Needy - Compassionate Communication meets Applied Improv: Recent Episodes

Jacob Methner

Conflicts are a normal part of life. Thankfully, we're all unique which makes life interesting. Needy aims to give you some inspiration on how to use conflict to build a deeper connection to what’s alive in you and others. You will learn about different communication approaches, with founding principles rooted in Marshall Rosenberg's "Nonviolent Communication" alongside applied insights from improvisation theatre.

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In this episode I talk about how to apply a compassionate mindset within hierarchical institutions.

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  1. Respect and fear of authority|||
  2. Losing connection with our humaneness in positions of authority|||
  3. Power as a human need|||
  4. Not giving our power away to authorities |||
  5. It's time for change |||

If you like the show, you can support me via https://www.patreon.com/needy

|||Links mentioned in this episode:||| ||| Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life by Marshall B. Rosenberg:*https://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Life-Changing-Relationships-ebook/dp/B014OISVU4||| |||http://www.reinventingorganizations.com/uploads/2/1/9/8/21988088/140305_laloux_reinventing_organizations.pdf|||


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In this episode I compare the two most common communication models in business trainings.

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  1. The Four-sides model|||
  2. Common roots, different key questions|||
  3. NVC & Communication Square |||
  4. Synthesis of NVC & communication square |||

If you like the show, you can support me via https://www.patreon.com/needy

|||Links mentioned in this episode:||| ||| Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life by Marshall B. Rosenberg:https://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Life-Changing-Relationships-ebook/dp/B014OISVU4||| ||| Miteinander Reden: Störungen und Klärungen by Friedemann Schulz von Thunhttps://open.spotify.com/album/145bZIo25aP5dXsNj5V9Zx?si=5tTcB5KxSD-T0Qm5WluWeg|||


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In this episode I introduce an exercise I like to do when I am angry with someone.

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  1. Who is responsible?|||
  2. Why self-empathy?|||
  3. Practice Instructions |||

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|||Links mentioned in this episode:||| ||| https://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Life-Changing-Relationships-ebook/dp/B014OISVU4||| ||| https://www.amazon.com/Die-neue-Gewaltfreie-Kommunikation/dp/3869804688||| ||| YOGIC FLYING COMPETITION *https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jlw8CxTkyxA|||


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In this episode I will talk about how to connect two conflicting ideas in an improv scene and how we can apply this in everyday communication.

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  1. YES AND in improvisational theatre|||
  2. Communication is improvisation|||
  3. YES AND in everyday communication |||

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|||Links mentioned in this episode:||| ||| https://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Life-Changing-Relationships-ebook/dp/B014OISVU4||| |||https://www.improvisionaere.com/ |||*https://www.amazon.de/Inside-Improvisation-Science-Behind-Theatrical/dp/064836982X


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In the current episode I talk about how to connect with people you strongly disagree with. ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||| Topics discussed:|||

  1. Empathy as a part of our biological constitution|||
  2. Empathy as a strategy for human connection|||
  3. How to change perspective |||

If you like the show, you can support me via https://www.patreon.com/needy

|||Links mentioned in this episode:||| ||| https://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Life-Changing-Relationships-ebook/dp/B014OISVU4||| |||https://www.amazon.com/Against-Empathy-Case-Rational-Compassion/dp/0062339338 |||*https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rWdQ7mKsQIc


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This week I will talk about uncensored improvisation and what this has to do with NVC. ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||| Topics discussed:|||

  1. What is improv?|||
  2. Communication is improvisation! |||
  3. NVC shouldn't be another censor?

If you like the show, you can support me via https://www.patreon.com/needy

|||Links mentioned in this episode:||| ||| https://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Life-Changing-Relationships-ebook/dp/B014OISVU4||| ||| https://www.medimops.de/keith-johnstone-improvisation-und-theater-taschenbuch-M03923854676.html?variant=UsedVeryGood&creative=Shopping&sitelink=&gclid=Cj0KCQjw-_j1BRDkARIsAJcfmTFLe-807SjHABTKqzBCuXaz2a11tgkdqCSHBl1YVV1SCXW7VLVxr3kaAndGEALw_wcB


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This week I will talk about the difference between a request and demand. ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||| Topics discussed:|||

  1. How to formulate a request?|||
  2. How to hear a request? |||
  3. How to say NO?

|||Links mentioned in this episode:||| ||| https://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Life-Changing-Relationships-ebook/dp/B014OISVU4||| ||| https://youtu.be/GZnXBnz2kwk|||

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This week I will talk about how to get what you want without forcing people. ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||| Topics discussed:|||

  1. Language of Needs vs. Language of Punishment & Reward|||
  2. From Feelings to Needs |||
  3. What the difference between needs and strategies?

|||Links mentioned in this episode:||| ||| https://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Life-Changing-Relationships-ebook/dp/B014OISVU4||| ||| https://youtu.be/GZnXBnz2kwk|||

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This week, I will talk about how being aware of your feelings can help you solving conflicts. ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||| Topics discussed:|||

  1. Why are feelings often denied?|||
  2. How can we sense feelings? |||
  3. What is the difference between feelings and thoughts?

|||Links mentioned in this episode:||| |||* https://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Life-Changing-Relationships-ebook/dp/B014OISVU4|||

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This week, I will talk about the difference between observation and evaluation. ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||

Topics discussed:|||

  1. Fight or Flight?|||
  2. The Famous Four Steps in NVC|||
  3. Step 1/4: Observation

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|||Links mentioned in this episode:||| |||* https://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Life-Changing-Relationships-ebook/dp/B014OISVU4|||

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This week I give a deeper introduction to the concept of Nonviolent Communication.

Topics discussed:

  1. Background of NVC
  2. Assumptions of NVC
  3. The aspect of self-responsibility

Links mentioned in this episode:

  • https://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Marshall-Rosenberg/dp/1892005034

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This week, I will ask the question: How do we become better communicators without turning into parrots?

Topics discussed:

  1. Mindset vs. Communication Toolkits
  2. Carl Rogers - Humanistic School of Psychotherapy
  3. Rosenberg model
  4. Definition of Empathy

Links mentioned in this episode:

  • Carl Rogers's 1974 lecture on empathy. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iMi7uY83z-U
  • https://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Marshall-Rosenberg/dp/1892005034

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This week, Jacob Methner gives an introduction to his new podcast.

Topics discussed:

  1. My Motivation
  2. Rosenberg model
  3. Applied improv
  4. Your motivation

Links mentioned in this episode:

  • https://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Life-Changing-Relationships-ebook/dp/B014OISVU4
  • https://www.improvisionaere.com/

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