The Zachary Stockill Podcast: Recent Episodes
Zachary Stockill
Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy, Relationship Advice & More. Presented by Author and Coach Zachary Stockill from RetroactiveJealousy.com.
In today’s video, I discuss how to handle the question: Are you in the wrong relationship or is it retroactive jealousy? Read or watch below to learn strategies for dealing with doubts and figuring out if it’s the wrong relationship or retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: When you’re having unwanted, intrusive thoughts about your partner’s past, […]
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In today’s video, I discuss what it means to avoid love to avoid retroactive jealousy—and whether that mindset truly helps you heal Read or watch below to learn strategies for navigating the mindset of trying to avoid love to avoid retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: If you’re a man dealing with retroactive jealousy, and you’ve faced […]
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In today’s video, I discuss how to handle anxiety about a partner’s past behaviours. Read or watch below to learn strategies for dealing with anxiety about partner’s past. Zachary Stockill: If you’re dealing with unwanted, intrusive thoughts about your partner’s past, you’re probably feeling some anxiety around it. If that sounds like you, I’m sharing […]
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In today’s video, I address the question: “Why does she talk about her past?“ Read or watch below to learn “Why does she talk about her past?” and how to respond in a healthy way. Zachary Stockill: If you’re struggling with intrusive thoughts about your partner’s painful past, you’re not alone. Maybe you keep replaying […]
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Zachary Stockill: If you’re someone who struggles with retroactive jealousy—meaning you’re dealing with unwanted, intrusive thoughts about your partner’s past, and it’s affecting your current relationship—I think you’ll really want to watch today’s video. My name is Zachary Stockill, and since 2013, I’ve helped thousands of men and women around the world overcome retroactive jealousy […]
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In today’s video, I share how dating changed after I beat retroactive jealousy and set boundaries Read or watch below to learn how I navigated relationships after I beat retroactive jealousy and the strategies that helped me move forward. Zachary Stockill: In today’s video, I’m doing something I haven’t done much recently on this channel—I’ll […]
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In today’s video, I respond to a viewer who is concerned about “videos of my girlfriend and her ex.” Read or watch below to learn more about how to deal with a situation involving a “girlfriend and her ex,” and retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: As we all know, overcoming retroactive jealousy can be tough—and it […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to go into the story of how Roberta overcame retroactive jealousy and turned her relationship around. Read or watch below to learn more about how a former student in “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast,” Roberta, overcame retroactive jealousy and found peace in her relationship. Zach: I really appreciate you […]
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In today’s video, I respond to a reader who writes “My girlfriend told me her ex was better.” Read or watch below to learn strategies for dealing with retroactive jealousy when your girlfriend tells you her ex was better. Zachary Stockill: A young man reached out to ask an important question about the fear of […]
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In today’s video, I discuss coaching for overcoming retroactive jealousy, and share a remarkable story from a recent client. Read or watch below to learn strategies through coaching for overcoming retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: Maybe you could start by sharing a bit about where you were at emotionally before you decided to invest in coaching. […]
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In today’s video, I discuss whether overcoming retroactive jealousy means being “indifferent to my partner’s past.” Read or watch below to learn whether overcoming retroactive jealousy means being indifferent to my partner’s past and how to set healthy boundaries. Zachary Stockill: I recently received an interesting comment from a viewer of this channel, suggesting that […]
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In today’s video, I respond to a reader who writes “being apart makes retroactive jealousy worse,” and how to handle it in a long-distance relationship. Read or watch below for strategies to handle the challenges of retroactive jealousy in a long-distance relationship. Zachary Stockill: There are many people in long-distance relationships who struggle with retroactive […]
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In today’s video, I share some thoughts on how men can increase attraction in relationships. Read or watch below to learn strategies on how men can increase attraction in relationships. Zachary Stockill: In today’s video, I’ll be talking about one of my favorite topics—tips for men to increase attraction in long-term relationships. I’m Zachary Stockill, […]
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In today’s video, I respond to the question: “Should you accept retroactive jealousy triggers?“ Read or watch below to hear my response to: Should you accept retroactive jealousy triggers? Zachary Stockill: Many people with retroactive jealousy know that a common part of this disorder is encountering triggers—situations or events outside our control that can spark […]
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In today’s video, I discuss how to handle retroactive jealousy flaring up around the topic of long-term commitment. Read or watch below to learn strategies for dealing with retroactive jealousy flaring up when you begin to think about the future. Zachary Stockill: For over 11 years of working on retroactive jealousy, I’ve received the same […]
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In today’s video, I respond to a viewer who writes “What if my wife is comparing me to her ex?” and what to do when these thoughts take over. Read or watch below to learn strategies for dealing with the insecurity of “comparing me to her ex” and how to stop these thoughts from affecting […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the hidden cost of retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn more about the hidden cost of retroactive jealousy and practical steps to overcome its impact on your life. Zachary Stockill: As you know, I’m a YouTuber—obviously, I’m a guy talking on YouTube. I create videos […]
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In today’s video, I speak about how to overcome regrets in life. Watch below to learn about how to overcome regrets in life. Zachary Stockill: If you live long enough, it’s almost certain you’ll accumulate some regrets. But how do you begin letting them go and working through them? That’s what I’ll try to answer […]
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In today’s video, I discuss the connection between retroactive jealousy and religion. Read or watch the video below to explore further. Zachary Stockill: Is there a connection between retroactive jealousy—intrusive thoughts about your partner’s past—and religion? That’s the question I’ll be exploring in today’s video. I’m Zachary Stockill, and since 2013, I’ve helped thousands of […]
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In today’s video, I discuss whether retroactive jealousy is a “real thing,” and address common misconceptions about it. Read or watch below to hear my response to the question: “Is retroactive jealousy a real thing?” Zachary Stockill: Whenever you post something online—especially on platforms like YouTube or podcasts—you’re bound to attract trolls and haters. As […]
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In today’s video, I respond to a viewer question asking whether is marriage necessary in our modern world. Read or watch below to learn more about the question “Is marriage necessary?” and what it means for relationships today. Zachary Stockill: I recently received an interesting, thought-provoking comment on YouTube that I wanted to explore further […]
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In today’s video, I discuss the issues that come with putting your partner on a pedestal and how it can affect your relationship. Read or watch below to learn more about why putting your partner on a pedestal is not a healthy way to view your relationship. Zachary Stockill: Over the years, I’ve noticed that […]
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In today’s video, I discuss how your beliefs and retroactive jealousy are connected and what you can do to address them. Read or watch below to learn more about how your beliefs and retroactive jealousy may be affecting your relationship. Zachary Stockill: Recently, a viewer of my channel asked me an interesting philosophical question that […]
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In today’s video, I discuss how to escape the red pill and why it’s important to find balance in your perspective on relationships Read or watch below to learn more about how to escape the red pill. Zachary Stockill: Recently on my TikTok account, I got an interesting question from one of my viewers: “How […]
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In today’s video, I discuss concerns about your partner’s past and how to manage these feelings for a healthier relationship. Read or watch below to learn more about concerns about your partner’s past and how to overcome them. Zachary Stockill: Does this sound familiar? You meet someone interesting, go on a few dates, and as […]
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In today’s video, I address a viewer question: “I do not want details about her past… Is this still considered retroactive jealousy?” Read or watch below to learn more about handling feeling like you do not want details about her past, and how to manage retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: If you’ve been following me for […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about dead bedrooms and retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to discover how dead bedrooms and retroactive jealousy can impact relationships and discover tips to overcome these challenges. Zachary Stockill: Here’s a comment I regularly receive from viewers of my channel and readers of my blog: “Zach, I’m […]
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In today’s video, I discuss how to avoid a common retroactive jealousy blunder. Read or watch below to learn more about how to avoid this common retroactive jealousy blunder . Zachary Stockill: If you’re struggling with retroactive jealousy, it’s likely you’re making some important mistakes. In today’s free video, I’ll share four tips to help […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share my strangest retroactive jealousy advice. Read or watch below to learn more about my strangest retroactive jealousy advice… Zachary Stockill: One of the reasons I’ve been working on the topic of retroactive jealousy for over a decade is that the subject never ceases to surprise me. The people […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about one vicious cycle of retroactive jealousy and how it can impact relationships. Read or watch below to learn more about the vicious cycle of retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: One common mistake many people with retroactive jealousy make is asking their partner a lot of questions about their […]
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In today’s video, I discuss how to handle retroactive jealousy with an oversharing partner. Read or watch below to learn strategies for dealing with retroactive jealousy with an oversharing partner. Zachary Stockill: As you know, if you’ve been watching my channel for a while, many retroactive jealousy sufferers ask their partners many, many, many questions […]
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In today’s video, I discuss breaking up because of your partner’s past Read or watch below if you’re considering breaking up because of your partner’s past. Zachary Stockill: If you are struggling with intrusive thoughts about your partner’s past or have questions about their values based on past decisions, it’s likely you’ve wondered if it’s […]
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In today’s article, I respond to a reader question: “Should I know my girlfriend’s ‘number’?” “Should I know my girlfriend’s number?” This is a common concern for many men in relationships, and it’s important to approach it thoughtfully. Zachary Stockill: In today’s video, we are delving into a very spicy topic and entering controversial waters. […]
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In today’s video, I speak about the ‘Red Pill’ making men bitter,’ and how it is affecting their relationships and outlook on dating. Read or watch below to learn more about the Red Pill making men bitter. Zachary Stockill: These days, many videos on YouTube and social media describe the pitfalls of modern women. In […]
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In today’s video, I discuss essential advice for beating retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn more about some essential advice for beating retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: Occasionally, I find it helpful to remind my audience of the basics regarding how to overcome retroactive jealousy, or at least how to begin the process. This […]
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In today’s video, I want to discuss one of the main mistakes guys make when vetting for a long-term relationship. Read or watch below to learn more about one mistake to avoid when vetting for a long-term relationship. Zachary Stockill: If you’re new here, to my work, or my channel, you might not be familiar […]
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In today’s video, I want to talk about the biggest mistake I made when I struggled with retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn more about the biggest mistake with retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: People who suffer from retroactive jealousy often make many critical mistakes while trying to come to terms with their partner’s […]
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In today’s video, I will discuss retroactive jealousy and explore questions about values in relationships. Read or watch below to learn about retroactive jealousy and questions about values. Zachary Stockill: Retroactive jealousy often forces us to confront some of our deeply held beliefs about sex, dating, and relationships. In today’s video, I will present some […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how to cope when your partner’s past intrudes on daily life. Read or watch below to learn more about how to conquer retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: Today, I will try to keep this message relatively short and snappy. I have an important message for anyone struggling with […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about what I see as the biggest dating secret for men. Read or watch below to discover the biggest dating secret for men. Zachary Stockill: I believe there’s an essential secret that every man dating in the 21st century should know to enhance his dating life and interactions […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about what it’s like getting back with an ex and dealing with retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn more about getting back with an ex. Zachary Stockill: If you’ve chosen to watch this video because you’re dealing with retroactive jealousy, it’s likely that the aspects of […]
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In today’s video, we delve into a compelling narrative of how one man overcame retroactive jealousy, revealing his transformative journey. Read or watch below to gain insight into how one man overcame retroactive jealous, and understand the pivotal steps he took toward personal healing and relationship renewal. Zachary Stockill: First off, Tom, thank you for […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about “What are good problems?,” a concept that can transform the way we perceive challenges in our lives. Read or watch below to learn more about how identifying and appreciating ‘good problems’ can lead to a more positive and grateful mindset, even during tough times. Zachary Stockill: Over […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share insights on overcoming lifelong retroactive jealousy from a RJ survivor. Read or watch below to discover Simon’s strategies for conquering lifelong retroactive jealousy and achieving lasting peace. Zachary Stockill: Just about an hour ago, I received a video from a retroactive jealousy survivor in my flagship online course, […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to tell you how to discover your girlfriend’s values and start understanding her on a deeper level. Read or watch below to learn about how to discover your girlfriend’s values. Zachary Stockill: Many people who feel jealous about their partner’s past relationships find it hard to determine if they have […]
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Today, I want to speak to men who are having issues with both limiting beliefs and retroactive jealousy. Today, I will address an audience that suffers from limiting beliefs and retroactive jealousy and explore ways to resolve both. Zachary Stockill: If you’re struggling with retroactive jealousy, chances are very good that you’re also struggling with […]
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Recently, I appeared on The Vitor Vicente Interview for a wide-ranging conversation on retroactive jealousy, relationships, men’s issues, The Red Pill, and much more. You can watch the interview below: Hope you enjoy. Click here to join thousands of other retroactive jealousy success cases, and learn more about my flagship online course, “Get Over Your […]
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In today’s video, I tackle the issue of ‘when overcoming retroactive jealousy is impossible’ and offer a fresh perspective on it. Read or watch below to learn more about this topic – when overcoming retroactive jealousy is impossible. Zachary Stockill: If you’ve been following my channel for some time, you’ve probably heard me mention more […]
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In today’s video, I’ll talk about retroactive jealousy and relationship damage. Read on or watch below to learn more about retroactive jealousy and relationship damage–and how to start repairing it. Zachary Stockill: If you are struggling with this very strange disorder that we call retroactive jealousy, unfortunately, chances are good you’re doing a lot of […]
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In today’s video, I speak about retroactive jealousy at work, and maintaining productivity and focus on your professional responsibilities. Read or watch below to learn more about dealing with retroactive jealousy at work. Zachary Stockill: If you’re a retroactive jealousy sufferer, unfortunately, unwanted intrusive thoughts about your partner’s past can attack at any time, sometimes […]
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In today’s video, I want to talk about how to beat intrusive thoughts. Read or watch below to learn more about how to beat intrusive thoughts. Zachary Stockill: For over ten years now, I’ve been helping men and women from all over the world overcome unwanted intrusive thoughts, usually about their partner’s past relationships and/or […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about relationship trade-offs. Read or watch below to learn more about relationship trade-offs. Zachary Stockill: As you have probably discovered, the best relationship advice often comes from unlikely sources. Despite my initial surprise, I discovered that some of the best relationship advice I’ve ever encountered came from an […]
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In today’s video, I’ll talk about my personal experience with retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn more about my personal experience with retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: When struggling with retroactive jealousy, it’s too easy to feel hopeless and alone. One thing I’ve noticed over the years is that many of you appreciate when […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to discuss the danger of the Red Pill online men’s movement. Read or watch below to learn about the danger of The Red Pill. Zachary Stockill: I receive a lot of comments from men who are at risk of becoming what I call a “red pill ideologue.” Today, I’m going […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how to conquer retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn more about how to conquer retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: What can a schoolyard bully teach us about overcoming painful, unwanted, intrusive thoughts about our partner’s past? In today’s video, I will explain what a schoolyard bully […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how to stay present when you’re struggling with retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn more about how to stay present with retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: I’ve been working on the issue of retroactive jealousy since 2013. And one of the things I’ve noticed is that […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about “anti-role models,” a subject often overlooked in discussions in personal development. Read or watch below to learn more about a unique anti-role models exercise. Zachary Stockill: You’ve probably heard of “role models” before. A role model is someone you look up to, someone you feel some connection […]
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In today’s video, I share my view on how to break the deadly retroactive jealousy cycle. Read or watch below to learn how to break the retroactive jealousy cycle. Zachary Stockill: What do retroactive jealousy sufferers and drug addicts have in common? The answer might surprise you, and that’s exactly what I will go into […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to offer the best piece of dating advice that I have encountered. Read or watch below to discover the best dating advice. Zachary Stockill: You may look at the title of this article and think it’s absolute clickbait, but it’s not. I assure you: in today’s video, I’m going to […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to tell you how to stop seeking reassurance and start building confidence in yourself and your relationships. Read or watch below to learn about how to stop seeking reassurance. Zachary Stockill: A frequent behavior among those suffering from retroactive jealousy is something I term ‘reassurance seeking.’ Reassurance seeking involves approaching […]
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Today, I will address guys who tell me ‘My girlfriend’s past bothers me’ and explore ways to process these concerns. Read or watch below if you have ever felt like ‘My girlfriend’s past bothers me…’ Zachary Stockill: Just about each and every day, I receive some variation of the question: “Zach, my girlfriend’s past bothers me. […]
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In today’s video, I share some crucial tips on how to improve your self-talk. Read or watch below to learn more about how to improve your self-talk. Zachary Stockill: “Self-talk” is a trendy topic nowadays. Self-talk can be defined as the things we tell ourselves about ourselves repeatedly. Our self-talk is usually subconscious. We often […]
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In today’s video, I discuss the touchy topic of a ‘wife’s number of sexual partners,’ and a new way to think about it. Read or watch below to learn more about this sensitive topic – a wife’s number of sexual partners… Zachary Stockill: I get a lot of emails and comments from men on my […]
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In today’s video, I’ll share a story of how Eric overcame retroactive jealousy. Read on or watch below to learn more about the story of Eric, a student who overcame retroactive jealousy with the help of my online course, “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast.” Zachary Stockill: So Eric, to start off with, could you […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to attempt to answer a viewer question: “How do I stop comparing myself to my boyfriend’s ex?” Read or watch below to hear my response to the question, “How do I stop comparing myself to my boyfriend’s ex?” Zachary Stockill: I was doing an Instagram Q&A recently. And I received a […]
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In today’s video, I want to talk about how to build trust in a relationship. I’ll share my perspective on this important topic and offer some suggestions based on my own experience. Read or watch below to learn more about how to build trust in a relationship. Zachary Stockill: I am a person who speaks publicly […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share a crucial question that I think every retroactive jealousy sufferer should ask themselves. Read or watch below to learn more about putting together your vision for the future. Zachary Stockill: When you’re struggling with retroactive jealousy, it’s all too easy to get completely consumed by the past. This is […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to tell you why it’s a great time for men in the West to be dating. Read or watch below to hear my response to a common question: “Is dating for Western men getting worse?” Zachary Stockill: Over 10 years of coaching, I’ve worked with a lot of men of various […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share a technique that’s going to help you power through difficult moments with retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn more about how to deal with difficult moments with retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: If you clicked to watch this video today, chances are good you’re struggling with retroactive […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share a little retroactive jealousy tip that you’ve almost certainly never considered before. Read or watch below to discover a new retroactive jealousy tip. Zachary Stockill: At this point, after 10 years of working on the topic of retroactive jealousy, every time I think that I’ve covered it all […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about living true to your dating standards without anger and bitterness. Read or watch below to learn more about living true to your standards and having a good time along the way. Zachary Stockill: Over ten years of dating and relationship coaching have taught me something interesting… My […]
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In today’s video, I talk about how to prevent a retroactive jealousy relapse at any point in the future. Read or watch below to learn more about how to prevent a retroactive jealousy relapse. Zachary Stockill: On this channel and elsewhere, I’m often asked about retroactive jealousy relapses. As I have been working on this issue […]
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In today’s video, I offer my thoughts on the notion of “alpha widows” as it relates to “The Red Pill,” and retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to hear my thoughts on so-called “alpha widows.” Zachary Stockill: If you have any familiarity with the “red pill” section of the internet, otherwise known as the “manosphere,” you’ve […]
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In today’s video, I respond to a viewer who wonders what to do about an imbalance of experience in his relationship. Read or watch below to hear my response to the question of “I’m not her first… and she’s mine.” Zachary Stockill: What do you do if you’re struggling with painful, unwanted, intrusive thoughts about your […]
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In today’s video, I offer my opinion on exposing yourself to retroactive jealousy triggers. Read or watch below to hear my answer to the question, “Should I be exposing myself to retroactive jealousy triggers?” Zachary Stockill: When you are struggling with retroactive jealousy, is it a good idea to be exposing yourself to retroactive jealousy triggers? […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to tell you how mindfulness for 5 minutes a day will help you start beating retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn about mindfulness for retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: In today’s video, I’m going to tell you how just five minutes a day can start helping you beat retroactive jealousy. […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about why it’s so important to “not make your woman your world.” Don’t make your woman your world… here’s what I mean: Zachary Stockill: If you’ve been watching my channel for a while, if you’ve read one of my books or anything like that, chances are you may have […]
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Today, I will talk about what beating retroactive jealousy feels like and what keeps me motivated after 10 years of being a retroactive jealousy coach. Read or watch below to learn more about what beating retroactive jealousy feels like. Zachary Stockill: This year marks 10 years into my career as a full-time coach devoted to the […]
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In today’s video, I share my thoughts on what I look for in a therapist or a coach. Read or watch below to learn more about what I look for in a therapist. Zachary Stockill: I have been a full-time coach working on the issue of relationships and jealousy for about 10 years now. It probably […]
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In today’s video, I talk about the secret of meditation, and discuss the misconceptions many people have about this ancient mindfulness practice. Read or watch below to learn about the secret of meditation. Zachary Stockill: I often speak about the incredible benefits of meditation. Meditation, breathwork, or any kind of mindfulness are practices that help strengthen […]
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In today’s video, I share a technique for dealing with unwanted retroactive jealousy thoughts. Read or watch below to learn more about overcoming unwanted retroactive jealousy thoughts. Zachary Stockill: If you’re struggling with a problem like retroactive jealousy, chances are you’re struggling with unwanted intrusive thoughts. There are thoughts that sometimes pop up out of nowhere […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about one of those skills that will improve every area of your life: emotional control. Read or watch below to discover how to achieve emotional control. Zachary Stockill: In today’s video, I’m going to talk about one of the skills that will improve just about every area of your […]
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In today’s video, I respond to someone who wants to know how to change deeply held beliefs around sex. Read or watch below to learn how to change beliefs about sex. Zachary Stockill: Everyone has a certain framework that they rely on to go through life and make sense of the world. And every once in […]
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In today’s video, I want to respond to a viewer’s question related to retroactive jealousy triggers: “Do I have to accept that certain things will always trigger me?” Read or watch below to hear my response to the question, “Will retroactive jealousy triggers go away?” Zachary Stockill: I get a lot of questions about triggers from […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to answer the question: “Is the exposure technique applicable when it comes to retroactive jealousy?” Read or watch below to learn more about my thoughts about a common retroactive jealousy exposure technique. Zachary Stockill: If you are currently struggling with any kind of symptoms relating to anxiety, or retroactive jealousy, and […]
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In today’s video, I share three more questions every retroactive jealousy sufferer should ask themselves. Read or watch below to discover more questions for retroactive jealousy sufferers. Zachary Stockill: Some of you may be surprised to know that I really believe that most retroactive jealousy sufferers have many of the answers to the questions they need […]
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In today’s video, I provide my thoughts on marriage. Read or watch below to learn more about my response to the Google search “Zachary Stockill wife”. Zachary Stockill: So I need to start today’s video with a bit of an embarrassing confession. The other day, I was Googling my own name, because curiosity got the best […]
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In today’s video, I want to talk about one of the simplest and easiest ways to maintain the spark in a long-term relationship. Read or watch below to learn more about how to make sexual attraction last. Zachary Stockill: If you look around YouTube, if you look around Google, there are a million different answers to […]
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In today’s video, I talk about what I’ve learned over the past 10 years of working on retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn more about my experience as a full-time coach working on retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: It’s hard to believe, but this month marks 10 years since I published my first book, […]
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In today’s video, I want to explore the relationship between the concept of “projection” and retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn more about retroactive jealousy and projecting. Zachary Stockill: If you have been in a relationship for any amount of time, odds are good that at least once or twice,you’ve been guilty of projecting […]
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Today, I’m going to talk about how to care less about what other people think, and become more selective about whose opinion you value. Read or watch below to discover how to care less about what other people think. Zachary Stockill: This year marks 10 years since I started working one on one with retroactive jealousy […]
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In today’s video, I will explain why trying to suppress intrusive thoughts is the wrong approach. I’ll also give you some ideas for what to try instead. Read or watch below to learn more about dealing with intrusive thoughts. Zachary Stockill: When you are struggling with unwanted painful, intrusive thoughts, it’s tempting to try to suppress […]
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In today’s video, I want to share five reasons why retroactive jealousy is no longer an issue in my life. Read or watch below to hear why I no longer struggle with retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: I don’t often talk about my personal life on this channel. But it seems to me that many of you […]
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In today’s video, I want to explore the potential connection between nutrition, diet, and retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn more about retroactive jealousy and your diet. Zachary Stockill: In a recent video on this channel, I spoke about the potential connections between alcohol and retroactive jealousy. In today’s video, I want to explore […]
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In today’s video, I talk about one of the “secret” causes of retroactive jealousy that I don’t hear a lot of people talking about. Read or watch below to learn more about a secret cause of retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: One of the most common questions I receive from people who find my YouTube channel and […]
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In today’s video, I want to talk about two things that are often related: alcohol and retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn more about the possible connection between alcohol and retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: Whenever we’re facing a problem in life, in particular a recurring problem, it’s important to take a look at all […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share my top 5 “distractions” from retroactive jealousy and how they can be valuable. Read or watch below to learn more about retroactive jealousy distractions. Zachary Stockill: Needless to say, when life gets difficult, we could all use a little bit of a distraction sometimes. And certainly, when you’re struggling […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to give you 5 tips to ensure that you’re going to struggle with retroactive jealousy forever. Read or watch below to discover how to keep struggling with retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: On this channel, I give you all kinds of exercises and perspectives and practices to overcome retroactive jealousy as […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share 6 tips on moving on from the feeling “I wish my girlfriend’s past was different.” Read or watch below to learn more about healing from feeling “I wish my girlfriend’s past was different.” Zachary Stockill: At one time or another, most retroactive jealousy sufferers have the feeling that they […]
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In today’s video, I respond to a viewer question: “Why do women have more success on dating apps than men?” Read or watch below to hear my response to the question “Why do women have more dating options than men?” Zachary Stockill: I received an interesting email lately from a viewer of this channel asking me […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to go into detail about retroactive jealousy and the “Best Friend Technique.” Read or watch below to learn more about the “Best Friend Technique.” Zachary Stockill: If you are struggling with retroactive jealousy, there’s a high likelihood that your “best friend” can help you out. In today’s video, I’m going to […]
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Join thousands of retroactive jealousy survivors from around the world, and start getting clarity and peace of mind about your partner’s past right now. Read or watch below to learn more about thinking of yourself as a “victim of retroactive jealousy,” and how it’s stopping you from getting clarity and peace of mind. Zachary Stockill: […]
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In today’s video, I address an interesting question I received recently: “How can I convince myself that women can be sexual?” Read or watch below to know more about how to stop sexually shaming women. Zachary Stockill: It’s no secret that a lot of men struggle with the idea of female sexuality for a lot of […]
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In today’s video, I share the top 5 mistakes that I see retroactive jealousy sufferers making all the time, based on a decade of work in this field. Read or watch below to learn more about the most common retroactive jealousy mistakes. Zachary Stockill: If you have been struggling with retroactive jealousy for any period of […]
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In today’s video, I’ll try to answer the question: when does self-improvement become self-indulgence? Read or watch below to learn more about the truth about self-help. Zachary Stockill: If you’re watching this video right now, chances are pretty good that you have at least some interest in personal development. But when does self-improvement become self-indulgent? […]
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In today’s video, I want to talk about what I believe to be the least useful human emotion (and what you can do to transcend it). Read on or watch below to learn more about retroactive jealousy and self-pity. Zachary Stockill: In today’s video, I want to talk about what I believe to be the […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share five reasons why jealous behavior doesn’t work. Read or watch below to learn about the top-5 reasons why jealous behavior doesn’t work. Zachary Stockill: If you’re struggling with any kind of irrational jealousy in your relationship or in your dating life, this can involve things like obsessive jealousy, […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about possibly the number one factor that holds many retroactive jealousy sufferers back. Read or watch below to discover a new perspective on the meaning of your partner’s past. Zachary Stockill: As you may or may not know, I’ve been working on this issue of overcoming retroactive jealousy for […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share a possible “secret” for how to stay together in a long-term relationship. Read or watch below to learn the secret of staying together. Zachary Stockill: There are a lot of videos on the internet with people talking about the secret of staying together, how to make love last, how […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the #1 key to long-term health and happiness, according to the world’s longest research study on human flourishing. Read or watch below to learn about the key to long-term happiness. Zachary Stockill: Scientists and researchers have recently discovered the number one key to human health and long-term […]
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In today’s video, I respond to a reader who tells me “I found out about my wife’s past by accident.” Read or watch below if you can relate to this reader, who “found out about my wife’s past by accident.” Zachary Stockill: One of the common components of retroactive jealousy is wanting to go snooping for […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about a thought experiment you can try if you feel like your girlfriend’s past relationships are “killing” you. Read or watch below if you’ve ever said the words “My girlfriend’s past is killing me!” Zachary Stockill: As you probably know, I get endless emails from retroactive jealousy sufferers from […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about a term that could be applicable to some people who struggle with their partner’s past– retroactive envy. Read or watch below to learn more about retroactive envy. Zachary Stockill: I speak a great deal about something called retroactive jealousy. Which basically refers to unwanted intrusive thoughts, and often […]
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In today’s video, I want to cover a very common cognitive distortion: personalization. Read or watch below to learn more about personalization. Zachary Stockill: In today’s video, I want to cover a very common cognitive distortion, which is personalization. So what is personalization? The simplistic answer is continually taking things way, way, way too personally. […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share my #1 question that I believe every retroactive jealousy sufferer needs to ask themselves. Read or watch below to learn more about my #1 question to retroactive jealousy sufferers. Zachary Stockill: I’m speaking to you today in the first month of the new year. And I think the first […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to cover the cognitive distortion of “labeling.” Read or watch below to learn more about labeling. Zachary Stockill: Hello and welcome back to my ongoing series on retroactive jealousy and cognitive distortions. In today’s video, we’re going to cover a classic, and that is the cognitive distortion of labeling. So what […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about something we are all guilty of: the cognitive distortion of “magnification.” Read or watch below to learn more about “magnification.” Zachary Stockill: Welcome back to my ongoing series on retroactive jealousy and cognitive distortions. Very briefly, before we get into it: the term retroactive jealousy refers to unwanted […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the cognitive distortion of “emotional reasoning,” a common pitfall of retroactive jealousy sufferers. Read or watch below to learn more about emotional reasoning. Zachary Stockill: Hello and welcome back to my ongoing series on retroactive jealousy and cognitive distortions. In today’s video, we’re going to talk about one […]
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Today, we’re covering the cognitive distortion of “should” statements, particularly prevalent among retroactive jealousy sufferers. Read or watch below to understand “should” statements. Zachary Stockill: Welcome back to my ongoing series on retroactive jealousy and cognitive distortions. In today’s video, we’re covering the cognitive distortion of “should” statements. A quick note for the people who are […]
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Recently, I appeared on The Jealousy Junkie Podcast for a guest interview on retroactive jealousy. You can watch the interview below: In the interview for The Jealousy Junkie Podcast, I discussed my personal history with retroactive jealousy, my work, and how to start overcoming intrusive thoughts about your partner’s past, and more. I hope you […]
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One of the best parts of my job is waking up to retroactive jealousy success stories in my email inbox. Recently, I received a moving and inspiring new RJ success story from a former student of mine named Josie. Josie’s story is the subject of today’s blog post. Josie struggled with painful, relentless intrusive thoughts […]
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My primary message: stop living like you have more time, because unfortunately, you may not. Read or watch below to learn more about my message for the new year… Zachary Stockill: There’s a reason why I’m recording this video right now on my phone instead of my fancy camera and without the intro and without […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about something that I’m sure many retroactive jealousy sufferers can relate to: “discounting the positive.” Read or watch below to learn more about the cognitive distortion of discounting the positive. Zachary Stockill: Welcome back to my ongoing series about retroactive jealousy and cognitive distortions. In today’s video, I’m going […]
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In today’s video, I share a conversation with Johnny, a recent graduate of my “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast” online course. Read or watch below to learn how Johnny beat retroactive jealousy. Zachary: First off, once again, Johnny, thanks a lot for making time for me today. Johnny: You’re very welcome. Thank you. I […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about something that is common among many, if not most retroactive jealousy sufferers, and that is jumping to conclusions. Read or watch below to learn more about jumping to conclusions and its role in retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: Hello and welcome back to my ongoing series on retroactive […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about a cognitive distortion called mental filtering. Read or watch below to learn more about the cognitive distortion of mental filtering. Zachary Stockill: Welcome back to my ongoing series about retroactive jealousy and cognitive distortions. In today’s video, I’m going to talk about something called mental filtering. Okay, if […]
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In today’s video, we’re going to cover a very common cognitive distortion called overgeneralization. Read or watch below to learn more about overgeneralization. Zachary Stockill: Welcome to part two of my new series on retroactive jealousy and cognitive distortions. Today we’re going to cover a very, very common cognitive distortion called overgeneralization. Just to remind you, […]
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In today’s video, I introduce a concept from Cognitive Behavior Therapy called “cognitive distortions,” which will be useful for anyone struggling with retroactive jealousy. I will also cover what is referred to as “all or nothing” thinking. Read or watch below to learn more about retroactive jealousy and cognitive distortions. Zachary Stockill: The older I get, […]
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In today’s video, I want to address a viewer’s question about “keeping things casual,” and beating retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to learn more about whether you should avoid relationships because of retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: So, as you may or may not know, I’ve been putting out content on the topic of retroactive jealousy […]
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In today’s video, I share a conversation with Jacob, a retroactive jealousy sufferer and recent graduate of my online course, “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast.” Read or watch below to hear Jacob’s remarkable story of beating retroactive jealousy. Zachary: Once again, Jacob, thank you so much for doing this. I really appreciate it. So, […]
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Today, I respond to a viewer question: “What should one look at within themselves if one tends to attract a very needy girlfriend?” Read or watch below to learn more about what attracts a very needy girlfriend/boyfriend. Zachary Stockill: I’ll keep the preamble brief. In today’s video, I’m going to talk about what you should look […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to answer a viewer question: “My girlfriend’s past is a dealbreaker. Should I try to work through this, or leave?” Read or watch below to hear my response to a viewer who tells me “my girlfriend’s past is a dealbreaker.” Zachary Stockill: I received an interesting and thought-provoking comment on […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share a quick method to know whether you’re truly trusting your partner or not. Read or watch below to discover more about what trusting your partner truly means. Zachary Stockill: If I were to ask most of the people watching this video whether they truly trust their partner, my guess […]
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In today’s video, I talk about one of the most important and impactful books that helped me overcome retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below how the book Man’s Search for Meaning can help you beat retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: Back when I was struggling with retroactive jealousy, it probably won’t surprise you to know that I […]
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In today’s video, I share my number one tip for any man who is interested in “vetting” for a potential girlfriend or wife. Read or watch below to learn more about how to vet a potential girlfriend. Zachary Stockill: So you’ve met some incredible woman who you can’t seem to get enough of. She laughs at […]
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In today’s video, I talk about four crucial steps for how to feel more confident in your relationship. Read or watch below to learn more about how to feel more confident in your relationship. Zachary Stockill: If you follow me on Instagram, you’re probably aware that periodically I will do Instagram Live Q&A’s. Occasionally, I get […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to offer a few thoughts for men troubled by the fact that their girlfriend or wife used to be promiscuous. Read or watch below to discover my response to the question “My Girlfriend Was Promiscuous in Her Past… Should I Be Concerned?” Zachary Stockill: For almost 10 years of one on […]
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Today, I’m sharing an inspiring conversation with Matt, as well as his story of overcoming retroactive jealousy, a former student from my online course, “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast.” Read or watch, below to learn more about Matt’s story of overcoming retroactive jealousy. Zachary: Thank you so much for doing this. I really appreciate […]
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In today’s video, I respond to a common question: “What can you do when you’re single to prevent a retroactive jealousy relapse in your next relationship?” Read or watch below to learn more on how to prevent a retroactive jealousy relapse. Zachary Stockill: I was recently hanging out on Instagram doing a Q&A with my followers. […]
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In today’s video, I respond to a viewer of my YouTube channel who’s worried because his girlfriend has a “past,” and he doesn’t. Read on or watch below to discover what to do if your girlfriend has a past, but you don’t. Zachary Stockill: The term retroactive jealousy refers to unwanted intrusive thoughts and obsessive curiosity […]
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Today, I’m going to address a question I occasionally get from male retroactive jealousy sufferers: “My girlfriend’s past turns me on. Am I weird? What does it mean?” Read or watch below to discover why some men may feel “my girlfriend’s past turns me on.” Zachary Stockill: In today’s video, I’m going to address a common […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about having the right perspective on risk-management in dating and relationships. Read or watch below to learn more about risk-management in relationships. Zachary Stockill: Risk-management in relationships… This is something I’ve been interested in for a long time. This is something that I’ve created a lot of content about. […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the number one mental fallacy when it comes to retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to discover the number one retroactive jealousy fallacy. Zachary Stockill: There are so many dangerous mental fallacies that you can buy into when you’re struggling with retroactive jealousy. It can cause you to […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share my definition of self-care, what I do to take care of myself, and why it’s essential for everyone. Read or watch below to learn more about what is self-care. Zachary Stockill: If you’re at all interested in things like health and wellness and personal development, chances are very good […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share the worst advice for retroactive jealousy sufferers that I’ve ever heard. Read or watch below to discover the worst advice for retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: Advice about retroactive jealousy is often suspect simply because public knowledge of retroactive jealousy is so lacking. Academic knowledge of retroactive jealousy is also […]
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In today’s video, I wanted to offer some in-depth advice for husbands who are angry about their wife’s past. Read or watch below if your wife’s past makes you angry, and you can’t let go. Zachary Stockill: I get a lot of emails and requests for content from people who are angry about their wife’s past. […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about discovering values and defining your boundaries in dating and relationships. Read or watch below to hear my thoughts on boundaries and values in dating. Zachary Stockill: On this channel and my blog, I talk a lot about boundaries, red flags, and values in relationships and dating. What are […]
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In today’s video, I will talk about how to start healing from retroactive jealousy and start letting go of your partner’s past. Read or watch below to learn and start healing from retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: If you are struggling with constant unwanted intrusive thoughts about your partner’s past relationships and/or sexual history, chances are good […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how to get just about anything you want. Read or watch below to discover how to get anything you want. Zachary Stockill: In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how to get just about anything you want. And I mean, in terms of your relationships, your business, your […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the most effective way to let go of your partner’s past. Read or watch below to discover how to let go of your partner’s past. Zachary Stockill: Today’s video will probably end up being one of the most important free videos that I’ve ever recorded for this channel. […]
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In today’s video, I want to talk about the number one mistake I see jealous men making in dating and relationships. Read or watch the video below to discover the number one mistake made by jealous men. Zachary Stockill: In today’s video, I want to talk about the number one mistake that I see jealous men […]
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In today’s video, I share an important perspective that any man should consider if he feels like “My wife’s past is killing me.” Read or watch below if you feel like “my wife’s past is killing me”. Zachary Stockill: As I record this video, I have been on hundreds of coaching calls with married men struggling […]
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In today’s video, I share an important perspective that any man should consider if he feels like “My wife’s past is killing me.” Read or watch below if you feel like “my wife’s past is killing me”. Zachary Stockill: As I record this video, I have been on hundreds of coaching calls with married men struggling […]
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In today’s video, I want to talk about an extremely dangerous mental trap of neediness that I see a lot of jealousy sufferers falling into. Read or watch below to discover what is neediness (and why it’s so harmful). Zachary Stockill: Hello and welcome to my dad’s backyard here in beautiful northern Ontario, Canada. And in […]
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In today’s video, I want to talk about an extremely dangerous mental trap of neediness that I see a lot of jealousy sufferers falling into. Read or watch below to discover what is neediness (and why it’s so harmful). Zachary Stockill: Hello and welcome to my dad’s backyard here in beautiful northern Ontario, Canada. And in […]
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In today’s video, I want to talk about the least discussed (and possibly the most important) element involved in overcoming retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to discover how to beat retroactive jealousy faster. Zachary Stockill: If you’re watching this video, chances are ] pretty good that you realize that overcoming retroactive jealousy is not easy. […]
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In today’s video, I want to talk about the least discussed (and possibly the most important) element involved in overcoming retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to discover how to beat retroactive jealousy faster. Zachary Stockill: If you’re watching this video, chances are ] pretty good that you realize that overcoming retroactive jealousy is not easy. […]
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Today I’m so excited to announce my all-new video masterclass for beating retroactive jealousy, “The Path to Peace.” “The Path to Peace” is for anyone struggling with the question of whether or not their retroactive jealousy is mostly irrational or rational. In other words, this course is for retroactive jealousy sufferers who have questions, often […]
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Today I’m so excited to announce my all-new video masterclass for beating retroactive jealousy, “The Path to Peace.” “The Path to Peace” is for anyone struggling with the question of whether or not their retroactive jealousy is mostly irrational or rational. In other words, this course is for retroactive jealousy sufferers who have questions, often […]
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In today’s video, I share an extremely important message for young men. Read or watch below to start taking ownership of your life. Zachary Stockill: I get a lot of requests from young men for advice; guys talking about their relationship life, sometimes their careers, and asking me for advice. This has been happening for many, […]
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In today’s video, I share an extremely important message for young men. Read or watch below to start taking ownership of your life. Zachary Stockill: I get a lot of requests from young men for advice; guys talking about their relationship life, sometimes their careers, and asking me for advice. This has been happening for many, […]
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In today’s video, I share eight ways to know if the woman you’re dating could be “girlfriend material.” Watch or read below to know if she could be girlfriend material. Zachary Stockill: I have a lot of young guys who watch the content on my channel, listen to my podcast, and watch my videos. And […]
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In today’s video, I share eight ways to know if the woman you’re dating could be “girlfriend material.” Watch or read below to know if she could be girlfriend material. Zachary Stockill: I have a lot of young guys who watch the content on my channel, listen to my podcast, and watch my videos. And […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share a powerful exercise that will teach you how to stop wasting time today. Watch or read below to discover how to stop wasting time in life. Zachary Stockill: So I have done the research, I’ve done the surveys, and I feel like I have a pretty good grasp on […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share a powerful exercise that will teach you how to stop wasting time today. Watch or read below to discover how to stop wasting time in life. Zachary Stockill: So I have done the research, I’ve done the surveys, and I feel like I have a pretty good grasp on […]
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How do you respond to setbacks when you’re overcoming retroactive jealousy? That’s exactly what I want to talk about in today’s video. Read or watch below to discover how to overcome retroactive jealousy setbacks. Zachary Stockill: When you are progressing toward any goal in life, chances are very good that there will be some setbacks. […]
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How do you respond to setbacks when you’re overcoming retroactive jealousy? That’s exactly what I want to talk about in today’s video. Read or watch below to discover how to overcome retroactive jealousy setbacks. Zachary Stockill: When you are progressing toward any goal in life, chances are very good that there will be some setbacks. […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about non-negotiables in relationships. One of the main reasons behind so many breakups and divorces is one or both parties compromising on their non-negotiables in relationships. More below… Zachary Stockill: One of the great benefits of my profession as a coach is getting to learn from the self-admitted […]
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In today’s Q & A video, I’m going to talk about how to deal with conflicting boundaries in a relationship. Read or watch below to know the uncensored truth about dealing with conflicting boundaries in a relationship. Zachary Stockill: I often talk about how important it is to have boundaries and standards in your dating […]
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In this video, I’m going to share three ways you can stop thinking about your partner’s past. Read or watch below to discover three ways you can stop thinking about your partner’s past. Zachary Stockill: I’m going to keep it very short, very focused, and very clear. Today I’m going to share three ways you […]
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Nothing makes my day more than hearing another retroactive jealousy course review from one of my students. In today’s video, I spoke with a former student named Landon, and talked about how he got over retroactive jealousy with my flagship online course, “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast.” Read or listen to Landon’s retroactive jealousy […]
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In this video, I will share my top four reasons to start overcoming retroactive jealousy right now. Read or watch below to know the top four reasons to start overcoming retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: If you’ve been struggling with retroactive jealousy for a while, and you’ve been putting off healing, I will share my top […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how to change your mindset quickly. Read or watch the video below to discover how to change your mindset quickly. Zachary Stockill: I was doing an “Ask Me Anything” session on Instagram recently, and one of my followers asked me a really important, really pertinent question. And […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to break down the 3 most likely possibilities why you are still struggling with retroactive jealousy. Read or watch below to discover why you feel like “I can’t stop thinking about my partner’s past.” Zachary Stockill: “Why am I struggling with retroactive jealousy? Why can’t I stop thinking about my […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how I would handle it if my girlfriend’s past partners started disrespecting me or my girlfriend. Read or watch below to understand how to better deal with your girlfriend’s past partners. Zachary Stockill: How do you deal with your girlfriend’s past partners disrespecting you? Or disrespecting your […]
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Today I’m going to talk about your biggest enemy in confronting retroactive jealousy, and what you can do to beat it. Read or watch below to understand confronting retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: It’s strange that we’re often kinder to other people than we are to ourselves. We often give others the benefit of the doubt, but […]
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In today’s video, I offer thoughts for married men who tell me “My wife’s past is bothering me.” Read or watch below if you’ve ever felt like “my wife’s past bothering me.” Zachary Stockill: When it comes to retroactive jealousy, the path to peace is similar for all of us. Gay, straight, young, old, male, female–doesn’t […]
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In today’s video, I answer a question about what to do when having a retroactive jealousy attack when you’re out with your girlfriend. Read or watch below to learn more about how to overcome a retroactive jealousy attack in public. Zachary Stockill: It’s Friday night, you’re at the bar with your lovely girlfriend. You’re having a […]
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In today’s video, I respond to a viewer who tells me “I can’t stop thinking about my wife’s exes, and her choices in the past.” Read or watch below to know my response to a viewer who tells me “I can’t stop thinking about my wife’s exes.” Zachary Stockill: “I can’t stop thinking about my wife’s […]
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In today’s video, I answer a common question: “What is the typical retroactive jealousy sufferer like?” Read or watch below to find out more about the “typical” RJ sufferer based on a decade of hearing retroactive jealousy stories. Zachary Stockill: As I’ve often mentioned on this channel, I’ve been doing this work on retroactive jealousy and […]
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In today’s video, I responded to a viewer who is wondering how to deal with his feeling that his “wife’s past haunts me,” and she’s connecting with her ex on social media. Read or watch below if you also feel like “my wife’s past haunts me.” Zachary Stockill: We live in the age of social media. […]
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Today’s video is for you if you still feel stuck with retroactive jealousy AFTER you’ve started taking the steps to beat it. Read or watch below if you feel like you just can’t get over retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: Unfortunately, it is all too easy to feel stuck with retroactive jealousy. And even if you’re someone […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how to know if you’re struggling with irrational retroactive jealousy OCD, or if your girlfriend’s past is a genuine dealbreaker. Read or watch below if you’ve ever felt “my girlfriend’s past makes me sick,” and wondered whether your retroactive jealousy is irrational or rational. Zachary Stockill: You’ve […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about what it’s like to share the most embarrassing episode of your life on the front page of one of the biggest news publications on the planet. Read or watch the video below to know about my personal experience with retroactive jealousy on the first page of BBC […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the distinctions between unhealthy neediness and genuine love relating to obsessive jealousy in a relationship. Read or watch below if you are suffering from obsessive jealousy in a relationship. Zachary Stockill: You’ve probably seen me talk about the “Red Pill” recently. It’s a rabbit hole that I’ve been […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to respond to the question: “How do I convince my boyfriend to confront his retroactive jealousy?” Read or watch below to discover if you can convince a boyfriend to confront retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: I received a comment recently on a YouTube video from a young woman whose boyfriend is struggling […]
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In today’s video, I will share my top-5 daily habits for happiness that have made a big difference in my life. Read or watch below to discover my top-5 daily habits for happiness. Zachary Stockill: If you’ve been watching my channel for a while, you’ve probably heard me talk about building new habits, and eliminating […]
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In today’s video, I will share my top-3 reasons why retroactive jealousy sufferers should stop watching porn. Read or watch below to discover why you should stop watching porn if you’re a retroactive jealousy sufferer. Zachary Stockill: It is never easy to change a habit. It takes time, it takes effort. It takes dedication. It can […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how to overcome the biggest roadblock on the path to total freedom from retroactive jealousy. Read on or watch below if you feel stuck with retroactive jealousy and want to overcome the biggest roadblock to freedom. Zachary Stockill: I put out polls regularly on my YouTube community feed, […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share the number one formula for relief from retroactive jealousy. It can work much quicker than you think. Read or watch below to discover how to get long-term relief from retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: Recently I have been accused of presenting too many lofty philosophical ideas on this channel. Taking […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about what I believe to be the top-4 biggest retroactive jealousy lies and misconceptions. Read or watch below to discover the biggest retroactive jealousy lies. Zachary Stockill: There are a lot of misconceptions out there about retroactive jealousy. I think there’s a certain type of person who finds […]
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In today’s video, I wanted to share the best quote about the “Red Pill” online men’s movement that I’ve ever heard. Read or watch to hear the quote that could change your relationship with the red pill. Zachary Stockill: I recorded a few videos recently on a segment of the Internet called the “Red Pill,” which […]
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In today’s video, I wanted to comment on a current news story: the Johnny Depp and Amber Heard trial, and understand how to spot red flags in dating and relationships. Read or watch below to see how to spot red flags. Zachary Stockill: In today’s video, I’m going to do something that you probably haven’t seen […]
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In today’s video, I share the number one secret about retroactive jealousy, informed by almost a decade of working on this peculiar issue. Read on or watch below to discover the secret about retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: I hope you will forgive the clickbait title of this video. But it’s not just clickbait. I’m telling […]
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In today’s video, I talk about how to get motivated in the pursuit of any worthwhile goal, but in particular, overcoming retroactive jealousy. Read or watch the video below to discover how to get motivated to beat retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: If you search for the term “how to get motivated, how to stay motivated” on […]
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In today’s video, I want to share an uncommon perspective on the process of “vetting” for a potential future girlfriend or wife. Read or watch the video below to discover a better framework for discovering “Is she girlfriend material?” Zachary Stockill: Over almost ten years of one on one coaching, one of the subject areas […]
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In today’s video, I had a conversation with Gethen, a retroactive jealousy survivor from Wales, and a recent graduate of my course “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast,” in today’s Zachary Stockill testimonial. Read or watch below to hear Gethen’s Zachary Stockill testimonial, his story of overcoming retroactive jealousy, and how it changed his life. […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how to approach overcoming retroactive jealousy when your partner has kids with their ex. How to approach retroactive jealousy when your partner has kids with their ex? Zachary Stockill: Retroactive jealousy is pure hell, right? Anyone watching this video who’s struggling with retroactive jealousy probably agrees with that […]
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In today’s video, I talk about 5 things I wish I knew about relationships when I was 20 years old. (**Younger retroactive jealousy sufferers please take note!) Read on or watch below to know about my top-5 relationship mistakes I made in my twenties. Zachary Stockill: As I was reflecting recently on my YouTube videos […]
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In this video, I spoke with Steve, a recent graduate of my online course, “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast.” Read on or watch below to listen to another Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast, Zachary Stockill course review: Zachary: So first off, Steve, I just wanted to thank you for doing this. I really appreciate […]
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In today’s video, I clarify my views on the topic of talking to your partner about their past. I also share a few insights if you’re seeking to better understand your partner and learn about their values. Read on or watch below if you’ve ever wondered “how should I talk to my partner about their […]
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In today’s video, I talk about how to handle it when the “red flags” in your partner’s past (or present) indicate you’re not a good match moving forward, and you think breaking up is the right decision. Read on or watch the video below to hear a few thoughts before you break up because of […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share three questions that I believe every retroactive jealousy sufferer should ask themselves at least once. Read on or watch below to learn about the 3 questions to ask yourself if you are struggling with retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: If I may be so bold, I think that one of […]
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In today’s video, I want to share a few thoughts for people who are bothered by their partner’s past, and wondering whether their partner is being entirely honest with them. If you’ve ever thought, “What if My Girlfriend is LYING About Her Past?” you are not alone. Zachary Stockill: I got a comment on a […]
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In today’s video, I offer a bit of a warning to modern men to be wary of phony masculine role models in the world today. I want to share a few of my thoughts on positive masculinity and the pandemic of fake “alpha males” on YouTube and beyond. Read on or watch below to learn […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share my top “Green Flags” in dating–because looking only for “red flags” is not enough. Read on or watch below to learn all about my top “green flags” in dating. Zachary Stockill: I recorded a video recently talking about my top relationship red flags. In other words, the qualities […]
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In today’s video, I want to share my #1 perspective for dealing with intrusive thoughts, how to overcome them, and how to start the process of rewiring our brain’s response to intrusive thoughts about a partner’s past. Read on or watch below to learn the #1 technique for dealing with intrusive thoughts about your partner’s […]
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In today’s video, I want to share my (gasp!) nuanced take on the “Red Pill” online men’s movement. And share a few thoughts for men who are “flirting” with the “Red Pill.” Ideologues beware: you probably won’t like this one. Read on or watch below to hear my message to men in the Red Pill. […]
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Retroactive Jealousy Course Testimonial: Listen to Guy's Story
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In today’s video, I’m going to offer my answer to the question “What is self-acceptance?” and how this is related to overcoming retroactive jealousy. Read on or watch below to hear my response to “What is self-acceptance?” Zachary Stockill: What is self-acceptance? I have kind of a controversial video for you today; at least, I […]
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In today’s video, I want to offer some thoughts about boundaries and values in relationships. I want to share a couple of ways of thinking about boundaries and values in relationships that I don’t hear anyone else talking about. Read on or watch below to hear my take on boundaries and values in relationships. Zachary […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about where you can start with my work if you’re ready to get serious about beating retroactive jealousy for good ASAP. Read on or watch below to get started overcoming retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: At the time of recording this video, I’ve been working on this issue of […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the “flipside” of taking proactive steps to beat retroactive jealousy, and how identifying what NOT to do is equally important. Read on or watch the video below to learn the truth about retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: If you’ve been watching my channel for a while, hopefully at […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to respond to a viewer’s question of what to do when we feel like other people “makes us feel” a certain way. Read on to learn more about how to stop “blaming my partner for retroactive jealousy.” Zachary Stockill: Recently, I received a comment from someone we will call C. […]
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In today’s video, I had an inspiring conversation with Toni, a retroactive jealousy survivor. Read or watch below to hear Toni’s retroactive jealousy testimonial, and how he finally got freedom from retroactive jealousy with the help of my online course, “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast.” Zachary: Okay, well, once again Toni, I wanted to thank you […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share my ideas about anti-fragility, how it’s different from mere resilience, and how it’s directly related to retroactive jealousy. Read on to learn more about “anti-fragility.” Zachary Stockill: A few years ago, a Lebanese author named Nassim Nicholas Taleb published a book called Anti-Fragile. The book became an enormous […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share my personal views about “relationship red flags;” things that I look out for when considering a long-term relationship, or marriage. Read on or watch below to hear all about my “relationship red flags.” Zachary Stockill: I received a comment recently from a viewer asking me about my own […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share my own definition of retroactive jealousy, and help to clear this up a bit. Read on or watch below to learn more about my definition of retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: So here’s a strange little fact about retroactive jealousy: many retroactive jealousy sufferers aren’t actually jealous people. Many […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share an important message about retroactive jealousy that every retroactive jealousy sufferer needs to hear. Read on to hear an important message for retroactive jealousy sufferers. Zachary Stockill: I have a secret group on Facebook for students who are taking my online course, Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast. […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how you can define and specify the goal of beating retroactive jealousy for good as soon as possible. Read on to learn more about how to approach retroactive jealousy goals. Zachary Stockill: One of the main mistakes people make when they set goals is not being specific […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share a way to reframe the question, “Does the number of people my girlfriend had sex with matter?” Hopefully, this will help you answer this question for yourself in a way that makes sense. Read on or watch the video below if you find yourself thinking “My girlfriend’s number […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share some big lessons that I learned over the past year. I’m also going to talk about how this can help you beat retroactive or obsessive jealousy as soon as possible. Read on to learn more about how to effectively stop retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: Have you’ve heard of […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share a few perspectives about struggling with retroactive jealousy if you’re living in the Western world in the 21st century. Read on to learn more about an antidote to retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: I’ve spent the majority of my adult life living outside of my native Canada, most of […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about what it’s like to overcome retroactive jealousy and whether or not retroactive jealousy is still an issue for me in my personal life. Read on or watch the video below to learn more about the process of recovery from retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: I received a comment […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share my top-5 lessons from the past year for retroactive jealousy survivors. Watch the video below, or read below to learn more about how to reach your goals as retroactive jealousy survivors. Zachary Stockill: If you’ve been watching my channel for a while, I absolutely love having conversations with […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share three practical, simple tips that you can use to start dealing with retroactive jealousy triggers. Watch or read below for three tips for retroactive jealousy triggers: Zachary Stockill: On this channel, I sometimes shy away from offering practical tips and tricks. The reason I’m more drawn to talk […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about a social trend, a unique challenge among male retroactive jealousy sufferers, which is only getting worse. So: what is this problem among male retroactive jealousy sufferers? Zachary Stockill: I often get asked about the differences between male retroactive jealousy sufferers and female retroactive jealousy sufferers. What are […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how remembering that I’m “crazy” helps me stay sane. Watch the video below for a counterintuitive approach for overcoming intrusive jealous thoughts. Zachary Stockill: Today, I want to talk about a practice that I’ve been cultivating and practicing for many years for overcoming intrusive jealous thoughts, one […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share a bizarre but effective technique for getting through things like obsessive and retroactive jealousy. So: what’s a better method for dealing with jealous thoughts? Zachary Stockill: When was the last time you accomplished something small? And when you accomplished it, did you celebrate that mini-victory? I talk a […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share the number one lie that most retroactive jealousy sufferers tell themselves at least once a day. So: what is the #1 retroactive jealousy lie? Zachary Stockill: If you’re struggling with retroactive jealousy, chances are good that you’re lying to yourself on at least one, but probably several levels. […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share a painful lesson that at least one retroactive jealousy sufferer is currently learning. How does it feel if your husband has retroactive jealousy? Zachary Stockill: A big part of my motivation is trying to help people, people like you to avoid my mistakes, and to not mess up […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the virtues and benefits of meditation. I’m also going to dispel some of the myths around meditation. So: why is meditation for beating jealousy so helpful? Zachary Stockill: So I posted a poll recently on my YouTube channel, asking about how often my audience meditates and the […]
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In today’s video, I had a revealing and inspiring conversation with Simon, a retroactive jealousy survivor. Read or watch below to hear Simon’s retroactive jealousy testimonial, and how’s he handling his retroactive jealousy with the help of my online course, “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast.” Zachary Stockill: Okay, Simon, first off, could you just […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to recommend five books which I believe every male retroactive jealousy sufferer should read. So: what are my top-5 recommended retroactive jealousy books for men? Zachary Stockill: The first book I’d like to recommend is by Dr. Robert Glover. It’s called “No More Mr. Nice Guy”. If you’re familiar with […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to respond to a viewer who’s struggling with how much he should tell his partner about his retroactive jealousy, and how to ask his partner to keep certain details away from him. So, can you tell your girlfriend about your retroactive jealousy? Zachary Stockill: Is it okay to tell your […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about my yearly review process. I’m going to show you exactly how to do one for yourself and how this can help you achieve your goals in overcoming retroactive and obsessive jealousy this new year. Read on to learn more about the tips for making a yearly review […]
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In today’s video, we’re going to hear from Nolan, who struggled with intense retroactive jealousy, and how my course, Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast liberated him. Click below to listen to another Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast testimonial: Zachary: Well, first off, Nolan, can you just tell me a little bit, a testimonial, […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the number one mistake people make when they fall in love, particularly younger people. And that is: spending way too much time together. Read on to learn more about one of the counterintuitive causes of retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: I made this mistake when I was younger. […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to the questions: “What happens if you’re out there in the dating world, and you’ve found out that the world is not living up to your standards?” “Is it ever a good idea to change or compromise on your standards when you’re in the dating market? Should I lower my […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share a crucial message to set the tone for your relationship as early as possible to minimize the odds of chaos, drama, divorce, and especially irrational jealousy. So: how to avoid irrational jealousy? Zachary Stockill: If you are someone who is at all predisposed to irrationally jealous behaviors, thoughts, […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about a post by the Daily Stoic, featuring eight lessons that will help you overcome retroactive jealousy. So: what can we learn from Stoic philosophy for overcoming jealousy? Zachary Stockill: We’re going to analyze each of these points one by one and relate them specifically to retroactive jealousy. […]
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In today’s video, I’m responding to a viewer who is struggling with trust issues and wants some advice on how to get started working through these relationship trust issues. So, how are you going to manage trust issues in a relationship? Zachary Stockill: Trust Issues in relationships are easily one of the most common challenges […]
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In today’s video, I wanted to respond to a question: “How do I resist the urge to snoop through my partner’s phone?” So: how do you stop snooping through your partner’s phone? Zachary Stockill: First off, be sure you’re addressing the source of these feelings, the source of this impulse to snoop through your partner’s […]
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In today’s video, I will share a very important message for anyone who’s on the fence about getting started putting in the work toward overcoming retroactive jealousy, and approaching any kind of personal development challenge. So, how to start beating retroactive jealousy? Zachary Stockill: “The scariest moment is always right before you start. This quote […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about a male phenomenon that I see all around me. I’m going to share a message that I think a lot of guys really need to hear. So, what is male simping (and why is it so toxic)? Zachary Stockill: If you go to any beautiful woman’s Instagram […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share what comes after retroactive jealousy for those of us who actually work our way through it. So: how should you approach retroactive jealousy and personal development? Zachary Stockill: So you’re struggling with retroactive jealousy. You’re struggling with unwanted intrusive thoughts about your partner’s past that don’t seem to […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share an idea that gave me a lot of clarity, meaning, and purpose in my life where previously some of that meaning and purpose had been lacking. Here’s my #1 tip regarding how young men can find purpose. Zachary Stockill: If you are a man and you have any […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share one of my all-time favorite perspectives in life that helps me stay grounded, overcome retroactive jealousy, and just overall live a more happy, peaceful life. So, what’s the right perspective for overcoming retroactive jealousy? Zachary Stockill: When you’re struggling with an issue like obsessive jealousy, retroactive jealousy, or […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share my number one tip for anyone trying to assess anyone’s character. Zachary Stockill: A lot of people who come to me are interested in assessing their partner’s character, values, and who they really are deep down. And often this is inspired by someone finding out some things that […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share two often overlooked recipes for healing from retroactive jealousy. So: why could your own retroactive jealousy community be valuable? Zachary Stockill: These two often overlooked aspects for healing from retroactive jealousy are community and accountability. People are often embarrassed when it comes to struggling with an issue like […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how to handle the advanced stages of overcoming retroactive jealousy when you encounter “bumps in the road.” So, how are you going to deal with a bad day with retroactive jealousy? Zachary Stockill: If you’ve started putting in the work, made the commitment, started putting in the […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to explore pornography in-depth and provide some food for thought when you’re struggling with intrusive thoughts and obsessive curiosity around your partner’s past relationships. So, should guys watch porn? Zachary Stockill: Should retroactive jealousy sufferers watch pornography? My answer is “No.” If you’re struggling with unwanted and often violent graphic […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share one of my favourite ways to think about retroactive jealousy. So: how to start overcoming intrusive thoughts? Zachary Stockill: For a long time, I would label retroactive jealousy as the character “fat bastard” in the Austin Powers comedies, from Mike Myers’s comedies from the 90s… This helped me […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to prove to you that if you’re struggling with retroactive or obsessive jealousy, it’s actually a blessing in disguise. So, why retroactive jealousy is actually an opportunity? Zachary Stockill: The phrase “blessing in disguise” is thrown around a lot by people when someone’s going through a tough time. And frankly, […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share why it’s usually a bad idea to ask your partner endless questions about their past. So, why is it important to be strategic about asking about your partner’s past? Zachary Stockill: If you’re a retroactive jealousy sufferer, there’s the impulse to ask your partner questions about their past. […]
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In today’s video, I’m responding to a viewer who’s struggling to let go of the urge to control her partner. I’m going to suggest some alternative ways to look at the situation instead. So: how to let go of the desire to control your partner? Zachary Stockill: Have you ever felt the urge to control […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share another 80/20 rule, and if you’re struggling with retroactive or obsessive jealousy, this is going to be useful for you. So: what is the overall framework for overcoming retroactive jealousy? Zachary Stockill: In a previous video, I spoke about an 80/20 rule. Anytime you have a problem in […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share a quote by Einstein that represents one of my all-time favorite universal solutions for retroactive jealousy. So: how to deal with retroactive jealousy fear? Zachary Stockill: My name is Zachary Stockill and since 2013, I’ve been helping men and women from all over the world, overcome retroactive jealousy, […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to tell you my number one tip for how to know whether you’re struggling with irrational retroactive jealousy or a genuine clash of values in your partner’s past. So: how do you assess your partner’s past values? Zachary Stockill: One of the things that sometimes people seem to get wrong […]
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In today’s video, I’d like to share the number one step you should take after you break up. So, what to do after a breakup? Zachary Stockill: I’m Zachary Stockill from retroactivejealousy.com. I’m also the author of the newly released The Breakup Recovery Workbook, as well as my new comprehensive, step-by-step, Breakup Recovery Blueprint Online […]
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Yesterday, I hosted my second YouTube livestream where I took all kinds of interesting subscriber questions. Although the questions were mainly concerning retroactive jealousy, I also got to a couple of questions about breakups and relationships more generally. If you joined me, thanks! And if not, you can find the full video below: Click here […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to offer a bit of tough love to anyone struggling with retroactive or obsessive jealousy. And share some insight as to what it’s been like to be the “retroactive jealousy guy” for over 8 years. Zachary Stockill: When we’re struggling with any kind of highly charged emotional problem in life, […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share five tips that will help you get better in touch with your intuition and gut. So: how should you handle your irrational jealousy? Zachary Stockill: If you were struggling with an issue like retroactive jealousy, like irrational jealousy, you might be really struggling with questions like, “Is my […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to respond to a retroactive jealousy sufferer, who’s confused about her boyfriend’s past in hookup culture. She’s wondering if she should dive in and pursue a similar kind of lifestyle in the hope that this will cure retroactive jealousy. How to deal with your partner’s history of casual sex and […]
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In today’s video, we will learn why is it so important to have standards in your dating life, particularly for anyone struggling with retroactive jealousy. So what are your relationship standards? Zachary Stockill: Relationship standards are your criteria for anyone you invite into your life. There are different kinds of standards that most people have […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about “the cost of doing business,” and how this concept applies to things like obsessive jealousy, and retroactive jealousy. So how can this help when you are suffering from retroactive jealousy? Zachary Stockill: Every endeavor in life, anytime we pursue something worth having, there’s going to be some […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to tell you what to do if you’re struggling with retroactive jealousy, obsessive jealousy, or any other kind of emotional/ psychological problem. So, how to cure retroactive jealousy? Zachary Stockill: I saw a video recently posted by a well-known dating coach named Dr. David Tian. I did an interview with […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share a very unusual technique for dealing with any kind of unwanted intrusive thoughts. So how to escape intrusive thoughts? Zachary Stockill: I remember reading about a surgeon who was talking about the incredible power of keeping a to-do list when you’re in the middle of something like neurosurgery, […]
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In today’s video, I’m responding to a viewer who is worried about her partner viewing pornography. How to handle retroactive jealousy and pornography? Zachary Stockill: I recorded a video recently related to retroactive jealousy and sex. And one of the viewers of that video posted an interesting question beneath that video. S writes… How do […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share a superpower that you should cultivate that will help you avoid 99% of drama and chaos in your relationships. How to choose the right partner? Zachary Stockill: So, I have officially entered my mid-30s. And I have been enormously lucky in my relationship life. To this point, I’m […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how to get started getting momentum when it comes to any kind of personal development project, and how to deal with resistance that you might have along the way. So, how to stay motivated when beating jealousy? Zachary Stockill: I have received some YouTube comments recently, and […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to answer an email from a retroactive jealousy sufferer, who’s worried their partner had sex in the house that he now shares with her. So, what are some methods for overcoming retroactive jealousy triggers? B asks… How do I stop thinking that my partner had sex with other people in […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about what you should do if you broke up with your partner because of retroactive jealousy. Maybe you’re wondering what you should do now if you’re experiencing any kind of regrets or doubts about your decision. So, let’s learn how to get over retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: A […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about retroactive jealousy and sex. So, what is a good way to start thinking about retroactive jealousy and sex? Zachary Stockill: Being in this position, being the retroactive jealousy guy for so long, I get a lot of emails and feedback from retroactive jealousy sufferers. A question that […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how to break free from the various vicious cycles associated with retroactive jealousy. For anyone who has been struggling with retroactive jealousy for a while, there are various, vicious cycles, associated with retroactive jealousy. So, how to beat the retroactive jealousy cycle? Whether it’s retroactive jealousy, OCD, […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share what I believe to be one of the secrets of life that will help you overcome retroactive jealousy. So: what should you do when you’re exhausted by retroactive jealousy? This will help you overcome unwanted, painful intrusive thoughts about your partner’s past, and in general, will just help […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the best part of retroactive jealousy. So, how can you stay motivated getting over retrospective jealousy? If you’re currently struggling with retroactive jealousy, feeling obsessed with your partner’s past, asking them questions constantly, stalking their past on social media, whatever you’re doing, whatever your experience of retroactive […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to answer another viewer’s question about retroactive jealousy and FOMO. How to overcome jealousy of partner’s past? W. writes… Hey, Zachary. I just watched your most recent Q&A video on your partner doing something with their ex that they wouldn’t or haven’t done with you? How would this translate to […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share one of my all-time favorite quotes and favorite practices for overcoming any kind of jealousy, particularly, obsessive jealousy and retroactive jealousy. So: what are some ways to overcome jealousy OCD? So longtime viewers of this channel, and certainly longtime readers of my blog, retroactivejealousy.com, you might be sick […]
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In today’s video, video I’m going to share an important message for male jealousy sufferers. Men with retroactive jealousy: how do you deal with it? A big question that people ask me sometimes is, “Zach, why aren’t you more active? A lot of free online communities are out there, whether it’s on Reddit, Facebook, and […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about a dangerous pitfall that you should avoid as you work to overcome retroactive jealousy. So, what are the best ways to work toward a retrospective jealousy cure? Zachary Stockill: Before I get into it, I’d like to remind you that I just released my brand new audio […]
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In today’s video, I’m answering a reader email from Fabian. So, what should you do if you’re struggling with “questions about my partner’s past?” Fabian writes… I’ve decided to stop asking my partner questions about her past. But I still have written down some questions I would like to eventually ask her. Is that the […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to answer a question relating to whether or not you should break up with your partner to overcome retroactive jealousy in a relationship. Or, whether you should try to get over this stuff while you’re single. So, what are the right things to do when it comes to a retroactive […]
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In today’s video, I’m answering a question from Jake. “When’s the right time to leave a toxic relationship?” Jake writes.. When do you know it’s time to move on from a toxic relationship? Zachary Stockill: The first thing I’ll say is, there should be a zero-tolerance policy for any kind of physical violence. So if […]
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In today’s video, I’m answering an email from Monica. A reader wonders: are relationship breaks healthy? Monica writes Are breaks good for both parties and relationship when your partner is dealing with retroactive jealousy? Zachary Stockill: My general theory on breaks in a relationship, is that more often than not, breaks are preludes to a […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to discuss the very tricky issue of what to do when your partner is keeping in touch with their ex. What are the right things to do when your boyfriend still talks to his ex? Today we’re answering an email from a viewer named Soren. Soren writes I’ve seen a […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share what I believe are the two biggest mistakes that people make when they set goals. So, how to set better goals? Zachary Stockill: So over the past, I’ve been pretty serious about setting goals. And when I talk about setting goals, it relates to relationships, finances, productivity, and […]
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In today’s video, I’m bringing you another Q&A video. We’re going to learn what to do when your girlfriend keeps talking about her ex. Garrett writes… I understand the idea that I should stop talking to my partner about their past. But I’m wondering if you have any advice about entering a new relationship. Do […]
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In today’s video, I’m answering a question that I get on a surprisingly regular basis. “Does my girlfriend’s number matter?” In a sense, the question boils down to, “I’m considering sleeping with other people and cheating on my partner, in order to even the score. Do you think this is a good idea? Do you […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share a very simple mental practice that you can use that will help you beat jealousy and have a better life and relationship. So, how do we overcome jealousy? Zachary Stockill: This week, I had a bit of a conflict with a good friend of mine. The conflict was […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to answer a question I get all the time. Is it really possible to beat retroactive jealousy? The spoiler alert is yes. It’s absolutely possible. Zachary Stockill: I think I proved to people all the time through interviews with retroactive jealousy sufferers, as well as on my website retroactivejealousy.com, overcoming […]
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In today’s video, I’m answering a reader question from Nate. “How do you recover from retroactive jealousy?” Nate writes… Can you keep the relationship and overcome retroactive jealousy at the same time? Zachary Stockill: The answer to this question depends on how much damage it has done to your relationship. Some people realize that they […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk to a young woman who is troubled by the fact that her partner’s ex is still in love with her partner. Have you ever been in the situation where your boyfriend’s ex keeps contacting him? A question came in to me recently. Demi writes… How to combat retroactive […]
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Today I’m answering a reader email from Valerie. What are the things you should do and keep in mind when your partner works with his ex? Valerie writes… Hey, Zachary. Thank you so much for helping me through your videos. The only reason I haven’t bought your online course is because my partner’s ex is […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about what I believe to be the number one most dangerous word to use in the context of relationships. We’re going to discover more about “relationship jealousy”. Zachary Stockill: I get a lot of email. And since 2013, I’ve been getting daily emails from retroactive jealousy sufferers from […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about one of the biggest mistakes that intelligent people make when they’re struggling with any kind of emotional or psychological disorder. If you recently found yourself Googling “I’m struggling with my girlfriend’s past,” this post is for you. Zachary Stockill: I was on a coaching call recently with […]
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In today’s video, Georgia asks: “Once someone recovers from retroactive jealousy, do they still occasionally get the obsessive thoughts? Or are they completely recovered?” Obsessive thoughts about girlfriend’s past, wife’s past, husband’s past, or boyfriend’s past are absolutely possible to overcome. I’m living proof. Zachary Stockill: When I talk about overcoming retroactive jealousy, the number […]
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In today’s video, I spoke to a retroactive jealousy survivor named Bennett. Not long ago, Bennett was wracked with incessant curiosity and “mental movies” about his girlfriend’s past. At his worst, he couldn’t sleep, eat, or focus on anything other than his girlfriend’s past. Today, he feels like a new man. Listen to our conversation […]
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In today’s video, we’re going to learn more about overcoming retroactive jealousy. I’m going to answer the question: “How long does it take to beat retroactive jealousy?” Zachary Stockill: There’s no general answer to this question because there are so many factors involved. Everyone’s different. Everyone’s dealing with retroactive jealousy to different extents. There’s a […]
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In today’s video, I’m responding to a viewer who is troubled by the fact that his girlfriend did things with her ex that she won’t do with him. Are you wondering why you can’t stop thinking about girlfriend’s previous partners? Today’s email comes from Danny. Danny writes… What would be the ideal way to react […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share another very strange technique that will help you stop any of the behaviors associated with retroactive jealousy. So, how do you stop asking about your girlfriend’s past? Zachary Stockill: This is a question that I have been getting all the time since I started my blog back in 2013, […]
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In today’s video, I’m responding to an email from Bobby. Bobby wrote a long message, but the basic gist of it is, how do you beat retroactive jealousy for good? How do you know you won’t date someone who will spark your retroactive jealousy going forward? What makes you so confident retroactive jealousy won’t ever […]
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In today’s video, I’m answering an email from Samil. Have you ever asked yourself this question… “Does My Girlfriend Compare Me to Her Ex?” Samil writes… Does our partner compare our sexual performance with their ex mentally? Zachary Stockill: The obvious answer is, I have no idea. Because I don’t know your relationship. I don’t know […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about what you should do if you’re struggling with your girlfriend’s past. Have you ever felt like “My girlfriend’s past gives me anxiety?” I got an email from a guy we will call M. M writes… How do I deal with things that I view as morally wrong […]
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In today’s video, I am answering an email from Rosie, regarding how to deal with retroactive jealousy in social situations. Dealing with retroactive jealousy in social situations isn’t always easy, but it certainly can be done. Rosie writes… I constantly worry that my partner’s friends/family are going to bring up pastimes or people. Or I’ll […]
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In today’s video, I’d like to talk about a dangerous mental pitfall that a lot of retroactive jealousy sufferers fall into. We’re going to discuss why idealizing your girlfriend is so dangerous. Anyone who’s taken my premium online course, Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast, or for those who have my Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy guidebook, […]
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In today’s video, I’d like to talk about the dangers of long-term thinking when you are working to overcome obsessive jealousy or any other challenge as it relates to personal development. In today’s video, I will discuss how to beat retroactive jealousy. But before I do, I’d also like to take this opportunity to remind […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about your higher self, and how accessing your higher self will help you escape retroactive jealousy. If you’ve spent any amount of time scrolling through psychology blogs, especially if they’re at all somewhat New Agey, or they’re influenced by Buddhist philosophy, or in general, they’re kind of trend […]
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In today’s Q & A video, I’m answering an email from Nicholas. He writes, “Can I overcome retroactive jealousy when I know too much about my girlfriend’s past?” “Or is it only possible to overcome retroactive jealousy if I get a new partner and learn not to dig into her past?” As you’ve probably heard […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share a really important idea for anyone struggling with any kind of retroactive jealousy and insecurity. As many of you might know, I host a secret Facebook discussion group for students taking one of my online courses. My primary course on overcoming retroactive jealousy and insecurity, or at least […]
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In today’s video, I’d like to share what I believe is an absolutely essential question for anyone struggling with any kind of retroactive jealousy. A great quote resonates with a lot of people because it seems to capture something very true and profound. What I’m about to share is a great example of a great […]
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In today’s video, I want to share what I believe is an important opportunity for any single retroactive jealousy sufferers to get clear about their relationship boundaries and values. When you get clear about your relationship boundaries and values, you minimize the possibility of retroactive jealousy rearing its ugly head in the future. Transcript below […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share a counterintuitive question for anyone struggling with retroactive jealousy disorder. I really believe this question is essential for anyone struggling with retroactive jealousy disorder to consider. Zachary Stockill: As I sit here today recording this, I have an inbox filled with emails from retroactive jealousy sufferers. I’ve been […]
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In today’s video, I want to offer a few thoughts on retroactive jealousy and social media. If you’re dealing with anything like retroactive jealousy and social media, retroactive jealousy OCD, or any kind of obsessive or irrational jealousy in your relationship, you’ll find this useful. Zachary Stockill: So we officially live in the era of […]
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In today’s video, I detail what I believe to be one of the most under-recognized elements in maintaining mental health. Click here to learn more about my new online course for overcoming obsessive/retroactive jealousy, The Overcoming Jealousy Blueprint.
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In today’s video, I share a potentially liberating new perspective for overcoming retroactive jealousy. Click here to learn more about my new online course for overcoming obsessive/retroactive jealousy, The Overcoming Jealousy Blueprint.
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In today’s video, I share something shocking about personal development which I wish I understood earlier in life. Click here to learn more about my all-new audio series, Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: The Guided Meditations.
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Today, I’m going to share what is possibly my all-time favorite quote for overcoming jealousy. This quote for overcoming jealousy is so simple, and so powerful. Transcript below Zachary Stockill: So, today’s quote is from one of my heroes. You’ve probably heard me talk about him on this channel before. The Roman Emperor Marcus Aurelius, […]
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Are you struggling with retroactive jealousy symptoms? Retroactive jealousy symptoms aren’t easy to deal with. It might be jealousy concerning people your partner once dated. You may find yourself unable to focus on anything, constantly worrying about your partner’s past. Zachary Stockill: Do you want to overcome retroactive jealousy? Are you sure you really want […]
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Retroactive jealousy sufferers become obsessed with their partner’s sexual/dating history. Retroactive jealousy sufferers find themselves feeling jealous, angry and upset about people their partner once dated or had sex with in the past. I’d also like to remind you that my premium online course for retroactive jealousy sufferers, Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast, is […]
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Today I’m going to share some quick thoughts on dealing with retroactive jealousy triggers. Dealing with retroactive jealousy triggers sometimes requires an unconventional approach. Zachary Stockill: Before I get into it, I’d just like to remind you that my brand new audio series, Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: The Guided Meditations, is available right now. This is […]
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In today’s video, I attempt to answer a question I receive on a semi-regular basis: who struggles more with retroactive jealousy, men or women? One quick reminder, before I let you go, that my brand new audio series Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: The Guided Meditations is available right now. You can find all the details about that right here.
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Today I want to share some important facts about retroactive jealousy that I don’t think I’ve shared before. And some facts about retroactive jealousy that I think you might find surprising if you’re currently in the trenches and feeling hopeless. If you’re currently struggling with retroactive jealousy, feeling frustrated, and in particular feeling any kind […]
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“Help! I constantly bump into my girlfriend’s ex…” If you tell me “I constantly bump into my girlfriend’s ex,” and you’re a retroactive jealousy sufferer, my heart goes out to you. Not a fun situation–but it’s actually an opportunity, if you handle it properly. Before I get into it, a quick reminder that my brand […]
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Today I’m responding to a viewer who’s struggling to understand how to reframe retroactive jealousy. Believe it or not, it really is possible to reframe retroactive jealousy. Zachary Stockill: Before I get into it, a very quick reminder that my brand new audio series Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: The Guided Meditations is out right now. This […]
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Today I’m responding to a viewer who asks “how do I stop asking questions about my partner’s past?” If you’ve ever asked yourself “how do I stop asking questions about my partner’s past?” you are not alone. Zachary Stockill: S writes, How do I stop asking questions about my partner’s past? And how do I […]
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Today, I’m going to talk about a dangerous pitfall that you should avoid as you work toward beating retroactive jealousy. If you’re interested in beating retroactive jealousy, I’d like to remind you that I just released my brand new audio series for overcoming retroactive jealousy. It’s called Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: The Guided Meditations, a series […]
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Today, I’m responding to a viewer who wants to know how to rebuild trust in a relationship.
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Struggling with your partner’s past? In today’s video, I’m going to share four simple questions that you can ask yourself every day and which will help you overcome retroactive jealousy. In my view, these questions are crucial to consider if you’re struggling with your partner’s past. Zachary Stockill: Before I get into it, just wanted […]
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In today’s video I’m going to respond to a viewer who tells me “my girlfriend’s ex is better than me.” If you’ve ever told yourself “my girlfriend’s ex is better than me,” you are not alone. Zachary Stockill: All right. Ben writes: What if my girlfriend’s ex is better than me? What if your partner […]
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Today, I’m excited to announce the release of a new series of guided meditations. These guided meditations for retroactive jealousy are all-new. And, fully downloadable to your smartphone, laptop, PC, whatever. ORJ: The Guided Meditations is an all-new audio series of guided meditation recordings. Specifically designed for anyone struggling with unwanted, and obsessive curiosity about their […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to go deeper into retroactive jealousy and FOMO. Dealing with retroactive jealousy and FOMO is surprisingly common. Zachary Stockill: I haven’t done a Q&A in a while, so I thought it was about time. The viewer comment reads: Hi, Zach, love your videos. Going through your book right now. Can […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share an important question that every retroactive jealousy sufferer should ask themselves to beat retroactive jealousy triggers. Retroactive jealousy triggers will lose some of their power over you when you ask yourself this question. Zachary Stockill: In today’s video, I’d like to share just a very brief two step […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to share a very simple, yet strangely effective morning routine for overcoming jealousy. Quick reminder, before I get into this morning routine for overcoming jealousy, that my brand new online course, The Overcoming Jealousy Blueprint, is out right now. Early reviews have been very positive, and I’m really excited to […]
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In today’s video I’m going to talk about the differences between retroactive jealousy vs. regular jealousy. I’m also going to discuss the many similarities between retroactive jealousy vs. regular jealousy. Zachary Stockill: So a lot of people ask me what are some of the differences and similarities concerning retroactive jealousy vs. regular jealousy. I also […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to go into what I believe is the number one mistake made by modern men and women struggling with obsessive jealousy in relationships. I’d also like to remind you that my brand new online course, The Overcoming Jealousy Blueprint, a step-by-step plan for beating obsessive jealousy in relationships, is available […]
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In today’s video, I’d like to share another perspective which I believe is absolutely essential for anyone working toward overcoming obsessive jealousy or retroactive jealousy. Overcoming obsessive jealousy becomes much easier if you keep this in mind. Zachary Stockill: A quick reminder before I get into it, that my brand new online course for dealing […]
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In today’s video, I’d like to offer four tips for the partners of retroactive jealousy sufferers. The partners of retroactive jealousy sufferers frequently write to me, and today, I’d like to offer a few (hopefully helpful) thoughts. Zachary Stockill: I just received an email from a student taking my online course Get Over Your Partner’s […]
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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about two questions that you can ask yourself if you’re wondering “Do my partner and I have different values?” “Help! My partner and I have different values” is a common theme in emails I receive from retroactive jealousy sufferers. But is it really that simple? Is retroactive jealousy […]
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In today’s video, I address a common question: “where does retroactive jealousy come from?” If you’re wondering “where does retroactive jealousy come from?” you are not alone. Zachary Stockill: Received an email from Brian. Brian writes: My cases of retroactive jealousy happen years apart, lasting for a few weeks, then disappearing for another year or […]
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“I feel threatened by my boyfriend’s ex” is a line I see in my email inbox on a regular basis. “I feel threatened by my boyfriend’s ex” is a common sentiment among retroactive jealousy sufferers. Zachary Stockill: Celine asks: Is it normal to feel like your partner’s past lovers, or any other close female friends […]
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“What if my partner has a sleazy past?” is a common concern among retroactive jealousy sufferers. If you’re worried your partner has a sleazy past, you are not alone. Zachary Stockill: Okay, today I’m answering a young woman named Claudia. Claudia writes: My partner has a sleazy past. My question is how do I overcome […]
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Today’s question comes from Alex, who wonders if his girlfriend can help cure retroactive jealousy. If you’re trying to help cure retroactive jealousy, it can be tempting to look to your partner for support. Alex writes: Should I talk to my girlfriend about my retroactive jealousy whenever I’m feeling depressed? She knows I’m suffering. However, […]
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In today’s video Q & A I respond to Jose, who wants to know how to build trust in a relationship. Jose writes: How do I build trust in a relationship and feel more secure in the relationship and trust my partner, as I work through and battle retroactive jealousy? I am less anxious about […]
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In today’s Q & A video, I respond to Miranda, who writes “why do I struggle with retroactive jealousy?” If you’ve ever asked yourself “why do I struggle with retroactive jealousy?” you are not alone. Miranda continues: It seems like I’m always learning something new about my boyfriend’s past sex life. Why does learning about […]
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Ever have moments when you feel like you’ll just never get over retroactive jealousy? You’re not alone. This week I had a revealing conversation with a former student in my online course, “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast.” Drew went from having suicidal thoughts, and an absolute obsession with his girlfriend’s past, to happily engaged–and over […]
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In today’s video, I respond to S, who writes “my girlfriend’s past made my feelings change.” “My girlfriend’s past made my feelings change” is a surprisingly common complaint among male retroactive jealousy sufferers. Watch the video to learn more: Zachary Stockill: So this is a fairly common occurrence where someone’s dealing with retroactive jealousy and […]
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Today I’m responding to a question from a young man worried about his girlfriend’s ex. Charlie writes: What advice can you give to help overcome retroactive jealousy when your girlfriend’s ex is clearly far more physically attractive than you? We can all work to improve ourselves, but sometimes there are previous partners who are just […]
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In today’s video, I respond to a YouTube comment from a young man who writes “Help! My girlfriend has more sexual experience than me.” Nathan writes: My girlfriend has more sexual experience than me. Why do I see it as not fair that my girlfriend had sex with other people because she’s the only girl […]
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In today’s Q & A video I respond to Joshua, who is worried his girlfriend lied about her past. Joshua writes: How do I deal with the fact that my girlfriend lied about her past when I asked her? Zachary Stockill: Okay, Joshua. Unfortunately, this is a fairly common scenario for a retroactive jealousy sufferer. […]
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“What causes retroactive jealousy?” is a question I see in my inbox all the time. In today’s reader Q & A video, I answer an email from a reader who is struggling to understand what causes retroactive jealousy. Briana writes: I never struggled with retroactive jealousy in any of my past relationships. So why now? […]
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In today’s reader Q & A video, I respond to Jim. Jim and his girlfriend broke up because of retroactive jealousy, and he wants to know if he did the right thing. Even if you’re not someone who broke up because of retroactive jealousy, I think you’ll find it interesting. Jim writes: My girlfriend and […]
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In today’s video I tackle the age-old question: “when can (or should) you be friends with an ex?” Being friends with an ex can present some complications. In today’s video, I offer a quick suggestion on how to know if it’s a good idea. Zachary Stockill: Before I get started with today’s video, I’d just […]
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Today’s email comes from a reader who worries her boyfriend talks to his ex. Amber’s worry around the fact that her boyfriend talks to his ex appears to be largely a result of past trauma. Amber writes: I was cheated on in past relationships over social media and past exes being ‘dodgy’ and talking to […]
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Today’s reader email comes from Tiffany, who is worried her husband talks to his ex. It’s not uncommon if you struggle with the fact that your husband talks to his ex. And in the era of social media, keeping in touch with an ex has never been easier. Tiffany writes: My #1 question is: how […]
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Are you constantly comparing yourself to your boyfriend’s ex-girlfriends? Do you feel inadequate compared to women in his past or worry that he still loves his ex? Discover if your jealousy towards your boyfriend’s ex-girlfriends is justified and learn how to let go of painful cycles of comparison. Comparing yourself to others is almost always […]
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Today’s reader email comes from Nicholas, who writes “I know too much about my girlfriend’s past.” Can you really “know too much about my girlfriend’s past?” Nicholas continues: Can I overcome retroactive jealousy when I know too much about my girlfriend’s past, or is it only possible to overcome RJ if I get a new […]
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Today’s reader question comes from Valerie, who writes “he works with his ex! What should I do?” Wondering what to do if he works his ex? Valerie continues: Hey Zachary! Thank you so much for helping me through your videos. The only reason I haven’t bought your online course is because my boyfriend’s ex is […]
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“What should I do when my girlfriend talks about her past?” Many male readers write to me asking what they should do “when my girlfriend talks about her past.” Today’s email comes from Dylan, who writes: My girlfriend talks about her past… The thing that gets my jealousy going the most is when my girlfriend […]
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Today’s reader email comes to us from Jack, who worries that his boyfriend’s exes are really “better” than him. Jack writes: I often feel like I’m not enough for my boyfriend. He’s had so many sexual partners, and when I look at myself, I feel like I am definitely less good looking and much less […]
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If you’ve ever wondered “how much should you know about your partner’s past?” you are not alone. Today’s reader email comes from Randy, who writes “how much should you know about your partner’s past?” To what extent SHOULD one know about their partner’s past? Should one be blissfully ignorant, or an expert, or is there […]
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Today’s reader email comes from Dave, who writes “my girlfriend has more experience than me.” Dave continues: Hi there. My question is can I get over retroactive jealousy if my girlfriend has more experience than me. I’m in my first relationship (at the age of 23 and having only had a few one night stands […]
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Today’s reader question comes from Benjamin, who can’t stand the fact that his girlfriend had lots of partners in the past. Benjamin writes “my girlfriend had lots of partners:” How do you get over the fact that your girlfriend actively went out to look for sex and nothing else before she met you? How do […]
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“Help! My boyfriend hates my past!” Today’s reader question comes from Michelle, who writes “my boyfriend hates my past.” She continues: My boyfriend really wants to break up with me because he can not get over my past. How can I make him understand me? Zachary Stockill: Thanks for your email, Michelle. This is a little heartbreaking. I […]
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“My boyfriend’s past bothers me” is a recurring opening line in emails I receive. In today’s reader Q and A video, I respond to Jasmin, who writes “my boyfriend’s past bothers me.” She continues: I bought and read your guidebook, and have gone into the website. Thank you for helping me through retroactive jealousy concerning […]
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How to accept the past of your partner? It isn’t always easy… In today’s reader Q and A video, I wanted to offer a few thoughts on how to accept the past of your partner, and how you can approach the question: Am I dealing with retroactive jealousy concerning my partner’s past, or a genuine […]
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In today’s reader Q and A, I address the question of “how to get over my girlfriend’s past” when people are judging her (and you.) It’s absolutely possible to get over a girlfriend’s past in this situation. Watch or read below to learn more: Zachary Stockill: Okay, let’s get into it. Today’s question is from […]
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Does thinking about your wife’s sexual past keep you up at night? Are you overwhelmed by obsessive thoughts and curiosity when your wife talks about ex-lovers? You’re not alone and you do not have to continue feeling this way.
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Meet (another!) Zachary–a US Air Force veteran just two and a half weeks into my online course, “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast.” Zachary is currently one of the most active and supportive members of our secret Facebook group for past and current students. After he started posting in our group, I knew I had […]
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Meet Elizabeth–a self-described retroactive jealousy “survivor.” Elizabeth is a former student from my online course, “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast,” and one of the most active and supportive members of our secret Facebook group. Elizabeth struggled for years with constant intrusive thoughts and curiosity about her boyfriend’s past. It wasn’t until she fully committed […]
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Many women struggle with intrusive thoughts about their husband’s past And over the years, I’ve received thousands of emails from women troubled by their husband’s past—a syndrome commonly known as “retroactive jealousy.” The range of symptoms and emotions these women describe vary widely—from feeling “obsessed” or “consumed” by their husband’s past, others who are questioning […]
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Wife’s past killing you? Can’t stop thinking about your wife’s past? Wondering whether or not your wife’s past is a “dealbreaker?” If you’re struggling with your wife’s past, you are not alone. Since I launched this website back in 2013, I’ve received thousands of emails from thousands of husbands struggling with the following subject: “Wife’s […]
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Recently, I hopped on Skype with a student taking my “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast” online course. Since he was 14, Geddy has struggled with intense anxiety and curiosity surrounding each girlfriend’s past. In his own words: I didn’t know [retroactive jealousy] had a name. I thought I was just uncontrollably jealous… It really […]
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Niko is a former retroactive jealousy sufferer who took my online course, “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast.” With some help from the course, Niko has managed to defeat retroactive jealousy, and gain a new lease on life and relationships. We hopped on Skype recently to talk about his journey overcoming retroactive jealousy. In his […]
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Sara is a student taking my “Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast” premium online course. Sara from the US came to the course struggling with constant, painful “mental movies” of her boyfriend with his ex, and a host of related anxiety around her boyfriend’s past. She told me: I kept saying to myself, ‘I want […]
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I’m a lucky guy. For one thing, I get paid to do what I love: help people improve their relationships, let go of jealousy and possessiveness, and enjoy better lives. It’s a lot of work. It involves a lot of late nights and early mornings. But I wouldn’t want it any other way. Not long […]
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Struggling with a boyfriend’s past isn’t fun. Letting go of intrusive thoughts about your boyfriend’s past, and overcoming retroactive jealousy is a massive topic (I’ve built a website, wrote a book, and designed an entire online course around it). There’s a lot for me to get into, here. But in the early stages of overcoming […]
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Struggling with your girlfriend’s past isn’t easy. “My girlfriend’s past disgusts me” is a common thought in your head. And if you’ve spent any amount of time trawling Google for answers on how to accept the past of your partner, you’ve likely come across a lot of varied advice. Video transcript below On one hand, […]
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Although certain types of retroactive jealousy are surprisingly common, the overwhelming majority of the global population has never encountered the term “retroactive jealousy.” Someone at a party asks what I’m working on, and I’m consistently met with a confused “Huh?” when I bring it up. There might be three different types of retroactive jealousy, but […]
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Are thoughts of your boyfriend’s ex keeping you up at night? Is there a part of you worried about your boyfriend’s ex, and threatened by their relationship? Worried that your boyfriend might be “settling” for you? (Transcript below) When you think of the word “settling,” what comes to mind? “Settling down?” “Settling for someone?” “Settling […]
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When people ask me the question “Is retroactive jealousy OCD a form of obsessive compulsive disorder?” I generally try to steer the conversation toward possible solutions, rather than discussing theory. I do this because I think giving retroactive jealousy OCD an intimidating label such as “OCD” makes it seem bigger, scarier, and harder to overcome. I’ve tried […]
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Partner suffers from retroactive jealousy? You are not alone. If your partner suffers from retroactive jealousy, you might feel frustrated, stuck, even exhausted. I know this because over the years I’ve received hundreds of emails from the partners of retroactive jealousy sufferers. Typically, their letters go something like this: My partner suffers from retroactive jealousy. […]
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