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This week it's a Best Of Let’s Talk Through It. Enjoy some of the best letters of Season 4. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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This week it's a Best Of Let’s Talk Through It. Enjoy some of the best letters of Season 4. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? This one actually comes from Ebony K. Williams via her black marriage movement. Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend says he really loves and admires his girlfriend. But his issue is that she makes so much more money than he does and he’s not sure how to step up and be the man in the relationship. Our other friend really just wants advice. She has been married to a very nice man for 10 years. They don't have any children and he’s kind and caring. The problem is she is forced to be head of the household. Her philosophy is, If you're going to be the man, then you need to have a plan and lead according to that plan. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? Today's timeline comes to us from Dr. Umar via Jericho Builders via Latreulatay. This actually is a very interesting topic of conversation. And the angle in which Dr. Umar addressed this, it's kind of biblical, kind of worldly. It's very interesting. Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend says her and her husband got into it. He tells her everything that happens at work and with his friends and she tells him the same. However, a few weeks ago at game night, he jokingly called her friend a pimp. Her friend looked at her and just walked out of the room. When she tried to talk to her, she said she was pissed that she would tell all her business to her husband. Our other friend says her best friend is one of her favorite people in the world, and she loves her to life. But she is annoyed with her. She shares everything with her wife. She understands that you shouldn't keep secrets from your partner, but she literally shares everything. Her and her husband are currently separated and she recently had a one night stand with one of their mutual friends. She did not tell a soul except for her friend. There was a cookout for Memorial Day at her house with her estranged husband and friend's wife asked her, was it awkward for their friend and her husband to be in the same place? Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? Today's timeline comes to us from Dr. Umar via Jericho Builders via Latreulatay. This actually is a very interesting topic of conversation. And the angle in which Dr. Umar addressed this, it's kind of biblical, kind of worldly. It's very interesting. Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend says her and her husband got into it. He tells her everything that happens at work and with his friends and she tells him the same. However, a few weeks ago at game night, he jokingly called her friend a pimp. Her friend looked at her and just walked out of the room. When she tried to talk to her, she said she was pissed that she would tell all her business to her husband. Our other friend says her best friend is one of her favorite people in the world, and she loves her to life. But she is annoyed with her. She shares everything with her wife. She understands that you shouldn't keep secrets from your partner, but she literally shares everything. Her and her husband are currently separated and she recently had a one night stand with one of their mutual friends. She did not tell a soul except for her friend. There was a cookout for Memorial Day at her house with her estranged husband and friend's wife asked her, was it awkward for their friend and her husband to be in the same place? Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? Today's timeline comes to us from Dr. Umar via Jericho Builders via Latreulatay. This actually is a very interesting topic of conversation. And the angle in which Dr. Umar addressed this, it's kind of biblical, kind of worldly. It's very interesting. Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend says she has been in a situation with a guy who she knows plans to propose to her soon. At first, she was super excited. He's a mechanical engineer for an airline, so he makes really good money and travel perks are amazing but She’s wondering if he will be what she needs in the bedroom. . Our other friend says she picked the wrong guy. In grad school, she was seeing two guys pretty consistently. One was the love of her life since childhood. He was a virgin, so I kind of let it fizzle out. She was also seeing a young man that she went to grad school with. He was super dreamy, suave, had great sex, and checked all of the boxes so she married him. 10 years later, he is running a large company, but he also has a really bad cocaine habit. While he is a functioning addict, so you don't really know unless you know him, many things...including the sex, have just become awful. She wants to know is it wrong to try to go back with Ex even though she chose her husband over him? Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? Today's timeline is coming to us live and direct. Leah from Leah’s Lemonade is here mixing tea with lemonade. Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend says her mother recently moved in with her, her husband and 2 girls. Growing up her mom wasn’t very nice to her and her sister saying a lot of really nasty things. Recently her mom said some negative things to her husband and she is wondering why she is putting up with her mom and thinking about putting her out. Our other friend is a 40 year old who thought that her biological clock was ticking and she and her boyfriend decided to have IVF and we ended up having triplets. Fast forward three years, she is a single mother raising three beautiful girls. There are days that she loves her girls and there are days that she resents them. She feels like she never has time for herself and is either taking care of patients or taking care of my babies. She wants to take her ex to court and get shared custody but a bit embarrassed because she shouldn't have to force her daughters on their father. She wants to know what she should do? Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? Today's timeline is coming to us from Queen Latifah on The Drew Barrymore show via @queenlatifah on IG. Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend says her ex best friend gave her some advice that tore their friendship apart. But in hindsight, she realized it was the best advice anyone could ever have given her. Our other friend feels like her parents gave her terrible advice. Now, so many things they said make sense. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? Today's timeline is coming to us from Irene and James. Irene and Jimmy Rollins have a marriage ministry and it's called Two Equals One. Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend needs some real advice, not the fake advice, the real advice. She feels as if her boyfriend and her are going through the motions. He says he wants to marry her, but honestly doesn't know if she wants him to be the person leading her. Our other friend is writing because her sister is a very kind, very caring, very accomplished, God-fearing woman who desires to be married, but she feels like she is in her own way. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? SLIM Kim on TikTok got us out here collecting our flowers even with the obstacles we go through as black women. Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend is a travel nurse. She has only been at her hospital for 5 months and already been nominated for recognition. Now it's time to nominate again and she wants to nominate another African American nurse. Her Asian boyfriend thinks she shouldn’t nominate anyone because she is not full time and that she only wants to nominate this woman because she is black. She asks if she is being unfair by participating since she is not full time. Our other friend is a millennial and thinks she may be too hard on herself. She’s about to be 40 and has a good job as a restaurant manager but thought she would be a lot further along than she currently is. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? We’re doing things a little differently this week. What’s on our timeline is what’s on your timeline. Let’s Talk Through It We’re talking through some of the stories and clips you sent us. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? We have 2 words for you: Hospice Wife! Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend has been married now for almost a year.and her husband used to be a charmer back in the day. They traveled a lot and used to have fun. Last year she started noticing that her husband started wanting to stay home more and he is tired most of the time and sleeps often. Our other friend is writing to us about her mother’s active social calendar, particularly her dating life. Her father passed away of cancer at the age of 76, five years ago. Her mother, who was with her father, till the very end, has developed a healthy social life. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? This week’s timeline comes to us from Pastor Henderson, AKA Pastor Keion Henderson, husband of Shaunie Henderson, formerly known as Shaunie O'Neal. Note: Don’t Blame Us! Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend has a friend asking her and their friends to hook her up with someone. She’s never been married, 50 years old, and a single mom by choice. Our other friend is a 42 year old single woman and has her own home, car, and no children. She has a master's in psychology, and works as a government contractor providing psychological services for veterans. She meets a lot of men every day, but has yet to find a husband and has no prospects. . Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? We came across this on our timeline via power credit consultants: women are saving their own money, some of their husband's money and their joint money and they're calling it escape money. Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend makes significantly more money than her fiance, and did not feel obligated to tell him how much she makes. They discussed purchasing their first home together and after getting married she doesn’t want him to bank on her income to contribute to half of the bills. Our other friend is a male listener who said he and his wife struggled after his furlough from work and the pandemic. This was until his wife revealed her sizeable rainy day fund. Since then, he started his own rainy day fund and has put away a pretty good amount but doesn’t know if and how he should tell his wife. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? Comes from, friend in our head Kitty Rose. In her post on TikTok she is discussing what makes a man dateable, what makes a man a good husband and what are the characteristics that make a man husband material?. Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend is in love with her fiance and lately has been asking about their future financial plans. When she asks him if he contributes to his 401k he says he doesn’t know. Our other friend loves her husband of 20 years with all her being. Early in their marriage he was the breadwinner and had a plan for their family, However, he lost his job during the pandemic and while he has a job now it's a lesser position and he seems to be a shell of his former self and she needs some Godly advice. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? This week our timeline discussion comes by the way of Stepdaddy Season on IG. Our guest letter reader breaks it down. Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend says she really loves her man but she doesn’t know if she can take the fall for him. Our other friend thinks her man's baby mama is only putting him on child support to spite her. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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Red Flags EverywhereIn our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? Reesa Teesa is on our timeline and we’re gonna try to sum up a 52 part TikTok that is about 500 hours. Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend says she is in a nightmare situation of a marriage with a man she met online. She walked in on him wearing her bra, panties and her lace front wig! Our other letter comes from the fiance of a listener who says she isn't who she says she is and he hopes she and her co-workers that listen to the show all the time hears his letter and realizes that the jig is up. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? Comes from babyghost115 on TikTok who says don’t date a broke man, however another content creator says that’s bad advice. He says don’t date an uneducated man. Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend says she really loves her man but feels like she is carrying the relationship. They work together and both started at the bottom but now she’s at the top and it’s causing a problem. Our other friend says her man is really starting to upset her. They’ve been together 5 years and aside from the fact that’s too long to wait for a ring, she doesn’t like the way he handles money. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? Our Amazing friend Kim Allen is back! Let’s Talk Through It Kim follows up on the readings of Nicole and Janine from her last visit and gives them a look into what is in store for 2024. She also reads a few listeners that sent in some questions. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? This week's timeline topic is inspired by Tara Brody. She's a Christian counselor who brings the Christianity and the Christian beliefs to therapy. We're going to discuss our relationships as grown adults with our parents.This is something that we all should listen to because we're all grown. Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend feels like her mother-in-law thinks her husband is her man! Our other friend says she has had enough of her mother-in-law. She is single-handedly ruining her household. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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Nicole is back! And in our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? Is a post on DL Hughley’s IG from a prejudiced right wing post that asks if white men are the biggest threat to America why are there so many prominent black women dating them? Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend has a friend that is now a widow due to the passing of our husband of 12 years. She met him after a string of really abusive relationships with black men. Then she met her husband who was Caucasian and treated her like a queen. Now she feels she’s ready to date. So she attempted to hook her up with a really nice coworker of hers. He's tall, dark and handsome and well-established. So she set them up on a kind of blind date with him knowing what she looked like, but didn't show her any pictures.They met up for lunch and seemed to have a lot of fun based on the feedback from both of them. However, her friend said she couldn't date him because she can't bring herself to date black men because of past trauma. She wants our opinion on how she can help her friend deal with her emotional trauma and learn that all black men aren't bad? Our other friend says her twin sister and her are best friends, but they are actually quite different. Her sister is still dating, and she is married with two children. Her sister has always just dated and never really settled down or brought anyone home. Their father passed away last summer and shortly after his death, her sister introduced the family to her boyfriend, in quotation marks, who happens to be white. At Thanksgiving, they found out that her sister has been dating him for years. She feels like if their father wouldn't have approved of it, then maybe they shouldn't be together and asks how can she tell her twin sister that she needs to leave him alone and be with a man who is more equally yoked and wants to know what would we do? Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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Nicole has been struggling with her voice for the past few weeks. So you all please send prayers up for Nicole because we want her to get her voice back to normal. We’re super, super excited because this week, standing in for Nicole is Cheryl Jackson. In our opening chatter we talk about how our week has been. What’s on Our Timeline? Is what has been on everyone’s timeline for the past few weeks, Kat Williams. Let’s Talk Through It. Our first friend started going to church in college. At some point she started dating the pastor's son. She was a bit wild and wasn't ready to settle down, however, he was focused on becoming assistant pastor. They eventually broke up and she moved back home and got married. Fast forward 10 years, her husband landed a great job in the city where she went to college. So they moved back and joined the church that she used to attend in college, where her ex was the assistant pastor. The chemistry was exactly where they left it and they ended up having an affair. A few months after the affair ended, she found out she was pregnant with her youngest daughter. While it dawned on her that the assistant pastor might be the father, she didn't bring it up because they agreed never to speak on the affair. Now he is the pastor of the church and she really wants to find out if he is the father. She wants to share her truth so that the people know who their pastor really is. She asks us if she should share her truth? Our other friend needs our advice. Her supervisor is very successful and oversees several divisions of the company they work for. The owner and employees love him. However, as his executive assistant, she sees a very different side of him. A man that flies by the seat of his pants, forgets his wife's birthday and she sends her to get gifts for him. He is a workaholic father that consistently breaks promises to his children and makes decisions by the mere flip of a coin. Her gut is telling her to keep it to herself, but part of her wants to share how he really is behind the scenes. She wants to know what we think she should do? Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded. What’s on Our Timeline? The timeline topic is brought to us by Aajahle on TikTok. Aajahle decided to go on social media asking us for advice, specifically about how we deal with our men and money.. Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend has been with her man for a little over a year. She's a nurse and he's a respiratory therapist. They moved in together a little over three months ago. He’s been carrying most of the bills, including his mortgage since it's his house. Last week, he found out that he would be taking a 12% pay cut at work and asked if she was in the financial position to help pay for more of the household bills. Deep down, she really doesn't think she should have to help offset his loss of income, especially since she’s not his wife. He's the man and he should figure out a way to make this happen, right? One of our other friends and her children's father and I have been together for 20 plus years. They have three beautiful children together and just welcomed their first grandbaby. She loves him dearly and wants to get married.They had plans to get married on their 25th anniversary and now the finances are a bit tight because they have custody of our son's baby while he's deployed. She’s told him several times that she would be okay with just going to the courthouse, but he says that he doesn't want to do that. She feels like he really doesn't want to get married and is asking how can she convince him that she doesn't care about the wedding and to let him know that she just wants to be married? Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded. What’s on Our Timeline? This week's timeline discussion comes from Diamond the Body via Tasha K, DL Hughley and our producer. This clip has been around just like the source. You’ll hear what we’re talking about. Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend divorced her husband 3 years ago. She's now dating 2 men, they both have similar builds and make about the same amount of money. One is a real estate agent and the other a sanitation supervisor. The problem is one of them she can’t see herself introducing to her friends and needs some quick advice. One of our other friends has been married to her husband for 6 years and feels she is outgrowing him. He’s been working for his current company for 4 years and hasn’t moved up and hasn’t applied for any new jobs. She is a Sr. member at her job and her husband no longer feels comfortable at her work events. She thinks this is causing them to grow apart and she is reluctant to have kids with him. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded. What’s on Our Timeline? This week's timeline discussion comes from the TrillAC on IG and he posts about a great woman’s effect on a man to level up. Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend and her fiance have been together 4 years. She is a nurse and he is a barber. She was recently promoted and now makes over 6 figures but is still motivated to grow more. She has been encouraging her fiance to get his own barber shop but he is comfortable where he is. She wants to know how she can motivate him to want more or is he just not the man for her. One of our other friends has been a listener since 2020 and a soror of Nicole. She has been dating a coworker at her company for some time now, he’s General Council and she is a VP for the company. He’s smart, well off and athletic. He seems too good to be true. She’s feeling a little inferior and asks if she should let him go to find someone more his speed. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded. What’s on Our Timeline? This week's inspiration comes from, friend in our head, Natalie Clarice with some great advice this cuffing season. Let’s Talk Through It Our first friend is asking for advice about her boyfriend of 1 year. He is constantly asking her to have his baby, mostly while they are being intimate. She is 35 and her best friend tells her it's hard being a single mother and she should wait until she is married. One of our other friends is engaged to her boyfriend of 15 years. They have been on and off over that time. The last off time was because she wanted kids and he was fine with the two he has. When we decided to be back on, I reiterated my desire to have a child and he said one more would be ok and he soon after proposed. So far no plans for the wedding have been made and he says we can be engaged forever. At 46 she wants our help on what she should do. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded. What’s on Our Timeline? Comes from Black Millionaire on IG, where a woman is struggling with her teenage son. She's a single mom working hours upon hours a month to keep up with his lifestyle demands. Among them, $2500 a month for clothing. Let’s Talk Through It One of our friends is looking for some insight on her daughter. She is a great kid, straight A’s, plays sports and other activities. However she calls herself an Influencer, and to her credit she has over 22 thousand followers, but she’s not getting paid and mom has to fund the business. One of our other friends is engaged to her boyfriend of 4 years. His 24 year old daughter is about to be the demise of their relationship. Things got rocky when his daughter moved back home. She hasn’t been able to keep a steady job, she’s disrespectful to my fiancé and he won’t speak to her about how she is. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded. What’s on Our Timeline? Comes from Truth Hurts AKA Pheonix_Capricorn on TikTok. Janine shares his words for the SOFT men out there in his own words. Let’s Talk Through It One of our friends and her fiance are living together before they get married to test the waters before marriage. He said he is all in on gender roles, cooking, cleaning and taking out the trash. But that all halted when it came to paying the bills. He wants to split the bills 50/50. One of our other friends is unhappy in her 10 year marriage because her husband doesn’t make the money that he made when they first got married and wants to split the household bills 50/50. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded. What’s on Our Timeline? Is a post that has Janine feeling some type of way, of an X tweet from Lil Babyy Ashleyy who is celebrating the support from her father of her Only Fans Page. Let’s Talk Through It One of our friends and her fiance got into a huge fight over his 22 year old daughter that lives with them. She is fine helping to support her dreams but he does not hold her accountable. The last straw is her asking for a car because she let one of her friends drive hers and they wrecked it. Insurance won’t pay because she was not driving. One of our other friends is at a moral crossroads. Her 2 year old son brought a note home from his preschool saying her son has a keen interest in dress up, keyword here dress. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded. What’s on Our Timeline? This week's timeline discussion comes from Indeskribeabull on IG who shares her Thanksgiving Rules for family as we head into the holiday season. Let’s Talk Through It One of our friends has been dating his girlfriend for 3 years now but has never taken her to any family functions. They recently had a heated discussion about it. He plans on proposing to her and can’t wait to start their own holiday traditions. However his family is a HOT A MESS! Should he tell her the details of his family situation and if so will it push her away. One of our other friends gets anxiety around the holidays. The family all get along until the holidays. She gives us the tea and asks for some help coping with her family at this time of the year. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded. What’s on Our Timeline? This week's timeline discussion is a recent post on X from @realpg111 saying if a guy treats her like a princess he gets the Cat as a prize. Her post resurfaced a post on our timeline a year ago from @AjeboDanny who then posed the question, do women have anything else to offer when a man does something she likes? Giving up the Cat as a reward? Some men are looking for a different show of appreciation today. Let’s Talk Through It One of our friend’s husband is rationing the D and only giving it out as a reward for things she does. One of our other friends has been married for 20 years to her college sweetheart and has been a stay at home mom. Their 5 girls are grown and away at college and she is bored staying at home and would like to contribute more to the relationship than just pleasing her husband. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded. What’s on Our Timeline? This week's timeline is courtesy of Morgan Sandiego on TikTok. And it features a woman that says if you are not already in a committed relationship with good communication, respect and boundaries before you start nursing school don’t do it! Let’s Talk Through It One of our male friends is working to better himself on his job but it requires studying and a test. Well it seems as if his girlfriend is sabotaging his dreams by doing things to keep him from studying for the test that could change his career and life. One of our Birmingham friends has been dating her man for 5 years. She was ready to break it off when he started talking about marriage. Recently she started to focus on her dream of passing the bar and being an in-house counsel for a company and he started to complain that she was too focused on her dream and not enough on their relationship. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded. What’s on Our Timeline? We find a woman that went on a first date with a man and would not get out of the car because he took her to the Cheesecake Factory. Let’s Talk Through It One of our friends met a really nice guy while dropping her child off at school. Conversations went well and they decided to go out on a date. It turns out it was a playdate as his suggestion was to take their kids to Chuck E Cheese. Our other friend has been dating a friend for a little while now. One day on a work from home day at his house, needing a pad to take some notes on a Zoom call, the pad she found had a list or “will’s and wont’s” for dating women. She fit in a few wills and quite a few wont’s. She wants to know how to approach him about his list. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded. What’s on Our Timeline? Host of the Ratchet and Respectable podcast, Demitria Lucus posed the question to her listeners: do you have tracking notifications for your partner? We thought we’d take a shot at answering her question. Let’s Talk Through It One of our male friends has a problem with his wife of 4 years who has been calling him out on his whereabouts. One time he was out with coworkers having lunch and she popped up and another time was at his friend's girlfriend's house but he was at home. It turns out she had an air tag planted in his car. Our other friend found out that her husband had a tracker planted in her wallet for quite some time. She was pissed when she found out but he didn’t understand why. He said he was only trying to make sure she was safe. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded. What’s on Our Timeline? This week, Respectfully Justin is the focus of our timeline. And the comment section was “jumpin” with comments on his question on what would make you go raw with a partner. Let’s Talk Through It Our one friend is successful and knows what she wants. She is allergic to condoms so she keeps a steady and tight rotation of men so she can have her cake raw when she wants. The rawness has one guy catching feelings and he wants to bring her home to mom. Her sister thinks she is crazy for having multiple men and not using condoms and she wants to know what we think. Our other friend is 68 and getting a divorce from her husband. She and her husband remain friends but she is back on the market. She has 3 new male friends that she is active with, however she is not a fan of condoms and wants to know if it is bad to stop using them at this age. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded. What’s on Our Timeline? The Timeline finds a woman breaking off her engagement after she finds out that several years earlier her fiance had relations with his best friend. In the social post he is making the case it was a long time ago and he is not the same guy. Well she is not having it or him. Let’s Talk Through It We have letters from two of our friends. Our one friend needs help on how to tell her boyfriend after a morning of mimosas, shopping and having a little too much fun with one of her girlfriends she misses having sex with a woman. Our other friend has been married to her husband for 3 years. She wants to know how to tell him she is bisexual. While she hasn’t had sex with a woman she’s afraid he will think she’s cheating or untruthful about other things. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded. What’s on Our Timeline? The Timeline finds us back at club Shay Shay for the second week in a row, to find Brittany Renner spilling tea on herself. Bring all ten fingers and ten toes for this one. Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. Our one friend met a nice guy at the grocery store and he had some good game. Fast forward, things got weird when we were on a date and two guys that she had previous separate intimate encounters with were in the same place. Things got even weirder when he had a party at his house and there were two other guys that she had separate intimate encounters with at the party. To make it worse they were friends of his. Now he wants to know how many guys she's been with and are any of them his friends as well? Our other friend is on her second marriage, and at 48 her husband thought it was a good idea to ask her how many men she has been with. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded. What’s on Our Timeline? The Timeline this week has recurring timeline guests. Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. Our one friend is pregnant and tested positive for AIDS, and she wants to know if she should tell her husband. Our other friend has been married to her husband for 20 years, he has cheated a few times but told on himself before she found out. She recently found out through some digging that he has a child that he has been taking care of for 12 years. She wants to know if she should tell him she knows and welcome the child into their family. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded. What’s on Our Timeline? IG Hairstylist _Individualist Says dating in your 40s has a totally different standard than dating in your 20’s and 30’s and drops his list of expectations. Should you even have a list?. Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. Our one friend back on the dating grind let her new boo move in with her and her 10 year old daughter to find out he only works, sleeps and hangs out with his friends. Our other friend recently back on the dating scene rekindled a relationship after 20 years with a highschool boyfriend to find he is exactly the same after 20 years! We tie this all up in a pretty bow for you with a conversation with dating expert Monique Kelley. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded. What’s on Our Timeline? Comes from our friend in our head. He goes by Kenny Anse on the gram, but we know him as Kenny Williams, It's from a piece that he actually wrote for Insider's Business about the new standard of work and what we should be expecting and really just getting from these jobs that we work every day.. For Let’s Talk Through It, we have letters from two of our friends. Our first friend learned that the grass isn’t greener on the other side after leaving her job because it was boring for a job that gave her a lot more work for the same amount of money and now wants to ask her old boss for her old job back.. Our other friend retired from the military and became a franchisee of a food chain. While she loves being in charge of my own future is beginning to regret this decision because it's almost impossible to retain employees. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded. What’s on Our Timeline? TikTok personality Roe Reports is on our timeline for being hit in the face with a brick by a man that she would not give him her phone number. All while 6 or 7 men stood by. For Let’s Talk Through It, we have letters from two of our listeners. Brooklyn says it's not just the men that can't deal with rejection. Our other listener LaTanya shares a wild incident after a 3rd date with a man she met. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Be safe out there ladies! Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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Nicole and Janine discuss the holiday season in the middle of a global pandemic. They share ways to get through the holidays alone without being lonely. They also share ways to reset in anticipation of the new year. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?Stasha and Freddie are on our timeline. Stasha and Freddie shared their courthouse nuptials with the world on social media.  They professed their love for one another as they took their vows. It was an average courthouse wedding the only difference is… Freddie was behind bars.  For Let’s Talk Through It,we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend found out from Facebook that the man that she’s dealing with has been incarcerated.  Our other friend is engaged to a man that can’t stop hustling despite his government job. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?Bryant Bee is on our timeline.  He’s giving the truth about toxic friends.   For Let’s Talk Through It,we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is frustrated that her so called friend is messing with her child’s father behind her back.  Our other friend is disappointed because friend of over 15 years caused her to get demoted.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline? Ericka Hart is on our timeline.  Ericka and her partner Eboni recently had a baby… that they hope is gay.  Let’s Talk Through It,we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend has a fiancé that doesn’t meet her mother’s expectations and he mother refuses to pay for or attend their wedding. . Our other friend is trying to get

her husband to speak to their son again after he turned down a golf  scholarship. . Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?Pastor Deitrick Haddon and his wife are on the timeline. Pastor had a 50th Birthday Party and the First Lady was enjoying her husband and the people had everything to say!!! Let’s Talk Through It,we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend wants to know how he can convince his wife that oral sex is acceptable. Our other friend is disappointed her church “friends” are judging the parties that she and her husband throw. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?A hurt stepfather with a simple question. He asks “Am I an a$$hole for refusing to pay for my stepdaughter’s wedding because she wants her “real” father to give her away?For Let’s Talk Through It,we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is upset because he feels like his wife only really loves him when he can provide exactly what she wants.  Our other friend is disappointed because he paid for a trip for his girlfriend’s birthday and recently realized they’re not exclusive.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?Gabrielle Union is on our Timeline. Gabrielle Union sat down with Noah Callahan-Bever for an interview on Idea Generation (Bloomberg) and she talked about how despite the fact that she is a millionaire she has to fight the scarcity mindset.  Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is upset because she feels like her man wastes money and is living paycheck to paycheck unnecessarily.  Our other friend is disappointed because her mother is not supportive of her entrepreneurial venture.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline? Jordan Neely. The devastating life and untimely death of Jordan Neely. Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is upset because her brother was placed under “citizen’s arrest” by his coworker who he didn’t even know. Our other friend shared the story of how his wife almost faced a medical emergency on the highway because someone took it upon himself to play patrol.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline? Brian McKnight is on our timeline.   Or for a new project, but rather for his new family.  Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is upset because she just found out that her man has a six year old that he claims he gave up for adoption. Our other friend is hurt because her 85 year old father has completely cut off the family.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline? Deadly sex is on our timeline.  This week we discussed the Texas man who allegedly accidentally choked his girlfriend to death during.  Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend has a boyfriend who is  into asphyxiation play, but it freaks her out. Our other friend is concerned because his girlfriend is afraid to have sex after late husband passed away during intercourse.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?Chlöe Bailey and Latto are on our timeline.  Latto sits down with Chlöe Bailey on the first episode of her 777 Radio Show.  They discuss  internet trolls and the insecurities that the negative comments on social media can ignite.  Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend hates social media and is taking a social break after being called a mammoth by some she thought she was close to. Our other friend is jealous of her husband’s social media activity even though she “trusts” him.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline? Kadejah Brown is on our timeline.  The young woman from Mississippi who has been charged with murder after shooting her husband while streaming live on Facebook.  Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend desires to marry her boyfriend despite the fact that he’s an abusive stalker. Our other friend is concerned because her husband, who is former law enforcement, threatened to kill her.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline? Two very  different views about marriage and money.  On one hand we have Comedian Corey Holcomb who said Marriage is an antiquated concept that will destroy you.  On the other hand  Millionaire Vick Tipnes says the most successful people are married.  Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend thinks he’s in love with a freeloading college drop out that is squandering his money. Our other friend is exhausted by the idea that the husband is supposed to pay for everything.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Debra Lee and her candid conversation about her affair with Bob Johnson at the pinnacle of her career.  A story she shares from her new book I AM DEBRA LEE.  Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend found out that her husband is having an affair with his boss and she’s considering condoning it. Our other friend is having a fling with an employee who wants more.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Jealousy!!! Where does it come from?  How does it affect us? Is it flattering?  Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is jealous of her husband’s relationship with his ex wife.  Our other friend is so jealous she’s decided to fake a pregnancy.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Crazy Ex’s are on our timeline. Should you disclose to your new boo that your old boo is crazy.  If you don’t disclose are you potentially risking their safety?  Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is concerned that her friend finds her ex’s stalking charming and endearing.  Our other friend doesn’t understand why her ex husband wont move on after his double life led to their divorce.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Tiffany France is on our timeline.  She is the  mother of a young man who was sent back to 9th grade when he thought he was going to graduate in just a few months.  Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is frustrated because her daughter is being stalked and harassed by a classmate she used to talk to, but the school is t doing anything about it. Our other friend is concerned that her niece is struggling ins school, but her brother is overlooking it because he’s too busy making videos for TikTok with her. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Candace Owens is on our timeline again.  This time for saying that women are a distraction in the workplace.  Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend  has been told that her business attire is distracting because she chooses to wear suits with skirts instead of pants despite the fact that she works in a male dominated industry.   Our other friend works at a law firm where the women are expected to wear heels and she’s not here for it.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Waymond Wesley II, a.k.a WaynondTheGod, a.k.a. Chef Way a.k. Harris County ADA (Assistant District Attorney) is on our timeline for his offensive tweets that have recently resurfaced. For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend  is concerned that her sister is about to marry a man who hasn’t been completely honest with her.  Our other friend spills the church tea.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Gabrielle Union is on our timeline.  She recently discussed her first marriage on The Armchair Expert with Dax Shepherd. She shared that she felt entitled to cheat so we’re chatting about it.   For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend knows that her husband is cheating and didn’t mind until her friend saw him with his mistress.  Our other friend after 20+ years finds herself cheating on her husband now that’s she’s the primary bread winner.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  New Year‘s Resolutions.  What are we letting go? What are we gaining? Do we even make them anymore? For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is tired of resolving to lose weight and wants to get a mommy makeover despite her husband’s objection.  Our other friend wants to discover her authentic self.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline? Astrologer Kim Allen of the ‘Your Sign Says’ Podcast!!!  Kim Allen lets us know what we should leave in 2022.  She also gives us some thing to look forward to in 2023.  For Let’s Talk Through It Kim answers your questions about 2023.   Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  The importance of Oral Health!!! A young lady on TikTok shared how she removed her own braces as a tutorial of sorts. Only to be left with overgrown gums. What part do you play in your oral health?  What should you leave to the professionals?  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend has a girlfriend who has bad breath.  Our other friend wants her husband to take care of his oral health.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  The Holidays are right around the corner and you still have a lot more shopping to do (if you’re like us).  To make things easier we’ve done the work for you. We’ve scoured Amazon for amazing last-minute holiday gifts.  We even shared our wishlist.  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend wants to help figuring out what to get her new boyfriend this year.  Our other friend wants help picking an age appropriate gift for her bonus daughter.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Child welfare. Abuse doesn’t take a break for the holidays.  This week we are joined by guest Tabitha Hendricks as we discuss keeping kids safe from abuse during the holidays.  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend has a cousin that she believes is abusing her son by making him do adult chores and depriving him of food.  Our other friend is concerned about her roommate’s daughter and doesn’t want to go home for the holidays for fear that something  bad may happen to the little girl.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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Description: In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  A young lady who dropped the weight to get the ring.  Now it’s not just sweating for the wedding, but it’s all about “proposal shape”?   For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend has a best friend that’s  casually dating guy that says she doesn’t  fit the image he has of his wife  Our other friend is hurt because her live in boyfriend of 10 years  is afraid to propose because he thinks she will let herself go.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline? The tragic death of Shanquella Robinson. For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend was betrayed by her best friends and her husband and doesn’t know what to do.  Our other friend hasn’t spoken to her best friend since they had an argument that almost got physical.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline? The Side chick agreement.  There are rules to abide bye when one takes on the role of a side chick.  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend has secretly befriended her husband’s side chick and wants to invite her to Thanksgiving.  Our other friend is frustrated because her best friend has become her brother’s side chick.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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Description: In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?A simple tweet… that said “A lot of men aren’t used to women genuinely caring about them.”  Is that true???  Well… we talk about it!!!  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend  is concerned about her brother because she thinks he loves being in toxic relationships.    Our other friend is hurt because her husband doesn’t think she cares about him.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  A lady posted about her beautiful morning ritual with her husband and Twitter attacked her. Do we always have to be negative? Well… we talk about it!!!  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend  has a cousin moving to tow, but she’s a Debbie Downer.    Our other friend has a husband who has become a grumpy old man.   Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?A black woman says she would rather date a broke man because they’re more loyal. Is that true? Well… we talk about it!!!  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend  has a fiancé who has traditionally showered her with gifts but he’s now decided that he only wants to work part-time.    Our other friend thinks she picked the wrong guy after she friend zoned the blue collar man for her cheating husband.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline? A couple that is seeking a divorce because they can’t agree on the soundtrack of their sex life.  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend  has a  girlfriend whose teeth scrape his man parts.   Our other friend has been suffering with flatulence during intimacy.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Kanye West.  We all know he has outbursts, he’s had them for years, but yet we overlook them because of his “musical genius”.  This we discuss the masked mental illness.  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is concerned about her friend’s manic behavior and she thinks her friend is having a mental break.   Our other friend has a boss that suffers from mental illness that’s become so disruptive she’s ready to quit her job, yet she’s hesitant to address it.   Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Blueface and Chrisean Rock.  Not sure who they are? Neither were we.  Their names may not be familiar, but their toxic relationship is.   For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is concerned because her friend’s baby dad convinced her to quit her job so she could be dependent on him.   Our other friend is concerned that her friend is being taken advantage of, but she overlooks her misery for the gram.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline? Nia Long and Ime Udoka. This week we discuss infidelity. Is it ever ok to step out on your partner? If so, when is it ok to step out? Is anyone safe from infidelity? For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend hasn’t been intimate with her partner in years.  Our other friend wants a pass to step it after her husband’s battle with testicular cancer.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline? Halle Bailey as The Little Mermaid. This week we discuss the racist backlash that The  Little Mermaid has been receiving since they announced  the casting of  Halle Bailey as Ariel. For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend feels unappreciated by his wife.  Our other friend is feeling insecure about her man’s attractions.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Tiffany Haddish and Aries Spears. This week we chat about the lawsuits that has been filed against the two comedians. For Let’s Talk Through Itwe have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is regretting telling her friend that their partner was cheating.  Our other friend intended to help someone by hiring them, only to realize it’s backfiring.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  A viral tweet from Dasshx.   This week we chat about how parents push their children out of the house without preparing for their next stage in life.    For Let’s Talk Through Itwe have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend was asked to help get her family purchase her grandmother’s home out of foreclosure.  Our other friend wants her parent to know the impact of them ruining her credit as a minor.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  A viral tweet from Soufeast  Influencer.   This week we chat about how Jânine connected with a stranger because of a tweet about a boy that was posted on Spiritual Word.    For Let’s Talk Through Itwe have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend wants to date, but doesn’t trust anyone after her ex-best-friend contracted HIV from her ex.  Our other friend shared her personal close call.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  A viral video of a woman saying Women shouldn’t be in management positions.   This week we chat about how sis just took us back hundreds of years by diminished our value as women to motherhood.  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is trying to figure out how to get her traditional mother accustomed to modern gender roles.  Our other friend wants to leave her church because the pastor is a woman.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Hot Girl Summer.   This week we chat about the potential consequences of hot girl summers . For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is concerned because her 16  year old daughter is dating a 25 year old man. Our other friend wants to take a break from her boyfriend because she still wants to have Sunday Funday.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Happy Meal with a side of baby mama drama.  This week we chat about the McDonald’s Baby Mama. For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is considering canceling her family’s cruise because of her boyfriend’s baby mama. Our other friend is fearful that her daughter’s father is going to cause problems in her marriage.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Dobbs vs. Jackson Women's Health Organization.  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is resenting her husband after they decided to wait  to make a decision about their pregnancy. Our other friend is fearful of trying to start a family considering Dobbs vs. Jackson.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  The 5 Love Languages.  The 5 different ways of expressing and receiving love.  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is concerned because his wife would prefer to wear sexy lingerie and  have intercourse rather than just spending time together. Our other friend wants her husband to be physically intimate despite the fact that he has erectile dysfunction.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Russell Wilson and Ciara are back on our timeline.  Russell has made it clear to his haters that he will continue to stay "Squared Up" for Ciara..   For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend feels like her husband doesn't appreciate her.  Our other friend wants her macho husband to be more romantic.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Before you throw his mom's ashes into the lake  for cheating you better think twice.  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is concerned because her friend faked a pregnancy to keep a man and took it way too far.  Our other friend wants her ex-husband back after she destroyed his things because she thought he was cheating.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?   Cora Jakes Coleman and Michelle Loud.  What is really going on here?  Who is the real mother of baby Jason?    For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is ready to leave her husband after she adopted her husband's love child.    Our other friend  wants to know how she can forgive her Aunt for taking her mother's home after she took care of her for years. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  The Honey Pot!  The company made headlines after changing their formula.  Black Twitter was up in arms only to find out it was based on  rumors and speculations.   For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is concerned because her sister doesn’t want to support black owned businesses ever again.    Our other friend wants he sister to shut down her black owned restaurant after over a decade of successfully running it. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?   The idea that men are just good for money in relationships.  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is concerned because her husband wants her to go back to work to help out with the bills after they agreed that she would stay home and take care of the kids.   Our other friend wants to know how she can graciously accept the gifts that the man she is dating wants to shower her with.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline? The high value man himself... Kevin Samuels.   For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is concerned that her sister is raffling off her vagina to the highest bidder.   Our other friend wants her husband to get a job.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline? Imagine you go away on vacation and come home to find that your place was cleaned out and people sleeping in your bed.   For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is concerned because some girls followed her daughter home to jump her.  Our other friend can get through to her squatting son.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Femanine hygiene.  Too many people have too many questions  about hygiene at such big ages. We have to be willing to ask the questions like...   What's that sticky stuff?  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is frustrated because her husband's pubic hair is out of control.  Our other  guy friend is concerned about the yellowish goopy mucus looking stuff that is coming from his fiance's vagina.   Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Former Mayor Keisha Lance Bottoms and her run in with the Capital Grille.  Apparently Leggings are not appropriate attire for the Capital Grille.  But pasties are?  Twitter had questions and so do we.  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is confused by a comment her boss made about her attire at a company social.   Our other friend wants her best friend to understand the descrimination that she experienced.   Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  In the wake of all of the noise surrounding the untimely deaths of DMV Rapper Goonew and NFL star Dwayne Haskins we discuss the disturbing manner in which  black people are viewed as entertainment even in death. For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is disturbed by the manner in which her friend’s last wishes were carried out.  Our other friend discovered some shocking information following her son’s death.   Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  The slap heard round the world. The story of how Will Smith's hand coupled with Chris Rock's face made the 94th  Oscars the hottest one yet!   This week we are joined by the amazing Natasha Simona of The Natasha Simona Sequence Podcast. For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend wants to know what she should do after her boyfriend punched her co-worker at a company outing.  Our other friend is concerned that her husband may not ever allow her parents back in their home.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline? The Best Drunk Driver Ever… is the one that  doesn’t drive.  21 year old Jayana Tanae Webb took the lives of two state troopers and a civilian while driving drunk.   For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is a nurse that has a friend who is also a nurse who thinks it’s cute to have one too many drinks.   Our other friend is concerned about  how her fiancé drives  impaired with their son in the car. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  The C.R.O.W.N Act.  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend cut her locs because her mentor at her law firm suggested it.   Our other friend is concerned about  how her natural hair will be accepted when she returns to work  after working from home throughout the pandemic.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  The viral video out of South Carolina of a young boy  kicking an elderly woman in the stomach as other young  children jump in to attack the elderly woman as well. This all happened while  being filmed by another adult. For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is a math teacher who is tired of her disrespectful students.   Our other friend is concerned that her son has serial killer tendencies.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  The White Privilege Card and The Race Card.  Are they the new badges of honor?" For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend was offended by  her classmate's implication that she got accepted into Harvard Law because of affirmative action.   Our other friend is concerned that her granddaughter has lost her connection with her heritage. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  The great debate... Who eats first?  Your man or your children? " For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend feels like she's about to lose her best friend because she's dedicating time to her boyfriend. Our other friend is trying to convince her mother that she is ready to have kids. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  The Florida mom who found her two year old locked in a daycare center after the daycare workers left for the day. " For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend  recently learned that her daughter was being spanked by her teacher.   Our other friend is concerned about  her grandson who always has injuries after visiting his mother (her son's ex-wife). Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  A Twitter thread to men from Certified Man.  He had the time today!!! He's out here schooling these men on why women really aren't interested in relationships with them. " For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend feels like her husband is holding her back from a great opportunity because of a potential opportunity he may have.  Our other friend, Sakia, wrote in because she's frustrated with her fiance because she  feels like she's taking a backseat to his career.   Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Kierra "Kiki" Sheard- Kelly.   Kierra said  as believers we are blessed so that we can bless others.  She went on to say she would share but she's NOT sharing her man.  She reminds us about the importance of being wise about the "friends" that you allow to stay in  your home. " For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend, Monique, has a recently divorced friend that wants to come live with her and her husband.  Our other friend, Myla, wrote in to give us an update about what's going on with her husband.   Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?   With Justice Breyer, President Biden has vowed to put forth the first Black Woman to be a SCOTUS nominee.  Black Woman to be  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend is on the DEI committee at her job and she is calling  out the company's flaws .  Our other friend Is the first Black tenured professor at a PWI in the south.    Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Stories of women who go above and beyond to catch their partners in lies. Some are even risking their own safety just to prove a point.  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend believes her husband has a whole other family.  Our other friend finally has proof that her husband is a lying narcissist.    Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Lieutenant Governor Winsome Sears.   While she is making history as the first woman and the first woman of color to be elected to the position... Her stance on some critical issues is causing some controversy.  " For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend who feels like the Black Lives Matter Movement has desensitized everyone including black folks.  Our other friend has a job where she is one of two black women.  The other black woman wants to be friends, but she doesn't represent the culture.   Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  "The Over Looked Podcast"  the latest podcast on the Mean Ole Lion Media Network.  This true crime podcast looks into the cases of missing or murdered people of color that have gone cold.  Kares Clarke gives light to these cases.  " For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend  from Cleveland wanted to shed light on the Rajah McQueen case.   The 27 year old mother of two who went missing in June 2021.    Our other friend shared the story of the disappearance of her friend Keeshae Jacobs who vanished five years ago from Richmond at the age of 21.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline? We are talking about couples that have mastered their finances.  Lolo and Zakiya and Jayla and Anthony Henry. For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend thinks that her friend's husband is treating her more like a sugar momma than a wife. Our other friend has a friend that is making her second guess how she and her husband handle their household finances. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!  

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Unwinding and focusing on goals for the new year.  Rather than making New Year's Resolutions we are focusing on Mindfulness.  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend has an unmotivated daughter who wants to be independent despite not having a job.   Our other friend is  concerned  that she may have  made the wrong decision quitting her job as a Manhattan attorney to become an  Arizona Spa owner.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!  

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline? Big Sean  tells,  friend of the podcast, Brande Victorian in an Essence interview  that "Black Women Are The Closest Thing To God"  while having a track record of dating women who identify as "Other." For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  Our one friend who thinks her brother has a problem because he uses  black women as fixers, but won't date them.   Our other friend is  concerned  that she may have turned her son away from black women.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!  

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Nancy Reagan!  This we talk about Nancy Reagan's reputation in Hollywood.  What was she like before she became the First Lady of The United States?  Why exactly was she trending on Twitter?   For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  One friend who’s husband has filed for a divorce because she refuses to perform fellatio.  Our other friend has a husband who wants it every single day.   Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Parenting! Parenting is hard.  It’s just that much harder parenting an adult.  What happens when the relationship shifts?  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  One friend who’s daughter reported her  to the nursing board claiming she assaulted her.  Our other friend says her mother is terrorizing their family.   Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!  

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Intimate partner violence against men.  We talk about the rarely discussed topic of domestic violence with female perpetrators. For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  One friend who is  a concerned mom who wants to know how she can prevent her daughter from catching a case.  Our other friend is a concerned best friend that wants to get help for her friend before it is too late.   Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!  

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  WILL.  We discuss Will Smith’s new memoir, his relationship with Jada and Jada’s relationship with Tupac Shakur. For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  One friend who is uneasy about the fact that her husband’s very best friend is a female.  Our other friend is grappling with the concept of her girlfriend having three platonic soul mates.   Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  The Astroworld Festival.  The concept, the catastrophe and the liability.  We cover it all. For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends.  One friend who is a teacher who thinks a parent's anger over her child contracting COVID at school is misdirected.  Our other friend wants to return to concerts with her husband but would rather not if her husband continues to get into altercations.   Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!  

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  "The Harder They Fall"   We discuss some of the criticism  the film has been receiving  since it's release on Netflix.  Even though the story is fictional, the characters were not.  Does accuracy of the characters even matter in a fictional story?    For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend  is against "straightwashing".  Our other friend wants to learn to love  herself  and teach her daughter to do the same.    Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!  

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Several recent attempted home in visions have been caught on camera.  How can we stay safe and protect ourselves and one another?  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend's daughter has a persistent suitor.  Our other friend’s building concierge is trying to become a bit too familiar.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!  

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Description: In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Mike Haugabook and Deyjah Evans' recent nuptials !!!   We discuss the 46, 55 or 61 year old godfather that married his 18 year old goddaughter.   For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend's son is getting serious with the babysitter.  Our other friend doesn't see anything wrong with her teenage daughter dating a grown man.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!  

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In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since  we last recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  The Jenkins are  expecting!!!   What made Jeannie Mai change her mind about becoming a mother?  Was it Jeezy?   For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend's husband decided he doesn't want children after she already started the IVF process.  Our other friend is trying to determine if she wants children or if it's just a midlife crisis.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.  Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!  

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In our opening chatter we talk about what has been happening since the last time we recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Dave Chappelle and the backlash that he is facing from his Netflix Special The Closer.  Was it transphobia or truth?  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend want's help navigate her relationship with her daughter and her daughter's new relationship.  Our other friend is seeking advice on how to navigate transracial issues with her caucasian friends.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence! 

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In our opening chatter we talk about what has been happening since the last time we recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  Tiffany Haddish said she would prefer a duplex over a ring and boyfriend Common responds.  For Let’s Talk Through It  we have  letters from two of our friends. One friend who recently got engaged, but is considering breaking it off.  Our other friend wants his fiancé to stay within the wedding budget so they can get a house.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what has been happening since the last time we recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  The attention and news coverage that the Gabrielle Petito case received vs.  The attention and news coverage that Daniel Robinson, Lauren Cho and Jelani Day received.  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friends wants to know why missing black women don't get any attention. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melinated Excellence! 

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In our opening chatter we talk about what has been happening since the last time we recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  The young man who wound up in the ER after measuring his penis.  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend doesn't know how to feel about her man's prosthetic penis. Our other friend wants to know which size matters more? Length or girth. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melinated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what has been happening since the last time we recorded.  What’s on Our Timeline?  COVID -19 and the alarming number of juvenile COVID cases since the start of the school year.  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend is contemplating if she should let her cousin and his unvaccinated family come stay at her house after being displaced from Hurricane Ida. Our other friend wanted to express her grievances about the way we “push the vaccine”.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!  

Nicole & Janine 

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In our opening chatter we talk about what has been happening since the last time we recorded, Hurricane Ida and COVD-19  What’s on Our Timeline?  SB 8 (also known as the heartbeat law) that recently passed in Texas.   For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. Both friends are facing complicated pregnancies and grappling with their options.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence! 

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In our opening chatter we talk about what has been happening since the last time we recorded, Hurricane Ida and COVD-19  What’s on Our Timeline?  The Wedding Invoice.   Is invoicing people who don't show up to weddings the new thing?  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend who's wedding guests are taking the liberty of adding a plus one. Our other friend wants to dismiss her indecisive bridesmaid.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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In our opening chatter we talk about what has been happening in our week and  COVID craziness.  What’s on Our Timeline?  We discuss Only Fans and their recent announcement that they're banning "sexually explicit content " (pornography).   For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend who wants her sister to go back to school. Our other friend is trying to figure out how she can pivot now that OnlyFans has changed their guidelines. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence! 

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In our opening chatter we talk about what has been happening since the last time we recorded and the resurgence of COVID What’s on Our Timeline?  We discuss Latanya Young, daughter of Dr. Dre, living in her car. For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend who doesn't want her step-son and his pregnant girlfriend to move. Our other friend feels like her parents should continue to support her as she pursues her dream of being an artist.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence! 

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In our opening chatter we discuss people who still don't wash their hands.  What’s on Our Timeline?  We discuss the return to the office and the increasing number of people who are opting to stay home. Have companies jumped the gun?  Do we ever really need to return to the office?  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend is having trouble keeping her boutique staffed.  Our other friend doesn't want to return to work at the grocery store.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!  

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Here are some "Lets Talk Through it" discussions from a few of your favorite episodes from season 1 of Oh That's Deep, Black Women Conversations. Enjoy!

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This week we discuss Fibroid Awareness Month.    In our opening chatter we discuss our whirlwind of a week. From injuries to houses being wrecked, we had a week!    What’s on Our Timeline?  We discuss Fibroids with Nicole (Dr. Plenty). What are fibroids? What are treatment options for fibroids?  Common fibroid myths.  Talking to the doctor about fibroids. We cover it all!    For our  Let’s Talk Through It segment we have letters from two of our friends. Both friends are struggling with fibroids and concerned about their treatment options and how it can affect their ability to have children.   Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!  

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This week we discuss the Billionaire Blastoff. In our opening chatter we discuss some tantalizing treats.  What’s on Our Timeline?  We discuss how "Whitey On the Moon"  a spoken word poem by Gil Scott-Heron and released in 1970, still rings true today.  With Sir Richard Branson completing his first launch, Elon Musk Leading the race and Jeff Bezos close on his heels, the billionaire space race is dominating the news. This expensive yet lucrative billionaire hobby just seems inconsequential in the midst of a global pandemic. For our Let’s Talk Through It segment we have letters from two of our friends. One friend who has a work situation that is pissing her off. Our other friend wants her husband to change his business practices.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.

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This week we discuss Bill Cosby's overturned conviction.    In our opening chatter we discuss our 4th of July weekend.  What’s on Our Timeline?  We discuss the reason Bill Cosby was released from prison without serving his full sentence.  We’re also joined by actor Carl Anthony Payne II (Cockroach from the Cosby Show). For our  Let’s Talk Through It segment we have letters from two of our friends. One friend who is torn because her husband was accused of domestic abuse.  Our other friend is trying to comprehend how someone she trusted with her life, turned out to be a child predator.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!  

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This week we discuss  good lovin'!!!!   In our opening chatter we discuss our new discoveries on Apple TV and TikTok .  What’s on Our Timeline?  Jazmine Sullivan asked a question that broke the internet. The Question: What is the craziest thing you've ever done for someone with great sex? "   For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend has a friend who is crazy about a man who is no good for her.  Our other friend is trying not to go bankrupt because of her boyfriend/ husband.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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This week ask ourselves...How many babies is too many babies?!?!   In our opening chatter we discuss this past Father's Day.  What’s on Our Timeline?  We discuss Nick Cannon having baby number 7 on the way.  We also ponder if there is a socially acceptable number of babies? Or, is there a socially acceptable number of baby mommas/ daddies?  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend who doesn't want her sister to be with a man that has so many children.  Our other friend isn't sure if she wants children based on the way that she was raised.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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This week we discuss Father’s Day!   In our opening chatter we discuss how things have picked up and our crazy work schedules.  What’s on Our Timeline?  We discuss retailers giving their customers the option to opt out of Father’s Day email marketing.  We’re also joined by author of Faith For The Fatherless, Alvianne Brule. For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend who's  frustrated by the way her husband celebrates Father’s Day.  Our other friend is trying to grapple with learning who her father really is.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!  

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This week we discuss wearing your bonnets in public.  In our opening chatter we discuss the terrible twos and Janine's BFF's return from deployment!   What’s on Our Timeline?  We discuss Monique's comment about young girls wearing bonnets, pjs and slippers in public.  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend who's daughter was asked to remove her bonnet at school.  And we have a male friend who wants his wife to dress more presentable when she's going out.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!  

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This week we discuss women popping the question.  In our opening chatter we discuss Harrison’s birthday party!   What’s on Our Timeline?  We discuss  the new trend of women proposing to men outside of Leap Day.  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend is three months pregnant and wants to propose to her boyfriend who doesn’t know she’s pregnant. Our other friend wants to propose to her boyfriend after turning him down three times.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!  

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This week we discuss National Masturbation Month.  In our opening chatter we discuss  our week and  the precautions that we are still taking even though outside is open. .  What’s on Our Timeline?  We discuss  how couples are having sex less... but they're masturbating more.  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend is faking it . Our other friend wants to get into tandem masturbation.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!  

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This week we discuss Black Girl Code AGAIN!!! .  In our opening chatter we discuss  our week, husbands losing rings and the gas shortage.  What’s on Our Timeline?  We discuss the Porsha Williams engagement.  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend wrote to us because she is about to marry someone that her cousin had a relationship with. Our other friend married her best friend's ex-husband.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!  

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This week we discuss the uber wealthy.  In our opening chatter we discuss  our week, raising boys vs. raising girls, if America is racist and the Big Willie Challenge.  What’s on Our Timeline?  We discuss the divorce of Bill and Melinda Gates.  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend wrote to us because she about to marry into a family that owns a Fortune 500. Our other friend wants to know if she should still work after receiving a sizable inheritance.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!  

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This week we discuss the racial wealth gap.  In our opening chatter we discuss  our week.  What’s on Our Timeline?  We discuss financial literacy programs specifically geared toward Black financial literacy.  We are joined by our special guest, financial expert, Jacob Makoyo.  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend wrote to us because she’s thinking about co-signing for her boyfriend’s Tesla. Our other friend wants help with giving her twin sister advice about finances.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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This week we discuss addiction.  In our opening chatter we discuss  our week and the importance of etiquette.  What’s on Our Timeline?  We discuss the life of DMX.  For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend wrote to us because she thinks that her boyfriend is a functional alcoholic. Our other friend has discovered that her mother-in-law has a prescription pill problem.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence! 

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This week we discuss gender roles and responsibility’s.  In our opening chatter we discuss the recent verdict in the trial  of the police officer that killed George Floyd as well as the killing of, 15 year old, Makhia Bryant.  What’s on Our Timeline?  The Game’s week long Twitter rant about men providing for women.  For Let’s Talk Through It  we have letters from two of our friends. One friend is a “Tired [Wife]” and  the other is a girlfriend who wants her man to take his name off of bills.  Be sure to listen to hear what we learned new  this week and to be motivate for the week to come.Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!  

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Nicole and Janine discuss  National Geographic’s Genius: Aretha Franklin and how it displays some sad realities of the Black Church.  In this episode they discuss the overlooked sins and the inevitable trauma that can be directly attributed to the Black Church. 

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Nicole and Janine discuss the ongoing feud between Cardi B and Candace Owens, a self proclaimed anti-feminist.   They explore what “feminism” really is.

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Nicole & Janine discuss the Jaxn scandal.  Join the conversation as they delve into mate poaching and staying in a marriage after infidelity. 

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Nicole and Janine talk about blended families and the delicate role of being a stepparent. They discuss how being a step couple can affect a marriage. 

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Nicole and Janine discuss  the viral TikTok from Spunky_brewstah (Nadiyah).  Join the conversation as they discuss cheating and explore what is considered cheating and what isn’t.

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Nicole and Janine discuss the rise in plastic surgery and the fall of the stigma associated with it.  Join the conversation as the ladies discuss getting nipped, tucked and snatched. 

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Nicole and Janine sit down with friend of the pod, Asia Smith to discuss the concept of STASHING while dating. 

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Nicole and Janine sit down with Tyger McClendon, Founder of the Zollie McClendon Memorial Foundation, to discuss teen domestic violence, the signs, and statistics.  

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Nicole and Janine discuss “Challenge Culture.” They discuss the recent trends and why you might want to think twice before you participate in next TikTok challenge. 

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From online scammers to COVID-19, this Valentine’s Day comes with its challenges. Nicole and Janine discuss how to stay safe this Valentine’s Day.  

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Nicole and Janine sit down with Dr. Jasmine Bookert-Arbukle of Diagnose Me Now. The ladies discuss and debunk some of the common COVID conspiracy theories. They also discuss the unfortunate bullying of black doctors who back the science that supports that vaccine.

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The past few weeks have been filled with Insurrection, Impeachment and Inauguration. Although we had a change in administration, it doesn’t mean that they’ve had a change of heart!  Nicole and Janine sit down with Ashanti Smith, the young African American woman who was assaulted, attacked and harassed by a group of Trump supporters on Black Lives Matter Plaza during the United States Capitol Insurrection. 

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Mega Millions, PowerBall and Gambling...what do you do if you win?   Nicole and Janine discuss the massive jackpots and what you should do if you win.  

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Nicole and Janine discuss the Insurrection of the United States Capitol with a special guest Audrey McNeill.    Audrey McNeill is a 28 year law enforcement veteran who served eight years as a Police Officer employed by the Washington D.C. Metropolitan Police Department and 20 years as a Special Agent of the Federal Bureau of Investigation. 

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Nicole and Janine sit down with The Wardrobe Boss, Eliza Parrilla. The ladies explore everything from oversized trousers and white boots to dramatic shoulders and shackets.  Join the conversations as they discuss 2021 fashion trends. They even share tips to make a mean cornbread. 

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Nicole and Janine discuss preparing for the new year and leaving all of the old mess in 2020. They also discuss giving yourself some grace by having realistic expectations for 2021.

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Nicole and Janine discuss the holiday season in the middle of a global pandemic. They share ways to get through the holidays alone without being lonely. They also share ways to reset in anticipation of the new year. 

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Nicole and Janine discuss their personal holiday shopping guides and all of the Black Owned Businesses  that they’re supporting this year.  They’ve got you covered  with gift ideas for children, pets, husbands, and even yourself.  From the  tree, to the kitchen, to the bedroom they're giving you tips and tricks to spark a whole vibe this holiday season.

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Nicole and Janine discuss federal death row inmate  Brandon Bernard as the grapple with the concept of the death penalty and whether or not it’s even humane.

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Nicole and Janine continue the conversation about Body Positivity with Danni of AmaPoundcake.com and Brande of Be-Enough.com. They talk through everyday challenges and struggles and unpack the layers of what it means to be body positive and how it can be achieved.

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Nicole and Janine sit down with Brande Victorian, the founder of BeEnough.com, and Danni (Poundcake), the creator of AmaPoundcake.com, to discuss body image, bodypositivity and body representation. This episode is all about the Body-ody-ody-ody-ody-ody-ody-ody-ody. 

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While 2020 has been a crazy year, there is still so much to be thankful for.  Nicole and Janine discuss the blessings that have come in 2020 despite the circumstances and all of the things that they are thankful for. 

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Much like everything else 2020 Thanksgiving will look different.  Nicole and Janine discuss ways to enjoy Thanksgiving in spite of the pandemic.

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Leading into Transgender Awareness Week and Transgender Day of Remembrance, Nicole and Janine are joined by transgender advocate and activist, Morgan

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Nicole and Janine discuss masturbation and some unusual things that people can and have used to pleasure themselves.  Who needs liquid bandage when you have super glue? 

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Nicole and Janine are joined by clinical therapist, Alexis Young, as they discuss domestic violence and stress the importance of breaking the silence that allows it to perpetuate.

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Nicole and Janine are joined by Crystal Carson, Vice President of Communications, Culture and Media Partnerships at When We All Vote.  When We All Vote  is a non-profit, nonpartisan organization launched in 2018 by co-chairs Michelle Obama, Tom Hanks, Lin-Manuel Miranda, Janelle Monae, Chris Paul, Faith Hill and Tim McGraw.  Join the ladies as they  talk about the importance of not only making sure that you're registered to vote but also how important it is to actually getting out and vote  especially after the record low turnout in 2016. 

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Nicole and Janine sit down with Kerri Conner Matchett, Wife, Mother, Partner, Author and second generation Breast Cancer Survivor.  Join the conversation as the ladies discuss Breast Cancer from clinical trials and caregiving to explaining the journey to your children. 

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Nicole and Janine talk about the celebrity bundles of joy born during the pandemic, the cost of raising children and babies pre and post marriage.

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Nicole and Janine discuss friendship, friendship boundaries and friends with "tendencies". 

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In this week’s conversation Nicole and Janine discuss the monumental loss of Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg more affectionately known as the Notorious RBG! They’re joined by friends Attorney Sacia Fowler and Attorney Lindsey Kanaly the Co-organizers of “March On”, Oklahoma’s Women’s March.  

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Nicole and Janine discuss the killing of Breonna Taylor and how the memeificatioin and lack of progress in the case highlights misogynoir in this country.   Say her name and hers too.  Say the names of all of the hundreds of Black Women who have died at the hands of the police. Continue to say their names until justice is served. 

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Join the ladies as they discuss Niecy Nash’s Nuptial that popped up on their timeline and talk through marrying your best friend and having babies without a man. 

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Nicole and Janine discuss COVID-19 in the midst of a racial pandemic.  Join the conversation and find out  what you should really do if someone in your home catches COVID-19 and explore creative ways to social distance in small spaces.

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Nicole and Janine explore the idea of “Black Girl Code”.  Does Black Girl Code exist or is it just “Girl Code”?  Is it  ever ok to date your friend’s ex?  Can you maintain a friendship with someone who is dating your ex? Is ex swapping acceptable?  The ladies share personal stories as they  peel back the layers explore the idea of “Black Girl Code”.

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Nicole and Janine discuss the 2020 Democratic Ticket: Joe Biden and Kamala Harris.  The ladies examine the praise and critique of  Senator Kamala Harris as she makes history as the first Black woman on a major presidential ticket. They even discuss the importance of the unification of the Divine 9 to help Kamala become  the first Black woman to become the Vice President of the United States. #KHIVE #AKAHIVE #DIvineNine 

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What is W.A.P?  What is Only Fans?  How about Turtle Time? Nicole and Janine discuss Cardi  B’s new single W.A.P featuring Megan Thee Stallion.   Check out this episode as the ladies explore modern examples  of  sexual expression. 

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Nicole and Janine discuss Finding Freedom the upcoming book about Prince Harry and Meghan Markel and explore the intricate relationship between daughters and mother-in-laws. 

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Nicole & Janine are joined by their friend Melissa Macklin Rector, MD who is a double board certified child, adolescent and adult psychiatrist  The ladies explore what mental health looks like in minority communities.

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The Ladies of Oh That's Deep: Black Women Conversations give you a taste of the conversations to come. 

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Ripped from their timeline, Nicole and Janine delve into the murky, gray area of "Entanglement". A term coined by Jada Pinket Smith when she brought herself to the Red Table with husband Will Smith after her tryst with August Alsina.Join the conversation as the ladies discuss Jada Pinket Smith's Entanglement as well as entanglements that they've personally witnessed. #blackwomenconversations

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Nicole and Janine dive into the BLM pandemic and how it affects everything from interracial relationships to the way we raise our children.

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