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Amanda Moxley
JFDI Live with Amanda Moxley Founder of the “Moxley Method”, Creator of Speak Your Way to Success in 90 days, Hostess of RISE UP LIVE 3 Day Event & Author of End Yo’ Money Drama!
👉Power + Worth
Last week, I sent out a contract for $50,000.
I was so excited to be hired on as business and marketing consultant.
😉But then the red flags started popping up.
No amount of money is EVER worth not trusting your gut and being honest with yourself about the red flags you see.
The next day, I had another test.. I was asked to mentor someone and after they paid… something in my GUT was screaming don’t do it.
So I refunded the money within 90 seconds of receiving it.
🔥I am not for sale.
🔥My energy is not for sale.
I went on to communicate my boundaries and have clearing conversations.
Cancelled the contracts.
That is POWER.
💯Owning your worth, trusting your gut and standing in your power is the BEST feeling EVER.
And that my friends is worth all the money in the world!
Where can you stand in your power today?
📢All or None.
I’m mentoring someone and I noticed she was ALL or NONE.
At the start she was ALL IN.
In the middle she was in a NONE zone.
And now at the end... she is all IN.
💕One of my other clients calls this the “messy middle”.
The road to Success has swallowed many victims in this dead sea of all or NONE.
👇What I’ve learned from years of setting goals is that the key to success is…
–Consistency
–Moderation
–Commitment to a lifestyle change
–Celebrating the small wins as well as the big wins daily
🎤The thing is the YOU that has the goal you want has a different set of thoughts, feelings, beliefs and actions than the you that is living today.
👉The work is getting into alignment with the next level you by acting, thinking, feeling and believing from the future you.
Just keep going and becoming next level you.
Don’t give up or be all IN or all OUT.
The only way through is to do the work day in and day out.
You can only fail if you quit.
You got this!!
Love, Amanda Moxley
Same Energy = Same Results😎
If you want new results in business, money, life and relationships you need NEW energy.
I know it sounds so obvious but we all get trapped in recycling the same emotions, thoughts and beliefs.
No wonder life stays the same.
👉Or you may GO UP but then you come BACK DOWN to where you started.
The comfort zone.
The same weight same amount of money month after month, year after year same intimacy life same friendships same team challenges same family dynamics
Then you get frustrated with your same results on REPEAT.
🧘♂️The key is to FEEL it to Heal it.
You can’t just throw an affirmation over a dirty skinned up sore bleeding cut on your knee.
No, you gotta clean out the dirt before you can make it feel better.
Now with “shelter in place” orders, WE are all given the GIFT TO go WITHIN.
Are you allowing yourself to go there?
👊I’ve always said if you want to get RICH go within. If you want to GET THIN go within.
Take a look at all of the ways you:
--Avoid --Create Drama --Are in Denial about what is really going on with money, intimacy, self and others --Distract --Distance --Numb out --Over stimulate
These all leave clues to what it is you’re running from and covering up.
I challenge US to GO THERE.
😞Feel the horrible feelings. Think the nasty angry resentful thoughts! Feel the depth of sadness in your heart and soul.
We’ve all been sent to our ROOMS to THINK and FEEL about what we have done to ourselves, to each other, to God, to the world.
❤️You are not alone. You are loved. You are wanted. You are cherished.
Feel it, to Heal IT.
Ask for help!!
Ask for prayer.🙏
Ask for healing.
I promise the more you FACE IT & stop FEARING IT, YOU WILL HEAL IT.
We all do our part, we all heal quicker, faster and get back to creating heaven on earth!
I love YOU!
❤️Amanda Moxley
P.S. Watch this space! I've got something super exciting coming your way this week!
I just got back from volunteering with 20 little 3 year old's at the Well Bible Camp!!
And what I learned is that BOUNDARIES keep us safe and contained.
The program was run so smoothely in my opinion because of the use of colored tape boundaries in squares and circles that kept the kids contained.
It got me thinking about my personal and professional life and how much I value knowing where other people stand and where I stand because of our boundaries!!
Boundaries... get SOME!!
Give me an AMEN if you're with me!
I have the hardest time when I don't know peoples boundaries!!
The End.
Love,
Amanda Moxley
Founder of the “Moxley Method”, Creator of Speak Your Way to Success in 90 days & Hostess of RISE UP LIVE October 24-26, 2019 in Salt Lake City, Utah. :)
P.S. Have you subscribed to Amanda Moxley TV on YouTube? Search my name there!
Hanging OFF off the EDGE of a 30 Foot Roof
I’ve always been a dare devil..
There’s something about living on the edge that just makes me feel ALIVE
The blood pulsing through my veins, pumping through my heart, the sweat, the adrenaline all of it I just love…
In 3rd grade, I decided to scale our roof deck with an attempt to monkey bar myself from the roof to the adjacent tree…
I could see it in my eye… I had mapped out how I would make my moves, but it didn’t work out as planned..
Instead I hung from the roof ledge with my little hands grasping with all the strength I had…..
Hoping someone could save me, pull me up to safety but instead my cousin 2 years younger just looked at me with fear in her eyes…frozen…….
I looked down…
I looked for the tree but it was too far from my grasp….
I had no other choice but to LET GO and LAND on my feet some 30 feet below (I was 8 so I don’t know now if it was actually 30 feet but it was a FREE fall!!)
I landed solidly like a cat on my two feet, squatted with my strong skier legs to absorb the fall and proudly (yet still shaking) sauntered to the front door, rang the door bell & told my mom what happened…
She was not impressed with my dangerous stunt….
And that’s how I have run my biz all of these years….
I could see it in my eyes….. knew what I wanted…..
Stepped off the ledge, burned my exit strategy (I never renewed my clinical degree certificate)
Fully committed to my dreams… even if I did not know the HOW…
There have been seasons where I have held on so tight to the edge of so called safety in fear and belief that someone could save me,,,, a program, a coach, a mentor, a product, group, friend, parent, a new software…..
but the end of the day even though I have had a ton of support from Johnn, biz besties, clients, colleagues and other biz betty’s ahead of me showing me it is POSSIBLE…
I had to learn to TRUST GOD first
trust my vision
and learn to TRUST myself..
even if didn’t make sense..
even when I didn’t know the HOW, the what or the who…
I had to LET GO of the LEDGE…..
And free fall in FAITH
It’s really been the hardest thing I’ve ever done because a lot of my career I pushed myself further than I think God really wanted me to go at that time… but I had this adventurous spirit that just loves living on the edge….
I have made many mistakes….
Have had many wins…
And many failures….
Through it all reps and wisdom have made me who I am today and I know, feel and believe that the BEST is yet to come!!
Go to the edge, let go and you might just learn to FLY one of these years!!
I love you!
Love,
Amanda Moxley
Founder of the “Moxley Method”, Creator of Speak Your Way to Success in 90 days & Hostess of RISE UP LIVE October 24-26, 2019 in Salt Lake City, Utah. :)
P.S. Have you subscribed to Amanda Moxley TV on YouTube? Search my name there!
TAKE A STAND for YOUR PEOPLE!!!
Teenage pregnancy, suicide, college debt & Leadership
The cost of you messing up your talks and not asking for the sale is bigger than you think
I have an incredible client with a heart of gold for teenagers….
and Leadership
Last week she led a group of teens through her signature process…. at first they resisted and were uncomfortable but by the second day they were transformed, glowing from the inside out from the work she led them through…
She felt pumped about her results….
I asked her how the sales enrollment to her 1:1 leadership coaching for teens went and she said…..
“Not Well”….
I asked WHY?
She said, she let them know that she offers 1:1 but no one took her up on it because she didn’t want to push it ……
To me this is a tragedy…
I sat with her, got real and dug deep to support her in understanding the consequences of her letting her FEARS of being to salse-y get in her way of serving…
I know if I would have had someone like her in my life as a teenager how much faster I would have become successful..
In fact, I remember when I was in 7th grade a mom that taught a leadership class saw something in me and wanted me to attend a camp…
I remember feeling seen for the first time in my LIFE from an adult (because I had been the BAD kid my whole life) and finally someone saw something in me
But
My mom said no to me attending the workshop. I regret that.
SO yesterday, I took a stand for my clients clients …
Because this world is F’d for our teens
Those kids will walk out of her room and in 2 days the hope will wear off and they will be back
- Sedating
- Looking for outside validation
- Giving their power away
- Scrolling
- Comparing
- Teen suicide on the rise
- Isolation
- Cyber bullying
- Sex trafficking
- Being drugged at a party and raped
- Drugs
- Addiction
- Anxiety
- Depression
- Financial Failure
- Divorce
- Slaves to school debt
- Jobs being replaced by technology
And the LIST goes on and on and on.....
I think my client got the painful consequences & what is at stake if she let’s her fears get in the way of her clients successes.
TAKE A STAND for YOUR PEOPLE!!!
Take a stand for yourself!!
Give a Hoot about people in a fallen world.
It’s not all rainbows and butterfly’s and sparkly memes out there friends.
The work we do as coaches, speakers and leaders is LIFE changing…
OWN IT!
Fight for it!
Can I get an AMEN!?
Love,
Amanda Moxley
Founder of the “Moxley Method”, Creator of Speak Your Way to Success in 90 days & Hostess of RISE UP LIVE October 24-26, 2019 in Salt Lake City, Utah. :)
P.S. Have you subscribed to Amanda Moxley TV on YouTube? Search my name there!
KICK ME IN THE GUT!
It’s 11:36pm, I’ve been up since 4:13 am
And I have not written my daily post that I am committed to writing….
But I won’t let myself down…. when I commit, I go all in. My self discipline is fierce
So here I am at this marketing event
and I feel like a monkey jumping on the bed…
I feel like a puppet on stage
Because for so long, I have been too afraid to be fully intimate to my core in my sharing
I get amped up My passion burns bright
But though that fire burns like a wild fire out of control,
I forget there is a very sweet, kind, sensitive, deeply loving, nurturing, feminine and caring little girl inside of me who does not feel safe to really be her vulnerable self
So I put on the show
Play the class clown
Make everyone laugh
Because I am afraid to really feel in the depths
(And I do like to laugh)
But I find that the more I actually get real, feel and bring my energy down and speak from my gut, YOU hear me more.
We connect deeper
The intimacy is there
And in so doing you heal by my words & connections
I heal by sharing
I see this in me and every other speaker out there that when we neglect to bring it to the gut … and don’t kick each other in the gut with our language then it just goes over our heads
In an over sedated world
Humans addicted to our phones, scrolling , scrolling, scrolling and searching we all long for
Intimacy
Connection
Healing
Transformation
And that is the lesson I learned today
Who knows what tomorrow will bring
Love,
Amanda Moxley
Founder of the “Moxley Method”, Creator of Speak Your Way to Success in 90 days & Hostess of RISE UP LIVE!
P.S. Have you subscribed to Amanda Moxley TV on YouTube? Search my name there!
Our beloved Golden Retriever is Dying
She has been sick, refusing food for a few days. We took her to the doc Monday. They said her vitals are fine. Speculating she may have eaten some fertilizer.
She’s weak She’s not her self Not eating
Tale wagging Panting
So much love. Enduring. Unconditional deep deep deep love Her brown eyes pierce deep into my heart and soul
This dog has been our dog mommy, always running to stand between us when we yell Rushing to lick us when we cry or weep or when we are sad
Exuberantly energized ecstatic and over the MOON THRILLED every time we come home from a day out of the house to see us
Her athleticism is a marvel
She can chase a ball and retrieve a ball like an Olympian Gold Medalist
She has stolen all of our heart’s
John called me yesterday crying, feeling this was the end
She had a seizure in the middle of the night
He raced her to the Vet at 3 am
The doctor returned with the lab reports, stating she had 86000 white blood count She has leukemia and will not make it another day
My heart has broken in two
Yet I am here at this event for my business, my life, my calling my purpose, my family & there is nothing i can do
When I left the house yesterday morning, I kissed her good bye
Shut the door behind me, then the door opened back up which never happens………
I ran back in and said my final good bye to my beloved Cabby
We had her for a few short 4 years
She was given to me while on a walk one day….
She has been the greatest gift to our family
Tears running down my face
I am so far away from home
And my family has to face this without me
I love you Cabby
Love,
Amanda Moxley
I Was the Kid Always Getting in Trouble 😎
In first grade, I had red cowgirl boots paired with my green Catholic school uniform. 👊I kicked those little legs over and over into the chair in front me until the day my desk got moved to the front over the classroom, behind the teacher, under the chalk board.
Shame
Embarrassment
Cast out
Not conforming to the rules
I did get attention, not love but attention.
I learned to feel BAD, shame and like I was doing something wrong ALL of the time.
I heard the whispers of the parents, teachers and made up stories that I was bad & not in a good way.
A low level of guilt has hung over me my whole life.
💖I’ve always been the first to apologize, to rush to take the blame and assume responsibility for other’s feelings and my own.
It’s like I just had this agreement with myself that I was just BAD.😎
LOL!!
I kept that bad ass attitude with me through high school and it finally broke off in my years of cleansing, facing myself in yoga and on my path to learn and know who I AM in God.
My mom a therapist taught me “Amanda you are not responsible for anyones feelings even if YOU FEEL them, they are not yours.”♥️
As I have grown as a business woman, coach, leader and CEO of my biz and family, I have learned to not rush to take on the responsibility.
I have released SHAME, guilt and making myself wrong for everything.
👠I have learned boundaries. 🚴♀️I have learned to be cool with other people’s moods 🌴I have learned that just because someone else is suffering (like when I taught Bikram yoga and the students were struggling) that their struggle is their journey and the price for the reward they are going for.
😢I have released the need to make myself wrong, feel bad, ashamed or guilty!
FREEDOM BABY!
So go ahead and feel your feelings, I’ll be over here living my best life in my own zone.🌴
Projections are not mine!
And ya, I am bad ass because of this! LOL😀 Drop me a comment if you're with me!!
Love,
Amanda Moxley
Founder of the “Moxley Method”, Creator of Speak Your Way to Success in 90 days & Hostess of RISE UP LIVE!
P.S. Have you subscribed to Amanda Moxley TV on YouTube?
MY WHY IS TO MAKE GOD FAMOUS!
I’ve been an avid spiritual seeker my entire life. Catholicism did not work for me even though I tried!!
Yoga led me to an ashram in India at 26 where I rolled in and confidently declared “my goal is to be enlightened this lifetime”.
Yoga taught me to cleanse my body, become a 100% vegan raw foodist for 7 months.
Law of Attraction teachings were my crack
Think and Grow Rich was my bible…
and then shit hit the fan in my personal life in 2017 and I needed a real God.
The one TRUE God. The Great GOD of the Universe. I needed Abraham’s God.
No affirmation No asana Meditation Cleanse Mantra New Moon ritual Intention setting Crystal Self Help book could salve my soul.
I needed GOD.
And I needed him NOW.
Yet, my whole life I never felt good enough for God.
I believed I was unlovable, unworthy, cast out, abandoned and ALONE.
But then I walked into the WELL church after meeting a cool Dad on a hike with Sawyer who told me he hung out with his Pastor and talked about Jesus.
I wanted that kind of Church. I wanted to KNOW that Jesus
I arrived at the church alone at the time because Johnn didn’t want to go.
I wept in the back of the room Tears watering my growth My heart slowly cracking open The Holy Spirit whispering to me and wrapping me in love
The healing balm of what I had always been seeking, I had finally found.
I dove in head first as I do with my unbending passion, exuberance and zeal — studying the bible, showing up at the table groups being my vulnerable, real, raw, open self.
I was never judged, I was free to be me and challenge the Pastors and leaders — what about Mary Magdeline? Did Jesus live in India from 13-33? Was Jesus’ really a yogi who learned how to do pranayama breathing and that is how he survived the cross? What about reincarnation?
They would patiently point me back to ’”The WORD”
I remember the first time I realized there actually is a HELL.
The Yoga studies & Hindu teachings led me to believe in reincarnation which relaxed my urgency of this life.
But through revelation, reading, watching movies like the Case for Christ and the Pefect Wave, Fireproof, The War Room, being in community, listening to KLOVE & Christina Radio lyrics the pieces of the puzzle I have been searching for have come together.
Suddenly life got shorter, time slowed down and I realized this is it.
I have one LIFE. God really loves me. God’s NOT Dead! He’s surely ALIVE! He’s roaring like a LION!!
My WHY for this LIFE is to make God Famous.
He was pursuing me for 40+ years, I was lost but NOW I AM FOUND!!
The peace, the love, the security and the unwavering LOVE are overwhelming.
If you’re seeking to, know that God is seeking YOU.
He is FOR you!!
Love,
Amanda Moxley
Founder of the “Moxley Method”, Creator of Speak Your Way to Success in 90 days & Hostess of RISE UP LIVE!
P.S. Have you subscribed to Amanda Moxley TV on YouTube? Search my name there!
Resistance is Futile
👍I didn’t feel like hiking 2+ hours uphill to the waterfall yesterday, but I did.
👠I didn’t feel like submitting to wearing ALL black for next week’s event, but I am submitting! (Packing all 6 of my black clothes!)
👊I didn’t feel like writing today but I did
😃I didn’t feel like learning how to run my own FB ads but I did
💋I didn’t feel like learning how to sell ( I just want to chat with people!) but I did
🤩I don’t feel like waking up at 5:30 am BUT I do it anyway
🚴♀️I don’t feel like doing a lot of stuff but I can’t trust my emotions.
🌲They are like the wind… never tamed, never satisfied, always irrational, demanding and relentless.
🖐I put standards, rules, accountability and actionable goals into my daily routines and then through time they become habits.
What you habitualize your ritualize.
Resistance is Futile.
I learned that the quicker I surrender, get out of my own way and do the work the better results. 🙏
Surrendering to myself and authority increases my respect, belief and trust in myself every time even if I don’t want to!😊
JFDI
Happy Saturday!
Love,
Amanda Moxley
Founder of the “Moxley Method”, Creator of Speak Your Way to Success in 90 days, RISE UP LIVE & Author of End Yo’ Money Drama!👊
P.S. Have you subscribed to Amanda Moxley TV on YouTube?
I BELIEVED A LIE MY WHOLE LIFE!
As far back as I remember, I was called chubby & fat. Called names like “hungry hungry Hippo!” Told “it looks like you have not missed any deserts.” That was said to me even last week! WTF!!
And it is an absolute lie.
I am not fat, never been fat, never going to be fat.
In fact, I recently started Orange Theory Fitness & part of their on boarding protocol is to administer a body fat assessment test.
And my body fat is completely healthy normal & in the most ideal range for women.
In fact it’s about 1/2 percent less than when I was in High School.
And I remember the absolute shame, embarrassment over my body at 16 when I saw that number after our Body Analysis test in gym class.
I remember my friend Tom lovingly teasing me about it but he didn’t know how big of an obsession my body image was for me. (Guys please learn to always affirm the beauty of women!)
Tom died 2 years ago this week. :(
And here I AM ALIVE in a healthy, strong, beautiful, feminine body!! I am blessed!
The words spoken over you become cemented in your belief system and determine your destiny.
I have been OVER my food/body issues for 15+ years but my point is…..
That belief system set up of giving others AUTHORITY over saying WHO I AM has been a pattern first with my body, then my business, money, my marriage and my parenting style
I let others DEFINE ME SPEAK their projections over me Smoother their fears over me Shame Me Insult me Push me Violate me Steal from me Cheat on me Ridicule me Guilt me Mock me
I am no Victim.
I take my power back. I know enough I declare who I AM I have authority over my life I rule my destiny
I know who I AM I know what I stand for I am enough no matter how much money I make, what I weigh or how I look!
RISE UP CHAMPION!
Love,
Amanda Moxley
Founder of the “Moxley Method”, Creator of Speak Your Way to Success in 90 days, RISE UP LIVE & Author of End Yo’ Money Drama!
P.S. Have you subscribed to Amanda Moxley TV on YouTube? Search my name there!
I QUIT!!
13 years ago, today, I quit my job as a Therapist. I had been working in my mom’s therapy clinic, with the “plan” to one day take it over. She was out of town, was in a meeting with my supervisor (aka her business partner).
He said, “maybe you’re not meant to do this work?” To which I exclaimed “WHAT? You mean I can QUIT & not do this?” He said “YES!! You can quit!” And so, I did. It was 6-6-6.
That one decision created a ripple effect of upset for my family, but I was steadfast in my decision. I knew I was a natural born entrepreneur with a courageous spirit & I would be successful despite the odds.
My mom loving shared “I realized I was more attached to you doing this than you were. I am happy for you and I know you will do well no matter what.” She’s the best.
Had I have known the grit, focus, investment of time, money & energy it would require of me, I believe I would have still taken the challenge.
Shortly after I quit my job, I was giving a ‘free talk” at the community center at our local ski resort (Alta). I think 3 women were in attendance, 2 of which became my clients.
The cool thing was that I had already mapped out my exact schedule for when I would see my clients before I had any paying clients so when they enrolled, they requested the EXACT times I had already marked out in my calendar.
Next thing you know, Johnn and I were jumping out of a perfectly working airplane (aka Sky Diving) and with my arms spread out wide free falling from the sky, I was affirming and yelling out loud “I am ONE with the Universe”!
And that is how I started. jumping out of an airplane and affirming my new-found belief that YES, I can create everything and anything I want.
I’ve never looked BACK, all of these 13 years despite the….
FEAR STORMS
STRESS OVER WILL I MAKE IT
MOMENTS OF DOUBT & INSECURITY
ROLLERCOASTER OF FEAST OR FAMINE (Wrote the book!)
IT NOT WORKING then it WORKING!
MY ASSISTANT QUITTING 3 DAYS BEFORE MY 1st EVENT
BEING COPIED WORD FOR WORD BY CLIENTS & COLLEAGUES
BEING Rejected
Standing on stage crying
Making financial decisions that result in debt (0% interest)
Making incredible investments in myself & learning to profit 30% or higher every year
Not knowing HOW TO do anything & investing over 350k to learn everything I now know
Tech changes & Fierce competition
Sucking at tech!
The occasional haters, charge backs &refund requests
Being called a drug dealer when I told high school friends that I am an entrepreneur
Not being approved of, supported by or respected by key people in my inner circle
Being able to spend the summers in Hawaii (when we want to)
Moving into our dream house 5 years ago
ALL OF IT has been a blessing!!
And made me a better, stronger more powerful woman, coach mother and wife.
Cheers to the next 13 years!!
Love,
Amanda Moxley
Founder of the “Moxley Method”, Creator of Speak Your Way to Success in 90 days, RISE UP LIVE & Author of End Yo’ Money Drama!
P.S. Have you subscribed to Amanda Moxley TV on YouTube? Search my name there!
DO THE WORK EVERYDAY EVEN IF YOU SUCK My first YouTube video back in 2009 sucked! I remember writing a script out & memorizing it word for word then drawing some not so perfect eyebrows on & hitting record. I just checked & it’s had 4,946 views on it! My first talk sucked! I read my q cards word for word with my head down the entire time, BUT I must have been so cute & passionate that even when I sucked I still enrolled a client that night. My first 3-day event was the scariest most uncomfortable thing I have ever done & still I enrolled 150K. Even while throwing up in my suite. Shaking in fear. Sobbing myself to sleep at night. Crying on stage & my eyelashes falling out. I even suck now! (And I LOVE it!) Yesterday, I wrote a post about how being good enough is not good enough. And I misspelled the word ENOUGH!! WTF Amanda!! I had a client once tell me that my super power is my vulnerability. My passion for my clients, business & bettering myself in every way & sharing it with the world at large is the fuel that lights the fire within me every day to DO the work. Yes, I am real & relatable, but I have logged years of reps & over $348,000 learning what I know, teach and live. Countless disciplined focused hours learning how to be a better speaker, communicator, coach, writer, marketer, author, leader and entrepreneur. There is a method to my madness. I am obsessed, and I am ok with sucking because I think that JFDI’ing is a SUCCESS more than my sucking! My passion for my message, impact & work supersedes any need to be perfect & I won’t let anything STOP me from doing the work daily. It’s been 14 years of consistent daily JFDI action taking despite the fear, naysayers & doubters. I use all of that as lighter fluid to burn BRIGHTER! I won’t stop! And neither should you. Because if you DO stop, you’re saying a big F you to …. Your children, your family, your soul, your tribe, and God himself! Wake up. This isn’t FOR YOU. It’s for THEM! Will you rise champion?
GOOD ISN’T GOOD ENOGH!
I went to a private Catholic school 13 years, wore a uniform & conformed to the rules & religiosity.
My parents expected I maintain a 3.0 B average or there would be consequences (& believe me there were!)
That kind of thinking of aiming for average doesn’t cut it when you have BIG goals.
When I applied to colleges out of state, I had a horrific SAT score which meant I didn’t get into the “big name” schools my BFF’s attended.
Despite SAT tutors, college counselor’s & finally applying myself senior year I graduated the final quarter with a 3.8.
But that was not enough to get me into the colleges of my choice.
My mediocrity, low balling to average taught me a valuable lesson as an entrepreneur.
It is my DUTY to show up as my best (perfect practice & service are my mottos) & to EXPECT excellence from my thoughts, actions, habits, feelings, friends & team.
With automation taking over more & more jobs, & hundreds of thousands of coaches entering the online world every increasing year since I started in 2005; It’s not enough to just be GOOD.
Tell the world who you are by how you show up, serve & get back UP from a setback.
How you do one thing is how you do everything so if your fitness is lacking, you’re in a marriage that feels like roommates with rings & your leadership sucks all that will seep into how you show up, speak, sell and serve.
It’s time to STEP it up & move from GOOD enough to Outstanding in EVERY aread of your life.
I just won’t quit. I only get stronger every year. I am ruthless in the pursuit of my God infused VISION.
Are you?
Love,
Amanda Moxley
JFDI
Love,
Amanda Moxley
Founder of the “Moxley Method”, Creator of Speak Your Way to Success in 90 days, RISE UP LIVE & Author of End Yo’ Money Drama!
From TomBoy to Lash Extensions
To me growing up it wasn’t safe to shine my feminine beauty & womanhood. I didn’t want to be SEEN in that way. It scared me. I shut down my feminine, covered myself up with oversized T-shirts, wore my hair in my face, never learned to wear makeup, avoided dresses, heels & anything that hung tight on my curves.
When I started my business back in the mid 2000’s, I hired a stylist who educated, empowered & influenced me to shine brightly, wear clothes that fit my body type & that were “on brand.”
I remember once showing up to meet her at a boutique after a Birkam yoga class wearing no makeup & post yoga gear, she ripped me a new A - hole. She said “Amanda you are a coach! You need to SHOW UP like you give a shit!”
I didn’t get it. I wanted people to like me for me & not for my looks! I resisted her. I was scared of stepping into my power. Felt it safer to hide behind my post yoga look than truly be SEEN.
It took me into my early 30’s to TURN THAT LIGHT ON & show up as the Super Nova God made me to be.
Last week I took it to a new level with microblading my blonde brows to eye lash extensions! (Which I LOVE!!)
In a million years, I never would have thought I would make these upgrades.
I feel beautiful with no make up, in my mountain bike clothes or on a hike.
These upgrades don’t define me or make me feel more valuable but they do help me SHOW UP to serve in a bigger way.
I’m not doing it for my own vanity, I’m doing it for my purpose, my family, my legacy, my mission, my impact.
Because people do make first impressions of you in 3 seconds. I want to look like I feel on the inside which is fired up, powerful & on purpose.
When we consistently don’t give a hoot about our image, we create an energetic leak in our ability to RECEIVE, LEAD & Serve.
If you’re ready to receive, lead & serve more GIVE me an AMEN in the comments! :)
It’s time!
If you’re hiding out because it wasn’t safe for you to step into your feminine glory as a young woman, do the inner work to make the shifts necessary to get out of your own way & show up as the channel to SERVE & Receive BIGGER than you ever have before!
JFDI
Love,
Amanda Moxley
Founder of the “Moxley Method”, Creator of Speak Your Way to Success in 90 days, RISE UP LIVE & Author of End Yo’ Money Drama!
You are enough! A story to inspire to rise up, shift your language and declare who you are!
The Coffee that Broke the Camels Back
Location: Whole Foods, Thursday 8:28 am (after dropping the kids off at school & needed a snack for the kids after school party)
Looking forward to sipping on a Bullet Proof Coffee (been up since 5am!)
The coffee bar attendant was not there.
When she arrived, her energy was doomsday extremely low vibration.
Frown on that face all the way down to her toes. Did not look like she wanted to be at work at all. (She’s worked there for months and I’ve experienced her field previously.)
But today was different….
I smiled said “good morning, ya YOU have a customer!”
That frown got worse, the daggers piercing me like an angry teenager.
But today was different…..
I looked at her. And in that moment kindly said “you know what I don’t want a coffee today!” And turned around and walked out.
I didn’t want THAT negativity mixing in my bulletproof coffee.
Nope, not gonna take it!
But you see this story and the coffee bar angel wasn’t about her, it was about me and tolerating stuff in my life that I don’t need to tolerate anymore.
This woman was a reflection of my life. I truly thank her for showing me this mirror and helping me take a stand for no longer tolerating the crap that’s holding you back.
I did feel really shaken up afterwards.
Standing up is HARD.
It feels foreign.
Uncomfortable.
AND EMPOWERING in the end!
I am grateful for that woman and am strategizing new spaces and places to enforce stronger boundaries and leadership in my business, home and life!!
Let me ask you, what are you TOLERATING? What are you putting up with in your business, personal life, health, body, finances, team, time, energy, food, marriage all of it?
Take a STAND for YOU! Give me a #RISEUP in the comments if you’re ready to RISE UP!
IT FEELS so good!
JFDI
Love,
Amanda Moxley
P.S.
Founder of the “Moxley Method”,
Creator of Speak Your Way to Success in 90 days, RISE UP LIVE & Author of End Yo’ Money Drama!