Marumolwe Podcast - With Tatsithy: Recent Episodes
Kagiso Motshwanedi
An open and safe space for Men. Discussing everything Men don't normally discuss openly, Marriage, Love, Parenthood, Self-Healing, Mental Health and more, with a bit of a Woman's touch.
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I often get asked when is the right time to get married? especially when people learn my age and see the ring on my finger.
The right time to get married is the right time for you and partner, do I recommend to get married young? it really doesn't matter what I recommend because what works for me and my partner can never work for you and yours but I can always try to give my 2cents on the matter.
Lets unpack, when is the right time to get married?
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Relationships are naturally hard to deal with now imagine how hard being married is, especially if your core values between spouse do not match, And not only values, I mean like "Marriage" is hard in a heart-wrenching, soul-stretching good kind of way.
But the question remains what is it exactly hard about relationships/marriage to deal with?
Join us as we unpack it all. Enjoy!
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We are the generation of stepping up parents. Parents that makes sure that we are available for our children. Now imagine being a single father to a 5 year old daughter.
Being a single parent it is openly spoken about when it comes to mothers and not fathers because it is not rare to find a dedicated father raising his child alone as a single parent.
Lets unpack how is it being a single father.
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Fatherhood came and changed my lives perspective, how I view life, How I carry myself, and how I handle certain situations. although it comes with its own challenges and difficulties, especially being a father to a girl child.
Lets unpack some of the things I've learnt ever since I became a father.
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When you get married, there are things one wish they know before we they say the "I DO", and sometimes we don't know them until we are deep inside the marriage.Come sit with me as I unpack some of the things I wish I knew before I got married.
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Having to deal with mental health illness is very texting on a person now add having to deal with imposter syndrome because of the new career field you are in.
For a person who always suffered with mental health issues from a very young age, I never thought that imposter syndrome would trigger so many emotions and feelings.
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The big question still remains can a providing father still be a present father or one will lack and the children will notice? The imbalance is so big that eventually the children will notice.
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When you get married, there are things one wish they know before we they say the "I DO", and sometimes we don't know them until we are deep inside the marriage. My wife and I just celebrated our first marriage anniversary while reflecting on the times of our marriage, we just realized that there are things that we wish we knew before we got married.
Come with us as we pack some of the things we wish before we got married.
Enjoy!
Submission in relationships is a big deal let alone in a marriage, the question remains, who submits to who because, one has to submit to somebody, because the bible says in -Ephesians 5:24-26 {24Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her 26to sanctify her, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word}.
With that being said we came in this land to work, just like Adam worked the land. So changing of careers and being multi talented in different field of life doesn't mean one isn't a master.
Let's unpack more on this conversation.
Family doesn't always have to be "Blood". People we meet in our walks of life end up becoming family to us, the friends we make and the company we keep.
Having brothers like "Sipho Siga Miya", always means a lot to some of us, because one get to share his life experiences with us and we get to learn from his mistakes and teachings.
Life hasn't always been perfect, I've always shown signs of depression but because we were raised in a community and a society that didn't believe in mental health nor even depression it made matters worse.
Life before the attempt suicide was a bit blissful, I had started to live out one of my dreams, I had travelled the world, I had met so many people including my hero's. I have never had suicidal thought before until that day.
Let's unpack!
Being a Present father is much better than being a Providing father, because your children know that they can count on you, they know that they can have talks with you about anything and everything and that relationship can easily prevent a lot of "Daddy Issues" most people are facing out there.
I rather be a present father over a providing father, because at some point, providing comes a naturally but let us not run our house holds as the sociality tells us to.
Even in my big boy age, I still cannot have a simple conversation with my Father. I've tried but he has never opened that safe space for me or my two older brothers.
That alone has created a lot of issues.
Lets Find out more on this Episode!!
I have never thought that I would see myself in a lecture hall, not in this life time but guess what? I went back to school.
Education Is The KEY To "Success", so they say.
I am very excited about this new phase of my life. This new journey I am very happy about, this is a personal move for me in so many ways.
Let's unpack.
5 signs I knew I was healing. I was healing from past traumatic experiences, I was healing from my self.
At first I didn't know what to deal when started noticing those signs, I thought I was losing my mind, I thought I was crazy, But I started to embrace the signs, I started to meditate on those signs to get clarity and understanding on what they mean exactly and boy oh boy, they made sense.
I just had to share with y'all.
ENJOY!!
As people we should be willing to accept change, and adapt to growth. Growth can be vey intimidating for other, while it can also be a good thing for most of us. Growth and change are a sign that we as people we are evolving and we are not moving on flight mode, with that said, most of us we grew up being told that we are not good enough to try and do multiple things at once, that we should be pick one thing and do that our whole life.
We grew up with fears that we projected into us by either our parents, school teacher and even the sociality we grew up in.
Today we are a generation that is "WOKE". we are now believe that as people rather as a person "I can do multiple things at once and be good at them", without the fear of being labelled "Jack Of All Trades, Master Of Non".
In now times, everything has become sexual, everything has became soft porn. You cannot login into social media and not scroll past ass/bums in in two scrolls, even advise has turned into sexuality. Well today I had to share "6 Non Sexual Advise I Wish I Knew Earlier".
Enjoy!
I've never really been open about my attempt suicide. In this podcast episode, I am touching base on my experiences in attempting to commit suicide. Life was never the same after that day. Everything changed not knowing if its for the best or the worst but one thing I know is that a part of me died that day.
I am still working on myself. I'm waiting for my rebirth season. will it ever come? Maybe Yes, Maybe No, I am yet to find out
This Is MY Suicide Story and I hope you find light.
People always had the misconception of We we're either "Friends With Benefits or We Dated Secretively". and it was nothing like that.
How My Wife and I Met, we were friends before anything else, so Our relationship was build on a solid friendship foundation. Let's Up Pack.
An Episode of Discovery ft S'phamandla.
Here is just a conversation about learning to listen to your gut feelings and how our parents have projected fears into our life from childhood to adulthood.
Spiritualty is a big factor in our life, and spiritually if you are not strong enough that is when the most suffering happens because also they feeling the negative vibes through their energies and we all know "Energies Do Not Lie".
We have 7 main chakra's in the body namely "Crown, 3rd Eye, Throat, Heart, Solar Plexus, Sacral & Root Chakra".
In this podcast episode I'll share with you on how to identify if your chakra's are imbalanced.
Enjoy!
I always believe that a person can do more than just one thing as a profession and still be good at it. We live in a society that loves to label people as "Jack of all trades, Master of non" and we turn to fall under the spell of "What will people say".
In this episode I am touching base on the ideology of "Me as a person, I can try and explore all my other interest outside my current profession and still be good at it. I just do not want to be boxed into one thing my whole life.
People are allowed to grow, change, evolve and explore.
Enjoy!
This is an episode about two men talking about how comfortable it is to be in a relationship as "Black Men" of this generation and to be "Joyful" in a relationship rather than being "Happy".
We have touched on a lot of topics in this conversation, trying to break the ice and introduce topics bit by bit for this podcast.
Enjoy!!
This is an introduction of The Marumolwe podcast - With Tatsithy. Marumolwe is my late grandfather's name so in his honor is had to dedicate this new journey to him.
In this episode I am also dropping hints of topics and what to expect from me as we get to know each other a little better.