We talk everything Life, Relationships and Business. We know life can really be hard! But the people we hear of and see that has made it in any area of life are Disruptors. People who have dared life and had the courage to change the way things are done! At 234distrupt with KJ, we help you deviate from the norm on issues about Life, Relationships and Business. Doing things the old way and expecting a different result is one of the definitions of Insanity! At 234distrupt with KJ, we are committed to helping you build a better you and inspiring you to live your life on your own terms. We welcome you to your new world.234distrupt with KJ Team
Things might seem not too good now but try doing them differently and watch them change
Please listen to this and send to your friends. Every action , everything we do in this life is a seed and there a consequences sometimes grace consequences for our actions.
Some people are in your life for a season don’t mistake the fact that they are going to be there the long haul. Most people can’t handle the height you are going and are bound to fall off
When you try to get something solved and it seems to defy solutions, it’s just better you accept the truth.
Relationships don’t always last because of good times they last because of the love exhibited in bad times
Some of us are die hard lovers but the issue is the people you love, do they love you back?
When we quote ‘ no weapon formed against me shall prosper’ let us also be careful that we are not the weapon formed against ourselves.
Everything you need is in you,the courage, the will, mental capacity and all. You just need to search within you.
We praise other people most of the time but we never find the time to praise ourself.. You deserve some praise
Don't judge anybody, no one has it easy, the factbthat some things come easy to you doesn't mean it's same for everyone
Parental Alienation is depriving the other party ease of access to children. You don’t own children God owns them. The earlier you know you are a caretaker the better
Be careful of your choice of business partner, spouse or any other life defining events
You don’t know how powerful you are. The reason why people team up to bring you down is to show how powerful you really are
Live your life exactly the way you want
It. Not the way someone thinks you should. You are absolutely responsible for your life
Does it look like things around you are not going the way you want them to go? Hang in there. It’s going to get better
Things are changing these days where a lot of women earn more or might even earn more than their husbands. Please lend a helping hand when you can as a woman
Pride kills, pride destroys, pride destroys homes. Keep pride out of your life and marriage and things will be fine
Its very important to spend time with your spouse otherwise someone else will help you do that. Put your spouse on your to-do list today and everyday
As a woman while trying t help your husband be the best he can be, wisdom is all you need
Things don’t just work out, you work at it. It could be a relationship or marriage you have to be intentional for it to work.
Never hit a man when he is weak, things happen and things can change and he will remember you for the role you played
Don't make jest of people that make a mistake or fail. At least they are way better than those not trying at all.
There are ways that seems right but in the end lies destruction. Be careful of the paths you thread and the people you follow this year. Avoid bad friendships
You will newr be truly happy if you continually hold on to things that make you sad. Let them go!
You might be th head of and organisation or earning more than most people in your set, don't look down on anyone trying to make a living legitimately for themselves
When you have a dream of God telling you to do something, do it NOW. Stop telling it to small minded people
Most times learn yo kep your good news to yourself and let people see it. Don't go about sharing stuff with people , you don't know the ones that are really genuine about their love for you and your progress. Shut-up!
Don't dissapoint yourself because q few years from now you will be more angry at yourself about the decision you didn't take than the ones you did
If you start a process and keep stopping chances are you won't get it. Ho after what you really want and you just might get it.
To get ahead in life you need to surround yourself with dreamers, thinkers, promoters and doers.
You are probably at a place in your life now you are ok, you want to move on from where you are now and things seems more than what you can handle.. listen…
Everything works together for your good. Irrespective of the mess you might find yourself if taken yourself into God will use it for your good and his own glory
It’s a new year and you can’t continue with some people in your life.. flee negative people
This too shall pass. It doesn’t matter what you are going through or situations that seems not going anywhere, this too shall pass.
It’s been an amazing year and I want to wish you all a wonderful Christmas and a happy new year in advance.
Everyone has a right to their own opinion. Dont let other peooles opinion of you put you down. Get up and move on
Don't tie a happy life to people, because they can always fail. Tie it to the achievement of a goal.
If you want to make a change in your life then you must be willing to do things differently ..
When making the choice of relationship, spouses or friendships be extra careful. Some build you up and some destroy
God died t need people who left to bless you do quit trying to bring them back… let them go!
People who don’t like you always team up together. The good thing there is that they don’t even like themselves. You are powerful.
Staying on your lane is the best place you can ever be and be right. Please stay there because there is no traffic there
It’s your life make the most of it. Don’t waste it trying to make it what people think it should be.
Everything you need for a great life is all within you, you just have to look within you and pull it out.
Some doors are closed on us sometimes because if they are not we won’t know it’s time to move forward. When some doors remain consistently closed, it might be a sign it’s time to move forward.
People who love the k like angels on first appearance can be snakes and people who look rude can be the best people
Things can be pretty rough sometimes but the best you can do for yourself it not to loose it. Keep it together.
Don’t be afraid of fear. Let it challenge you and make you a stronger version of yourself.
Surround yourself with great people, nice people and people that will help you move forward
So many that msg can make people head for separation chief of which can be family and friends
A great marriage is one that is meant to be enjoyed and also loved. There are some situations that make a couple want to separate. This podcast is meant to examine such
A will is a document recognised by law which stipulates how an individual’s estate will be administered. Take a listen
A lot of things are happening in our environment that are not palatable to the ears. Take care of your life and future
This is the concluding part of the husband and wives series. Please listen to all from the beginning again.
Wisdom is the principal thing in any relationship. Get wisdom to deal with issues with your spouse.
Today we have a list of 10 things that men really want. Take your time out to listen to it
Husbands and Wives 3 ( What do women really want). This episode and comments all came from women themselves. It’s interested to listen to
Sex brings sanity in the home, don’t reduce it to a chore or something on your to-do list.
Some children have never seen their dads do chores around the house. Please be a role model to your children in the home and don’t raise tyrants as sons
It’s nice when women help around the house. Are you one who does? Or you have one who does? You are blessed.
As we conclude in the series with children, we will be sharing on husbands and wives. It will be worth your while
Most often than not , parents want too much from their children, much more than the children can give. Most times this is from a selfish perspective
When children get it right itch their choice of life partners , everybody is happy. Help them get it right
When you have children that starts having a strong affinity for the opposite sex, please advice them in the way to go. Don’t castigate, make friends with them, get to know them better and you will be glad you did.
Children come with their own gifting, stop comparing children. All children have their own paths in life.
As parent sometimes we expect too much from children because of our unhealthy spirit of competition and comparison. An old friend sent a piece a while ago (Lawumi) and I thought to share with you to buttress this podcast.
We need to be vigilant of the company our children keep and children should also be careful about the company they keep. Bad company always affects your choices
Our children deal with a lot of things chief of which is peer pressure. Help them so you don’t have to carry as adult in your old age.
Children are a gift from God and as such we don’t own them. This podcast series is to help us teach them in the way they should go.
Don’t be that person who won’t love themselves. Put yourself on your own priority list.
When the cost of your relationship is too high i.e one that disrespect is on the menu, walk away. A continuous offender is an unrepentant one. When people show you who they are, believe them.
You need to ask yourself this big question this new month as the year ends? Who's on your wagon?
No matter where you think you are right now, God has you exactly where you want to be , to learn and gain something. If he doesn't want you there, trust me you will be dead
A lot of people are guilty of this act of loving a child or showing preference for a child over another . Listen and learn
How you offended your child as a parent, have you said or done hurtful things to them? Take steps today to mend fences. The results might be very costly.
Lessons I wish I had known earlier was based on questions and comments I got from the last few podcasts. Please listen and enjoy.
Ño matter how bad your relationships have been, its not a death sentence. Learn from it and move on.
Some of us have made mistakes in our lives especially in our Finances.
But we can rise again.
You are not your past and you are not your mistakes. You can rise far above your mistakes and have a glorious future. Dont let anyone tell you otherwise.
We are back from our break and this season promise to be very explosive, informative and also mind blowing. Seat back relax and enjoy this season and have great testimonies.
You owe no one anything so dont let people that have sipped from the well of entitlement drain you
When things happen to you, you might not be able to control them. But you can control how you respond. You have control over your response.
No matter what stage of life you are in or what you are going through, life stops for No one.
I learnt that loyalty has an expiry date. Stop hanging on to people that have long left you because you are the good person.
Never try to copy others. what works for others might not work for you and others timing is not yours.. stay in your own lane.
Sometimes the bad things that happen in our lives put us on the path to the best things.
Don't always talk down on yourself.. sometimes cut yourself some slack and give yourself credit.
Close the door to your past mistakes don't dwell on them. When the past comes calling, ignore it. It has nothing to offer.
There are some ways that seem right and in the and in the destruction lies. Avoid those routes this year
Happy new year to you all. It's a brand new year to start again and most importantly do it right. What plans do you have for the year and how many of them have u renege on? Well it's not too late to make it right.