The Self Optimization Experiment: Recent Episodes

Leila Adnani

I am embarking on a self optimization experiment with the goal of creating a new operating system for my life.It’s not that I don’t love my current life, I definitely do. But deep down, I know I can be better and I can achieve more. Which is what led me to follow through on this wild idea I got on Jan. 4 2023.SO I will be documenting the journey. (mostly on TikTok + the podcast)You can join me at anytime — we are doing something new every 14 days. visit leilaadnani.com for the agenda.Throughout the journey I will review each challenge fully + at the end of the 50 weeks, I will report back on the habits I am keeping and what I am officially leaving behind.Cheers to my best but most challenging year yet. Thanks for listening.

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Yep, fell off the bandwagon of self improvement -- listen and find out wtf I've been upto. 

Hey there, I'm Leila and I am so glad you've decided to tune in.

Over the next 50 weeks I will be embarking on 25 new challenges to create a new life operating system for myself.

When I woke up in 2023, I felt bored of myself, my routines and my habits. I was ready for a seismic shift, to try new things and see how I can better optimize my life so I can better show up for my friends, family and my business.

Join me every two weeks as we embark on something NEW. You can find the challenges at www.leilaadnani.com -- if you're looking to change up your 2023, I encourage you to join me.

XO, Leila

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Feeling drained and exhausted? Join me on today's episode as I discuss how to manage + bounce back from  professional and personal burn out. I don't believe burn out is something that can be avoided, it's something you have to learn to manage and work through. 

Hey there, I'm Leila and I am so glad you've decided to tune in.

Over the next 50 weeks I will be embarking on 25 new challenges to create a new life operating system for myself.

When I woke up in 2023, I felt bored of myself, my routines and my habits. I was ready for a seismic shift, to try new things and see how I can better optimize my life so I can better show up for my friends, family and my business.

Join me every two weeks as we embark on something NEW. You can find the challenges at www.leilaadnani.com -- if you're looking to change up your 2023, I encourage you to join me.

XO, Leila

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Hey there, I'm Leila and I am so glad you've decided to tune in.

Over the next 50 weeks I will be embarking on 25 new challenges to create a new life operating system for myself.

When I woke up in 2023, I felt bored of myself, my routines and my habits. I was ready for a seismic shift, to try new things and see how I can better optimize my life so I can better show up for my friends, family and my business.

Join me every two weeks as we embark on something NEW. You can find the challenges at www.leilaadnani.com -- if you're looking to change up your 2023, I encourage you to join me.

XO, Leila

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We’re all too familiar with the fear of not being good enough and the fear of failure. But what if I told you that conquering imposter syndrome is actually quite achievable? To gain confidence, remove your self-imposed limitations and take control of your success – it all starts with developing a strong mindset and believing in yourself. Today I share my story with it.

Hey there, I'm Leila and I am so glad you've decided to tune in.

Over the next 50 weeks I will be embarking on 25 new challenges to create a new life operating system for myself.

When I woke up in 2023, I felt bored of myself, my routines and my habits. I was ready for a seismic shift, to try new things and see how I can better optimize my life so I can better show up for my friends, family and my business.

Join me every two weeks as we embark on something NEW. You can find the challenges at www.leilaadnani.com -- if you're looking to change up your 2023, I encourage you to join me.

XO, Leila

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There's no denying it – sometimes a good insult is just what we need to get motivated. Sure, compliments make us feel confident and can boost morale in the short-term, but with a well-crafted insult, you'll dig down deep and find that extra spark of motivation. Insults may sting in the moment, but they can also help us to push past our perceived limits and reach new heights that other words of encouragement simply couldn't provide. So don't be too quick to brush off an insult – potentially, that's exactly what you need to unlock your greatest potential - atleast for me it was.

Today I am sharing the top insults that motivated me to be BETTER. 

XO, Leila 

Hey there, I'm Leila and I am so glad you've decided to tune in.

Over the next 50 weeks I will be embarking on 25 new challenges to create a new life operating system for myself.

When I woke up in 2023, I felt bored of myself, my routines and my habits. I was ready for a seismic shift, to try new things and see how I can better optimize my life so I can better show up for my friends, family and my business.

Join me every two weeks as we embark on something NEW. You can find the challenges at www.leilaadnani.com -- if you're looking to change up your 2023, I encourage you to join me.

XO, Leila

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The journey to creating and building self-confidence can be a daunting one. It involves a lot of trial and error as well as personal growth. There will be moments of fear and doubt that you must overcome, times when you need to find the courage to keep going, and a lot of learning along the way. It's important to approach your journey with patience and understanding, taking time to reflect on where you are right now and what steps you need to take in order to reach your goals. 

Always remember that nobody is perfect, but with dedication and hard work, it is possible to create long-lasting self confidence that will shape who you are as an individual.

It truly is a lifelong journey. 

Hey there, I'm Leila and I am so glad you've decided to tune in.

Over the next 50 weeks I will be embarking on 25 new challenges to create a new life operating system for myself.

When I woke up in 2023, I felt bored of myself, my routines and my habits. I was ready for a seismic shift, to try new things and see how I can better optimize my life so I can better show up for my friends, family and my business.

Join me every two weeks as we embark on something NEW. You can find the challenges at www.leilaadnani.com -- if you're looking to change up your 2023, I encourage you to join me.

XO, Leila

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Navigating heartbreak is an aspect of life we all have to endure, its pretty much a non negotiable. As I am working through these challenges, I am reflecting on the mechanisms I've adopted over the years to better equip myself to move forward. 

This week we are discussing my best tactics for overcoming heartbreak + how I survived a toxic 3 year relationship that taught me many lessons on having a broken heart. 

Hey there, I'm Leila and I am so glad you've decided to tune in.

Over the next 50 weeks I will be embarking on 25 new challenges to create a new life operating system for myself.

When I woke up in 2023, I felt bored of myself, my routines and my habits. I was ready for a seismic shift, to try new things and see how I can better optimize my life so I can better show up for my friends, family and my business.

Join me every two weeks as we embark on something NEW. You can find the challenges at www.leilaadnani.com -- if you're looking to change up your 2023, I encourage you to join me.

XO, Leila

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Do you ever wonder how some people seem to start something and progress so quickly and think, why not me? Why is it so simple for them? From what I've learned -- it boils back down to one MAJOR thing -- self sabotage. 

Self-sabotage is an insidious behavior that can be incredibly damaging. It saps your confidence, kills your momentum and waste both your money and time. On a deeper level, it undermines your personal growth and prevents you from achieving the goals that you have set for yourself. By engaging in self-sabotaging behavior, you are essentially placing limits on how far you can go and how much success you can enjoy so let's stop that shit, right here and right now. 

Cool? 

Hey there, I'm Leila and I am so glad you've decided to tune in.

Over the next 50 weeks I will be embarking on 25 new challenges to create a new life operating system for myself.

When I woke up in 2023, I felt bored of myself, my routines and my habits. I was ready for a seismic shift, to try new things and see how I can better optimize my life so I can better show up for my friends, family and my business.

Join me every two weeks as we embark on something NEW. You can find the challenges at www.leilaadnani.com -- if you're looking to change up your 2023, I encourage you to join me.

XO, Leila

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As you know, I took last week off from the content train and the challenge life. I endured a devastating loss which really took my head out of the game for a few. But it made me realize a few things...we all want to reach our fullest potential and become our best selves, but the journey towards self-optimization isn’t always easy. There will be days when we feel like we’re crushing it, and days where we feel like giving up. The important thing is to keep pushing through and remind ourselves of why we set out in the first place. We have to be kind to ourselves and accept that life can be unpredictable at times, but with each challenge or setback, there are new opportunities for growth. Life is an ever-evolving journey – one that can bring us infinite joy if we just remain focused on our destination.

So back on track we go with saving money everyday (you decide the amount, I am doing $50) and then investing it at the end. Cheers to building strong money habits.

Hey there, I'm Leila and I am so glad you've decided to tune in.

Over the next 50 weeks I will be embarking on 25 new challenges to create a new life operating system for myself.

When I woke up in 2023, I felt bored of myself, my routines and my habits. I was ready for a seismic shift, to try new things and see how I can better optimize my life so I can better show up for my friends, family and my business.

Join me every two weeks as we embark on something NEW. You can find the challenges at www.leilaadnani.com -- if you're looking to change up your 2023, I encourage you to join me.

XO, Leila

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Where we place our attention is where #growth occurs. So if you want to change in a positive way, stay focused on that change. 

When we fixate on negative things, we attract more similar experiences. For ex: one of our clients decided to retire and thus will no longer be working with us which is a major bummer but also, not something to fixate on. Clients come and go — so the focus shifts to attracting new. 

Same is true for making physical changes. If I focus on abs, eventually I will see them. 

Challenge 4 technically kicks off today, but I’m starting it officially tomorrow (because that’s when the meals arrive lol) 

Let’s do the damn thing. 

Hey there, I'm Leila and I am so glad you've decided to tune in.

Over the next 50 weeks I will be embarking on 25 new challenges to create a new life operating system for myself.

When I woke up in 2023, I felt bored of myself, my routines and my habits. I was ready for a seismic shift, to try new things and see how I can better optimize my life so I can better show up for my friends, family and my business.

Join me every two weeks as we embark on something NEW. You can find the challenges at www.leilaadnani.com -- if you're looking to change up your 2023, I encourage you to join me.

XO, Leila

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Thinking about the #habits that hold us back and keep us stuck either exactly where we are OR in mediocrity. 

I’ve never wanted to live a mediocre life — but how we personally define mediocre is different to everyone. 

The definition of mediocre = of only moderate quality. Which leaves a lot of room for interpretation. 

Once I defined what #mediocre looked like for me - I was able to review how I personally operate and what habits + routines keep me in that place. 

The entire purpose of this challenge is to level up how you live so that you’re maximizing each and every moment of life. 

The future isn’t guaranteed - we only have now. 

What habits are holding YOU back? 

Hey there, I'm Leila and I am so glad you've decided to tune in.

Over the next 50 weeks I will be embarking on 25 new challenges to create a new life operating system for myself.

When I woke up in 2023, I felt bored of myself, my routines and my habits. I was ready for a seismic shift, to try new things and see how I can better optimize my life so I can better show up for my friends, family and my business.

Join me every two weeks as we embark on something NEW. You can find the challenges at www.leilaadnani.com -- if you're looking to change up your 2023, I encourage you to join me.

XO, Leila

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Welcome to challenge 3 - 14 days of 100 crunches or sit-ups + 2 minutes of #meditation daily. The purpose behind this challenge is to combine a mental habit with a physical habit. It's not about abs in two weeks (although that would be great) it's about doing something and not making any excuses for skipping.

100 sit-ups takes under 90 seconds to complete. 
2 minutes of meditation is 2 minutes of your day. 

We've got this, let's go!

Hey there, I'm Leila and I am so glad you've decided to tune in.

Over the next 50 weeks I will be embarking on 25 new challenges to create a new life operating system for myself.

When I woke up in 2023, I felt bored of myself, my routines and my habits. I was ready for a seismic shift, to try new things and see how I can better optimize my life so I can better show up for my friends, family and my business.

Join me every two weeks as we embark on something NEW. You can find the challenges at www.leilaadnani.com -- if you're looking to change up your 2023, I encourage you to join me.

XO, Leila

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A tough week personally + some reflection and reviews on the book progression. 
So far I've completed:
Good to Great by Jim Collins and was bored to pieces 
Wealth Habits by Candy Valentino and took a lot away from it 
Almost done with The Blessed Life by Robert Morris - love this one
Half way through Becoming Supernatural by Joe Dispenza -- OBSESSED so far. 
Still to go: 
The Gift of Struggle 
The Pyschology of Money
Primal Branding

Share what you're reading, shoot me a message and connect at www.leilaadnani.com to see what challenges we have coning next!

Hey there, I'm Leila and I am so glad you've decided to tune in.

Over the next 50 weeks I will be embarking on 25 new challenges to create a new life operating system for myself.

When I woke up in 2023, I felt bored of myself, my routines and my habits. I was ready for a seismic shift, to try new things and see how I can better optimize my life so I can better show up for my friends, family and my business.

Join me every two weeks as we embark on something NEW. You can find the challenges at www.leilaadnani.com -- if you're looking to change up your 2023, I encourage you to join me.

XO, Leila

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We are embarking on challenge 2/25! Join me for two weeks as I read 7 books in 14 days. 
Pick whatever sounds good to you, here's what I am reading: 
Wealth Habits by Candy Valentino
Primal Branding by Patrick Hanlon
The Gift of Struggle by Bobby Herrera
The Blessed Life by Robert Morris
The Psychology of Money by Morgan Housel 
Becoming Supernatural by Joe Dispenza
Good to Great by Jim Collins 

Share what you're reading, shoot me a message and connect at www.leilaadnani.com to see what challenges we have coning next!

Hey there, I'm Leila and I am so glad you've decided to tune in.

Over the next 50 weeks I will be embarking on 25 new challenges to create a new life operating system for myself.

When I woke up in 2023, I felt bored of myself, my routines and my habits. I was ready for a seismic shift, to try new things and see how I can better optimize my life so I can better show up for my friends, family and my business.

Join me every two weeks as we embark on something NEW. You can find the challenges at www.leilaadnani.com -- if you're looking to change up your 2023, I encourage you to join me.

XO, Leila

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The midway mark of the #selfoptimizationexperiment challenge 1 - today I address the personal struggles I am facing with staying positive while manifesting + I announce a new challenge for the final week of #manifestations. 

Hey there, I'm Leila and I am so glad you've decided to tune in.

Over the next 50 weeks I will be embarking on 25 new challenges to create a new life operating system for myself.

When I woke up in 2023, I felt bored of myself, my routines and my habits. I was ready for a seismic shift, to try new things and see how I can better optimize my life so I can better show up for my friends, family and my business.

Join me every two weeks as we embark on something NEW. You can find the challenges at www.leilaadnani.com -- if you're looking to change up your 2023, I encourage you to join me.

XO, Leila

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The kick off: welcome to the 14 day manifestation challenge. This challenge is an incredible opportunity to realign and refocus your mindset for manifesting your dreams. For two weeks, you will write down affirmations and gratitudes, speak aloud your manifestations, and make daily to-do lists - all of which are designed to help increase productivity, stay focused on what you want instead of what you don't want, and grow what you focus on by keeping it positive. It's time to take control of manifesting the life that you desire so JOIN ME! 

All challenges can be found www.leilaadnani.com 

manifestation

Hey there, I'm Leila and I am so glad you've decided to tune in.

Over the next 50 weeks I will be embarking on 25 new challenges to create a new life operating system for myself.

When I woke up in 2023, I felt bored of myself, my routines and my habits. I was ready for a seismic shift, to try new things and see how I can better optimize my life so I can better show up for my friends, family and my business.

Join me every two weeks as we embark on something NEW. You can find the challenges at www.leilaadnani.com -- if you're looking to change up your 2023, I encourage you to join me.

XO, Leila

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Hey there, I'm Leila and I am so glad you've decided to tune in.

Over the next 50 weeks I will be embarking on 25 new challenges to create a new life operating system for myself.

When I woke up in 2023, I felt bored of myself, my routines and my habits. I was ready for a seismic shift, to try new things and see how I can better optimize my life so I can better show up for my friends, family and my business.

Join me every two weeks as we embark on something NEW. You can find the challenges at www.leilaadnani.com -- if you're looking to change up your 2023, I encourage you to join me. 

XO, Leila