The Velvet Teas Podcast : Recent Episodes

LaGee Davis

This is not Christian based, but this podcast mission is to build the gap between spirituality and sexuality. Also, not limited to the experiences the everyday person goes through in life. Let's be honest we all have tea, but yours hasn't been poured until now.

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Season 1 Episode 5: Toxic Masculinity

Hey y’all welcome back to Velvet Teas! I hope y’all got y’all mugs ready because the tea is going to be hot today. Today the flavor we are serving up is Toxic Masculinity!

Episode Rundown:

I have my returning guest Devonte R. Washington who is my best friend and guest from episode 2! We come to you to have a discussion on today’s view of toxic masculinity. We will we be discussing where it came from, and how is has had a long-lasting effect in today's society. Also, within the discussion we will evaluate certain traits that are tied to the term masculine. Are goal is to make men and women reevaluate the issue.

Are discussion will consist of:

  1. Toxic Masculinity (How did it start)
    1. What is your definition of it?
    2. How do you feel about it?
    3. How does society fuel the issue?
    4. Men
    5. Women
    6. LGBTQ
  2. Examples of Toxic Masculinity:
    1. Aggression
    2. Perception of superiority toward women
    3. Being Promiscuous
    4. Emotional Repression
    5. Homophobia
  3. How to deal with Toxic Masculinity
    1. Fighting against teaching it to the next generation
    2. Educate
    3. Both men and women must do better

The last couple of minutes of every episode, we will have a segment called "Sip and Reflect”. I give my guest an age bracket that they have to give advice/tips/warnings to themselves within that age bracket only. This segment is designed to help the listeners who might be going through situations that might make them feel they are alone.

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Season 1 Episode 4: Let That Man/Women Love you!

Episode Rundown:

I have my guest Ste Thomas who is someone very close to my heart. She is a hardworking, independent, and beautiful educated woman who opinion is always backed up by knowledge. In today's podcast, we will be taking a walk down love street. We will discuss what stops a person from allowing their partner to love them. Also, some mental blocks that always run through our head in a relationship. Along with tips that can help make the process easier.

  1. Do you love yourself?
  2. What does love mean to you?
  3. Is it true that you have to love yourself before allowing someone to love you?
  4. What's your love history?
  5. Love Languages
  6. Why is it important to let the right person love you?
  7. When do you start to bring your walls down?
  8. Example
  9. What are some mental excuses we make up?
  10. Will they expect too much from me?
  11. Will I get my feelings hurt/ I been hurt before?
  12. Will I lose myself?
  13. How do I know if this is real?
  14. How will my inner circle take this?
  15. How to let someone love you?
  16. Prioritize Love! (Ste Tip)
  17. Allow them to do nice things/help you when needed!
  18. Be open to their flaws!
  19. Share Secrets/Trust!
  20. Allow them to see you vulnerable!
  21. Don’t fear their abandonment!

The last couple of minutes of every episode, we will have a segment called "Sip and Reflect”. I give my guest an age bracket that they have to give advice/tips/warnings to themselves within that age bracket only. This segment is designed to help the listeners who might be going through situations that might make them feel they are alone.

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Season 1 Episode 3: How important is your mental health to you?
Intro:
Hello and welcome to The Velvet Teas Podcast! This is not a Christian based podcast but my mission is to speak out against diverse subjects surrounding spirituality and sexuality. Not limited to challenges that affect the everyday person. We all have tea it, but yours hasn’t been served until now!
Episode Rundown:
I have a very special guest today by the name of Pastor Brei Taylor! She is not only my pastor, but she is always someone I consider to be very close friend. In this episode, we will be discussing the importance of protecting your mental health. We will break down different methods of dealing with mental health, and different types traumas. Using my own personal mental health journey, and her pastor/counselor teachings I feel we will be able to give excellent feedback on this topic.
Are discussion will consist of:
Why protect your mental health?
Pros
Cons
Different types of traumas
Trans generational Trauma
Physical/Mental Trauma
Why do people disguise their mental health?
Society opinions
Not wanting others to worry because this is YOUR problem
How to deal with mental health?
Faith
Therapist
Call lines
The last couple of minutes of every episode, we will have a segment called "Sip and Reflect”. I give my guest an age bracket that they have to give advice/tips/warnings to themselves within that age bracket only. This segment is designed to help the listeners who might be going through situations that might make them feel they are alone.
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Host: $Lagee Davis
Guest: $PastorBrei

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Season 1 Episode 2: Growing Up Gay

Intro:

Hello and welcome to The Velvet Teas Podcast! This is not a Christian based podcast but my mission is to speak out against diverse subjects surrounding spirituality and sexuality. Not limited to challenges that affect the everyday person. We all have tea it, but yours hasn’t been served until now!

Episode Rundown:

I have my guest Devonte R. Washington who is not only my best friend, but a up and coming rapper. We are here today to discuss what growing up gay looks, sounds, and feels like. Also, we will be talking about our different opinions on how social settings had a tremendous result on how we present ourselves today. Although we are both black gay men, every situation was not treated or seen the same. We all have a story to tell. The time has come for us to share ours.

Are discussion will consist of:

  1. Being Gay
    1. What is looked like?
    2. What is sounded like?
    3. What it felt like?
  2. Social Settings
    1. Home
    2. School
    3. Church
  3. Advice
    1. Younger Gays
    2. Parents
    3. Society

The last couple of minutes of every episode, we will have a segment called "Sip and Reflect”. I give my guest an age bracket that they have to give advice/tips/warnings to themselves within that age bracket only. This segment is designed to help the listeners who might be going through situations that might make them feel they are alone.

Thanks for watching!

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Host: $Lagee Davis

Guest: $Ayvadion

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Hello and welcome to The Velvet Teas Podcast! This is not a Christian based podcast but my mission is to speak out on diverse subjects surrounding spirituality and sexuality. Not limited to challenges that affect the everyday person. We all have tea it, but yours hasn’t been served until now!

Episode Rundown:

I have my guest Pastor Angela Washington here to discuss her journey from being married for 30 years to now being a single woman. Also, our differences of opinion on how to be spiritually conscious in today's terms. We will look to see where we can agree and disagree on topics that come with dating.

The topics will consist of:

  1. When should you feel available to date, and what should you be looking for in a person?

a. When are you mentally stable to look for someone?

b. How to stop issues from failed relationships from resurfacing.

c. What characteristics you should be looking for in a person?

  1. What's the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone?

a. What do they both look like?

b. Why is it so easy to get the two confused?

c. What are the consequences?

  1. Will having sex to early ruin a potential relationship?

a. Why?

b. Why not?

c. Does it help?

Thanks for watching!

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Host: $Lagee Davis

Guest: $ProphetAWashington