Fancy Face & Friends: Recent Episodes
Fancy Face
Social commentator and writer, interested in engaging discussions with friends ranging from politics, entertainment, fashion, health & wellness and more!
On this episode I ask Bianca her take on recent headlines from the sky, the man who was masterbating next to a female passenger, the pilot who showed up to the cockpit drunk, unruly passengers with mask mandates, and the plane that crashed in China.
She also shares her own tales from the sky and offers a MAJOR don't for passengers with flight attendants.
Jara's back to discuss the Brooklyn shooter that shot at morning commuters on the N train, last week, after detonating smoke devices. Living in post 9/11 New York City, we discuss the trauma events like that can spark for New Yorkers.
As the mass shootings in the US continue to be a daily occurrence, we talk about sensible gun laws as well as the modern man and his perpetuation of violence in the #Metoo and Time's Up Era. Will things get better or worse for society, men, and gun violence?
Tiffany has created an activity book for all ages, titled Hues of Africa: Journey Between the Lines. With her extensive research and her personal travel stories, she's put together a book that educates her audience on all things Africa. Places, sights to see, culture, and more she showcases the many colors of Africa.
On this episode, she talks about her trips to Ghana and South Africa, what inspired her to create Hues of Africa, and the next activity book she's working on (about HBCUs).
Hues of Africa: Journey Between the Lines is available online at Target, Walmart, Barnes and Nobles and Amazon.
https://www.amazon.com/Hues-Africa-Coloring-Activity-Relaxtion/dp/1737001101
We may think it but we're not exactly in a post-pandemic world just yet. Adalia from Picky Girl Travels joins me in discussing the chaos in Hong Kong, her experiences with Covid19 in Mexico, my experiences in Thailand as well as the latest strain that has hit the UK.
Plus I pose the question, are governments using the pandemic and fear mongering or are they using accurate data to inform the general public?
Aaron's back to discuss Ukraine and Russia's Invasion.
We talk about Crimea, the brutal attacks against Ukraine, how they changed the laws for Putin to be president again, as well as what his motives are and his endgame.
We also discuss Nato, the US's role, sanctions, the potential of World War 3, and keeping an eye on the other big threat China.
With Africans fleeing Ukraine and seeking refuge in Poland, we chat about the racism that they've faced and we share our optimism for the end of the invasion.
Host of the Brownstone Podcast, Jara joins this episode to talk about unhealthy and healthy relationships. We discuss having an unhealthy relationship with ourselves, men, work, and more. She also shares her growth, discovery and the journey of self-reflection that she has been on.
For more information on the Brownstone Podcast, click the Instagram link below: https://www.instagram.com/thebrownstonepodcast/?hl=en
Recently, former Secretary of State, Condoleezza Rice said, "I would like Black kids to be completely empowered, to know that they are beautiful in their Blackness, but in order to do that I don’t have to make White kids feel bad for being White."
So I asked, High school US History teacher Aaron to talk about Critical Race Theory.
We talk about what it is/isn't, should it be taught, and what age levels. We also discuss why conservatives are against it being taught while Republicans are running elections currently on keeping it "out of the classroom."
With the long racist history that the US has had, we talk about some of the things we've learned growing up, what was accurate, the truths that students should be learning at age appropriate levels, and the role of an educator teaching history in school.
Huge Bravo fan and Real Housewives aficionado, Jeri, joins me to talk about the very controversial and eye-opening 11th season of Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. We talk about Crystal's addition to the show and Tahoe incident with Sutton. We also talk about Lisa Rinna's behavior, Dorit, Kathy Hilton's humor, and standing behind Garcelle (even when the other women weren't).
I also ask Jeri's favorite RHOBH housewife ever, who's house Jeri would want to stay in, and who they would want to go on a trip with for a month.
And of course we breakdown Erika Jayne and the story that kept on giving.
Los Angeles based artist ROYCE shares his latest 6 track, EP titled "A Seat at the Table." We talk about the loss of his father, from a heart attack, which inspired the title track for his EP. As most his artists he coped with grief through writing and penned the somber track. He also shares writing and recording during the pandemic.
The protests in Los Angeles, which he attended, for George Floyd, inspired him to write the social justice track "Thank you! Mr. George Floyd."
You'll hear snippets of his tracks as he talks about "Cum Thru" the funk inspired "Shadow" "All My Life" and the uptempo track "On My Way."
Plus other artists and musical moments from Maroon 5, Pink, Billie Eilish, Lauryn Hill, Adele and we talk Prince and Beyonce.
To buy the EP "A Seat at the Table" or follow his social media platforms, click here : https://roycethevoice.hearnow.com/
From preteens and high school to adulthood and beyond, Monique and I have been close friends forever. For my 100th episode, I asked her to turn the table on me, by asking me any question she wanted.
She asked me about being single, whether I wanted kids, my favorite childhood moment, worst job, and favorite memory with her. She also opens up about finally becoming the mother she envisioned, while pregnant with her first son.
And we share memories of an amazing woman and guidance counselor at our old high school, who recently passed away, Ms. Choice.
Listen to us laugh (a lot!) about the life we've lived so far.
After 6 weeks in India, Lisa returned to the States a certified yoga instructor and then the pandemic happened... Now she shares what she's learned during her emotional discoveries.
We also talk about how people can lean into meditation and yoga to heal trauma. She breaks down the difference between "Big T" trauma and "Little t" trauma. As she opens up about her own childhood memories and household, we talk about stopping the generational cycle of mental health issues and trauma and she shares a unique perspective on "reparenting" one's self to heal our inner child.
To learn more about Lisa go to her website: https://www.lisathomascoaching.com/
Follow her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamthemanifestationgoddess/
The FreeBritney movement worked and her dad has been taken off as her conservator, so fellow fan and someone who works in Mental Health Services, Elodie joins me in discussing Britney Spears.
We also talk about the infamous 2007 MTV VMA performance, the 2008 breakdown, and the start of the conservatorship. Plus did the music industry play a role in helping her dad, continue the abuse she says she suffered through?
As we ponder what's next for the superstar, we talk about her healing from trauma and PTSD and share what we hope is next for her and the freedom she now has to evolve. And hopefully the changes that will come from this landmark case in California.
The host of Picky Girl Travels the World Podcast, Adalia, talks about her move from Texas to Mexico City. I ask her why she left the US behind and she opens up about the quality of life.
Adalia explains the differences in visas, from tourist, residential, and a work visa. Although she has lived in Kuwait, China, and Honduras, she loves her life in Mexico City and feels safer there than back in The States. Find out why.
Follow her on IG to see posts about her life, the podcast, and her travels. https://www.instagram.com/pickygirltravels/
MTV just celebrated 40 years of broadcasting. I wanted to ask artist and musician Tanner, what he thinks of the milestone, where MTV started and what it has grown to become. As fans of Aaliyah, we talk about her impact and the availability of her music on streaming platforms.
Drake vs Kanye West. I ask Tanner who he prefers more and which album was better and we talk about some of the antics and moments surrounding both men.
Speaking of antics, Nicki Minaj's Twitter explodes with misinformation and unfounded claims. As her fans rally around her social media content, political commentators and heads of state weigh in on the need to dispel her comments.
From New Orleans, Paul talks to me about how the city has survived Hurricane Ida and losing power for a week. He was fortunate enough to flee the city to Atlanta with friends, but what does he think about the future of climate change, and hurricane seasons, in his beloved hometown? He also talks about Covid19 and the existential state of his future and the possibility of New Orleans sinking.
With the conclusion of Drag Race All Stars 6, Steve and I finally thought it was time to do a recap of all of 2021's Drag Race shows, including US, UK, Down Under, All Stars 6, as well as Holland and España. What do we think about the shows that Rupaul doesn't host? Who are some of our favorite queens and moments from the year? Plus the 'game within a game' on All Stars 6, and the top four, Kylie Sonique Love, Ra'Jah, Eureka, and Ginger Minj, who did Steve really want to win? And what we think about Drag Race finally embracing the trans and non-binary communities.
As a Master Trainer at Boss Chick Dance Workout, Danielle, promotes a fun, vibrant, safe, and inclusive experience for women, transwomen, and those who self-identify as females.
She talks about her humble beginnings dancing in church in Maryland and then as an adult finding a dance team while studying in New York, and eventually finding BCDW. I also talk to her about what she's learned about herself through dance and how the pandemic has affected her ability to conduct classes.
Twerk, dance, and take part in HIIT workouts that shed pounds, tone your body, and give you confidence. For more information, and to sign up for her virtual classes, click on the links below: https://bosschickdmv.com/ https://www.instagram.com/bcdw.dc/
A complete breakdown of everything Afghanistan, provided by Aaron. He goes into who the Taliban is, Bush's role in the country post 9-11, what should've happened after Osama was killed during Obama's Administration, Trump's role, and what's currently happening in Kabul and Biden's response. There's a lot of history and Aaron effortlessly provides insight on the chaos.
We also touch on Israel & Palestine, and America's ability to keep wars off their own soil. And lastly, I ask Aaron if we would see World War 3 in our lifetime.
Nearly a year later, Anthony talks about moving to Turkey to teach English. His travels began in the Peace Corps in Lesotho. Due to the pandemic, everyone in about 61 countries were sent back to their home country (including him). After being back in the US, last year he moved to Istanbul to teach English.
We swap stories about teaching English as a second language to students, Anthony in Turkey and me in Taiwan. What are the differences between teaching adults vs teaching young learners? What has he learned about himself as a teacher? Plus the advice he gives to others who are looking to teach English abroad.
Serving us Black Girl Magic, Samara (blogger of Styled Chic) shares how she started her Lifestyle blog and her journey from using relaxers to cutting it all off and rocking the natural look. She also talks about finding inspiration from her mom to start juicing plus delicious dishes like her Ground Turkey Sweet Potato Skillet.
We also talk about travel and her essentials for a good trip (spoiler... proper research) and her must-have beauty item that she swears by.
For more information check out her blog here: https://www.styledchic.net/ And follow her on Instagram @styledchic
Born and raised in South Africa, Storme has found love and life, working in Taiwan. She talks about ending a relationship before she arrived, dating, and eventually falling in love with her now Taiwanese husband, Brian.
Finding love in a foreign place can have its cultural and language challenges and I ask Storme about what some of those were plus the wedding that they are planning to have for both of their families and their future journey together to Australia.
Canceled or not canceled? I ask Monique her thoughts on several people and things in the news this summer. Should these people/things be canceled or not? We talk about Bill Cosby being released and Phylicia Rashad's supportive (later deleted) tweet.
Did the Olympics make the right call with Sha'carri Richardson? Plus the pressure Simone Biles (and backlash) for being the GOAT.
Sharon Osbourne lost her job on The Talk following an uncomfortable meltdown on air against her "friend" Sheryl Underwood. How should Sharon have handled the talk?
The world is over Covid19 and the Delta variant and we all want to get back to a normal life again.
DaBaby's ignorant, homophobic comments have caused ignorant former rapper T.I. to drag Lil Nas into the debate, while claiming that rappers are being bullied by the gay community. What??? In other music news, Britney's convservatorship should the "Slave 4 U" singer be unshackled?
Lastly climate change... the one thing we should cancel right now.
From Houston to New York to New Zealand back home to Houston, Briana opens up about her journey finding meditation and applying it to herself and her relationships with family, friends, spouses, and the community.
Now she offers classes (in person in Houston) and online with In Free and Flow, a new donation based yoga exploration for self reflection and connection. Today she talks about finding the stillness, exploring meditation without expectations, and her own personal growth from the past to the present.
For more information about In Free and Flow (including classes and their podcast) click the link below.
https://linktr.ee/Inflowandfree
With George Floyd's family recently in the White House, I ask Aaron has President Biden and his administration done enough for police reform, police brutality, and Black Lives Matter?
We also talk about Biden's Covid19 vaccine rollout. Has he done a good job for Americans? With another mass shooting, this time in San Jose, what can his administration do about gun laws? I also ask Aaron to grade the work that he's done for the last four months. So what grade does he give?
Steve joins me to talk about four countries taking different steps with Covid19. In America they've gone maskless for fully vaccinated people, according to the CDC and President Biden. We talk about having to trust people who claim to be vaccinated when they aren't. Plus what should business owners do?
Meanwhile Germany is still under lockdown with a curfew in effect. And the rollout from the European Union when it comes to vaccine access. While the "World's Pharmacy" India has been devastated by the pandemic. We discuss how and why. Then Covid19 arrives to one of the safest countries in the world, Taiwan. An almost overnight spike has forced the government to place Taipei under lockdown as the numbers continue to rise.
From Florida and living in Taipei, Tanner from The Co-Pilots talks about working on his fourth album "Pacific Echo" and his first single "Acid Rain." His debut album was in 2012, at the age of 17. His new album is a reflection on his move to Taiwan and his life there for nearly three years. He also opens up about meeting, collaborating, and performing with artists he's met, so far from USA.
We also talk about some of the artists that he likes or he's been influenced by like SOPHIE, Bjork, Radiohead, Charli XCX, Aaliyah, and more.
His music is available on all streaming platforms and you can check out his bandcamp account here:
https://thecopilotsmusic.bandcamp.com/ https://www.facebook.com/thecopilotsmusic/
Nerine joins me to share her aloha. She opens up about how the pandemic has affected her and the tourist industry in Hawaii. She also talks about her favorite places on Oahu and the Big Island, and a recent trip she took to Bora Bora. As she's about to turn 30, she talks about what lessons she's learned, regrets she's had, and all about her 20s.
Mai and her friend Nathalie share their stories of getting breast implants and why they ultimately removed them. They both talk about insecurities. Mai, felt like she was "flat chested" and looked like a boy and got implants to feel less insecure. After having two children Nathalie wanted to boost her self esteem so she didn't have a "mom bod."
Mai suffered from illnesses for years and Nathalie felt like her implants changed her personality and she wasn't present in her life. They subsequently removed their implants after symptoms they both had. They also break down the symptoms they had. And they talk about having they same surgeon for the implant and explant surgeries. This is their brave story about Breast Implant Illness.
For more information: https://www.breastimplantillness.com/ https://www.healingbreastimplantillness.com/
From Germany, Steve shares what his experience has been in Frankfurt with the recent Covid19 lockdown plus his year of working from home. What does he think about the vaccine rollout in the European Union and when does he think life will get back to "normal?"
As a teacher and a parent, Aaron shares his unique perspective on the year of Distance Learning that most of America has been dealing with. In his school district in California, he's been teaching virtually since after Spring Break March 2020.
As a parent of a son in elementary school and a nephew (who lives with his family) in high school, he shares what their experience has been learning from home, as well as the advantages and disadvantages.
As a high school teacher of US History (and a wife who teaches 3rd grade) he talks about what his struggles have been with teaching his subject, and the chaos that has been the school district and the rules changing on a near weekly basis. And when does he think they should open up schools?
Travel blogger Tiffany of Sweet Tiffy's Inspirations joins this travel-related episode. We talk about the recent Indonesia plane crash , turbulence, and she shares a few tips on how to handle travel anxiety.
We also talk about the recent attack from a passenger on a Spirit airlines gate agent over baggage fees. Are passengers becoming more and more ridiculous when it comes to wearing masks and are flight attendants jobs becoming harder?
We also talk about the future of traveling in 2021 with mask mandates, and Covid19 vaccines. Is there any hope for us to travel international this year?
Check out Tiffany's website and social media for more information. https://tiffany-travels.com/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/sweettiffysinspirations IG: https://www.instagram.com/sweettiffys/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/sweettiffys
From New Orleans, Paul and I discuss the Georgia state run offs, Ossoff, Warnock, and the Democrats' victory of the Senate. I also ask his opinion on a number of political figures including, Pelosi, AOC, Stacy Abrams, Josh Hawley, Mitch Mcconnell, Ted Cruz, and Giuliani.
While we knew Biden was the clear winner and that the election wasn't rigged, we do a deep dive into the issues (misinformation, lack of education, poverty, Trump's lies) that brought Trump supporters to storm Capitol Hill on Wednesday. The hypocrisy and white privilege of it all.
Two Americans living in Taiwan, this week's guest Kara opens up about her personal reflections on 2020. How does she rate the year? What was her biggest triumph with personal growth? And how she fell in love with Taiwan during the pandemic.
Plus we reflect on Covid19, Taiwan's early and continued response to the pandemic that has affected the world. Also in direct contrast, America's and Trump's lack of a response and the systemic issues that have been exposed because of the virus (poverty, racism, healthcare, unemployment). We also talk about US Presidential Election, Joe Biden's win, and holding the next administration just as accountable as the current one.
From Picky Girl Travels the World, Adalia shares her year in travels. Earlier this year she embarked on a 10 city tour in Europe just as Covid19 started to spread and flights were canceled. She made her way back to China, where she was living, and has since moved to Mexico City. We discuss being Black abroad and the importance of representation with traveling. We also talk about Covid19, how it has shaped our lives and travel plans for 2020, the vaccine, the US and Mexico's response, and future travels in 2021.
Will people take the pandemic serious and take social responsibility? Will the world take the vaccine? Can we have longer international trips/flights? Plus what is the role of the Airline Industry? Find out what Adalia had to say.
Follow Adalia online: Website: https://pickygirltravelstheworld.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pickygirltravels/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/PickyGrlTravels
A rough year for the world but a great year for music. Chris Cali joins me in talking about Lady Gaga's "Chromatica" Jessie Ware's "What's Your Pleasure?" and his Top 5 albums of 2020 (plus some honorable mentions). He's also watched several of the Verzuz "battles" this year and shares his favorite.
As part of the lambily, we talk about Mariah Carey's big year, releasing a memoir, a 30 year anniversary "The Rarities" album, and her Christmas special. It was also a big year for Megan Thee Stallion, who gave great performances and proved star power.
With controversy we talk about Doja Cat, cancel culture and The Grammy's...do they really matter anymore?
From Germany, Steve shares his opinion on watching the US Presidential election from afar. As Joe Biden/Kamala Harris are announced the winner, does he think that the strained relationship between Germany and the US will be better under a Biden administration? We also talk about getting rid of the Electoral College.
On his side of the world he shares the current shutdowns and lockdowns happening in Germany and the rest of Europe, due to Covid19. When will it end?
Kim and I share stories of our experiences living in Taiwan. We talk about traveling around the island, paragliding in New Taipei, hiking trails and blue water in Hualien, Kaohsiung, Hsinchu, and more. We talk about the culture, the people, our pet peeves, best nights, and the socio-economic status of Taiwan. Lastly we have a discussion about Taiwan's immediate response to Covid19.
Mariah Carey celebrates 30 years in the music industry releasing her "The Rarities" album with never before heard songs from the vault, as well as her "Live at the Tokyo Dome" album. Fellow fan and part of the Lambily, Brittney shares some of her favorite Mariah moments. We also discuss past albums and personal moments we've both had because of Mariah's music.
Ruth Bader Ginsburg's legacy and death and the Supreme Court's vulnerable position. Should we cancel Halloween or let kids run around during the pandemic? Plus the White House is hit with Covid19. What does Aaron think about all of these recent headlines? He joins in this episode to give his opinions on these topics.
Back for Part Two, best friends living together in Hawaii, Brittney and Nerine share good dates with me. Nerine's is international, Brittney's is spontaneous, and I share a 4th of July date. I also open about that date/guy didn't work out in the end. We each share our dealbreakers when it comes to pet peeves or things we just can't handle in a date or partner.
The ladies join me in a discussion about the benefits of dating outside your race or culture. We also turn it around on ourselves and talk about what our growth should be through dating.
Adalia, from Picky Girl Travels the World, shares her difficult journey out of China to Mexico. We also talk about our distrust for the airline industry when it comes to cleanliness of the planes and security lines. What should change about the way we travel and will the airlines take responsibility? Should people sacrifice the holiday season?
Check out Adalia's blog: https://pickygirltravelstheworld.com/
World travel blogger Tiffany, joins the show to talk about what life is like as a traveler post Covid19. The pandemic has shaped up and forced us all to re-evaluate our lives, and we talk about what the isolation means and the travel blues. Tiffany gives me some insight into her last trip in January to Ghana and where she wants to go next. I share my apprehension to getting on a plane again in the near future and Tiffany can't wait to travel again! Check out her blog link below and follow her on IG.
https://tiffany-travels.com/ https://www.instagram.com/sweettiffys/
Steve and I recap Rupaul's Drag Race All Stars Season 5. He tells me who he thinks the weakest drag queen was and the strongest. We also talk about the Snatch Game, the lip sync assassins, the producers, the challenges, and the final three queens; Miz Cracker, Jujubee, and Shea Couleé.
Aaron opens up about being a Black man in America and having an interracial relationship and mixed kids.
From Honolulu, besties and roommates Brittney and Nerine open about their single lives. I ask the ladies what physically turns them on about men. We also talk about dating during quarantine plus each of the roommies shares a bad date story. Brittney with a controlling first date and Nerine with a bad attitude guy. We also laugh about dick pics and more!
Jillian joins me in a discussion about her home country South Africa. She gives me a brief history lesson on how colonialism started in South Africa. We also talk about the murders during apartheid.
I also ask her about how South African's economy was before Covid19 and how South Africa is being impacted now because of the virus.
She never thought she would be where she is today with two boys under the age of three. Monique opens up about her emergency birth, what it's like raising two Black boys in America, and she responds to another senseless Black murder. This time Amaud Arbery in Georgia. She also talks about the anxiety she has traveling with her kids as she relocates during the pandemic.
Plus we discuss what it was like to her to grieve the loss of having an only child plus the light skin vs dark skin debates with her two sons.
Chris Cali from San Francisco talks to me about what he thinks about New York Governor Andrew Cuomo's response to Covid19. We also talk about California, San Francisco, and Governor Gavin Newsom. Plus would a President Biden or President Clinton have handled things differently?
I also ask Chris Cali what positivity or optimism he holds on to during this time.
She was in Europe traveling for Chinese New Year when the pandemic first hit. Her flight was canceled and she was thankfully re-routed back to China. But when Adalia returned, life was different. She shares her return as well as opens up about the steps that China has taken during their "Epidemic Prevention Period" or "Quarantine."
As the US was blaming China, instead of taking their own responsibility for mishandling the Covid-19 pandemic, China has now placed blame on foreigners. Racism has risen, although they deny it, and Adalia chats with me about her own personal experiences of racism being yelled at in the street and more.
Follow her on IG at pickygirltravels and check out her blog here:
https://pickygirltravelstheworld.com/
Bernie Sanders has dropped out last week and this week officially endorsed Joe Biden. Will his supporters follow? Aaron helps me speculate. Plus who are Bernie's supporters and why didn't he have more of the Black support?
I also talk to Aaron about who he thinks would be a good VP pick for Biden and I offer up a few names to see what Aaron thinks about the potential running mates; Kamala Harris, Elizabeth Warren, Stacy Abrams, Tulsi Gabbard and more.
We can't escape talking about or dealing with Covid19. Paul updates me with what's happening in New Orleans and Louisiana. According to Professor Gary Wagner of University of Louisiana at Lafayette, “If you look at the trajectory that we are on, and you go back and look at where Italy and Spain were at the same point in time that we are, we’re on a higher trajectory." What is Louisiana Governor John Bel Edwards doing? Paul talks about NOLA's shut down, Mardi Gras, lack of response from the White House, and working from home.
Professor Wagner also said, “You look at where we are compared to where New York state was when they were at the same point in time, we’re on a higher trajectory than New York state.” So Mark from New York City, talks to me about what his company is doing with their employees, his dismay with the person in the White House, and life during a city shutdown.
Monique is back with a few questions for me. Advice that I would give women as well as the difference between my sexual experiences in Asia vs America. She also asks me if I would have a threesome with a man and a woman.
Speaking of threesomes, she opens up about a heterosexual couple she had sex with in NYC and a threesome with two men. Monique also talks about sex during pregnancy, "pink penis," "paying for pussy," her favorite sex positions, and her biggest sex regret.
The first two months of 2020 have been a wild start, but not only for the year but for a new decade. I'm happy to have Steveland joining me to talk about three of the biggest headlines (outside of the US election).
First we talk about the Australian bush fires, which mainly hit New South Wales for more than 240 days. Officials announced that as of February 27th all bushfires were extinguished in the area. We also get into Climate Change and the effects that humans have on the environment.
Second we discuss Harvey Weinstein's recent convictions. By a jury he was found guilty of rape and a felony sex crime in New York's Supreme Court. He also awaits the charges against him in California. What does this mean for more possible convictions that have come out of the Me Too era? Plus we talk about the inequality of the justice system with black men and white men and the convictions.
Lastly we get into Covid19 which has effected at least 58 countries, with more than 89,000 confirmed cases of the coronavirus and over 3,000 deaths. We talk about the hysteria. As of right now Covid19 has not been labeled a pandemic but if we use this as a precursor for a possible pandemic in the future, are the countries capable of responding to one? Is the world individually and collectively able to handle it?
Just in time for Valentine's Day...I wanted to explore a different type of love...polyamory. Kara talks about the first time she discovered what polyamory was. She talks about her current polyamorous relationship with her partner and some of the misconceptions people have about polyamory. She specifically breaks down what it is, why she enjoys this type of love, and what it was like for her and her partner to open up to their parents about their polyamorous relationship.
Adalia (blogger from Picky Girl Travels) and I ponder where the misinformation is coming from with the Novel Coronavirus (which first broke in Wuhan, China). Is it racism, xenophobia, or just people being ill-informed?
We give actual real information about what's happening with the Coronavirus, which countries are affected, and around how many people have been confirmed cases. [Spoiler alert...it's not exactly an outbreak outside of China].
Adalia opens up about how she plans on making her way back to China from her current Eastern European trip (she lives and works in China). I talk about my recent travels with a friend from Germany, to Hong Kong and Macau and why I checked myself in the hospital.
https://pickygirltravelstheworld.com/
Jillian, artist and creator of the September art show "The Truth About Her" talks to me about her inspiration behind the show and most of her work. We also have an honest conversation about working a full time job and trying to schedule "creativity." She also helps me change my mind on the word "deadlines" and we swap stories about creating on planes and the response from passengers next to us. Plus the one piece of advice of hers that every artist should follow this year, to stay productive and creative.
Check out her artwork on her website: https://www.cutthroatsweetheart.com/
Monique wants everyone to have a year of great sex! She gives tips to men, women, and gay men about what they can do to make sure they have their best sex. She gives advice on communicating with your partners, lasting longer in the bedroom, and knowing your body. Plus we talk about orgies and she opens up about the man who made her realize great sex was possible AND she talks about a role play situation gone wrong.
To finish our conversation we wrap up 2019 with US politics. The Democratic candidates running for president plus what Aaron really thinks about Impeachment. I ask Aaron which two hopefuls he wants to remove from the list of Democratic candidates plus he shares who he wants to be President and Vice President.
According to Aaron, 2019 was "a year of hilarity and fuckery." We discuss the Amazon fires and environmental regulations (or lack thereof). We also talk about the protests that Puerto Rico had against Governor Ricardo Rosselló and how effective the movement was. Of course we dive into Canadian Prime Minister Justin Trudeau and his "blackface" past (plus how people can do costumes of another race or culture tastefully). Lastly we talk about the killing of Botham Jean by "off-duty" Dallas police officer Amber Guyger and the forgiveness that the oppressed give their oppressors.
Mark joins me in a discussion about the biggest music news this year. We talk about our favorite songs plus Celine, Madonna, the rise fo Lil Nas X and Lizzo...plus I give you 5 albums you should be listening to. And we discuss Azealia Banks.
Living abroad can be difficult for any American, blogger Adalia (from Picky Girl Travels the World)is back to talk about what her life has been like living in China. We both share stories of what it's like to be Black in Asia and how dehumanizing it can feel at times. We tap into the "white skin, blonde hair, blue eyes" expectations of Westerners in China and Taiwan.
Read all about Adalia's travel stories here: http://pickygirltravelstheworld.com/
Morris talks to me about his journey to self-healing that started through therapy and joining a boxing club in London to finding his mindfulness through yoga therapy. Now he's offering meditation and yoga services, as he spreads more information about Yoga Therapy to people around the world. From addiction and an active mind to becoming a yogi. This is his story.
https://www.afroyogic.com/
After two Democratic Presidential Debates, Aaron and I catch up on what's been going on. We list the 10 hopefuls that will be in the September debate and share one person we would rather see on that list (from the other 10 who didn't make the cut) and the candidate we would replace them with.
We also talk about my distrust in Beto O'Rourke and Pete Buttigieg, why Aaron likes Kirsten Gillibrand, and why I like Marianne Williamson.
Every member of the LGBTQ+ community has a personal journey of accepting your sexuality or what you identify as, and choosing to live the path. It's never an easy journey. In a previous podcast about Alzheimer's and Dementia, Simon opened about a moment with his father accepting him, for being gay. In this podcast we dive more into Simon's own journey of acceptance and the problems that plague the LGBTQ+ community when there is no acceptance.
This episode's guest features Shorlette, a queer single mother from North Carolina. She opens up about her ex-husband's support, her twin sister that is lesbian and how the dynamic has affected her family. She also talks about the girlfriend she was spending time with in a mall that sparked a protest and national news coverage, which led to her coming out to her family. It's an interesting tale of trial, error, and triumph.
Being a New Yorker, Mark knows all about the significance of Stonewall, Pride, and the 50th anniversary of the iconic riots that started it all. We also talk about our first Pride parades and some of our younger gay experiences in NYC.
Speaker of the House of Representatives, Nancy Pelosi and what she thinks about impeachment or imprisonment. We also talk about the exhaustive list of Democratic Presidential Candidates and Aaron breaks down his thoughts on Joe Biden, Kamala Harris, Cory Booker, Bernie Sanders, Andrew Yang, Julian Castro and more.
We talk about the wave of US states passing a bill to ban abortions or "heartbeat bills." Kara opens up about being "pro life" in the past but why she believes in being "pro choice." We also talk about the male lawmakers making these decisions for women, and planned parenthood inaccuracies. Also would these laws be passed under a different administration?
One son's journey back from London to Blackburn helping his parents through his father's Alzheimer's diagnosis. His father's denial and darkness with the disease, his mother's strength and struggle...and how he's coping. Simon shares the ups and downs of dealing with his father's Alzheimer's and bringing his father back to his musical background by creating Song A Minute Man.
Check out: https://songaminuteman.com/ for more information, including the album and book.
I was interested in talking to three women (Adalia in China, Tiffany in LA and Saffy in the Orlando, FL area) from the popular Facebook group Nomad•ness Travel Tribe about their experiences traveling and living abroad. I wanted to know where they have felt safe and if they have had un-safe experiences. We also talk about staying in Airbnbs with male hosts and whether or not stories of women being attacked on solo trips makes them feel discouraged about traveling. They also give a few tips of how they move during their solo trips.
JJ Shurte, Author of "Days Too Dark" (a post apocalyptic epistolary novel set in the ruins of Australia) opens up about what inspires his writing, why he loves the Apocalyptic genre and whether or not he sees himself as a optimist or pessimist.
Will a disease, aliens, climate change, World War 3, or something else cause an apocalyptic or dystopian future? We talk about the current state of the world and the possibilities.
Aaron and I discuss the latest headlines, Jussie Smollett and the Chicago PD and the mess that is his case. Cardi B claims she robbed men to survive and there is a backlash with "Surviving Cardi B" so we talk about her, her actions, and sex working in general. The country Brunei's Anti-LGBT new Sharia law means punishing homosexual sex with death by stoning. And lastly I mention Aaron's Facebook surrounding the death of Nispey Hussle and Dr. Sebi, where Aaron writes, "Sebi "cured" AIDS in 1988 but Big Pharma suppressed it...then waited 28 years to kill him?" We dive into his beliefs that it's nothing more than a conspiracy theory.
With shocking statistics such as the average college debt and the high levels of anxiety and stress, Danielle joins me discussing mistakes and mentalities we have when it comes to education and work. We met working together in Los Angeles and open up about the issues we've had working with that company and 9-5s in general.
So happy to have someone I haven't caught up with in years, Toby, joining me from London. We talk about meeting through "gay" boxing lessons and our experiences dating. I share a particular experience I had in Los Angeles dating and Toby opens up about his mysterious "maybe" celebrity that he was in love at first sight with. We also talk about rejection and being in the peripheral of dating.
Co host of the new podcast Thot Police, Chris Cali joins me from San Francisco to talk about our thoughts on RuPaul's Drag Race All Stars 4. We break it down and discuss Drag Race in general and the issues surrounding racism and transphobia within the LGBTQ that Drag Race highlights, including RuPaul's own cisgender privilege. We share our favorite looks and moments from the recent season of All Stars 4, why we continue to watch even when disappointed, and we dive into Gia Gunn's comments about the season.
We also talk about the "thud" that was the finale and I ask Chris which Queens he would love to see on All Stars 5 and which Celebrity Guest Judges he'd love to see on Drag Race Season 11.
Brittney and I open up about our personal journeys from our 20s. We share some of the biggest lessons we've learned, regrets, what we learned about ourselves professionally, what we apply in our 30s and being proud of some of our accomplishments.
We reflect back on what we've learned about living in Hawaii and what life advice we would give our younger selves about surviving our 20s.
For Black History Month LaFonda shares the Black Women that she's drawn inspiration from, including her mother and the strength and courage she gets from her. She also talks about Viola Davis and her own recent appearance as Agent Katrina Portman on "How to Get Away with Murder." We also talk about Janet Jackson, Whitney Houston, Nene Leakes, Dawn Richard as well as Real Housewives of Atlanta.
Seaon helps give an update and breakdown of Brexit. Although he didn't vote for Brexit, why he feels it's necessary for Democracy to continue with the UK leaving the European Union. Also, why this is a political nightmare for the UK's current Prime Minister Theresa May and why Seaon doesn't care for Labour Party leader Jeremy Corbyn. We also discuss the social and political ramifications of Brexit and the forthcoming March 29th deadline for the referendum. Plus...where does Brexit leave Scotland? Will Scotland leave the UK in favor of the EU?
Living in a culture where people can easily make a mistake, post one wrong tweet, or say the wrong thing. When do we forgive? What actions are unforgivable? Who gets cancelled and why? Plus should we cancel past US Presidents for their actions?
Aaron and I talk about this layered discussion on "Cancel Culture" using Bill Cosby, R. Kelly, Roseanne, Billy Bush, Kathy Griffin, and Kevin Hart.
Kara joins me again on the podcast to discuss the recent violence with the mail bomber, Louisville shooting, and Pittsburgh synagogue mass shooting. The White House administration's lack of taking responsibility for vitriolic things Trump has said during his campaign and throughout his "presidency."
We also talk about the lives that were lived by the victims of the synagogue shooting, Kara's personal relationship with Pittsburgh, and America's history of anti-semitism.
Adora and I discuss the supposed "very scary time" for men in America. The influence of Me Too and Time's Up as well as the reaction with Kavanaugh becoming a judge on the Supreme Court, despite Dr. Ford's claims. Plus the growing pains America is going through, while tearing down the white male patriarch.
Adora also shares her experience with how she's trying to raise her son to become a good person, despite the guy in the White House being a bad example.
An American, Australian, and Canadian reflecting on three months of living in Taiwan. Kim and Kelsey share their experiences, so far. They open up about why they chose this island, any misconceptions they had, what advice they would've given themselves before moving here, dating, and what they wanted to learn about themselves in Taiwan. We also talk about what it's like to constantly push yourself as three single people, living alone.
Tanner and I swap stories about our upbringing as American men, in a heteronormative society that values masculinity. We also talk about how toxic those views can be. Someone online shared that rapists and boys like Brock Turner turn into men who become Brett Kavanaugh. We discuss this and rape culture in general.
In the second part of our podcast, Barbara opens up about a nightmare that she had, which was symbolic of the education her children are getting. Micro aggressions that kids of color deal with when they are not reflected in the class or in the teachers. Her personal experience dealing with being told her son had behavioral issues and the reason her daughter skipped a grade.
The Director of the Learning Leader Network for the Center for Leadership and Educational Equity in Providence, Rhode Island, Barbara answers my questions in the first part of this podcast about America's Education System for the youth. She gives Betsy Devos an F for effort, talks about being raised by educators, the impact of Maya Angelou visiting our middle school, and the presence of black teachers.
Chris Cali and I discuss some of the music released during the summer. Christina Aguilera's new album. Beyonce & Jay Z's collaborative album. Drake's album. Kanye West and why neither one of us have listened to his new work. Ariana's new album. Meanwhile Janet Jackson and Cher have released new songs. Mariah Carey's in the studio and the messiness that is Nicki Minaj's album release.
Recapping some Summer's News & Political moments with Chris Cali.
We talk about the lives and deaths of Aretha Franklin & John McCain. Meghan McCain's first season on The View, Colin Kaepernick's protest and Nike, as well as inmates and California's wildfires, the Catholic Church, Omarosa and the messiness of the White House Administration, the damage done to Puerto Rico, and the rise of Socialism in the Democratic Party.
Kara talks to me about feminism, the white male patriarchy, and her own journey with unlearning sexism and racism. We also talk about the recent news of the Catholic Church Leaders in Pennsylvania and hiding child abuse for over 70 years. Plus will their be a second Civil War in America?
Madonna celebrates a 60th birthday and 35 years in the music industry. Harlam joins me and talking about our favorite Madonna songs, videos, tours, movies, and more.
Actor, writer, director, producer, and founder and CEO of Asian Entertainment Television Sinakhone Keodara talks about his possible lawsuit against (gay app) Grindr and the worldwide debate that was picked up by Pink News, Advocate, Washington Post and other media outlets. He talks about the discriminatory messages and profiles on Grindr that he and others have suffered through.
Plus we talk about Hollywood's history of making Asian men appear docile and asexual. Will Grindr's new "Kinder" campaign, and the potential success of the upcoming film, "Crazy Rich Asians" turn things around?
*Please note: There is an echo on my end so I did what I could to reduce that as much as possible.
Aaron joins me to discuss the generational issues Black Americans have faced since slavery and we discuss why Blacks are supportive of the struggles other minorities face, while minorities are silent when it comes to issues that affect the Black community. Randall talks about the lessons from his father about growing up Black in America and being educated on Blackface and other issues. Brittney discusses the trend of White folks wasting tax payer dollars calling the police on Blacks for everything.
My friend Mai opens up about her 5 year journey being Kidney Cancer-free, the man who supported her through surgery, her reluctance to consider herself a "Cancer survivor," and her strength to overcome her struggle.
Shaun opens up about misconceptions of the trans community, his personal female to male journey, coming out, and what dating has been like. We also talk about America's bathroom debate and whether or not other members of the LGBTQ community can be transphobic.
Born and raised in New Orleans Paul looks back nearly 13 years later on Hurricane Katrina. Was the city prepared? Was the response from the Bush administration good enough? And how the city is continuing to rebuild itself. Meanwhile Puerto Rico's struggle for aide and recovery efforts after Hurricane Maria. What role has racism played on these two atrocities?
My brother joins me this week. We get into the NBA Championship Finals and the NFL's issue with taking a knee. Should the Black community stop watching the NFL? Are the NBA and NFL examples of modern day slavery? Plus is Hip Hop/Rap a dying genre? We discuss Pusha T, Drake, Kanye, Lil Wayne, and Jay Z.
A candid conversation with my Grandma. She opens up about her biggest mistake, being retired, leaving an abusive relationship, raising kids, racism, and the women's movement.
Our likes, dislikes, and favorite moments from the 2018 Billboard Music Awards hosted by Kelly Clarkson on NBC.
More than 60 Palestine protestors shot and killed on May 14th at the Gaza-Israel border, will this conflict ever be resolved? Was it a mistake to move the US Embassy from Tel Aviv to Jerusalem? Plus South Africa's decision to confiscate land from white landowners without compensation. Could this lead to more civil unrest?
Former teenage mother is now raising a teenage son. Her full circle journey and advice she has for other mothers.
Discussing Asian stereotypes in Hollywood, diversity, and what inspired Somlit to create his sexy Asian Magic Mike video.
People we could take back, people we wish we would've never given a chance and when is our next date? Live from Poughkeepsie, New York.
Catching up and chatting away with Adora and Gilbert, swapping dating stories. Is it easy to get to know us? Plus we talk about not putting expectations on dating, as well as dating deal breakers.
In Upstate New York being joined by my friend Gilbert and on the line Adora from North Carolina...discussing the worst dates we've ever had, PDA, and coming out.
The second part of the discussion with James, talking about the documentary "Dream Boat" and Oscar Nominee film "Call Me By Your Name."
The first part of a conversation about the French Film "Theo et Hugo dans la meme bateau," British film "The Weekend" and the gay documentary "Dream Boat." What did we take away from these films? How are gay men portrayed in them?
Shangela vs the Mean Girls? Should Trixie be the winner? Was it fair that Bebe was there? Will Kennedy finally get more Instagram followers? All things Rupaul's Drag Race All Stars Finale with my friend in New York City.
The conclusion of my conversation with Aaron. Will America ever fix their gun violence issue?
The first part of an informative discussion with a High school teacher and father about the Parkland students and Guns and US Politics.
Being joined by my friend in the Bay Area to discuss "Black Panther" and HBO's comedy, "Insecure" and the relationships in the African American community between black men and women.
A chat with my friend Brittney in Denver, Colorado discussing our issues with Justin, our love for Janet, and how RHOA needs to kick it up this season.
Discussing the parallels of 2017's German Election, Brexit and Make America Great Again. Plus our love for Rupaul's Drag Race All Stars Season 3.
An intimate conversation with Princess about living in Los Angeles, chasing her dreams, and genuine friendships.