Podcast – The Simply Luxurious Life®: Recent Episodes
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“Food need not be extravagant, complicated, or mysterious to be good. Quite the contrary.” —Patricia Wells in her Introduction to Robert Olney’s Simple French Food cookbook Whether you love cooking, loathe cooking or fall anywhere in between, we all need to eat. And if we eat well – a marriage of nutritive and delicious – […]Source
“Love has the shape and feel of water. It is simultaneously flexible and powerful. It can adapt and roar; it can also be silently nourishing.” –Yung Pueblo, How to Love Better We know we need to heal when we slip into being defensive, reactive or regress into any self-protecting behavior – anger, aggressiveness – passive […]Source
Being able to simply click my fingers and have the ideal outfit transpire for whatever the occasion I find myself would be a magic trick I would pay for. Okay, maybe not, because there is some fun in finding what you are looking for, but the point is, dressing effortlessly doesn’t begin by being easy […]Source
“Buddhism is not a belief system. It’s not about accepting certain tenets or believing a set of claims or principles. In fact, it’s quite the opposite. It’s about examining the world clearly and carefully, about testing everything and every idea. Buddhism is about seeing. It’s about knowing rather than believing or hoping or wishing. It’s […]Source
“With the right training, nutrition, lifestyle strategies, and the power of the mind, women in their fifties and beyond can still [accomplish amazing feats] . . . women prove every day that our best years can be ahead of us no matter how old we are now . . . you’ve accumulated hard-earned wisdom and […]Source
“France is Europe’s most diverse, tasty, and exciting country to explore. It’s a cultural bouillabaisse that surprises travelers with its varied, complex flavors.” —Rick Steves The rain in Bretagne/Brittany. The dry hot heat in Provence. The bustle of Paris. The butter in Normandy (and Brittany). I could go on and on about the specialty delights and […]Source
Ahhh, enfin . . . indeed. When beginning this journey back in September 2022, I never imagined I would feel comfortable speaking French without thinking too far ahead of myself nor caring if I spoke incorrectly (which is still quite often), but two and a half years later, it has happened! Imperfect French is being […]Source
There is an awareness available to anyone who steps fully into their forties. It often happens a couple of years after turning the big 4 – 0, but it’s there, waiting for each of us to realize we are half-way through (if we are so fortunate to live into our 90s) this beautiful gift called […]Source
“Taking back your power means reclaiming responsibility for your life. It means demanding more of yourself because time is ticking, and you’ve wasted enough of it worrying about things that don’t matter. It means being laser focused on the things you can control, and not giving a single second to the things you can’t . […]Source
“I guess I don’t even think about being single. I just lived my life and made choices along the way. I didn’t say, ‘This is what it’s going to be in 20 years or 10 years or five years.’ Unexpected things will happen and change the course of your life. That’s when you make a […]Source
How do you feel when you hear someone thank you for a small gesture, seemingly minuscule and so habitual that you may not even realize you do it, but something that makes where you work or live or call home a little bit nicer and more enjoyable? Maybe it’s putting your dishes in the dishwasher […]Source
A feeling of deep calm, a quiet confidence within yourself knowing that whatever may happen – hoped for or not, you’ve got this. You are savvy, knowledgeable, and prepared. And here’s one of the primary reasons why you feel this way as it pertains to your financial peace of mind, you’ve had hiccups, you’ve had […]Source
When we think of the term hero in its typical circumstance, we think of someone saving the day, making everything better, and restoring the peace, security and joy to those or what had momentarily been in peril. Now fashion or our personal style is not a life or death situation, I will acknowledge this upfront, […]Source
The learning continues, and the French language continues to become clearer and clearer with each word I hear. Granted, it is a slow journey of progress, but indeed progress has been made. As I sat watching both the Opening and Closing Ceremonies of the Jeux Paris, I found myself for the first time actually wishing […]Source
When it comes to finances, to solely focus on the numbers actually can hinder the success and outcomes we seek of not only financial freedom, but deep everyday contentment. Co-host of the established podcast Frugal Friends, Jill Sirianni joins me to not only talk about the founding premise of their show which debuted back in […]Source
“When we are adhering to our authentic self, when we are following our passions and curiosities, the fuel doesn’t reside in the success, the fuels resides in the doing.”—from a TSLL post, titled “How to Be Your Truest Self” (written in 2018) A red admiral (Vanessa atalanta) butterfly with its wings painted in white, orange […]Source
“My years working in wellbeing have taught me that it’s about living life in a daily, achievable balance. The one thing that counts above all else? Consistency. It doesn’t have to be much and it doesn’t have to be hard, but it does have to be consistent.” —Liz Earle, author of A Better Second Half: […]Source
You know you’ve found a quaint English town when the name of the town has a beloved nickname personifying it. Barnard Castle, or Barney, as the locals often call it, is a small town in County Durham, so in the northeastern portion of England, and the population rests just under 6,000. With my vacation rental […]Source
“The practice of manifestation rests on our ability to direct our attention toward the objects of our intention (selective attention) and away from objects and experiences that distract it.” —James R. Doty, MD, author of Mind Magic: The Neuroscience of Manifestation and How it Changes Everything One of the most reliable ways I have found […]Source
“Rituals delineate a sacred space to keep people connected to the present moment.” —Dr. Michael Norton, author of The Ritual Effect Brown Betty (cobalt in my case) teapot full of steeped black tea. A petite dish full of healthy nibbles. A favorite French candle lit offering a gentle reminder of Paris streets. The ‘focus’ on […]Source
“We are not born with the secret of how to live [well], and too many of us never learn it. There is nothing cold-blooded or mechanical about it, but there are many things we have to learn to do . . . the first thing is to realize we’ve probably been looking in the wrong […]Source
“Composting what was into what will be.” Mother Nature and the cycle of seasons provide endless life lessons and nourishing guidance if we are wise enough to heed her teachings. More specifically, spring’s arrival, the season as we all know that introduces itself after winter, the latter season of which for many of us can […]Source
“What’s needed is more intentional thinking about what we mean by ‘productivity’ . . . If [we] collect modest drops of meaningful effort for 365 days . . . [we]’ll end the year with a bucket that is pretty damn full. This is what ultimately matters: where [we] end up, not the speed at which […]Source
A pair of denim jeans made of heavier weight denim, and long staple cotton will cost more at the till or checkout, but it will be worn and enjoyably so for years to come. And even better, you won’t be repairing it endlessly throughout its long lifespan (good value). Compare the above purchase to a […]Source
Sometimes life can feel small, as if the reality of our lives right now is all there is even if we are an aware individual, we know that the world’s awesome vastness stretches beyond our comprehension. However, because we will always be in our own company, we forget that what we see now isn’t always […]Source
Bonjour à tous ! Just last week, I concluded FR 105 with Washington DC’s Alliance de Français, a Zoom/online course that met twice a week, two hours each time since just after Thanksgiving. You may remember that Part Six of this series was shared during TSLL’s Annual French Week which shared what I had learned […]Source
“Part of art making is living your life in such a way that your work gets done, over and over—and that means, among other things, finding a host of practices that are just plain useful . . . a life lived within productive patterns. The life of a productive artist becomes filled with useful conventions […]Source
As 2024 began waking up to its first day on the calendar, a most treasured ritual ensued for me along with Norman and Nelle. Something I have been doing for as long as I can remember once I began living on my own with pups as my companions has been to go for a good […]Source
The Simple Sophisticate podcast began its 10th season this year with September, and it’s sometimes hard to believe, the show has been around for nearly 10 years! Over the past 12 months I feel fortunate to have been able to welcome amazing guests on the show from authors on a variety of topics – HSP, […]Source
Whether or not snow has fallen come December, the warmth and cheer of good tidings appearing about town, the neighbors, in the shops and arriving in the mail by way of the annual Christmas cards sent from friends and family living near and far always wraps me in a figurative hug. This year, similar to […]Source
Prevention versus correction. For a few decades now, or perhaps more than a few, stress management has been the term of phrase often used as we find a culture, and more specifically, ourselves nearing or reaching burn-out whether in our jobs or life in general, and while bringing healing and remedy to something in our […]Source
When I knew I would be sitting down to chat and catch up with the lead vocalist of the jazz band The Hot Sardines, Elizabeth Bougerol, I knew our conversation would be enjoyable, inspiring and much like taking a drink of refreshing water that leaves you energized, hopeful and inspired. And indeed that was the […] Source
“I still have yet to discover a secret ingredient that has been proven to ensure a long and healthy life—well, […] Source
The journey of customizing Le Papillon, my house and home in Bend, Oregon, since September 2019 has provided much opportunity […] Source
“We think love has to be obtained, earned, achieved, and received. We look for it in the form of attention […] Source
Author and philosopher of contemporary living, Alexandra Stoddard has published 28 books since she began in 1974. Continuing to be […] Source
The book I wanted and needed to read. Repeatedly, indirectly and directly women and the entire society at large are told that aging is bad, and it is especially an unwelcoming reality for women, but is this true? Fashion Director for The Times London since 2015 Anna Murphy recently turned 50, and in her new […]Source
Being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) is a fairly new identifier to describe anyone who is highly responsive to their environment. This high responsiveness can appear in a variety of ways and different arenas of our lives – physically, emotionally, in relationships, simply going about our days and interacting with the world around us. In […]Source
“N’ayez pas peur.” And the formal lessons continue into the wilderness and beauty of the French language. Or should I say langue française. And yep, we have just dove into to learning the imperatif form, and as the command directs above in French – Have no fear! Which is a great place to start because […]Source
It all began with 18 months in Paris as a young woman more than 30 years ago. Inspired by her time volunteering during the day at a Parisian floral boutique while she figure skated in the evenings, Sandra Sigman’s life journey and approach to floral arrangements was forever changed, and thus began the unfolding of […]Source
“To have a good relationship with money, you must know who you are and what your purpose is in this world.” —Kate Northrup, Money: A Love Story Find your purpose, exercise your courage and you are on your way to financial freedom. Simple AND true. Not easy, but definitely doable. For many of us, we […]Source
A tidy sanctuary creates mental space to find calm more readily. Upon walking into my home, Le Papillon, knowing and then witnessing that it has been cleaned, tidied and unnecessary items have been removed, whether that be emptying the recycling basket in the boot & basket room (aka mudroom), countertops are cleared of extraneous items, […]Source
“It’s not a matter of luck or magic. This is simply how your brain works. So take a break every now and then, and let your brain do what it does best.”—Michael Hyatt & Megan Hyatt Miller, authors of Mind Your Mindset: The science that shows success starts with your thinking One of the Beatles […]Source
Gabriel. No last name needed, but he doesn’t have one if he did, interestingly enough. I’m talking about Gabriel of Emily in Paris fame. Played by Lucas Bravo, Gabriel is the inspiration for today’s post/episode because his clothes don’t do the talking unlike the rest of the fashion-clad cast, but they definitely don’t hinder his […]Source
“Presence is power.” What if I told you that the solution to your quandaries about life, love, work, finding calm, anything of value and importance already resided within you? While initially this may seem impossible, in actuality, when we dig down deep to the core of our motivations, our hopes and even our fears, the […]Source
“On ne comprend jamais tout à fait une langue avant d’en comprendre au moins deux.” It took 43 years for me to finally learn the French alphabet, and when I say learn I mean how to properly pronounce each letter, even after taking French classes in college and then again taking French 102 and 103 […]Source
“The greatest gift that manifesting can offer us is not to help us attract things for us to possess but to help us unleash the most empowered, authentic, self-loving, and truly magnificent version of ourselves that there is.” —Roxie Nafousi How we live, how we think, what we think determines the destiny of our lives, […]Source
The Simple Sophisticate podcast has continued to be a favorite part of TSLL online destination for listeners and readers. This year 28 new episodes were shared with listeners and more than 800,000 episodes were downloaded: the most in the show’s history. And it is all because of listeners and readers of the show like you […]Source
The holiday of Christmas is a festive time that arrives a mere one week before the new year begins. The arrival of Christmas stirs up nostalgia for some, angst for others, seasonal stress for most of us and a stream of quiet hope for perhaps nearly all of us that a Christmas miracle will occur. […]Source
Those who know David Jimenez and his life journey often take a sigh of adoration followed by a smile and comment, “He is living the dream”. And indeed to us Francophiles, he is indeed. Having called Paris home for the past six years, American interior designer living in Paris David Jimenez partnered with Diane Dorrans […]Source
The concept of luxury at its core is what brings you comfort. A space, piece or item that brings ease, calm and perhaps a sigh of letting go and being able to fully relax and savor the present moment. In 2013 I shared a list full of ideas exemplifying what true luxury is; the items […] Source
“I am sure there are [trends], but I don’t really like them because I think trends come and go very rapidly.” —Nina Campbell Creating a sanctuary takes time. But it need not take the same amount of time each time you set up a new home. Similar to getting to know ourselves, unconsciously from day […] Source
“Creating healthy boundaries is how you ensure that you’re happy and well in your relationships and in life.” —Nedra Glover Tawwab, Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself To have boundaries that are respected is to give your life and your days peace of mind. Just as a sovereign state provides the foundation […] Source
Having what we need in our closet as each season changes into the next brings a peace of mind that when reached is often forgotten about as it frees us to engage fully and comfortably (and confidently) in our daily lives. In my own life, it was this October when I had plans to go […] Source
“In a simple and a peaceful cottage with a beautiful view, you will not be dreaming about the palaces or the heaven, because you already have a perfect thing!” ― Mehmet Murat ildan To feel welcomed, to feel deeply at home in a sanctuary, to feel ‘cozyed in’, almost as though to be hugged without confinement and […] Source
“The best day in your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own. It is an amazing journey, and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. This is the day your life really begins.” —Anonymous We wake up each day, often in our own bed, in the home […] Source
“The paradox of [contentment] is that it doesn’t matter about our situation of life as meditation gives us freedom in the mind, but [when we cultivate contentment] we want to try to create an environment that is good for our body and mind.” —Andy Puddicombe, Headspace Welcome to the premiere of the 9th season of […] Source
It’s been said that taking the Eurostar (which runs under the English Channel, connecting London to Brussels, Paris, Lille, Rotterdam and Amsterdam) is much more like taking a plane ride than taking a train ride, and in many respects, I would have to agree. Why? It’s swift, it’s non-stop and there is wonderful service and […] Source
Since the beginning of TSLL blog in 2009 and with the podcast when it began in 2014, I have regularly shared French-inspired ideas to incorporate into our everyday routine (be sure to check out Podcast Bundle #2 for many of these episodes). And the more I observe and savor how such choices elevate my life, […] Source
“In the same way that a car that is well-maintained will last longer and be more reliable, you cannot hope to get the lasting high performance you want from your brain if it is not properly cared for and protected.” —Kimberley Wilson, author of How to Build a Healthy Brain: Practical steps to mental health […] Source
Of all summers, the summer of 2022 understandably beckons us to travel, explore and leave our homes and the towns and cities we have been staying close to for nearly three years due to the pandemic. Perhaps even our homes want us to leave so it can have a breather from us! However at the […] Source
Bonne Fete Nationale! To those of us celebrating outside of France, we may be celebrating France’s national holiday with an exclamation of Happy Bastille Day, but within the borders of France, as I have been reminded more than a few times, it is Bonne Fete Nationale or Le Quatorze Juillet! Whatever you prefer to utter, […] Source
“When it comes to jet lag, there ain’t — I report from the window seat of a bustling café in Montreal, hence this paraphrasing of Leonard Cohen — no cure.” —Mark VanHoenacker, a Boeing 787 pilot for British Airways and the author of Imagine A City: A Pilot’s Journey Across the Urban World The first time […] Source
“Your soul needs time for solitude and self-reflection. In order to love, lead, heal, and create, you must nourish yourself first.” —Louise Hay Stillness. Silence. Solitude. Whether you have ten minutes or an entire afternoon or day to give to quiet contemplation, otherwise known as reflection, when you choose to do so, you ground yourself, […] Source
“Our life experience will equal what we have paid attention to, whether by choice or default.” —William James To hold our attention on a singular point of focus exhibits a strength of being able to thwart the tugs of distraction. And to be able to thwart distraction takes conscious intention to notice, to choose to […] Source
The British culture is varied and vast and while one person’s affection for the culture may include punk rock along with their love for the Beatles, another’s affinities may gravitate toward the gardening and afternoon tea. While my predilections lean more toward the latter, whenever a culture speaks to us that is not the one […] Source
To feel intrinsically connected with a culture other than the one you were raised involves the feeling of a coming home. A ‘coming home’ in a way that seems impossible until you feel it first-hand, deep in the marrow of your bones. As I share in detail in the introduction of the month of May […] Source
A dream has been realized, to experience being in Paris in April, and that is what we were able to do for a couple of days this past month. Granted, many others wished to do the same thing, and as it was the first spring since 2019 as the past two years travelers were not […] Source
“Although your true nature may be hidden momentarily by stress and worry, anger and unfulfilled longings, it still continues to exist. Knowing this can be a great comfort.”—Rick Hanson, PhD with Richard Mendius, MD, Buddha’s Brain: The practical neuroscience of happiness, love and wisdom The mind’s default is dialed to ‘survive’, not to thrive. However, […] Source
“To attain wealth, the lasting kind, the kind that gives your life meaning, value and sustenance, base your daily existence on the generosity of spirit. Everything else you desire will follow of its own accord.” —Deepak Chopra, Abundance: The Inner Path to Wealth To experience great joy in our everydays is to experience bliss. If […] Source
Happy New Year! Well, if we were in any year prior to 1752, the beginning of the spring season would have been the official start of the new year (March 24th or 25th depending upon where you lived in Europe and how the Julian calendar was used), and while the calendar may have moved to […] Source
“Since most of us spend our lives doing ordinary tasks, the most important thing is to carry them out extraordinarily well.” —Henry David Thoreau It’s morning, early in our house. Norman has finished his breakfast served in the mudroom which is adjacent to the kitchen, and I begin toasting my steel cut oats. The clanking […] Source
The clock neared midnight, the candles on the table still flickered just at a slightly lower height than when they were lit only six hours ago, the kitchen was full of dishes and the platters of food offered crumbs and hints at the menu that had just recently been shared and enjoyed amongst friends. The […] Source
Photographer and Paris blogger, founder of Everyday Parisian, Rebecca Plotnick joins me on today’s episode to talk about traveling to Paris during the time of Covid. Travelers are gradually beginning to make travel plans abroad, and as Rebecca traveled to Paris this past October, I invited her on the show to share her experience as […] Source
December has the ability to take us out of our daily and weekly rhythms. With all of the joviality and celebration, we often excitedly step into the change and welcome the shift of energy and focus. Similarly, when we have chosen a temporary project to focus our attention, our life routine, where we place our […] Source
“You were brave and it paid off.” I am starting with where you will be at the end of 2022 because it is absolutely possible. Yes, it is. Let me first acknowledge where you might find your mind when you first read the title of today’s post/episode followed by the quote. Doubtful, skeptical, it is […] Source
“As we practice unconditional trustworthiness, we notice a healing result: we are no longer devastated when others fail us. Our focus has shifted from ourselves as victims of others’ betrayals of fidelity to our own commitment to trustworthiness. We still see that some people are not trustworthy, and we feel sad and injured. But as […] Source
“If we feel secure, the world is at our feet. We can take risks, be creative, and pursue our dreams.” —Amir Levine, M.D. and Rachel S.F. Heller, M.A., authors of Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love Until we know the priceless gift of peace security in […] Source
The busy holiday travel season is upon us. After two years in which many people have not been able to gather with loved ones, the liklihood that even more people than usual will be hopping on the road, the plane or the train this time of year is to be expected. Even with unforeseen hiccups […] Source
“Vitality involves intersection with and participation in the world around you. It is not predicated on taking a year off to find yourself. It doesn’t require making a drastic change. You don’t need to lose yourself in self-reflection. You don’t need to overhaul your existence, or reinvent your life, or wait until the chaos [subsides].” […] Source
“We fall in love harder and fear it more because we are drawn to the depth and complexity of the emotions we are going to unleash, but we also know that the consequences of such deep love are unforeseeable, a situation we never relish.”—Elaine Aron, author of The Highly Sensitive Person in Love: Understanding and […] Source
“The missing element of oxygen, when brought home, gives us time in which we can record the tiny, visceral, magnificent details of living. The shower after a sweaty workout, a belly laugh with a friend, the warmth of fine whiskey, rain on the roof, or a tight and lasting hug . . . Busy can […] Source
“Man’s search for meaning is the primary motivation in his life and not a ‘secondary rationalization’ of instinctual drives. This meaning is unique and specific in that it must and can be fulfilled by him alone; only then does it achieve a significance which will satisfy his own will to meaning.” —Viktor E. Frankl First […] Source