Every Mom Needs a Friend: Recent Episodes
Anna Duffy
On the Every Mom Needs a Friend podcast, Anna, a mom of two who is embarking on her 4th cross-country move with her husband, will take up a bite-sized chunk of your day to chat about things that all moms go through and how she’s worked through them. She’s been lonely, she’s had to go through big decisions, and she hasn’t always enjoyed life, but she’s made it to today. So that’s what she’ll talk about, her “today.”
Ever wondered how different your life might be if you had made different choices? Join me, Anna, as I reflect on the recent severe weather in the United States and its impact, particularly focusing on a hurricane affecting Florida. From a rain-soaked office, I share my personal plans to brave the storm and attend a Noah Kahan concert. Together, we'll journey through some intriguing "what if" scenarios related to our past moves. Imagine the alternate realities if we had stayed in our college town or lived longer in cities like New Hampshire, Dallas, or Seattle. We'll weigh the pros and cons of each location and appreciate the perfect timing and unique experiences each move brought into our lives.
Shifting gears, we tackle the ever-complicated topic of school choices for our children, pondering the merits of public, private, and homeschooling options, and how these decisions align with our family values. I'll also share the incredible sense of community and fulfillment I've found through starting and participating in a cookbook club. Drawing from my experiences in Seattle and Louisville, I'll offer practical tips for organizing and maintaining a small, meaningful group. Whether you're looking to start your own cookbook club or curious about how to keep it thriving, this episode provides both inspiration and actionable advice. Don't forget to check out the accompanying blog post on the "Every Mom Needs a Friend" website for even deeper insights!
As always, please join me over on instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) to talk with me in real time! Love y'all deeeeep xoxoxoxox
What happens when you prioritize family over career and make a bold move back to your roots? Join us in today's episode as Christopher makes his heartfelt return to the podcast, and we share the joys and struggles of our recent relocation to Louisville. Settle into our charming 1920s house with us as we navigate the emotional highs and lows of moving with our daughters, and find solace in the stability of our marriage, careers, and faith. We reflect on the significance of making this life-changing decision on our own terms, even amidst ongoing construction and countless adjustments.
In this episode, we open up about the intense emotions and relief that came from choosing family over a career-driven lifestyle. From the critical conversations that led us back home to the poignant moments of moving, we explore how this transition has strengthened our relationships and reshaped our communication with friends. Listen as we recount the bittersweet journey, share personal anecdotes, and discuss the impact of embracing the present while planning for our long-term home. This episode offers an intimate glimpse into the complex and emotional process of making major life decisions as a family.
As always, please join me over on instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) to talk with me in real time! Love y'all deeeeep xoxoxoxox
Can a cross-country move be both the most stressful and enlightening experience of your life? Join me as I open up about the emotional rollercoaster of my recent relocation, and the personal hardships that made recording episodes this past spring particularly challenging. You'll hear all about the tough news and family health concerns that left me grappling with one of the darkest periods of my life, and how our decision to move was driven by a deep desire to be closer to family and provide a traditional environment for our children. Through moments of sadness and the pursuit of gratitude, I'll share the lessons learned from a summer filled with transformative change.
Take a ride with us through the highs and lows of house hunting, from falling hard for a dream home riddled with structural issues to finding peace in our current construction zone. Despite camping in our own home, we're grateful for the support from friends and family that keeps us going. For visual updates, follow us on Instagram and stay tuned for more heartfelt insights about our beautiful 100-year-old home. xooxoxox
As always, please join me over on instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) to talk with me in real time! Love y'all deeeeep xoxoxoxox
We. Are. BACK!!! Thank you for your unwavering support—I’m thrilled to be back and can’t wait to share more of our journey with you all on Instagram and beyond!
SEASON 4 Y'ALL!! xoxoxoxo4
As always, please join me over on instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) to talk with me in real time! Love y'all deeeeep xoxoxoxox
Ever found yourself knee-deep in unfinished tasks, feeling like a browser with far too many tabs open? My latest heart-to-heart explores the amusing irony of my struggle with 'closing the loop,' where I take you through the winding paths of a year's worth of thoughts and the pivotal role of completion in our multifarious lives.
Now switch gears with me to the profound impact of communication and the fruits of the Spirit on marriage—an intertwining of personal anecdotes and spiritual guidance. Grasp how a simple act like holding hands amidst discord can be a lifeline of understanding, and get a glimpse of what's brewing with an upcoming series on the transformative power of perspective. So, let's raise our coffee cups to the art of reconnection and the anticipation of where we might be led next; this conversation is one you'll want to circle back to time and again.
Even though If Gathering celebrated a decade of uplifting women in faith, I have to say it was the tapestry of friendships that shone brightest in my heart. As always the worship and speakers were superb, but it was the fellowship that flourished among old friends and new that I'll remember most.
I'm super sad that we won't be able to get together in 2025, but rest assured, 2026 we will be back together and I hope all y'all join me!
Love y'all deep xoxoxoxo
Even as a self-proclaimed extrovert, I confess to moments of hesitation in my ability to converse effectively, and together, we'll unpack the strategies to not only improve our chit-chat but turn it into an art form.
Ready to disarm social anxiety and prepare like a pro for any interaction? We're breaking down the Christopher technique of inquiry, a method designed to peel back the layers of one's experiences and forge genuine connections that go beyond surface-level exchanges. From the historical significance of the 'gift of gab' to the contemporary need for finding common ground, our conversation is a treasure chest of anecdotes, humor, and the shared pleasure of human connection. Whether you consider yourself a social butterfly or someone looking to spread their conversational wings, this episode offers insights and techniques that promise to revitalize how you engage with the world around you.
Have you ever found yourself nodding along in agreement, your lips saying 'yes' when your heart screamed 'no'? Join me as I peel back the layers of my own 'yes' habit, revealing the raw struggle of a chronic people pleaser. Together, we embark on a personal odyssey to understand the why's and how's of setting boundaries and the transformative potential of learning to say 'no'. Our conversation leads us down the path of introspection, examining not only my quest for external validation but the deeper spiritual implications that influence our need to be accepted. We strip away the facade of selflessness, bringing to light the true nature of people pleasing – a pursuit often rooted in avoiding conflict and the discomfort that accompanies being authentic.
Hear me that I am totally working through this alongside you. And I share with you vulnerably how I have struggled bad with this in the past and how there has to be an end at some point. Especially with kids and a marriage at stake.
So let's chat about people pleasing! What are your thoughts? Head over to the instagram after today's episode to talk about it with me!
xoxoxo love y'all deep!
Feeling overwhelmed by life's relentless pressures, I found myself at a crossroads, questioning the joy in recording our conversations and sharing my journey with you. The raw truth is, like many of you, I've been running through dreamlike mud, feeling stuck, and at times, losing my grip on the spiritual grounding that has always anchored me. Today, I open up about those intimate struggles, the mental barriers, and the transformative power of faith that guides us through. As we discuss the resilience symbolized by a cherished willow tree angel and the Japanese art of kintsugi, I invite you to find solace in the idea that our brokenness can pave the way to a more precious existence, enriched by divine grace.
This episode also captures the palpable excitement from the annual IF Gathering, an event that never fails to enrich my spirit with insightful wisdom. As I recount the moments that struck a chord with me, I extend an invitation for you to accompany me on this enlightening journey over the coming weeks. We'll navigate the complexities of life's trials together, celebrating small victories and seeking the peace that faith assures us, even when the path ahead seems daunting. Join me, and let's uplift each other with stories of strength, healing, and the shared anticipation of growth that lies within our community.
Love y'all DEEP oxoxoxoxox
Life's curveballs have a way of testing our mettle, and this past week was no exception. Join me as I recount the rollercoaster of events that began with the excitement of my lifelong best friend's visit, and quickly escalated into a maelstrom of weather woes, household disasters, and health scares. From the laughter-filled anticipation of snow tubing and attending BSF, to the unexpected burst pipe and school cancellations, to my youngest daughter Poppy's alarming illness—this episode is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit. As I share our family's journey through these trials, culminating in a contagious bug that swept through the household, you'll hear how we embraced the chaos, finding strength and humor in the face of adversity.
Looking beyond the tumult, there's a smorgasbord of joy on the horizon. My taste buds are tingling at the thought of bringing Ina Garten's mouthwatering tomato crostata to a gathering of fellow food aficionados. The weeks ahead are brimming with promise—a family reunion of sorts at my cousin's performance in "Frozen," an invitation to don my detective hat at a murder mystery party, and the delights of a Galentine's celebration clashing with Super Bowl Sunday. And let's not forget the warm, engaging discussions to come at the women's conference in Dallas and the personal growth I'm ready to embrace. So, pour yourself a comforting cup and join me in savoring not just the culinary concoctions inspired by the Barefoot Contessa, but the rich tapestry of experiences and changes that lie ahead, all shared with heartfelt gratitude for your companionship on this journey.
It was during one of those quiet moments of reflection that the "maybe" story was shared in BSF, unexpectedly anchoring itself in my heart. I'm thrilled to bring that same epiphany to you, as we explore the art of finding joy and peace in the whirlwind of life's ever-changing scenarios. Throughout our discussion, I weave in the tranquility and steadfast faith I've found in Jesus, a theme that took root in my soul during the previous year's If Gathering. Together, we ponder Psalm 23, considering how our individual journeys through life's peaks and valleys can transform our understanding of this scripture's eternal comfort.
As sunlight breaks through the dawn, we're reminded in 'Morning Rest' of the fresh hope each new day brings, much like the promise found in Lamentations 3:22-23. These verses have been a lighthouse to me amidst the storms, offering clarity and solace when I've needed it most. I invite you into this intimate space where we appreciate the constancy of the Lord's love and the importance of greeting each day as a clean slate. Share in this heartfelt exchange and carry the conversation over to Instagram, where our community continues to grow. Until we meet again next week, may you bask in the assurance of God's unwavering faithfulness and may our shared stories fill you with anticipation for the journey ahead.
Have you ever felt the slow build-up of resentment in your relationship, like a silent tide rising between you and your partner? Christopher and I confront this head-on in our latest heart-to-heart discussion, revealing the emotional challenges that external pressures and frequent work travel can impose on our family life. Together, we peel back the layers of these complex feelings, unearthing the strategies that help us maintain a vibrant connection amidst the everyday trials of marriage. Our conversation is an open book, showcasing the importance of tackling discontentment and cherishing the joy found in the day-to-day moments we share.
Navigating the delicate interplay of love and respect in a marriage isn't just about knowing the steps; it's about feeling the rhythm of your partner's needs. We challenge the conventional wisdom served up in traditional counseling, introducing a fresh perspective with our quadrant system to help visualize the balance of love and respect needed in effective communication. Delving into how shared traumas can forge deeper bonds and the role personality types play in our interactions, our discussion is a dance of empathy and understanding, offering a new beat for couples to move to.
Ever noticed how a change in tone can transform a simple request from nagging to nurturing? In this candid exploration, I share how the nuances of our voices are like punctuation in our spoken words, dramatically altering the meaning behind them. Through laughter and lighthearted examples, we demonstrate the astonishing impact tone has on preventing negative spirals and encouraging mutual understanding. As we close this episode, I invite you to join me in a pledge to self-reflect, to minimize resentment, and to embrace the enriching connections that make life truly worth living.
As the new year unfolds, I find myself standing at a crossroads of self-improvement, carrying a heart full of resolutions and a mind brimming with strategies for intentional living. Join me as we navigate the art of planning for a future that cherishes our well-being and the precious moments with our loved ones. We'll explore how to tackle the silent battles against negative thoughts and the emotional baggage that can impede our growth. This candid conversation isn't just about setting goals; it's about facing our innermost fears, choosing empathy over judgment, and making peace with the echoes of our past.
Every year brings its own set of challenges and learnings, and this time, I'm eager to share a transformative tale of resilience borrowed from my father's wisdom—a guiding light through professional storms. The episode is a tapestry of heartfelt stories, biblical inspirations, and the quest for a guiding word that anchors us through the year's ebbs and flows. As I reveal "home" as my personal beacon, I invite you to find solace in your chosen word, fostering connections and planting seeds for a future where opportunities blossom not just for us, but for the generations to come. Let’s raise a toast to personal milestones and the collective journey ahead, one story at a time.
Every Christmas, my family gathers around, each taking a turn to stumble through the grand words of Luke 2, etching a tradition that's as much about laughter as it is about the miraculous tale it tells. This Christmas Day, as I cozy up with a heart brimming with joy, I'm inviting you into that precious circle. Let's share the deep-seated warmth and love that only this time of year can bring, reflecting on the true meaning of our celebrations—the birth of our Savior. Picture us together, you in your festive jammies, coffee in hand, surrounded by love, as we give thanks and revel in the hope of promises yet to come.
Today's episode is a heartfelt journey through memory lane, sprinkled with chuckles at Christmases past, and a reading from Luke 2 that might just bring a tear to your eye or a smile to your face. It's a story that never grows old, no matter the occasional trip over a word or two. You'll hear the echoes of a heavenly chorus and feel the peace and joy of a narrative that has stood the test of time. So, settle in for a tale that's been told for millennia, and let's celebrate the Christmas story together. Merry Christmas to each of you, dear listeners, and may your day be as splendid as the story we cherish.
As Christmas Eve casts a serene glow over our hearts, we gather to honor the profound message of love that is central to this sacred season. With the lighting of the fourth Advent candle, we immerse ourselves in a reflection on love's greatest manifestations: from the divine love of Jesus' birth and sacrifice, to the steadfast love Joseph held for Mary, and the deep, nurturing love of Mary for her child. This episode, filled with the warmth of holiday spirit, invites you to explore these acts of love against the backdrop of cherished scriptures like 1 Corinthians 13:13 and John 3:16, pillars of faith that have withstood the test of time.
Embracing the theme that Jesus is the light of the world, this conversation extends an invitation to step away from life's distractions and focus on the true, unwavering light of our Lord and Savior. We share heartfelt experiences of bringing dark secrets to light and discuss the liberation found in surrendering our burdens to Jesus. Join us for an intimate and uplifting journey through the powerful emotions of the season, and let's celebrate the joy and solace found in the quiet, light-filled moments of Christmas Eve.
As Christmas Eve Eve unfolds, I'm wrapped in the warmth of family and the profound spiritual legacy that's been handed down to me. My heart is full as I share stories of my mom’s influence on my faith journey, reflecting on how her devotion and personalized Bible studies during my youth have shaped my path to an intimate relationship with Jesus. This Podmas Day Ten episode is a celebration of generational blessings and the indelible impact of family on our spiritual lives, set against the backdrop of 2nd Timothy 1:5 and its message of faith that spans generations.
Join us for a heartfelt conversation that explores the nuances of growing up in the church, the personal discovery of faith, and how an individual walk with Jesus can be a lifelong pursuit filled with curiosity and a desire to emulate His love. This episode is not just an intimate look at familial ties to faith, but an invitation to anyone seeking to deepen their connection with their spirituality during this Advent season and beyond. Come be inspired by the stories, reflections, and encouragement that this special time with my parents has stirred within me.
Christmas birthdays can often feel overshadowed by the holiday cheer, but not on my watch—especially when it's my little Kitty's third trip around the sun. We're celebrating her birthday with the same vigor and sparkle as a snowflake glistening under the winter sun, acknowledging the unique joy each child brings into the world. In our latest heartwarming session, we're wrapping you up in a cozy blanket of reflections on parenting, birth order, and the distinctive personality traits that make our children who they are, much like the individual beauty of snowflakes. All while reminiscing about snowy landscapes that transform from New Hampshire's guaranteed white Christmases to Seattle's occasional flurries.
We're also inviting you on a whimsical exploration into the world of snowflakes—their symmetrical splendor and their unparalleled uniqueness. Christopher's musings on individuality inspire us to see our little ones as perfect, singular pieces of a larger, more beautiful whole. So, as we celebrate the festive season and my daughter's birthday, let's marvel at the magic of each snowflake and child, recognizing the wonder in their differences and the joy in our shared human experience. Bundle up for a journey that promises to warm your heart, no matter the weather outside.
This makes me think of Romans 12:4 "... we have many members in one body, but all the members do not have the same function."
And what a mark of our maker. How sweet that even the most intimate details of our lives, like a microscopic snowflake are important to God.
“But now ask the beasts, and they will teach you;
And the birds of the air, and they will tell you;
Or speak to the earth, and it will teach you;
And the fish of the sea will explain to you.
Who among all these does not know
That the hand of the Lord has done this,
In whose hand is the life of every living thing,
And the breath of all mankind?
— " Job 12:7-10
But ultimately in this advent season as we expectantly hope and wait for our Lord to come again, we are met with the reality of our personal struggles with sin. So for today let’s remember God’s promise despite our seemligly hopeless state:
“Come now, let us reason together,” says the LORD. “Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red as crimson, they shall be like wool.” Isaiah 1:18
xoxox love y'all deep
As our home transforms with the twinkle of holiday lights and the murmur of cherished carols, I invite you to a cozy corner of the Duffy household where the spirit of the season is in full swing. Amidst the merry chaos, my husband and I find solace in our morning devotions, a practice that anchors our days and strengthens our family bond. With the warmth of a freshly brewed cup of coffee in hand, we navigate the excitement of preparing our girls for the day ahead, all while carving out those much-needed moments of rest. This episode unwraps the true essence of holiday routines, the joy of everyday life, and the precious opportunity to craft new friendships and memories during this enchanting yet demanding time of year.
There’s something profoundly refreshing about reflecting on scripture during Advent, and in this heartfelt episode, I share how we draw closer to God through the pages of the Bible, finding guidance in verses from James and Jeremiah. These sacred words remind us of the transformative power of seeking God with a sincere heart. Together, let’s ponder the state of our spiritual journeys and embrace the encouragement that resonates through biblical wisdom. As we pause our busy lives to celebrate the holiday season, I extend a heartfelt invitation to continue nurturing our faith, rejoicing in the love, and eagerly anticipating the ongoing conversations that enrich our lives. Join me as we explore these themes, filled with anticipation for the growth and understanding that lie ahead.
Love y'all deep! xoxoxo
When the holiday season rolls around, our homes become more than just living spaces; they transform into hubs of warmth, laughter, and memories in the making. This year, as I welcome my parents into our abode for an extended stay, I've been reflecting on the true essence of holiday hospitality and the profound joy it brings. Gather 'round, friends, and let the spirit of the season wash over you through my tales of intimate dinners, the magic of morning coffees, and the hearty laughter that echoes through the halls when loved ones are near.
In our latest heartwarming chat, we peel back the layers of what makes these gatherings so meaningful. It's not just the act of sharing a meal, but the deeper connection fostered by inviting fresh faces to our tables—those who haven't journeyed with us from the beginning but join us now, weaving their stories into the tapestry of our lives. I also share my personal evolution from a hostess focused on perfection to one who cherishes harmony and togetherness above all. Sprinkled with practical tips for making any guest feel at home, this conversation is an invitation to open your doors and hearts with a renewed sense of purpose this festive season.
Like the feeling of being warm and welcomed in my moms home starts from the moment you enter but it’s how she moves from person to person making sure everyone is taken care of, or how she somehow cleans a kitchen without anyone noticing because everyone is so relaxed. Or how she’s quick to drop everything to take a phone call from me - that's hospitality from a distance. And I think this has been learned, because it’s in her bones to be a busy bee, but she has worked hard to see people how God sees them, full of intrinsic value in the image of God and full of purpose and importance. So that’s your challenge today my gals, seek to host people like Jesus would. And don’t forget the most important part and initial start and that’s inviting them in.
1 Timothy 5:10
10 and is well known for her good deeds, such as bringing up children, showing hospitality, washing the feet of the Lord’s people, helping those in trouble and devoting herself to all kinds of good deeds.
xoxoxo love y'all deep
As the holiday season wraps its arms around us, I can't help but reminisce about Christmases past and the quiet moments of reflection that left me awake. In today's Podmas episode, I peel back the layers of festivity to reveal the raw emotion that can accompany this time of year. Through my own narrative of navigating the ebbs and flows of joy and solitude, I connect with all who have felt the sting of loneliness amid the season's cheer. We confront the haunting ghost of FOMO and discuss the transformative journey from feeling out of place at holiday events to discovering new communities and creating connections that resonate with our lives now.
Turning to the resonating comfort found within the pages of scripture, I draw upon Psalm 118:5, weaving its timeless message of hope into our Advent reflections. This verse, a beacon during times when we feel "hard pressed," promises a path to a "spacious place," reminding us of the strength and solace that can be found in our faith. I invite you to join me in a candid conversation about the power of these biblical words and the deep reassurance they offer, not just during the holidays, but in every challenging chapter of our lives. Together, we embrace this season with open hearts, affirming our hope and finding peace in the knowledge that we are never truly alone.
love y'all deep xoxoxoxoxo
Enjoy this one - it's lighthearted and I'm sure you'll learn something - I did!!
Enjoy today's devo from Isaiah 9:6 through 7 and it’s:
For to us a child is born, to us a son is given; and the government shall be upon his shoulder, and his name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Of the increase of his government and of peace there will be no end, on the throne of David and over his kingdom, to establish it and to uphold it with justice and with righteousness from this time forth and forevermore.
Love y'all deep xoxoxoxoxo
Today we're lighting the pink candle, a symbol of the divine joy that transcends our worldly worries. We're revisiting the enlightening episode, "Joy Begets Joy," reflecting on God's blessings that often go unnoticed. Also today's big question is a fun one - what's your favorite animated kids' movie?
And as for the concept of Joy, I love how the gospel coalition describes this when they said “God designed our hearts to desire what he desires. We were made to find joy in what he finds joy in, be disgusted by what he’s disgusted by, be saddened by what grieves him, be angered by what angers him, and fear the things he identifies as threatening. In other words, our desires—and the emotions expressed by them—worship God as they imitate his.”
And I think of the psalm that talks about For his anger lasts only a moment, but his favor lasts a lifetime! Weeping may last through the night, but joy comes with the morning. (Psalm 30:5)
But for today I really want to share my life verse because I think that part of joy can only be unlocked through the desperate realization of our condition and the painful walking through the storms of life. And I was met with this beautiful scripture in my darkest days following our miscarriage and some pretty ugly moments with God where I discarded and began to reconstruct my faith and so our devo for today is Lamentations 3:22-23 and that’s "Because of the LORD's great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness."
xoxoxo love y'all deep!
December is the busiest and quickest month of the year, and on top of that Christopher went out of town for one week of it (but to give him immense credit he took a redeye so he could be there for bedtime and flew home as quickly as he could, sweet man!)
And Christopher and I do prioritize date nights - making sure to not miss a week without having precious babysitter time and because of that we actually have a line item on our budget for babysitters, but so for today I wanted to talk with you about holiday date nights because in my opinion they are among the best time of the year for date nights (maybe behind summer date nights? Up for debate)
And I had an old boss encourage me to prioritize my marriage among a season of lots of work travel because he felt passionately that if you weren’t growing closer together you are growing apart and you can set up as much boundaries and fail-safes but if you rely too much on those then you will all of a sudden pick your head up and not even recognize who you’re married to. So in this season of busyness be sure to not lose sight of the people in your life versus the things you do or have.
So our motivation for that comes from Mark, but I believe this is quoted in other parts of the Bible but it’s from mark 10:6-9 and it it says: But at the beginning of creation God ‘made them male and female.’‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife,and the two will become one flesh.’So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”
xoxoxo love y'all deep!
This holiday special episode is all about the joy of holiday cooking and baking, btw are you a cook or a baker? Also, we talk through the ins and outs of my newly formed cookbook club – a delicious mix of friendship and culinary exploration.
We end with working through the commonly used story from the Bible when working through womanly duties and that's the story of Mary vs. Martha. Join me in the discussion around who was right and who was wrong... And although Jesus calls us to commune with him, I could find a way to empathize with both sides!
So here’s our devo verse for today from Psalm 27:4, "One thing have I asked of the LORD, that I will seek after: that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the LORD and to inquire in his temple."
xoxoxox love y'all deep!
PSA: we talk about Santa today! But join me as we unpack this idea as we also (and more importantly) want to focus on Jesus birth during this time.
Today's Devo: Ephesians 3:8-9 says, “For by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God; not as a result of works, so that no one may boast.”
xoxox love y'all! Join me on insta (@everymomneedsafriend) to talk with me about your thoughts on today's episode!
Guess what's back y'all! Podmas!
I'm thrilled to bring you the second annual Podmas celebration, a special place where we as EMNAF gals can candidly discuss life, faith, parenting, and marriage as we countdown the 12 days to Christmas.
Expect bite-sized, content-rich episodes, each resonating with a particular life topic, sprinkled with fun and Christmas cheer. Every day will conclude with a devotional to start your day on the right note. So, I'll see you tomorrow for the first day of Podmas! Let's ring in the holiday season together!
Love y'all deep xoxox
The cutest hubby is back on the pod! Join Christopher and me as we reveal our decade-long tale of growth among the chaos of parenting. We talk about how moms set the emotional temperature of the home like a thermostat, while fathers gauge it like a thermometer. We also dive into how we balance our strengths and weaknesses in this dance of parenting and marriage. We're no experts, but we believe understanding and respecting each other's skills and shortcomings helps us maintain harmony in our relationship.
And I invite you to join me on our instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) so we can connect further. Love y'all ddeeeepp xoxoxox
Happy Bonus Episode!!
Have you ever met someone who you instantly want to be friends with? Ashley Bailey is that kind of person. A beloved leader in the MOPS community, her warmth and vivacious spirit have touched many lives, including mine. Join us as we journey back to our first meeting and celebrate our shared passion for connecting with women.
Also, Ash and I got the opportunity to go to the IF Gathering together this year so it was a blast to recount that along with a discussion based around Jennie Allen's book, "Find Your People."
Join us today and be sure to connect with me over on insta (@everymomneedsafriend) to catch up all about what's in store for December on the pod!
Love y'all deeeep xoxoxoxoxo
Ever felt overwhelmed by the multitude of choices you make daily? We'll kickstart this episode by challenging you to declutter your closet, a simple task but effective in boosting confidence and reducing mental clutter related to decision-making. Drawing from my experiences at BSF, I'll share how embracing God's love for order can bring clarity and peace in everyday decisions.
Thanks for listening to today's episode and catch up with me on instagram (@everymomneedsafriend)! Love y'all deep xoxoxoxoxo
Join me in today's conversation as we talk about choosing joy and the challenge of viewing life through a God-lense.
James 1:2-4: Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.
Refer back to this episode if you want a chuckle: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/every-mom-needs-a-friend/id1570365437?i=1000549505212
Love y'all deep xooxoxoxo
A Mini-Episode to bridge the gap! I’m on girls trip and I’m praying it’s full of friendship, laughter, and much-needed vitamin D.
Today I chat with you about how it’s anxiety-producing to maintain long-distance relationships and the deep desire to one day be together in Louisville.
I’ll share more in an upcoming episode about this trip, but until then, sending you all love, warmth, and a whole lot of Florida sunshine!
Love y’all deep xoxoxoxo
Have you ever felt the gnawing pangs of loneliness? So many times in my life through moves and lost friendships, I too have confronted those cold moments of isolation. In this episode we talk about how our desires can be as fickle as the wind, how we yearn for solitude amidst chaos only to long for companionship in stillness.
The path to understanding loneliness comes in many shades - social, emotional, and existential. I've grappled with the awkward dance of forming friendship circles, the huge shifts of friend groups during college, and the lingering self-doubts these experiences leave behind.
But through it all, I've discovered the powerful connections we form when we open up about our loneliness. This episode invites you to embrace this shared human experience, to find comfort in scripture, and to realize that we are never truly alone.
"Cast your burden on the Lord, and he will sustain you; he will never permit the righteous to be moved" (Psalm 55:22 ESV)
"My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever" (Psalm 73:26 ESV).
"And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus" (Philippians 4:19 ESV).
"Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid" (John 14:27 NIV).
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xoxoxoxox Love y'all deep!
Celebrating life's milestones, especially when they revolve around your own, can be some of the most joyous moments. Come and join me as I share the laughter, love, and joy we experienced celebrating PJ's first birthday. This close-knit wildflower-themed party brought together some sweet friends and family. From reflecting on the incredible journey of the past year, including numerous enriching family trips, to acknowledging the importance of a secure and functional home for my young family, this episode captures it all.
But what happens when the party's over and you're left with questions about motherhood and family planning? What do you do when you're trying to figure out if your family has grown enough? These are some of the profound questions I grapple with in the second half of the episode, sharing my personal reflections and experiences. From expressing my growing admiration for poppy decor since Poppy Jean's birth to appreciating my own mom's attitude towards celebrating life's stages, I hope my journey inspires you. So, get comfortable and join me on this heartfelt exploration of parenting's little joys and challenges.
love y'all deep xoxox
Had to think about the grammatical way to write that title. Christopher and I? Me and Christopher? Can never get that right, y'all!
Today's two parter series brings you to our vacation for just a snippet to talk about our intentions and what we think of Cabo! 10/10 recommendation, by the way!
So let's shed that skin for the 7 years (+ 3 for us)! And if you have no idea what I'm talking about, go ahead and listen to the episode - mwah hahaha!
Okay, that's all. Love y'all deep and join me on the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) to connect! xoxoxoxox
Join me today as I talk through how I prepped both mentally and physically for my week away (SANS KIDDOS) with my husband of almost 10 years! A little early Anni Celeb for us and today's episode is all focused around being intentional. We tend to lose this part of ourself as we get comfortable in relationships and I am challenging you to combat that!
Also today I talk about all the fun new items I bought for the trip - I'll link all the items on the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend). See you there!
Love y'all deep xoxox
We've got two working titles and I just couldn't decide! I hope this episode greets you at the right time and in the right headspace - speaking from the heart this whole episode makes me vulnerable and insecure, but I hope you get something out of it!
But I certainly love y'all and pray for y'all and am thankful for y'all. Please JUMP over to the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) and find me there so we can connect. Love y'all ddeeeeeep xoxoxoxoxo
A new season is upon us, gals! Enjoy this Season Tres Opener where you basically hear me squealing and giving you a big hug for about 10 minutes. Grace upon grace for me as we dust the mic off and get back swinging... and let's discuss saying "No" this fall.
Looking forward to a sweet season ahead, and glad that you're joining me!
Love y'all DEEP xoxoxoxoxo
Season 2 is coming to an end with a nice chit chat where I talk through some good and tough parts of the last couple weeks. Just getting you up to speed as we near a fun summer break!
Be sure to keep up with me on insta (@everymomneedsafriend) so we can stay in touch and you can know when we are starting back up for season 3! Will miss you this summer but also hope you enjoy it!!
Psalm 95:2-7a
2 Let us come into his presence with thanksgiving; let us make a joyful noise to him with songs of praise!
3 For the LORD is a great God, and a great King above all gods.
4 In his hand are the depths of the earth; the heights of the mountains are his also.
5 The sea is his, for he made it, and his hands formed the dry land.
6 Oh come, let us worship and bow down; let us kneel before the LORD, our Maker!
7 For he is our God, and we are the people of his pasture, and the sheep of his hand.
Let's get into the nitty gritty about why and how you make friends. And I continue to sit on that soap box about proximity friendships - why they are SO dang important!
But also today's episode is a super sweet one because we’ve hit a milestone as a podcast family and that is today’s episode being my 100th episode! What a fun, fulfilling, easy, joyful, stretching ride it’s been for me and hopefully you, especially if there’s any of you that have listened to any considerable portion of all those 100 episodes!
"This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it." (Psalm 118:24)
And I just want us to rest in that today that TODAY - this day, this present moment, this drive, this morning, this present circumstance that you are in, it has been dictated, and known from the beginning of time and all that we are asked to do is be here, fully resting in what the Lord has for us and find joy that he knows us and he has us.
So today I am going to sit in this gratitude of all the blessings that are in front of me and I’ll ask that y’all seek to be present and live in gratitude for the present moment, acknowledging God's abundant blessings in your life too. So with that let’s talk about why you need friends and how you make them!
Love y'all deep xoxoxoxo
Calling all "bad texters"!!! For so so long I've felt almost shame around my inability to stay up on texts, but it took getting to my 30s to realize that maybe I just don't like that form of communication and maybe I've just consciously prioritized relationships of the people right in front of me.
Today's episode talks about that and gets a little personal about why I maybe put up walls. Ooooof! Y'all need to hear this one.
Next week is the last episode in this mini-friendship series! And our 100th episode, EMNAF fam!! Love y'all deep, thanks for joining me on this sweet little journey. xoxoxoxo
My best friend is back on the podcast to talk about her mom and how although she passed away too soon, her legacy and love for the Lord continues to live on.
I know you'll be blessed by this! Listen with hope that our story doesn't end here. And that how you love Jesus is more impacting to your children then how perfect you were or how much you did. Kailyn's mom loved Jesus and practically that's all that matters.
Jesus come! Thank you for the gift of glory and the peace that accompanies it.
xoxooxoxoxox love y'all deep.
Seems strange, but have you ever categorized your friendships? Do you naturally tell some friends some things and withhold some from others? When there's something fun to celebrate, who are you the first to call? Do you have anyone that could be at your house in 15 mins or less if you needed it?
Let's get really honest about friendships. And let me know what I've missed, I love hearing from you! Connect with me on insta (@everymomneedsafriend). Love y'all so dang deep xoxoxoxo
Let's kick off this "Friendship" Series strong with gettin' a good gut-check of how I feel about my current predicament. Seattle is a hard city but the good Lord has given me sweet sweet friendships that have inspired my current mini-series around friendship!
Today let's talk about what you give up when you move. But all that you gain too!
And hop on over to the insta (@everymomneedsafriend) so we can connect... because I do do do love y'all! xoxoxoxo
PSA: No psychologist present! Just me - mom of 3 - working through all the things like "am I messing my kids up?" and "am I a good mom?"
But also just an all-around good catch up... so tune and buckle up!
Truly love y'all deep!!!! xoxoxoxox
Today we keep the good vibes going with recapping our hawaii trip. Or Kauai, I should clarify! Sorry to the Hawaiians who listen because we too easily go in-between both names and it probably is confusing! But it was a blast to chat with my cutie hubby and tell y'all about our trip.
Hope y'all enjoy! and check out the insta (@everymomneedsafriend) for more pics and ways to connect. love y'all deeeeeep!
A giggly episode ahead, sponsored by Veuve Clicquot!
Christopher and I breakdown some really true, real, current thoughts of our weekend and holiday, and life with 3 kiddos 4 and under! But also yours truly turning 32, wowie wow!!!
Enjoy today's episode and hop on over to the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) to connect with me. Love y'all so dang much! xoxoxoxoxo
My brain is hardwired for logistics, planning, and packing! This was a super simple episode for me to (lol) plan for and produce because its so deep in my soul to want to make things efficient and be prepared.
But also I'm STOKED for the beach and for us, a new place! I've had it on my bucket list to go to the Hawaiian Islands ever since I learned that my parents honeymoon was there. Can't believe I'm actually able to go so soon!
Also, I mention this in the episode, but next week will be a break week! Looking forward to sweet family time and lots O' vitamin D! But catch up with me on instagram (@everymomneedsafriend). I'll keep y'all updated over there. Love y'all deep!!
So so so much here. Too many tidbits to count! I needed to record this episode to full digest all that I learned. So apologies as I work it out on y'all and do it as succinctly as possible. But sorry not sorry - hope this leaves you wanting more and tuning into next year's IF Gathering!
https://www.ifgathering.com/if2023/
It's worth it y'all... Get ready to hear lots of scripture and get fed from a firehose.
And come on over to instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) to chat with me. Loooooove y'all!!! xooxxoxoxox
Let's work through this together because this is definitely a WIP-life-documentation-stream-of-conciousness-chit-chat.
What a weighty topic and I do my best to squish it into 20 mins. Don't mix my speedy descriptions with light-heartedness! I am fully feeling the charge as these three girls' mama to make them strong women who know the Lord and love Him fully.
Here's the summary of my notes for this episode...
What is important to teach my girls about God:
Faith (and allowing for doubts and questions)
forgiveness (of others and yourself - or in another word, grace)
life (how to live in the daily and be independent)
love (using Jesus as the example. Friendship love, sacrificial love, and romantic love)
eternity (this life on earth is not the end of our story)
And there you have it, folks! Love y'all deep.
What are we even supposed to do with self-care? Society tells us as moms that we are supposed to prioritize ourself and YOLO and get those moms-night-out... and with almost everything in life needing balance, I hope you hear my heart today that I fully acknowledge that we are a generation that is BURNT-OUT. But also we are strong, resilient Bad-A mothers who can do this, we have been called for this!
Enjoy this episode and be sure to tune in each week as I have some fun episodes on the docket for y'all (and me, hehe). Love y'all deep!!!
Want the biggest diet secret? You're not eating enough vegetables! Ash has quickly become our family's moral compass to what's "good" and "bad" to eat, but she's quick to talk through balance and how we don't eat enough veggies.
And, she's wildly Type A so the way she personally organizes her family's meal plan is intense (in a good way). She brings some good tips forward to how to be intentional with eating and how to eat "better" easier!
Hope y'all enjoy! And be sure to hop on over to the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) for some extra content! Love y'all deeeeep
We all need this kick in the butt sometimes. I pride myself on looking for the best in every situation but then I became a parent.
Parenting is rough and tough and really taxing on your mental state. But we are called to speak positively over our kids. They are precious and formable and our goal as parents is to work towards them being full-functioning humans that are independent and capable of self-awareness and have the ability to love others and think independently.
But love others we must learn to love ourselves too. So speak positively over yourselves and watch it pour into your kids. Also, let's talk about that over on instagram because Lord knows I need the encouragement too (@everymomneedsafriend).
Love y'all deep!
Raise your hand if you have kids! Now keeping your hands raised, who has emotional kids? (assuming everyone is keeping their hands up here...)
Big feelings are felt at the Duffy household DAILY. So when the speaker at my MOPS meeting talked about how to talk to kids with big feelings, I listened up (and took copious notes). My notes are shared today and I hope y'all find something encouraging!
Let me know on insta what resonated with you (@everymomneedsafriend)... love y'all deep!
Today is the first installment of me working through a pretty typical problem in the parenting world... building trust in your kids by listening to them with your full attention! Coming from a place of grace and mistakes here, y'all! I really want y'all to hear my humbleness as I am working through this alongside you. But you got this, Mama! Let's together do better to love our kids specifically and intentionally, exactly how they need to be met.
And hop on over to the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) to chat with me about the episode and to catch up on all things kids and moving! xoxox love y'all deep!
Calling all planners (and even you last minute people)!!
Pay it forward to your future self with these 7 ways (and I'm sure you have plenty more that you do)! I'd love to hear from you with what resonated and what else you do in this arena.
Oooooof - love y'all deep. Send me some love on insta (@everymomneedsafriend)!
I've been dying to tell y'all this... tune into today's episode to hear what our last couple weeks have entailed as we prepared and started this moving process. We are pumped and tired... but sure do love y'all!
And hop on over to the instagram @everymomneedsafriend to connect!
oof - it was bad. no other way to slice it. Not our worst, though. Good to keep it in perspective! But happy 2023! Let's start this year off with a bang and a cRrRrrrrazy story.
Love y'all! xoxo, but also jump on over to the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) to follow along on the daily.
The 12 Days of Podmas comes to a close! So many things to be thankful for this year, but THANK YOU for joining me as I chit-chat about it. Today's short, but so SWEET episode focuses on the hope that came and the rest that can be presently yours.
Love y'all so so deep. xoxoxo
Christopher, hellooooo!!! It's a Christmas miracle that we were able to keep the episode under 10 mins. More to come in 2023 from Christopher and me!
Big thanks to y'all for listening to 11/12 of these... I'll see you tomorrow, right?
And head to the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) to connect with me, I'd love that! Love y'all so deep!!! xoxoxoxoxo
The Christmas is blahhhhh episode. Are you with me that sometimes Christmas can suck?
Today's episode titled: "Grace over Grades" is an important one for us moms who put SO much pressure on ourselves. Today episode is meant to remind you that you're a good mom and that if you're dreading Christmas Day, I've been there.
The good and the bad, right? That's what you'll find here on the EMNAF podcast. So with that, please head to the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) to chat with me about the happy and the sad - it's a safe space to do it!
Oooooof - love y'all deep.
Our Kitty Kate's 2nd Bday is today! It's not her golden birthday as I once thought lol... but it's still a big one! Oh the "2s"... they are fun!
Ever wondered what's up with the nickname "Kitty"? Do y'all nickname as much as the Duffys do?
Cheers to my holiday babe, born so close to Christmas just 2 years ago! I adore you, Katherine Louise, our Kit Kat, Kitty girl.
Send Kitty some birthday love on insta (@everymomneedsafriend)! Thank you and looooove y'all!!
Have all the date nights! Have that glass of wine!
You should make your marriage a huge priority all times of the year, but if you're like me, this was a good reminder that December can be super busy and stressful so don't let your marriage fall by the wayside. My sweet Christopher is the rock in our house and I want to make sure he feels the love this Christmastime too.
Hope y'all enjoy this episode! If you do (or don't!) be sure to head to the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) to let me know! Love y'all so muchoooo xoxoxox
The Nutcracker Ballet, Advent Calendars, and Shopping... Oh my!
Christmastime brings up all the warm-fuzzies because I loved growing up getting to do Daddy Daughter Dates! Feeling like a princess for a day was just so much fun and watching Christopher do it with our girls is THE BEST. A full circle moment for sure.
Enjoy this episode where I talk about some extra fun traditions. Do y'all have any fun ones to share? Let me know on instagram (@everymomneedsafriend)!
Love y'all deeeeeep!
My mom would bake with love and I hope my girls say the same about me! What do you love to bake over the holidays? What do you picture when you think of Christmas dinner?
Today's episode I go into my family's very important debate of pale pink or pale green... which tastes better? Also, I share some insecurities I'm feeling as I'm working through this postpartum body that I'm thankful for, but working to love as well.
Give me your thoughts on instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) and I hope y'all are loving this Podmas series! Wuv y'alllllssss
When do you start listening to Christmas music? If I thought that Christmas Cards would create a divide, there's something funny about how passionate people can be about when is appropriate to start listening to Christmas music?!
Enter: Christmas Jazz! (ex. The Classic Christmas Album by Kenny G)
What a way to bridge the gap between the "sooner the better" people and the "you're crazy if it's before thanksgiving" people - Jazz is my favorite morning genre and even if you're not ready for all the movies and decorations and books, please try it out!
Hope you love today's episode and please hop over to the instagram (everymomneedsafriend) to catch up with me! Love y'all!!
Let's get our heart and home prepared for the holidays! I pulled on the thread from the line in "Joy to the World" where it says: "Prepare Him Room" and it's really sunk in this year as I am doing my best to fully do this even when I'm in a city that doesn't exactly feel like home yet.
Jump on over to the insta to chat with me about it, I'd love to hear from you! (@everymomneedsafriend)
Love y'all so so deep!
Giving gifts are so so much fun for me, but some years it feels easier and some quite hard! And then there's the "what the heck do I get my husband this year..." especially because sweet Christopher's bday falls a couple days into the new year and we just celebrated our anniversary in November so that's a perfect storm of fun and a frenzy.
Also, anyone else get travel insomnia?
All that being said, please enjoy day number 3 and jump on over to the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) to chat with me!
Looooove y'all (deep)
Goodness I had no idea Christmas cards would have such a divide! Some people see them as something that will just ultimately be thrown in the trash, others see them as a way to connect, and some think they're silly before you have kids.
And then there's me who hasn't missed a year of sending them out since we got married 9 years ago. That's a lot of addressing and lots of stamps - but so worth it in my book!
Hope you love this episode where I break down Christmas Card rules. And head to the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) to chat with me about it!
Love y'all deeeeeep.
The holidays are my favorite time of year, but also a breeding ground for conflict... how do we deal with this?? Today's podmas episode breaks down that and the art of small talk.
Be sure to head to the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) to share your thoughts.
Enjoy! Love y'all deep!
Podmas is coming!!!Mark your calendar for this Wednesday, December 14th... because I'm going go help you count down the 12 days leading up to Christmas with the hope of Jesus and some silly little bits full of all the Christmasy things!
Today is a leeeettle trailer of what's ahead to get you excited! But please head over to the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) because if you like Christmas, any and all things happy, and newborn baby pictures... it's for you!! We have a good time over there, don't miss out!
And love y'all deeeeeeep
Sickness in kiddos is the worst! But sickness that continually gets worse and you have to make the judgement call of when to take them to the hospital... that's worser.
I have my BFFL Kailyn on the pod today to discuss how she's spent too many times in the hospital for RSV with her infants. She breaks down when she decided to go, what she was told to look for, and what they had to do while in the hospital.
Take it from me, I wasn't even there and it felt really scary. Lots of unknowns and steps to RSV and I know from experience it is really hard to make that judgment call of when to go in. At the end of the day be sure to use the doctor line at your pediatrician and always go in if you're concerned! And know that I just paused to blanket pray for you and your family in this time of holidays and praying a hedge of protection from sickness for y'all!
Be sure to follow along on insta (@everymomneedsafriend) and know that I love y'all so mucho! xooxxooxox
My gal pal Rach is on the pod today! How dang fun to have people in your life that just make you better as a person and are so multi-faceted that you just love to peel back the layers and learn more about them and from them. The pod is called Every Mom Needs a Friend, and I really think every mom does need a friend like Rachel.
But to be clear here, we could've talked about a hundred things we love to do and share together but one of the ways we crossed over in our friendship is a love of bread and really just enjoying all types of food in general. And Rachel was the one that taught me to make sourdough, broke off her starter, and answered my multiple FaceTime calls as I worked through some flops and some really pretty outcomes.
If you've never made sourdough bread, let this inspire you! I am not a natural in the kitchen and this seemed intimidating at first.. but not anymore! I've since been able to bless others with breaking off my starter and teaching them and there's not many things more satisfying than slicing hot bread straight from the oven and smothering it in butter and cheers-ing your cutie hubby or your fun dinner guest. And this a great hostess gift, too! Economical for your wallet and an intentional way to bless others.
Okay, I truly could go on about how breaking bread with others is literally straight from the Bible.. NBD just doing the Lord's work out here!
Be sure to catch up with me on instagram @everymomneedsafriend and let me know if you want more sourdough content... YUM. xoxo love y'all deep!
Hey y’all! Hope today is not just a good day but a great day!
I am just so very excited to be back recording today with my sweet Christopher, because today we unpack his thoughts about the birth of our 3rd baby girl! Also I wanted to let y'all know that this episode is kind of the final installment of this plant series.
I’ve just loved doing this and y’all have been really kind to let me know that you’re liking it.. .but I also don’t want to belabor (pun intended) the points here so while of course I’ll keep you updated about how she’s doing, we've reached the end of all this plant talk. But with that being said, I hope you enjoy this last formal plant episode with my cutie hubby!
Also before you press play, please give the instagram a follow (@everymomneedsafriend) so you can keep up with me! I'd looooove that. Okay, that's all folks! Love y'all deep! oxoxoxoxo
Did you catch it? Postpartum Plant thoughts are being talked about today!
Get excited for a very scary bug story where I got some natural lip fillers, why I called my doc Dr. Covid, and how my hair washing schedule is getting extremely disrupted. hehe! Lots to unpack today and I hope you enjoy it!
Be sure to head over to the instagram (@everymomneedafriend) to see some sweet baby content and to connect with me through polls, pics, and probably some TMI! Love y'all deep!!
Too long!! It's been too long since we've talked!!
I lived in this tension over the last month of being so thankful for slowness and sweetness as I snuggled my newest born, but also missing this and y'all! Thanks for sticking with me through this and hope you enjoy this mini-episode! Get pumped for next week's installment of PPP thoughts (post-partum-plant) hehe.
Love y'all deep! Want some newborn content? Head over to the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) for some sweetness!
A long awaited episode for me to record, it's felt like a year since we found out we were pregnant with our sweet baby plant. I know that it's truly a blessing for y'all to partner with us and be so excited with us, so thank you!!
Today's episode is with my cutie Christopher and we talk through the emotions and planning and excitement as we near our baby girls arrival!
And just a reminder, I'll be taking a couple weeks off to recoup and bond with little plant, so be sure to follow us over on instagram @everymomneedsafriend! There you'll see all the new plant content and I'll keep you in the loop as to when I'll be back to recording!
Love y'all deep!!!
Part 2 is here! Just a soon to be mom of 3 working through some logistics, calendar planning, Braxton-hicks, and all the thoughts before welcoming a new babe!
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I am so unbelievably overwhelmed with joy as I think about how soon I get to meet my sweet Plant. What will she look like? How good will she smell? Will I make it to Oct 1st?
Be sure to be following the pod on insta (@everymomneedsafriend) so you can be sure to keep up with me over these next few weeks. Love y'all deep!!!
1/3 of a super fun mini-segment of EMNAF, a quick mid-season 2 pause, if you will. I am about to embark of becoming a mother of 3, and watch our family grow to a family of 5... wowie wow!!
Today's episode and next week's episode will dive into how I am preparing for this sweet babe, both physically and mentally! Remember my (almost every episode) rant about how this is a vehicle for documentation? Well bullseye here, as can you even consider how cool it'd be to listen to your mom as she thought through the days and moments leading up to your arrival? Kind of trippy if you ask me!
But nevertheless, join me in preparing for Baby Plant, because ready or not, she's coming!
(And be sure to be following the instagram @everymomneedsafriend so you can see all the cutie pics when she arrives!)
Hey y'all - today I'm working through a 10-10-10 exercise with you... and y'all should do this too! Boy did I feel super refreshed and full of gratitude when I finished recording and editing this. What a dose of positivity even amongst a tough (but dang sweet) time of nearing the end of pregnancy with baby plant.
You'll have to let me know on instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) if we overlap in anything or even if we disagree on something! Thanks for listening to it, though. Y'all are the best! xoxooxoxoxox
Y'all - this is about "on-brand" as it comes as this is the reason I've thought this podcast needed to be made and something that is such a big part of my story. But so please please hear me out that there is so many reasons why people do or don't move and this is just my story, and this is me trying my best combine how I've counseled others through this very heavy decision.
But 5 y'all. 5 cities that Christopher and I have done our best to call "home" and it's just been the sweetest thing to grow and work through this with my best friend, my cutie hubby. I'm so so interested if you've moved for a job so run on over to the instagram to chat with me about it! (@everymomneesdafriend)
Love y'all deep xoxoxox
Want to hear about my eye issues accompanied with some fun fluffy makeup talk? Today's episode is for you! Y'all, I could talk about makeup fooooooreeeverrr, but I intentionally dished out a mini episode because life is about consistency + building good habits (which I talk about in today's episode), but also about balance, so as I've seen the episode tracks get longer and longer, I wanted to challenge myself with a shorter one. But what do y'all think - longer? shorter? more video components? Look out for that, BTW, tagged on the instagram - a fun makeup video is on the horizon!!
okay okay, I'll let y'all go, but love y'all and check out the instagram @everymomneedsafriend and the website everymomneedsafriend.com for more info! xoxoxoxoxo
Yippieeee - a really fun episode ahead with a friend, entrepreneur and enneagram-lover, Elise from the Beaded Sheep! Somewhat of a longer episode, but I do declare that it does a great job at hitting all the numbers with enough info to help you if you are new, and not too much to make sure you want to explore more when you're done!
You know your number? I'd be so dang interested to hear - jump on over to the @everymomneedsafriend website and check out some of the fun extra stuff that will make you continue to fall in love with the Enneagram and with sweet Elise!
Love y'all deep - thanks for loving on me by listening - y'all are the best!!! xoxoxo
Hey y'all!! For today’s episode, it felt like a great time to lean into the idea that was half of my origin of why I wanted to start this podcast - to be a sort of live diary for my daughters to be able to listen to one day...
In this episode you'll hear a current pregnancy status, are we done having kids, how we handle stress + missing out, my current Zumba-obsession, and a lot about how much I'm looking forward to crushing some prosecco PP (postpartum/post-plant).
Hehe - well, please enjoy this shorter episode where I update y’all on what’s going on with us right now! And as always, hop on over to the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) to chat with me further!
Yahoo for this episode! Today I brought back my SIL Katy because she’s a great person to talk to about my upcoming scheduled c-section with baby plant!
But while I was planning up this episode I felt like it would be a nice pairing to bring up this topic of body love - where society and media wrongfully tells us to place a lot of importance on on pants size instead of the importance of being healthy. Especially in this season of life, I truly am not devoid of this pressure to bounce back after having a baby. And I’ve had times in my life where being lean and strong was easy and times where I did not have any confidence in my body.
And then for the C-Section half of today's episode... Do y’all think it’s as wild as it is to me that I won’t have the waiting game that so often accompanies having a baby? I have to say the "type A" part of me really loves the ability to plan this and be able to just focus on the joy that’ll come as I hold my sweet baby girl in about 2 months!
But yes yes yes, thank y'all for listening to today’s episode and be sure to hop on over to the podcast instagram page and follow me there! I have to say that I can’t see much information about who listens to this podcast, but I can see some big bucket regions of where you are listening from and I have some overseas listeners that I’d love to connect with - so y’all please dm me, I’d love to hear from you!!
Love y'all deep. Talk soon?!
I think y'all will love this episode!!
This episode is two things… it’s a catch up and reminiscing of two friends who once did life daily together, but who now live far apart, but it’s also this story of how strong Camille is to move several times in her marriage and through those moves figure out that her little family, her husband, and her extended family are the roots and grounding for her life.
And I’d say that being away taught her to be okay with missing things, but also gave her a huge appreciation for support and she has learned the skill of soaking in the time that you do get with your people.
And one thing that I deeply love is watching my friends thrive. And sometimes you get the benefit of proximity wise getting a front row view of this but sometimes your life (slash hubby) move you to seattle so you learn to still love watching your friends thrive, but just at a little bit of a distance.
And it is a joy to know Camille and to watch her grow and it was never a shock that she’d be a great mom because we’ve all called her the baby whisperer, but it goes so much deeper than that. Camille has always been a solid friend but to see how the Lord is refining and growing her is such a joy. So like I said, she’s always been a good mom and wife, but to see her become this entrepreneur and be able to handle twins and move is a whole new level.
And what I’d say about Camile is she is generous with her emotions, she’s generous with caring for people and with loving all sides of a person. She’s not short on grace and getting to be one of her friends is such a treat because you truly feel like you are deeply loved and seen when you are with her.
So yeehaw y'all! Please enjoy this episode with sweet Camille! Love y'all deep!
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Today's episode is my big take aways from a book that Christopher and I just read through, "After Doubt" by AJ Swoboda. And I need y’all to buckle up for today’s episode!
This was requested by a friend from NH, and it couldn’t have come at a better time… I go into this about how Christopher and I have been walking through some really tough questions this year and we do not know what to do with unanswered questions. And ultimately our goal today and should be always is, "how can you doubt with intention to fully grow closer to Christ?".
But here’s what I know to be true, y'all. That you and I are supremely loved by God in a way that we don’t deserve and can’t return. I know that you and I are individually made and have purpose and are important. Don't underestimate the smallest of baby steps towards looking more like Jesus, because this fully delights God.
And I’ll leave you with my absolute favorite verse that is and will forever be my life verse from Lamentations 3:22-23: "Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness."
Love y'all deep. And head on over to the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) for more content and show notes!
Goodness I can't spoil it before you get a chance to listen to the episode!!! What's your guess? And head on over to the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) for more insight on this sweet babe set to arrive at the very beginning of Oct! Oooooooffff... love y'all! xoxooxoxo
Hey yall, Happy season 2! Happy Summer - hope it's treated you well! I just can’t tell you how happy I am to be back recording for this new season of EMNAF! If you haven't gotten a chance to listen to last season, it'll always be there, but if this is your first episode, let me catch you up... Hi, I’m Anna, wife to Christopher, mom to Ellie, Kate and currently growing our third baby in my belly (baby Plant, IYKYK)... who is set to arrive October 1st! In my fun 8, almost 9 years of marriage we’ve moved 4 times and are currently still settling into our 5th city together here in Seattle, Washington!
And my hope was and still is to this day that I can create respite for women, especially moms. Moms are probably always surrounded by people, but can be some of the loneliest people in need of a friend. At least I can speak for myself that for an extrovert who always finds my way to groups of people, I have had some of the loneliest and darkest times - I mean truly I didn’t know it was possible to be so well connected but still feel lonely.
You could say this is a mix of my own fault as I have happily and willingly have said many "yes’s" to my husband's growing career that has lead us around the country. But let's do some truth talk here... this is also because I feel like in our current environment of being connected always through a phone, this (surprisingly) just really didn’t aid in shortening this lonely cycle that enviably happens to all of us at some point. So through moving and getting all my comfort zones stripped away time and time again, I came to know how powerful a playdate was with other moms and her kids… that a coordinated 2 hours of a playdate (aka 20 minutes of combined conversation with the other mom), made me feel seen and heard.
So I felt like there’s no better time than the present for me to create this space to mimic that feeling - that bite sized part of a moms day that they reenergize through connection… so that’s what my hope is here! And to be honest, this is just too dang much fun to do… and I’m glad and excited that I’ve done this for the past year and I’m pumped to see what this next year holds. So without further adieu enjoy today’s episode that’ll give you an overview of this sweet season 2! And before I forget, go ahead and grab your phone and follow me on instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) so that we can stay connected further.
Loooooove y'all xooxoxoox
Can you believe it? One whole dang year of this EMNAF podcast, eeeeekkk!!! When there are times of birthdays, year marks, or big milestones in life do you go hard on the reminiscing train like me? I'm so full of gratitude and excitement for what has happened (even the bad stuff) in this last year and we (my trusty consistent co-host and hubby) talk through some of those moments today! Please enjoy this walk down memory lane and please keep up with me on instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) to hear about the start of Season 2.... it's going to be a good one!! Love y'all deeeeeeep.
Happy 4th Birthday to my oldest girl, Ellie! About a week ago we celebrated Ellie and I had "all the feels" as the kids say… It’s so easy to look back and take stock of who I was back then, who this current version of myself is, and all the crazy milestones along the way! I did my best today to celebrate the ways I’ve grown and identify the ways I still need some growth... a1nd to poke fun at the quirks that make up my sweet girl. Today you’ll get tips, funny stories, and transparent “truth talk.” So buckle up and enjoy what I’ve learned in 4 years of being a Mom… Love y’all dearly!!!
Welcome to the first of the probably many installments of the EMNAF Quadcast with my sweet brother who I adore and his wife who I adore more and my cutie hubby! We had some direction today, like how to look for good suitors in the couple friend category, but also lots of tangental moments of giggling and quoting Tik Tok sounds (which ages us and both makes us sound super immature in the same breath). But the most important thing I hope comes through is that we seriously enjoy our time as siblings and in-law siblings. It's a treat to call them family because I would have 10000% chosen them if presented the option. Y'all are in for a fun, fully fluffy episode here, so grab a snickity snack and giggle with us through the next 28 minutes! Love y'all!
Did anyone pay attention in middle school health class? I feel like I certainly didn't and even though I can say I've gone through 3 pregnancies and workin' on my 4th, I was shocked about the things I didn't know coming into today's episode. I'm proud and excited to bring on EMNAF an old, dear friend who is now a full blown OBGYN! Not only do we go way back and have a lot of fun memories, I'm am truly pumped for you to experience her directness and tenderness in her approach to serving women through Obstetrics. And as a reminder, these questions came from you! I gathered these and some of my own from polls and questions on the EMNAF pod insta (@everymomneedsafriend). Be sure to check it out for future content and fun pics! Ooof - okay love y'all and ENJOY!!
My 4th and final Sister-in-Law is on the podcast today! Lily has gone through so many super cool and inspiring things in the last couple years, from getting married to her high school sweetheart in the first couple months of COVID, to moving 3 times in the last 2 years, to being pregnant with her first baby - it's fun to hear her storytell us through all of that! She's so easy and adorable and loves Connor (who is Christopher's brother) more than anything. And she came out to Seattle to be with me and help me while Christopher was gone a whole 8 days (funny enough on a work trip with his brother, Lily's hubby, Connor)! And I feel like we non-stop talked for 6 days... so I had to get out the mic to record! Love you so much Lil, and so excited to be pregnant together!
Hey hey!! Today’s episode is more of a “this is what I’ve found” or a “learn from my mistakes” episode… and this was born out of a place that I just feel like I have had so times in my life where I am improperly prioritizing things and giving my whole heart and energy to things that aren’t life giving. And over my last almost 9 years of marriage I can say I’ve had times where certain things sucked me dry, leaving the bank really empty for the people and things that should be more important. And just to cut myself some slack, the amount of moves and transitions I've had in the last 4 years, go Anna! But honestly y'all, I've really had no choice but to reflect on where I’m expending my energy units. And so today I dive into my current assessment of how I break up my day and how I place guardrails around certain things that are super important to me and Christopher. Also feel free to giggle through my outro as I throw a whole mini episode on you starting with you ain't got time for toxic people. So enjoy that... and love y'all mucho!
Get to know my friend Mal! She definitely has some things that are her I would say bread and butter - like thinking outside the box, running a company, being on top of it, being a great partner to her hubby Luke... and then on the other side she has a tiny few, but some things that she’s taken a crash course in the last couple months - and that’s being a mom!
She even admits that it wasn’t her "goal" to be a mom and definitely not a stay at home mom, but it was sweet to talk through her reframing of being a mom, and being home for an extended period of time (which she counts as a blessing). It's unique to hear insight from someone who is a proponent for both sides of the coin - both staying at home and working.
I couldn’t be more proud to call her a friend and I cite this in the meat of the episode but Mallory is one of those people who goes nose to nose with me on what I call truth-talk… where because society/christian women society places an importance of being the perfect mom… it is an absolute breath of fresh air to get to speak openly with someone who tells it how it is, not just in a let’s compete on who’s more the victim, but just all the good and bad ways. I always say - the hard stuff is going to be there, it’s your choice on whether you’re going to talk about it.
Enjoy this unique episode, you'll love hearing from Mal!
xoxox, Anna
Don't want to spill the beans before you get a chance to listen to the episode yourself - but we are so so pumped for this new exciting adventure! Thanks for being a part of the journey... love y'all deep!!
Y'all fight with your siblings for specific sentimental pieces in your parents house? Just me? On today's rendition of Favorite Things for Apr 2022 I go down a quick rabbit hole about what I dream would be my girls heirloom piece from my house. Hopefully there's more because dividing a mirror 2 ways won't work well (sorry Ell and Kitty). And big plug to hear what's your current faves - need to update my ever growing list!! Enjoy this episode - love y'all!!
Belibers unite! I can't say I was one before last week, AND I can't believe I went in the first place. Think 30 hours, 6 hours total of sleep.... 12 hours in the plane HA! I want to say "what was I thinking?" but also I want to rejoice that I got out of my box. And you should do it too! (both get out of your box and go to a JB concert)... Love y'all and Enjoy!
After a whopping 15 days in Florida and lots of celebrating and moving parts - I wanted to take the week off... but I just can't quit youuuuu (slow clap). So here's a little episode to say that I love y'all and I love doing this. Mwah!! xoxoxox
Might put this into the rotation... a new series where we chat like we are old friends on the phone. Also, it was my birthday this week so between that, being in Florida sans Christopher, and a lady with a broken wrist, felt like there was enough to catch you up on! Enjoy this laid back episode. Hope you enjoy, sweet friends... love y'all!!! xoxoxxooxox
Today's story time is about a really jarring conversation I had with a lady in my tennis class. Cringe along with me as I recount the words spoke to me: "Why are you talking to me? Can you just not talk to me?"... don't worry I didn't cry (too much). Also, it put me in a tailspin about love, hate and sadness - enjoy the soap box and love y'all!! x0x0
Tale as old as time, bringing Christopher on the show to debate some questions - but this time it's all focused on us as parents! Definitely feeling like it's strange to put yourself out there and analyze your parenting styles, but thankful nonetheless for this outlet to do it! What do y'all think and did you answer the same or differently than us? Super curious for this week's insta poll round up - can't wait to hear your thoughts!! Love y'all tons... xoxoxox
PSA: This is a long episode. Is that okay? Would you rather shorter? I'm super interested to know, but I definitely do look at each episode with a critical eye... always asking "can I take that out? Is this truly enriching? Will I hate this in 10 years?" LOLOLOL. But alas, today is an episode with one of my favorite things to call mine, my fellow middle sibling, my brother Jake. Jake is about 4 years older than me, but we had a lot of intersecting life and we continue to through friendship between each other and each others spouses. Jake is super smart, a really tender person and a killer dad, so I knew in my gut today's episode was going to be good. Enjoy! Lots of good stuff to unpack today. Let me know your thoughts! You da best. Love y'all mucho xoxoxox
Truth, but you didn't have to tell me twice! I struggle with loneliness so when Jenny Allen started her keynote with "We are the Loneliest Generation Ever." I almost gave a verbal "Amen!" But this conference was great for 100 reasons and I do my best to recap that today as I talk through the high points of each speaker. Also, if you stay through the very end you hear about a time (just about 4 months ago) when Christopher and I called the police on someone.... oopsie poopsie! Haha love y'all and thanks for lots o' grace and understanding as I work through all the kinks and funny slip-ups of hosting a podcast. Truly love y'all deep.
This episode could've been called "The Pot calling the Kettle Black"... I need to say these words and I even more need to hear them. Also, my heart is heavy with prayer for the moms currently fleeing Ukraine. Lord be near to them - comfort them - give them their needs for themselves and their babies! Woof y'all. Also putting this episode in the "almost deleted prior to posting" bucket, because although I like to do this, I feel ill-equipped to do it too. Exhibit A: today's episode. So truly from the fullness of my heart, thank you for listening. Love y'all deep.
Do you have those people in your life that you feel are really special, hyper impressive at connection, feel-good, wise beyond their years, calming presence but always makes the situation a blast? Those people are the good ones - and I have one of those special people on the pod today, my dear friend Lindsay! She's gotten the "upgrade" in my book over the years... from family friend to personal friend to close friend. Time flies when we are together and she's seen me in a lot of different categories of life (HS, College, early marriage, babies, all the ups & downs). And I hate to be cliche, but she's that onion person. So many layers to peel back, she has so many facets to her that make her a gem to know. (Love you Linds... and y'all will love her too)! Enjoy it y'all, and check out the insta (@everymomneedsafriend) for LOTS - O' extra stuff. Cheers xxoxoxoxox
A mini episode brought to you by a God-given busy schedule (thank you Jesus)! I talk in this episode about how when your cup is so empty that even a single drop of water can revive you. Happy to announce that lonely Anna has finally made a friend! And stay tuned for a special guest at the end with some funny stories, a couple songs, and her thoughts on moving to Seattle. Be sure to follow (@everymomneedsafriend) on insta for some fun extra content. Love y'all!
Have you heard that phrase before? Kailyn is a planner and one of those people you can rely on. And she runs a tight ship! Doesn't mean she doesn't have fun, she's actually wildly good at balance of being a SAHM and having a bunch of identity outside of that. I loved talking with my bestie of almost 20 years about how she organizes her week. You'll love her logical insight and wisdom. Welcome back, Kailyn! Also, give the insta a follow if you want some extra content (@everymomneedsafriend). LYLASSSSS
Ever get embarrassed? Come onnnnn you know we've all had those moments!! Today we break down being embarrassed and you get the treat of hearing some funny funny times in my life where I am getting second-hand embarrassment to myself... honestly didn't know that was possible. Grab a snack and enjoy!
Bada-Bing, Bada-Boom. Plain and simple, gals! Do the date nights and I mean SANS KIDDOS... and unless you have an au pair or you are one of the lucky ones that your Mom/MIL is waiting by the phone to watch your kiddos then that means you should get a babysitter. I am actually baffled that people don't have regularly scheduled babysitters. And I don't mean you have to go to the fanciest places - just go on a walk FO FREE (& pack you a sandwich). Or get really dressed up and go eat really delish food - whatevaaaa. Just do it. And check out this weeks polls on insta (@everymomneedsafriend) - I NEED to hear your thoughts on this one!! LYLAS.
Ever mess up? Just me? lolzzzzz well there's messing up and there's $840 of messing up. Not fun! Wild story and I'm very interested how you would have dealt with it. LMK! Also, give a follow on insta plz - there's a lot of extra content there you'll love (@everymomneedsafriend)... Thanks for listening, xoxo!
In this episode I go up and down a rollercoaster - loving every part of recapping our holidays, but also remembering the pain I was experiencing at the time just knowing that I'm thousands of miles away from my family. And no surprise, I saw a soap box and I hopped right up there to talk about making sure to be present where you are - which is actually my word for 2022... present! Would love to hear what yours is - if you do that type of thing!! Oo0oO0f... feeling all the feeeeelzzz today y'all. Enjoy this episode!!
The other working title was "a disorganized guide to packing your hospital bag" haha... MJ, my baby brother's sweet wife and my sister-in-loooooove is pregnant with their first, my next nephew, Samuel David Brewer the 2nd aka BEAU BREWER y'all! And it was an absolute treat to talk through her thoughts as she organizes her hospital bag for their cozy stay in the L&D dept as they go through one of the craziest moments of their lives! It was fun to challenge her on a couple things and to make some notes of my own for (Lord willing) the next time I am headed to the hospital to meet a babe. Thank you to my girl, Molly Jayne, for jumping on AGAIN and hope y'all enjoy! And if I haven't already said it, HaPpppPpPY NEW YEAR!!! Love y'all. bunches!!!
After a year of being Kate's mom, I've come to learn a couple things... mostly that I thought I had it figured out with Ellie! Turns out Katie Lou is 100% her own person and I wouldn't have it any other way. Cheers to you, my girl! And cheers to me surviving a whole year as a mom of 2. Hope y'all enjoy this episode, thanks for listening!
Part deux is hereeeeee! We get into funny topics in the second half of this two-parter episode. Do you think aliens exist is among some of the most outlandish curve balls thrown. Enjoy this y'all and get pumped about the next couple episodes - they'll be really great! xoxoxoxo Oh, and give the insta a follow, plz (@everymomneedsafriend).
A two parter, y'all and our anniversary is on the 23rd and it's my 23rd episode (mind. blown.)! So for today, Santa has delivered a two episode week where Christopher and I drink a bottle o'wine and talk through fun topics - not all marriage related, have you! If you're ever able to, do snag a drink with Christopher... he's the most fun to talk to! Here we go with the first half, and expect the second as soon as possible. Really - I'll try to get it out soon y'all! Love you deep. And happy Christmas week! (and for my Christmas gift plz give a follow @everymomneedsafriend...k?)
Today is a gem of an episode that I didn't know if it was "right for a mom podcast genre.” But it WAS… and I am excited to share my pride and joy with y'all as you get to hear a snippet of a conversation between me and sweet brother Sam. He's smart and wise and going to be a new dad so so soon. If y'all haven't heard the episode I recorded with his wife, my SIL MJ really early on in EMNAF history, y'all should! It documents his story of how he and MJ got together and today we jump right in and really talk through the nitty gritty of being a new dad - woof!! Enjoy this one, y'all! Love you bunches.
Curveball! No guest this week, and excited to share something outside of the typical topical cycle I've been creating and reproducing. It was fun for me to think through and dissect, but also a little revealing. Somehow I feel like I both get tons of stuff done in a day, but also nothing at all? Is that just being a parent to littles? Let me know your thoughts on the pod insta (@everymomneedsafriend), I'd love some rah-rahs or constructive criticism (truly). Love y'all!
ahhhhhhhh.... an age old question! Hehe, not really but kinda low-key wondering why I've waited this long to take intentional and consistent time away with my gals. It's really sweet! Mollie unpacks this and also what she's learned through supporting a husband with major career goals. You'll love this episode. I did! Enjoy y'all!! and check out insta for some extra content (@everymomneedsafriend).
Jen - business owner, prayer intercessor, mom, friend, wife, advice-giver, smart and wise, super cool and also really brave and strong, guitarist and singer, an enneagram 8... obvi you'll love this episode! Check out the show notes (www.everymomneedsafriend.com) and the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) for some extra content! Love y'all big time!
You know how people say I have a love/hate relationship with something? Well I have a love/love relationship with tanning teehee! That being said, get buckled up because homegirl goes into a solid 5 mins of prefacing simply because I felt a leeeeetle convicted as I edited this episode. You do you, but also know you are a BEAUT!!!
That’s all folks! Enjoy this FLUFFFFY episode and give a follow on @everymomneedsafriend on Insta por favor!! Love y’all xoxo
So I come from a background in marketing and I know that it’s important to speak to the product but make it appealing. So the true title of todays episode is settling into seattle or October seattle update, but those just weren’t tickling anyones fancies, ergo Soapbox in Seattle.
And eeeeeeek there’s a lot of fun content coming up to share with y’all so be sure to follow the podcast by clicking the plus sign in the top corner of the apple podcast app and check out the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) for some extra content. And I just love y’all and hope you have the best day, talk soon!!
Okay this is fun because this is part two of the Adam and Ashleigh interview and I’m really really excited for it to drop today! If you haven’t listened to part one, go back and listen! But for today's episode I was absolutely unable to shorten it in the slightest because every nugget of detail was so rich with truth and just so dang good!
From Ash taking about them being in the 1% to Adam talking about how infertility affects all aspects of a marriage. And I love how Ashleigh talks about things she learned through the adoption process and how she changed some intentionality between the two adoptions.
I am so so proud of them and all they’ve accomplished despite hardship and I can’t wait for you to hear more of their story today. So without further adieu, here’s Adam and Ash part two!
Be sure to follow the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) and the show notes/blog at www.everymomneedsafriend.com. xoxooooooo
This is an episode that I’m really excited about because the main reason I even felt comfortable ever starting a podcast myself was because my oldest brother, Adam started one first! We cover some fun topics in this episode and it leads nicely into part 2's discussion. Hope y'all fall in love with Adam and Ashleigh and see how sweetly they pair together. Look for pt. 2 dropping later this week!
Also, and as always, be sure to give the instagram a follow (@everymomneedsafriend) and check out the show notes and blog (www.everymomneedsafriend.com).
Hey y'all! Thanks for bearing with me through the last couple weeks of odd posting times - wanted to both honor my angel babe through the annual day of remembering Pregnancy and Infant Loss and get a lot of things off my chest while doing so. Wanted to post separately some extra thoughts I've had since reading/recording my miscarriage story. Woof - can I still say that it's great to have that off my chest and out of my mind? Thank y'all again for all your sweet words of encouragement. Please refer to the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) and the website (www.everymomneedsafriend.com) for all the updates and extra info. xoxo, Anna
Today's bonus episode is in honor of infant loss awareness day - today I’m sharing the worst story I’ll ever tell. One of the things I strive for with this podcast would be that you could listen to this podcast on loud in the car or at home. Maybe not this one though. Because of the nature of topic and the fact that I go into pretty graphic details, today's episode might need to be a headphone episode. A written transcript of the episode will be on the blog (everymomneedsafriend.com) and you can follow the instagram (@everymomneedafriend) for some extra content. Love y'all.
Whoop Whoop - now this is MY type of fluffy episode. I am super de duper passionate about the things I'm passionate about so hopefully this episode leaves you feeling inspired to try some new things too! Today's episode really is only helpful if you check out the show notes on the blog portion of everymomneedsafriend.com, and I'll be sure to tag all my fave on instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) as well! Enjoy, y'all!
When I originally planned this episode I titled it "October Update" and by far it turned into something way more fun than that - I just love my sweet husband... he brings out the most fun side of me. I really hope y'all enjoy this episode where we talk about traditions! Also, please give us a follow on instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) and check out the show notes (everymomneedsafriend.com). xoxo!!
As the wise Ben Rector once said, "You Can't Make Old Friends." And this rang true over and over when I moved away from Louisville, my hometown, and my huge friend group of 8 couples. Kailyn and I met well before then, though! When we were just 11, I had a "love at first sight" moment when I spotted Kailyn across my 6th grade classroom. And the rest is history! She is and will forever be my BFFL. Love you KK! Also, check out the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend) and the website (everymomneedsafriend.com) for show notes and more info! xoxo
Y'all - first episode of many to come from our Seattle house. Wanted to give y'all a little update and my first impressions of our new dwelling! In this episode you'll hear about the things I'm loving and looking forward to and the things that are definitely catching me off guard. Excited to chat with y'all like friends would - and please let me know your thoughts or anything else you want an update on through insta (@everymomneedsafriend.com) and the blog and show notes via (www.everymomneedsafriend.com). Love y'all!
Round 2 of 4 for the SIL category! Today I have SIL Katy on the EMNAF pod... she's opinionated, moved a ton, and knew me when I was a teenager. I definitely want to have her back on the pod because we didn't even touch some topics that I'd really love to talk about - but we did cover her 4 beautiful kiddos and 5 crazy moves and how gas stations play a big role in her marriage. Enjoy this fun (a little longer) episode and be sure to check out the show notes (everymomneedsafriend.com) and the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend)! x0x0
Buckle up, friends! Because pregnancy loss is a part of my story, I definitely wanted to share it, but today was a "note-less" recording session... I really didn't have a direction I was going to take in preparing for today's episode. What you'll hear is a broken mom who almost denounced her faith when she went through the darkest period of her life. You'll hear a woman who was redeemed before she even went through the miscarriage because of great love. Sorry that today's episode is quite salty, and I hope I don't get a phone call from my mother when she listens to it. You'll find some extra info cited in the show notes and the blog at (www.everymomneedsafriend.com) and you can keep up to date on all things EMNAF through the instagram (@everymomneedsafriend). Love y'all!
Come giggle along with me as I mostly share some silly stories about my skincare journey from my 20s. Little teaser to a future episode that'll cover more about makeup, because I just chatted too much and didn't really get into the makeup part! Thanks for subscribing - please checkout the website (everymomneedsafriend.com) and follow us on instagram (@everymomneedsafriend). Love y'all!
I'm super excited to bring the EMNAF #1 Hubby, Christopher, back on the pod today! Come chill with us as we catch up because were are in phase one of the limbo that is moving to Seattle... I had lofty goals of a super organized episode around transitioning from married w/o kids vs married w/kids, but honestly it just flowed - so enjoy as we chit chat! If you want some more info, join the EMNAF fam and give the instagram page (@everymomneedsafriend) a follow. Also, check out the show notes and the blog for more info (everymomneedsafriend.com). Love y'all!
Wow, what a treat!
On today’s episode of the pod I have a friend who also doubles as a sister-in-law, Molly! You’ll hear the array of nicknames that I call her - Molly Jayne, MJ, Mols, there’s just too many to count. Her name is special too because she's just no plain JANE.
Listen as MJ and I discuss first year of marriage *ish and what it's like to become sis-in-laws.
Check out (www.everymomneedsafriend.com) for show notes and the blog and follow on instagram @everymomneedsafriend.
Who knew that grocery store flowers could bring so much to the surface? Respecting your husband, tiers of flowers, and how to properly host! Check out the show notes on the EMNAF Website: https://everymomneedsafriend.com.
Welcome to the EMNAF Podcast! In this episode my sweet husband and I talk about our exciting (but a leeeeetle daunting) news - we are moving! Be sure to check out (everymomneedsafriend.com) to see show notes and our instagram page (@everymomneedsafriend) for more information!
Are you as excited as I am? Join me in listening to the Every Mom Needs a Friend podcast trailer! Get excited for episodes covering Family, Fluff, Moving, and being a Mama. New episodes weekly with the first episode dropping in mid-July!