season 2, Episode 23: The Rejuvenated Mom

During the motherhood journey, we often complain that we are “lost’. Our time and energy are consumed with the wellbeing and care or our children and significant others. Previous guest has expressed that once that motherhood journey transitions to empty nesting or even content/stabilization, the idea of self-preservation is new/daunting/familiar/unfamiliar phenomena. Hence, the concept of reinvention comes to play. How can we continuously preserve this idea throughout our motherhood journey? If we have partners, should we be thinking about this affects them in our relationship with caring for ourselves?

Guest Momologist: LaToyia Dennis. La Toyia is an author, speaker, and event producer around help moms create strategies for success to live a healthy life of purpose. Latoyia Dennis is a mom, wife, speaker, author, early childhood education advocate, parent enthusiast and master motivator. With more than 15 years of experience in development, strategic planning and non-profit management with Prudential, Coca-Cola and Hilton, to name a few, she is also the founder and Principal Fundraising Consultant of the non-profit organization, A Chance to Learn, as well as being the founder and driving force behind the program/platform, The Motivated Mom. She was born in Illinois but raised in California. She is an advocate for children and Jesus Christ. This mother of son, Chance, and wife to Andre enjoys roller skating, Bikram yoga, and reading.

Our Mahogany Mom of the week is DeNita Lacking-Quinn . This single mother of 3 is the head of an award-winning PR firm, she also completed over 517 pro bono hours for local non-profits as well as hiring eight interns from inner city district high schools during the summer. She is an inspiration to many mothers in her community and we salute you for all of the outstanding work you and your firm are doing.

This episode is sponsored in part by HAK Electronics. Based in Dallas, they focus on making STEM learning fun for kids 5 and up. From after school, weekends, and camps your kids will see the amazing ways their lives are impacted by STEM. Get 10% discount on classes by using the word Momology check them out at www.hakelectronics.com and now on to our show.

Resources:

http://voyagedallas.com/interview/meet-latoyia-dennis-motivated-mom-im-housed-north-richland-hills-offer-services-dfw/

https://www.motivatedmom.org/author/latoyia-dennis/

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Topic: Black hair and hair culture has been a form of political activism for centuries. When black women were forced to cover our heads, we wore beautiful headwraps, highlighting our beauty. But penalized for the creativity and originality. To the 1960’s, when certain types of hairstyles were pictured equivalent to resistance. The advertising presence shifted in the late 1960’s- 1990’s, emphasizing black hair care be relaxed. Black women once again are resisting the traditional relaxed look, to its natural and cultural representation of curly/kinky hair and braids/cornrows. The US government isn’t too keen of black women being autonomous of our hair and bodies--some can make the argument about this overseas too. Schools and the military have placed discriminatory hair policies, due to lack of understanding (and cultural insensitivity) to black/brown individuals. The battle between our autonomy and black hair care remains. We will discuss the most recent piece of legislation, called the C.R.O.W.N act, which was created in support of banning these hair policies. How does this act translate to us as success in the workforce? What are we teaching our daughters about their hair? And what are teaching our sons as acceptable beauty?

Mahogany Mom of the Week: Our Mahogany Mom of the week is Karen Griffin. Karen constantly teaches the community about the history of jazz at the American Jazz Museum in Kansas City. Her daughter says she worked full time and took care of two girls as a single mom. Karen, as her daughter praises "Is an angel, loving, giving, and God-fearing". Thank you Karen for your brighten all of our days.

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References:

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/crown-act-california-becomes-first-state-to-ban-discrimination-against-natural-hair/

https://www.thecrownact.com/research

https://daily.jstor.org/how-natural-black-hair-at-work-became-a-civil-rights-issue/

https://www.jstor.org/stable/26505328?mag=how-natural-black-hair-at-work-became-a-civil-rights-issue&seq=7#metadata_info_tab_contents

https://prospect.org/article/black-beautiful-hair-still-political

https://pdfs.semanticscholar.org/73b5/71153398d414a50f9f7649f11c9ffa627af8.pdf

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Season 2 | Episode 21: Midwifery

Every August, U.S. Breastfeeding Committee marks this as National Breastfeeding Month. The World Health Organization (W.H.O) encourages breastfeeding for at least 6 months, with numerous benefits to the growth and development of you child. Specifically, in the last week of August, black mothers celebrate Black Breastfeeding Week. Why do back moms need a week to celebrate aside from the masses, you ask? Black Breastfeeding Week was created because for over 40 years there has been a gaping racial disparity in breastfeeding rates. The most recent CDC data show that 75% of white women have ever breastfed versus 58.9% of black women. The fact that racial disparity in initiation and even bigger one for duration has lingered for so long is reason enough to take 7 days to focus on the issue. We will dive into these factors with our guest Momologist, LaQuita Brazile.

Mahogany Mom of the Week: Kim Coombs is a mom of 3 girls homeschools and is a full time real estate agent. Kim also a big advocate of breast feeding and sharing her birth story to help other moms

Guest Momologist: LaQuita Brazile

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/midwifelaquitabrazile/

Website: https://laquitabrazile.onuniverse.com/

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Reference:

http://blackbreastfeedingweek.org/why-we-need-black-breastfeeding-week/

https://www.who.int/topics/breastfeeding/en/

https://laquitabrazile.onuniverse.com/?fbclid=IwAR2ymUmobH9f2sapydhUQqf4WRnUG1w51eJCe08TpPnKmvSNerG_XT7-sEo

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Season 2, Episode 20: Help Somebody Cross

Topic: If you watched the 2019 BET Awards you heard Tyler’s inspiring speech about how certain people’s influence and seat at the table helped him so he could help somebody cross. He said “When I built my studio, I built it in a neighborhood that is one of the poorest black neighborhoods in Atlanta so that young black kids could see that a black man did that and they can do it too. I was trying to help somebody cross.” Let’s discuss how and why this speech is so moving, and its relevance in our motherhood and personal/professional journey.

Mahogany Mom of the Week: Aliah Henry is the Principal of The Henry Group and she is passionate on the issues of Homelessness, Education and Women & Children.

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Resources:

https://folorunsoalakija.com/about-me/

In Helping Others, You Help Yourself: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/between-cultures/201805/in-helping-others-you-help-yourself

The Psychological Perspectives on Helping Others: https://www.psychologynoteshq.com/helping-others/

Tyler Perry's Master Class:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ky3Ha045-_A

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Topic: “One of the greatest tragedies in life is to lose your own sense of self and accept the version of you that is expected by everyone else.” As someone who suffer(s) from Postpartum Depression, there’s the mask that everyone is fine, everything should be fine. We create versions of portray to the outside world, when deep down, we are suffering. We act out of character. We are tired. Hopeless. Overwhelmed. Moody. And we can’t quite put our finger on why we act this way. Today we are exploring postpartum depression as an African American mom.

Marvelous Mahogany Mom of the Week: Azure Saunders Dillion. A mom of a young son, she is an advocate for all things mental health, and is working with the community in bringing mental health awareness as well as brick/mortal structures to the southern Dallas area.

Symptoms:

  • Feeling sad, hopeless, empty, or overwhelmed
  • Crying more often than usual or for no apparent reason
  • Worrying or feeling overly anxious
  • Feeling moody, irritable, or restless
  • Oversleeping, or being unable to sleep even when her baby is asleep
  • Having trouble concentrating, remembering details, and making decisions
  • Experiencing anger or rage
  • Losing interest in activities that are usually enjoyable
  • Suffering from physical aches and pains, including frequent headaches, stomach problems, and muscle pain
  • Eating too little or too much
  • Withdrawing from or avoiding friends and family
  • Having trouble bonding or forming an emotional attachment with her baby
  • Persistently doubting her ability to care for her baby
  • Thinking about harming herself or her baby.

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Resources

https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/postpartum-depression-facts/index.shtml

https://medium.com/s/story/postpartum-depression-in-black-women-is-a-silent-epidemic-627066

https://www.bwhi.org/2018/04/20/postpartum-depression-while-black/

https://www.self.com/story/11-postpartum-depression-facts-all-moms-to-be-need-to-know

https://www.workingmother.com/black-moms-postpartum-mental-health-crisis

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Topic: Did you know African Americans make up more than 40% of the homeless population?! Nearly half of homeless are families with children. Specifically in the Dallas and surrounding counties, these numbers are growing, even in cities that previously sighted no homeless populations. While cities boast of resources to assist providing shelters, the tone of ‘our neighbors’ are vastly different than what we see and hear. The challenge to overcome the odds is an uphill battle. Some survive, some don’t. Today, we want the challenges and inspiration behind this topic, homeless to entrepreneur, with our guest momologist, Chef Sonya Dorsey.

Guest Momologist: Chef Dorsey is the Executive Chef and Lead Chef Instructor for the new CitySquare Café located in the Opportunity Center on Malcolm X Blvd.Chef Dorsey found herself and her four children in an abusive relationship in Louisiana. Like so many women in that situation, she didn’t have the support network to transition safely into a new life.

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Topic:Navigating our marriages/partnerships when our spouses are battling terminal diseases

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Topic: Our communities of moms feel as if they have to suck it up and push through regardless of being overwhelmed and over work with no breaks in between. In previous episode we’ve discussed the idea of “supermoms” “independent wives”, etc. In this episode we will chat about what we have learned through podcasting and experiences that help us Release, Reconnect, and Rejuvenate in our motherhood journey.

Guest Momologist: Allyson Nick is a novel entrepreneur. She received her Bachelors in Animal Science at Tarleton State University in 2012 and had the dream of being a veterinarian. That changed when she had her ‘ah-ha’ moment in 2015. Since then she has gotten married, had 2 kids, and started and stopped a couple of side hustles. That is until she chooses to truly surrender to God and start her mommy community, Mommy’s Making Moves. MMM is like your mom BFF, understanding everything you go through postpartum! In addition to the community, Allyson also created For Moms podcast, which is dedicated to discussing all things involving mommyhood, faith, and business because we know our moms juggle it all in life.

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Topic: The idea of being a mother and facing motherhood brings on varied emotions. What about when your child is identified as having special needs? In today’s episode, we are exploring the perspective of a mom and her daughter who has special needs on their journey during childhood and into adulthood with our guest, Lillian Flakes.

Mahogany Momologist of the Week: Lynn is a member of the Mommy Moves tribe and wears many hats in working on the hubspace for mothers.

Guest Momologist: Lillian Flakes

Lillian is a geophysicist and the proud mom of two girls, the youngest with Down syndrome. Her youngest daughter had a heart defect and other health issues that required 92 days of hospitalization her first year of life. Lillian is a natural problem solver and understands the challenges every caregiver can face with the overwhelming tasks of managing hospitalizations, numerous doctor appointments, medications, insurance claims along with balancing the care of family. As a key component of her blog, Beyond the Waiting Room, she provides a peek into her personal challenges along with resources, tools, new technology and inspiration. In addition, she often speaks to groups in the medical field about CARE (Compassion, Action, Respect and Education) the cornerstone of treatment for all patients.

Website: https://beyondthewaitingroom.com/

Resources:

https://beyondthewaitingroom.com/mom-shares-5-myths-about-down-syndrome/

https://beyondthewaitingroom.com/how-to-choose-summer-camps-for-special-needs-children/

https://hechingerreport.org/special-educations-hidden-racial-gap/

https://www.blackenterprise.com/racism-reaches-special-education/

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Topic: In prior episodes, we’ve discussed Free-Range Parenting. There are other styles including Helicopters, Tiger Moms and the like. Today we will be discussing Snowplow parenting. From the cited Today’s Parent website, this is a fairly newer ‘parenting technique’ that has caused controversy regarding its practice. They want to remove any pain or difficulties from their children’s paths so that their kids can succeed.

Should we (as parents) be removing obstacles for own children? Why/not? Is the snowplowing style a reflection of current parents own upbringing? What has changed?

Momologist of the Week: Antonia Michaela. She is the creator of Mommy Matters, which connects moms with various resources, tools & events.

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Are You A Snowplow Parent? | The View (Video)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-t-jj3-R86o

Snowplow parenting: What to know about the controversial technique https://www.todaysparent.com/blogs/snowplow-parenting-the-latest-controversial-technique/

Snow Plow Parents Are A Thing – Could You Be One?

https://filterfreeparents.com/snow-plow-parents-are-a-thing-could-you-be-one/

Snowplow is the latest controversial parenting trend! Here's what it is

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/parenting/teen/snowplow-is-the-latest-controversial-parenting-trend-heres-what-it-is/articleshow/68533467.cms

Forget the Helicopter: Are You a Snow Plow or Lawn Mower Parent? http://redtri.com/what-is-snowplough-parenting/

The Baumrind Theory of Parenting Styles https://howtoadult.com/baumrind-theory-parenting-styles-6147.html

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Topic: As parents, we constantly want the best educational foundation for our children. This playing field is not always leveled equally for African American children.. Various factors such as socioeconomic status, demographics, and naivete affect positive projection for our children. Let’s not forget the staggering gaps in educational advancement between black and white children, even when we are the ‘right school district’. We are discussing what it means to have a diverse educational experience and improvement of cultural competency for black children in schools with our guest Mia Mbroh.

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Mahogany Momologist of the Week: Tiana. She is a Family|Motherhood|Lifestyle Blogger, Wife, and Stay at Home Mother of Two

Guest Momologist: Mia Mbroh

Mia Mbroh is a licensed professional counselor and nationally certified counselor with over 25 years experience in the fields of education, counseling, parenting education and family/community reconciliation and restoration. She holds a graduate degree in family counseling and certification in mediation. She is a graduate of Plano Leadership Class 22, a former board member of Plano Youth Leadership and the Diversity Board of Plano Independent School District. Mia presently sits on the board of Plano Prime and on the Advisory Board for Christian Parenting through the Denison forum. Mia spent 10 years in parent education with Practical Parent Education of Collin County.Mia’s appreciation for learning and teaching has allowed her a rich and meaningful career in a myriad of areas dealing with social and emotional health. She has provided community education on local and national platforms. Mia is married to Tony and they are the parents of two young adult children.

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As moms, we strive to create a ‘mom village’, that supportive community of neighbors and friends to occasional cry with, vent, and assist with children when you're in a pinch....We ask, need and yearn for it, with arms wide open. Sometimes, the arms feel heavy from waiting so long, and so we retreat. Maybe, it’s too abundant that we treat because it’s too much to sort out (maybe?). It takes a village to raise a child, and it cannot be done alone. That moment of vulnerability ...Is it me? Am I stuck up? Am I too proud? Am I not a village to others but yet, desire my own? More questions than answers to sort and process. What does your village look like? Do we have high expectations for them?

Mahogany Mom of the Week: Tremain Alisa Mishoe. She is a Vegan Homeschool mom, book lover and writer.

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References:

Berry, Beth In the absence of ‘the village,’ mothers struggle most. Motherly.

https://www.mother.ly/life/in-the-absence-of-the-village-mothers-struggle-most?rebelltitem=3#rebelltitem3

Miranda, J. (2016) When You're the Mom With No Village. Mom.me https://mom.me/baby/31807-moms-without-village/

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Topic: Enjoying the Empty Nest Life and Preparing for College. Motherhood is a lifetime journey and we often joke about the mothers of teens as a mom who is “almost at the finish line.” Meaning, they are close to the freedom of child rearing. Hopefully, the fruits of motherly/parental labor manifest as they become morally sound, independent adults (by society standards). For some, this transition for a mother can be a overwhelming experience. How does one successfully navigate the college transition and empty nest lifestyle? We will discuss this topic with our guest Momologist.

Guest Momologist: Tracy Hamilton Ramos has been a trial attorney in the Dallas area for over 25 years. Her biggest joy and accomplishment, however, was raising her daughter who is currently a junior at Duke University. After spending years researching the college admissions process to help her own daughter, Tracy created Get The Admit, a consulting company that helps other students and their families navigate college admissions. Through Get The Admit, Tracy has helped students gain admissions into colleges including Duke, Harvard, Spelman, UT Austin, University of Virginia, Norte Dame and others ... and to do so honestly and with integrity.

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Help as many students as possible save time, stress and money as they navigate this crazy process to get into the college of their dreams!

Mahogany Mom of the Week: The Marvelous Mahogany Mom this week is Samone Neshama. Samone is a proud wife & mother, photographer, entrepreneur, Homeschool Teacher, and writer.

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Topic: Money Rich, Time Poor

Even with a high income, one can still live below poverty. We are discussing having rich-ish income, and asset poor expenses.

Mahogany Mom of the Week: Melisha Singh. Her story of Vulnerability is featured in the book: A Wife's Superpower: 10 Courageous Stories of How to Practice Your Superpower to Draw the Love You Need from Your Husband

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Episode Resources:

Greenwax, M (2015 Dec 9) The Tipping Point: Most Americans No Longer Are Middle Class. NPR: The Two-Way. https://www.npr.org/sections/thetwo-way/2015/12/09/459087477/the-tipping-point-most-americans-no-longer-are-middle-class

NPR. (2016 July 7) A Portrait Of America's Middle Class, By The Numbers. Special Series: The New Middle. https://www.npr.org/2016/07/07/484941939/a-portrait-of-americas-middle-class-by-the-numbers

Morrrell, Alex and Kiersz (2017 Dec 4) Seeing how the highest and lowest-earners spend their money will make you think differently about 'rich' vs 'poor'. https://www.businessinsider.com/how-high-income-and-low-income-americans-spend-their-money-2017-3

Reeves, R. and Busette, C (2018 Feb 27) The middle class is becoming race-plural, just like the rest of America. Brookings. https://www.brookings.edu/blog/social-mobility-memos/2018/02/27/the-middle-class-is-becoming-race-plural-just-like-the-rest-of-america/

Rosen, Rebecca (2015 Nov 4). The Atlantic. Money-Rich and Time-Poor: Life in https://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2015/11/work-life-balance-pew-report/414028/

Schrager, A, et al (2015 Nov 5) The Atlantic. The Growing Ranks of America’s High-Earner Poor. https://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2015/11/income-rich-asset-poor/413977/

Entrepeneur Hub:

https://www.entrepreneurshub.co.uk/are-you-money-rich-but-time-poor/

How Does the Current Cost of Living Compare to 20 Years Ago? https://www.investopedia.com/ask/answers/101314/what-does-current-cost-living-compare-20-years-ago.asp

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Self care is a buzz word that inspires one to do what makes them happy via a form of escapism. The term is miscontrude as a means of tangential reinforcement--pedicures, extra chocolate, ‘treat yo’self’= meaning over-indulging/over-spending!! The question begs: When does self-care become self-sabotage?

Marvelous Mahogany Mom of the Week:

The Marvelous Mahogany Mom this week is Lauren Cain. She is a crunchy mama, wife, Christ follower, Traveler, and Entrepreneur.

Resources:

All you need is 24 hours in a quiet hotel room to reboot your life

https://www.kidspot.com.au/parenting/parenthood/mums/all-you-need-is-24-hours-in-a-quiet-hotel-room-to-reboot-your-life/news-story/4e152192c006f64d6f74a98bc069be82?utm_medium=Facebook&utm_campaign=EditorialSF&utm_content=SocialFlow&utm_source=kidspot

Druck, Ken (2017) How to Choose Self-Care over Self-Sabotage. Next Avenue. https://www.nextavenue.org/how-not-to-sabotage-your-own-self-care/

Plata, Mariana (2019) Are you Sabotaging Your Self-Love? Psychology Today. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-gen-y-psy/201902/are-you-sabotaging-your-self-love

Wilding, M (2018) When Self-Care Turns Into Self-Sabotage. Medium

https://medium.com/s/greatescape/when-self-care-turns-into-self-sabotage-489cef9859e5

Self-Care: Its History And How We Ended Up Here

https://www.longevitylive.com/anti-aging-beauty/self-care/

The Self-Care Revolution

https://www.self.com/story/the-self-care-revolution

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You’ve studied hard, and have found yourself at a decent job. You’ve accepted the work environment may not be “diverse”. However, we continue the work grind battling the microaggressions and curious questions surrounding your culture. In these spaces, POC becomes a generalized voice of their people, which is unfair, and constantly towing a line of two identities--being your authentic self and the acceptable/non-threatening ‘get along’ coworker. Is the paycheck worth the cussing out of co-workers? We’ll discuss what this looks like in the workspace as we try to be the Right Kind of Black Woman.

Momologist of the Week:

Faye McCray is an author and essayist whose popular essays on love, life and parenting have been featured in the Huffington Post, My Brown Baby, For Harriet, Madame Noire and other popular publications. She is the Editor-in-Chief and Co-Founder of Weemagine, a website devoted to celebrating and inspiring all children and the people who love them. Faye is also the author of Dani's Belts, a collection of horror short stories, Boyfriend, a full length novel about a troubled college student struggling with love and fidelity, and I am Loved! a collection of positive affirmations for kids. When Faye isn't writing, she is leading a covert double life as an attorney and married mother of three beautiful young boys. She also teaching creative writing workshops for kids and teens in around Maryland. Faye is a native New Yorker by way of Southeast Queens and current resident of the D.C. Metropolitan Area. You can also find Faye on Twitter @fayewrites and Facebook at facebook.com/fayewrites.

Resources:

Shaunte, D (2018 March 14) I’m Exhausted from Being the Right Kind of Black Girl at Work. Huffington Post. https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/codeswitching-while-black-at-work_us_5aa2b7dce4b07047bec60c5c

Wingfield, Adia (2015 October 14) Being Black but Not too Black in the Workplace. The Atlantic. http://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2015/10/being-black-work/409990/

As A Black Woman, I Wish I Could Stop Code-Switching. Here’s Why.

https://everydayfeminism.com/2018/04/stop-code-switching/

Podcast Episode: The Secret Lives of Black Moms (Woke Mommy Chatter)

https://wokemommychatter.com/2018/03/21/the-secret-lives-of-black-mothers/

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Live Episode from Dallas. Maintaining and creating a business can be confusing and frustrating. As a mom, it’s particularly challenging as we balance work/life responsibilities. Do you/should always turn a passion into a monetary business? What’s your drive for becoming an entrepreneur? We’ll discuss this as well as questions from the audience, with our panel guest, Jerletha McDonald.

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Topic: The Sandwich Generation is a generation of people (usually in their 30s or 40s) who care for their aging parents while supporting their own children. Today we are discussing the rise of the financial and emotional support, in this global phenomena, warranted by those in the middle of this burgeoning generation.

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https://caringpeopleinc.com/blog/sandwich-generation/#5

Burke, R. & Calvano, L. (2017) The Sandwich Generation: Caring for Oneself and Others at Home and at Work. Edward Elgar Publishing.

Ngo, Sheiresa (2014) Money Advice for the Sandwich Generation. Black Enterprise. Retrieved: https://www.blackenterprise.com/retirement-tips-sandwich-generation-2/

Parker, K & Patten, Eileen (2013) The Sandwich Generation: Rising Financial Burdens for Middle-Aged Americans. Retrieved: http://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2013/01/30/the-sandwich-generation/

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Topic: Did you know 1 in 4 mothers return to work within 10 days of giving birth? Why? Well it all comes down to economics. Mel and Tash will talk about the difference between FMLA and Paid Leave and what you can do about it.

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Sources:

http://www.ncsl.org/research/labor-and-employment/state-family-and-medical-leave-laws.aspx

https://fee.org/articles/paid-family-leave-is-a-great-way-to-hurt-women/

http://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2016/09/26/u-s-lacks-mandated-paid-parental-leave/

https://www.bustle.com/articles/101860-6-common-arguments-against-paid-maternity-leave-the-best-ways-you-can-counter-them

http://fortune.com/2015/02/05/paid-parental-leave-costs/

https://www.cnbc.com/2017/09/19/15-companies-with-generous-parental-leave-policies.html

https://www.dol.gov/whd/fmla/

http://www.nationalpartnership.org/our-work/resources/workplace/paid-leave/family-act-fact-sheet.pdf

https://www.americanprogress.org/issues/women/reports/2016/11/02/292026/paid-leave-101/

http://time.com/5203203/fmla-paid-leave-millennials-caregiving/

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Mel and Tash chat about ways to keep the relationship hot when the flame is almost out.

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As married moms, we strive to be the best wife/mother/educator. However, being pulled in all these directions can cause burnout and insanity. We can’t perfect it all. And I’m of the philosophy that one of these facets will not do well. What do we do to make the situation better? Today, we’ll be talking with Mira Rollins, author of Acing Motherhood, Failing Marriage.

Guest Momologist: Mira Rollins, author of Acing Motherhood, Failing Marriage. Mira Rollins is the author of, Acing Motherhood, Failing Marriage. She is Dallas native, and is passionate about being a wife, mother x3, Christian, writer, and speaker. She also loves to read, run and travel. She is inspired by people who seek to help other people. When she sees individuals doing good for others, it makes her want to go out and do the same.

Momologist of the Week: Congrats to Timiza Johnson who continue the conversation on Season 2, Episode 1 Rainbow Mom in our facebook group. She is our Momologist of the Week and will be receiving a signed copy of Tiffany’s book: A fearless journey to motherhood.

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Topic: Common Law Marriage

With the increase of cohabitation are we confusing common law marriage with real marriage? Is there a costly mistake. Mel and Tash will continue the conversation

Mahogany Momologist of the Week: Taraji P Henson. She is going to be honored with her own star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame this year.

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Resources:

Which States Recognize Common Law Marriage?https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/free-books/living-together-book/chapter2-4.html

Common Law Marriage Fact Sheet

http://www.unmarried.org/common-law-marriage-fact-sheet/

Fact or Fiction: Five Myths about Common Law Marriage

https://www.legalzoom.com/articles/fact-or-fiction-five-myths-about-common-law-marriage

Cohabitation: Background and Legal Issues. Findlaw.com; Retrieved from: https://family.findlaw.com/living-together/cohabitation-background-and-trends.html

Yung, Grace (2017 May 4) The Pros and Cons of Common Law Marriage. OutSmart. Retrieved: http://www.outsmartmagazine.com/2017/05/the-pros-and-cons-of-common-law-marriage/

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The struggles with infertility are not new in the medical community. Technologies in science have allowed success in assisted reproduction. However, the process can be traumatic and isolating. Even Michelle Obama has revealed issues of infertility and miscarriage in her book, Becoming. Why this issue of conception so taboo in the Black community? Today, we’re discussing the journey of having a “Rainbow baby” with our guest, Tiffany Finley.

Guest Momologist, Tiffany Finley

Tiffany Finley is Founder of My Predestined One, faith-based, non-profit in Dallas, Texas providing support, resources, education, and encouragement to women and couples affected by premature birth, and women and couples struggling to conceive due to an infertility diagnosis. She is also a writer and blogger at TiffanyFinley.com, where she openly shares about her journey to motherhood after being diagnosed with polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS) in her mid-20’s.

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Mahogany Momologist of the Week:

Gladys Mae West. She is an American mathematician known for her contributions to the mathematics underpinning Global Positioning Systems. In 1956 West began to work at Naval Surface Warfare Center Dahlgren Division, where she was the second black woman ever to be employed. West began to collect data from satellites, eventually leading to the development of Global Positioning System. West was inducted into the United States Air Force Hall of Fame in 2018 one of the Air Force Space Command's highest honors. She has 3 adult children and seven grandchildren.

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References:

Carter, Christian (2018) Michelle Obama Reveals Miscarriage. BlackDoctor.org; Retrieved: https://blackdoctor.org/524549/michelle-obama-reveals-miscarriage-i-felt-lost-and-alone/

Finley, Tiffany (2018) A Fearless Journey to Motherhood. London Lane Designs.

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In recent weeks Instagram star Blac Chyna caused an uproar with her endorsement of a skin lightening cream. Getting paid for promotional products and services can come at a cost to one’s audience and followers. Frequent use of bleach whitening creams can be interpreted as self hate. Replace bleach whitening creams with weaves or having blonde hair, and one can argue the same premise. What long term outcomes do we see with our children (particularly black/brown girls) with the media diminishing our natural appearances? Are we seeing a trend in highlighting black girls/women natural beauty? Do we have a long way to go? Let’s discuss the beauty of being a black girl.

Momologist of the Week: LaTashia M. Perry. Ms. Perry is a wife, mother of five and Children’s author, and Flint, MI native. LaTashia Perry is the Founder and CEO of Kids Like Mine and the author of the 'Like Mine' children's picture book series. LaTashia is committed to enriching and empowering the lives of children through positive affirmations and self-imagery. Kids Like Mine inspires children of color to embrace and love their true selves through the brand's products, which feature black and brown characters. You can find her on IG @4kidslikemine

Mom Group of the Week: Women of Color On The Move focus on long-term social implications and help women get involved take action to reduce statistics on the state of human rights for women and girls. They seek solutions to our nation’s health and economic crisis’ proactively and in real time. http://thewomenofcolor.org/ |

Resources:

Blac Chyna Responds To Skin Bleaching Outrage By Calling Her Cream "Philanthropic" https://www.hotnewhiphop.com/blac-chyna-responds-Lu. F dqwawto-skin-bleaching-outrage-by-calling-her-cream-philanthropic-news.65270.html

The Reality of Skin Bleaching and the History Behind It https://www.byrdie.com/skin-bleaching/slide5

9-year-old girl’s suicide prompts parents to talk http://www.wbrc.com/2018/11/15/year-old-girls-suicide-prompts-parents-talk/

Another black child kills herself after being bullied at school

https://face2faceafrica.com/article/another-black-child-kills-herself-after-being-bullied-at-school

Dove Is Helping Black Women Feel Beautiful And Confident With Their Latest Initiative https://www.essence.com/beauty/dove-black-beauty-alliance-essence-fest-2018/

Sister Speaks https://www.nomoremartyrs.org/sister-speak-suicide-awareness/

16-year Old Balck Teen Tells Dr. Phil She’s White and Hates Black People

https://www.essence.com/news/16-year-old-black-teen-tells-dr-phil-shes-white-and-hates-black-people/

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In today’s topic, we will explore advocating for your child’s education. Whether it is academic achievement, social/emotional growth, or even having the best resources for their respective sport, we are discussing what this looks like for the current African American family.

Marvelous Mahogany Mom: Phaedra Burton

Phaedra Burton is our Mahogany Momologist of the Week. This mother of two showed up and showed out in a video for the #cardibmoneychallenge.
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Mom Group of the Week:

Sol Mamas are folks from all tribes building friendship, extended family and community while enjoying the outdoors and a host of other activities. Enjoy toddler play dates, field trips, group fitness classes, and more. Based in the Bay Area of California you can check them out on MeetUp - www.meetup.com/sol-mamas

Resources

Griffin, D (2012) The need for advocacy with African American parents. Counseling Today; Retrieved from: https://ct.counseling.org/2012/05/the-need-for-advocacy-with-african-american-parents/

Pigford, A (1993) Advice to the Parent of the Black Child. Educational Leadership, 50 (8), 66-68

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“Impostor Syndrome” is all about not feeling confident about your accomplishments, skills, or capabilities, especially when you’re setting off to do something new in your career or life. The term was first coined by clinical psychologists Pauline Clance and Suzanne Imes, in 1978, who described individuals who had a persistent fear of being exposed as a “fraud.” This concept has always been a discussion among successful women, and it is gaining more traction as girls outperform boys in the classroom, more women graduate college and are obtaining executive positions typically held by men. Sheryl Sandberg’s book, “Lean In” comes to mind with Impostor Syndrome. Let’s discuss Impostor Syndrome and what it means as a mom and especially as a black woman.

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Mahogany Momomology of the Week: Courtney Slater is a mom of 4! This mom of a hs senior, twin toddler boys, and a kindergartner has fast redefined the clapback. With a love for health she has channeled her passion into Courtney Jay Fitness and looks to help others on their healthy living journey.

Mom Group of the Week: Mocha Moms, Inc. is the premier voice for mothers of color. Through chapters and online, Mocha Moms, Inc. provides support for women of color as they journey through all phases of motherhood while advocating for them nationally. October starts the membership open house so check a local chapter today! www.mochamom.org

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Veterans Day is around the corner. We thank our servicemen and women for their sacrifice and dedication to our country. We can imagine being a military spouse can be a life of constant change and isolation. Having a partner on deployment can be saddening and disruptive to a natural routine. We have a military mom and spouse in our studio to discuss her daily routine. Welcome Yvonne Gentry Cottrell.

Guest Momologist: Yvonne Gentry Cottrell. Originally from San Diego, California but currently live in Texas, Yvonne has a degree in Liberal Studies (education), a multi-subject teaching credential, a masters in Reading and Language Arts and credentialed as a Reading Specialist. She is married to a Navy man named Eric and they have a 6-year-old son. Yvonne was a teacher and trained teachers for a total of 17 years. She have been a military spouse for 8 years and is currently teaching preschool here in Texas. Yvonne has a strong interest in supporting military spouses who are in search for a professional career while facing the challenges that military families must go through.

Mahogany Momologist of the Week: Stacey Blake. This Mom of Two is a very proud military wife. She discovered the world of blogging and found her a talent and passion in; Design Addict Mom. Stacey shares interior design news and trends, projects, and all the beauty that goes along with being addicted to design!

http://www.designaddictmom.com/

Mom Group of the Week: Black Military Wives, LLC (B.M.W.) was created for the unique, cultural needs of Black women who are/were connected to the military by marriage OR their own service in the military. The purpose of B.M.W. is to provide emotional support and information to women who are/were officially affiliated with the DoD branches of the United States Armed Forces (Air Force, Army, Navy or Marine Corps). Women affiliated with the Coast Guard are also welcome to join, even though it isn’t a DoD branch.

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Topic: The Effects of Unresolved Trauma on Parenting

Parental emotion regulation and coping skills in dealing with stressful events in life have a significant impact on the child’s emotional and social development, especially during infancy and early school years. Children typically learn to regulate their emotions better if their parents manage their own stress well. In contrast, unsupportive, distressed parenting can induce less effort in children to regulate their emotions and use effective coping skills in response to stress. We will discuss the unresolved effects of trauma when it comes to parenting with guest momologist and Behavior Specialist, Marcella Tarpley

Guest Momologist: Marcella Tarpley

A native Californian and educator for over 20 years, Marcella Ann Tarpley is currently a Behavior Support Specialist for the Moreno Valley Unified School District. She holds two Master’s Degrees, one in Special Education and the other in Teaching. She has taught students with disabilities in grades 3-12 and has also had various positions outside the field of education as a restaurant manager, nanny, secretary, and mail handler. She currently is working on her doctorate degree and a license in clinical psychology. To continue her efforts on behalf of foster youth, she currently serves as a board member for Kamalii Foster Family Agency where she donates her time and resources teaching foster youth how to sew. She was the recipient of the 2015 Riverside County Office of Education Site Support Staff of the Year Award. In the community she is well known for her advocacy efforts in training parents, social service professionals, and educators on how to maximize student success. In her spare time when not advocating for students, Marcella enjoys quilting, road trips, and listening to books on tape.

Marvelous Mahogany Momologist of the Week: Tynee Sims

Tynee Sims is a single mom, podcaster of Tynee Talks, and lover all of things Flint, MI! We want to congratulate Tynee on her recent job announcement to Northlake community College in Las Colinas as the Assistant Director of TRIO & First Year Experience! Congrats Tynee!

Moms Group of the Week:

Moms In Color is a collective created to celebrate diversity, complexity and intersectional motherhood. Our primary mission is to inspire, motivate and spread awareness around the topics that affect Black mothers most. They are based out of Los Angeles, CA.

Website: https://www.momsincolor.com/

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Mel and Tash decided to not "just scratch the surface" in episode 21...so here is the continuation of episode 21, The Incarcerated Mom, the Bonus Episode with Guest Momologist, LaHeather Wilson.

Moms Group To Check Out:  National Bail Out.

The week before Mother’s day organizations in dozens of cities across the country will bail out as many mothers as possible who otherwise would spend Mother’s Day in a cell simply because they cannot afford bail.

National Black Mama’s Bail Out Day will give incarcerated mothers an opportunity to spend Mother’s Day with their families and build community through gatherings that highlight the impact of inhumane and destructive bail practices on our communities! 

https://nomoremoneybail.org/

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Topic: The Incarcerated Mom

The number of moms in prisons continue to rise. Of the 220,000 women currently locked up, 60% are being held in jail pretrial, 80% are mothers, and 60% are black.This lasting impact of imprisonment can effect on not only children, but the entire family. Today will discuss enduring motherhood during incarceration with our guest momologist, LaHeather Wilson.

Guest Momologist: LaHeather Wilson

LaHeather Wilson is native of Longview, Texas. LaHeather is inspiration speaker, certified peer recovery specialist and advocate. She is also the owner of Peace Buy an interior consulting company. Her 2014 award winning documentary “I AM MORE” won a Lone Star Emmy Award and was nominated for a National Emmy Award. Her inspiring documentary depicts her heartfelt journey from tragedy to triumph. Her story has been in various arenas such as television, The Hollywood Reporter, and the Examiner. She is the recipient of the 2015 Winner’s Circle Unsung Hero Award and 2016 God’s Leading Ladies Lifetime Exploration Award. Her documentary is currently being used as an educational catalyst within law enforcement, reentry court and at the city, state and government official level. Out of all these accolades her greatest joy is being a mom to her two sons Caleb and Joshua. Her life mantra is: “I Aspire to Inspire Before I Expire.”

Facebook | Twitter | IG: @laheatherw

Email: laheatherw@gmail.com

Marvelous Momologist of the Week: Nissa. You have to check out her blog, Unraveling Impulse. She shares her thoughts and experiences on her own life, as well as the happenings in the world. From motherhood and my experiences living abroad, to pop culture, current events, and a dash of beauty and fashion. She feature interviews with other inspiring everyday women whose journey to self-discovery and purpose help her to find clarity.

Recently she wrote a phenomenal post about Redefining Body Goals: The Journey To Accepting Her Body.

Blog: http://unravelingimpulse.com/

Resources:

Effects of Parental Incarceration on Young Children

January 30–31, 2002 U.S. Department of Health and Human Services The Urban Institute

https://aspe.hhs.gov/system/files/pdf/74981/parke%26stewart.pdf

Ford, Matt (2017 January) The Everyday Struggle of a Child Whose Parents are Incarcerated. Smithsonian. Retrieved from: https://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/everyday-struggle-child-parents-incarcerated-180961438/

Greene, Morgan (11 May 2018) Number of moms in U.S. prisons on the rise, but each time that happens 'you incarcerate the whole family,' Chicago woman says of experience. Chicago Tribune. Retrieved here: http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/ct-met-incarcerated-mothers-day-20180511-story.html

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Philanthropy is the desire to promote the welfare of others, expressed especially by the generous donation of money to good causes. Wealth is directed correlated to he level of giving. Although the level of wealth is far less than the white household, African Americans have a long standing history of providing to philanthropic causes. We (Black/African Americans) don’t consider ourselves as such. Blacks and African Americans actually donated a higher percentage of their incomes to charity than any other ethnic group in this country. Most notably the new Smithsonian National Museum of African American History and Culture (NMAAHC) was constructed in part by fundraising and established philanthropies. Today, we will discuss the state of philanthropy among African American women. Welcome our guest, Akilah Wallace.

Guest Momologist: Akilah S. Wallace

Akilah is Executive Director for Faith in Texas, a multi-racial faith based, social justice organization. She has 17+ years of experience as a relationship manager, with expertise in fund development, event planning & promotions, marketing, multicultural media sales and project management. Akilah’s love for connecting community organizations with financial and in-kind resources has resulted in over $5 million in revenue support. She is currently pursuing a degree in Human Services Management & Leadership at the University of North Texas at Dallas, and has earned a Nonprofit Management Certificate from the Center for Nonprofit Management.

In 2013, Akilah launched Distinguished Ones: A Philanthropic Initiative, respectfully known as #BlackDFWGives, an educational and inspiring, online initiative seeking to heighten the platform for philanthropy education and the next generation of philanthropists of color throughout North Texas. Her philanthropic leadership includes the founding of Texas’ first Black/African-American giving circle HERitage Giving Fund at Dallas Women’s Foundation, awarding nearly $30,000 in grants to Black and women-led organizations. In addition to providing consulting services for small-to-medium-sized community organizations.

A 2018 Dallas Public Voices Greenhouse, Op Ed fellow, Akilah is a Dallas Business Journal 40 Under 40 honoree and recipient of The Dallas Foundation Top 10 Good Works Under 40 Award. She is a charter member of The Golden Circle and Dallas Women's Foundation’s XIX Society and former “Big” with Big Brothers Big Sisters. She currently serves on the board of directors of Trinity Commons Foundation, Seeds to STEM and Southern Dallas Progress Community Development Corporation.

Akilah is the proud mother to college freshman and businessman, Jamel and St. Philip’s student-athlete, Jayce. Her mantra is: “There is no royal flower-strewn path to success. And if there is, I have not found it for if I have accomplished anything in life it is because I have been willing to work hard." – Madame C.J. Walker

Faith in Texas - https://www.faithintx.org/

Heritage Giving Fund - https://www.dallaswomensfdn.org/heritagegivingfund

Momologist of the Week

Our Marvelous Mahogany Mom this week is Ms. Audrey Perkins. Author, Motivational Speaker, Entrepreneur and aspiring life-coach, Audrey is the founder of Dear Single Mommy, a blog to help Single Moms with forgiveness, healing and freedom. SHe just published her first EBook Mommin and Goal Diggin, The Moms Guide to Reaching Goals.

Website: https://www.dearsinglemommy.com/

Mom Group of the Week

Pan-African Women's Philanthropy works to strengthen the capacity of Pan-African women to improve the future of their communities, families and children.

https://www.facebook.com/Pan-African-Womens-Philanthropy-Network-768938516485307/

Resources:

Adeniji, Ade (2016 September 14) A Rising Force: One the State of Black Philanthropy. Inside Philanthropy. Retrieved from: https://www.insidephilanthropy.com/home/2016/9/14/a-rising-force-on-the-state-of-black-philanthropy.html

Brown, Gasby (2017 March 15) The Future of African American Philanthropy. Philanthropy News Digest. Retrieved from: http://pndblog.typepad.com/pndblog/2017/03/the-future-of-african-american-philanthropy.html

Martin, Michel (2013 December 30) Redefining Philanthropy: How African Americans Give Back. Tell Me More. NPR News. Retrieved: https://www.npr.org/2013/12/30/258382689/redefining-philanthropy-how-african-americans-give-back

Learning

https://www.learningtogive.org/resources/african-american-women-and-philanthropy

Black Philanthropy Month

http://www.blackphilanthropymonth.com/

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Research shows that black women are at greater risk than white women of developing or dying from a handful of cancers, including those of the breast, colon/rectum, lungs, and cervix. The American Cancer Society (ACS) reports that there are more than 2.8 million breast cancer survivors living in the U.S. in 2014. From an Ebony Magazine article, according to ACS’s Cancer Facts & Figures for African American’s 2013-2014, approximately 27,060 new breast cancer cases were expected to occur among African American women. Breast cancer incidence rates are higher among white women for most age groups. However, among younger women under age 40, the mortality rate of breast cancer is higher in African Americans than in whites. While October is the month of Breast Cancer Awareness, we will chat with one mom is not only surviving cancer herself but so is her son.

Guest Momologist: Stephanie Cooksey

Stephanie Cooksey is a native of North Texas and currently lives in Allen, TX. She has been married to Marcus Cooksey for over 17 years and is the mother of two boys, Cameron (15yrs old) and Evan (12yrs old). She began college at the University of Houston and graduated from the University of North Texas. Stephanie is a “Momtrepreneur” and is currently the COO of LUI Transport, LLC, which she started with her husband a couple of years ago. Stephanie has a passion for education and spends a major portion of her days volunteering at her sons’ schools in the PTA and on the school’s PTA board. Because of her family’s personal experiences with childhood leukemia and breast cancer, they spend most of their volunteer time volunteering and advocating for organizations that support families experiencing the same fight and for organizations that provide monies for research for the cure and treatment of cancer. Stephanie loves to travel with her family and experience life as “the natives” do in the places that they visit.

Momologist of the Week:

Janisa Camille of the Baltimore / DC Area. The Mom Jeans on Me blogger is also the founder of Mommas Who Brunch, which creates a safe place for moms from all walks of life, to network and connect over brunch.

Moms Group Highlight: Sister’s Network

They are a National African-American Breast Cancer Survivorship Organization committed to increasing local and national attention to the devastating impact that breast cancer has in the African American community. Check out our show notes for where to find them. http://www.sistersnetworkinc.org/index.html

Resources:

Carter, K (2014 October 22) Breast Cancer & Black Women: Survivors Need Survivors. Ebony. Retrieved from: https://www.ebony.com/wellness-empowerment/breast-cancer-black-women-survivors-need-survivors-987

Black Women’s Health Imperative (2017 July 20) Black Women and Breast Cancer: Why Our Diagnosis and Care Are Different. Retrieved from: https://www.bwhi.org/2017/07/20/black-women-breast-cancer-diagnosis-care/

American Cancer Society. Prognostic Factors in Childhood Leukemia. Retrieved from: https://www.cancer.org/cancer/leukemia-in-children/detection-diagnosis-staging/prognostic-factors.html

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Parenting is one of the hardest thing anyone with children can go through in life. Motherhood can be wonderful, but it can also be full of hurt, shame, longing and guilt sometimes. Mothers sacrifice a lot when the responsibility falls on caring for another tiny human. It's a heavy weight and you've dedicated a large portion of your life to that. We are all human it's normal even though many don't want to talk about those moments. In today’s episode, we will discuss the taboo topic of regretting motherhood.

Sources:

Brown, Lola (June 2017) Regretting motherhood: What have I done to my life? https://www.todaysparent.com/family/parenting/i-regret-motherhood/

L, Paige () I Am a 27-year-old Struggling Mom and I regret having my child. XO Necole. Retrieved from: http://www.xonecole.com/a-mothers-confession-i-love-my-child-but/

MacKenzie, Jean (3 April 2018) The Mothers Who Regret Having Children. BBC News. Retrieved from: https://www.bbc.com/news/education-43555736

Fernandez, Elayna How to Overcome Regrets as a Mom. The Positive Mom. Retrieved from:

http://www.thepositivemom.com/how-to-overcome-your-regrets-as-a-mom

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Momologist of the Week:

Czamille Chrisp. The North Carolinan Mother of 3 girls is a wife enjoying everyday life.

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Episode 17: Black Moms in the Movement Part 2

Topic: If you listened to Episode 16 you had the opportunity to learn about you can get involved as a candidate. This week we are going to look at the perspective in being apart of a PAC and being a spouse of a candidate in our Black Moms in the Movement series.

Disclaimer: Our guest was invited by your show hosts and did not pay for this airtime.

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Guest Momologist: Dr. Keonna Roberts , Ed. D. is a native of Fort Worth, wife, mother and an elementary teacher for the past ten years. She has worked in education in order to provide students with meaningful content knowledge that they can apply in their everyday lives.

Keonna chose to pursue higher education at a (HBCU) Historically Black College & University in Texas. Keonna earned her Bachelors of Business Management from Prairie View A&M University and her Masters degree in Early Childhood Education from Texas Southern University. She recently obtained her Doctorate degree in Education with an emphasis in Curriculum and Instruction from Texas Wesleyan University in Fort Worth, Texas. As a young lady growing up on the East side of Fort Worth, she always demonstrated a passion for helping others no matter what age. She still continues to improve upon this throughout her career as an educator with her students and in her personal life with her own children. In 2011, Keonna was awarded Teacher of the Year in Fort Worth Independent School District at Eastern Hills Elementary School in Fort Worth, Texas. In 2016, Keonna was awarded Teacher of the Year in Birdville Independent School District at John D. Spicer Elementary School in Haltom City, Texas. In 2017, she received the honor of Region 11 (Tarrant County) Educator of the Year for the Association of Texas Professional Educators (ATPE) for her service to the staff, students and community of Tarrant County. Keonna is currently employed as an educator at Janet Brockett Elementary School in Mansfield Independent School District. In addition to her years of service in education, Keonna has served in professional educational organizations including Jack & Jill, Inc. of Fort Worth Chapter, a member of the Fort Worth Alliance of Black School Educators (Local & State member), Kappa Delta Pi International Honor Society in Education, and a Lifetime member of the Prairie View A&M University National Alumni Association. Keonna is the youngest daughter of J.W. and Aquanita Robinson, the wife of her soul mate Albert, and the proud mother of Albert III and Karrington.

Momologist of the Week: Eboni DuBose. This Cobb County (Atlanta, GA) Mocha Mom Chapter Co-President is a wife and mom to 3 girls. Her goal is to create value-added learning solutions that helps employees perform their jobs better in order to meet business goals. Eboni has done an amazing job transitioning her professional skills into her local Mocha Mom Chapter to grow chapter and its community service efforts.

Source:

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Episode 16: Black Moms in the Movement

If you are one to follow politics and social media, you’ve heard the term #blackwomenlead. If you are NOT into politics, now would be the time to do so--your life and body literally depends on it. We are seeing an uptick of black women running (and winning) their respective campaigns. Well, that’s because black women show up, and do the job is asked of us. Come listen to our guest momologist that will dive into why you need to run for an office and stop the excuses.

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Guest Momologist: Candice Quarles, Councilwoman of Desoto, TX Place 6

Candice, a native of St. Louis, MO, received her Bachelor’s degree in Personnel Psychology from Missouri Western State University, and thereafter completed a Master’s Degree in Managerial Leadership with an emphasis in Human Resource (HR) Management from Webster University.

Candice’s professional career spans over a decade in Human Resources in the private and public sector with distinguished consulting firm Deloitte coupled with experience in municipal government at the City of Grand Prairie, TX. She is currently the Organizing Director for the Texas Working Families Party

Outside of work Candice is involved in a variety of community organizations such as the Alliance for Greater Works, National Urban League and the League of Women Voters. She’s a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Inc. For her civic and corporate contributions, she was named to the 2014 Dallas Business Journal’s 40 under 40 distinction, which recognizes the top up-and-comers in the DFW area. Candice enjoys reading, volunteering and traveling with her husband and enjoying her newest role as mom. She is the City Councilwoman Place 6 for Desoto, TX

Where to Find Her:

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  • https://www.candicefordesoto.com

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Marvelous Momologist of the Week: Stephanie Laynes.

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Episode 15: The Black Mom Midlife Crisis/Moment

Research suggest and age difference between the genders. For men, the ‘crisis’ begins roughly late 40’s-early 50’s, while women start their internal struggle between 35-44. What does the struggle consist of?--is it a feeling of being stuck, personally and professionally? Today we will explore this and what this looks like for black women/mothers. Even the term ‘crisis’ will be explored too.

Examples of Midlife characteristics:

  • Feeling discontent with one’s life or lifestyle including people and activities which may have, at one time, provided more fulfillment
  • Questioning decisions made years earlier
  • Confusion about one’s achievements and questioning why “I failed to manifest the life I thought I would have by now”
  • Confusion about “who am I” beyond the roles assigned by others, both in the workplace and in one’s personal life.
  • Anger, expressed or hidden, over trying to fulfill the expectations of others or wanting their approval, in lieu of pursuing one’s own wishes or dreams
  • Yearning for the early years, wanting to retreat rather than move forward

Here are questions to ask (based on the Psychology Today article):

  1. What do I feel I should have done by this time in my life?
  2. Is there something more important and fulfilling that I can focus on now?
  3. What do I want more of in my life? What have I imprisoned that is crying to be free?
  4. How can I ensure a commitment to living a significant life?

Sources:

Avis, N.E., et. al (2015) Duration of menopausal vasomotor symptoms over the menopause transition. JAMA Inter Med, 175(4):531-9. doi: 10.1001/jamainternmed.2014.8063

Calhoun, Ada (2015 October 5) The New Midlife Crisis: Why (and How) It’s Hitting Gen X Women. Retrieved from: https://www.oprah.com/sp/new-midlife-crisis.html

Dundon, Elaine (2018 January 30) Searching for the Meaning Beyond the “Midlife Crisis”. Psychology Today. Retrieved from: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-search-meaning-after-age-50/201801/searching-meaning-beyond-the-midlife-crisis

Reynolds, Marcia (2011 May 14) What a Female Mid-Life Crisis Looks Like. Psychology Today. Retrieved from: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/wander-woman/201105/what-female-mid-life-crisis-looks

Saner, Elaine (2017 January 27) Women on the verge of a midlife crisis. The Guardian. Retrieved from: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2017/jan/27/women-on-the-verge-of-a-midlife-crisis

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Episode 14: Beyond Baby Birth

Postpartum health is just as important (if not more important) as prenatal health for new and expectant mothers, especially for Black women. If you listened to our 3rd episode, entitled, The Black Maternal Birthing Experience, with our guest, Jen Sarduy, we discussed many factors contributing to the disparities of healthcare among black women during pregnancy. This serves as the second part from our Black Maternal Health episode. According to Psychology Today, black mothers endure twice the risk of depression, and anxiety compared to our white counterparts, that often go untreated. Today, we will discuss postpartum care--the emotional well being and womb care for a stable, healthy fourth trimester!

Guest Momologist Bio:

Sister Freya Mórani is the Founder and CEO of RootMama. She is a certified doula, trained breastfeeding educator, childbirth educator and wellness coach. Sis. Freya provides intuitive and professional support to women, infants and families during preconception, pregnancy, birth and postpartum. She has a lineage of home birthing and midwifery reaching back to her maternal grandmother and great grandmothers. Freya became interested in becoming a doula after watching Shafia Monroe's presentation on the Legacy of the Black Midwife in 2011. She coupled her knowledge of healing the womb, inspired by Queen Afua, with her professional doula training to create the wellness company RootMama.

Root Mama:

Web: http://www.rootmama.org
FB: http://www.facebook.com/RootMama
Twitter: http://twitter.com/root_mama

Instagram: http://instagram.com/RootMama

References:

Retrieved from: http://blackbreastfeedingweek.org/why-we-need-black-breastfeeding-week/

Box, M., & Clark, D. (2018 May 25). Postpartum Care in African American Women. [Blog post]. Retrieved from: http://blog.apastyle.org/apastyle/2016/04/how-to-cite-a-blog-post-in-apa-style.html

Malone, G. (2016 May 16) Black Women and Postpartum Depression. Psychology Today. Retrieved from: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-s-mental-health-matters/201605/black-women-and-postpartum-depression

Yoder, H. & Handy, L.R. (2018 January 23) Midwifery and Antenatal Care for Black Women: A Narrative Review. SAGE Open. http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/2158244017752220

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Episode 13: Successful Co-Parenting, Can’t We All Just Get Along

The life changing event of divorce or separation from a partner is mentally taxing on the individuals involved. When children are in this equation, custody battles have the potential to muddy the turbulent situation. Today we will discuss successful co-parenting post-divorce or separation with Guest Momologist, Amye Thompson Hollins

Guest Momologist Bio:

Amye Thompson Hollins is the mother of one daughter, Ava Hollins (5). A lifetime resident of the South Oak Cliff area, Amye received her education in DISD. She received a Bachelor of Science Degree from Texas A&M University. She later received a Master of Business Administration in Human Resources from the University of Dallas. She is now committed to giving back some of what she received through her service in various community organizations. She has been a member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Incorporated since 1995 and is currently the President of the Metropolitan Dallas Alumnae Chapter in South Dallas. She has served on United Way Grant Assessment Committee as well the Board of United Cerebral Palsy of Metropolitan Dallas. Amye currently serves as the Female Parent Trustee on the Board of the St. Philips School and Community Center. She has also served on the T. Boone Pickens Board of Management since 2015 and has served as the YMCA Campaign Chair in 2017 and 2018.

References:

Cade, Audrey (2016 September 27) Co-parenting Done Right: 8 Ways to Get on the Right Track. DivorcedMom.com. Retrieved: https://divorcedmoms.com/blogs/divorce-warrior/coparenting-done-right-8-ways-to-get-on-the-right-track/

Uwumarogie, Victoria (2018 May 9) Why Be Petty When You Can Be Family? Women Who Are Peaceful Co-Parenting Goals. MadameNoir.com. Retrieved: https://madamenoire.com/1024612/women-peacefully-co-parenting/2/

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Episode 12: Adopting While Black

From 1999-2017, the total number of adoptions in the United States totaled 271,831, with most adoptions being from birth up to 2 years old, and more girls being adopted than boys. In 2016, 9988 Black or African American children were adopted in the US, compared to 27776 children identifying as White. Over a 13-year period, from 2009-2012, Texas remained one of the top 5 states for adoption, having 13920 adoptees. In 2017, the number of adoptees in Texas was 406. Today, we will be talking with one mother who adopted two African American children, from different states. We will discuss her choice behind adopting.

Guest Momologist: Shannon Powell Hart

Shannon Powell Hart has lived throughout the United States, sharing stories as a journalist. Hart’s career began at the University of Arkansas at Little Rock, where she studied radio, TV, and film. The next two decades were filled with opportunities working on-air for stations in Washington, D.C.: Lynchburg, Va.; Greenville, S.C.; Baltimore, Md.: and WFAA in Dallas, TX. The former producer/reporter of Good Morning Texas has since transitioned as Marketing Manager for the Texas Ale Project, a veteran and family-owned brewery in Dallas. When Shannon isn’t educating us on the brewing techniques, the mom of 2 loves evenings at the Coyote Drive-In in Fort Worth with her husband and their 3-1/2-month-old son Zachary, 11-month old Zoe, and crafting, and finding time with friends.

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This episode is sponsored in part by the Gladney Center. Since 1887, Gladney Center for Adoption has been a pioneer and leading voice for improving the lives of children, adoptive families and birth parents. With unwavering commitment, Gladney has focused on their mission and made a difference in the lives of birth parents, families and children in the United States and around the world. Gladney believes every child deserves a loving & caring family and will not rest until all children know the love and stability of a forever home. Visit www.adoptionsbygladney.com/start and request a free adoption information packet today!

Sources:

Adoption Statistics, United States Department of the State: Bureau of the Consular Affairs. Retrieved from: https://travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/Intercountry-Adoption/adopt_ref/adoption-statistics.html

National Public Radio (NPR) Six Words: ‘Black Babies cost less to adopt’ Published 2013 June 27. Retrieved on https://www.npr.org/2013/06/27/195967886/six-words-black-babies-cost-less-to-adopt

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Episode 11: No New Friends

It’s been said as we age, it is more difficult to find and sustain friendships. Today, we will discuss the thinking behind the terminology of “No New Friends” and why this is perpetuated among Black women.

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  1. (Self-limiting) Rationale on NOT making new friends (“I’m lonely):
    1. No one enjoys the same hobbies as I do
    2. I don’t care for negative people around me—too much drama and cattiness
    3. Meet-up groups are not my type of thing.
    4. My partner is the only friend I need.
    5. Friendship= only social or professional growth, not companionship
    6. I’m introverted; I don’t like people
    7. I need/prefer friends around my same age.
  2. Reflections on the lack of friendships
    1. Identifying the type of person you are: do you prefer engagement via text with occasional IRL encounters? Do you like going out all the time?
    2. What is limiting is SUSTAINING friendships?
    3. What kind of people have you attracted in the past? This could be an internal reflection on the person YOU are!
    4. Making friendships are relationships. They require time and effort in cultivating them.
    5. YOUR HOMEWORK: Identify one person you think you interested in befriending. Start with a compliment. Let’s hear about how your doing--comment to us via FB, IG, or twitter!

Sources:

Gwyer, Patrick G. (2017 May 21) Why a hug is so important for well-being. LinkedIn. Retrieved: https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/why-hug-so-important-wellbeing-pat-gwyer/

Article: Why Is It Hard to Make Friends Over 30? (Alex Williams, New York Times)

https://www.nytimes.com/2012/07/15/fashion/the-challenge-of-making-friends-as-an-adult.html

Article: Loneliness isn't inevitable – a guide to making new friends as an adult

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2018/apr/30/how-to-make-new-friends-adult-lonely-leap-of-faith

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Episode 10: Black Surrogacy- Redefining the Norms

Surrogacy first went public in the US during the late 1970's. The surrogacy didn’t involve a financial compensation, otherwise known as traditional surrogacy. A team made up of Noel Keane and Dr. Ringold introduced the first surrogacy clinic — Infertility Center — making history with artificial insemination. Surrogate pregnancies have doubled since 2015. We most often hear of other ethnicities becoming surrogates, and seldom in the AA community (not that it doesn’t happen). Why is that?!? Most recently, Kim Kardashian delivered her third child, via a (young) Black woman surrogate. Today’s topic will discuss about what it means to be an African-American surrogate and it’s perception within our community.

Guest Momologist: Michelle Whitaker is a 29 year old wife, mom, and YouTube content creator who loves all things creative. Michelle’s YouTube channel documents her family’s homeschooling journey and her road to becoming a surrogate mother. Michelle has been married to her amazing wife for 8 years and they have a 7 year old daughter. When Michelle is not creating content for YouTube, she enjoys reading, self-care, planning and spending time with family.

Instagram: @the.mrs.whitaker
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNn_bInJhwJkGEnj66IHnNw

Sources:

Sanders, Cheryl. (1992) Surrogate Motherhood and Reproductive Technologies: An African American Perspective. Creighton Law Review. 25, 1707-1723; Retrieved: https://dspace2.creighton.edu/xmlui/bitstream/handle/10504/39970/82_25CreightonLRev1707(1991-1992).pdf?sequence=1

Steiner, Leslie Morgan (2013 Nov 25). Who Becomes a Surrogate? The Atlantic.Retrieved: https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2013/11/who-becomes-a-surrogate/281596/

Surrogate Moms Online:

http://www.surromomsonline.com

Young, Yakira (2017 September 8) Kimye’s Surrogate Has Officially Been Revealed, And She’s a Young Black Woman. BET Online, Retrieved: https://www.bet.com/style/2017/9/11/kimye-s-black-surrogate-has-officially-been-revealed.html

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Episode 9: Black Families and Homeschooling

In the last 15 years, the number of black children in homeschool has doubled from 103,000 to about 220,000. Black parents cite a number of reasons for homeschooling children, including concern over peer pressure and drugs at school -- but increasingly, they are also citing school-related racism as a reason to keep students at home (PBS News April 2018). Mel and Tash will chat with an African-American Mom on how she is balancing homeschool, philanthropy, and self-care.

Disclaimer: Each state and country regulates homeschool differently. Be sure to check the laws on your state as it pertains to homeschooling.

Guest Momologist: Jennifer Henry, Blogger – Milkbrainblog (dot) com, Founder, The Village Co-op DFW for Homeschoolers, and Parenting Staff Editor at BlackLove.com

Bio: Jennifer Henry was born and raised in Dallas, Texas. She studied psychology and biology at Howard University where she fell in love research and her college sweetheart husband. She went on to a doctoral program at New York University’s Center for Neuroscience. She earned a Masters of Philosophy in Neuroscience, leaving early to focus on her passion for being a Mom. As a Mom, she discovered a passion for early childhood education and built a award winning private school using her NeuroNurture curriculum.

After 14 years in the Northeast, she returned to Dallas. She blogs about her Mom-ventures at MilkBrainBlog.com/, is the founder of The Village Co-op DFW for Homeschoolers and is the Parenting Staff Editor at BlackLove.com . She is an active member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated. She and her big boy volunteer at Meals on Wheels and push for criminal justice reform with Faith in Texas. She also serves on the Alumni Board of Directors and the Intercultural Council at the Hockaday School. She loves to travel and eat, practices natural living, is a sometime-vegan, cloth diapers, makes baby food, homeschools and is living her best life with her college sweetheart boyfriend of 15 years and husband of 9 years, Jeff. They share their love with their gorgeous little boys Jackson and Jones, ages 7 and 9 months.

Follow her on Instagram at @MilkBrainBlog and follow her blog at MilkBrainBlog.com

Sources:

Homeschooling in the United States

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homeschooling_in_the_United_States

National Homeschool Association

https://nationalhomeschoolassociation.com/

National Black Home Educators (NBHE)

http://www.nbhe.net/

10 Black Homeschool Moms You Should Follow

http://www.matermea.com/blog/10-black-homeschool-moms-you-should-follow

Meet Us at the Sat. July 21 Birth Texas Convention @ Arlington, TX Convention Center

Birth Texas proudly hosts this year's event focused on the intersection of pregnancy, birth, parenting and activism within our communities; we are happy to pair with Abide Women's Health Services, who will receive a portion of proceeds raised at the event.

With a family-friendly atmosphere for consumers, birth professionals and advocates alike, the Birth Texas Convention is about centering community and activism in improving maternal healthcare and maternal and infant outcomes in the state of Texas.

The event features:
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Episode 8: The Rise of Black Women and Gun Ownership

Upon the inauguration of President Trump, we have seen an obvious surge in African American gun owners, and one can question if the increase we’ve noticed has been trending upward over the last 30 years. The most dramatic increase we’ve seen are those of women. Black women are among the higher rated individuals of gun ownership. In addition to political uncertainty, there are other reasons behind an individual owning a gun, from personal safety to self-empowerment. We will discuss the rise of Black women gun owners changing the narrative.

Guest Momologist:

LaTasha Oliver is the Chief Operator for Body By “O” and Body By “O” Tactical. She began her endeavors as a personal trainer with the organization in December 2014 alongside her now husband Oliver Kingdom. Her experience as a firearms instructor began in August 2016. LaTasha is still in training to become an effective and proficient firearms instructor. Her current title with Body By "O" Tactical is Range Safety Officer (RSO). Her role in Body By “O” operations include the developing and evaluation of programs on both the fitness and firearms side. Her focus in the organization is geared toward the Black women coming for services. LaTasha is also a currently enrolled in the graduate Social Work program at University of Texas at Arlington. She specializes in macro social work and is scheduled to graduate in December 2018. Her passion for the well-being of the Black community, with emphasis of Black women drives her work with Body By “O” and her future plans as a macro practice social worker.

LaTasha is originally from Shreveport, Louisiana, born and raised. Business opportunities for Body By “O” and her choice in graduate school influenced her decision to leave Shreveport and move to Dallas. Outside of work and school, LaTasha spends time doing things she loves like reading, cooking, date nights with her husband and being a tv junkie. LaTasha has been with her husband for 4 years and married 2. She recently celebrated her 2-year anniversary, 34th birthday, and son’s 10-year birthday all in the month of June.

Contact Body By “O” and Body By “O” Tactical

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Phone: 318.458.9515

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You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8Qj_zUaY07vSgF6BHnhv2A

Sources:

Brenan, Meagan (2018, May 2) Ten Takeaways About Americans’ Views of Guns. Gallup Retrieved https://news.gallup.com/opinion/polling-matters/233627/ten-takeaways-americans-views-guns.aspx?g_source=link_NEWSV9&g_medium=SIDEBOTTOM&g_campaign=item_1645&g_content=Ten%2520Takeaways%2520About%2520Americans%27%2520Views%2520of%2520Guns

Cooper, W. (2017) The Black Women’s Defense League Taking Aim at Racism and Misogyny. Vice TV. Retrieved: https://video.vice.com/en_us/video/taking-aim-at-racism-and-misogyny-with-the-black-womens-defense-league/5891656300edf2d24cc481d4

Gun Owners of America (2018, June 30) Retrieved https://gunowners.org/

National Rifle Association (2018, June 30) Retrieved https://explore.nra.org/interests/womens-interests/

Morin, Rich (2014, July 15) The demographics and politics of gun owning households. Pew Research Center. Retrieved http://pewrsr.ch/1n7lBV5

Pratt, Timothy (2017, April 27) More black women are learning to use guns: ‘this is a movement, and it starts now’. The Guardian. Retrieved: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2017/apr/27/black-women-guns-classes-racism-trump

Syaad, Lydia (2011, October 26) Self-Reported Gun Ownership in U.S. Is Highest Since 1993. Gallup. Retrieved https://news.gallup.com/poll/150353/self-reported-gun-ownership-highest-1993.aspx

Young, Ryan (2017 February 2) African American Gun Club says membership surged in Trump Era. CNN. Retrieved: https://www.cnn.com/2017/02/27/us/african-american-gun-club-trump/index.html

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In the age of social technology, sexual predators like Harvey Weinstein, R.Kelly and Bill Cosby are no longer hiding their "Hollywood celebrity insider” behavior. It’s disgusting and has been acceptable behavior. Women are now more empowered about themselves, and their future to hold men accountable for their behavior. Mel and Tash will discuss how they plan to hold their sons and the men in their lives accountable.

Sources:

Bowen, Alison (23 January 2018) Raising Boys Who Respect Women. Chicago Tribune. Retrieved from: http://www.chicagotribune.com/lifestyles/parenting/sc-fam-parenting-boys-respect-women-0130-story.html

Levy, Deandre (2017 April 27) Man Up! The Players’ Tribune. Retrieved from: https://www.theplayerstribune.com/en-us/articles/deandre-levy-sexual-assault-awareness

Me Too (20 June 2018) Retrieved from: https://metoomvmt.org/

O’Malley, Harris (2016 June 27) The Difference Between Toxic Masculinity and Being a Man. The Good Men Project: The conversation no one else is having. Retrieved from: https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/the-difference-between-toxic-masculinity-and-being-a-man-dg/

Salie, Faith (2017, December 1) How to Raise a Sweet Son in an Era of Angry Men. Time. Retrieved from: http://time.com/5045028/raising-boys-faith-salie/

Virginia Sexual and Domestic Violence Action Alliance. Teach Consent. (20 June 2018) Retrieved from: http://www.teachconsent.org/#new-page

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Episode 6: Free Range Parenting
Remember the days where you use to play in the park unsupervised? Now we call it Free Range Parenting. What are your thoughts on this parenting style vs. being a Helicopter Mom?

Sources:

Berger, L.M, et al. (2006) How does race influence judgements about parenting? Focus, 24 (2), 24-30. Retrieved from: https://www.irp.wisc.edu/publications/focus/pdfs/foc242e.pdf

Coleman, Korva (2018 April 1) Utah’s ‘Free Range’ Parenting Law Protects Parents So Kids Can Roam, Retrieved from: https://www.npr.org/2018/04/01/598630200/utah-passes-free-range-parenting-law

Larsen, Elizabeth Foy (2012, July) Benefits of Free Range Parenting, Retrieved from: https://www.familycircle.com/teen/parenting/discipline/benefits-of-free-range-parenting/

Zamosky, Lisa. Free- Range Parenting Retrieved from: https://www.webmd.com/parenting/features/free-range-parenting#1

Free-Range Kids: How to Raise Safe, Self-Reliant Children (Without Going Nuts with Worry) Retrieved from: http://www.freerangekids.com/faq/

Article: 'Free-Range' Parenting's Unfair Double Standard

https://www.theatlantic.com/amp/article/557051/

Free Range Parenting Laws per the State

http://www.freerangekids.com/laws/

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Episode 5: Mel and Tash will discuss the topic of stress between partners. A recent discussion suggest husbands stress women out more than their children.

Areas we will cover:

  • Do you find this to be true? why/why not?
  • Identifying the roles/dynamics of husband and wife in the family.
  • What characteristics are increasing the likelihood of a mom becoming stressed?
  • Did you know?-- Men are reporting an increase in stress levels similar to their spouses. What’s contributing to this cause?
  • Supplemental effects of the stress--strained relationships?, separation/divorce? Heart disease?
  • Strained relationships: the mental stress can be just as detrimental as the physical. One can argue it leads to physical ailments. Women are likely to carryover this mental stress than men.
  • Stress provides ill effects on our bodies. That negative energy is known to increase the likelihood of heart disease, ulcers, and a host of other ailments.
  • Practical solutions to combat stress

Sources:

Blades, Lincoln Anthony (2017, March 13) Why Black Men Need to be Emotionally Involved in Relationships. Ebony Retrieved from http://www.ebony.com/love-relationships/relationships-men-emotions

Hon, Jeremy (2018, March 2) Studies Show That Husbands Stress Women Twice As Much As Children. Retrieved from https://www.providr.com/study-husband-wife-stress/

Marital Stress Affects the Hearts of Husbands and Wives Differently (2006 March 15). Retrieved from:

https://abcnews.go.com/Technology/story?id=1720791&page=1

Parker-Pope, Tara (2010, June 19) Now, Dad Feels as Stressed as Mom. New York Times Retrieved from https://www.nytimes.com/2010/06/20/weekinreview/20parkerpope.html

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Episode 4: This broad topic encompasses strained relationships between black mothers & daughters, and suggestions in moving forward in developing positive relationships with our own children and possibly mending our parental relationships (if we can).

Sources:

Everet, J.E., et al (2016) A Qualitative Study of the Black Mother-Daughter Relationship: Lessons Learned About Self-Esteem, Coping, and Resilience, Journal of Black Studies (47)4, 334-350

The Strained Relationship Between Black Mothers and their Daughters.

http://madamenoire.com/1026019/the-strained-relationship-between-black-mothers-and-their-daughters/

8 Toxic Patterns in Mother-Daughter Relationships

Link: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/tech-support/201502/8-toxic-patterns-in-mother-daughter-relationships

Dear Black Women: Mothers and Daughters Need to Stick Together

Link: http://www.ebony.com/wellness-empowerment/mother-daughter-relationships

Mothers and Daughters: Are You Overstepping Your Boundaries?

Link:http://www.oprah.com/relationships/advice-on-mother-daughter-relationships-and-boundaries/all#ixzz5HaTe653v

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Episode 3 Topic: Mel and Tash will be joined by Jennifer Sarduy, Board President of Birth Texas on Maternal Healthcare Among Black Women. Hear about how you can change your birth experience and what we as mothers can do to change and challenge the narrative for black women to reduce the mortality rate in the black birth experience.

About Birth Texas & Birth Texas Convention:

Birth Texas is a 501c3 non-profit consumer advocacy organization dedicated to reducing maternal and infant mortality, in the state of Texas, through consumer awareness and outreach. More information can be found on their website at http://www.birthtexas.org

The 2018 Birth Texas Convention is thrilled to welcome special guests renowned midwife Shafia Monroe, as well as Life contributors Nev Schulman and Laura Perlongo! Saturday, July 21 in Arlington, TX | Register, Vendor, and/or Sponsor: https://birthtexas.org/convention/

This is a great conference for mothers who want to search for a different birth experience and birth practionners.

Sources/References:

  • Childbirth is killing black women in the US, and here’s why https://www.cnn.com/2017/11/15/health/black-women-maternal-mortality/index.html
  • For Serena Williams, Childbirth Was a Harrowing Ordeal. She’s Not Alone. https://www.nytimes.com/2018/01/11/sports/tennis/serena-williams-baby-vogue.html
  • How training doctors in implicit bias could save the lives of black mothers. https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/how-training-doctors-implicit-bias-could-save-lives-black-mothers-n873036
  • Black Mother's Alliance: A Black women-led cross-sectoral alliance. We center Black mamas to advocate, drive research, build power, and shift culture for Black maternal health, rights, and justice. Website: https://blackmamasmatter.org/
  • Texas Medical Association/Maternal Mortality and Morbidity: https://www.texmed.org/MMM/

Episode Hashtags: #MahoganyMomology #BlackMaternalHealthcare #BlackMamasMatter

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Episode 2 Topic: Mel and Tash will talk with Sh'Niqua Alford, LCSW, Owner/Therapist of Restoring Serenity Counseling Center, PLLC on how to talk to your children and identifying the signs among partners.

Momologist Discussion Points: 1. What is abuse? 2. What are the statistics among black women and children compared to their counterparts: is there any data for that? 3. What’s the concern/rationale behind not reporting 4. What signs should we be looking for if we have a romantic partner?..or family members? 5. How do you talk to children about the signs? What age is appropriate?

Find a local domestic violence shelter: https://www.domesticshelters.org/ About Restoring Serenity Counseling Center, PLLC Sh'Niqua Alford is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in the state of Texas (license #41470). She holds a Master of Social Work - University of Texas at Arlington and in 2005 recieved her Bachelor of Social Work - Texas Christian University. Over the past 13 years, Sh'Niqua has worked in a variety of social work/clinical settings: * Supporting and mentoring pregnant/parenting teenagers to overcome barriers and achieve success as both a parent and a student. * Employment in the child welfare system; helping children in foster care and their families overcome trauma, abuse, and neglect. * Working at local psychiatric facilities to help children, adolescents, and adults receive proper mental health treatment. * Adjunct social work professor; focused on teaching social work students to become strong, competent, and ethical social work leaders.

Where to find Restoring Serenity Counseling Center, PLLC 1201 N. Watson Rd. Suite 295 | Arlington, TX 76006 817-989-6336 https://www.restoringserenitycounseling.com/ Twitter: @salfordLCSW Pintrest: @restoringserenitycounselingcen Facebook: @restoringserenitycounseling Email: salford@restoringserenitycounseling.com Continue the Discussion, Rate, Like, Follow Us, and Share on:
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Welcome to our first episode of Mahogany Momology, an on-line daily dialog pertaining to the concerns and carefree parenting of black motherhood.

Episode 1 Topic: Mel and Tash will talk about Black Mom Myths and how do we debunk them? Some myths people have about black moms are full time mothers don't spend enough time with their children, Pregnancy is time NOT to be seen or heard: how many times people have said or alluding to ' just sit down somewhere'. eg "why are you working out?", and more.

Momologist Resources: Source: Black Matriarchy: The Myths and Truths About Black Mothers Source: The Impossibility of the Good Black Mother Source: 10 Myths about Single Black Moms Source: Distinctive Features of the African-American
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