Luis Belville’s #Realtalk: Recent Episodes
Luis Belville’s #Realtalk
Welcome to the Luis Belville’s #Realtalk podcast, where thoughts are said out loud and realizations hit me I hope as hard as they hit you. Otherwise enjoy my nonsense!
NEW episodes on Tuesdays 👀
Having a real conversation with dear friend of 20+ years Zack Parson. Discussions on struggles, mindset. Endurance. Faith and works.
When you are exposed in social media you recognize the obstacles that come with it. What are these struggles? How does/did love fit in and prevail? What advice do you have? What’s the hardest part about being you. Tell me more about your identity and relationship.
Regardless of who you are, I can guarantee these three words apply to you: “You have problems. “ The question is — How do you deal with those problems?
Trust god to handle it homies. Life is just too short to waste it by worrying about events you can’t control. No matter where you go, be where you are. Detach yourself from the past and the future to fully enjoy the present.
“It’s okay to feel insecure. It’s also okay to talk about it. Feeling frustrated and you can’t quite put your finger on it? Or don’t want too? Oof. Me too. “
Talking about we are NOT our thoughts. There’s something so much more too us. Each of us individually and collectively. What has made you grow?
Having a great open conversation with some old friends Connor, and surprise visit by Ryan.
Ive been thinking about gratitude. I've been thinking about relationships. I've been thinking about how stressed i know i "can" feel. IVE BEEN THINKING...
Talking about experiences. Those a-ha moments. Getting educated and where I applied it.
It’s Mother’s Day and I wanted to share a conversation with my mom. Thank you mom for being the woman that you are. I’ve learned a lot. Thank you mom for standing firm in what you believe in. You give me hope and faith Thank you mom for everything. I wouldn’t be the man I am today if it weren’t for you and your indomitable spirit. I love you. Happy Mothers day!!
I had a whole episode written out and ready to go on the topic of “being authentic.” My day lead me to late night walk down memory lane with a childhood friend. Catching up. Having good times. Being real.
Yes, a lot of people aren’t interested in others or in being actively helpful, but kindness and connection are basic aspects of human behaviour. Some people are kinder and more selfless than others (for deeper and more complex reasons than i could simply put.) , but sooner or later any human being experiences the desire to do something good for somebody else.
You have a choice and a chance. Is there really anything else you could ask for in this life? Your life is made up of choices. &&You’re going to be uncomfortable. —
PLANS OF COURAGE “-It takes courage to be different to go places you’ve never been, courage to rise when life tries to push you down.-“
A FEW GOOD THINGS Are you at war or at peace with your life? (This Episode was a bit raw. But I didn’t want to decrease the value by re-recording several times for perfection)
NOBODY CAN STOP YOU ~This year has been a roller coaster so far. So many highs and lows so close together. and its only January still. Something is happening you guys. we all can feel it.~
THE REVELATION OF LETTING GO, A REVELATION OF LETTING GOD I rest in this, I wait in this, I endure in this.
THE LONELY You’ve felt the weight of the Lonely and it was was effortless to fall victim to because it felt effortless to fade. Feeling alone and pushing away that we are never on our own.. Oh man, how easy it is to slip into those feels today. .
LIFE IS TO BE A NOBODY Being a nobody gives us the humility to realize that it’s our struggles that define us, not our desires.
BE KIND TO YOURSELF train your mind to be more kind, tolerant, and self compassionate. It won’t be easy but it’ll be worth it. You are worth it.
MY HUMAN EXPERIENCE 1. Self aware 2. Keep a positive attitude. 3. Move Your Body. 4. Listen to Inspiring content 5. Express Gratitude. 6. Journal/Record 7. Life is Short.
THOUGHTFUL TUESDAY when you look at life as happening around you rather than at you. It changes things.
MONDAY MOMENTS When you create an enemy you create a distraction from the solution. For many Monday is the enemy to the week.
WHEN SH!T HITS THE FAN "What do i do?" Is the common question. The question I challenge you to ask is “who will I become” life is messy. Life is random but at the end of the day our decisions are what steer us closer or further from our destiny.
REMEMBER ME I am. And have been. And will always be enough. I am worthy. And I am free.
SCARED OF WHAT fear can grip you, fear can grab you, fear will stop you from getting to just the next stepping stone in life.
IM TRYING MY BEST When you try your best you not just unlock something inside of yourself. You break the imaginary barrier that is "expectation" in your day to day. Your progress will progress you to the next level of your daily duties.
PRESENT. No notes just ranting and coming up with the episode as i record the episode. Some dome talk.
HOW TO WALK Don’t stick your head in the sand and hope for the best. Fear will dominate you. Ignorance might bring bliss, but it’s an empty bliss. It also comes with fear and anxiety. The more you learn, the better you feel.
TOUGHNESS I am a big believer that if you have a very clear vision of where you want to go, then the rest of it is much easier. Because you always know “why”
OUTLET We all express ourselves differently. But we all need to know what works and doesn’t work. What’s your outlet?
STOP TALK LETS ROLL when I talk about habits, I don’t talk about outcomes. I talk about changing our actual behavior so that it improves the quality of our lives. Everyone one is different.
SIMPLY COMPLICATED Love shouldn’t be complicated. Work shouldn’t be complicated. Happiness and peace of mind and wellbeing shouldn’t be complicated. We make it all so much harder than it’s meant to be.-
WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR Rarely in life do we ever get the “okay go ahead.” Or “this is what your meant to do” so if you’re waiting for that. Stop. Only very few people walk the hall of life with that pass. -
DISCIPLINE Ask yourself am I practicing self discipline in my life? By doing the things I should do because I need to do them or am i kinda waiting to feel the moment.
HELLO STRUGGLE MY NAME IS_____ learning that the process of struggling and navigating hurt has as much to offer us as the process of being brave and showing up.
SILENCE Silence is not about the absence of sound but the presence of something else. Your mind is like a canvas — if it’s full of noise, you can’t paint anything new on it. When we are in silence, we make room for everything else.
WE DO IT FOR THE VIEW. Realize where you are in this process. Visualize what you need to do and what’s next. Execute what needs to be done so that when it’s all over and you’ve settled you. The mark you’ve left on this world, in the hearts and minds of those you knew outlive a single lifetime. Life is never what we imagined it to be, but when we are determined to push back it’s gets pretty close or even better. We donit for the view
SEEK AND YOU WILL FIND. “Love, joy, freedom, optimism, peace, THE POSITIVE are the Waldos of life! YES it’ll take some time to find. That’s the point. To build its value and meaning when you do find it! When you do it’ll be incredibly satisfying. Everything else on the page is simply a distraction to obtain your focus. Each day is a new page in this “Where’s Waldo book.” So enjoy and endure the challenges. Give yourself praise when you find it, and familiarize yourself with your Waldo so you can find him faster when you turn the page. 👀”
WHAT AM I CAPABLE OF. All you can do is have guts, believe in yourself, have the courage and become who you’re truly capable of becoming through relentless action.
DEPRESSION. Some people face it daily. Its an invisible weight to bear. Catagorized to understand. Stop saying YOU are depressed when you dont understand the reality of it. Listen to undertand to an extent and anyone you know who suffers depression do not highlight it, but just send love and prayers their way. We are all facing battles no one else knows about
STEP OUT. Get out of your routine spend time with friends, strangers, family. Just go do something completely different then you normally do. Realize how big the world is outside your own world.
LIFE THE GAME. Disscusion around the comparisons to role playing games and life. A world viewed differently. "Life is a game" perspective is just an ambition driver. I’m not saying we’re really in a video game. Lol I just want you to explore that perspective and see if it helps.
THE RESTART. Stating the intention of the podcast and the reality of its importance to myself. Give yourself a moment within the day to evaluate and restart.
ENCOURAGEMENT TO THE ENCOURAGERS. We all need encouragement. Accept the helping hands. Be true and honest to yourself and the moment. That’s how real difference real impact is made around you. Showing that you aren’t perfect. But you have the ability to go through and overcome.
PURSUIT. Bringing together almost everything discussed in previous episodes to remind you that at the Center you should have God. And you should be chasing something always. Make the change today if you want to see change tomorrow. Are you on Pursuit.
"EXCUSES" Whatever your excuse, know this — you’ll never get to where you truly want to be if you continue to make excuses. Start making solutions instead.
Always make your future bigger than your past" this episode dives into a shift of mindset when imagining your future. Don’t Look To Your Past While Creating Your Future. Every relationship is a personality. What Got You Here Won’t Get You There. Give yourself some real time to eatablish clarity and organize your way forward.
Wrap up your week with a discussion of time and ask yourself. “ if i was told I had a limited time to live how would I live life differently? And what’s stopping me from doing that now?”
Today’s Podcast projects and digs into the statement “Stop Saying no to things that matter.” Push fear aside. Push opinions aside. You only live once. Live by your standards and say yes!!
Shorter episode reflecting on what “Good Vibes Only” means. How by not accepting the negatives, setbacks and naysayers you can gain real perspective and live life free.
Todays episode came out of the blue and inspired from a conversation i had with someone. I had other plans for todays podcast however, im pretty excited to deliver to you guys The Undeniables. Pt. 1