You'll Do Anything for Him/Her: Recent Episodes
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I realized at the age of 38 that I needed help to understand what was happening in my relationships. I wanted to know what was “wrong” with me that I kept looking to the outside for someone new while I was in a relationship. Almost immediately I was shocked to learn that I had not been “growing” emotionally. I had been stuck doing the same thing over and over again. That realization felt so right to me.
As I grew, and my self awareness took hold, I was again shocked to realize that I was looking outside my relationship to find someone new in order to get “something” that I was missing inside of me. I didn’t know that I’d been looking for… a person, who would “make me” feel good about myself. My self-esteem and self-confidence were shot. That was when I also decided to change my career path and go back to school to obtain a Master’s Degree in Psychology and then a PhD in Psychology.
Dr. Hosier will conclude her 24 week show going back over the vital concepts for making a relationship work.
Dr Hosier will speak with Joann Kailikea, one of the voices for I Haleakala and the Hawaiian Spiritual tradition of Hooponopono, which offers an way to interrupt one's own negative feelings and reactions.
Dr Hosier will look an interaction between a couple in depth who are wanting to get married and are still not able to manage their own emotional reactions.
Dr. Hosier will speak about the relationship between emotional loneliness and the possibility that you might be not recognizing emotional abuse from your partner.
Let's talk getting stuck in our heads with spinning thoughts, beating up ourselves, blaming ourselves, our partner, entertaining angry or retaliative thoughts, and fantasizing about how to solve the slight, the hurt, the criticism, the put down.
Dr. Maureen explores more subtleties of the IN IT moment and then explains the emotional devastation of the disconnection and alienation between the emotionally disconnected partners.
I would love to hear your relationship difficulty so I can give you ideas for your next step forward.
Dr Maureen is still looking at the importance of realizing your own participation in
ruining your relationships moments when one or both of you are emotionally
reacting to not getting way.
This show is about how to make a relationship work, with a reminder about how to stop your emotional reactions, expectations, and demands.
Dr. Maureen will speak about how to interrupt your own emotional reactions which we know by now will ruin moments and eventually ruin a relationship.
Dr. Maureen will explain how this moment, the IN IT moment, can change between the two of you and you can begin to build a two person-relationship.
Dr. Maureen will breakdown the IN IT moment so you and your partner can co-commit to using a power word that will stop your emotional interactions before you both get going IN IT and have ruined everything between you.
This week we have a guest, Kate, who, like Joann from last week, has had an important relationship experience that she wanted to look at what was going on inside herself because she was confused and had been blaming herself for the issue.
Dr Maureen will review several of the concepts in her New Relationship Perspective and will refer back to the previous two episodes with Joanne and Kate and introduce a couple where it's clear the relationship is not working.
Bring your questions and experiences regarding the IN IT moment to 866 - 451 -1451 to help you to begin to not get stuck in emotionally reacting yourself.
Dr. Hosier will focus her comments on Ken Keys, Jr's book, A Conscious Person's Guide to Relationships, to help you understand that it's impossible to try to make your partner change with your demands and expectations.
Dr Hosier will be explaining how and why people get stuck and stay stuck in a relationship that isn't working.
Dr Hosier will be looking into the very difficult and devastating "IN IT" moment that will destroy your relationships.
Tune into "You'll Do Anything for Him_Her Show 2" with host "Maureen Hoiser" on Bold Brave Media. Visit "http://boldbravemedia.com/?s=you%27ll" for more information.
Dr. Maureen Hosier will explain why a relationship where You'll Do Anything for Him, You'll Do Anything for Her does not work in the long run.