Shae With A New Day w/ShalandaB Podcast

Hey, It's Your Girl Shalanda B. Welcome to Shae, with a new day. Thank You for your support. I hope you like the show. I started this show to motivate others. Who am I? I am Mother, Sister, Daughter Aunt

My story is that I have worked very hard, and I am still on the grind today. I have been featured in several online magazines I have grown to love her (me). I asked God to create me into the woman he wanted me to become, and He was grooming me into her. Yes, Me, The person who was broken and confused about who and where her life was going.

I will never allow myself to be in a bad relationship again or in that mindset again. I knew I was being abused; I didn't want to admit it. I loved my Abuser, but my visual and internal injuries showed he didn’t love me.

The scars only saw once, but my body always reminded me of what I went through. I believed things were going to get better, and then one day, he would change. He did; he just got worse than ever. Instead of leaving bruises and he found other ways to hurt me and violate me.

My experience of being in a domestic violence relationship wasn’t just physical. It was emotional and resulted in me having a mental breakdown. I asked God to give me Sight of what I couldn't see and clarity of what I couldn’t understand. I was later blessed with sight and understanding, and that was when I was able to fight for my freedom. I took my life back; I looked myself in the eyes and said, you have to live as if today and every other day is your last. Never let anyone say you can't do anything. I am Pushing Forward in my Life Knowing I am here for a reason. I decided that I wanted to be a voice for women or men. I want people to know they can be more than what they believe.
I didn’t allow myself to be bitter and Chose to forgive and let Go.

We all have a choice. That Woman I was in 2012-2015, She is no longer broken or saddens by what she has been through. The realization of surviving being raped, physically, and emotionally abused is no longer Her/ My life. I am Survivor, and I am Alive and Breathing, and I am more vital than ever before.

“Don't Be a Sad Story Be the Best Story ever Told. ”
Shalanda B