SideBar with Nke_Mar: Recent Episodes
SIDEBARWITHNKE_MAR
SideBar with Nke_Mar is a podcast experience designed to discuss the complexities of navigating your personal success (mentally, spiritually, romantically, and financially) and how to become comfortable with the outcomes.
Listen in as we explore Self-Accountability as it relates to Black Women's approach to the world around them!
Episode 19: Toxic People-- Toxic people can alter the course of your life, so it's important to be able to identify these people, so that you can stay away! If you find yourself unable to stay away, then that is a signal that you need to self-examin! Listen in and share your thoughts!
Listen in while Nke_Mar and Calvin discuss Productivity Culture, relationships and self-advocacy! Also stop by Sidebarwithnke_mar YouTube page, like and subscribe!
Have We Truly Progressed?!?! Listen in as Nke and Calvin explore the relationships within and outside the Culture!
Episode 16: Relation-Shit
We all have ideas about how we should be treated by others in this world based on our own experiences and the values held by the societies in which we live. My issue is that some of the ways that we as women feel we should be treated does not always line up with how we present in the world. Narratives like:
I deserve to be treated like a Queen!
I am an independent woman!
What did the man do to cause friction in your relationships?
Doesn’t provide a full picture and can lend to women showing up in undignified ways and expecting Queen treatment. Or, showing up as an independent woman who does not need a Man, or, not accepting their part in the demise of a relationship!
All of these things without a full understanding of how to navigate each can create unhealthy habits that stays with us from relationship, to relationship to relationship! Join in with me as I discuss and attempt to flesh out some of what is missing from the conversation.
Unemployment rates are high, certainty is low, what will you do to help yourself offset the damage? What will you do if there is no work, no Unemployment and no clear path in view?!? Listen in on my thoughts!
Episode 14:
The universe will provide you with what you command it to. You have an opportunity to get whatever it is you desire from the universe, more important than commanding the universe is knowing what it is you desire and intentionally forming creation of good thought and taking good action so that you can get the energy from the universe you need/desire to facilitate your goals in life. Join me as I discuss!
Episode 13: Mind Control . . . Follow me as I take you on a journey exposing the importance of maintaining your composure in the aftermath of two racially motivated killings of unarmed Black Men! We are tired, but, we have a responsibility to make decisions in accordance with our goals, not our pain! Listen in and enjoy!
Episode 12: I'M BACK LOVEBUGS!!!! I've taken a step back to reorder some items in my life, so that I am approaching you all with the energy you deserve! So sit back and listen in as I share my morning thoughts.
Episode 10: Quarantine Bae... Skip a few minutes ahead to get straight to Today's topic!
Let's face it we all need a little love, but, in an effort to build strong relationships we have to turn away from what social media says and focus on good communication with our partners!!
Episode 9: Live In Your Purpose Not In Your Pleasure
Listen in as we discuss using these uncertain times to discover your purpose rather than engaging in extended periods of pleasure seeking. Check Sidebarwithnke_mar on YouTube and subscribe, subscribe, subscribe!
Episode 8: Time is a precious commodity, how will you use yours? Many of us will be home for the next 30 days and that equates to all the time you need to make POWER MOVES! Take your time seriously and put some effort in for the full effect. Listen in as we discuss ways for you to use this time to reach and create goals!
Minimizing The Masculinity of Black Men (Episode 5 ): Piggybacking off of our previous episode we discovered that black men often feel very upset by the way in which they are forced to communicate with the general public and at work, so that mainstream members can feel comfortable with them. We discuss they're frustration, the training they receive as young boys in the home and the communication between significant others with respect to what they will teach they're black sons about navigating corporate America. You'll meet two couples Tyrone and Johnique married with two children and Mike and Safira a new couple on a path to blending they're lives. This conversation is thoughtful and eye-opening enjoy!
Episode 4 : There has been controversy surrounding Oprah Winfrey using her platform to highlight recent sex cases against Black Men in Hollywood, but not using that same platform to cast light on their Caucasian counterparts. In a recent interview aired on CBS Gayle (Oprah's long time friend) brought up sexual allegations that involved Kobe Bryant in the past. Resulting in outrage by Kobe's fans. The comments by fans to the Media duo have called into question whether the pair are on a mission to destroy black men. Are they being judged fairly? Or is this an opportunity for people to hold Black Women accountable for items, which otherwise go undiscussed when Men or other ethnicities engage in the same behavior? We'll get into this topic and much more...