Eric and Kevin, two great friends discuss the what mean the most to them. First, living as children of the King. Second, living the Christian life with Jesus' saints in ordinary life. Third, a love of movies, church matters, history, book, and lots of Indian food! All from a biblical and historical perspective (even the Indian food).
In today’s episode, Eric will sort through the constant tensions we are surrounded with as believers in a world that can be confusing. How do we handle those areas of life the Bible does not specifically speak to? How should we act? How should we respond? How do we walk with freedom in Christ and how do we under no circumstances add to the gospel? Whether you call it “not of this world”, gray areas, matters of conscience, etc; this podcast will provide some great topics to think about and how to clearly stay Gospel focused.
Charlie Kirk was assassinated on 9/10/25. He was one of Eric's modern day heroes. Eric briefly shares why the life of Charlie Kirk was inspiring to him and what we can learn about free speech in this brief episode.
Episode Title: Righteous vs. Sinful Anger: Following Jesus’ Example
Episode Summary:
In today’s episode, we’re diving into the topic of anger—a powerful emotion that can be a buried topic because we are told “don’t be angry ever!” The Bible teaches us that not all anger is sinful, but how do we tell the difference between sinful anger and righteous anger?
We’ll look at examples from Scripture, including the times when Jesus Himself became angry—such as when He cleared the temple courts and confronted the Pharisees’ hypocrisy. His anger wasn’t about wounded pride or selfish desires; it was about protecting God’s glory, defending others, and standing against injustice.
Together, we’ll explore:
🔥 What sinful anger looks like: rooted in selfishness, bitterness, or personal resentment
✨ What righteous anger looks like: moved by love, compassion, justice, and a desire for God’s truth to be honored.
🕊️ How to spot the difference in our daily lives and pause to ask: Is my anger about me—or about God’s purposes?
❤️ Practical steps to handle anger biblically—learning to slow down, pray, think about the log in your own eye, and channel emotions toward loving action, grief, and empathy instead of destruction.
The goal isn’t to suppress anger but to let it be transformed by the Holy Spirit, so even in our strongest emotions, we reflect Jesus—living as compassionate, loving people who stand for truth and justice without sinning.
Happy Fourth of July everyone! Is July 4th really America’s birthday? Eric gives a very brief, but helpful, look at this important day in American History!
Eric has lots of questions, and he likes to ask them! On this episode of "You can talk about that?", Eric sits down with a veteran foreign counter-intelligence officer and gets his perspective on the current conflicts in Ukraine/Russia, Iran/Israel, and China/Taiwan. His decades of experience provide him with a unique perspective on these conflicts, helping us understand the path forward. Along the way, Eric and Guest stray into the topics of Christians in the World, the Constitution, and Economics. Enjoy!
This powerful episode is a compelling look at what it means to serve with both a brave heart and a faithful spirit.
In this podcast, I sit down with my long-time friend and brother in Christ, Tim. He has been a 24-year firefighter whose courage on the frontlines is matched by an unwavering faith in Jesus Christ.
Listen as Tim shares his passion for becoming a firefighter, what led him there, his thought process, and how his faith is not left behind when he steps on the job. Find out more details of the challenges he faces, a typical day, and the life advice he shares.
Through stories, encounters, and situations, he imparts how his belief in Jesus Christ fuels his strength, guides his decisions, brings hope, and provides peace in the face of danger. Whether battling a blaze or comforting a family in crisis, his faith is the steady force behind every act of service. Tim is devoted to Christ, his “at-home” family, his firehouse family, and the community he serves here and abroad.
Although we tease that Tim gets paid to sleep and work out, his job goes beyond the call of duty and into a life of obedience to serve God first. Listeners will be inspired by his humility, resilience, and the ways he lives out his calling, both as a protector of lives and a follower of Christ. Tim is truly a hero in every sense of the word.
According to dictionary.com, the definition of a real friend is:
a person known well to another and regarded with liking, affection, and loyalty; an intimate, an acquaintance or associate.
In this podcast, Eric reopens the topic of friendship and dives deep on what a biblical friendship is and what it is not.
Eric does not consider himself an expert, a guru, a professional, a master, or scholar of all things friendship. Nor that he has all the answers on the topic, but a deep desire to explore the Word as he seeks to figure out what the Lord calls us to in this concept of friendship. He will explore friendship in four categories.
Enjoy listening as he defines those four categories and expresses the desire for us to live in a fallen world, weaving ourselves in and out of these different levels of friendship, however, considering it a treasure when you have true biblical friendship.
In honor of George Washington's Birthday on 2/22, Eric offers up this difficult discussion on George Washington.
What to do with George Washington? Our founding father, most likely a follower of Jesus Christ, owned slaves. Do we cancel him? Did he believe slavery was a good thing? Did he have any tangible thoughts on freedom for slaves? Did he even struggle with the slavery issue?
Come hear the brief discussion!
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A continuation of our wonderful discussion on Child Sponsorships.
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https://youtu.be/2cAgI9qsVe4
In this episode of You Can Talk About That?, Eric and his guests tackle the topic of child sponsorship. Both Moises and Christina have American and Dominican Republic perspectives. They have been on the giving and and receiving end of sponsorship and come with a perspective that will help bring clarity and understanding to this very sensitive and interesting topic.
Here is what you can expect in today’s episode:
You will find this episode filled with fascinating information, a fresh perspective, and a growing knowledge of the impact that Americans are having in this industry.
Eric is joined by one of nieces and daughter to explore this hotly debated and controversial topic! :) They ate eight different chocolates to taste test which one is the best! They give you their top three.
Go to our instagram page @youcantalkabouthat to see an image and packaging of all the chocolates.
The chocolate flavors are listed below (not in order of preference):
1. World's Finest Chocolates: Dark Chocolate
2. World's Finest Chocolates: W.F. Crisp
3. Hu: Vanilla Crunch
4. LIly's Crisp Rice
5. Beyond Good: 92% Pure Dark
6. Endangered Species: Carmel and Sea Salt
7. Tony's Chocolonely: Ben & Jerry's Chocolate LoveA-Fair
8. Chocolate XOXO: Ruby Chocolate
Enjoy!
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In this episode, Eric and his guest dive into the essentials of nonprofit organizations, clarifying what they are and how they function. They begin by explaining that a nonprofit is a type of organization that exists to serve a social, educational, charitable, or other community-driven purpose, rather than to generate profit for owners or shareholders.
Next, Eric & Andy explore many questions, "Can nonprofits be profitable?" “How transparent should non profits be?” “How involved should a tax payer be in NP financials?”
The episode also highlights the importance of checks and balances within nonprofit organizations. They discuss the significance/impact of nonprofit boards, regulatory oversight, and financial transparency; asking the questions about the accountability and integrity of the organization's mission. Are the NP’s goals and mission statement still intact with millions of dollars at stake?
They also touch on the original intent behind nonprofits, which was to address public needs and issues that aren’t adequately served by for-profit businesses or government entities. Lastly, they emphasize the mission of a nonprofit: to stay true to its core purpose of making a positive impact on the community and fulfilling its social, educational, or charitable goals. Is this happening?
Join Eric & Andy as they ask/answer/discuss challenging questions that probe on a much undiscussed topic.
Eric will give his opinion on which are the top 10 news stories of the year, and give a preview of the next 10 Episodes we can look forward to!
Top Ten News Stories of 2024
Next Ten Episodes of YOU CAN TALK ABOUT THAT?
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In part 2 of this important discussion, the host and guest dive deep into the complexities of pursuing a career in the entertainment industry. Though joys and perils exist, do not be afraid to see the beauty around you and applaud what a good God is doing.
A strong encouragement is brought forth to stand out by using your gifts and talents. The conversation reflects on how seemingly insignificant moments can leave lasting impressions and make an unknown impact, shaping one's journey in unexpected ways. Amidst the struggle, the message is clear: though the world is broken and unjust, no matter the sector, (within Christian/faith based entertainment or out in the world) it is crucial to continue forging ahead with righteous anger, seeking to be a light in the darkness.
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In this podcast episode, the conversation centers around God as both the Creator and the ultimate Artist. The host and guest ask and answer questions emphasizing how God’s creativity is reflected in the beauty of the world, as well as in the unique ways humans create art. The discussion then turns to the role of entertainment in shaping and changing culture, with a particular focus on how movies, music, and media influence society's values and perspectives. The episode encourages believers to reflect on how they can engage with and step into the entertainment industry, not just as consumers, but as creators and influencers. Eric & Erik challenge Christians to bring faith, truth, and creativity into their work, viewing entertainment not only as a platform for cultural engagement, but also as an opportunity to reflect God's creativity in transformative and redemptive ways. And that’s just part one!
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On this Podcast Eric delves into the history of making Thanksgiving a National Holiday in America. An early unofficial holiday rooted in a deep thankfulness to God, Abraham Lincoln makes it an official holiday during one of the greatest tragedies in American History: Our Great Civil War. Using 1 Peter 1 and Abraham Lincoln's Thanksgiving Proclamation, Eric implores us to look to God during our difficult times and especially Praise and Thank Him this Thanksgiving Holiday!
Abraham Lincoln's Thanksgiving Proclamation
*Producer's Note: Eric said that 600 men died during the Civil War. What he meant to say was over 600,000 men died.
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In this episode, Eric interviews a former D1 football player on his experience playing the sport at an elite level as a Christian. Some of the questions Eric asks are:
1.What position did you play?
2.What did you do to get to the point to play D1 football?
4.What was the most difficult and rewarding part of playing D1 football?
5.How did you come to faith in the Lord Jesus Christ?
7.Did you grow as a believer playing football or were you stunted in the faith?
8.Any advice to aspiring players and families in pursuing a football career?
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In this episode, Eric interviews a former American Missionary to a developing country as well as a local to get their opinion on the helpfulness of American Missionaries in the developing world.
Eric asks the following questions along with a host of many others:
For continued learning, listen to former missionary Paul Washer's thoughts on Missions:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AZ_gUedNn4Y&t=145s
November 5, 2024 is voting day in the United States. Some people will be exhilarated, while others will be dismayed by the results. Christian, be encouraged, the Lord is your Shepherd. Please enjoy Eric's Sermon on Psalm 23 to remind you of this good and eternal truth.
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With the sad new stories of men disqualifying themselves from vocational ministry, these questions must be asked:
1. Are Elders/Pastors necessary?
2. What standards are in the Bible for Elders/Pastors?
3. Why do Elders/Pastors keep being removed from vocational ministry?
4. Are Elders/Pastors being removed a "good" thing?
5. Do we trust the leaders to make these decisions, or should the lay congregants have input?
6. What to do in the church if an elder or pastor isn't qualified anymore and they will not leave?
Eric uses the Bible as the guide in this episode. (specifically Titus 1:5-9, 1 Timothy 3:1-7) May God be glorified as we follow his Word and obey His ways.
Resources mentioned by Eric:
John MacArthur's Sermon on Elder Qualifications: https://www.gty.org/library/sermons-library/56-6/the-required-character-for-a-pastor-family-leadership.
IX Marks resource on Elders:
https://www.9marks.org/article/unbelief-elders-children-practice/
Paul Washer in Pastors/Elders caring for families
https://youtu.be/5BnbGOn-eTk?si=k19_HbtqgoYJL8Ej
Martin Luther's Diet of Worms Speech:
https://www.auburn.wednet.edu/cms/lib/WA01001938/Centricity/Domain/2205/Speech%20from%20Luther%20to%20Worms.pdf
Kevin DeYoung article on if every sin is the same in God's eyes. We tend to dismiss the sins of elders, because we are sinners too. This is humility in action. DeYoung makes the biblical case, that God does see certain sins differently, and God will judge elders with a strictness that He will not apply to the rest of us.
https://www.crossway.org/articles/is-every-sin-the-same-in-gods-eyes/?utm_source=Crossway+Marketing&utm_campaign=a449ca91c5-20241021+Gen-IsEverySintheSameinGodsEyes%3F&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_-a449ca91c5-%5BLIST_EMAIL_ID%5D
A great article from David Mathis on the what it means for an elder to run his household "well".
https://www.crossway.org/articles/what-does-it-mean-for-a-man-to-manage-his-own-household-well/?utm_source=Crossway+Marketing&utm_campaign=a449ca91c5-20241021+Gen-IsEverySintheSameinGodsEyes%3F&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_-a449ca91c5-%5BLIST_EMAIL_ID%5D
The US military is respected by most for their selfless service of our country. What about the people that serve them? Eric has the privilege to interview a US military chaplain as to their role, motives and daily life. Eric also asks the uncomfortable question: Is it constitutional to have a government paid chaplain in the US Military? The chaplain's answer is very, very helpful! Join us for another great episode of: "You Can Talk About That?"
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In the first episode of the new podcast, Eric tackles a tough topic: Voting. Is a Christian mandated to vote? Should they vote? He also delves into the attitude of a Christian towards this upcoming election and gives an overview of the American Constitution to help guide our votes. He prays this podcast will help you as you enter the voting booth this November. Remember to subscribe and like on all major podcast platforms,
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Next episode: God in the US Military: A discussion with a military Chaplain.
In this final episode of "I love/hate when you are right", Kevin and Eric say goodbye to this podcast adventure together. In super exciting news, Eric will continue onward in hosting his own podcast and invites you to subscribe and listen. "You Can Talk About That?" is the name of the new podcast and it will capture much of what you loved about Eric and Kevin's podcast. Eric explains: "Welcome to "YOU CAN TALK ABOUT THAT?” the podcast where we believe any topic is up for discussion. As believers in Christ Jesus our unity is rooted solidly in Him alone. So with that belief as our foundation, we should be able to discuss anything with an open dialogue, a sober mind, holding fast to scripture, and maintain a spirit of peace and unity. I'm your host, Eric, and here at YOU CAN TALK ABOUT THAT?, we're diving into a world of limitless topics. I will, by God’s grace, attempt to use the Bible/Biblical principles, theology, history, political science, social science, and special guests, to examine any topic. We will do deep dives and have light-hearted banter to explore together what God in Christ Jesus would have for us; as we sort out living in this world while longing for our true home. Whether you're here for biblically based content, thought-provoking discussions, or a fresh perspective on taboo topics, you've come to the right place."
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Spurred on by a video from Allan Parr's YouTube channel The BEAT, Eric and Kevin discuss those who have deconstructed the faith or are in the process of it. What does it look like to pastorally approach those who are going through this, and what about specific questions or objections?
Not one to back down from a challenge, Eric regales us with the life and work of Walt Disney, with special attention given to Walt's work on Disneyland.
Eric and Kevin challenge each other again to recount a favorite moment in history, but in twenty minutes. In this case, Kevin discusses a favorite moment and favorite figure in the 300's AD.
A ministry motto that Eric taught Kevin many years ago was, "I don't want you to just live as a Christian, I want you to die a Christian." Could it be that this simple motto is the key to the Christian life in light of the "final trial" that awaits us at the dark river Jordan?
We know you can only relisten to our shows so many times! You want new ones! Eric gives an update on the upcoming podcast shows.
After a bit of a longer hiatus, Eric and Kevin have finally returned and one of them has, literally, grown a spine! Speaking of which, Eric and Kevin talk about leadership, including Jesus’ words concerning it, what they have seen, lessons learned about leadership on their end, and even resolve some questions or confusions regarding this topic
A no-frills episode where Kevin gives another update on his injury and recovery. Thank you for your prayers and love!
In this episode, Eric and Kevin have a follow-up episode on something mentioned in passing in their worship wars episode: Christian Cancel Culture. What is Cancel Culture? What is unique and problematic about the Christian variety of it? And what are we to make of how the New Testament commands heretics and false teachers to be treated, is that not Cancel Culture?
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A no-frills show. Kevin gives you an update on his recent accident and recovery. Keep him in your prayers.
Happy 2024! In this beginning of the year episode, Eric and Kevin discuss apologetics, what it is, and why it matters. If you are into apologetics, we pray this would be a reminder of the proper use of it. If you are not into apologetics, hopefully this will be an encouragement to study it more and see why it is a necessary part of the Christian Life.
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For this Christmas Special of I Love/ Hate When You Are Right, Eric and Kevin talk about their Christmas traditions, myths surrounding the holiday, and what even constitutes a Christmas movie. A light-hearted end to the Christmas season.
Also, a huge thank you to our listeners from all over the world (21 Countries) who faithfully listen to our show. Thank you so much, it is deeply appreciated.
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Eric and Kevin discuss history once again (what can we say, it always relates back), specifically our culture's bizarre inability to define objective good and evil, and yet has a simplistic understanding of people in the past as either good or bad. So how is it possible for there to be objective evil with people being complex? Along with that, Eric and Kevin cover three examples of how history is complex in a world with objective morality and explain how Jesus makes sense of all of this.
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Eric and Kevin tackle a topic that has been requested for a long time but has become particularly worthy of mention given the largest killing of Jews since the Holocaust. Eric and Kevin discuss what racism even is biblically, postulate where it comes from, and then zero in on anti-Semitism particularly and its diabolical history. Along the way, the topic of systemic racism (or structural sin if you prefer) and racism in the church comes up. A heavy topic for sure, but hopefully one that hits on needed discussions.
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Eric and Kevin have a conversation about how there does not seem to be a good conversation about worship through song in the contemporary American church. From two people who would not say they are musically talented, what qualifies as good worship music? Should we associate with heretics who write good music? And what about those old class hymns?
In a new segment of the show, Eric and Kevin discuss within 20 minutes (that is part of the challenge) a favorite moment from history and, after the 20 minutes, some lessons that can be learned from it.
Eric is second. What could possibly have made the founding father, who was well known to be stoic and unemotional, a puddle of tears? Hint: a wound to the heart deeper than a bullet.
Mount Vernon website
Rod Chernow - Alexander Hamilton
In a new segment of the show, Eric and Kevin discuss within 20 minutes (that is part of the challenge) a favorite moment from history and, after the 20 minutes, some lessons that can be learned from it.
Kevin is first, and he describes the epic decades long rivalry that effectively brought an end to the Roman Republic: Gaius Marius vs. Lucius Cornelius Sulla.
Mike Duncan - The Storm Before the StormDan Carlin - Death Throes of the Republic (podcast series)
A hot take, according to Google, is "a piece of commentary, typically produced quickly in response to a recent event, whose primary purpose is to attract attention." This is not one of those! This is Eric and Kevin after three years of processing a calamity giving their (hopefully) thought out reflections on an event where the history is still being written. So it is a cold(ish) take.
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There is a common assumption in our world that things either get worse and worse or they get better and better. In today's episode, Eric and Kevin show why this is historically and biblically false. But not only that, why is being a cynical pessimist or an authoritarian optimist ultimately harmful? And if things get neither worse or better, what happens instead?
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Eric, Kevin, and two special guests talk about food on their drive back from Eric’s birthday celebration. Why is food connected with God’s goodness and creation, and what are our favorite foods and why? A fun discussion on food and a whole buffet of restaurant and recipe recommendations. Bon appetite!
Eric and Kevin talk about their love of books. Just like last summer they lay out their top ten books of all time and the why's. They also lay out how they became readers, reading disciplines they have developed, and what is gained from reading.
Eric and Kevin offer some speculative thoughts on the future of the Church as a whole in the United States of America. Will this be another example of explaining tomorrow why the predictions made yesterday did not come true today, or are there some trends that are inevitable and can be seen already? You choose. Also, you choose if Eric and Kevin disagree on several supposed negatives and positives. Hint: We do!
What is a para-church ministry? What purposes have they historically served, and how it can it be helpful and hurtful to the church of the living God? Eric and Kevin who are both involved in different kinds of para-church organizations and who love the church have thoughts.
Eric and Kevin bring their discussion on spiritual abuse to a close, touching on topics that were not addressed due to time (Eric helps Kevin not be too long-winded). What are the requirements for spiritual leadership according to the scriptures, and why does spiritual abuse seem to crop up frequently within Reformed/ Reformed-ish Bible-believing circles?
Eric and Kevin discuss a heavy and increasingly relevant topic: Spiritual Abuse. They define the term, talk about the ways this kind of abuse happens, and discuss personal examples they have seen. Stay tuned for a follow up episode on this topic.
We are taking off May due to work schedules but will be back in June with several episodes dropping that month!
Eric and Kevin bravely have their first guest on the show (we mean the guest is brave, of course) to discuss the question of seminary and the value of it in the Christian life. What are some things all Christians can have regardless of seminary education, and what are some opportunities unique to seminary? Are there tips and tricks to avoid wrecking the Christian life, or your wallet, or your family when this route is chosen?
Eric and Kevin discuss their thoughts on discipleship in general, but specifically turn their focus towards newer believers and people who have the opportunity to disciple newer believers. This is their longest episode yet, but they hope it will be a helpful resource.
In their first episode of 2023, Eric and Kevin discuss the history of linking Christianity and America, then discuss the question of whether it is compatible to claim the identity of a Christian and American simultaneously.
Eric and Kevin tackle the ministry question of whether or not to assume people we disciple or work with in a ministry context are saved or not. Also discussed is the drawbacks of going too far with each assumption, and how to deal with different scenarios related to this.
As 2022 draws to a close, Eric and Kevin briefly (and yes we mean it this time) recount the podcast and how this idea even came about and conclude by saying what they are most thankful for.
Eric and Kevin talk about a great problem that we are often too busy to think about: busyness. Along the way, they discover some of the ways they are different personality wise, and what key truths to remember about rest.
We look at Christ's example of friendship and what the Word says about this important topic
Kevin & Eric talk about their love of movies. They lay out their top ten movies of all time and the why's. They also explore the reasons why movies capture our heart and some principles for Christians to think about when making decisions on watching certain movies.
What are the perticular joys and challenges when working with Senior Saints and Youth Saints?
A historical look at the reasons for the modern day conflict in Ukraine. We also ask the question: How does a Christian know what to believe in these situations?