Codependent N’ Sh*t: Recent Episodes
Ash Rakes
A real girl talking about real sh*t! -From codependency and love addiction, to single parenting and situationships. Join me on my journey of self-development, self-healing, and spirituality discussed on a practical level. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/ashleyrakes/support
What do you do when your seemingly perfect partner wants to go back to their abusive ex? How do navigate dating someone going through a separation but not an official divorce? This episode is extra vulnerable and contains talk of things I have never discussed in my life (especially publicly). Trigger warning- this episode contains talk around abortion Email me: codependentnshit@gmail.com IG: codependentnsh*t
Hello fam, this episode talks about the toxic side of incessant “therapy speak” on social media (and life in general), and the discomfort that can arise when we meet a healthy/available partner. Also obviously some catch up on my life and personal journey navigating grief, trauma, diagnoses, and a new game changer relationship 🔥. I love you guys so much and appreciate all your support. ❤️❤️
This episode may ruffle some feathers of individuals in recovery/aa/na but I also don’t care and feel it’s important for those of us who choose a different route of healing to be able to share. I also talk about the multitude of grief of a passing loved one, AND story time! About why I decided to end a relationship with someone seemingly normal & healthy. Ish. 😂 Do you like the show? If so, leave me a review!❤️. If you would like to write me, connect: IG @codependentnshit Or email codependentnshit@gmail.com
Hey guys! This episode I wanted to just catch you up with where I’m at and talk about the difference between LUST and LOVE. Lust is a lying bitch okay? 😂. Come find me and talk to me on stereo! https://stereo.com/codependentnshit
The answer is YES. Just kidding, maybe your situation is different. But if you resonate with anything I say in this episode - IT’S TIME TO GO! Bonus story about my 3 year situationship from hell 🔥. Love you guys! I love to connect with you guys and hear how episodes are helping you out. Message me! Tell me about your wins and losses with this stuff. It’s no easy feat 💖. Email: codependentnshit@gmail.com IG:@codependentnshit
In this episode I go over the all too familiar and specific stages of narcissistic abuse, and also touch on the concept of making men or women our God, a.k.a idolatry. Spoiler alert: it’s the fastest way to forever be unhappy and unfulfilled. Love you Contact me directly with success stories, rants, connection, etc. at codependentnshit@gmail.com or on IG @codependentnshit
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Hi Fam, this episode is about handling and coping with the reality of finding out your narcissist ex has a new supply (of course they do), why we aren’t victims & must take radical accountability, and also why I recommend 12 step programs as a means of integrative self-work and therapy. Love you ❤️ Contact me directly with success stories, rants, connection, etc. at codependentnshit@gmail.com or on IG @codependentnshit
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The only good thing about rock bottom is the only way out is up. Rock bottom might feel like an emotional thing, but sometimes it’s your life choices playing out as things you’d NEVER imagine you’d do. When is enough enough? This episode is about my personal experience with hitting rock bottom, and how to navigate it - which can only be done with radical self responsibility. If you need extra support or want to just write in, email me codependentnshit@gmail.com or IG @ash__rakes or @codependentnshit ❤️
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I’m back fresh outta rehab and ready to share with you guys about my experience with treatment, and why I believe trying to heal underlying issues like codependency, etc. while still using alcohol & drugs to numb out nearly halted my growth the past 3 years. Where there is a will, there is a way out* If you’re struggling to get sober and want out, don’t be afraid to reach out for help. You can also reach out to me! Add/message me on IG @ash__rakes or email codependentnshit@gmail.com 🙏🏻❤️
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Hello fam, quick episode letting you guys know how/why I’m finally truly surrendering to what is, the reality of my situations, my addictions, my codependency, my grief, and entering rehab. I wanted to record this to let anyone else struggling to know how okay and NECESSARY it is to get help if you’ve realized for the last time that you can’t do it on your own. There is a way out and you don’t need to do it alone ❤️. Love you all so much
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WhatIn this bonus episode, I decided to openly share what’s truly working for me as I’m in this current process right now. I talk about tangible steps to begin to create an exit plan, and ultimately what needs to be done within us to not just break this trauma bond — but alll of them. Because we all know how easy it is to go find a new one with a new face! Do you like the show? Please leave a review. I love to hear from you guys so if you have feedback, success stories, etc. send them to me!! Codependentnshit@gmail.com Or IG @codependentnshit
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This episode is full details and warning signs I ignored of my most recent relationship that winded up being with yet another person with highly narcissistic traits. I want you guys to understand that even with years of healing work and self awareness around this stuff, you still can easily fall into these relationships. That’s why FOLLOWING YOUR GUT AND RED FLAGS IS SO BEYOND CRUCIAL! It’s hard, you may have slip ups like me, but you will find yourself spending less and less time investing in these energy vampires 🧛♂️. I love you guys https://youtu.be/4aNuph5gRMQ << Highly recommend you play this song on repeat if you’re going through this!
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This episode is about the seemingly ever growing current societal trend to try and label EVERYONE as a narcissist. Sure, there’s definite upsides of gaining awareness on these topics/labels - but are we over-doing it? Is it a new form of self abandonment to always be pointing the finger? 🤔 Do you like the show? Please leave a rating/review! Let’s connect: IG @ashrakes or @codependentnshit Want to share your success story, or get advice on a situation for a future episode? Email: codependentnshit@gmail.com.
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In this episode I’m recapping a bit about trauma bonds because well, I think every write in I get is about trauma bonds and let’s be real - this entire podcast is based around them 🤣. I touch on ways to get out of them, why we need to get out of them, and share some of my personal experience with how I’ve gotten out of them. It can be done ☑️ Do you like the show? Please leave a review! If you’d like to connect or write to me directly - follow me on IG @codependentnshit or @ashrakes or shoot me an email @codependentnshit@gmail.com
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Hi fam! A lot of this episode is about my Mom’s abrupt recent passing and how I’m coping with that/how I’m getting back on track with healing in the wake of tragedy/grief. Sometimes things happen in life that can throw us off track with focusing on bettering ourselves. I also touch on the Holistic Psychologists new book, and the power of the mind/the placebo effect in regards to healing. Love you guys ❤️
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Hi guys! I’m alive! Just wanted to catch you up with why I’ve been MIA, and talk about why chemistry alone is NOT the recipe for a healthy dating dynamic. Compatibility is 🔑 to save yourself unnecessary pain/conflict! Do you like the show? Please leave a review! 🙏🏻 If you download the anchor app you can record a message to me/the show and I will air it on an episode❤️Follow me on IG - @ashrakes or @codependentnshit Email for submissions codependentnshit@gmail.com.
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On this episode I’m going into the power of conscious inner dialogue and combatting opposing views/opinions a instead of making them mean so much to us. As individuals with codependent habits, we often will take on other people’s opinions and make it mean SO MUCH more than necessary. Thus creating internal misery, and even holding us back from our dreams and true desires. CUT THAT SH*T OUT! I love you guys ❤️❤️❤️ Do you like the show? Please be sure to leave a review/rating. 🙏🏻 I love to connect with you guys, hear how the show has helped you, and just offer extra support: add me on IG @ashrakes (plz msg before as its my personal page) or @codependentnshit. Submissions for advice/success stories,etc can be emailed at codependentnshit@gmail.com.
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Lololol just a short holiday episode for my peeps that understand the struggle of the holidays with dysfunctional/toxic family. WE 👏🏼CAN👏🏼 DO 👏🏼THIS 🤣😩 Do you like the show? Follow me on IG @ashrakes or @codependentnshit Email me at codependentnshit@gmail.com.
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In this episode I just wanted to catch up with you guys, talk a little more about trauma bonds, situationships, and why I believe relationship with God is integral right now, and in regards to healing “limiting belief bonds”. Do you like the show? Follow me on IG @ashnrowan or codependentnshit Submit your stories, suggestions, etc to codependentnshit@gmail.com. ❤️❤️
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What is a trauma bond? What is cognitive dissonance? Are you in an emotionally abusive relationship without even realizing it? These are important things to learn and have conscious awareness of to start attracting healthier relationships in the future. Do you like the show? Please leave a good rating and review. ❤️🙏🏻 If you have a story, a advice suggestion, or just want to send some : codependentnshit@gmail.com. FOLLOW ME ON IG I LOVE CONNECTING WITH YOU GUYS @ashrakes or @codependentnshit. LINK TO THE FB GROUP: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1338959609620029/
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I’M BACK! ❤️ In this episode I just wanted to recap some stuff going on, talk about the impending apocalypse, etc. 🤣 but most importantly, address “addiction to relationships”. Why we shouldn’t shame ourselves once we find ourselves realizing we may be doing this, and why it throws our lives off balance. I also touch a bit on personal dating situations for me, and why I’m still finding myself drawn to a not so great dynamic because it’s FAMILIAR. Familiarity = comfort. But GROWTH REQUIRES GETTING UNCOMFORTABLE. Remember that! Do you like the show? Please leave a good rating and review. ❤️🙏🏻 If you have a story, a advice suggestion, or just want to send some : codependentnshit@gmail.com. FOLLOW ME ON IG I LOVE CONNECTING WITH YOU GUYS @ashrakes or @codependentnshit. LINK TO THE FB GROUP: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1338959609620029/
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SUP FAM ❤️ This episode is a little off typical topic, but I really wanted to touch on this and my opinion of WAP and why I don’t think it’s doing us any favors for progressing with women sexuality. ALSO - talking PROJECTION. And how altering it can be for our relationships to be conscious of how we ALL DO IT! 👏🏼 Do you like the show? Please leave a review! ❤️ Write in your suggested topics, personal situations, success stories etc. to codependentnshit@gmail.com. I LOVE TO CONNECT W/ YOU GUYS! Find me on IG @ashrakes or @codependentnshit. FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1338959609620029/
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This week’s episode is about overall healing of codependency, dealing with loneliness when you’re in the in between phases of losing friends, and also how to point out wounded partners BEFORE you get involved. 🙌🏼. Download the Stereo app to come chat with me live! Follow me @ashrakes to be notified of when I’m on 🎙 Do you like the show? Please leave a good review! I love to hear from you guys so if you want to connect find me on IG @ashrakes or @codependentnshit! SHOOT ME YO PROBLEMS, STORIES, QUESTIONS, ETC. TO BE ANSWERED ON AN EPISODE codependentnshit@gmail.com. ❤️❤️❤️
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Can you heal codependency while in a relationship? My answer is yes. In this episode I explain more about why, and also helpful starting points for you and your partner. ALSO - Are you putting up with fu*k boy/girl behavior just because a person FINANCIALLY has their life together? I’m getting real on this topic and why you need to see the reality of this situation! 🤭 Do you like the show? Plz leave a good rating/review 🙏🏻Let’s connect! - Follow me on IG @ashrakes or codependentnshit Plz submit questions, personal stories for advice, etc. to be featured on the show to codependentnshit@gmail.com. ❤️
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Double episode week! I forgot to tell you guys that tomorrow (August 27th) the STEREO app is launching and I have partnered with them to be a content creator on the app! My first live sessions will be Aug 27th: 2:00 PST, Aug 28th: 2:00PST, Aug 31st: 2:00 PST, SEP 1st 2:00 PST, & Sep 1st 2:00 PST! Come ask me things and hear more stuff like you do on here! 😍 The app is available in your App Store! ❤️ THIS episode also goes a bit into a common predicament you may find yourself in once you start dating “nice guys” or men who treat you well. If you have a track record of dating the total opposite, you might think you have to just stick around because a potential dating partner is “nice”. NO! Hear why.. Do you like the show? Please leave a review! I love connecting with you guys so find me on IG @ashrakes or codependentnshit. SUBMIT YOUR QUESTIONS, TRIALS & TRIBULATIONS TO BE ANSWERED ON THE SHOW @ codependentnshit@gmail.com
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He has tattoos and takes 2 days to text back...are you in love?! Probably not Sis! In this episode I talk about why we typically are drawn to “bad boy” types, getting real about our attraction to them, and also how to become less emotionally unavailable/love avoidant. Because if you’re attracting emotionally unavailable partners, it’s because you are also emotionally unavailable! 🤯 Don’t worry, we can change this! ❤️. Do you like the show? Please leave a good rating/review. This will help other people find the show so it can help them also! I love to connect with you guys - IG @ashrakes or codependentnshit. IF YOU HAVE A SPECIFIC TOPIC/SITUATION YOU’D LIKE ADDRESSED ON THE SHOW PLZ SEND AN E-MAIL TO CODEPENDENTNSHIT@GMAIL.COM
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HI FAM I’M BACK AND HERE TO STAY 🤗 I would like to take this show in the direction of being a love/dating advice platform. If you’ve listened to the show, you know I’m extremely well versed in codependency, love-addiction, attachment issues, and conscious dating. And I’m a former crazy girl 🤣WRITE ME YOUR PROBLEMS! Let’s solve them! I assure you, there’s many others going through what you are and you putting it out there HELPS ❤️ Email submission to codependentnshit@gmail.com or DM on IG @codependentnshit or ashrakes 😊 love you guys!
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Hello Fam, for now I am going to be taking a (likely indefinite) break from this show and launching a new Podcast soon. I will keep you updated on the details of that when it occurs. For now I will keep my old episodes up but this may change. Thank you all for the love & support through this chapter of my life. I sincerely hope you find your way and I’m sending you so much love. ❤️
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SUP FAM! This episode has some “what not to do” things if you are on a dating app (and actually seeking dating) and also a bit about over-attachment. I go through some sure signs of over attachment/involvement & ways to work through it. ❤️❤️ Do you like the show? Follow me on IG @ashrakes or @codependentnshit or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com
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This is a deep one! Warning: This episode may trigger those in the New Age spiritual movement Just have to be transparent with you guys on where I’m at, and how I’m navigating my journey home ❤️. If you want to connect with me directly you can find me on IG @ashnrowan or codependentnshit or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com. 🙏🏻
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Tarot, crystals, manifestation, astrology, rituals, spirit guides...I got heavily into the new age spiritual movement as a guiding force to heal my codependency n sh*t. In this episode I explain why I’ve made the decision to leave this belief system/way of life BEHIND. ⚠️ Warning ⚠️ This episode may trigger you if you are still in the new age movement. 🤷🏼♀️ Do you like the show? Let’s connect! Follow me on IG @ashnrowan or codependentnshit or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com.
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Have you ever been with someone who did not share the same moral core beliefs as you? Do you feel guilty and ashamed for having done so? Don’t beat yourself up, it’s codependency. Also, are you exhausted with self-healing? Feel like you never heal “enough”? There’s a point where this stuff becomes counter productive. Accepting yourself now is the most profound tool I’ve discovered along the way❤️❤️ Do you like the show? Let’s connect! Follow me on IG @ashnrowan or codependentnshit or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com. Good reviews/ratings are always appreciated🙏🏻
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Just dropping this quickly while I have a moment because I do NOT support silence right now. I will be recording a full episode this week. Please stay safe and love one another 🙏🏻❤️❤️
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This episode I touch on the reality behind seeking others to “heal us”, etc., Why the spiritual healing community is starting to drive me bonkers, and I also do a listener question about being ghosted 👻 during the pandemic. Do you like the show? Let’s connect! Follow me on IG @ashnrowan or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com. ✨Good reviews/ratings are always appreciated 🙏🏻
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Hey guys, I just wanted to record something quick to update as to why I’ve taken a lil break from recording. Quick talk on “2020 expectation hangovers”, body issues, and quarantine realizations, etc.✨
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I’m personally attacking some of you with this one 🤣. I just wanted to get real on this topic because I’m sooo tired of seeing this pattern as our norm. Nice guys finish last” needs to be a thing of the past if we ever want to heal ❤️
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In this episode I’m talking about why societal stigmas are keeping us in a shame cycle about ourselves and only keeping us down and depressed. Stigmas like mental health, sex, cannabis, etc. are discussed and why being willing to be VULNERABE🔑 can unlock doors for us. ❤️ Do you like the show? Let’s connect! Follow me on IG @ashnrowan or codependentnshit Contact/to book a call with me: https://linktr.ee/Ashrakes
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Hello my loves! In this episode I touch on a few subjects. From self-proclaimed “modern spiritual gurus” insights right now, to this common theme we are seeing in social media that those of us at home should be in “create/expand/productivity mode”. ARE YOU STILL COMFORT EATING? Ok cool, me too. Also, I go through an emotional release technique step by step that I learned in the past to move through anger in a more responsible way. Hope it helps! ❤️✨ Connect with me here: https://linktr.ee/Ashrakes 🙏🏻 Good ratings and reviews are always appreciate🙏🏻
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Is it you? Or is it maybe a global pandemic? In this episode I’m talking alll about this topic. Is the person you were talking to being “weird” or “off? Please 👏🏼 relax 👏🏼 ! I’ll explain why and also why this applies all the time - pandemic or no pandemic. ✨DO YOU WANT TO WORK WITH ME ONE ON ONE?! I WOULD LOVE TO HELP YOU ❤️ I’M TAKING DIRECT CALL SESSIONS IN ORDER TO BETTER ASSIST YOU WITH ANY ISSUES YOU MAY BE HAVING (EX: CODEPENDENCY ISSUES, RELATIONSHIP ISSUES, SELF-WORTH ISSUES, CONSCIOUS DATING, ETC.) You can book here - https://linktr.ee/Ashrakes ✨ Do you like the show? Let’s connect! Follow me on IG @ashnrowan or codependentnshit ❤️ Good ratings and reviews are always appreciated ❤️
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Hello my loves, here’s a self-quarantine random episode! 🤣 This episode is about what to do when someone you’re “situationing” (non-exclusivity) tries to ask if you’re seeing other people, and why neither of you should really be asking each other this to begin with. I also touch on being isolated with toxic family/partners right now, and reverting to toxic old habits during this self-isolation period. Also included : Riffing about cannabis normalization and spiritual benefits of twerking✨👏🏼🤣 HOPE YOU ARE ALL STAYING SAFE & AS POSITIVE AS POSSIBLE RIGHT NOW! I love you! Do you like the show? Let’s connect! Follow me on IG @ashnrowan or codependentnshit or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com. ❤️❤️❤️ GOOD REVIEWS AND RATINGS ALWAYS APPRECIATED 🙏🏻💕
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Hi Fam! Are you feeling the quarantine blues? Because same. This episode is around feels & triggers with family/anyone/in general in the current times. ALSO - taking a dive into “hyper sexual” females, female sexuality in general, and my personal struggles with my sexuality and healing my shame around it 🔥✨. Do you like the show? Do you need support right now? Let’s connect! Follow me on IG @ashnrowan or codependentnshit or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com ❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Hi guys! I am going to be recording as many episodes as possible during this time. This episode is about using this time of isolation/overall slow down to realllly go within 🙏🏻. With all the intense energy everywhere, this is also an extremely important time to be conscious of codependent tendencies. Are you taking on other people’s emotions/stress during this time? Is what you are feeling really “yours”? Do you like the show? Please leave a rating or write a review 🙏🏻❤️ LETS CONNECT! Follow me on IG @ashnrowan or codependentnshit or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com.
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This mini-episode is about FEAR. And how being in fear of the current global circumstances is a choice. Stay conscious and present with yourselves and your own beliefs during these times please ❤️🙏🏻 Do you like the show? Let’s connect! Follow me on IG @ashnrowan or @codependentnshit or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com
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This episode is about beginning to date consciously while in your recovery/inner healing journey✨. Contrary to what some may believe, dating can be a TOOL in our journey - if we use it correctly and consciously. And it can be FUN! What? Dating? Fun?! Holy sh*t! 🤣 Do you like the show? Follow me on IG @ ashnrowan or codependentnshit 🏆 Submit your wins (or just write me a note 😉) at codependentnshit@gmail.com 🏆
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This episode I’m touching a bit on narcissism/the current trend of narcissist label obsession, but mostly ADDICTION. Of all kinds. But major focus on LOVE ADDICTION as this is something I know a lot of you guys struggle with. ❤️ Like the show? Let’s connect! Follow me on IG @ ashnrowan or codependentnshit or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com. ✨✨ Has the show impacted you? Submit your self-healing wins to the e-mail listed above to be featured on an episode! ✨✨ Link to the FB group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1338959609620029/?ref=share
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This episode is RAW AF AF AF (notice no background music lol) and I recorded it on a whim after my 2nd EMDR session. I felt called to share it with you guys ❤️❤️
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This week I’m discussing the difference between being an “empath” and being codependent. It’s easy for these to get mixed up, and it’s pretty obvious why. However, one is a lot more detrimental than the other! 🛑 There’s a fine line between the two. Do you like the show? Let’s connect! Follow me on IG @ashnrowan or codependentnshit or shoot me an email/submit your WINS at codependentnshit@gmail.com
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Single for Valentine’s Day? Now is the PERFECT TIME to dive into celebrating the 👏🏼 most 👏🏼 important 👏🏼 relationship 👏🏼! The one with YOU 💖And that’s exactly how you will call in healthy - true - love with another 💝 Self-love is so much more than bubble baths and getting your nails done. LET’S GO DEEP ✨✨🥰 Do you like the show? Let’s connect! Follow me on IG @ashnrowan or codependentnshit or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com. Link to the FB group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1338959609620029/?ref=share
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It’s my FIRST INTERVIEW EVER! 🎉 On this episode I interview Vanessa Grace (IG@ SoulAmplified). Vanessa is an expert in overcoming co-dependency both personally and professionally. She is a life coach and licensed therapist. Her expertise, kind heart and a dash of light humor help her clients heal the life experiences and trauma that created codependency to begin with. Vanessa joins mental health, spiritual practices, and life aspirations to help women create the lives they really want for themselves. Her one on one coaching and group coaching courses help you truly transform from the inside. If you want to heal your soul to become a strong self, she’s got you covered! ✨ Do you like the show? Please subscribe and leave a good review ❤️ Also, lets connect! Follow me on IG @ ashnrowan or codependentnshit or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com.
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Do you feel guilty about someone you were with in the past? Guilt is HEAVY. I just wanted to open up on this topic, get personal, and discuss why we gotta forgive ourselves 🙏🏻. Do you like the show? Let’s connect! Follow me on IG @ ashnrowan or codependentnshit Or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com
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So you’ve realized you may be struggling with Codependency...now what? How do you get help? How do you go about treating it? I wanted to do this episode because I get a lot of people reaching out to me who are new to Codependency. It’s a lot to come to terms with! It can feel overwhelming and SUPPORT in all areas you can obtain it will help ❤️. I also wanted to discuss some dynamics with our our perceptions of others, their behavior, etc. in regards to codependency. Do you like the show? Let’s connect! Follow me on IG @ ashnrowan or codependentnshit or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com.
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This episode is about WTF conscious dating and relating is. Once we become self-aware/conscious of our OWN sh*t, we can start attracting and choosing partners from a place of REALNESS! If you keep finding yourself dating the same form of toxic man/woman with a different face, you’re likely dating from a wound/past pain. LETS SHIFT ✨ Also, I point out some red flags in early dating that have become kind of a cultural norm. Do you like the show? Let’s connect! Follow me on IG @ ashnrowan or codependentnshit or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com. ❤️ Link to the Rising Woman IG: https://instagram.com/risingwoman?igshid=isswrsrulirl Check out C.C. Valentine’s single “So It Seems” here : https://open.spotify.com/track/04GPPFtmu2gilf52jRlnsP?si=ri_1w3JURs26IvfzZA9hmw
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Does this sound like you? Welcome to the club! This episode is about the cycle of self-worth beliefs that keep us stuck and unhappy repeating the same pains over and over. Hack: there is a lesson in it. Let’s shed light 💡 on it! Do you like the show? Let’s connect! Follow me on IG @ ashnrowan or codependentnshit or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com.
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Happy New Year! Just wanted to discuss the positive sides of setting intentions for the new upcoming year, being graceful on yourself while letting GO of the toxic THINGS, and the POWER of vulnerability. Come as you are 👏🏼 Link to the Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1338959609620029/?ref=share Do you like the show? Let’s connect! Follow me on IG @ ashnrowan or codependentnshit or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com ❤️
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Sharing some tips on unwinding/re-filling your energy if the holidays took a toll on you (like they did for me). Also, if things seem to be falling away with 2019 - LET THEM! Lean in bby. Let it go..like that ice lady says. ❄️😉 The Instagram I mention is @ the.holistic.psychologist THE CODEPENDENTNSHIT FACEBOOK GROUP IS https://www.facebook.com/groups/1338959609620029/?ref=share or search Codependent N Sh*t ❤️ JOIN SO WE CAN CONNECT AND SUPPORT EACHOTHER ❤️ Do you like the show? Let’s connect! Follow me on IG @ashnrowan or codependentnshit or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com.
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Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays! For this episode I decided to try out doing a short guided meditation 🧘♀️. If you’re new to meditation or have never tried it - I encourage you to give it a chance. Meditation is an excellent way to connect with yourself ❤️ ! If you enjoyed this please let me know! Any and all feedback from you guys is greatly appreciated. I always love connecting with you 🙏🏻 Follow me on IG @ ashnrowan or codependentnshit or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com
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Does this sound like you? Same! In this episode I discuss why we may have slipped into this pattern, what it fuels within us, and what it means for us. 🛑 💔 🛑 Do you like the show? Lets connect! Follow me on IG @ ashnrowan or codependentnshit Or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com
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“The opposite of depression is not happiness, it’s fulfillment”. How man more years are we gonna stay stuck in our miserable jobs we know we hate? Who’s trying to hop on the train of not holding ourselves back for 2020 and discuss why we ever do to begin with! Because it’s human as fuck and okay. But really 👏🏼 LETS STOP THAT SHIT! 🛑 We can’t discover our true purpose(s) and abilities if we don’t TRY THE THINGS! Let’s discuss it. And talk about other shit too. The podcast I mention is “Don’t Keep Your Day Job” by Kathy Heller. Do you like the show? Let’s connect! Follow me on IG @ ashnrowan or codependentnshit Or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com
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The holidays bring up all the feels for me as they do A LOT of people, so I just wanted to talk a bit about that and leaning into where you’re at/reframing our mindsets about it. Also, a bit about “shadow work” and the importance of it. Let’s connect! Follow me on IG @ ashnrowan or codependentnshit or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com 💕✨
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A quick episode about sex. Casual sex. Sex in general. Why women have a harder time not catching feels from sex, and why we need to break the stigmas around female sexuality! 🦁 Do you like the show? Have suggestions for stuff you wanna hear about? Lets connect! I love to hear from you guys. Follow me on IG @ ashnrowan or codependentnshit or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com
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We may need to start being mindful of the people we are around (friends, family, etc.) and the (old) narratives they still carry of us. Do you like the show? Have suggestions of stuff you wanna hear? Let’s connect! Follow me on IG @ ashnrowan or codependentnshit Or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com
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Discussing the concept of “supposed to be” and why I believe it’s a nonexistent concept which sets us up for disappointment/self-shame. Also, going into the power behind having less expectations in general for life/people/circumstances. Let’s connect! I LOVE to hear from you guys. Follow me on IG @ ashnrowan or codependentnshit or shoot me an email @ codependentnshit@gmail.com
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A little discussion on my personal take on antidepressants and the pressure regarding that it’s “not spiritual” to take them. Also I share some of my personal experiences I went through this year when I fell down a “woo woo spiritual rabbit hole” and tried having other people/things heal me lololol. Let’s connect! I love hearing from you guys. Add me on IG @ ashnrowan or codependentnshit or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com
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Quick rant that came through the other day about hardships and what opportunities they present to us. Let’s connect! Follow me on IG @ ashnrowan or codependentnshit or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com
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I decided to do another episode around these topics since it’s my most listened to previous episode. The book I refer to is “Facing Love Addiction” by Pia Melody. Let’s connect! Add me on IG @ ashnrowan or codependentnshit or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com
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Are you constantly trying to fill a void? What does it even mean to “fill a void”? Maybe there’s things we do that we don’t even realize we are doing to distract us or fill a void. Just a discussion on this topic and why I also believe love addiction is a product of this. Follow me on IG @ ashnrowan or codependentnshit Or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com. Let’s connect I’d love to hear from you ❤️
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Brief share of my experience at my first SLAA meeting and just sharing something I wrote afterwards.
If you like or resonate with the show please feel free to reach out! Let’s connect. Follow me on IG @ashnrowan or @codependentnshit or shoot me an email at codependentnshit@gmail.com ❤️
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Quick talk about parenting and the struggles of worrying about continuing the cycles onto our children. Also a bit more on my personal story and what has helped me in my healing journey ❤️ Follow me on IG @ ashnrowan
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Quick run down of what Codependency “is”, what “love addiction” is, and how they are similar. Plus me sharing a bit of my own personal story. Sorry in advance for the word slip ups 🤣 Follow me on IG @ ashnrowan
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Quick start off rant about codependency and why if you’re codependent you may be extra prone to fall into “situationships”.
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