Equipped To Be is dedicated to helping Christian women discover and develop their gifts, strengths, and talents to navigate all seasons of life. This podcast will inspire you to move forward, even when you think you aren't enough or don't have the right skills to succeed. Connie Albers shares conversations about building relationships, parenting, social media, marriage, homeschooling, faith, challenges we face, and how to navigate them. I've spent 35 years learning about how we are uniquely created for relationships and connections with others, and one of the things I've learned during this time is how few of us know who we are and what we are equipped to be.
Life has a way of changing without warning.
One phone call. One diagnosis. One unexpected conversation. Suddenly, the future you imagined looks very different from the one you're living.
How do you keep moving forward when life doesn't go according to plan? More importantly, how do you lead your family when you're walking through uncertainty yourself?
In this episode, Connie shares how unexpected interruptions reveal what we truly believe, why our children are watching more than we realize, and how God often does His deepest work in the seasons we would never choose. Drawing on her own journey through late-stage Lyme disease and the truths found in Scripture, she offers encouragement for anyone facing a difficult chapter.
If your life has been interrupted by circumstances you didn't choose, this conversation will remind you that while your plans may have changed, God's faithfulness has not.
Read the full show notes with links here: When Life Doesn't Go According to Plan: Leading Your Family Through Unexpected Crisis
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We often hear that the family dinner is disappearing.
Surprisingly, that's not what the latest research shows.
Most families are still finding time to share a meal. The real question is what happens once everyone sits down.
Are phones, busy schedules, and constant distractions quietly replacing conversation? Have family dinners become another place to manage homework, activities, and behavior rather than build relationships?
In this episode, Connie explores what the research reveals about today's family dinner table and why simply eating together isn't enough. She shares practical ways to move beyond checking a box and begin creating meaningful moments of connection, conversation, and belonging.
Because the goal isn't a perfect family dinner.
It's raising children who know they're seen, heard, and valued.
In this episode, you'll learn:
• What recent research reveals about family dinners in America • Why being physically present isn't always the same as being emotionally available • How screens and divided attention are changing family conversations • Simple questions that help children open up naturally • Practical ways to make your dinner table a place where relationships grow
Strong families don't happen by chance. They're formed through intentional leadership, one ordinary meal at a time.
Read the full show notes with links here: Your Family is at the Table. But are You Together?
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You're standing in the kitchen, half-listening while stirring dinner, when your child's voice cuts through the noise: "You don't listen to me." You pause, surprised, maybe even a little hurt, thinking, But I'm listening all the time.
Most parents want to understand their children. They ask questions, give advice, solve problems, and try to guide them in the right direction. But sometimes there is a gap between what a parent hears and what a child is trying to say.
In this episode of Equipped To Be, Connie Albers talks about The Listening Gap and why good, loving parents can still miss the heart behind their child's words. What started as a conversation about listening to teens applies to children of all ages, spouses, friendships, and everyday relationships.
Connie shares practical ways parents can slow down, listen before solving, pay attention to what is not being said, and create the kind of trust that makes a child want to open up again.
Because listening is not just about hearing words. It is about helping your child feel seen, known, and understood.
If you have ever wondered why your child shuts down, pushes back, or says you don't understand, this conversation will help you listen differently and respond with greater wisdom, patience, and connection.
Read the full show notes with links here: Listening Beyond Words: How to Really Hear Your Child
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As America celebrates its 250th birthday, parents have an opportunity to look beyond the fireworks, headlines, and history lessons and ask a deeper question: What kind of children are we raising for the future?
In this episode, Connie Albers talks about why America's next 250 years starts at home. The future of our nation will not only be shaped in Washington, D.C., classrooms, courts, or elections. It will be shaped around kitchen tables, in family conversations, through sibling relationships, in moments of correction, and in the daily ways parents teach children freedom, responsibility, truth, service, and faith.
This conversation will help parents see the powerful role they play in shaping children who can think clearly, love deeply, serve faithfully, and carry responsibility into the future.
Read the full show notes with links here: America's Next 250 Years Starts At Home
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We are living through the greatest childhood experiment in history.
For the first time, children have unlimited access to screens, social media, gaming, AI, and adult ideas. Parents are asking how much screen time is too much. But perhaps the more important question is this:
What kind of childhood are we building while the culture is busy building one for us?
Read the full show notes with links here: What Kind of Childhood Am I Building in a Digital World?
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What happens when the children you raised become adults with lives, homes, marriages, schedules, and decisions of their own?
In this episode of Equipped To Be, Connie Albers talks about one of the tender parts of parenting that few people prepare us for: learning how to let our children go without losing the relationship.
Parents spend years guiding, teaching, correcting, sacrificing, and showing up. But as children grow into adults, the relationship has to change. We are still their parents, but we are no longer parenting them in the same way.
Connie shares what it looks like to move from control to connection, from correction to counsel, and from being needed every day to being trusted over time. She also helps parents understand the difference between being included and expecting access, especially when adult children marry and begin building their own family unit.
If you are raising children now, this conversation will help you think about the kind of relationship you are building for the future. And if your children are already grown, this episode will encourage you to release them with grace while continuing to love them well.
Letting go does not mean losing them. Sometimes, it is the very thing that gives the relationship room to grow.
Read the listener notes with links here: Letting Adult Children Go Without Losing Them
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Have you ever stopped to consider what kind of family you're building?
In this special conversation, my longtime friend Sherri Seligson and I look back on the years we spent raising and homeschooling our children together and share some of the lessons that matter even more now that our children are grown.
It's easy to get caught up in academics, activities, and keeping up with everyone else. But looking back, some of the most important decisions we made had nothing to do with achievement and everything to do with relationships.
In this episode, we talk about why sibling friendships matter more than many parents realize, how shared family experiences help create lasting bonds, and why resisting the pressure to overschedule your children may be one of the best gifts you can give your family.
This isn't a conversation about perfect parenting. It's a conversation between two friends reflecting on what helped build connection, strengthen relationships, and create a family culture that lasts long after the school years are over.
If you've ever wondered what really matters in the long run, this episode is for you.
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Summer is here, and many parents are stepping into it already feeling tired, behind, or unsure of what their children need most.
In this encouraging episode of Equipped To Be, Connie Albers welcomes new listeners and speaks directly to parents who are wrapping up the school year or wondering how to make summer meaningful without turning it into another performance season.
After speaking to hundreds of homeschool families and sharing about the benefits of summer break, Connie reminds parents that summer can be more than a pause from school. It can be a time of rest, reconnection, reflection, and renewed family rhythms.
You'll hear why children need a break from constant output, how simple structure can bring peace without pressure, why summer is a chance to reconnect with your child, and why you do not have to fix everything before the next school year begins.
If you've been asking, "Are we behind?" or "What should summer look like for our family?" this episode will help you slow down, breathe, and focus on what matters most. Even if you work full-time and the children already have weeks planned, you can meet their need for a break this summer.
Summer doesn't have to be another season of pressure. It can become a gift that your family receives together.
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Mom overload is real. And too many moms are carrying more than they were ever meant to carry alone.
Between raising children, managing the house, meeting everyone's needs, keeping up with schedules, and trying to hold your family together emotionally, it can feel like there is never enough of you to go around. You keep showing up, but inside you may feel exhausted, scattered, irritable, or one hard day away from breaking.
In this episode, Connie Albers speaks directly to the weary mom who loves her family deeply but feels stretched thin. You'll learn how to recognize the warning signs of burnout, release unrealistic expectations, create margin in your day, and stop carrying guilt for needing rest.
With practical encouragement and faith-filled wisdom, Connie reminds you that you don't have to do it all, carry it all, or prove you are strong enough. God sees you, cares for you, and will give you strength for the next step.
Take a deep breath, mama. Mom overload doesn't have to crush you.
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Many women are surrounded by people but still feel deeply lonely. They serve, lead, parent, work, and care for everyone around them, yet still wonder why real friendship feels so hard to find. In this episode, Connie talks with Becky Harling, author of Friend-Wise, about how to build meaningful friendships through listening, empathy, humility, and intentional connection.
We also talk about why meaningful friendship can feel so difficult in today's busy, distracted world and how learning to listen, show empathy, and be intentional can help us build the kind of relationships our hearts need.
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Most believers don't struggle with whether God speaks. People struggle to know if they're actually hearing Him.
In this episode of Chosen by God, Connie sits down with Rachael Groll for an honest conversation about what it really means to recognize God's voice in the middle of everyday life.
Not in the quiet moments alone. But in decisions, doubts, parenting, pressure, and the weight of wanting to get it right.
Because underneath so many questions is one that doesn't get said out loud:
"What if I miss Him?"
Together, they unpack:
This isn't about chasing a feeling or waiting for a perfect answer.
It's about becoming the kind of person who can recognize His voice— and trust Him enough to follow it.
If you've ever second-guessed a decision, questioned what you're sensing, or quietly wondered if you're doing this whole "hearing God" thing right, this conversation will encourage you.
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There's a lie a lot of parents are carrying, and it's wearing them out.
It sounds responsible. It sounds loving. It even sounds right.
But it's not.
It says: If I just try harder, stay on top of everything, catch every change in my child, I can keep things from going off track.
So you stay alert.
You overthink conversations after they happen.
You try to read moods, prevent problems, smooth things out before they escalate.
But the problem is, it never lets up.
Because deep down, you know—you can't actually control most of what you're trying to manage.
That's where the exhaustion is coming from.
In this episode, I'm not going to give you a list of tips or tell you to "just rest more." That's not the problem.
I'm going to name the lie that's driving the pressure, show you how it quietly reshapes your parenting, and help you step out of it without stepping away from your responsibility as a parent.
Because there's a difference between being engaged and being overextended.
Between leading your child and trying to carry everything for them.
And if you don't see the difference, you'll keep running hard in a direction that never actually gives you peace.
If you've been feeling tired in a way sleep doesn't fix, this is why.
You don't have to be an exhausted parent!
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When your adult child pulls away, it can feel like something in your life has quietly broken. You struggle with heartbreak, confusion, and a strong desire to make things right again. You notice the conversations change, the connection shifts, and you're left holding questions you never thought you'd have to ask.
What happened? What do I do now? Will this ever be restored?
If you're walking through distance, silence, or estrangement with your child, I want you to hear me:
You are not alone. And this is not beyond repair.
In this episode, I'm walking you through what research actually shows about why estrangement happens and, more importantly, what begins to repair it. Because many of the instincts parents have in this season, while understandable, often push the relationship further away.
We're going to talk about what actually helps.
How trust is rebuilt. Why emotional safety matters more than being right. And what it looks like to stay steady when everything in you wants to fix it quickly.
This situation is not about quick answers or perfect conversations. It took time to get to this point; it will take time to restore and mend the fractures.
We want to focus on becoming the kind of parent your adult child can move toward again.
And if you're carrying the deeper fear, "What if they never come back?"
We'll address that too. Because even in the silence, God is still at work. In you. In them. And in the story that's still unfolding.
Don't lose hope. Join me if you or someone you know is living
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Train Your Kids to Thrive in an AI World
The world your kids are growing up in? It won't reward them for what they know. It will reward them for how they think, how they relate, and how they respond under pressure.
And most parents aren't preparing them for that.
In this eye-opening conversation, Connie Albers sits down with Jonathan Brush to challenge the outdated definition of success—and replace it with something far more enduring.
Because thriving in an AI-driven world isn't about keeping up with technology. It's about developing the kind of character and capability technology can't replace.
In this episode, you'll learn how to raise children who: • Take full responsibility instead of making excuses • Build strong, meaningful relationships in a digital world • Become extraordinary in the ordinary moments of life • Know how to create real value wherever they go • Stay resilient when life doesn't go as planned
If you've felt the pressure to "get it right" in a rapidly changing world, this episode will steady you and refocus you on what actually matters.
Because the goal isn't to raise kids who succeed on paper. It's to raise kids who can stand firm, think clearly, and thrive; no matter what comes next
Read the full show notes with links here: Train Kids to Thrive in an AI World with Jonathan Brush
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There is a question I'm asked often: How do you actually build a strong family?
It sounds simple, but when you're living it day to day, it can feel anything but.
In my conversation with Sally Clarkson, we step back and talk about what really shapes a family over time. Hint: It's not the quick fixes, the pressure from culture, but the decisions we made, long before we knew how they would turn out.
We talk about:
One of the things Sally said that you need to remember: every family has its own puzzle.
That means you don't have to copy someone else's model, but you do need to be intentional about building your own.
If you've been feeling pulled in too many directions or wondering if what you're doing is really making a difference, this conversation will help you step back, refocus, and remember what matters most.
Because a strong family isn't built all at once. It's shaped over time, by the decisions you keep making.
You don't want to miss this episode.
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Most of motherhood happens where no one is looking.
The folded laundry. The repeated meals. The quiet moments where you choose patience instead of frustration.
And if you're honest, it can make you wonder: Does any of this really matter?
In this episode, Connie Albers brings clarity to one of the most overlooked truths in parenting:
The work you feel is invisible is actually the work shaping your child the most.
With warmth and authentic authority, Connie unpacks what truly forms a child's heart and why the small, consistent, unseen moments matter far more than the big ones the world celebrates.
You'll discover:
If you've ever felt unseen, overlooked, or unsure if you're doing enough, this episode will steady you and remind you of what is true.
Because you're not just managing a home.
You are shaping a life. One unseen moment at a time.
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Your children don't just hear your words; they feel what you carry.
Even when you try to hide your stress. Even when you think you're holding it together.
They feel it, and it shapes how safe their world feels.
In this episode, we're taking a deeper look at how stress affects children and why your emotional state becomes the environment your child grows up in. Not to add pressure, but to give you clarity and a way forward.
Because you don't have to remove every stressor in your life to raise peaceful, calm, secure kids.
But you do need to understand how what you carry gets carried by them.
I'll walk you through: • how children absorb stress (even when nothing is said) • what your child is really asking during chaotic seasons • why emotional regulation starts with you • simple, practical ways to create stability inside your home
This is not about being a perfect parent.
It's about becoming a steady one.
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Something has shifted in childhood.
Parents feel it, but most can't quite explain it.
Conversations are happening earlier. Pressure is showing up sooner. And the pace of childhood feels like it's speeding up right in front of us.
So parents are left wondering:
Is Childhood Disappearing? Or are we raising children in a completely different world?
In this powerful episode, Connie Albers names what many are experiencing but few are able to articulate.
She introduces a framework called The Age of Acceleration, and unpacks the five forces quietly re-shaping childhood today.
You'll begin to see:
But this episode doesn't just explain the shift.
It helps you understand your role within it.
Because when you can name what's happening, something changes.
You stop second-guessing. You stop reacting to the chaos. And you start leading your family with clarity again.
Childhood isn't disappearing.
But it is being reshaped.
And when you understand how, you can raise children who are steady, even in a world that isn't.
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Have you noticed how often adults disagree with each other now?
People are losing trust in authority. Teachers say one thing. Experts say another. Social media says something completely different. And quietly, many parents are asking a question they never expected to ask:
Who is shaping our children right now and can I protect them?
Children may not follow the headlines or cultural debates, but they do feel the confusion around them. And when authority outside the home becomes uncertain, they instinctively look to the people closest to them for direction.
Which means something important is happening right now. The world our children are growing up in is changing and we need to slow things down.
For generations, parents could rely on the authority of the institutions around them. Schools reinforced what families taught at home. Communities shared similar expectations. Experts were generally trusted voices of guidance.
But today, many parents sense that something feels different, and they are concerned.
Experts disagree publicly. Cultural expectations are shifting quickly. And the voices shaping our children's thinking seem louder and more numerous than ever before.
So where does that leave parents?
In this episode of Equipped To Be, Connie Albers explores why parents must lead more intentionally in a culture where authority is increasingly distrusted and societal norms are breaking apart. Children may not understand the cultural shifts happening around them, but they absolutely feel the uncertainty.
And when the world feels confusing, they instinctively look to the people closest to them.
You, their parents!
Connie shares why the home has never been more important and how parents can create stability for their children even when the culture around them feels unsettled.
When authority outside the home weakens, the influence of parents does not shrink: it grows.
Read the full show notes with links here: What Parents Must Lead More in a Culture Losing Authority
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Parents have always faced challenges raising children. But today's parents are doing it in a world moving faster than any generation before.
Technology evolves overnight. Cultural conversations shift in months instead of decades. Information reaches our children instantly, long before they have the maturity to process it.
Many parents quietly wonder:
Why does parenting feel harder than it used to?
In this episode of Equipped To Be, Connie Albers explores what it means to raise children in what she calls the Age of Acceleration — a time when the pace of change is reshaping childhood, attention, identity, and emotional development.
Drawing on research, cultural insight, and her experience as a mother of five and grandmother of four, Connie explains why children today often feel pressure earlier, distraction more intensely, and anxiety more deeply than previous generations.
But this episode is not about fear.
It's about clarity.
Inside this conversation, you'll discover:
• Why the speed of modern life is affecting children's development • What research is revealing about screen exposure and attention • Why more information does not always mean more maturity • The three anchors children need in a rapidly changing world • How parents can create steadiness even when culture accelerates
While we cannot slow the world around us, we can set the pace of our homes.
And when children grow up with stability, identity, and thoughtful guidance, they learn how to walk steadily in an unstable world.
This episode begins a new conversation about parenting in the Age of Acceleration — and how families can raise resilient children in the fastest era in history.
Read the full show notes with links here: Raising Kids in the Fastest Era in History
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Headlines move fast. Children grow slowly.
Over the last six years, I've had a front-row seat to cultural whiplash from sitting under studio lights during breaking news cycles, watching educational systems shift overnight, witnessing technology accelerate faster than most parents could process, and hearing from thousands of families asking the same quiet question:
"Am I doing this right?"
So much has changed.
The speed. The noise. The anxiety. The pressure.
And yet, the core needs of children have not.
In this milestone episode, I share what six years in TV and running the podcast have taught me about raising children in changing times — what truly shapes a child, what headlines get wrong, and how to lead your home without getting consumed by every cultural spike.
Because headlines don't raise children.
Formation does.
If you've felt distracted, unsettled, or unsure lately, this episode will help you see through the noise and refocus on what actually matters.
Read the full show notes with links here: Headline Don't Raise Children They Distract You
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Why does one negative comment replay in your mind for hours, while ten kind words disappear?
If you've ever felt undone by criticism, this episode will explain exactly why it happens and how to regain your peace.
In this episode, Connie unpacks the science behind the negativity bias and why the brain is wired to remember criticism more than praise. Research supports what the Bible teaches: negative comments register as emotional threats, which is why they stick, replay, and feel heavier than they should, particularly in parenting.
In this episode, we explore:
If you're tired of replaying negative comments or wondering how to stop overthinking criticism, this conversation will bring clarity and calm.
You are not too sensitive. Your brain is protective. And there is a reliable, biblical way to redirect your thoughts and restore peace.
Listen in for neuroscience, faith, and practical tools to handle criticism without losing your confidence as a parent.
Read the full show notes with links here: Why A Critical Comment Ruins Your Day
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Stop Caring About What Other Parents Think!!! One comment. One look. One passing opinion. And suddenly you're replaying the moment in your head, questioning a decision you felt fine about just hours ago.
If you've ever driven home from church, co-op, a family gathering, or even scrolled social media and thought, Why did that bother me so much?—this episode is for you.
Parents are told all the time to "just stop caring what others think." But that advice rarely works. Not because you're insecure, but because it misunderstands how humans are wired and how parenting pressure actually shows up in real life.
In this episode, Connie talks honestly about why other parents' opinions carry so much weight, why certain comments stick longer than they should, and why trying to toughen up or shut down emotionally often makes things worse. You'll learn what's really happening in your brain, the quiet mistake parents make when they try not to care, and what actually helps you stay steady when opinions get loud.
This isn't about becoming defensive or dismissive. It's about learning how to care wisely, without second-guessing yourself at every turn.
If you're tired of feeling shaken by what other parents say or think, and you want to parent with more confidence, clarity, and peace, this conversation will meet you right where you are.
For listener notes and episode download links here: Stop Caring About What Other Parents Think
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If you're a mom today, chances are you've asked yourself some version of this question: "Why does my child melt down over the smallest things; and what am I supposed to do in the moment?"
You're not alone. Parents are overwhelmed by big emotions, unpredictable reactions, and advice that sounds good in theory but falls apart in real life. Being told to "use your words" in the middle of a meltdown rarely works. Ignoring behavior feels wrong. And consequences without connection often make things worse.
What parents are really looking for are strategies that work in kitchens, cars, grocery stores, and bedrooms at bedtime, not just in parenting books. Let's talk about what actually helps children regulate their emotions, why it works, and how you can use it consistently in everyday moments.
In today's episode of Equipped To Be Connie covers: How to Regulate Your Emotions, Relate to Your Child, So You Can Redirect Your Child.
-->Behavior Is Communication, Not Defiance
Before any strategy can help, parents need one stabilizing reframe.
-->Big Emotions Are a Signal, Not a Character Flaw
Emotional regulation always starts with the parent.
-->A Dysregulated Parent Cannot Regulate a Dysregulated Child
-->Relate Before You Redirect
Connection is what opens the door to cooperation.
-->Naming Feelings Helps the Brain Settle
-->Redirect with Clear, Simple Expectations
When emotions run high, less language is more effective. Tune in for more practical ways to help you learn the best way to redirect your child in the middle of meltdowns and outbursts without losing your cool.
Read the full show notes with links here: Regulate Your Emotions Before Redirecting Your Child
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Why does parenting feel harder, even when you're trying more?
If you're exhausted, overwhelmed, and wondering why your usual strategies aren't working anymore, this episode will give you clarity, not guilt.
In this episode, parenting expert Connie Albers explains why trying harder often makes parenting harder, especially during seasons of stress and burnout. Many parents assume the problem is a lack of motivation, discipline, or consistency, but the real issue is often an overloaded family system.
You'll learn:
This episode is for overwhelmed parents who want to lead their families with clarity, confidence, and calm authority, without adding more rules, guilt, or unrealistic expectations.
If parenting stress has left you feeling depleted, discouraged, or stuck in cycles that no longer work, this conversation will help you understand what's actually happening. And learn what you can do next.
Because strong families aren't built by pushing harder. They're built through steadiness.
Read the full show notes with links here: Why Trying Harder Can Make Parenting Harder
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When everything feels loud, urgent, and demanding a reaction, the real danger isn't chaos: it's losing your orientation.
In this episode, "Staying Calm and Oriented in Chaotic Times", Connie Albers speaks to parents, leaders, and others who rely on them when pressure rises. This is not a conversation about coping or calming feelings. It's about learning how grounded people remain steady when circumstances don't improve, and clarity feels harder to access.
You'll learn why chaos targets the nervous system before it ever touches logic, how urgency pushes people into fear-based decisions, and why calm is not a passive state but a practiced capacity. Connie explains what it actually means to stay regulated under pressure, and why peace is not a reward for solved problems, but information that guides wise action.
This episode reframes calm as internal steadiness rather than emotional escape, and offers a clear mental architecture for remaining oriented when others panic. If you carry responsibility, make decisions that affect others, or want to lead without fracturing relationships, this conversation will leave you clearer, steadier, and more grounded than when you began.
You don't need life to settle to stay calm. You need internal anchors, and this episode helps you build them.
Read the full show notes with links here: Staying Calm and Oriented in Chaotic Times
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Motivation does not last. That is not failure; it is a human design reality.
Most people quit not because the goal was wrong, but because they misread the moment when feelings fade, and effort becomes costly.
This episode of Equipped To Be with Connie Albers addresses that exact point.
In How to Keep Going When Motivation is Gone, Connie unpacks what actually sustains progress when your internal energy disappears. This is not about trying harder or waiting to feel inspired again.
It is about understanding what governs continuity when motivation can no longer lead.
Let's have an honest conversation about:
*Why motivation was never meant to carry long-term work
*How to recognize the difference between discouragement and misalignment
*What must take over when feelings stop working
*How to manage your expectations so you don't quietly quit
*One stabilizing practice that prevents daily renegotiation
This show is for any woman standing in the threshold where resolve feels thin, and continuation requires self-governance. If you are tempted to stop, not dramatically, but quietly, this conversation will steady you and show you how to keep going.
Read the full show notes with links here: How to Keep Going When Your Motivation Is Gone
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Have you looked at your life and thought, Nothing is technically wrong, so why does everything feel like too much?
You're doing what needs to be done. You're showing up, being responsible, and holding things together.
So why do you feel so tired?
In this episode, Connie Albers speaks to the quiet exhaustion so many moms are carrying right now. The invisible emotional weight that builds when life stays loud, demanding, and uncertain for too long. This isn't about failure or burnout. It's about what happens when capable, faithful people carry more than they are meant to hold.
You'll learn that overwhelm doesn't mean something is wrong with you, how emotional clutter accumulates over time, and why pushing harder rarely brings peace. Connie introduces a softer, wiser way forward. One rooted in alignment over effort and learning to listen to peace as information.
If you're staring this year feeling worn, discouraged, or quietly overwhelmed, this episode will help you understand why, and remind you that calm doesn't come from fixing everything, but from learning what no longer needs to be carried.
Read the full show notes with links here: Why Does Everything Feel Like Too Much and What You Can Do?
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Pushing forward or letting go? Learn how to discern whether resistance is growth or God closing a door.
Have you ever wondered if you're supposed to keep pushing, or if God is gently asking you to let go?
Most of us face this question more often than we admit, especially in parenting, education, homeschooling, relationships, work, and ministry. We're told to persevere, to be faithful, not to quit too soon. And yet, sometimes the most faithful step forward is surrender.
In this week's episode of Equipped To Be with Connie Albers, she talks about how to discern whether a struggle is an obstacle meant to strengthen you or a closed door meant to protect and redirect you.
We'll walk through:
If you've been wrestling with uncertainty or feeling stuck, my hope is that this episode brings clarity, reassurance, and peace to your heart.
You don't have to force every door to move. God is faithful to guide you, sometimes through perseverance and sometimes through redirection.
Consider how God is leading you.
Read and listen here: Obstacle or Closed Doors: How is God Leading You
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Choose connection over protection this holiday season. Simple hospitality, peaceful hosting, and meaningful memories that start right at home.
The holidays whisper an incitation we all feel: Make it beautiful, make it memorable, make it perfect for the people you love. As moms, we want our homes to sparkle, our meals to be delicious, and our gatherings to feel magical. But somewhere between the planning, preparing, and performing, we lose the very thing we're craving most: connection.
In this episode, we explore Holiday Hosiptiality: Connection Over Perfection, a life-giving shift that reminds us that welcoming others into our home doesn't have to be exhausting, elaborate, or picture-perfect. True hospitality isn't about polished details: it's about presence, peace, laughter, conversation, and belonging.
You'll hear encouragement, relatable stories, and practical ways to host with ease and warmth.
Learn:
If you long for gatherings that feel relaxed, joyful, and spiritually grounding, without the holiday overwhelm, this episode is your invitation to simplify and welcome others with peace.
Because at the end of the night, people won't remember spotless countertops, intricate centerpieces, or homemade desserts. They'll remember how your home felt, how you made them feel, and the simple gift of being together.
Read the full show notes with links here: Holiday Hospitality: Connection Over Perfection
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The Holiday Moments Your Kids Will Remember Most (And How You Can Create More of Them)
Ever wonder what your kids will actually remember about the holiday season? Spoiler alert: it's not the things we spend most of our time stressing over.
In this heartwarming episode of Equipped To Be with Connie Albers, I'm sharing what truly stays with your children: the small, simple, everyday moments that make them feel loved, seen, and connected. You'll discover why the warmth of the home matters more than the decor, how tiny traditions become lifelong anchors, and why you can let go of perfection without sacrificing anything meaningful.
This episode will help you:
If you want a holiday season filled with more joy and less stress, this episode is for you.
Here are links to the podcast and listener notes with links: Holiday Moments Your Children will Remember
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10 Gratitude Habits For Happy Moms.
Motherhood is a beautiful blend of noise, needs, and never-ending responsibilities. Some mornings start before the sun rises, with the dishwasher humming and kids already calling your name. And before you know it, the weight of the day settles on your shoulder.
But gratitude has a quiet way of lifting the heaviness.
Not by removing the chaos, but by softening our hearts in the middle of it.
This episode of Equipped To Be with Connie Albers I focus on ten simple gratitude habits that can shift the atmosphere of your home and help moms fell lighter and more grounded.
Motherhood will always be full, but gratitude helps you carry it with a little more peace, joy, and perspective. When you slow down enough to notice God's goodness, even in the middle of everyday chaos, your whole home feels the difference.
Which habit do you want to start with today?
Where did you see God this week?
What "small joy" did you notice today?
"Gratitude isn't denying the hard moments, it's discovering where God's goodness is quietly waiting for you in them." Connie Albers
Read the full show notes with links here: 10 Gratitude Habits For Happy Moms
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When children have big emotions, they aren't being "dramatic"; they're revealing something happening inside that they can't yet name, regulate, or express in mature ways.
Shepherding a child through that requires both emotional attunement and calm leadership. Join me today to learn a research-based framework that aligns with a faith-anchored, relational approach.
If you've ever had a child who feels everything deeply: joy, sadness, frustration, excitement. You know those moments can stretch you as a parent. You might wonder, 'Why can't they just calm down?' But what if those big emotions aren't something to fix, they're something to shepherd?
Read the full show notes with links here: Shepherding a Child with Big Emotions
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Hey, Friend. Everywhere you look, moms are holding it all together, on the outside. But beneath the surface, many are running on empty. Between the constant pull of family needs, financial pressures, and the quiet ache of exhaustion, it's no wonder that so many mothers are asking, "Am I the only one who feels this way?"
In this honest episode of Equipped To Be, Connie Albers opens a real conversation about the top five struggles moms are facing right now, from invisible mental load and rising anxiety to screen fatigue, caregiving stress, and the challenge of finding peace in a world that NEVER slows down.
Through real-life insights and gentle encouragement, Connie helps you name what feels heavy, understand why it feels so hard, and find a bit of peace in the middle of the chaos. Because before we can find solutions, we have to start by saying the truth out loud: motherhood is beautiful, but some days, it's just plain hard.
You'll find practical steps, biblical truths, and a reminder that strength doesn't come from having it all figured out. It comes from knowing where your hope and help come from.
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What Happened to Manners?
Somewhere between the rise of social media and the rush of modern life, common courtesy lost its footing. What once felt natural -- saying hello to a neighbor, waiting your turn, offering a genuine apology -- now feels like an interruption to our constant hurry.
Scroll through almost any comment section today, and you'll see it: sarcasm, insults, shouting in all caps. Rudenss is everywhere. Our children see it every day in the way adults speak online, how students talk to teachers, and even how drivers behave on the road. They're growing up in a culture that often rewards the quick comeback over the kind word, the bold opinion over the thoughtful pause.
It's no wonder so many parents tell me, "My child isn't trying to be rude; they just don't know what respect looks like anymore."
Somewhere along the way, we stopped modeling what it means to disagree without dishonoring, to speak truth with grace, or to show kindness when it's not convenient.
But here's what I've learned: manners haven't disappeared; they've evolved. What used to mean holding a door or saying "please" and "thank you" has expanded to how we treat people behind a screen and how we demonstrate empathy in a fast, distracted world.
Today, manners are about heart posture, the daily choice to treat others with respect, even when culture doesn't. True respect isn't outdated. It's countercultural. And when we model it in our homes, our children learn that kindness isn't weakness, it's quiet strength.
In this episode (or post), I'm talking about raising respectful kids in a disrespectful world, and how to refresh the idea of manners so they fit the world our children are actually living in.
Read the full show notes with links here: Raising Respectful Kids in a Disrespectful World
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Every parent struggles with discipline. You want your child to listen, learn, and grow, but you don't want to damage the relationship in the process. The tension between correction and connection can leave even the best parents feeling unsure, frustrated, or guilty.
In this episode of Equipped To Be, Connie Albers shares how discipline, when done with love and wisdom, can actually strengthen, not strain, the bond between parent and child.
You'll learn:
Discipline isn't about control; it's about relationship, growth, and teaching your child to make wise choices that last a lifetime.
Tune in and learn how to bring both grace and guidance into your parenting so discipline becomes an act of love, not frustration.
"Correction without connection breeds rebellion, but correction anchored in relations breeds respect." ~ Connie Albers
Read the full show notes with links here: Discipline The Builds Connection
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Mom burnout is on the rise. The outside pressure to be perfect, the expectations we place on ourselves, and the never-ending load of managing life are overwhelming. If we aren't careful, they will lead to burnout. But what if I told you you can avoid burnout by knowing what to do?
Maybe today is the day you:
Give yourself permission to pause.
Let go of something that's draining you.
Set a small boundary to protect your energy.
Choose rest, even if it feels unproductive.
Join me to discuss how you can stay refreshed and avoid burnout.
Read the full show notes with links here: How to Avoid Mom Burnout
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Do you ever feel the next busy season approaching before it even arrives? The calendar fills up, your energy drains, and the peace starts slipping through your fingers.
In this episode, Connie Albers invites you to pause and discover why rest isn't wasted time. It's a scared preparation.
Connie shares how to recognize when your heart is running on empty, identify what's truly draining you, and build rhythms of rest that restore your soul instead of depleting it.
You'll hear stories from Connie's season of burnout and renewal, along with faith-filled encouragement and practical tips for finding peace before life speeds up again.
Read the full show notes with links here: Rest Before the Rush: Preparing Your Heart For What's Next
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What if your words meant to encourage are quietly wounding your child's heart?
In this episode, Connie Albers reveals how even subtle comparisons can damage your child's confidence, and what you should do instead.
You love your kids. But comparison can still sneak in and hurt more than you realize. Discover how to stop comparing, start connecting, and create a lasting relationship with your child.
Read the full show notes with links here: Stop Comparing, Start Connecting
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Every mom wrestles with hidden lies: "I'm not enough." "Other moms have it all together." "If I were stronger, I wouldn't feel this overwhelmed."
These quiet whispers can steal our peace, drain our joy, and convice us that we're failing at the very thing we care about most, our families.
In this episode of Equipped To Be, Connie Albers genlty unpacks three lies that so many moms believe and replaces them with life-giving truth. With stories you'll relate to, Scripture you can stand on, and encouragement you can carry into your week, this conversation will remind you that you are uniquely equipped, deeply loved, and never walking this journey alone.
If you have been feeling the weight of stress, guilt, or comparison, this episode is your invitation to trade those lies for truth and step into the freedom that Had has for you.
Join me is finding peace, confidence, and joy in your motherhood journey
Read the full show notes with links here: Lies Moms Believe and The Truths That Set Us Free
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Cultivate Healthy Habits In Your Home
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Motherhood is often filled with unseen moments: packing lunches, wiping tears, praying late at night, that rarely get recognition. Yet these hidden acts are the very heartbeats of love that shape your child's future and build a legacy that lasts.
In this encouraging episode of Equipped To Be with Connie Albers, Connie reminds you that the small things you do every day matter more than you realize. She'll share why motherhood is a high calling, how your unseen work makes a lasting impact, and why you're doing better than you think.
~Connie
Read the full show notes with links here: The Beautiful Unseen Work of Motherhood
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How do you talk to your children about tragedy when the world feels more divided than ever? They don't need you to have all the answers; they need you to be their safe place. Today, I'll show you how.
When tragedy strikes, like the recent shooting of Charlie Kirk and other violent acts, it can feel impossible to know what to say to your kids. Do you protect them? Do you explain everything? Or do you simply sit and listen?
In this episode, parenting/family expert Connie Albers shares how to guide your children through hard news without letting fear take root. Drawing from her own experience walking her children through 9/11, Connie offers parents practical steps to help kids feel safe, heal from fear, and anchor their hearts in the hope found in Scripture.
You'll learn how to:
Your children don't need perfect answers when tragedies hit close to home. They need YOU.
Tune in to this show for helpful tips that you can use right now and in the future.
Read the full show notes with links here: Helping Kids Process Tragedy Without Fear
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Is Gentle parenting dissolving or evolving? For years, this approach to raising kids, built on empathy, respect, and emotional awareness, has been the go-to model for modern parents. But now, many moms and dads are asking: Does Gentle Parenting go too far? No, many are saying it just isn't working. Without clear boundaries, can children truly learn responsiblity, resilience, and respect for authority?
If you've ever felt guilty for losing your patience or wondered if you're being too soft or too strict, this episode is for you. I'll explain the growing pushback against Gentle Parenting, the everyday struggles parents face trying to stay calm and patient, and why the pressure to 'always be gentle' can leave families feeling exhausted.
More importantly, you learn practical ways to keep the connection and compassion you love, while adding back the structure, firmness, and logical consequences kids need to thrive.
Gentle Parenting isn't collapsing; it's changing. Tune in and find out why the next chapter of parenting may be stronger than ever.
Read the full show notes with links here: Is Gentle Parenting Dissolving or Evolving?
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Raising kids today isn't easy. Everywhere they turn -- school, media, friendships -- culture is shaping what they believe about truth, identity, and faith. As parents, we wonder: Will my child know what they believe and stand firm when it matters most?
In this episode of Equipped To Be, Connie Albers unpacks how to help your children build a biblical worldview, ask deeper faith questions, and think critically about the confusing messages they face every day. You'll discover practical ways to model truth, respect differences without compromise, and lead your kids with both grace and confidence.
If you've ever worried about how to raise kids who stay strong in their faith in a culture that feels upside down, this conversation is for you.
Press play now and learn how to raise kids who stay strong in their faith in a confused culture.
Read the full show notes with links here: Equipping Kids With A Biblical Worldview
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Why are so many moms stepping back from work or cutting back on their hours to be home more? Since Covid, families have seen firsthand how culture shifts, eroding trust in insitiutions, and the rising struggles of children have reshaped what "success" looks like. In this episode of Equipped To Be, Connie Albers unpacks three powerful reasons moms are choosing to be home with their children, and why this decision matters more now than ever.
You'll learn:
Whether you're a working mom, stay-at-home mom, homeschool mom, or somewhere in between, this episode will challenge your perspective and remind you of the impact your presence has.
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Have you noticed how often AI slips into your conversations lately? Maybe your friend brings it up, or your text message asks if you want AI help, or you use Grammarly to check your email for errors. Let's face it, how we conduct business, manage our homes, and do research is changing.
AI is everywhere, from your inbox to your dinner table. But does it really make life easier, or is it quietly leading us astray? In this episode, you learn the pros, cons, and everyday truths about using AI. I'll even share my own experience and how it ultimately turned out to be. Plus, I'll give you practical tips to help you understand how to use it wisely.
~Connie
Read the full show notes with links here: The Pros, Cons, and Everyday Truths of Using AI
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The music was loud, the crowd was electric...then everything stopped.
Latin superstar Maluma put down the mic, pointed into the audience, and called out a mother, not for dancing, not for causing trouble, but for holding a baby. A baby with no ear protection.
What happened next sparked a worldwide discussion: How loud is too loud for your child's ears?
In this episode, I'm talking about a moment that has millions of parents talking, and the truth could save your child from permanent hearing loss. You'll learn why children's ears are so vulnerable, what most parents don't know about sound levels, and the simple steps that can protect a lifetime of hearing. Whether you're a concert fan, a sports enthusiast, or just someone who loves family outings, what you'll hear today may change how you plan your next event.
You don't want to miss this episode!
Read the full show notes with links here: Too Loud For Little Ears? Protecting Kids Hearing
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Easing Back-to-School Blues: Helping Your Child Feel Safe, Connected, and Confident
Is your child feeling nervous about returning to school? Maybe they are worried about fitting in, afraid they won't know the material, or concerned about change.
In this heartfelt episode of Equipped To Be, I'm sharing practical ways you can prepare your children for a smooth start to a new school year: emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. You'll learn how to calm their fears, about making new friends, what to do when they feel behind, how to help them feel safe, and how to manage their fears about change.
Whether your child is starting kindergarten, beginning middle school, or starting homeschooling, this episode will give you useful conversation starters and truths to consider to help your child thrive this year.
You don't want to miss this episode!
Read the full show notes with links here: Easing Back to School Anxiety: Help Your Child Feel Confident, Safe, and Connected
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It's hard to gain perspective and see beauty in the middle of the mess. But that, my friend, is where beauty is built—one moment at a time.
We want things tidy. We want order. We want harmony. Although they are possible to achieve, the journey is where true beauty is discovered while we traverse each day.
There is value in the mess, and God uses it to build family bonds that last a lifetime.
Remember, Motherhood is the ministry of showing up. God is looking for your willingness and obedience, not your perfection.
"Beautiful things are rarely tidy. They are built over time. Sown in mess, grown with grit, and harvested in faith." Connie Albers
Read the full show notes with links here: Find Beauty in the Mess
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Are your daily habits helping you thrive, or merely helping you get by?
In today's episode, we'll discuss the five expert-recommended daily practices, and then go deeper into the five most overlooked, but life-changing habits that often go unnoticed, like creating micro-moments of awe, to speaking life over yourself and your loved ones
This episode will equip you to build rhythms that support healthier, more purposeful family life.
Read the full show notes with links here: Cultivating Healthy Daily Habits and Why It Matters
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What does it take to raise boys to become godly men in a culture that's lost its way? In this powerful episode, I'm joined by Mark Hancock, CEO of Trail Life USA, to tackle one of the most pressing issues of our time.
Together, we discuss the struggles boys face: apathy, digital distractions, and the confusion surrounding manhood. Mark shares practical, biblical insights to guide your son toward strength, integrity, and godly purpose.
Your son was created for more than virtual victories. He was made to become a man of God.
Don't miss this timely episode filled with wisdom, hope, and tools you can start using today.
Read the full show notes with links here: Parenting Boys with Mark Hancock.
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Are we giving kids every opportunity, or are we giving them too much?
In this episode of Equipped To Be, I'm tackling the rising concern that parents quietly wrestle with: Are my kids overscheduled? From soccer games to music lessons, from tutoring to youth group, it's easy to believe that more activities equal success. But what if a jam-packed calendar is doing more harm than good?
You'll learn the hidden signs that your child might be stretched too thin, how overscheduling impacts their mental and emotional health, and why free play is more powerful than we realize. You'll also walk away with simple, grace-filled strategies to create a more balanced rhythm in your home.
If you've ever felt tension between opportunity and overwhelm, this episode will remind you that less can really be more.
Let's create a childhood that makes space for joy and fun!
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Have you ever thought, "I don't want to parent the way I was parented, but I don't know what the alternative looks like?" You're not alone. While there are several parenting models out there, Gentle Parenting is gaining popularity.
In this episode, I'm unpacking the Gentle Parenting movement: what it is, why so many parents are drawn to it, and how it aligns with biblical principles of shepherding a child's heart.
It's not about:
I'll discuss the desire parents have to shift from control to connection, the power of empathy in discipline, and how you can transform your relationship with your child.
Whether you're curious or already committed to parenting with gentleness and grace, this episode will encourage and equip you with practical steps and hope-filled truth.
Listen in to learn why rules may guide behavior, but relationship shapes the heart.
Read the full show notes with links here: 7 Reasons Parents Are Choosing Gentle Parenting
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Parenting with AI? What AI tools can, and can't, do in making parenting decisions!
In this eye-opening episode of Equipped To Be, I'm explaining the growing trend of moms and dads using AI tools like ChatGPT for parenting advice, emotional support, and even discipline strategies. It's fast, convenient, and always available. But at what cost?
I'm sharing the real research behind this growing trend, what experts are applauding, and what they are sounding the alarm about. From easing the mental load to concerns about over-reliance, misinformation, and emotional detachment, this episode doesn't shy away from hard questions parents must consider.
If you've ever asked AI to write a bedtime story, a behavior fix, or a meal plan, this one is for you. Because the tools we use to parent matter.
Tune in:
This show will challenge how you think about parenting in a digital age.
Read the full show notes with links here: Is AI the New Parenting Expert?
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While many moms are feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, and discouraged, some are quietly thriving. What are they doing differently, and how can you, too?
In this heartfelt episode of Equipped To Be, I share motherhood advice that actually helps.
Drawing on current research, my personal experience, and from conversations with moms, I will guide you through seven simple yet powerful habits of moms who are flourishing, even during hard seasons.
You'll learn how to:
If you are tired of vague advice or unrealistic expectations, this is for you!
You'll get practical help and hopeful perspective from one mom to another.
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Managing the Mental Load of Motherhood: How to Lighten What You're Carrying.
Are you the default planner, rememberer, and fixer in your home? Feeling invisible under the weight of it all?
Welcome to the world of modern motherhood. However, I'm here to tell you, managing the mental load is possible, and it can be as simple as learning what you can do.
In today's episode, you'll learn proven ways to help you identify what is weighing you down, how to share the load, ask for help, and let go of control.
This episode is raw, practical, and full of encouragement for your weary heart. I want to talk directly to your heart.
Motherhood is physically demanding, but the mental load can be exhausting. We can change that.
Take your first step toward refreshment and rest.
Read the full show notes with links here: Managing the Mental Load of Motherhood: How to Lighten What You're Carrying.
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Loving your children unconditionally builds their trust, develops their character, shapes their view of God, and creates a legacy for your family. It's easy to love kids when they are loving, but what do you do in the messy moments?
In this episode, I'm sharing what real love looks like, how to give it even when it's hard, and why loving well is the most powerful legacy we can leave. If you have ever wondered if what you're doing really matters, this episode is for you.
You are building something beautiful, one loving moment at a time.
Remember, God's love is shown brightly when we love our children without condition.
You don't want to miss this one; you'll be glad you listened.
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Read the full show notes with links here: Loving Your Children Unconditionally
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I hear it all the time from homeschool parents and parents in general.
"I'm not sure I'm doing enough."
"I'm not confident I'm using the best curriculum."
"What if I mess this up?"
You're not alone.
That's why, this week on the Equipped To Be podcast, I invited Ginny Yurich, CEO of 1000 Hours Outside and author of Until the Streetlights Come On and Homeschooling: You're Doing It Right Just By Doing It to share a powerful message every homeschool mom needs to hear: You're doing it right just by doing it.
God didn't design your children to match someone else's pace. Learning is a lifestyle, not a race.
We are in this together. And that is enough for today!
You are doing it right, maybe more than you realize.
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Fun Tech-Free Vacations: Detach from Devices, Attach to Each Other
What if your next family vacation helped your kids unplug from their screens and plug in to real life?
In this episode of Equipped To Be, I share six powerful ways to plan fun, meaningful, and tech-free vacations that bring your family closer together. You don't need a luxury budget or hours of planning. What you do need is intentionality, imagination, and willingness to try something new.
It's not about going off the grid.
It's about being fully present.
Let's trade wi-fi for wonder and give your family your full attention.
Tech-Free doesn't mean fun-free!
Read the full show notes with links here: Tech-Free Vacations.
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Why teens don't like Bible studies and how you can help.
If your teen seems bored, disconnected, or even resistant to Bible studies, you're not alone. In this episode of Equipped To Be, I share why so many teens are struggling to engage with God's Word and what you, as the parent, can do to turn things around.
I'll discuss five common reasons teens tune out during Bible study time and how to have conversations that don't feel like lectures. Whether your child is dealing with doubt, discouragement, or distraction, this episode is for you.
Read the full show notes with links here: Why Teens Don't Like Bible Studies and What You Can Do About It.
Check out RVL Discipleship. Taught by Ray Vander Laan, it helps teens read the Bible through its historical and cultural lens. It's engaging, thought-provoking, and deeply rooted in truth.
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Feeling worn out, Mama? You're not alone, and you don't have to keep pushing through on empty. In this episode of Equipped To Be with Connie Albers, I'm discussing something so many moms experience but rarely name out loud: burnout. That deep weariness where your body is tired, your emotions are frayed, and your spirit feels dry. You still love your family, but you're struggling to find joy and strength for another day. Sound familiar?
Here's the good news: burnout doesn't mean you're failing. It's a signal, not a sentence, and God offers a better way forward.
Whether you're in a season of homeschooling, caring for little ones, or managing the many aspects of family life, this episode will help you pause, exhale, and reconnect with the true Source of strength.
You don't have to stay stuck in exhaustion. God invites you to rest, renew, and rise again in His strength. Because, Mama, you are not alone, and you are equipped to be the mom God has called you to be.
Tune in and discover how rest, renewal, and joy can begin today.
Read the full show notes with links here: Recognizing and Navigating Mom Burnout through Faith.
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Making Marriages Easier: How to Build Lasting, Joy-Filled Relationships with Arlene Pellicane
Have you ever wondered whether marriage is really worth it? With so many messages suggesting that marriage is complicated or outdated, it's easy to feel uncertain about the future of your relationship. But what if I told you that marriage doesn't have to be complicated? In fact, it can be easier and far more joyful than you might imagine.
In this uplifting conversation, my special guest, Arlene Pellicane, author of Making Marriages Easier, shares practical, faith-based strategies to help you fall in love (and stay in love) with your spouse. We discuss the power of daily choices, serving each other with joy, taking fun seriously, and keeping your relationship strong even after the kids leave home.
As someone who has enjoyed 40 years of marriage, I can wholeheartedly tell you marriage is still the best investment you'll ever make. Tune in and learn how small decisions today can lead to a happier and truly lasting relationship tomorrow.
Ready to make marriage easier? Listen now!
Read the full show notes with links here: Making Marriage Easier
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Raising godly kids is the desire of most Christian parents, but what happens when siblings' faith paths drift? Why do some kids in the same faith-filled home grow up to love God, while their siblings seem to walk away? It's one of the most heartbreaking and confusing challenges Christian parents face, and you're not alone.
In this episode, Connie Albers tackles the difficult questions so many families quietly wrestle with: Why do children from the same home choose different spiritual paths? Through biblical insight, relatable stories, and practical encouragement, Connie shares points for you to consider and what you can do if this happens in your family.
You'll learn why faith doesn't look the same for every child, how to release guilt, and what steps you can take to keep parenting with hope, love, and unwavering faith.
If you've ever wondered, "Where did I go wrong?". This conversation will remind you that God is still working, even when it doesn't look like it.
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Are you feeling overwhelmed by all the parenting advice out there? From Instagram influencers to parenting "experts" on YouTube, the noise can leave you questioning you're doing. The constant pressure to keep up with trends can be exhausting and confusing.
In this episode, you'll learn how to stop chasing the latest parenting advice and start filtering what matters through God's wisdom and your unique family values.
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Whether you're parenting toddlers or teens, this episode will remind you that God's Word is your guide, not the trends of the day.
Read the full show notes with links here: Navigating Parenting Advice and Trends with Confidence.
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Have you ever looked at someone who just seems to be a natural at something – whether it’s sports, music, or academics – and thought, 'Why can’t I do that like they do?' Or maybe you’ve worked hard at something only to feel discouraged when someone else does it effortlessly.
It’s frustrating and disheartening. But here’s the thing – there’s a big difference between ability and aptitude. Understanding that difference can change how you see yourself and your efforts.
Today, we’re going to unpack this idea together. We’ll talk about what these terms really mean, why comparing your abilities to someone else’s natural talent doesn’t make sense, and how you can shift your mindset to focus on your own progress.
Stop comparing your hard work to someone else's. Everyone doesn't have the same ability and aptitude.
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Are you stressed, stretched thin, and one more "Mom!" away from losing it?
In this episode of Equipped To Be, we're talking about Mom Overload — that all-too-familiar feeling of being overwhelmed, exhausted, and on the edge of burnout.
You'll learn why so many moms are more stressed than ever and how the constant mental load silently draining your energy. More importantly, we'll walk through practical, realistic ways to stop the stress before it breaks you.
If you're saying, "I can't handle one more thing," this episode is for you.
Learn how to:
✔️ Recognize the signs of stress and burnout
✔️ Set boundaries without guilt
✔️ Let go of perfection
✔️ Build micro-breaks into your busy day
✔️ Reframe chaos and reclaim your peace
You're not alone and not failing — you're just overloaded. Tune in and take the first step toward less stress and more calm, even in the middle of real life.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/taking-a-break/
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Are you heartbroken over a child who has turned away from their faith or your family or is struggling with addiction and substance abuse?
Are you a parent fighting a battle you never thought you would be in with your child? Do you feel like you're losing the battle with your prodigal? Today, Laine Lawson Craft, author of Warfare Parenting: A Daily Battle Plan to Fight for Your Child, joins me to discuss how to love your prodigal and why trusting the Lord is your greatest hope for seeing your child return to their faith and family. We discuss the child you know and love is still there and how prayer, faith, and enduring hope can win them back.
When your child goes down a path of darkness, addiction, and substance abuse, God is still in control. God has a plan and purpose for their life.
Don't give up on well doing, friend!
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Caregiving is hard and holy work. It's found in the quiet, unseen moments, the late nights, the tired mornings, and the endless cycle of giving without expecting anything in return. If you've ever felt unseen or worn out on the caregiving journey, you're not alone.
In this episode, Jess Ronne and I discuss the real challenges of caregiving: the emotional weight, exhaustion, and quiet strength it takes to keep showing up. Drawing on our experience, we share how we learned to balance grit and grace while learning to trust the Lord. Whether you're a caregiver or know someone who is, this episode will remind you that you're not alone. You are seen. You are enough. And you are doing holy work.
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Five years, hundreds of episodes, and countless moments of doubt, growth, and unexpected blessings have marked what started as a simple desire to encourage and equip parents into a powerful journey of faith, perseverance, and impact.
In this special anniversary episode, I'm revealing what it really takes to endure challenges, setbacks, and seasons of uncertainty. From losing staff to questioning the pace of growth to unexpected wins and life-changing conversations, this episode is packed with real talk, honest reflection, and laughs along the way.
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Whether you're chasing a dream, navigating a tough season, or need encouragement to keep going, this episode will remind you that God is in it all, and your faith is never wanted.
Tune in and celebrate with me; you're the reason we do this show.
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Summer is approaching, and your child's motivation will start checking out. The struggle with senioritis is real, and that finish line will sneak up on millions of high schoolers, college students, and even parents trying to keep their children on track. Here's the good news--You can help your child stay motivated and finish strong!
In this episode of Equipped To Be, I tackle four simple yet powerful ways to help your child stay motivated, avoid burnout, and finish strong, proud, and ready for the next step without regret.
If your high schooler is ready to quit.
If your college is consumed with adulting and all that comes with life after college.
If you don't know how to keep your child focused on finishing well without missing deadlines and failing classes.
This episode is for you!
~Connie
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Feeling drained, exhausted, or like you're running on empty? Does it seem that no matter how much you give, it's never enough? Burnout is more than just being tired—it's about feeling emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually drained.
Well, friends, burnout is real. The good news is that you can avoid burnout and stay emotionally, physically, and spiritually refreshed. But you have to stop living in a survival mood.
In today's show, we focus on nurturing your soul, embracing rest without guilt, and enjoying your motherhood journey.
How do we do this?
If you feel weary, this show will encourage you, inspire you, and make you enjoy the motherhood journey better.
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Every parent struggles with disciplining their teenager. There is a fine line between enforcing rules and keeping a trusting, healthy relationship with your teen.
Today's episode covers setting practical consequences without creating power struggles or lasting resentment.
And other important points to consider when disciplinling your teen.
Discipline is not about control—it's about guidance. Join me as we discuss how to raise responsible, respectful teens while maintaining a strong relationship.
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Giving Your Child Privacy and Space--While Teaching Respect and Responsiblity
What should you do when your child expresses a need for space or asks for privacy? If you are like most parents, you aren't sure how to navigate this delicate situation. As our children grow, their desire for such time is expected. But we often wonder how much space is enough. We ask why they need space and privacy. What are your plans?
Our children need us to be understanding, as uncomfortable as it might feel. We get nervous. We want to protect them, guide them well, and give them what they need. But if you are intentional, you can use this time to teach them balance, trust, and accountability.
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You can be involved without being invasive--supervise without controlling or hovering.
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Are you ready to trade stress and overwhelm for simplicity and joy in your parenting journey? In this episode, I share five Parenting Trends to Embrace in 2025. These trends will help you simplify your routines, deepen your connection with your children, and create a flourishing home.
From letting go of over-the-top celebrations to prioritizing quality over quantity in your daily life these practical and relatable trends are designed to reduce stress and bring joy to your parenting journey.
I'm sharing how I had to learn the hard way and scale things back before our family connections suffered. We need to focus on what truly matters--our relationships, our well-being, and the memories that will last a lifetime.
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Why do so many moms feel they need permission to take a shower, drink their coffee while it is still hot, or enjoy a few minutes of peace?
In this episode, I unpack the growing trend of moms seeking permission for self-care and explain how societal pressures and "mom guilt" have created this exhausting reality.
Whether you're a new mom overwhelmed by endless demands or a seasoned mom struggling to let go of the mental load, this show will leave you feeling understood, encouraged, and ready to ask for help! Self-care isn't just for you, and it isn't selfish--it's essential!
Don't miss this one, Mom!
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Parenting is one of life's greatest joys, but let's be honest: It's also one of its biggest challenges. Have you ever wondered if what you're doing as a parent is broken or if it just needs a little fine-tuning?
In this episode of Equipped To Be, I'm tackling the relatable questions head-on. You'll learn how to identify whether your parenting approach truly needs an overhaul or if small adjustments can fix the problems.
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Whether you're navigating toddler tantrums, teen independence, or anything in between, this episode will equip you with tools to parent with purpose and peace.
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Feeling overwhelmed by life's chaos? In this episode of Equipped To Be, I share the life-changing power of simplifying your mind, heart, and home so you can make space for what truly matters.
From clearing mental clutter to letting go of emotional baggage to organizing your physical space. We'll walk through actionable steps to help you find peace and thrive in each area of life. Whether you're tackling a messy drawer, releasing a grudge, or racing your racing thoughts, this episode is for you.
But here's the thing: simplifying isn't about doing less or having less--it's about creating space for what matters to you. So today, I'm sharing what the experts say about decluttering your mind, heart, and home to make way for peace, joy, and connection.
You don't want to miss this episode. :)
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Every day is a new opportunity to grow, learn, and begin again. In this episode of Equipped To Be, I'm sharing the beauty of fresh starts—not just for kids but also for parents. Discover how to embrace new opportunities and face challenges confidently in a Biblical way. Learn practical tips for building routines, setting age-appropriate goals, and celebrating progress, not perfection.
If you need a little reminder it's okay to start over, this episode is for you. Let's consider how fresh starts can bring hope, joy, and resilience to you and your family's journey.
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Feeling the holiday blues?
Not every Christmas looks like the movies--perfect meals, happy families, and everything tied up in pretty bows. Sometimes, life throws us grief, loneliness, or unexpected challenges that leave us wondering how to find joy in the mess.
This week on Equipped To Be, I'm talking about Embracing Imperfect Holidays--because even when plans fall apart, the meaning of Christmas shines brighter than ever.
Tune in for sensible tips I've learned over the years to help you navigate the season with peace and a touch of humor. These practical tips will help you find joy amidst chaos and share stories that remind you you're not alone.
Let go of the perfect and lean into what really matters. Your imperfect holiday might just hold the most beautiful moments yey.
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In this episode of Equipped To Be, I'm peeling back the layers on something we all think we understand-gratitude. But what happens when this supposedly positive attitude turns dark? Join me, Connie Albers, as we break down The Dangers of Forced Gratitude. I'll share how the pressure to always be thankful can lead to suppression and relational conflicts and harm our children and our mental health.
We've been ignoring some of the pitfalls of forced gratitude. Tune in to learn how to cultivate gratitude in a way that is genuine, healthy, and truly God-honoring for yourself and your children.
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Parenting is messy, unpredictable, and, let's be honest--a little bit hilarious. In this episode of Equipped To Be, I'm sharing why laughter isn't just a coping mechanism but a parenting superpower!
From toddlers throwing epic tantrums over the wrong color cup to teenagers perfecting their eye-roll game, I'll share how finding the humor in these moments can transform chaos into connection. We'll talk about the science behind why laughter matters and how it strengthens the bonds with your children, and I'll even throw in some funny, relatable stories to remind you that you're not alone in the beautiful mess of parenting.
So, grab your hot tea or coffee (or reheat it for the third time) and join me as we laugh our way through tense parenting moments. Because if we don't laugh...well, let's just say crying is the less fun option!
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Are the holidays feeling more like a to-do list than a time of joy?
This week on Equipped To Be, we're tackling how to reclaim the Christmas Season. Join me as we explore simple, practical ways to focus on what truly matters- without stress or financial strain.
You'll learn how to shift your mindset to enjoy connection over perfection. You'll also learn tips for setting a realistic holiday budget that works and creative, meaningful gift ideas that won't break the bank. Let's make this holiday season one you actually enjoy. One filled with the Lord, laughter, and lasting memories, not pressure and debt.
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Finding Hope Beyond Politics - After an election, emotions run high, with some feeling hopeful and others fearful or uncertain about the future. In this episode, I talk about where to find a steady course of hope that goes deeper than any political win or loss. Whether you're celebrating or processing disappointment, this conversation is for you. Together, we'll learn ways to bridge divides, find unity in our shared values, and embrace a steady purpose regardless of political tides. Join me for an uplifting and heartfelt discussion about looking beyond politics to find peace, purpose, and hope in every season.
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Hey Friend, I know life feels overwhelming sometimes, like everything has been spinning out of control, and you're doing all you can do to keep it together. Maybe it's the constant news cycle, the pressures of motherhood, or just the weight of everything piling up on you. You're not alone in this. Today, I'm sharing 3 Steps to Overcome Overwhelm amidst the chaos - because I know how much you want to be a steady presence in your family. I want you to find peace, one small thought at a time, even when life feels too much. Join me as we learn how to overcome the overwhelm we all face.
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Did you know parental stress can negatively affect your child? Today, I'm discussing the powerful connection between stress and how it impacts our children. When life gets chaotic-- whether from work, personal struggles, or outside circumstances- our kids often feed off our emotional energy, sometimes without us even realizing it.
Listen to this episode as I share how our stress affects our children's emotional well-being, what behaviors to watch for, and, most importantly, how we can guide them through tough times. We want our children to learn how to regulate their emotions, communicate calmly, and create a sense of security when the world feels unpredictable.
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Ever feel like life keeps throwing one storm after another your way? You're not alone. Life has a way of testing us, doesn't it? Some storms shake you to your knees and make you feel crushed under the weight of it all.
As a mom who's weathered my share of trials, from the chaos of raising five children to challenging personal storms -- literal and metaphorical -- I know how hard it can be to see the good around you when everything around you feels dark. But here's the thing: after years of navigating tough trials, God has taught me that even in the worst of times, there is always something good to be found if we look for it.
In this episode, I will help you learn how to capture your thoughts, discover your hidden strength, and come out stronger than before.
There is great beauty to be discovered when you walk through storms. Lessons learned, faith strengthened, resilience developed. Don't miss this one. I believe it can change your life.
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Feeling overwhelmed? Tune in for a dose of hope for these trying times.
Let's be honest - life feels heavier than ever right now. With everything from global chaos to personal stress piling up. But there is good news: You don't have to navigate this alone.
This week, I'm focusing on Holding Onto Hope When the World Feels Out of Control.
We'll talk about finding peace in the midst of storm, ways to stay grounded, and why - even if like the hardest thing to do - hope is always worth holding onto.
Tune in to Equipped To Be- because no matter how tough things get, God is walking with you and leading you to the other side.
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https://conniealbers.com/the-power-of-words/
https://conniealbers.com/kindle-your-spark/
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Feeling like you've lost the fire that once fueled your life? Join Rachel Marie Martin and me for a life-changing conversation to help you Kindle Your Spark. We will tackle why so many moms lose their spark and, more importantly, how to get it back. If you've ever felt like you are just going through the motions or wondering, "If this is all there is?" this episode is for you.
In this episode, Rachel shares the personal and heart-moving story of how she got to the place of realizing she was numb to her feelings. She is candid, funny, and unexpectedly deep.
Whether you or someone you know has lost their spark, there is hope. We discuss rediscovering yourself, breaking free from self-imposed limits, fighting for your unique story, and embracing vulnerability. It's time to rekindle that spark within your soul so you can live the life God is calling you to live.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/kindle-your-spark/
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Parenting can be overwhelming, especially when we start to feel inadequate or judged by others. Today, I'm sharing truths and practical ways you can overcome those feelings of inadequacy many of us struggle with.
If you feel like you're not enough or that you are doing something wrong when your child acts up or acts out, that doesn't mean you are failing as a parent - it means you're on a journey like every parent. I'll help you reframe these struggles and help you learn to embrace the challenges of raising children. I'll provide real tools and encouragement to help you navigate parenting with confidence.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/feeling-inadequate/
Navigate Motherhood without Comparing
The Ministry of Motherhood
How to Parent a Passive Child
Parenting Beyond the Rules
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Want to raise confident, clear-thinking kids who can communicate their ideas with skill and ease? It all starts with teaching our children how to build a strong argument. In this episode, discover practical, easy-to-follow steps to help your children turn opinions into persuasive points and set them up for a lifetime of thoughtful, respectful communication.
We can teach our children to form coherent arguments; this episode will help you do that.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/teaching-kids-to-form-coherent-arguments//
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Are you a parent who struggling to balance your hopes for your child with how God made them to be? You are not alone. In this heartfelt episode, I share the art of rethinking our parental expectations and why it's so important to see for who they are, not what we think they should be.
I'll discuss the difference between guiding vs. controlling, how to set expectations that align with your child's unique strengths and interests, and the incredible transformation that happens when we are willing to adjust our expectations.
Listen today and discover the power that comes from seeing your child in a whole new light.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/rethinking-parental-expectations/
Other popular episodes:
https://conniealbers.com/when-teens-stop-liking-parents/
https://conniealbers.com/helping-homesick-college-kids/
https://conniealbers.com/showing-children-respect/
https://conniealbers.com/children-need-structure-and-boundaries/
Resources: Parenting Beyond the Rules: Raising Teens with Confidence and Joy
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Watching your teen pull away can be one of the most heartbreaking experiences as a parent. You might find yourself wondering where the sweet child who once adored you has gone or feel the sting of rejection as they seem to distance more each day. It's tough! And there's no sugarcoating it. But take heart: you're not alone in this journey, and it doesn't mean you're losing them forever.
When your teen acts like they don't like you and pulls away from the relationship, there are things you should do and things to avoid doing to protect your future relationship.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/when-teens-stop-liking-parents/
Popular episodes you missed:
The Impact of AI on Students
Teaching Your Children to Trust You
Showing Your Child Respect
Buy Connie's book Parenting Beyond the Rules: Raising Teens with Confidence and Joy
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Helping Homesick College Kids find their way without coming home is the focus of today's podcast.
Did you know that 70% of college kids experience homesickness and often beg their parents to come home? That shouldn't surprise us. Our children traded what was familiar for the unknown. This big adjustment causes many kids to become completely overwhelmed.
It takes them time to find their way, but there is so much we can do to help them adjust to their new environment without quitting.
Tune in to this episode if you or someone you know has a college student. You can help them navigate this season with confidence and joy.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/helping-homesick-college-kids/
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In today's increasingly connected world, it's nearly impossible to shield our children from political discourse. As parents, our role is to equip our children with the tools they need to navigate political conversations with our kids in the safety of our home. When we teach our children how to have these conversations with friends and family in a respectful manner, their confidence and critical thinking skills grow.
I'm Connie Albers, a veteran homeschool mom who is married to Tom. Together, we have five grown children (three married) and many grandkids. I am committed to strengthening families through live TV, radio, podcasting, writing, and speaking. My book and audio, Parenting Beyond the Rules, Raising Teens with Confidence and Joy, helps parents navigate a critical season of parenting with a focus on building relationships.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/political-conversations-with-kids-part-2//
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In our fast-paced world, kids are constantly seeing and hearing political news. As parents, it's so important for us to help them understand what's going on around them. By talking about politics in our homes, we're not merely teaching about their rights and responsibilities as citizens; we're also helping them think critically about matters that will impact their future. Helping our children learn how to think critically will help them learn how to make wise decisions as adults.
Don't miss this opportunity to talk to your children so they learn how to navigate political topics.
Other popular episodes you might like:
https://conniealbers.com/election-week-tips/
https://conniealbers.com/healthy-back-to-school-habits-part-i/
https://conniealbers.com/healthy-back-to-school-habits-part-2/
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/political-conversations-with-kids-part-1/
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Today we are continuing with part 2 of Healthy Back-To-School Habits. My guest, Loisann Fowler, and I unpack three of the five non-negotiables for living well.
Today we focus on movement, stress, and relational downtime. You don't want to miss part 2 of Healthy Back-to-School Habits.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/healthy-back-to-school-part-2/
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This week, my guest, Loisann Fowler, and I share five healthy habits parents can implement to prepare their children for a new school year. Part 1 of this two-part series can dramatically impact your child's mental, emotional, and physical well-being. Don't miss this episode of Equipped To Be. Your children will be glad you listened.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/healthy-back-to-school-habits-part-i/
Other Popular Episodes:
Showing Children Respect
Children Need Structure and Boundaries
Teaching Children to Trust
Teach Children Belonging
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Why do children need to be respected by their parents?
This week, I'm sharing why our children need our respect and understanding and why it's critical for their emotional well-being.
In this episode of Equipped To Be, you'll learn practical ways to show your child respect and what causes them not to feel disrespected. I'll share practical tips to make your children feel heard and valued, from active listening to valuing their opinions to modeling respectful behavior.
We want to create a home where respect and love abound. Showing children respect fills a core need that causes them to feel valued, safe, and confident.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/taking-a-break/
More episodes to help you parent well:
Children Need Structure and Boundaries
Teaching Children To Trust
Teach Belonging to Children
The Impact of AI on Students
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Without structure and boundaries, children get confused and anxious. Providing structure and boundaries creates a comforting sense of order and predictability. Plus, it helps children feel secure and protected as they learn to navigate the world around them.
Join me to learn the benefits of structure and boundaries and how you can help raise safe and secure children.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/children-need-structure-and-boundaries//
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Imagine a world where children can navigate the world with confidence, knowing they can trust the people closest to them. In this episode of Equipped To Be, I unpack the core need of every child: trust! A child's ability to trust their parents and caregivers shapes their emotional well-being and social development, and why it is so vital for their overall growth.
Trust is essential for children to feel safe, secure, and valued in their relationships with their parents, peers, and, eventually, the broader world. Teaching our children to trust us allows them to build healthy, positive relationships, which is critical for their future.
You don't want to miss this episode.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/teaching-children-to-trust/
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In today's culture, teaching children they belong within the family unit is desperately needed. Feeling needed is a core need we all experience, but it's especially important to cultivate this core need within our family.
This week, I focus on understanding and meeting one of our children's fundamental core need.
Home is where our kids learn belonging, worth, and value.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/each-belonging-to-your-children/
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Is the future classroom for students' education going to include Artificial Intelligence? How will this cutting-edge technology intersect with everyday learning? In our latest episode, I'm discussing the pros and cons of AI as it relates to our kids.
Is AI a powerful ally in personalized education, or is it a silent saboteur that undermines critical thinking and creativity?
Join me as I unpack the pros and cons of AI in education, featuring insights from educators, tech experts, and students themselves. Discover how AI is reshaping the way we learn, the potential pitfalls we must navigate, and the future of education in an AI-driven world. Tune in and get ready to consider the role of AI in your child's education.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/the-impact-of-ai-on-students/
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Do you wonder how to raise boys to become strong, godly men?
Men who will one day lead a family, a company, a community, or maybe even a country. We want our sons to be risk-takers, adventurers, innovators, and creators, but it's hard when we live in a culture that does more to confuse boys than help them.
Summer is the perfect time to re-air one of ETB's most-listened podcasts. Mark Hancock, CEO of Trail Life USA, and I talk about what you can do to raise boys to become responsible men filled with integrity, honesty, and determination.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/raising-boys-re-air/
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Thank you ~ Connie
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I'm excited to share with you Raising Creative Children Part 2. Part 1 aired last week, and parents and educators loved it.
The world needs help creative children who are innovators, risk-takers, and adventurous who create beautiful art, music, dance, and movies that reflect God's creation. Creative children need parents and educators to consider their need for time and space when putting together a daily schedule.
Join me for this episode of Raising Creative Children Part 2
You can read my notes from the show here: https://conniealbers.com/raising-creative-children-part-2/
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All children are creative. The struggle for parents is knowing how to nurture their children's creativity throughout childhood so they can flourish. Whether your child is a musician, a dancer, a photographer, a singer, a videographer, or an artist, you can help them hone their craft and bring beauty to the world by using their God-given talents.
Tune in this week and come back next week for part 2 of Raising Creative Children.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/raising-creative-children-part-1/
Episodes you may have missed:
https://conniealbers.com/the-ministry-of-motherhood/
https://conniealbers.com/navigate-motherhood-without-comparison/
https://conniealbers.com/communtiy-of-friends/
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When you think of the word motherhood, what comes to mind?
Have you ever paused to consider the profound impact you have on your children's lives? In a world that often underestimates the significance of motherhood, it's crucial to remember that motherhood is a ministry. It's a high calling, a divine appointment, an opportunity to shape the hearts and minds of the next generation.
Motherhood is a ministry, an intricate blend of love, sacrifice, and unwavering commitment. It's a role that God has uniquely designed for you, with your specific children in mind. In every smile, every tear, and every step they take, they are counting on you to be there, guiding them with your wisdom and nurturing their souls.
That's the focus of today's episode. Next time you feel overwhelmed, overlooked, or underappreciated, remember this: motherhood is indeed a ministry, and you are doing a remarkable job.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/the-ministry-of-motherhood/
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Previous episodes:
https://conniealbers.com/overcoming-obstacles/
https://conniealbers.com/communtiy-of-friends/
https://conniealbers.com/navigate-motherhood-without-comparison/
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Have you ever felt like you're falling short as a mom, constantly comparing yourself to the picture-perfect lives of other moms? What if I told you there's a way to break free from this exhausting cycle and find joy in your unique journey? In today's episode, I'll be sharing five principles to help you navigate motherhood without comparisons that can transform the way you see yourself and your role as a mom. You don't want to miss this episode.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/navigate-motherhood-without-comparison/
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Do your children get stressed out when faced with final exams, group projects, graduation requirements, and other end-of-year assignments are due? The truth is, most kids do. That's common. But we can help our kids reduce their school year stress so they can enjoy this season of life and not be filled with anxiety.
In this episode, you can apply to reduce your child's school-year stress by learning how to manage the extra load.
Last week, I focused on preparing for the time When Children Move Out. Though we are never fully prepared for that day, there are ways you can take a bittersweet moment and turn a bittersweet moment into a joyful experience for all.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/reduce-kids-school-year-stress/
https://conniealbers.com/when-children-move-out/
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Do your kids feel stressed or anxious about preparing for final exams, graduation, or end-of-year requirements? Most kids do, but you can help them manage stress so they can enjoy this season of life. Experts suggest several things parents can do to help their child manage their emotions and stress so they are not consumed by the challenges before them.
In this episode, I'll explain what parents should look for, what they need to avoid, and what will make their child feel confident in their ability.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/helping-kids-manage-stress/
Episodes you might have missed:
https://conniealbers.com/overcoming-obstacles/
https://conniealbers.com/community-of-friends/
https://conniealbers.com/let-kids-play-outside/
https://conniealbers.com/navigating-rejection-part-I/
https://conniealbers.com/navigating-rejection-part-1/
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We all encounter obstacles in life, but the keys to overcoming them are developing the skills and using the right tools to turn these challenges into stepping stones. There is no reason to spin your wheels or fret over what to do but to change your approach and stop doing what isn't working.
Today's podcast focuses on how you can overcome the obstacles in your life by assessing why your stuck, identifying triggers and patterns, readjusting your thoughts, and developing new skills. Whether you're feeling stuck in your work or personal life or your child is, there's a way to get beyond the obstacle and begin moving forward.
Though obstacles are common, how we navigate them makes all the difference.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/overcoming-obstacles/
Episodes you might have missed:
Stop Mom Shaming
Let Kids Play Outside with Ginny Urich
Raising Boys with Mark Hancock
The Power of a Child with Raymond Arroyo
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Overcoming rejection is possible when we focus on our emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual actions. No one wants to be rejected, but overcoming rejection is a part of life that we must learn to do well so our relationships stay strong.
This is part II of learning to manage being rejected.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/overcoming-rejection/
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Do you fear being rejected by your child? Does the thought of breaking the bond of closeness cause you to parent differently? Navigating rejection is part of the rollercoaster world of parenting, where the highs are dizzying, and lows can knock the socks off you. You're not alone, and there are ways you can handle any rejection while maintaining your relationship.
To any parent or grandparent walking through the shadow of rejection, know this isn't the end of your relationship.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/navigating-rejection-part-i/
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https://conniealbers.com/community-of-friends/
https://conniealbers.com/community-of-friends/
https://conniealbers.com/embracing-storms-not-chasing-them/
https://conniealbers.com/stop-mom-shaming/
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Have a question? Interested in having Connie speak at your women's ministry or church? Send an email to Connie here: https://conniealbers.com/contact/
Are you lying awake wondering why trouble seems to find your tween or teen? Do you find yourself worrying about how to keep your teen out of trouble or on track? If you're nodding along, feeling the weight of these questions, you're not alone. In this episode of "Trouble with Teens" I'm sharing truths to help parents trying to navigate the season of adolences.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/trouble-with-teens/
Addtional episodes you might have missed:
https://conniealbers.com/your-child-is-a-masterpiece/
https://conniealbers.com/stay-engaged/
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Have you found your community? In the whirlwind journey of parenthood, amidst the sleepless nights and endless laundry, there exists and invaluable gift that makes family life easier: community.
Building a community of families who share similar visions and values can foster growth and confidence for parents and children. A community of friends has dual purposes: to provide a network of support for parents and to create a nurturing environment for our children.
Friends, we are not designed to live isolated lives. We need families to connect with. Today's episode focuses on how to build a community and what to expect from friendships.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/community-of-friends/
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Tired of being judged for every parenting decision you make? Join me for an encouraging episode on "Stop Mom-Shaming," where I share the truth about how harmful it is to shame moms and provide ways to stop it. From breast feeding battles to work-life balance struggles, I'm breaking down the barriers that perpetuate guilt and inadequacy among mothers. Tune in for insights, heartfelt stories, and honest conversations that celebrate your journey of motherhood.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/stop-mom-shaming/
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Parents want to raise resilient and compassionate children who can navigate everyday life and succeed in adulthood. Join me as I share 5 Skills Parents Must Teach Children! From cultivating self-control to fostering collaboration and celebrating achievements, you'll gain insights that can help you teach your children.
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More shows:
https://conniealbers.com/raising-boys/
https://conniealbers.com/full-healing-after-martial-infidelity/
https://conniealbers.com/question-based-education/
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Is it possible for a marriage to fully heal after years of infidelity and betrayal? Yes! My guests, Phil and Priscilla Fretwell, will join me to share their story of how God rebuilt their shattered marriage after twenty-eight years of betrayal and infidelity. You will enjoy this transparent conversation and discover what you can do to strengthen your marriage.
Read the full show notes with links here: Full Healing After Marital Infidelity ETB #205
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Welcome to "Embracing the Storms Not Chasing Them," where my guest, Tracy Smoak, and I discuss how life's challenges can become stepping stones rather than stumbling blocks. We explore the idea of storms and how these difficult moments can be used as a catalyst for growth and change when we rely on the Lord and not ourselves. You will be encouraged to see storms a little differently.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/embracing-storms-not-chasing-them/
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Raising boys to become godly men is a question I'm frequently asked. As a mother of three boy, I know parenting boys requires some different skills and knowledge. Today Mark Hancock of Trail Life USA joins me for in important conversations about what boys need and how we can help them.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/taking-a-break/
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Ever felt a little intimidated cracking open the Bible? You read page after page, but you don't understand it. You're not alone. The delightful Annie Weber joins me to discuss how you can find astounding truths hidden in the pages of scripture that can bring you joy and give your life purpose. Join us for episode #202 Finding Joy in Learning Biblical Truths.
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The Value of Community
The Urgent Need to Retreat
Embracing Your Fierce Calling with Doris Swift
Feasting on Truth with Erin Warren
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What's the value of community? Communities stitch together threads of warmth, creating a cozy haven where ever moms find a place to belong and an opportunity to share experiences. Are you like most people who long for friends or someone to share life experiences with? You aren't alone.
We are created for community, but how do we find our people? That's what Connie is focusing on in this episode of #EquippedToBe.
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A time of apreciation and gratefulness as we reach a milestone here at Equipped To Be.
We are thrilled to share this momentous occasion --the celebration 200 episodes of "Equipped To Be"! What an incredible journey. Today we look back at shows you love, the guests who've joined me, and the listeners we serve.
Thank you for joining us and being part of this amazing community.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/200-episodes-and-counting/
Thank you for being part of the Equipped To Be community.
~Connie
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Ready to revolutionized your children's education? It's time for a shift from the old-school knowledge-packed approach to a cutting-edge, question-based education.
Gone are the days when more information equalled greater success. Enter the era of AI, where kids need to be adept at not justing finding information quickly but also mastering the art of asking questions that truly unlock knowledge.
Jonathan Brush joins me on the podcast to discuss the new educational paradigm.
~Connie
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What do you do when your child willinging visits online sites or watches videos that are not appropriate? How can you guide your child through this season and learn God's design for a healthy relationship without shaming your child?
Barb Winters joins me for a conversation on what to do when kids get exposed to images and videos that aren't good for little eyes.
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Do you want your children to have a happy childhood? Let them play outside! We must add more playtime to a child's day so they can learn how to be problem solvers and experience the wonder of simple playtime.
Ginny Yurich, founder and creator of 1000 Hours Outside, and I discuss what kids need and the benefits of letting them go outside to play.
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In a techno-driven world, parents can use all the information and guidance they can get to keep their children safe. Today, Connie and John DeGirolamo will share "Tips for Parents to Protect Your Child."
We can navigate the online world with our kids. Join us for a practical episode.
Read the full show notes with links here: Tips for Parents to Protect Your Child with John DeGirolamo ETB #196
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Setting Family Goals! As we stand on the cusp of a new year, it's the perfect moment to reflect, reset, and reimagine the future for your family. In today's episode on Equipped To Be, I will be unpacking into this topic that's not just about resolutions but about strengthening your family. Whether you're a seasoned goal-setter or someone exploring this concept for the first time, join me. This episode is full of practical, achievable, and heartwarming ways to set family goals that are easy to follow.
#familygoals #NewYearNewFamily #familylife
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Eliminating holiday meltdowns in children can be a challenge, especially if they don't get the gift they wanted or asked for. A moment that is supposed to be happy can suddenly turn into disappointment and even poor behavior. How can we stop meltdowns when a child doesn't get their way? Join me to learn how to make holiday gift-giving more memorable with our children.
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What is causing the surge in homeschooling? Today, I'll be discussing what parents need to know about the fastest growing educational method with Jim Mason, President of the Home School Legal Defense Association.
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Unlock the Magic of Family Traditions: A Journey of Joy and Connection!
Embark on a heartwarming journey with our latest podcast episode, where we dive deep into the art of making family traditions. From the chaos of holiday celebrations to the simplicity of intentional moments, we explore how these traditions weave the fabric of strong family bonds. Join us as we unravel the beauty of simple yet impactful rituals, discover the "why" behind each tradition, and get inspired with creative ideas for making lasting memories.
Tune into the podcast and start crafting your family's unique story through traditions! MakingFamilyTraditions #PodcastJoy #ConnectThroughTraditions.
Read the full show notes with links here: Making Family Traditions
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Imagine a national holiday tradition, an influence on a U.S. President, and the indirect catalyst for pardoning hundreds in distress - all sparked by the power of a child. Now, what I have revealed is that this extraordinary child was far from perfect.
Described as mischievous, a prankster, and a troublemaker, this less-than-conventional child was also shunned by other children for having a cleft lip. Raymond Arroyo joins me again for a lively conversation about hope, the love of a grieving father, and the joy a child can bring to a family.
~ Connie
Read the full show notes with links here: The Power of a Child with Raymond Arroyo - ETB- #191
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Taking a break seems impossible. We think everything will fall apart if we don't keep going. But the opposite is true. Everything could fall apart if you don't prioritize taking breaks. In this episode, I'll share with you the warning signs and what you can do to ensure that you are able to keep going. Hint: It's okay to take a break. You'll be better becuase you plugged and took some time off.
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How can we shield our children from the dangers they face online? We discuss how people get you your kids and what you need to do to protect them. I want parents to know three specific steps they can take to shield their kids online. We can be a shield for our children.
I invited Richard Wistocki, a law-enforcement youth cyber crime trainer who is dedicated to keeping kids safe on their devices, to join us for this episode.
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Life is full of change, isn't it? Whether we like it or not, dealing with changes is essential to our personal, spiritual, and professional growth. We learn how to navigate situations by healing with changes healthily.
Instead of trying to avoid changes, we should learn to embrace them and trust the Lord to help you. In this episode, we address the common reasons that make change seem daunting and learn some ways you can navigate change successfully.
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Parents often ask me if family devotions strengthen relationships, and the answer is yes. Family devotions cause us to focus as a a family on our relationships with the Lord and each other. They draw us to one another because we become aware fo God's love for us and our love for one another.
Truth is family devotions connect us in a deeper way. Today Karen Whiting joins me to discuss how you can make family devotions work for your family.
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Parening a passive child requires thoughful and purposeful guidance. Whether it's their birth order or individual temperament, passive children often require extra support in developing decision-making shills and find their voice. While ti may initially seem uncomplicated to raise a passive child, it is cericial not to overlook the emotions brewing within them. In this episode, "How to Parent a Passive Child." we will explore key elements to nurture their growth and increase their confidence.
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Getting teens to talk to their parents might be a little easier than you think.
Today, Jackie Brewton joins me to discuss how you can get your teens talking to you about the issues that matter to them. We unpack their responses and examine two things parents can do to break teenage silence and get their teens to start talking. You don't want to miss this show!
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Online trends and challenges can be dangerous for kids in the ever-evolving social media world. But we can protect our children from the dangers lurking online. Join me as I share what you can do to help your children learn to navigate the constant bombardment of daily trends and challenges.
Read the full show notes with links here: Online Trends and Challenges: How to Protect Your Child - ETB #184
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When should I give my child a smartphone? What is the perfect age? Some parents want to wait until the later teen years, while others think the tween years are better. Is there a right age?
Most parents have doubts about when their child should have a phone. They also, have different ideas of what is appropriate for their child. Here's the truth: There is no one perfect age when a child should get a smartphone. There are pros and cons to consider before making such an important decision.
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Are you raising interdependent, independent, or co-dependent children? What you decide can have a huge impact on your children. Lori Wildenberg and I discuss why we need to raise interdependent children and how it can reduce their anxiety while increasing family connectedness.
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My friend, Zan Tyler, joins us today to discuss ways to make your homeschool year easier and less stressful. During our conversation, you will learn spefics activties you can do, why your children respond positively to mid-week breaks, and the importance of building relationships along the way. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/make-homeschooling-easier-with-zan-tyler
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Get ready for a few tears with this episode! I finally convinced my podcast editor to join me on the show. It's part thank you and part farewell as she moves on to what God has for her in this next season of her life. Amanda and I have known each other for over 10 years, worked together in several ways over the years, and have become great friends over that time. She helped me launch the Equipped To Be Podcast and do a lot of other technical stuff behind the scenes with the support of her husband Josh and their company The Pelsers Media. After battling chronic illness for many years and overcoming through much prayer, research, and the use of homeopathy, she has now launched Rooted Homeopathy, LLC to help other moms find wellness breakthroughs and care for their families in a natural, Biblical way by using homeopathy.
Disclaimer: Amanda is not a doctor or licensed medical professional. Nothing stated is meant to diagnose or treat disease. Amanda is educating you on the specialized area of homeopathic remedies and their possible uses for wellness support.
Get Amanda's guide to the Biblical roots of homeopathy here: https://rootedhomeopathy.com/ETB
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I want to introduce you to Tina Yeager. She's a mental health professional, coach, speaker, and podcaster. In this episode, she helps me tackle some tough topics that are affecting families these days. There's so much tension, anxiety, and depression affecting our kids and it just continues to trend upwards. She helps us understand how to help our kids find identity in Christ in this crazy world.
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It's that time of year again – the start of a new school year! Whether you're a seasoned parent or you have a new kindergartener, the mixed feelings of nervousness, excitement, and anxiety are likely familiar. In this episode, we are going to talk about transitioning smoothly into a new school year and the importance of easing kids back into school.
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Do you worry? Seems like every time you turn around, there's another headline that strikes fear and causes worry these days. What about your kids? Do you worry about them? Do you worry you will ruin them? Do you worry about the things they will have to face? What can you do about worry? Well, Keri Eichberger is with me in this episode to talk about these big issues surrounding worry. Join me as Keri offers encouraging insights and reminds us of the power of God's truth in conquering worry and finding peace in all seasons of life.
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The new school year is upon us. If you're like most families, there's some upheaval going on as you figure out new routines and rhythms for meals and bedtime, and more. As you work on getting everyone back into the swing of things again, developing resilience is key to smooth days. What is resiliency and why is it important?
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As I've traveled this summer, I've heard many people talk about being tired and overwhelmed. Just like you, I can't get everything on my list done in a day! As a part of a recent conference, I participated in a retreat. So today I'm sharing with you the importance of retreating, just as Jesus did in the Bible. There is an urgent need to retreat! Let's talk about this need for finding quietness and rest amidst the chaos of life and how retreating can provide strength, joy, and a renewed connection with God.
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I met Doris Swift a few years ago, shortly before we both started our podcasts. I've been a guest on her show and I'm delighted to introduce you to her in this episode. She's an author, podcaster, and founder of Fierce Calling Ministries. Listen in as we talk about embracing your fierce calling in using your gifts, navigating challenges, and embracing the seasons in your lives.
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John Lovell, the inspiring force behind the Warrior Poet Society, is joining me on the podcast. John's remarkable background as a former Army Ranger and special operations soldier, combined with his passion for masculinity and fatherhood, has propelled him to become a sought-after speaker and mentor. John is on a mission to redefine what it means to be a man in today's world so we can start embracing masculinity again. We dive deep into the balance between strength and sensitivity, the importance of being a protector and provider, and the invaluable role of fathers in shaping the next generation.
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I had the opportunity to meet up with my long-time friend Michael Farris at the National Religious Broadcasters convention a few weeks ago. He graciously agreed to have a conversation with me to share with you here at Equipped To Be. Michael has such a breadth of experience and knowledge in the areas of homeschooling, the Constitution, free speech, and legal defense of these topics. We spent some time talking about the cultural shifts that are being seen in our country and what we as Christians can do about it.
What will you do next to stand up, show up, and speak up? Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/cultural-shifts-with-michael-farris
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Do your children have summer jobs? Do they have a part-time job or work as an intern or volunteer somewhere? Fox 35 Orlando asked me to speak on this topic of teens and summer jobs and I always have so much more to say on these topics than I can fit into a short morning show segment. A lot of learning happens with summer jobs, so let's talk about the benefits of a summer job for your teen!
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I recently had the opportunity to meet up with Kristen A. Jenson to have a conversation about a topic that is extremely important in our world of expanding digital access: pornography. Kristen is the founder of Defend Young Minds and CEO of Glen Cove Press. She is an internationally acclaimed author and advocate for protecting young minds from the dangers of harmful media. Kristen is leading the charge in this area to make sure parents are equipped to protect and educate their children about these dangers.
Kristen and I discuss how her book Good Pictures, Bad Pictures came to be, the importance of normalizing conversations about pornography with our kids, and practical tips for educating our children on this topic. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/defending-young-minds-with-kristen-a-jenson
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I recently had the pleasure of meeting Raymond Arroyo, a New York Times bestselling author and Fox News contributor, at the 2023 National Religious Broadcasters Convention. He agreed to sit down and have a conversation with me for the podcast. There were so many things we could have discussed! We could have talked about politics or how the world is crumbling around us, but we landed on a topic that strengthens the family and I hope is going to encourage you. Raymond and I were talking about how children are curious and I knew this was the topic we needed to focus on! He's written a book series called Turnabout Tales that focuses on little-known yet fascinating stories of historical figures who went from underdog to hero, and the adults who inspired them to be true to themselves and do big things that changed the world. The first book in the series is about the life of Thomas Alva Edison and his mother Nancy.
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Tasks. Work. Chores. Whatever you call them, there are things that need to be done in your home and frankly, no one really wants to have to do them. Since the magic fairy isn't going to be arriving anytime soon to handle these things, we as parents have to find a way to motivate our kids to get their share of the work done. I found that every age and stage and child requires a little different tactic and mindset, but it always comes back to adding an element of fun.
Learn more about how to add fun to daily tasks and the importance of knowing what motivates your unique child in this episode. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/making-daily-tasks-fun-for-kids
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I'm often asked these types of questions as I travel and speak to parents around the country and internationally: How do you raise godly kids? How do you raise kids that love Jesus? How do you raise kids who don't walk away from the church?
There's no formula to follow that will guarantee that your child will move from religion to relationship. It's a living God who works in the hearts and minds of each of us, including our kids. In this episode, I'm going to dive into nurturing spiritual development in your children.
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Some extreme examples have been recorded and posted online of parents behaving badly at kids' sporting events recently in central Florida. In response, Fox 35 Orlando asked me to speak about parents who lack self-control. I love doing these segments, but there's never enough time to say everything so I'm expanding on this topic here on the podcast for you! In this episode, we're going to go deeper into the impact of parents who lack self-control, what your self-control teaches your kids, and how to turn it around if you've been a bad example.
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One of my purposes here with the Equipped To Be Podcast is to help you build stronger relationships with your children as you launch them into adulthood. In this episode, I dive into the differences between correction and criticism. I share biblical insights, the power of your words, steps to using correction, and the potential pitfalls of sarcasm. Getting a handle on these concepts now will strengthen your relationships with your kids and make them more likely to seek out your advice and counsel when they are older.
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I had the pleasure recently to talk with David Closson, the Director of the Center for Biblical Worldview at Family Research Council. I've known David for many, many years. He shares with me the sobering statistics regarding the gap between those who say that they are living a Biblical worldview and how their beliefs actually line up with a Biblical worldview. There's a larger gap than you might even guess!
David and I talk about the pressures on churches and the number one question churches are wrestling with today. Everything that we need is in Scripture! Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/living-a-biblical-worldview
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A news outlet recently asked me to talk about the boom in homeschooling. Why is there such a surge of parents choosing to homeschool their kids? I'm a little surprised they couldn't see the answer based on the news they are reporting. My kids are grown and having kids of their own, but I'm even more passionate about homeschooling now than I was years ago when I was homeschooling my own kids. It's important that you as a parent find your voice in the midst of the noise of this struggle with educators. Who knows your child best? You? Or an educator?
My passion for homeschooling started because I wanted a close family and figured I could teach them the basics just as well as the public school could. My perspective on why to homeschool has changed over the years. Let's talk in this episode about finding your voice, knowing your role, and determining your priorities in this battle for the heart and future of your child.
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I was recently asked to do a news segment responding to a story about how a twelve-year-old and their friend snuck out of the house and drove four hundred miles to meet up with someone they'd met online. Sadly the age for children engaging in risky and dangerous behavior online is trending younger and younger. As a parent, how can you keep your kids safe online? What do you do when you find that your child is having secret chats online?
The goal is for your kids to learn how to use technology and social media well while they are still under your roof. Then when they go out into the world with unmonitored access, they've already learned to have good boundaries and make wise choices. How do you set boundaries and teach your kids to make wise choices? In this episode, I give you considerations for how to handle online access, tips for finding tools, and what to do if you find your child is already in trouble. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/secret-chats/
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When I met Rachael Adams a few years ago at a podcasting conference, I was so intrigued by her kindness and her authenticity. We connected again at another conference last year and I was so excited to hear about the book she had coming out. Rachael has such a heart for women in their search for significance and purpose. I'm excited to introduce her to you!
In this episode, Rachael and I discuss her farm, significance vs accomplishments, the importance of one encounter and so much more. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/the-search-for-significance
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The other day I was back in the Fox 35 Orlando studios to talk on air about another parenting topic. This time we were discussing kids and credit cards. Of course, a 3-5 minute morning TV segment gives little time to dig into the issue, so in this episode, I'm unpacking more of the conversations that need to be had and what to consider when your kid wants a credit card or debit card.
Let's dive into why your child might want a credit card, how to determine if your child is ready, and some considerations for what might work best for your child and family as a whole. This is an opportunity to teach your child the skill of managing money and will put them on a sure foundation for their adult years. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/when-your-kid-wants-a-credit-card
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I met Ana Bagnouli many years ago at a homeschooling conference in Florida. Together with her husband, they began serving the Hispanic community and talking about homeschooling. The ministry has grown to the point that they now have a homeschooling conference for Spanish-speaking homeschoolers. Ana has such a passion for homeschooling in the Hispanic community and I'm so excited to introduce you to her!
In this episode, Ana and I talk about the need for homeschool materials in Spanish, their homeschool conference for Spanish speakers, the importance of family, and more. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/homeschooling-in-the-hispanic-community
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In the last episode, we discussed the pros and cons of sleepovers. Rather than making a blanket decision, I encouraged you to look deeper into the goals of your family and how sleepovers can fit or do not fit into those plans. This week I want to dig deeper into hosting sleepovers. What should you ask the host family? What can you do as the host home for a sleepover?
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Do you allow your kids to participate in sleepovers? I'm personally not a fan of blanket directives because each family is unique. You have to make a decision about what is best for your family based on the pros and cons of having sleepovers.
I was recently on Fox 35 Orlando to talk about the pros and cons of sleepovers. It's hard to have an in-depth discussion on a topic like this in four minutes, so I'd like to dig in a little deeper here on the podcast with you. Let's talk about the reasons for and against sleepovers so you can be empowered as the parent to make the best choice that fits your family and each of your kids. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/the-pros-and-cons-of-sleepovers
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Do you have a prodigal child? Are you desperate to guide your prodigal home? Laine Lawson Craft has lived this story with her three children. Now she's committed to sharing their testimony and showing parents how to fight the spiritual battle to guide their prodigals back home again.
In this episode, Laine and I talk about what a prodigal is, backsliding, staying in the game with your adult kids, and so much more! Read the full show notes with link here: https://conniealbers.com/guide-your-prodigal-home
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New York Times Bestselling author Larry Loftis is back on the show to talk about the story behind his newest novel. In this spy thriller, Larry tells the story of the life of Corrie ten Boom. Many of us are familiar with the story from The Hiding Place but that is maybe about ten percent of the story of Corrie's life. There's so much more to tell as Larry learned in his research. It's a story of extraordinary forgiveness.
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Do you have kids who resist your instructions? You tell them to do something and they don't do it. You beg. You lecture. You try to explain why. But, they don't do what you say or they simply ignore you. Why do children resist instructions?
In this episode, we're digging into why children resist instructions. There are five reasons you might be experiencing this resistance. Let's dig into them! Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/why-children-resist-instructions
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I want to take a moment to talk about God's faithfulness. The Equipped To Be Podcast has reached a major milestone. With this episode and the transition to Season 3, we have marked three years of episodes! There were ups and downs along the way, but I'm so excited to have shared this journey with you!
Equipped To Be began in February 2020 right before the pandemic turned our world upside down. Amanda from The Pelsers Media was sitting in my office talking to me about starting the podcast and she said she'd help me. I couldn't do this podcast without my team, you my listeners, and my sponsors and partners. Many thanks to all of you! Join me in this episode to hear the story of God's faithfulness over the last three years!
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Mom guilt is this pervasive feeling that you're not doing this mom thing right. Even when you think things are going well, you see another mom doing something differently and think she must be right and I am now wrong.
In this episode, I want to talk with you more about what mom guilt is and some steps for dealing with it. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/mom-guilt
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How do you manage boredom? Boredom plagues us all at one time or another. No one is immune to it. Boredom is often a sign that you're tired of the same things over and over, even if you like routine. But, boredom is actually a good thing. It means that you have time and margin in your day to stop and think. Boredom means you have the space for creativity, innovation, and adventure rather than a robotic existence.
In this episode, I share three steps to managing boredom plus a list of practical ways to redirect your kids (and you!) when they say they are bored. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/manage-boredom
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I've known Erin Warren from Feasting on Truth for many years online. I recently had a chance to finally meet her in person at a women's conference. Erin has a passion for God's word that I think you'll hear in this conversation about life, ministry, and the work she's doing.
In this episode, Erin Warren and I talk about a lot of things including:
About Erin Warren
Erin H. Warren is passionate about equipping and encouraging women to discover God’s truths for themselves. She is the author of Feasting on Truth: Savor the Life-giving Word of God, leads and teaches Bible study through her ministry Feasting on Truth, and has published several Bible studies. She and her husband, Kris, have three littles (who aren’t so little anymore), and they live in Central Florida. She loves a house full of people and a table full of food and hopes tacos never go out of style.
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Have you heard about OpenAI? It's all over the news right now and kids are learning to use this platform to their advantage. It is so easy to use OpenAI to cheat. As parents, we need to look at how to curb cheating with OpenAI.
Let's talk about what OpenAI is, why kids cheat, and three things you can do as a parent about cheating with OpenAI (or any lack of integrity).
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When members of the family live in close proximity and spend a lot of time together, there is bound to be tension in relationships at times. As a parent, you can see those nudges, unkind words, and rolled eyes. You can feel that tension between siblings. You can feel the distance that is growing between the siblings in your family. How do you mend fractured sibling relationships?
My husband and I have instilled into our children that they cannot leave a fractured relationship. Unspoken hurts and broken trust cannot be swept under the rug. We want peace and harmony but that requires doing the hard work of addressing conflicts and tensions. Not addressing sibling conflict is not an option!
In this episode, I share the steps that I take to assess and prepare to take action, how to talk to the children involved, and how to handle oblivious kids. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/mending-fractured-sibling-relationships
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When you set goals, do you set goals for and with your kids?
In this episode, I want to talk with you about how you can help your kids set and keep goals. I have gathered together some general goal-setting advice as well as ways to support your kids in their goals. I also have a list of examples of goals that kids can set and achieve.
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I spend time every year journaling and reflecting on the previous year. I have mixed feelings going into 2023, but I want to see this new year in the way that God wants me to see it. What if we chose to ask God to change us when we encounter challenges and struggles instead of focusing so much on changing others around us?
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Our family has a wonderful announcement to share with the world! My son recently won an Emmy for cinematography for his part in a documentary called Challenge Accepted about a young girl named Faith-Christina. Every child is different, but I want to share with you some ways in which we went about raising a creative child who went on to win an Emmy.
This is the beginning of a series of episodes about raising different kinds of kids to adulthood and preparing them for their desired careers. There's no right way to walk this path, but there are good practices and wise choices. I can share through what I know about Strengths Finders and personalities some of how and why we did what we did. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/raising-a-creative-child
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As we come to the end of another year, this is the perfect time to think about the year behind you and what you did or did not accomplish. Maybe you're wearily thinking that something has to change for 2023. Maybe you're looking forward in anticipation for this new year. Either way, I want to share with you some ideas for how to reflect and refocus for the new year during these finals days of this year.
As you wrap up your Christmas celebrations, the week between Christmas and New Year's is a great time each year to reflect and refocus on your goals in various areas: General life, spiritual, relational, and more! In this episode, I talk about the benefits of journaling and how I go about reviewing what God did in the previous year and how to write out hopes and goals for the coming year in various areas of your life. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/reflect-and-refocus
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A friend recently suggested to me that I should talk to you about how God answers our prayers and specifically prayers of protection for our kids. Praying for your children is an important part of the spiritual development of your kids and for you as a parent.
In this episode, I share some recent experiences with prayer and the importance of praying for your children - not just praying for those risk-takers who naturally drive you to your knees but for all for your children. Prayer is action! Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/praying-for-your-children
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We're moving into the holiday season with lots of parties, gatherings, and festivities! In this episode, I want to focus on creating traditions and holiday rituals your children will remember. How you do create memories and create traditions that your children will want to continue to do as they get older and desire to implement with their own families?
Tune into this episode to hear some activity ideas that we did over the years and how my kids are starting to take some of these traditions and holiday rituals into their own families. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/holiday-rituals-your-children-will-remember
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We've experienced a lot of change in the last few years. Everywhere I turn, I'm reading or hearing about someone else in crisis. I've had seasons of crisis in my own life recently. Today, I thought it would be helpful to talk about how to help others in a crisis.
Whether it's the loss of a loved one, a medical diagnosis, the loss of a job, a wayward child, or just the concern about how to put food on the table this week, there's someone near you in crisis. People want to know that they are not alone! In this episode, I share some thoughts and tips for how to help others in a crisis. read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/how-to-help-others-in-a-crisis
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In the episode last week, I talked about resting vs quitting. So many of you contacted me asking about kids who have a tendency to give up on something too soon. How do you go about teaching kids not to quit?
It's really important to know each of your children as individuals. There tend to be a few basic reasons that kids want to quit and the way you go about helping and encouraging these kids is very different. In this episode, I talk about three different types of kids, why they want to quit, and things to consider as a parent when you're trying to teach kids not to quit.
Each of your children is different, but you are just the parent they need to become who God has created them to be! Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/teaching-kids-not-to-quit
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In the episode last week, I talked about resting vs quitting. So many of you contacted me asking about kids who have a tendency to give up on something too soon. How do you go about teaching kids not to quit?
It's really important to know each of your children as individuals. There tend to be a few basic reasons that kids want to quit and the way you go about helping and encouraging these kids is very different. In this episode, I talk about three different types of kids, why they want to quit, and things to consider as a parent when you're trying to teach kids not to quit.
Each of your children is different, but you are just the parent they need to become who God has created them to be! Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/teaching-kids-not-to-quit
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There's a difference between resting and quitting. Many times I feel like I want to quit. Today, I want to remind you that it's okay to rest, but it's not okay to quit.
In this episode, I'm being vulnerable and sharing some recent life events that have made me want to quit. I know I can't quit, but I also know that God is calling me to a season of rest for a while. I talk you through some helpful advice and considerations for evaluating where and how to rest. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/okay-to-rest
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There's a difference between resting and quitting. Many times I feel like I want to quit. Today, I want to remind you that it's okay to rest, but it's not okay to quit.
In this episode, I'm being vulnerable and sharing some recent life events that have made me want to quit. I know I can't quit, but I also know that God is calling me to a season of rest for a while. I talk you through some helpful advice and considerations for evaluating where and how to rest. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/okay-to-rest
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I speak frequently about how to keep kids safe online. I've found two camps of parenting styles when it comes to technology and internet usage. On one side, some parents decide to give no access at all to technology. On the other side, they allow their kids near unrestricted access.
If you've been around the Equipped To Be Podcast for very long, you know that I'm not a proponent of restricting all access to technology and the internet. At the same time, I've found that giving too much access without much monitoring and deep conversations with your kids can also backfire. I believe that the best middle-ground approach to tech usage is to use parental controls AND to have close relationships with your kids.
What does this look like in practice? How do you keep your kids safe online? Listen to this episode for ideas for building relationships AND simple practices for safe tech usage. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/how-to-keep-kids-safe-online
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In episode #134, I told you that teaching kids to serve is a great way to help manage the impacts of stress. I mentioned the recent devastation in southwest Florida from Hurricane Ian and that Samaritan's Purse is an excellent ministry to give money to or to partner with for serving in person in a disaster area. This week, Shannon Dailley from Samaritan's Purse joins me to talk about the work that ministry is doing in Florida and around the world.
Shannon and I discuss the kinds of work that Samaritan's Purse does in disaster areas around the world. We also talk about how families can get involved together and how impactful that can be for kids for the rest of their lives. Shannon describes what volunteer day looks like starting with breakfast and devotions through volunteering for and ministering to a homeowner.
Please note that volunteers with Samaritan's Purse must be at least 14 years of age due to the nature of the work and proximity to heavy equipment.
Read the full show notes for more details about serving with or requesting assistance from Samaritan's Purse in Southwest Florida: https://conniealbers.com/teaching-kids-to-serve-with-samaritans-purse
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It's a scary world out there. Humanistic culture is trying to take your kids and instill in them a worldview contrary to our biblical worldview. This week, Lee Ann Mancini is with me on the podcast talking about raising Christian kids and fighting against this evil worldview.
We talked about the story behind Lee Ann's children's books and the Sea Kids animated show plus much, much more! Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/raising-christian-kids-with-lee-ann-mancini
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This week on the podcast I'm doing something a little different. I'm answering some reader questions! Two types of questions that I receive regularly from parents center on stress and failure. So in this episode, I'm going to address how to manage the impacts of stress and failure for your kids.
I give you four steps to consider in managing stress as a parent and a list of questions to help you decide when to step and when it is better to allow your child to fail. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/manage-the-impacts-of-stress-and-failure
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I'm excited to welcome Dr. Kathy Koch back to the podcast! Dr. Kathy has a new book about kids and resiliency. She's back to talk with me today about this book titled Resilient Kids and to define and expand upon resiliency. This is about so much more than the trauma of living through a pandemic! I recently saw a statistic from Max Lucado that something like 80% of young people are feeling stress, anxiety, and/or depression. The mental health crisis in our country is staggering! Dr. Kathy and Celebrate Kids are doing what they can to educate parents. She's optimistic but realistic in the way that she teaches. In this episode, Dr. Kathy defines resiliency. She talks about things like walking with your kids through struggles, toxic positivity, working on self-talk, Big T vs little t trauma, and so much more! Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/resilient-kids-with-dr-kathy-koch Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend!
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Parenting is hard. Deciding how to implement parenting advice can be even more difficult. There are a lot of parenting books out there. I even wrote one myself! Sadly, many parenting books can come across as being the only right way to parent your child. You might start to think, "What is wrong with my child?" when doing what the author says on page 76 isn't working.
In this episode, I want to encourage you to be careful of who you choose to listen to when it comes to parenting advice and show you how to decide which parenting advice to implement.
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Parenting is hard. Deciding how to implement parenting advice can be even more difficult. There are a lot of parenting books out there. I even wrote one myself! Sadly, many parenting books can come across as being the only right way to parent your child. You might start to think, "What is wrong with my child?" when doing what the author says on page 76 isn't working.
In this episode, I want to encourage you to be careful of who you choose to listen to when it comes to parenting advice and show you how to decide which parenting advice to implement.
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There's a new term in HR departments around the country: quiet quitters. It refers to people who don't want to overexert themselves. They do just enough to get their paycheck and not get fired. Your children have the opportunity to take the marketplace by storm in this quiet quitter culture!
In this episode, I talk about how to raise kids who pursue excellence and know how to put in a good day of work instead of doing just enough.
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There's a new term in HR departments around the country: quiet quitters. It refers to people who don't want to overexert themselves. They do just enough to get their paycheck and not get fired. Your children have the opportunity to take the marketplace by storm in this quiet quitter culture!
In this episode, I talk about how to raise kids who pursue excellence and know how to put in a good day of work instead of doing just enough.
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Are you immersing yourself in today? Or are you wrapped up in taking pictures "so you won't forget?" Or consumed with what someone else is doing? Or thinking about work that needs to be done? I have the same temptations and I want to encourage you to focus more on immersing yourself in today rather than the cares of tomorrow.
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How many times when you're on vacation or on a nature walk with your kids, do you pull out your phone and take pictures? You start snapping pictures of everything because you want to remember it all. You want to be able to look back and relive the moment later. How often do you take pictures but forget to be fully present in the moment?
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Are you immersing yourself in today? Or are you wrapped up in taking pictures "so you won't forget?" Or consumed with what someone else is doing? Or thinking about work that needs to be done? I have the same temptations and I want to encourage you to focus more on immersing yourself in today rather than the cares of tomorrow.
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How many times when you're on vacation or on a nature walk with your kids, do you pull out your phone and take pictures? You start snapping pictures of everything because you want to remember it all. You want to be able to look back and relive the moment later. How often do you take pictures but forget to be fully present in the moment?
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I've recently come through a very difficult season in my life. Trial after trial kept coming. I couldn't get through most days without at least a few tears or without feeling exhausted. For me, this season carried a lot of death and painful losses. For you, maybe it's saying goodbye to someone you love, a financial situation, or a wayward child. How do you get through trials?
In my 20s, I was full of hope and expectations. My 30s were much of the same, running towards my goals for my life. But trials hit us all at some point in life. I wrote an article on this topic of trials recently in the Homeschooling Today Magazine. I shared how when we're in the midst of trials, it's easy to get discouraged and frustrated. It's hard when we can't accomplish what we're used to accomplishing!
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I've recently come through a very difficult season in my life. Trial after trial kept coming. I couldn't get through most days without at least a few tears or without feeling exhausted. For me, this season carried a lot of death and painful losses. For you, maybe it's saying goodbye to someone you love, a financial situation, or a wayward child. How do you get through trials?
In my 20s, I was full of hope and expectations. My 30s were much of the same, running towards my goals for my life. But trials hit us all at some point in life. I wrote an article on this topic of trials recently in the Homeschooling Today Magazine. I shared how when we're in the midst of trials, it's easy to get discouraged and frustrated. It's hard when we can't accomplish what we're used to accomplishing!
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How do you survive these times of trial? I have some suggestions and encouragement for you! Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/how-to-get-through-trials
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Brittany Ann is with me in this episode to talk about how to follow God's will as well as her upcoming virtual conference, Called to Act. She was on the show a while back and I encourage you to listen to episode #48 to learn more about Brittany Ann and her ministry.
This time, Brittany Ann and I had a great conversation surrounding learning how to follow God's will. I think you'll be inspired and encouraged by what she has to say! Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/how-to-follow-gods-will
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Brittany Ann is with me in this episode to talk about how to follow God's will as well as her upcoming virtual conference, Called to Act. She was on the show a while back and I encourage you to listen to episode #48 to learn more about Brittany Ann and her ministry.
This time, Brittany Ann and I had a great conversation surrounding learning how to follow God's will. I think you'll be inspired and encouraged by what she has to say! Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/how-to-follow-gods-will
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As a parent, it can be a tricky balance to decide how much to share or not to share with your parents about your homeschooling journey. You may have parents who are supportive or you may have parents who are not supportive of your schooling choice. I've had both experiences. Grandparents can be a great support for their homeschool grandkids if they make intentional choices.
I give a little advice for parents in this episode, but I really focus the conversation on grandparents. I have a list of suggestions for ways that you can support your homeschool grandkids - and their parents.
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What shapes family relationships? How can your kids grow up to be close friends? I wish I could tell you that you can build sibling relationships using a simple three-step formula. It can be simple, but it does take work and more than three steps to create an environment that will strengthen sibling relationships.
I love watching the relationships that have been built between my kids over the years. Let's talk about some ways that you can create an environment to strengthen sibling relationships. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/strengthen-sibling-relationships
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How does your child think? How do they process the world around them? If you have multiple children as I do, you have probably seen that one child can be extremely different from another child in your family. This is because each of your children is uniquely created by God!
This is episode eleven of a series I've been doing on my book, Parenting Beyond the Rules. From the beginning of parenting, I wanted to know how my kids tick and what ticks them off. We have already talked about how the goal is to reach the finish line with your relationships with your children intact. You want them to know that you are their greatest cheerleader and that you are trustworthy. Part of that process is to help each child find how they were uniquely created and this requires a lot of observation on your part.
Let's talk about how to observe and support your kids in finding out who they are uniquely created to be. Read the full show notes with links at https://conniealbers.com/uniquely-created
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Ever have that desire to jump into the car for a very long drive... ALONE? Or feel the need to take a long walk by yourself rather than deal with another teenage drama or toddler meltdown? As a mom of 5, I know the feeling. But, you can't quit. Take a break, but remember it's always too soon to quit. Your kids need you to stay engaged! Yes, even those teens who act like they don't need you at times, they need you too!
This is episode ten of a series I've been doing on my book, Parenting Beyond the Rules. Friend, we are in a fight for our families and for relationships with our kids. You can't check out mentally, emotionally, or physically. You don't have the luxury of telling them to come back when they are 18 or 25. Let's talk about why you need to stay engaged and some ways to stay engaged when this parenting things gets hard. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/stay-engaged/
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We have been gripped by fear for the last several years. The pandemic and waves of uncertainty hit us on top of the more common day-to-day fears. But, God says there's no place for fear in our lives! He tells us not to fear because He is with us (Isaiah 41:10). Do you believe that? Are you ready to squash fear?
In this ninth episode of the series we've been doing on my book Parenting Beyond the Rules, I want to show you how to squash the fear in your life so it no longer paralyzes you. Let's also talk about 6 ways that you can respond to sticky parenting situations that cause fear to arise in you. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/squash-the-fear
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We have been gripped by fear for the last several years. The pandemic and waves of uncertainty hit us on top of the more common day-to-day fears. But, God says there's no place for fear in our lives! He tells us not to fear because He is with us (Isaiah 41:10). Do you believe that? Are you ready to squash fear?
In this ninth episode of the series we've been doing on my book Parenting Beyond the Rules, I want to show you how to squash the fear in your life so it no longer paralyzes you. Let's also talk about 6 ways that you can respond to sticky parenting situations that cause fear to arise in you. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/squash-the-fear
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How many times have you said something and then wished you hadn't said those words? Have you reacted to something your child did without thinking and you snapped at them in the process? The power of your words can be a tool or a weapon.
This is the eighth episode in a series on my book, Parenting Beyond the Rules. Last week we talked about learning to listen and this week I want to pivot to monitoring your mouth. The power of words can be used to build up or tear down. Neutrality isn't really an option. And, the power of words doesn't end with your kids. This applies to your spouse, friends, and coworkers too.
Let's talk about what it looks like to monitor your mouth and harness the power of your words. And I have some tips for getting started in using your words wisely. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/the-power-of-words/
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I've worked with kids from little ones to college kids for over 30 years. The number one complaint I hear from parents is: "My kids don't talk to me!" On the other side, the number one complaint I hear from kids is: "My parents don't listen to me!" You want our kids to talk to you, but do you know how to listen to your child?
It's up to you as the parent to become a better listener. In this episode, I'm sharing tips to help you learn to listen to your child. Over time, you'll be able to show yourself as trustworthy and reliable so your child is more likely to choose to talk to you. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/how-to-listen-to-your-child/
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Have you ever felt like you're trying so hard but you're losing the battle to talk to your kids? First, I want to tell you that is a defeatist mindset and I invite you to change the way that you look at the situation. There are things you can do! Second, there are so many forces out there who are against you and trying to speak into your child's life. Don't give up! You have to learn how to understand your child's world and have the hard conversations in order to develop a strong relationship with your child.
In this sixth episode in a series about Parenting Beyond the Rules, I want to give you some suggestions for how to understand your child's world. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/how-to-understand-your-childs-world/
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When you have a baby, there is unimaginable joy. It's hard to understand how much a mom or dad loves their child. But, we have to be careful to not put conditions on that love as they grow older. There are hindrances that can pop up to giving your kids unconditional love. In this episode, I'm discussing four hindrances that could prevent you from giving your kids unconditional love and giving you suggestions for overcoming those hindrances. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/unconditional-love/ Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! Have a question? Interested in having Connie speak? Send an email to Connie here: https://conniealbers.com/contact/
My father-in-law is an architect. Years ago, when my kids were little, I was in his office looking at the artwork on the walls. It was a collection of buildings that he had designed. One, in particular, caught my eye. It was a building designed on the side of a mountain with metal posts going into the ground. As I talked to him about it, I learned about foundations and what it takes to know how to build in a situation like this. His answer: the soil. You have to know the soil. It's the same with your kids. To build a strong foundation of relationship with them you have to know their soil and how to best build on that soil.
God created your child to be a masterpiece, as we've already discussed in this series. It's up to you to learn about the soil of each of their hearts to help build a strong foundation in them. You have to become an expert on your child. What gets them excited? What lifts them up? What drives them to tears? Each of your children is different so it's important to adjust your approach so you do not wound the sensitive one but also get through to the strong child.
In this 4th episode in a series about Parenting Beyond the Rules, let's dive into what it takes to build trust with our kids. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/foundation-of-relationship/
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Did you get a parenting manual when your child was handed to you? Sometimes it feels like it would have been easier if we had been given a guide or some 3-step formula when they were born. Instead, you're searching the internet for quick tips and hacks to get you through the current parenting struggle. Sometimes the picture gets blurry... but God is not done with the story!
Maybe you're currently looking at a picture of life and of your child that isn't quite what you thought it would look like back when they were little. Maybe your teen is rebellious. Maybe you have a child who is simply ignoring you. Maybe you've thrown up your hands and declared, "It is what it is!" That may be true, but only for this moment. God created that masterpiece in the making and He is not done yet!
In this third episode in a series about Parenting Beyond the Rules, I'm talking about the top 5 parenting styles and how you can adjust to the needs of each of your children when the picture gets blurry. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/when-the-picture-gets-blurry/
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The purpose when I started writing Parenting Beyond the Rules was to talk about the principles that we're trying to instill into our kids as we're raising them: Discipline, kindness, sharing, honesty, trustworthiness, etc. But, it is so easy to get confused and think that this parenting thing is all about the rules. If you break a rule, then here's the consequence. It is so much more than that!
As I wrote the book and it went through the editing process, the message changed along the way. The cover of the book so perfectly illustrates what the book really turned out to be. The paint brushes and the strokes of paint show how it's really about how your children are each a masterpiece in the making. Your kids are not all the same. We're not making assembly line parts!
Tune into this episode for tips for helping your child become the masterpiece they were created to be. Read the full show notes with links here:
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I've made mistakes in my parenting journey. Plenty of mistakes! I didn't do it all right and I don't have all of the answers. If I were to go back and start this process all over again, I would just make different mistakes because imperfect parents can't parent perfectly. And your kids are imperfect too. In this series of podcast episodes centered on the themes from my book Parenting Beyond the Rules, I want to help you see how you can parent beyond the rules. In this first episode, I share how Parenting Beyond the Rules came to be and the importance of parenting beyond the rules to help each of your children become the unique masterpiece God created them to be. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/the-importance-of-parenting-beyond-the-rules
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Our minds are powerful. Sometimes our thoughts run away from us. We find ourselves falling into destructive self-talk and negativity. This mindset not only affects us personally, but we end up bringing this baggage into our marriage and parenting. How can you overcome toxic thinking?
Alicia Michelle joins me to talk about mindset, toxic thinking, and how to use science and the Bible together to make changes. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/toxic-thinking-with-alicia-michelle/
About Alicia Michelle
Alicia Michelle is an author, Bible teacher, podcaster, and certified NeuroCoach. Known as the Mindset Makeover Coach, she equips Christian women with practical brain-and-biblically-based tools so they know how to renew their minds in order to overcome toxic thinking patterns (such as perfectionism, fear/worry, and not feeling “enough”) so they can cultivate godly confidence.
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Sometimes it can be hard to be and to love where you are. It is so tempting to try to speed up time and pass over sticky, messy seasons. We want to rush through suffering and pain. But, there are lessons to be learned and relationships to be built in these seasons. Somer Colbert joins me in this episode to talk about these things and how to love where you are.
About Somer Colbert Somer Colbert is a writer, speaker, and host of the Love Where You Are podcast. She is the Director of Adoption and Foster Care Ministry at Crosschurch and Connected Champion with the Arkansas Baptist Children’s Home and Family Ministries where she creates support, awareness, and advocacy for families seeking to serve in the areas of adoption and foster care. Somer is also a part of the Hope in Grief writing team where she encourages families walking through adoption grief. She creates weekly podcast episodes and resources to equip and empower Christian families to identify their influence for the gospel in every season, live life on mission, and share Jesus right where they are. Somer is passionate about equipping spiritually healthy families and seeing a movement of God's people step into confidence in their ability to change the world around them through the way they love! She resides in Arkansas with her husband, three kids, and three dogs. She's obsessed with British docudramas and cooking shows and can always be found with a cup of hot tea in hand. Her life has been forever changed by the love of Jesus, marriage to her favorite person, parenting her crazy crew, and walking multiple adoption journeys.
Tune in to this conversation where we discuss how to love where you are in every season of your life, building relationships, and living out Deuteronomy 6. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/love-where-you-are-with-somer-colbert
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Do you smile in your homeschool and in your family life? Raising your kids, homeschooling, and developing relationships are all hard work. Sometimes you lose your smile... You're not alone in this journey! Todd Wilson from The Smiling Homeschooler wants to see you have joy and smile.
In this episode, Todd had me laughing as we talked about having joy in homeschooling, dads taking responsibility in the family, and more. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/the-smiling-homeschooler-with-todd-wilson
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Translating between languages can be tricky. Sometimes one word just can't encompass all of the nuances of meaning or one words contains the concepts of two words from another language. When translated into French from English, delight is one of these complicated words. In the French language and culture, you can't separate the idea of delight from deliciousness. This means that God is both delightful and delicious! Stephanie Rousselle joins me in this episode to talk about how to taste the spice of the Gospel and so much more.
About Stephanie Rousselle Stephanie Rousselle is the founder of Gospel Spice Ministries. Her motto is, “God’s glory, our delight!” Born and raised in France, she has lived for her One over the last two decades on three continents, four countries, and five cities through six professional roles. She is a wife, mom, podcaster, public speaker, Bible teacher, former women’s ministry director, and strategy consultant. And she is 100% French. Stephanie thrives on Bible-centered inspirational writing and speaking, and dark chocolate. She loves sharing nuances taken from the French and English languages and cultures to experience the New Testament from the inside out. She has quoted her favorite words more times than she can count, first to herself and her children, and then also in settings as diverse as Bible studies, conferences, podcasts, and more: “There is nothing you can do for God to love you more; and there is nothing you can do for God to love you less." Her favorite verse and passion is Philippians 3:10, “For my determined purpose is to know Christ, and the power of His resurrection and the fellowship
in His suffering.”
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We tend to have relationships based on what was modeled for us as children. That's the first place we learn about relationships. As parents, we have the opportunity to change the negative patterns and teach our children about nurturing relationships and how to navigate the subtle nuances of relationships.
In this episode, I had the opportunity to talk with my friends Blythe Daniel and her mom, Dr. Helen McIntosh. We discuss:
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Navigating grief is not easy. I've endured several seasons of loss in the last few years, so I know this firsthand. My guest on this episode is sadly well-acquainted with grief but has turned her story into one that serves and encourages others as they navigate grief.
Danita Jenae has learned to navigate grief by holding both joy and sorrow in the same breath as a military widow who was already familiar with trials. Shortly after making what was to be their final military move, which would lead into finishing out her husband Dan's final year of service before retiring, he passed unexpectedly while hiking in the mountains of Colorado. She says that her mountains crumbled that day, in more ways than one.
Danita shares how she rebuilt in this new location, how she handled isolation when the pandemic started just months later, and so much more. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/navigating-grief-with-danita-jenae/
About Danita Jenae Danita Jenae is a young mom and recent military widow learning to carry both joy and sorrow in the same breath. As an author, speaker, poet, and artist, she walks alongside the broken-hearted, offering practical and creative ways to lead a Spirit-led life.
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Are you biting your nails a little more than usual lately? Are you flat-out irritated or angry about what you see happening around you? I'm right there with you! We're living in a woke world. So, what should you do?
Whether it's Disney, Florida Governor DeSantis signing the law to prevent early elementary-aged children from being taught about gender, or Will Smith and Chris Rock's "slap heard 'round the world," anyone with a microphone is trying to tell you how you should think or what you should do in response.
How are they supposed to know what you're supposed to do? There are blatant attacks on your values at every turn. Let's talk about running your race in a work world. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/woke-world/
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Are you a sunrise or a sunset person? Do you like rising early to start the day and ponder what is ahead of you as the sun comes up? Or do you prefer to sit and consider what happened in your day as the sun goes down? Every day there's a beautiful rhythm and repetition to our days. But, what are the benefits of repetition? Why do we need these rhythms to our days?
Whether is it the story your children ask you to read over and over again or whether is it the discipline that needs to become a habit in your life, repetition has much value in your life. Read the full show notes with links here:
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You can't ignore conflict and have that conflict just disappear. You also can't resolve conflict by addressing it straight up. Working out conflicts is a complex process. Let's talk through some ways that you can better handle conflict resolution, whether the person on the other side is your child, your spouse, your friend, or your coworker. The goal is to resolve conflict to restore relationships.
In this episode, I share some tips and thoughts on how to handle conflict whether you are the offender or the offended in the situation. Read the full show notes with links here:
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It used to be that college kids were the ones who would walk away from their faith. Now, it's teens leaving the Church. It is kids aged 15-17 who are are the ones walking away at an alarming rate. This is rooted in the pandemic and the deeming of churches as non-essential.
Did you know that 16.5% of people don't believe in good and evil? I guess this could explain all of the hostility, rudeness, and violence we're seeing these days. If you don't believe in good and evil, then what do you believe in? This is what your kids are facing! So what can you do in response to this? I have 4 suggested responses in this episode. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/teens-leaving-the-church/
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I've been at the National Religious Broadcasters conference this past week. My experiences there made me think about people and how they pitch themselves to others. There's a time and a place for pitching yourself, such as in a job interview. But, I think as Christians, we have to be careful of constantly self-inflating or making sure that people around us know how great or wonderful or accomplished we are. We want to teach our children to be discerning about this as well.
Our purpose is to elevate Jesus, not ourselves. We don't have to self-elevate because God equips us for what we need to do. We need to be living a life that is promoting and causing other people to see the Lord because it's not about us. We need to be teaching this truth to our children as well.
I encourage you use to use the acronym P.R.A.Y. to help you keep your focus on God in these situations. Read the full show notes with links here:
https://conniealbers.com/be-genuine/
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I've been doing a lot of research about technology and how it affects our families and our kids. Since the beginning of the pandemic, online usage, especially social media, has risen 50% or more. But, I've said many times, technology is not the problem! It's the usage of technology that is the problem. It's how we are using it and how often we are using it. How can you manage device use when your family is gathered together so that relationships are kept top priority?
In this episode, I'm sharing how to set expectations for device usage when your family is gathered as well as how to approach a disengaged family member who is using their device too much.
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The CDC recently released new developmental milestone markers for children. This new guidance sadly shows that our children have been developmentally delayed and emotionally hindered during the pandemic. Young children are taking longer to get to their first steps, to smile for the first time, and to wave goodbye. All of our lives have been interrupted in the last two years, but the fallout is showing up in our children.
Your child doesn't have to be a casualty of the experiment or remain a statistic. Let's talk about some ways that you can equip your children in this season.
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Yvette Hampton from Schoolhouse Rocked and her family have an incredible story of following God. God called them to sell their home, buy an RV, leave California, and create a documentary about homeschooling. Yvette shares how the perfect author of our lives does amazing work when we trust Him and allow Him to do His work. He is a faithful God! This is a fascinating Abraham-type story that you have to hear straight from Yvette's mouth. I hope it encourages you to follow God even when the circumstances seem impossible!
I'm thankful for the opportunity to have been a part of Schoolhouse Rocked and hope that you'll take the time to watch the documentary for yourself and share it with your friends.
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It's been a long road for this podcast, but I've stayed the course. The Equipped To Be podcast began just a few weeks before COVID hit and the world went into lockdown. I knew we were supposed to be doing this podcast. People had been asking me for a podcast for years. And so in February of 2020 we prepared and then went live at the end of that month. That was almost two years ago! And now, here we are at episode 100! Let's take a look at these first 100 episodes and what is needed for staying the course.
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When I talk to teens, I hear this time and time again. Teens want to be heard, but they feel like their parents are not listening. Parents tell me that their teen doesn't talk to them. Your teen has few true choices at this point in their life. You are choosing where they live and where they go to school. Their choices in food and clothes are likely limited by budget or other restrictions. They are desperately trying to mature from a child into an adult, but they are not going to navigate that path perfectly. Some of the tension comes because you as the parent need to work on creating your unique parenting style and figuring out how that fits with your unique child.
Can you change your parenting style? Tune in to this episode and find out the two starting steps for changing your parenting style. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/creating-your-unique-parenting-style/
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it all done? If you look at the Proverbs 31 woman and think that you'll never measure up, I want to remind you that story is a picture of this woman's whole life, not a snapshot of a 24-hour day! You can build the life, the credentials, and the tools needed to fulfill what God has called you to do. And you have to discipline your mind to get there.
Listen in as I share some practical advice for how to discipline your mind. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/how-to-discipline-your-mind/
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I was reviewing some data recently for a project that will soon lead to another book. As I analyzed that data, it made me think about excellence. I pondered what it means to live a life of excellence. What are God’s standards? Excellence is important in education, in your parenting, and in your business. Whatever your task is today, excellence in that task is of utmost importance! Listen in as I share some thoughts and encouragement for living a life of excellence. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/live-a-life-of-excellence/
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What's in a name? You could call it leaving a legacy or building a heritage, but are you casting a vision to your kids for what you want your family to be? Are you building a family name that has lasting meaning to your kids? What do you want your kids to say about your family after they've left the nest? You can start making changes now and cast that vision to your kids of who you want your family to be.
Walk with me through making a list of things that you want for your family and see the example of the vision that we cast to our kids over the years. There were three things in particular that we wanted our kids to know about our family name. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/building-a-family-name/
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A new year always brings some kind of change that must be embraced. And there have been so many changes in these last couple of years of disruption! Maybe you're homeschooling or distance learning now, but you weren't last year. Maybe you're still working from home or maybe you're transitioning back to the office. How do you adapt to these changes? Are you holding on to the One who can help you be stable in the midst of disruptions? Are you confident in the One who can help you with embracing change?
The rules of life seem to be constantly changing. How do you adapt without losing your focus or losing your why? To thrive and not just survive in 2022, it's time to take a look at our thinking patterns of why we do what we do. Let's walk through how you can embrace change this year.
Listen in as Connie walks you through evaluating your family rules and making changes for the new year. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/embracing-change/
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Your tweens and teens have been through a lot of change. They need you to help them cope with these changes. Society at large says that they will be fine because they can handle more than their parents think they can handle, but can they? While kids are resilient, that doesn't mean that they don't have wounds from what happens to them. What they really need is a parent. Their parent. They need a parent who will stand up to culture and do the unpopular hard work of real parenting.
How can you be the parent your child needs? Let's dig into some of the simple starting points! Read the full shows notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/parent-your-child-needs/
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Dr. Chris Hughes from Citizens for America is back on the show today. He shares more about his background, what Citizens for America is, and encouragement for you as a believer in our current culture.
Tune in as well for a couple of exciting developments coming in 2022! Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/citizens-for-america/
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We’ve heard so much about CRT in the last couple of years, but have you heard about the sexualization of America’s children? Yes. You read that right. This is happening and it’s being funded by the federal government. Dr. Chris Hughes joins me in this episode to talk about this important issue.
As parents, we are responsible for the education of our children. For some, this might mean sending your kids into the public school system. But, choosing this form of education doesn’t mean that you are removed from involvement in what your children are learning. When Dr. Chris Hughes’ kids were growing up, he was paying close attention to what was being taught to his kids in school. He knew who their teachers, principals, and administrators were. He went to the school board meetings. This is when he started learning about the graphic sexual material being taught in schools and saw how few parents were choosing to opt out of this teaching.
Listen in as Connie and Dr. Hughes discuss the Common Sexuality Education curriculum and how you as a Christian parent can respond. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/sexualization-of-americas-children
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The holidays can be hectic. The plays, parties, and gatherings. The decorating, shopping, and wrapping. What do you do around the holidays that are unique and repeated traditions for your family? The importance of family traditions comes out over time in the building of strong family relationships and connectedness.
Family traditions are important to creating strong family relationships. Connie talks about the why and gives suggestions for how to create these traditions in this episode. Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/importance-family-traditions
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Mentors are important and play a special role in our lives. Unfortunately, it is far too easy for mentors to replace mothers, or fathers, in a child's life. God has given parents a special calling and responsibility that mentors cannot replace in the life of a teen or young adult. What do you do when the mentor-mentee relationship lines have been blurred to the point that the mentee sees the mentor as an authority above the parent?
In this episode, Connie gives tips to both the mentor and the mother for how to handle this unforunate situation. Listen in and read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/mentors-replace-mothers
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Your older children are facing a world with so much chaos and conflicting information. If you're like me, you want them to know what you think. You want to protect them from failure or pain. But whether your older children are teens, college-aged, young adults, or older, there comes a point when you can't make them do or say the right thing. You can't force them to navigate a situation well. These older children are now adults, or close to being adults. It's a new season and you need to learn how to give advice to older children.
In this episode, Connie shares three tips for giving advice to your older children. Read the full show notes with links here:
https://conniealbers.com/advice-to-older-children/
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Do you have kids who say things like this: "Mom, you just don't understand. You're always on my back. You constantly criticize and tell me what I do wrong." I want you to know that there is a way to build a relationship with your kids while enforcing the rules of your household. The key is to teach the principle behind the rules.
Listen in to this episode as Connie gives insight on finding the principles behind the rules to build deeper relationships with your kids and reduce the push back you get from them. Read the full show notes with links here:
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What should you do when you have a rebellious child? When your child pulls away from you? When your adult child is estranged from you? We don't openly talk about these kinds of struggles or share these heartbreaking experiences readily on social media. The picture of life can become blurry during these kinds of painful seasons, but there are things that you can do. Let's talk about the possibilities!
Listen in as Connie shares encouragement as well as some tips for navigating this heartbreak with rebellious children or estranged adult children. Read the full notes notes with links here:
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Tom and I did a lot over the years to cultivate close sibling relationships within our family. I hear frequently that this is an issue of importance and concern for you as you raise your kids. You want to build strong sibling relationships between your kids. So, what do you want to see for your relationship with your kids when they become adults? What do you want to see in the relationships between your children when they become adults? Let's talk about how you can build a strong foundation starting now to achieve that vision.
Listen in for Connie's specific tips and encouragement (Hint - trust is key!) Read the full show notes with links here:
https://conniealbers.com/build-sibling-relationships/
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How can you learn to love struggles and trials? We are conditioned to ignore and suppress struggles and trials in order to not appear weak or vulnerable. But, God can use struggles and trials to grow and change you if follow His leading.
Listen in as Connie shares how she's learned to learned to love struggles and trials and why you should too! Read the full show notes with links here:
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Grief is part of life. Death, loss, separation, trials, unmet needs, or unfulfilled expectations are a few things we find ourselves grieving over. How can you walk wisely through seasons of grief?
How we deal with grief can depend on our age, temperament, the ages of our children, faith or lack thereof, and the circumstances surrounding the situation. With all these factors to consider, walking through seasons of grief is a rather personal matter. How you process what you are feeling is unique to you.
Join Connie has she talks through how to wisely walk through seasons of grief. What will you do with grief? Will you let God refine you along the way? Read the full show notes with links here:
https://conniealbers.com/seasons-of-grief/
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There are so many different crises vying for your attention these day. As hard as you might try, you can do it all. You can't fight every battle at once. So, how do you pick the battle or battles that you will fight? How do you best fight for your family?
Connie shares 3 tips for determining on which battles to focus your limited time and attention to best fight for your family. Read the full show notes with links here:
https://conniealbers.com/how-to-fight-for-your-family/
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Strong-willed children do not want to surrender; they want to have their way. Therefore, they often view your instructions as mere suggestions. If they win the argument or don’t have to do what you tell them to do, then they win. The problem is that doesn’t prepare them for life. You are the parent! So, how do you successfully raise a strong-willed child?
Listen into this episode for Connie's suggestions on raising strong-willed kids (or strong-minded future leaders)!
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https://conniealbers.com/successfully-raise-a-strong-willed-child/
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Do you know how to create a positive digital footprint and why it matters to your child’s future?
Most of us know what we shouldn’t share online. We also know the sites we visit and that conversations aren’t private. But children don’t know this! Most children think what they do will vanish after a short time. The idea that every click and conversation is being archived or watched by big tech screeners is unfathomable to them.
Listen to Connie's tips for teaching your kids how to make wise clicks and create a positive digital footprint. Read the full show notes here:
https://conniealbers.com/positive-digital-footprint
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Parents are rightly concerned when it comes to technology. But unfortunately, devices are often the source of disagreements, threats, and angry outbursts in many families. Kids don't understand the dangers, and parents don't know how to navigate online usage. What do you need to know for raising tech-savvy kids?
In March of 2020, the number of hours children spent online drastically increased. Most kids didn't have a choice. They had to do school virtually, which meant more tech time. And because every activity was canceled, kids needed to "do" something because they couldn't go out the way they were accustomed to. At first, the shock of all the disruption parents found themselves letting their children spend way more time than they've ever allowed before. But now, parents are revisiting their children's digital usage.
Is technology bad? Is the Internet safe? The simple answer to both questions is no. Technology isn't bad; it's neutral. It only does what it's programmed to do. And the Internet isn't safe, but that doesn't mean we can't or shouldn't learn how to use the Internet wisely.
In this episode, we'll focus on two points every parent must consider so that they can raise tech-savvy children who know how to use these powerful tools skillfully.
Read the full show notes here: https://conniealbers.com/raising-tech-savvy-kids/
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Does God want us to honor our parents? Or is that only for children?
The answer is yes! We need to honor our parents as we teach our children to honor us. The best way to teach your children to honor us is by example. When they see us honor our parents, they learn what honor means.
Listen in for 3 ways you can honor your parents and be a good example for your children! Read the full show notes with links here:
https://conniealbers.com/honor-parents/
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Are your school-aged kids at risk? How will this back-and-forth sort of schooling impact our kids? First, the back and forth disrupts children's rhythm and routine. They don't know what to expect when things change from day to day. Some children can roll with the ebbs and flows with great ease, but the disruption throws them off for other children. So what can you do as a parent to keep your kids from being at risk?
Listen in as I share simple practical ways to minimize the chances that your kids will be at risk in this season of disruption. Read the full show notes with links here:
https://conniealbers.com/school-kids-at-risk/
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Parents, you have the opportunity to shape and create memorable moments your children will think about for years. A few years ago, I read The Power of Moments by Chip Heath and Dan Heath. If you've read Parenting beyond the Rules, then you know I write about how we can create defining moments with our children. I was doing this when my children were young, which is why I enjoyed reading the book. It affirmed much of what I believed about memory-making. I knew childhood memories were important. I also knew most of my childhood memories were ones I did not want to remember. Actually, there are very few childhood memories I care to remember. That is why I became so passionate about creating memorable moments with my family.
Listen to this episode and learn about 3 ways you can create memorable moments for your kids! Read the full show notes here:
https://conniealbers.com/create-memorable-moments/
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You can learn so much about your children from playtime. Playtime for children can be more revealing about who they are than talking or even watching them in a vocation as they get older.
When there is no test to pass, no educator to please, God-given strengths can flourish through playtime. So as parents, it's important to remember not to confuse an interest that your child has in something with a strength that remains through life.
Helping children pursue interests is not about pushing them to be their best at something or jumping into something you think is a natural fit for them.
The best way to lead your children in the process of discovery is through observation.
When you pay attention to the interest of your child, their strengths start to emerge. So ask questions, listen, and watch what they wonder about. Children are full of surprises.
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https://conniealbers.com/playtime-for-children/
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You know that your kids are watching you, right? They are watching and learning from you how to communicate from the time they are little and well past the teen years into young adulthood.
Last week we finished up the series Knowing Your Strengths. We spent four episodes talking about what strengths are, how to discover your strengths, understanding your strengths, and how to use your strengths. You can listen to that conversation in episodes 71, 73, 73, and 74. That series then made me think a little more about how strengths tie into my life now and a recent situation. I needed to talk with one of my daughters and we needed to be able to speak face to face, eye to eye. So I sent a text to set up the meeting.
Listen to the story of that conversation and how strengths can help you be set a solid foundation for relationships with your kids and communicating well. Read the full show notes here: https://conniealbers.com/your-kids-are-watching-you/
Why does knowing your strengths, talents, and the domain order matter?
If you missed episodes #71, #72, or #73, go back and listen to those first before jumping into this episode.
In this episode we dive into three reasons why you should utilize the Talent Theme Domains.
Read the full show notes: https://conniealbers.com/knowing-your-strengths-part-4/
Where is your child going to school? Will it be public, private, or homeschool? You aren't alone. Millions of parents are making hard decisions back-to-school plans. Are you struggling with the transition from school to homeschool? In this episode, I share what I've learned from being in the education field for thirty years. If homeschool is your choice, this episode is for you!
Read the full show notes here: https://conniealbers.com/transition-from-school-to-homeschool/
Knowing your strengths and your child’s strengths can bring great clarity to you and your child so that everyone can see the masterpiece God designed them to be. While many personality assessments are available, few have the research behind them that StrengthsFinder does. That is based on the work of Donald O. Clifton. The researchers at the Gallup Organization have spent over five decades developing CliftonStrengths. If you missed episodes #71 and #72, go back and listen to them. I explain strengths in greater detail.
Now back to knowing your strengths. You must first understand that all of the 34 talents are good. That’s right! There are no bad ones. Certain strengths aren’t better than others, so dispel that thought now. My goal as a Strengths Practitioner is to help you come to a place of peace, knowing God made you who you are and reminding you that you can’t be excellent at everything! I know many people want to be excellent at everything, but the truth is you can excel at a few things. It’s essential to understand that from the get-go.
Read the full show notes here: https://conniealbers.com/knowing-your-strengths-part-3/
Do you know your strengths? Have you spent time trying to discover what you are uniquely designed for? Do you know why you do what you do? Do you know why you think, feel, and behave in a certain way?
In this episode, I will go deeper into the world of strengths and how knowing your strengths can help you understand yourself and others with great clarity.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/knowing-your-strengths-part-2/
Do you know your strengths? Are you like most people who spend a good deal of time trying to strengthen your weaknesses? Do you dwell on what you aren't particularly good at doing?
Chances are you do. Most people do.
While that might make you feel better knowing other people struggle the way you do, that will not help you in the long run. It can't! Not if you want to become the person God created you to be and run the race with excellence.
Dwelling on weaknesses is counterproductive. What's the alternative?
To know your strengths and learn how to develop them properly so you will gain more confidence to engage with the world around you.
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/knowing-your-strengths-part-1/
When I began homeschooling in the early '90s, most people didn't know it was legal or if it was possible. Parents had a lot to prove to society, especially since professional educators had convinced parents that only qualified "teachers" were fit to educate children.
Well, we worked hard to prove that parents could educate their children thereby disproving their decades-long messaging. It was a tactic used to make parents doubt their ability to educate their children. After thirty years of shaping a movement, parents are still told they don't have what it takes to teach their children. Something I find hard to imagine. Thankfully, millions of parents don't buy into that argument anymore.
In this episode, Durenda Wilson, author of The 4-Hour School Day, shares what she has learned along the way. We debunk myths surrounding homeschooling and discuss the positive elements of children learning at home. Our goal is for you to have a positive attitude towards parenting and motherhood.
Listen to our conversation and read the detailed show notes with resource links here: https://conniealbers.com/the-4-hour-school-day/
Do you know you should be praying for your kids but don't know how? Or do you wait to pray when life is difficult? I have. Do you want to be a praying mom? So why don't we pray continually?
Join Brooke and me for a conversation about her new book "Praying Mom: Making Prayer Your First and Best Response to Motherhood."
Listen in to this conversation and read the detailed show notes with resource links at https://conniealbers.com/praying-mom/
Are you a fan of goal setting? Do goals matter? They should because God has an assignment for you to complete! It's one only you can fulfill if you are willing to accept it.
People often ask me how I know what goals I'm supposed to set. That's not always easy to know at first, so I start by paying attention to what God is leading me to do.
Another common question is how to make them achievable? To make a goal achievable isn't the goal - not really. The goal is to help you get moving in a specific direction.
Listen Connie's process and full thoughts in this episode and get the written details in the show notes: https://conniealbers.com/goal-setting/
Have you been torn between deciding when to step away or push through a difficult situation? Sure you have. We all have. Making tough decisions is part of life.
Life decisions aren't easy for most of us to make. It takes time to wrestle with the possible outcomes! I call them the "What if scenarios."
Well, what if I told you there is freedom in the pivot. You heard me! Freedom comes after you decide to pivot. That freedom is something you need to consider.
In this episode, I'll share three keys that will help you with the decision-making process!
Read the full show notes with links here: https://conniealbers.com/step-away-or-push-through/
Are you running your race with confidence or looking around at what others are doing? Do you know why running your race is important? Do you find yourself looking at others and trying to imitate them?
How you run your race depends on your season of life. A twenty-something runs differently than someone in their forties or sixties. Why? Life experience, the demands of children, and physical health. It is wise to accept the realization that your race will change as you age. God designed it this way.
Every runner knows the speed at the beginning of their race will get slower the further they run. It's natural to slow down. This is true of you. It is true of me. Understanding this reality early in life will profoundly impact how far you can go later in life.
But running your race with confidence requires you to consider a couple of truths. You can't run your race if you are in someone else's lane. And you have to know what race you are running. Life is not a sprint; it's a marathon. Sure there are times one needs to sprint, but the amount of energy it takes to sprint can't last long. Our bodies are designed to run a marathon at a sprint pace.
Listen to this episode to hear more about how to run your race with confidence and read all of the points in the show notes: https://conniealbers.com/run-your-race-with-confidence/
Do you see what I'm seeing? Parents and leaders across the country are noticing the character crisis permeating our communities. Lying, marginalizing, undermining, spreading partial truths all seem okay now. Are they? Not according to God's standards!
The character crisis we see on display doesn't mean we should partake. Actually, we need to do just the opposite. We need to be more diligent in living a life of integrity. The ends don't justify the means. Never have, never will.
As a believer, our behavior should be a reflection of what we know to be true. God puts a great emphasis on character.
When we choose to live a life pleasing to God, we don't need to lie, practice shady business deals, tell falsehoods about others.
Listen to this episode and read the full show notes with Connie's tips and points to ponder: https://conniealbers.com/character-crisis/
We are back in the studio of Equipped To Be for part II of my interview with international bestselling author Larry Loftis. We begin this episode with how I met Mr. Loftis through a mutual friend.
During this part of the conversation, I share an untold story of how his advice positively impacted my journey to becoming a first-time author with a well-known publishing house. While writing Parenting Beyond the Rules: Raising Teens with Confidence and Joy, Mr. Loftis provided sage advice that helped me navigate the publishing world with increased confidence.
In the next segment, we change the topic back to Mr. Loftis. He began his writing career early in life by publishing numerous scholarly legal articles in university law reviews and professional bar journals. His desire for excellence drove him to author several business books, which he found dry and boring. When the housing market collapsed in 2008, he decided to take some time off to figure out what he was passionate about and interested in.
Listen in for the whole story and read the full show notes here: https://conniealbers.com/interview-with-larry-loftis-part-ii/
About Larry Loftis Larry Loftis is the New York Times and international bestselling author of the nonfiction spy thrillers CODE NAME: LISE: The True Story of the Woman Who Became WWII's Most Highly Decorated Spy and Into the Lion's Mouth: The True Story of Dusko Popov—World War II Spy, Patriot, and the Real-Life Inspiration for James Bond. His third nonfiction thriller, The Princess Spy: The True Story of World War II Spy Aline Griffith, Countess of Romanones, is now out and was an instant New York Times bestseller. His books have been translated into multiple languages around the world, including Dutch, Portuguese, Chinese, Czech, and Serbian.
Prior to becoming a full-time writer, Mr. Loftis was a corporate attorney, publishing scholarly legal articles in the University of Florida Law Review, Suffolk Transnational Law Journal, Georgia Journal of International and Comparative Law, Florida Bar Journal, National Law Journal, and Florida Banking. He also has served as a Teaching Fellow at the University of Florida Law School, where he taught writing and appellate advocacy. He received his B.A. and J.D. from the University of Florida, where he served on the Law Review as Senior Executive Editor and Senior Articles Editor.
The odds of becoming a published author are low, but becoming a bestselling author is extremely difficult. Larry Loftis not only beat the odds, but he has also hit the NYT bestseller list multiple times. He is a highly acclaimed nonfiction thriller author who specializes in writing about WWII espionage.
Mr. Loftis joins me for a candid interview to discuss how he did beat the odds and the lessons he learned along the way.
Read more of our conversation and get links to the resources discussed in the full show notes: https://conniealbers.com/interview-with-larry-loftis/
About Larry Loftis Larry Loftis is the New York Times and international bestselling author of the nonfiction spy thrillers CODE NAME: LISE: The True Story of the Woman Who Became WWII's Most Highly Decorated Spy and Into the Lion's Mouth: The True Story of Dusko Popov—World War II Spy, Patriot, and the Real-Life Inspiration for James Bond. His third nonfiction thriller, The Princess Spy: The True Story of World War II Spy Aline Griffith, Countess of Romanones, is now out and was an instant New York Times bestseller. His books have been translated into multiple languages around the world, including Dutch, Portuguese, Chinese, Czech, and Serbian.
Prior to becoming a full-time writer, Mr. Loftis was a corporate attorney, publishing scholarly legal articles in the University of Florida Law Review, Suffolk Transnational Law Journal, Georgia Journal of International and Comparative Law, Florida Bar Journal, National Law Journal, and Florida Banking. He also has served as a Teaching Fellow at the University of Florida Law School, where he taught writing and appellate advocacy. He received his B.A. and J.D. from the University of Florida, where he served on the Law Review as Senior Executive Editor and Senior Articles Editor.
Marriage can be messy and far from normal. But what can we learn about loving our spouse when they don't love us back? How do we trust God to work in us when hope seems lost? Can God heal your marriage?
God has not called us to be normal because normal doesn't exist. Not in life or our marriage. When we let go of our expectations and trust God, we have peace knowing He can repair the broken and redeem what was lost.
Jill Savage, author, speaker, and podcaster, joins me for an honest conversation about life and marriage when anything but normal.
Read the points we cover and get links to the resources we discussed in the show notes: https://conniealbers.com/heal-your-marriage/
About Jill Savage Jill Savage is an author and speaker who is passionate about relationships.
Founding Hearts at Home, a national organization that served moms for 24 years, Jill now speaks to thousands of men and women each year about their priorities, passions, and purpose. She has been called one of today’s most exciting female speakers. Her honest, engaging communication is strengthened by her ability to make her audience laugh while they learn.
Jill is the No More Perfect Podcast host and the author of fourteen books, including Empty Nest, Full Life, Real Moms, Real Jesus, the best-selling No More Perfect Moms, No More Perfect Kids, Better Together, and No More Perfect Marriages. Jill and her husband, Mark, live in Illinois and have five children and eight grandchildren.
We enter life curious. We wonder about the world around us, but as the years unfold that natural curiosity for life and learning can fade. So, how can we cultivate curiosity in our children?
In this episode, Connie talks with Cheryl Bastian about how to cultivate curiosity in our children.
Read the full show notes and get the links to references here: https://conniealbers.com/cultivate-curiosity/
About Cheryl Bastian Cheryl’s home education journey spans twenty-seven years with eight children, ages thirty-one to five. Her vast experiences allow her to journey alongside families at many stages of learning. As an author and speaker, Cheryl encourages parents to be intentional, real, and relational as they raise life-long learners. Her resources are available at www.cherylbastian.com.
Do you ever feel like you don't have enough faith to do what God asks you to do? Or that God isn't big enough to help you? If you answered yes to either question, you're not alone. Even Abraham and Noah also struggled when God gave them instructions!
We need to remember that it's not about having faith in ourselves. God isn't interested in the amount of faith we have when we start, but it is the faith we place in God that matters. Faith in ourselves doesn't impress the Lord.
Throughout scripture, God commends people who obeyed Him despite their lack of faith. We start our race, and as we obey, our faith in God grows.
Read the full shows notes of Connie's conversation with Debbie W. Wilson and get links to the resources mentioned in this episode: https://conniealbers.com/big-god/
About Debbie W. Wilson Drawing from her personal walk with Christ, 24 years as a Christian counselor, and decades as a Bible teacher, Debbie W. Wilson helps people—especially overachievers—give themselves a break and live in God’s grace so they can enjoy fruitful and fulfilling lives.
She is the author of and Little Faith, Big God. She and her husband Larry founded Lighthouse Ministries, a nonprofit ministry offering counseling, life and relationship coaching, and Bible studies. She is an Advanced Writers and Speakers Association certified speaking and writing coach. Her ministry assignments have taken her across the USA and overseas. Debbie enjoys exploring new places, reading a good mystery, eating dark chocolate, and laughing at the antics of her two standard poodles.
Is it possible to make homeschooling easy? Homeschooling is too hard! Where do I start? I could never do that! Are common questions parents ask when considering if they should homeschool their children.
I frequently thought, "I'm not qualified to teach my kids. I don't have a teaching degree. I don't know phonics or Physics." The cool part is I didn't need any of those to homeschool. I needed the Lord to lead me, a willing heart, a desire to figure it, and the resolve to stick with it. And, my friend, that's what you need too! You don't have to have a degree to teach you children either.
Homeschoolers have a proven track record of successfully homeschooling their children.
Read more in the full show notes: https://conniealbers.com/make-homeschooling-easy/
About Lee Ann Garfias Lea Ann Garfias is a homeschool graduate, a homeschooling mother of six, and the author of four books, including three on homeschooling. She and her husband, David, live in Dallas, Texas. Besides "author," she holds the titles of "professional violinist," "French-press owner," and "friend."
Is school driving out your child's creativity? Is a formal degree the only way to a fulling or financially rewarding career? Is your child's degree making your child unhirable?
After fifteen years of teaching college students, Dr. Ai Addyson-Zhang quit her job as a professor.
Kids are taught they need a college education to enjoy a fulling or financially rewarding life. But that isn't true! Dr. Ai believes we might be doing a disservice to our kids by telling them college is the only way to succeed or that college education might be making them unhirable in the real world.
Today's kids need permission to do everything. Kids are so afraid of making a mistake or not getting an "A" that don't try! They don't know how to think on their own. Our current educational system is driving the creativity, innovation, and curiosity out of our children. And we need to change that.
Tune into my conversation with Dr. Ai we discuss the loss of child creativity.
Read the full show notes here: https://conniealbers.com/school-child-creativity/
About Dr. Ai Addyson-Zhang Dr. Ai Addyson-Zhang is an educator and an entrepreneur. She received her MA and Ph.D. in Communication from Syracuse University and the University of Maryland. Ai is the founder of Classroom Without Walls, an alternative school to future-proof the next generation. Ai is also an Adobe Insider, Adobe Education Leader, and HubSpot Academy Instructor. Dr. Ai’s work has been featured in Forbes, Inside Higher Education, Pearson Education, Entrepreneur, The Today Show, & others. Additionally, Dr. Ai hosts two weekly live streaming shows, where she interviews industry leaders in Business and Education, such as Seth Godin and Guy Kawasaki. Dr. Ai additionally serves as a SEMrush Webinar guest and host. Dr. Ai frequently speaks at academic and industry conferences, including Inbound, VidCon, SEMrush Global Marketing Day, Social Media Day, Social Media Week Lima (the largest social media marketing conference in the midwest), and others.
Parents know the public educational system is broken, but most don't know what they can do about it. Dr. Ai Addyson-Zhang was a college professor for over a decade and knew first hand what's happening in the classroom and why she walked away from her teaching job to pursue something better. What can you do about the broken education system?
In this episode, we discuss why the system is broken, and practical things parents need to know so their child can obtain a superior education that focuses on learning, not test-taking.
Read more in the full show notes: https://conniealbers.com/the-broken-education-system/
About Dr. Ai Addyson-Zhang Dr. Ai Addyson-Zhang is an educator and an entrepreneur. She received her MA and Ph.D. in Communication from Syracuse University and the University of Maryland. Ai is the founder of Classroom Without Walls, an alternative school to future-proof the next generation. Ai is also an Adobe Insider, Adobe Education Leader, and HubSpot Academy Instructor. Dr. Ai’s work has been featured in Forbes, Inside Higher Education, Pearson Education, Entrepreneur, The Today Show, & others. Additionally, Dr. Ai hosts two weekly live streaming shows, where she interviews industry leaders in Business and Education, such as Seth Godin and Guy Kawasaki. Dr. Ai additionally serves as a SEMrush Webinar guest and host. Dr. Ai frequently speaks at academic and industry conferences, including Inbound, VidCon, SEMrush Global Marketing Day, Social Media Day, Social Media Week Lima (the largest social media marketing conference in the midwest), and others.
Biblical Citizenship is grounded in faith and encourages Americans to embrace their freedoms. America is changing. What part do you play? Rick Green joins me to talk about Biblical Citizenship and how we can protect the freedoms we've enjoyed for centuries.
Read more about Rick's tips for actions steps we can all take in the full show notes.
https://conniealbers.com/biblical-citizenship/
About Rick Green Rick Green is a former Texas State Representative, national speaker, author, and radio host. He is America’s Constitution Coach. He and his family travel the nation speaking on America’s forgotten history and heroes, emphasizing our moral, religious and constitutional heritage. Rick and David Barton co-host the national daily radio program, WallBuilders Live! He is the author and executive producer of Constitution Alive, America’s most engaging and entertaining study of the U.S. Constitution.
Rick and his wife, Kara, founded Patriot Academy, an elite leadership training program specializing in applied civics with a Biblical, historical, and Constitutional Foundation. Through their Constitution Coach program, they are training and empowering adults across the nation to educate their communities about the Constitution.
Rick and Kara have 4 older kids and two grandchildren. They have homeschooled for 18 years.
Self-protection isn't new. People disappoint us, so we put up walls. God doesn't answer our prayer, so we stop praying. We deal with pain and suffering by self-protecting. It feels safer. But, is it how Jesus handled pain and suffering? Did he avoid people who hurt him? No. Then maybe we should live by his example.
A friend recently shared something about self-protection from the book 40-Days to Decrease by Alicia Britt Chole. Her text was so good that I had to pull my copy off the shelf and read more.
I found myself wondering if I'm guilty of self-protection. Sadly, I am. Most of us are. I think the longer we live, the more pain and suffering we'll experience, but we have a choice. Put up walls or let our light shine by being different.
In this episode, I share some reasons people self-protect, what God's taught me about not using self-protection to keep others at a distance, and why we should follow Jesus's example.
Read the full show notes and see all the links here.
With all the parenting books available, what makes Love-Centered Parenting, by Crystal Paine, unique? Like many books, where the authors focus on results-based parenting. Love-Centered Parenting has a different approach.
To many, Crystal Paine had it all together - a happy marriage, a successful business, a vibrant faith, and national selling books as the Money Saving Mom®. But one day, her world turned upside down.
The crisis she and her family faced was the being of a transformational process in her parenting. Before she could make changes, God had to change her from the inside out. It was through this painful process that she discovered a new way to parent her children.
In this episode, Chrystal shares her raw story of transformation and what lead to Love-Centered Parenting. This honest conversation about God's love, her transformation, and how her parenting has changed.
About Crystal Paine Crystal Paine is the founder of MoneySavingMom.com, host of “The Crystal Paine Show” podcast, New York Times bestselling author of Say Goodbye to Survival Mode, and author of Money-Making Mom. Her desire is to help women across the globe live with more joy, purpose, and intention in their everyday lives. She lives with her husband and kids in the Nashville, Tennessee area, where she is actively involved in her local church. Her biggest passions are helping women understand how the Gospel can radically transform their lives, raising awareness for foster care, going on adventures with her family (locally, domestically, and internationally), finding great deals at the grocery store, heartfelt
conversations, and trying to read too many books at one time!
In Love-Centered Parenting, Paine gives examples of how she’s learned to listen to her children, sit and be present, ask meaningful questions, and not pass judgment. In addition to hard-won lessons, major changes, and a radically different parenting approach, Paine also provides practical,
tangible resources for parents.
Get all the details, resources, and links in the full show notes for this episode.
Do the words of others linger in your mind? You can hear them play over and over again. You want to erase their words, but you can't get them out of your head. It's because we've given people headspace. It's like giving free rent in my head to others, and it has to stop.
Most people can remember a time when someone said something they couldn't let go of:
Those become haunting words that trigger emotions and attitudes, causing us to alter our behavior.
Read the full show notes here.
What is the future of homeschooling? The future looks bright!
While homeschooling and at-home learning surged due to school closures, parents are considering continuing this educational method in the future. The freedom and flexibility that comes with learning at home are among the many reasons parents list.
Although parents had little time to figure out how to pivot to at-home learning, parents overcame many obstacles thanks to the vast support they found online. Bloggers, vloggers, online classes, and social media platforms offering a litany of support that most parents didn't know existed until now.
Ashley Wiggers is back to talk with me about the future of homeschooling.
Read more detail about this episode here.
About Ashley Wiggers Ashley Wiggers speaks at homeschool seminars, serves as Public Relations Director for GeoMatters, and is the author of the Profiles from History series. She also joins Homeschooling Today magazine as a co-executive editor and writes the column, Lessons My Mother Taught Me.
Ashley grew up in the early days of the homeschooling movement. She was taught by her parents, Greg and Debbie Strayer, who are authors of numerous homeschooling materials and were part of the founding group of Homeschooling Today magazine back in 1992. As a homeschool graduate, Ashley has a deep appreciation for the opportunity to homeschool and the need for encouragement and support of homeschooling families.
Are you among millions of parents trying to run a business and homeschooling your children? You're not alone. Millions of parents are faced with the tension that comes with juggling deadlines, making sure the kids are doing school, planning meals, and spending hours in the kitchen.
Whether you're working a few hours or full-time, the challenge to fit it all in is real. The guilt and frustration from day-to-day can leave you discouraged and worn out.
Running a Business and Homeschooling Today, Ashley Wiggers is joining me on the podcast. She is a second-generation homeschool graduate whose parents were pioneers in the homeschool movement. Greg and Debbie Strayer were respected leaders, mentors, speakers, authors, and magazine owners/editors. Ashley grew-up watching them juggle the demands of running a business and homeschooling.
Read the full show notes with Ashley's tips here.
About Ashley Wiggers Ashley Wiggers speaks at homeschool seminars, serves as Public Relations Director for GeoMatters, and is the author of the Profiles from History series. She also joins Homeschooling Today magazine as a co-executive editor and writes the column, Lessons My Mother Taught Me.
Ashley grew up in the early days of the homeschooling movement. She was taught by her parents, Greg and Debbie Strayer, who are authors of numerous homeschooling materials and were part of the founding group of Homeschooling Today magazine back in 1992. As a homeschool graduate, Ashley has a deep appreciation for the opportunity to homeschool and the need for encouragement and support of homeschooling families.
Generational living is a way of life that is back in vogue. Have you thought about it? It's when multiple generations live under one roof. It can be by choice or because circumstances require this lifestyle. Either way making generational living work for your family requires prayer and careful consideration.
Doing life together has its pros and cons. This episode provides you with specific points for you to pray about and ways to make it work.
Tom and I talked about generational living when our children were younger. We wanted to help take care of our parents when they needed assistance and help our children get through college without incurring debt or getting loans. That was a big goal and one we took seriously. The more we thought about this way of life, the more generational living appealed to us. Other countries practice this lifestyle with success, but for many years Americans shunned the idea.
When I was a guest on a financial podcast being interviewed on how we put five kids through college debt-free, the host was shocked when I mentioned our children lived at home during their college years. The conversation quickly turned to adult children living at home and the wisdom of that decision. There was a concern that it was not a good idea because it keeps the child from learning how to navigate adulthood.
Fast forward to 2020, multiple generations living together became not a strange concept but a way of getting through a pandemic. No longer are our adult children being put down for failure to launch. The opposite is true. Now American families realize the value of this lifestyle or the necessity of this way of life.
Generational living, while it is beneficial, does take planning and communication.
Read the full show notes here as you consider generational living for your family.
Fostering a foundation of respect between you and your teen requires time and intentionality. The good news is that your investment now pays off in the long run as you show your child respect.
Respecting each other is not just good idea to help your relationship grow stronger, but God requires that we show respect. In I Peter 2:17 (NIV) the Bible says, "Show proper respect to everyone, love the family of believers, fear God, honor the emperor."
Read the full show notes and more about Connie's tips for fostering respect between you and your teen here.
Launching your child brings a host of emotions. For most parents, it's a bittersweet experience. Feelings of loss, fear, excitement, and satisfaction are some of the more common emotions parents have to work through. But launching your child doesn't mean the end of your relationship or influence.
Like most parents, I remember the day we launched our first child. He was eager to begin a new season of life. Starting a new chapter is both exhilarating and scary for a young adult. Tom and I were excited for him, but we were a little sad because it meant our lives were changing too.
I've learned the experience of launching a child isn't the same for every child. We were a little more nervous with some than others. Temperament, readiness, and security were on our minds.
Recently, we launched our fifth child...
Read the full show notes with Connie's tips for launching your child here.
People often ask me how did I teach my children. I love when I get the opportunity to share how we homeschooled our kids. But what I love even more is helping parents teach their children! Let's talk about how to teach children well!
Parents have been led to believe that one needs a degree or some special training to be a good teacher. I wrestled with feeling like I didn't have what it takes to be a teacher for many years. I had neither an education degree nor special training. What I did have was a desire to provide an excellent education for my children. But that didn't mean there weren't times I felt inadequate for the job. Honestly, I've never met a parent who didn't question themselves from time to time. The truth is education isn't a mystery.
In today's episode, I'll unpack three key strategies that will help you teach your children.
Read the full show notes here.
Do you feel like 2021 started rough? Does it feel overwhelming? Are you unsure of how to move forward with new leadership? Or are you eager to see God work in your family?
People are passionate about what they believe. And when power shifts from one party to another people become uncertain. Where ever you find yourself, I encourage you to look for ways to move forward with new leadership by exploring the possibilities before you.
Life is full of change. Who occupies leadership positions does not have to limit us in pursuing truth or the path set before you.
In this episode, I will discuss what you can do when new leadership comes into power.
Read more here in the show notes.
Did you know only 31% of people read their Bible every week? I'm not sure if that surprises you or not, but It did me. That got me wondering why. What are the hindrances to consistently reading God's Word? How can you fall in love with God's word?
Brittany Ann of Equipping Godly Women joins me on the program to talk about her newest book, Fall In Love With God's Word.
About Brittany Ann Brittany Ann is an author, speaker, and founder of EquppingGodlyWomen.com, a popular Christian-living website dedicated to helping women be “all in” in faith and family. Brittany is married to an incredible godly husband, and together they have three adorably energetic little ones.
Read the full show notes here.
Are you feeling unmotivated, uncertain, or stuck? You aren't alone. Though your social media feed is full of 5-day challenges, organizational hacks, and scripture memory designed to help you start the year off right, you can't seem to do them. You aren't alone! Let's talk about how to improve motivation when you're stuck.
Sometimes we need help getting motivated. In this episode, we will cover simple, time-tested strategies that I have used to help me get unstuck when I lack motivation. Getting unstuck or finding the motivation to move forward is real and can happen at any time. But, we can take simple steps to help us get going.
Read more detail in the show notes.
Has your child been bullied? Do you find out or did they tell you? How do you know if they are dealing with bullying or if it's general conflict that they can resolve?
It's vital that children understand the difference between bullying and general conflict so they can properly navigate each scenario wisely.
Parents often teach their children to resolve conflict, but the problem is bullies aren't interested in resolution. They are interested domination and intimidation. They seek to hurt or harm others by their actions.
As parents we need to learn and teach our children the characteristics of a bully.
About Candice Duggar Candice Duggar is the founder of Bullied, Broken, Redeemed, and a nationally recognized anti-bullying expert, author, speaker, and trainer. Candice and her team specialize in equipping leaders, parents, and youth on all aspects of Gen Z Bullying. These life-changing programs use interactive activities and projects to motivate and empower effective anti-bullying warriors. Candice has been seen on NBC, CBN, FRC on top of training fortune 100 companies. She is also regularly featured as a keynote at events nationally and international conferences.
On top of being an anti-bullying warrior, Candice is passionate about helping families transition from public school to homeschool. Her “Coming Home” Series of talks and workshops are a blessing for those trying to navigate the sometimes difficult transition. She is also the co-founder of the Reimagine Education Conference, specializing in helping families transition to homeschooling. This conference is an annual event and has now grown to an international presence with over 80 speakers and 100 talks.
Read the full show notes for more about this episode and links to resources discussed.
Have you or your child been on the receiving end of bullying? If so, you know how emotionally traumatic it can be for your child. Bullying is a repeated pattern targeted at someone weaker, younger, or more vulnerable. So, how do you handle bullying?
What is bullying? The act of bullying is an intentional behavior designed to hurt another person by wanting to intimidate or get their way. Anti-Bullying warrior Candace Duggar and I discuss how to identify and deal with bullying.
About Candice Duggar Candice Duggar is the founder of Bullied, Broken, Redeemed, and a nationally recognized anti-bullying expert, author, speaker, and trainer. Candice and her team specialize in equipping leaders, parents, and youth on all aspects of Gen Z Bullying. These life-changing programs use interactive activities and projects to motivate and empower effective anti-bullying warriors. Candice has been seen on NBC, CBN, FRC on top of training fortune 100 companies. She is also regularly featured as a keynote at events nationally and international conferences.
On top of being an anti-bullying warrior, Candice is passionate about helping families transition from public school to homeschool. Her “Coming Home” Series of talks and workshops are a blessing for those trying to navigate the sometimes difficult transition. She is also the co-founder of the Reimagine Education Conference, specializing in helping families transition to homeschooling. This conference is an annual event and has now grown to an international presence with over 80 speakers and 100 talks.
Read the full show notes with links here.
Misty Phillip joins me for part II of our conversation on how to listen and trust God's leading in your life. Today we focus on the steps she's learned about waiting that will help you learn how God is working in your life as you wait for his lead.
In this episode, Misty shares valuable wisdom on how to wait on the Lord. She says, "Trusting God to lead can be hard. But, His timing is good."
Listen and Trust God's Leading * Live your season well * Know you limits * Move when God says go * Enjoy your season * Journal your emotions * Be Obedient * Nothing is wasted. God uses every part of your story. * Wait on His timing, and He will bless
Misty Phillip Bio Misty Phillip is a podcaster, speaker, author, and entrepreneur who is passionate about helping you spark your soul message. Founder of the Spark Christian Podcast Conference, Founder of The Rocket Podcast Community, and host of the By His Grace podcast show. Misty inspires through her leadership, speaking, and mastermind groups. She currently serves as the Houston Connect Leader for Christian Women In Media. Misty is the author of The Struggle is Real: But So is God Bible Study and Spark Podcast Planner 2020.
Read the full show notes with links to resources here.
Learning to listen and trust God's leading takes intentionality and practice. These are disciplines Misty Phillip put into practice early in her life. She joins me to discuss how God led her from corporate work to homeschooling to writing and speaking and then to creating a podcast conference for Christian podcasters.
During our conversation, Misty and I chat about her decision-making progress and how she has learned that listening and trusting God's leading helps her avoid stress and wrong decisions.
Listen and Trust God's Leading * Waiting during the hidden years * Taking heart for God is with you * Understanding your gifts and talents * Being in His Word * Knowing God doesn't have second best for you
Misty Phillip Bio Misty Phillip is a podcaster, speaker, author, and entrepreneur who is passionate about helping you spark your soul message. Founder of the Spark Christian Podcast Conference, Founder of The Rocket Podcast Community, and host of the By His Grace podcast show. Misty inspires through her leadership, speaking, and mastermind groups. She currently serves as the Houston Connect Leader for Christian Women In Media. Misty is the author of The Struggle is Real: But So is God Bible Study and Spark Podcast Planner 2020.
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When I saw other children publicly act up or act out, I thought my child would not do THAT. My children knew right from wrong. Have you thought that too?
While it is true that children do the darndest things, we never expect our children to disobey, be unkind, lie, or steal. Those aren't acceptable to the Lord or us.
As a young mom, I was certain that my kids would behave properly. I convinced myself that if I parented well, my child would not do that. That was until I realized my faulty thinking. Why? Because they are children and children perfect! The truth is, they are fully capable of doing things we never imagined.
The sooner we realized our children could, and sometimes do wrong, the better we will be at parenting.
My Child Would Not Do THAT... Here are a few unacceptable actions children might do:
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Tis the holiday season to be jolly! A season full of thanksgiving and joy and family. While many people are welcoming this season with great anticipation, there are an awful lot of people experiencing hurt and heartbreak over the holidays—an empty seat at the table, a painful relationship, a wayward child.
I know the world is preparing for the holiday season. House lights are up, trees are decorated, menus are planned, but you struggle to muster up the enthusiasm this year? What can you do with your feelings? How can this be a season of joy and not sorrow for you? In this episode, we will specifically deal with hurt and heartbreak during the Christmas season.
When we focus on the truths found in God's Word, we can work through the hurt and heartbreak over the holidays, turning dread or sadness into joy and excitement because hope believes all things!
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Heaviness is not an uncommon feeling these days. But what if we could turn heaviness to hopefulness? Well, we can!
In today's episode, we are going to unpack specific steps you can take to rid yourself of the heaviness that is robbing you of the hope God wants you to experience in this season of life.
Listen as we discuss how we turn heaviness to hopefulness.
Ways to Turn Heaviness to Hopefulness * Turn from the distractions that are weighing you down * Ask the Lord for strength and endurance * Remember you were born for such a time as this * The battle isn't against flesh and blood - It's really a spiritual battle that requires physical action * Guard your mind from the attacks of the enemy * Pray for others and yourself * Be watchful
What is God telling you to lay down or pick up so you live a hope-filled life?
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How do we raise children in a culture of chaos when confusion and strife surround us? And how do we remain steadfast while adjusting along the way? While the culture is in chaos, you can tune out the turmoil and provide the stability in your home.
Parenting has never been easy, but today's climate makes it much harder to navigate raising kids. But, with the Lord's help and guidance, raising kids amid cultural chaos is your opportunity to lead your children to the truths found in Scripture.
Key Points to Ponder in Raising Kids Amid Cultural Chaos: * You are born for such a time as this * Now is a perfect time to raise your children * Parenting doesn't change because of the culture * Be a steady hand through the storms * Hope for your child's future
Connie talks about:
We have every reason to be hope-filled right now. You are living in the right place, at the right time, with the right children according to the calling before you.
Remember: You are equipped to be strong. You are equipped to be.
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Today, I'm joined by author and speaker Wendy Speake to discuss her new book The 40 Day Social Media Fast: Exchange Your Online Distractions for Real-Life Devotion. Wendy shares how our spiritual lives are impacted when we run to social media or sugar or anything other than God's Word.
About Wendy Speake Wendy Speake is a wife, mom, host of the annual 40 Day Sugar Fast, and co-author of a number of parenting books. There's a fire in her bones to see women come to faith and grow in faith. Wendy uses every opportunity to point women to the Gospel.
Social Media Fast In this episode, Wendy and I discuss:
This is such an important episode - especially now! Don't miss it!
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It's time to exhale; the election is over! Now it's time to discuss the winners and losers with your children in a constructive way so you can get on with daily life.
Your children will learn about political candidates, how to get involved in the process, and that they will soon have the right to vote once they have the right to vote.
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Elections can create tension between family members. But, we can discuss politics, share our positions, and engage in dynamic conversations with our children without blow-ups and slammed doors!
Connie share some election week tips in this episode. Listen in and the read the full show notes here:
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Do you know people who believe they know the right way to parent children? I sure do. Over the years, I've encountered many well-meaning people eager to help me get it right! Some of the advice I've been given has been good, but some haven't! That is why you must choose who you listen to carefully.
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Do you know how to walk through seasons of loss or grief? It's a question many are asking. If we are honest, we've all gone through tough seasons: losing a job, a parent, a child, or a friendship. How you process the loss is critical to your emotional well-being.
Connie shares 6 things to help you during seasons of loss in this episode. Read the full show notes here:
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Do you want to be a wise woman? You can be! I'm always asked how I decide what projects to accept and what to decline. Today, I share what I've learned from Proverbs 31:16a and how to apply it in your life. You can be like the Proverbs 31 woman who considers wisely.
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Did you know 73% of parents feel parenting is their greatest challenge? Did you know 80% of those parents believe parenting can be learned, but wished they knew more positive approaches? Daniel Huerta joins me to discuss the Seven Traits of Effective Parenting. You'll be encouraged and equipped to become the parent your child needs. You can learn how to become an effective parent!
About Daniel Huerta Dr. Daniel Huerta oversees Focus’ initiatives that equip mothers and fathers with biblical principles and counsel for raising healthy, resilient children.
A bilingual, licensed clinical social worker, Dr. Huerta addresses issues related to parenting such as communication, conflict resolution, spiritual growth, discipline, stress, anxiety, depression, media discernment and healthy sexuality.
He and his wife, Heather, have been married since 1997 and have two children, Alex and Lexi.
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How does understanding Strengths improve family relationships? Why should we be more intentional about teaching to our child's strengths? Understanding your child's talents are recurring and consistent patterns of thought, feeling, and behavior will help you teach them how to process the world around them.
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How does understanding Strengths improve family relationships? Why should we be more intentional about teaching to our child's strengths? Understanding your child's talents are recurring and consistent patterns of thought, feeling, and behavior will help you teach them how to process the world around them.
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Does your child wonder about their world? Is there a vision for your family that your child can hold onto? Sally Clarkson, and I discuss how to make your family thrive by awaking wonder in your home.
About Sally Clarkson Sally Clarkson is a best-selling author, world renowned speaker, and beloved figure who has dedicated her life to supporting and inspiring countless women to live into the story God has for them to tell.
Sally has been married to her husband Clay for almost forty years and together they founded and run Whole Heart Ministries an international ministry seeking to support families in raising faithful, healthy, and loving children, in an increasingly difficult culture.
Sally has four children, Sarah, Joel, Nathan, and Joy, each exceeding in their own fields as academics, authors, actors, musicians, filmmakers, and speakers.
Sally lives between the Mountains of Colorado and the rolling fields of England and can usually be found with a cup of tea in her hands.
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Do your words roll off your tongue and land in a tender place of your child's heart or do they wound their spirit? We know words have power, so using them carefully will help you strengthen your relationship and reduce conflict. It's not always what you say, but what others hear that matters. You can build relationship by monitoring your mouth!
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Do you find yourself getting angry more than ever before? Did you know anger follows fear? While these are God-given emotions, they don't have to control our reaction to others or God. Joël Malm author of Love Slows Down joins me to discuss how to respond to the patterns of anger in a Biblical way. Listen in for tips on how to respond to anger and disappointment.
About Joël Malm Joël Malm is the founder of Summit Leaders where he uses outdoor adventure and leadership coaching to help people find their calling and pursue a vision for their lives. His expeditions have taken him around the world to places like Mt. Kilimanjaro, Grand Canyon and Machu Picchu. He has traveled in over seventy countries on six continents and speaks three languages. He holds a B.A. in Political Science and an M.S. in Counseling.
He speaks at churches, conferences, and corporate events around the country and is the author of Vision Map (Moody Press, 2014), Fully You, and Love Slows Down (Salem/Regnery, 2020) and Guided by Thunder.
He and his wife Emily and daughter Elise currently live in Texas.
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Have you felt fearful lately? Do you want to speak up, but know what to do? As a Christian, how can we starve the fear that is taking over our country. If you are afraid, you're not alone. Millions of people feel the same way you do. Want to know how you can stop living in fear?
In this episode, Heidi St. John and I talk about what's happening across America and how you can stop living in fear and start living boldly. We dive into how you can make a difference, and challenge you to take off the blanket of fear.
About Heidi St. John Heidi St John has delighted tens of thousands of readers through her blog, her Facebook page, her seven books and now MomStrongInternational.com, where she is leading women through a continuing online Bible Study and relationship building as they all #getoffthebench and #ontothebattlefield together. Her transparent style and her rich sense of humor combine to draw her readers into what feels like a very personal conversation over a cup of coffee.
A favorite speaker and author, Heidi St. John approaches marriage and parenting with humor and grace. Her passion to encourage moms and set them free to be who God has created them to be will bless and encourage you. Heidi has been married to her husband Jay since 1989. Together they have seven children and two grandsons! The St. Johns' children range in age from early elementary school to adult. They have homeschooled the kids all the way through high school.
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Do you wish you knew how to resolve sibling conflict in your family? Do your children fight or argue? Does their conflict make you concerned about the long-term health of their relationships? I have good news: you can help your children learn how to resolve conflict in a healthy way and build closer relationships in the process.
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Does your child wrestle with finding peace? Are uncertain times causing fear or worry or disappointment to rob your child of living a peace-filled life? Confusion and uncertainty can hinder you and your child from experiencing the peace that passes all understanding, but there are three things you can do today that can bring peace to your child and in your home.
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Could your child benefit from taking a gap year in in the fall? For many students a gap year is looking like a viable option. If you are the parent of a child who feels their future is in question, join me as I discuss the pros and cons of taking a gap year.
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Do you feel overwhelmed with managing, budgeting, or investing your money? You're not alone. Women often lack the confidence they need to make wise money decisions. My guest, Ed Vargo, founder of enLightenHer.com, joins me as we identify the stumbling blocks that key YOU from creating a healthy money mindset.
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Do you want to resolve conflict with your teen or others? Learning to listen is the first step to working through all conflicts. And when you practice your listening skills you will help your teens learn to be better communicators too.
Listen in to learn how to better resolve conflict. Read the full show notes with links here:
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You don't listen me. You always correct me. You rush to judgement. Are these the words your teen says when they try to talk to you? Implementing these 7 tips to improve listening to your teen will help your teen want to talk to you!
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Are you considering homeschooling in the fall? As a homeschool mom of five graduates, I share 10 Insights I would tell my younger self. You'll glean tips that took me decades to learn. If you are thinking about your options this is for you.
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Do you struggle to get your teens to open up about their struggles? They have a lot to say. But are they talking to you? Jackie Brewton joins me to discuss how you can get your teens talking to you about the issues important to them. Learn what your teen wants and need from you!
About Jackie Brewton
Jackie Brewton is an author, youth speaker, teen relationship expert and the founder and CEO of MotivationN3d, Inc., a motivational speaking company. She empowers teens to dream bigger DREAMS, make better DECISIONS and fulfill brighter DESTINIES! She also equips parents to have the tough conversations with their teens about love, sex and relationships.
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Does building character in your children in a world of compromise seem overwhelming? Countercultural parenting can be hard! Lee Nienhuis joins me to discuss how to instill character in your children.
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Do you have a passive child? Does your child struggle to make a decision? Watch out! You need to help that child learn how to speak up and not follow the crowd. Tune in to learn what you can do to parent passive children.
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Do you know your strong-minded child struggles with being controlled? Do you want to know how to persuade your child to follow your instructions? Hint: your child already knows you're the boss! Listen in as I share 5 techniques to win over a strong-minded child, (or adult)!
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https://conniealbers.com/strong-minded-children-part-2
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Do you have a strong-minded child? Does turning conflict into cooperation appeal to you? Then this episode is for you! I'll be sharing 3 tips you can do today to start improving your relationship and reduce conflict in parenting your strong minded children.
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Do you feel fearful or frustrated in a crisis? Do you want to learn how to navigate trials? There is a way to have hope in the midst of disruption. Join me for this life-giving episode! You can have hope in crises!
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Every day we hear stories of resilient families that rose above unbearable circumstances. Is it possible for your family to be resilient? Unsettling and challenging times provide an opportunity to build resiliency in your family that will make you soar and not crumple under pressure.
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Do you want to lead others well? Esther Littlefield and I as we discuss how to keep yourself refueled so you can pour out from a full pitcher.
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Are you getting frustrated by being surrounded by your spouse and kids all day? Sherri and I discuss how to manage your expectations and learn to talk things through so you can build close relationships instead of getting frustrated.
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How do we navigate marriage during difficult times? Erin Smalley, of Focus on the Family, and I discuss how to keep your differences from becoming the problem that drives a wedge in your relationship.
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Establishing curfews is an essential part of parenting, but we don't always know how to set curfews for our children without them pushing back. How can we set appropriate curfews that our children will follow? And how do we adjust them as our children grow?
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Stop second-guessing yourself! In an age where we often look around and compare, we must stop second-guessing if we are doing enough. We can live the life we are called to live more confidently.
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Do you feel the need to be productive when life requires that you slow down? Katie Reid, author of Made Like Martha, joins me to discuss how to be peaceful and not panic, settled not striving, and to take life one day at a time with joy during a crisis.
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Do you wrestle with knowing how to navigate the twists and turns of keeping the family together? Daniel Huerta, (VP of Parenting and Youth at Focus on the Family) and I have an upbeat conversation about the needs of your children and how you can navigate the complexities of life so your family will grow closer together in hard times.
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Want to learn how to help your child process the abrupt changes happening in their lives? A licensed counselor and owner of Counselor Thoughts, Michelle Nietert, will join us as we discuss walking your child through their emotional and mental health in an intentional manner.
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Sudden changes often cause unease leading to stress, anxiety, and fear, but author Dr. Micheal Bengtson shares how you can overcome anxiety, worry, and fear of our coping with crisis series.
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What does it look like to equip your child and create opportunities while you teach your child how to manage hard times. Dr. Kathy shares how we can walk with our child and not make them projects to fix, but people to love and guide.
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A crisis, such as Covid-19, can hit suddenly and hard, but we can reduce stress and conflict while keeping our family safe when we focus on helping our children know how to work together as a family. Every crisis is an opportunity to teach our children how to navigate the trials they face.
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You aren't a label! Sometimes we can mistakenly use assessments as defining labels for ourselves and others rather than as tools designed to help us understand how those we live and work with think, feel, and process the world they live in. Learn how to use the information on personalist and strengths assessment to support and encourage others.
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Giving grace to ourselves and loving others is easier when we know how they are uniquely created. CliftonStrengths, Love Languages, and the Meyers/Briggs assessments can help you understand how others think and process the world around them. You can learn how to love other well using personality and strengths assessments.
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God uses your gifts in unexpected ways. Learn how God blessed Sherri Seligson's faithfulness in her faith, family, homeschool, and life.
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Janet and Geoff are the authors of ”Heroes of the Christian Faith.” They have written more than 300 books and sold more than 6 million copies. We discuss how they discovered they were equipped to be authors and what you need to do if writing is your passion.
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How God has equipped you with strength and confidence for every good work to help you navigate every season of life. Connie shares how equipped to be came to fruition and God is using her story to inspire and encourage others.
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Stop wandering or wondering if you have gifts, strengths, talents. God has equipped you with exactly what you need to navigate every season of life. Whether it’s raising children, managing a family, growing a business, or living out your faith, God has equipped you for every good work.
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