Becoming A Dangerous Man: Recent Episodes
Phil Anderton
Men getting in the fight to restore honor to masculinity, faith in families, and pride in our country. Each week we release a Mindful Monday episode, with a quote or idea I'm thinking on, with my thoughts for you to take away and implement. Then mid week we release a deeper dive into what is means to become dangerous, and get on the path. If you agree weak men make hard times, and these are hard times, join us on our path to helping you become dangerous.
Instead of thinking something is wrong with you, accept what is reality. That until God returns, we are stuck in the fight of good versus evil.
So the battle going on in your head, identify the trifecta that gives them the advantage, and move towards being to focused on moving forward to pay them any attention.
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The men in my circle, my tribe, know that for as much as I'm here for them, I will also be the first on to hold them accountable.
No man I know is hitting a woman, period, unless he's ready to put the gloves on and step in the ring with me. And in this particular case, a very good friend of mine I learned drives home drunk from the bar. Not anymore he's not, not if he wants to stay in the circle.
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Women are generally wired to avoid making a scene, and to avoid conflict in public. This conditioning has gone on for so long, that it often overpowers their instincts to protect themselves when they don't feel safe.
Let's talk today about the idea of using fear, as well as how to convince women to keep their heads up living in a bubble.
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The "freedom" and "sovereignty" that I subscribe to, isn't waiting on the outcome of the election. So regardless if he is on the ballot, wins, or they steal another one, my path is set.
If you are ready to learn what it means to get on the path to becoming dangerous, email me and let's jump on a call.
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Do you feel in control, able to make decisions "uncoerced"? Do you feel confident should we experience "hard times"? Do you believe there will be a group of people you can trust who will help you figure it out?
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If you are still watching the circus but think you are not because you sit on the opposing the sideline, you're wrong. Two sides of the same coin, and you are limiting any hope of making real change in your life.
Listen today as we talk what a rite of passage is, and the first phase required, the hardest phase, that of separating yourself.
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It's not as much about blending in, as I don't plan to gain 50 pounds and walk around in pajamas, but about not making yourself an easy to identify threat to the bad guy, especially as the "good guy" becomes the "bad guy".
Share the episode amongst your team and let me know when we can have discussion about it further. Perhaps a group zoom call within your battle team, or if you are local to DFW, over coffee or a workout.
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Props to the guys with home armories and tricked out vehicles and garages ready to load out. Hope the enemy gives you a warning order to allow you time to prepare.
For the rest of us, don't focus on the gear you don't have or can't afford, as we don't know when the balloon will go up. What is always true, is that our mind and body will be in every fight, and we can sharpen those every day until that day where we will be tested.
And better then gear, is the people who will stand with us to face the threat head on. Start there. Let the rest take care of itself.
Email me your questions for Friday's Quick Fire and and ideas you have for future conversations. And always standing by for those ready to work with me.
The last conversation on purpose, I shared a story of having all the time in the world and it being one of the darkest times in my life.
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One of the lowest points in my life, I had nothing but time.
And while working with men I find the same is true, it's not that they need more and money, they need direction, and a higher purpose then just showing up.
So listen today as I share my purpose, how I use that to guide my every damn day, and what the desired end state looks like when I hold true to "my why".
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On a Saturday when we have no soccer games, I bet collectively we spend 20 hours or more on screen time. By the end of that day, I'm so disappointed in my life and how much control we give away to technology.
Yet here I am reminding myself, the power to change that starts with me, getting off my phone, and using my hands to either build, repair, or create something of value other than burning up the wifi.
So which is it y'all, you going to take your place on the couch every night, or join me in developing a new skill that might actually come in handy, sooner rather than later.
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A guy like me is around the corner waiting to meet you and have that conversation you need to hear. Turn off the political noise, breaking news, and left/right memes that claim the world is ending. It's Not.
Food, water, utilities, fuel, all still readily available. These are not hard times, yet. So while we can, continue to sharpen your skills, train to learn new skills, and see that the people around you will add value when SHTF.
If you'd take a leap of faith today, you might find the answer has always been there. Email me if I can help you.
Until you have to question where you will buy food for your family, or you lose the ability to defend them, we aren't there yet.
And yes, I understand choices have to be made as prices have gone up, but don't tell me on one hand food and gas is more expensive, while you maintain your subscriptions and buy the latest iphone.
While time is still on our side, get on the path. Learn new skills, identify waste, develop your local barter network, and so much more. Don't allow the distraction that is "the world is on fire" to stop you from your preparations for when the ship does sink and it's time to swim.
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Might be the most F bombs I've dropped in a while. The Italian boxer getting beat on by a man had me fired up today, then I see Willie's side piece yelling about Christmas.
Anyways, Trump should win in Nov, but doesn't take office till January. Understand the 2 months in between is enough time to finish destroying our country, and if you ain't ready, good night.
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As I look back on 2020 and where this path to becoming dangerous began, it's clear I had to accept a few things first. Nobody is saving us, they aren't representing me, and I would be alone in the defense of my family.
Those ideas set me on my current trajectory, and I share the 4 ideas to help you establish your way forward. If I can help, reach out via email.
Strong, married men have this in common. As do men who've gone through a divorce and lost their children, and themselves.
You see, the first men, they are the rock they build their families on. And many men I work with after a divorce, they made their wife the rock, thus losing who they were when she decides the marriage is over.
Don't be the guy who gets lost in the storm, know where you stand at all times. Be your own lighthouse, and be the light for others. When you know you are, and are unapologetically you, your tribe will find you.
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The only value to anger is if you decide to wake up, and take charge of your life and focus on where you can have an impact. Your life, the value you bring, the way in which you lead and serve those you love, and being worthy of being followed.
Those in arms reach are watching, and being the best you, means you'll maintain influence over the talking heads and social media floozies. So while the news cycle works 24/7 to maintain relevance, don't let them decide for you what's important.
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Vote for him, I will. But accept that after that it'll still be completely up to you when SHTF.
Accept the reality, he is just the face, the captain, the MVP, or your team. He is no more in control then the current commander in chief. It's the people we don't see, don't elect, and can't hold accountable that are.
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The military aged males, the millions of them in our country, without families, have set the bar. Crime, looting, lawlessness, and when they can get a women or child alone, savagery.
What are you doing to prepare to meet these men, or more, teach and train your wife and kids to defend against them?
What's more, if you are fat and lazy and kick your feet up everyday, what the hell are you waiting for?
Spare me any talks about unity, or we need to do anything together. I don't trust anyone outside of my immediate family and select friends and put zero stock in politics or prayer as the answer. Listen to the show before judging that last one though.
And the last time enough people united around a political "movement", how'd that go for them?
While the circus adds new acts, like guilty verdicts, and those in attendance continue to buy tickets and wait for November 5th...
Those on the path to becoming dangerous need to remain focused on where they have control.
And how to maintain your edge when dealing with conflict and always stay in the fight, under control, and able to lead.
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With an introduction by a mutual friend, and without knowing anything else about him other Michael said we should talk, we decided to do it on a podcast and hit record.
Buckle up as two dudes talk systemic problems around nationalized public schools, mental health and impact around kids and schools, how to keep kids safe, and why men have to lead from the front.
If you want to get to know Paddy, connect with him via LinkedIn.
This is my second guest interview, looking for any tips or other men I need to have a similar conversation with.
May offend 99% of the population today.
Always reminded why I'm for the few, and not the many.
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You are either getting ready to move, look for a new job, perhaps leave active duty, or without notice have to find a new job, we all go through periods of change.
Having still failed to fully transition from active duty to retired, and flirting with full time coaching and general contracting, allow me to share a massive common denominator when going through change.
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There is something to be said of the pain of discipline, or the pain of regret, and having to make the choice.
But before that stands a chance, you need to know how close you are to the show, and how much they got you by the balls.
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This podcast is for the women who have been supporting me and the men seeking to become dangerous. A conversation specifically for you.
We are talking men without a mentor, without a battle team, who seek money over mission, and who have mommy/daddy issues.
I really hope this topic resonates with you and look forward to your feedback. Email or LinkedIn.
When we understand our sphere of control, and where our focus guarantees results, versus our inability to control others and detaching emotion from outcome.
When focused, the real magic happens with influence, becoming a man of value, leading by example, and making others want to be in our tribe.
Learn to harness this superpower and get on the path to becoming dangerous. Let's jump on a call if you are ready to take control and know you will be ready for whatever comes next.
With the world on fire, and every conversation I have with men around some version of preparedness, it seemed fitting my first interview be with a man who wrote a philosophy on how to prepare.
Follow along for a gripping hour plus interview and leave with the confidence that when focused on your sphere of control, with quality inputs, a willingness to train, and the right tools, you will be ready for whatever comes next.
Les can be reached via email or his website.
As always, I'm standing by for those looking to invest in themselves and make being ready a priority in 2024.
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In a follow up to Monday's view on social media, wanted to add your perspective, and how you can learn from me and do the same. Evaluate your time spent, energy expended, and emotional energy you can't get back.
If you are one of the ten men I'm looking for, find me.
As my board of advisors, I'm asking for feedback on a recent revelation I've had working with men; the feeling where they are at being alone.
Since 2020 it seems everyday is a new reason for someone to be outraged or draw new lines in the sand. And everyday more men have had enough. Only instead of checking out, they shelter physically and seek refuge in online platforms and other bad habits to ignore the decline in society.
I want to offer a place for those men, who like us, understand our roles, and are preparing for the fight ahead. Let me know your thoughts. Email. LinkedIn.
Figured this is "mainstream" news so I'd share my thoughts.
I will say, if you're virgin ears have never considered the real big bad wolf in this country, this one may offend you.
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Not sure what your summer plans are, but mine don't involve visiting any major city in the US run by democrats and wearing the title of a "sanctuary".
And if you think the chaos they'll experience is isolated to their problem, and believe "not my monkey, not my circus", you don't understand supply chains.
Let's jump on a call if I can expedite your ability to be ready. Connect via LinkedIn. Email.
Take the test, are you asleep, have you "awaken", or do you likely fall somewhere in between.
It's a longer episode than usual but I believe well worth listening.
Let me know your thoughts or if we can schedule a call.
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While we hope for the best, we know better than to not prepare for the worst. And my strongly held belief is that if he overcomes the massive fraud of 2020 and wins, the 2 months before he's sworn in will be the most chaotic months in our history outside of revolution and war.
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Today we discuss the moral decline in our society, and how four of the five "teachers" have failed us; school, law, media and church.
The last one, families, are on the brink and at a critical point of no return.
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A friend was curious about my more recent admissions about my faith and choosing to walk with God.
Today I want to share what faith means to me, what it doesn't, and why I believe. I am never for everyone, but if this message hits, and you have someone in your life who needs to hear it, please share.
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With the grind of the week already in motion, consider what you are doing for yourself, and specifically, three things to identify that when repeated, will ensure you meet the man you said you'd be end of year head on.
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Regardless if/when the enemy shows up, these tips are universal to improving overall health, and the ability for you to respond to any emergency.
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When the alarm goes off, do you have a plan? Are their things you do as a family that are non-negotiable? Have you established left/right lateral limits to work within?
Let's discuss how your routines, rituals, and rules are impacting your life and the way you lead your family.
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When conducting military planning operations, the enemies capabilities are identified as most likely to happen, and most deadly that could happen.
When considering preparations for 2024, nothing is off the table.
This is the one to share with fence sitters waiting to drain the swamp and then all will be well. *insert eye roll
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It will be the difference between having men standing shoulder to shoulder, and you being alone.
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So often we are stuck in a fixed mindset, or treated to our past mistakes.
What if we could identify based on our potential, and set a path to become that and more?
Raise the bar in your life by casting a vision worthy of a man to lead you through the year and whatever it brings.
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An update of what I've been working on, and a story from New Years to get you thinking about suffering and lonliness.
Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional.
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So much good will around remembering the sacrifice, while glossing over the obvious.
While we can't "fight the power" in any real sense, we can call a spade a spade and prepare.
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Time is the one asset you have the most control over, and will see results where it is focused.
Consider where your's is being spent, and I guarantee you could do better.
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It's not because you're trying to be nice, or being a gentlemen, though that is a solid quality.
You are the protector of your family, and by getting out of the vehicle first, and in the vehicle last, you are able to maintain situational awareness and see the threat coming.
The difference between working out and training relate to those in life who show up, verse those with goals and objectives and a vision.
With 2024 fast approaching, what better time than now to decide to take control, establish a vision, and work on the next 90 days to execute.
Maintaining the status quo works in times of peace, with a lot of luck and zero threat from the enemy. How confident are you that 2024 will hold for you to maintain?
Those on the path, we aren't concerned with tomorrow, the focus is on right now, and being ready.
Discussing preparedness and the importance of starting with the people closest to you, those you care about, those you won't leave out to dry should the storm come.
Start with asking questions, generate thought and their desire to want to prepare, then you can offer the advice and way ahead for them.
I'm working on my planning, and will be an open book to share the journey with you. 6 areas I have to start off.
Defense
Grey Man
Sustenance
Medical
Bug Out
Survive Off-Grid
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Three points to why I think as Americans, we have to stand with Israel, regardless of politics or corruption that is rampant in every government.
We talk history, neighbors, and if they were to lose, why we'd be next.
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Without going full doomsday, it's safe to acknowledge the real threat if/when the grid goes down. Our reliance on technology, cell service, wifi, is past the point of no return.
We need to create secondary/tertiary means to communicate, get back to some black and white, and maybe pull out the VCR.
Nothing about tomorrow is certain, accept the need to be prepared for anything.
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So you think you're a sheepdog. You walk amongst the flock, always on the alert and you plan to defend, even sacrifice, for them.
What if I told you everything about this strategy is not only wrong, but sets you up for failure, criminal prosecution, and financial liability that could ruin you.
What if there was something better, a different way to look at it, to still be the protector, but to do it in a way that serves you and those who matter most.
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Having been up close and personal on Saturday night, and been in a position to have my family take cover, and put myself in front of them and whatever was coming our way, I want to share four key takeaways from the event, to assist you in planning your next trip with those you love.
It's about being prepared, and putting in the work now, before you are left with no choice.
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As Rome began it's decent, the "powers at be" needed to keep the peace, thus the free grain (bread), and the entertainment in the form of chariot races, theatre, and the gladiators (circus). The idea was, give them just enough to eat and keep them occupied, they wouldn't look around long enough to see how screwed they were, and they wouldn't revolt against the elites.
Could we make the case with the government handouts, social welfare, and entitlement programs, combined with the endless 24/7 cycle of news, social media, sports and entertainment, that we too are missing the bigger issue.
There will be no return to normal, and the storm will not pass, and the train is destined to fall off the tracks, soon. Will you be ready?
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This one is personal, as we discuss temptation, and acting on temptation. We either maintain our discipline, and suffer when needed, or we succumb, and feel the sting of guilt, shame, and regret.
Specifically, I make the case on how this temptation often leads to porn, followed by masturbation, and how it's killing your relationship.
You're not in a sexless marriage, you're in a selfish marriage where you and maybe your partner are flying solo, and thus not working for each other.
Never for the kids, but for the adults. And not for the masses, but for the few who know, and those on their paths to becoming dangerous.
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When commenting on a post regarding the normalization of obesity, someone asked why do I care? I gave my reasons stating the obvious and she said, "oh, your one of those". If one of those means a person not buying the BS, not waiting to be fed the narrative, not agreeing to this woke insanity, then your damn right.
And I'm willing to bet you are one of those as well, so sit back, and enjoy this fireball. Not for the kids and some feelings may get hurt, but I think you can take it.
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While anger is likely your go-to, the expression of the anger in the form of losing your cool or yelling, is doing more harm than good.
Today we discuss why we have to do better on our path to becoming dangerous.
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I'm tired of talking to internet "warriors". They comment and post how they won't let fear keep them from supporting Trump. OK.
These weak ass individuals have likely never walked the streets of New York, Philadelphia, Chicago, Houston, Dallas, LA. I have. And you know what I see, threats everywhere. From homeless, drugs, and mentally disturbed individuals, to young and dumb and looking to record something to go viral. Both camps will see the MAGA hat the same way, and look to exert the hate in their hearts on the unsuspecting victim who will claim "they didn't see it coming".
Call me crazy, scared, weak, OK. Just don't call me from the hospital if you become a victim, or jail if you defend yourself but end up the one arrested.
My role as the leader of my family is to lead my family, and I can't do that as a martyr or from jail. I can still vote for DJT, donate money to his campaign, or volunteer to oversee the election in my county, without wearing a hat or shirt that says "hey crazy liberal, look at me".
I had the pleasure of breaking bread with my daughter, her boyfriend, and some friends, all of them Gen Zers.
While all hope seems lost with where our country is headed, I was inspired after the conversation.
They are looking for direction, will listen, and have the desire to be led.
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In today's Try To Cancel Me, we discuss how my comment on family values and calling mental illness what it is, triggered it being taken down for hate speech, and my feelings on the matter.
Never for the faint at heart. We are not for everyone, but those we are for, till the end!
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Every letter/symbol after LGB is a step towards the normalization of pedophilia, and the further destruction of the nuclear family.
Why did it take five years for The Sound of Freedom to hit the theatres?
Why isn't the Epstein list published?
Why are men who shouldn't be within 1000 feet of a school reading books?
Why are books in elementary school not able to be read in public debate?
Why, why, why?
Today we discuss these topics and encourage everyone to go see the movie, in theatres, and support anyone and everyone in the fight to protect the innocence of children. If ever you had an episode of mine to share, this is a good one.
Today's episode we discuss the gaslighting taking place while "We The People" continue to flex what little power we left to influence culture, why it's necessary, but also why it's not the long-term answer.
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In the event it's your life or his, end his life.
But, ensure you did everything you could to prevent needing to face the consequences of that decision.
Situational Awareness
Present a hard target
Communicate and De-escalate
"It is better to be judged by 12 than buried by 6".
That doesn't mean it's necessary, as every fight does not need to be picked.
After an interesting discussion over the topic of "because I said so", I was inspired to bring these ideas to you.Public versus private and the dangersTalking back verse having a discussionMaking time for follow upBuilding Habits and RoutinesLeave a rating/review and reach out to me on LinkedIn or email.
If you expect people to be good just because you are good, you’re a fool. That’s like expecting the lion not to eat you because you didn’t eat him.
It's not enough to believe you'd stand up to evil, and defend your loved ones. You need to know.
Do you present a hard target? Are you able physically to move, shoot, communicate?
Are you capable of self defense and taking the fight to the enemy?
Are you prepared to destroy the bad guy, and the second/third order effects that come when taking a life?
Listen to today's show and consider getting on the path to becoming dangerous.
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Mindful Monday Episode around the amount of content we consume and the failure to take the time to question before believing, and challenging before repeating.
While marketers and creators continue to grab your attention, it's up to you to ensure it's your choice what you believe in. Especially in an ever polarizing society that looks to divide, be the change agent working the middle ground and battle ideas with experience, knowledge, and some depth to your argument.
Look for the MM moving forward for similar content to help start your week. Please leave a rating/review to help others find this show.
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As I will be on the road this afternoon, thought I'd double up on pre workout and have a go at the latest clickbait, "government funded food pyramid says lucky charms are healthier than steak".
Friday's show is always explicit so careful in the presence of small children. I like to point out current events to ensure you're aware of the stupidity that continues to be shoved down our throats. Keep a high level view of the woke and the crazy, and then double down on what you can do, where you have the influence and control, and stay on the path to becoming dangerous.
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Today I share 4 quotes from MLK and how very relevant they are today. I will warn it's a little old school tin foil hat stuff mixed in to make the points.
Take a stand.
Speak up.
Fight.
Never quit.
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Another Friday night and a glass of bourbon to loosen me up to talk current events.
Today we get after the world leaders meeting in secret, another "leader" found with documents where they shouldn't be, and why the banning of natural gas should be another wake up call.
These episodes are a blast and I don't spend anytime editing so hope you enjoy.
You asked for my take on the border crisis, and I still managed to relate it to politics. It's always about politics, sadly.
It's a friday night and with a little buzz I go all in on the effects of an open border, the consequences, and why I think it won't be secured anytime soon.
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New years is the worst time to set goals and plan to change. 90% of resolutions fail before the month ends. Don't fall for the marketing to reinvent yourself, and instead, see the opportunity that Sunday presents. Reflect on wins and losses, plan out your week, and be ready to execute when the alarm goes off on Monday.
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This week we talk prisoner exchange and why we don't care, learn about the coordinated effort to save unions, and fly off the handle on perverts teaching kids about butt sex.
Not for the faint at heart, and not with kids in the room please.
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ADD, ADHD, and the monkey mind. We all have some level or degree of difficulty focusing, but a prescription drug isn't the answer. Learning techniques to slow down, to breathe, and to focus our attention are in fact.
Join me today as I discuss what I do to start and finish my day, and how a calm mind is the key to strength.
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"Activism is a way for useless people to feel important". While Thomas Sowell calls them useless, I call them mouth breathers.
Today I discuss:
The necessity of our involvement in our children's education
Define mouth breather
Break down different paths our children take
How the polarization leads the sheep to the extremes
Article from today's episode: https://thefederalist.com/2022/11/18/conservatives-cant-run-and-hide-from-the-left-anymore-they-have-to-stand-and-fight/
Redwave or not, the game will continued to be played as it always has. In the best interest of those in power, those who fund their campaigns, and those who drink the kool aid.
Today we discuss the problems that remain following any election, the two possible outcomes, and what I ultimately think will happen and what we can do to prepare for the inevitable.
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Today we discuss the importance of knowing what we are, as a country, and what actually unites us.
We are a Constitutional, Federal, Republic.
Democrats and Republicans are merely characters created along shared values who "should" be representing us.
They are not, they are representing the elite, and "we the people" are all losing.
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Having covered down last episode on what it means to be a dangerous man, today I cover how to avoid the lone wolf mentality.
Getting on the path is about service, being legacy minded, and building a support system around you that will 10x anything you can do on your own.
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In this episode I celebrate a milestone, number 50, by having another go at what becoming a dangerous man is, where the idea came from, and who I am and why men need to get on a path to becoming dangerous. Email me at phil@becomingadangerousman.com Subscribe to the newsletter at dangerousman.substack.com Leave a rating/review and please, most important, SHARE THE SHOW!
One party has shown the last 2 years which direction it will continue to head if given the chance, are you on board?
Listen today and I'll share with you what you can do to help change course, and change what the history books will say about us.
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Nothing fancy today, just me wanting to read, out loud for you, the Declaration of Independence.
If this is broken, and we double down on crazy, why on Earth would we expect a different result?
Our society is better served when we get back to the idea of MLK and judging people on the content of their character. Our political system needs to be challenged to show return on investment, and stop filling for chapter 11 bankruptcy and turning our currency into monopoly money.
This can be fixed, and we can right the wrongs, but we need to get involved. We need to educate, inform, and engage.
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Today's show is about the sheep, the wolf, and what we can learn from mother nature.
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The wolf will always prey on the sheep.
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The wolf is an opportunist, and will kill by any means necessary.
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The sheep are defenseless, and why we need lions.
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No matter the law, and in spite of sheepdogs, the wolf will always prevail.
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In remembrance of those we lost that day 21 years ago, and the many lives lost sense in the war on terror, we live to honor their memories and live lives worth remembering.
Whatever you're going through, no matter how difficult:
- You're not dead
- You're not alone
- It's still not that bad
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We need more men in the fight to restore honor to masculinity, faith in family, and pride in our country!
You are your own first responder. Law enforcement and EMS response times vary, but they most likely won't be there when you need them. Don't be a victim to not being prepared, or relying solely on someone else to save you.
Why you need to be prepared, and how to work to prevent and be ready to respond when SHTF.
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We only have to look back a few years to remember the chaos that ensued prior to the 2020 election. It was a distract, divide and concur method, and it worked. The sad truth is the media and political leaders were ok with the billions of dollars in damage, the countless lives lost, and the country set on its current path with no end in sight. All in the name of beating Donald Trump.
With an impending Red Wave in Nov, and another presidential election upcoming, expect 2020 on steroids. Are you ready for that?
Wrap your head around the fact that anything is possible, and even if you were safe last time, don't assume you'll be safe again.
Today we discuss what you can and should do to be prepared in the event hell is headed your way.
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Recruiting in the military in 2022 is at an all time low, post-Vietnam era numbers that should scare everyday Americans. Today we discuss five reasons why the people are less likely to join, and what we can do to help.
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As the education system seems broken, and institutions of "higher learning" hijacked, today we discuss:
What knowledge is and why it truly is power, and what power mean
Why we can't be silenced
How getting on the path is the answer
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Regardless of where you fall outside of center
the attack on a former President
in his home
by the opposing administration
is an attack on middle America.
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Today we discuss how showing up in big moments can give a false sense of security, and how the enemy we are fighting is entrenched in a decades long fight.
We can't wait for a cancer diagnosis to start living life, and we can't save our country with a Red Wave.
It all starts with us, being the best version of ourselves, leading our family, and surrounding ourselves with people who add value.
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But when they find their true power, when they unite with a strong man, they become unstoppable.
Baseline truths that
- men and men, women are women
- the science of yesterday
- facts over feelings
Learn what it means to have 51% of the vote
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Today we discuss breaking points and what it took for me to get in this fight. I also challenge you to consider if you haven't joined in the fight yet, why not. You don't have to hit the streets, and there are a few things you can do right now to ensure your part of the solution and not contributing to the problem.
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The values learned in training a dog, and applying the experience into personal growth, and building strong relationships with your kids and significant others.
Patience, teaching, discipline, reinforce, and being an example.
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Today I share what I learned from my trip getting away from it all, and four things you can do in your life to make an impact.
Enjoy the drive
Leave the schedule
Go dark
Enjoy the company
Should you choose, the why!
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Today we discuss the culture around team sports, and how well intentioned conversations after games can lead to a lack of accountability and ownership and even damage our children becoming adults.
20 minutes in we draw a line in the sand, don't cross it if you're not initiated.
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Today is part 2 of a series on Spartans and what we can learn from them on our paths to becoming dangerous.
Our mind is our greatest weapon, looking to death to truly live, and conquering fear in order to win.
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Today we discuss how being quick to anger leads to damage that can't be totally undone, and what we can learn from soccer.
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Today is the first part in a series where we will compare the Spartan warrior culture with becoming a dangerous man.
- simplify your life
- function over fashion
- doing hard things
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We are told our differences are what make us stronger, yet so much of society is stuck in echo chambers and differing opinions breeding hate.
Today we discuss how children in the same household choose very different paths, so why should kids in New York and Montana be expected to have similar outcomes.
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Today we go over where we are, and where we are headed. It's a nice break from the last few weeks of rather intense conversations.
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My life didn't miss a beat this weekend and yours shouldn't have either.
Today we discuss why the Supreme Court doing their job doesn't impact a man on a path to becoming dangerous, as well as the power women still have when it comes to the gift to create life.
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Today we discuss 6 sure fire ways to engage in a conversation with the uninitiated. Let them do the talking, come to some agreements, then flip the script and see how fast they start backpedaling.
Sitting on the fence and waiting for "a return to normal" is not an option. We must pick sides. And we need to recruit allies and like minded men in this fight.
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Until you can do whatever you want to do, it's likely you have a list of things you need to do. Today we discuss five things that when done everyday, will help you maintain consistency, set priorities, and get after life.
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Today we get back to discussing ways to have an impact on those around you. Generally speaking, we fall into 1 of 5 categories:
Leaning right and active, right and unsure, middle of the road, leaning left and misguided, or full on lost.
Listen to today's episode and learn some tactics to engaging in meaningful discussion depending on where they fall.
Not all hope is lost.
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WARNING! If this is your first episode, might want to go back a few, as I go through several of my strongest opinions to make the case for how the attack on children and real women, plus a few social/culture issues has led us to where we are. This one is not for the faint at heart.
Listen to the end as I connect the dots from K-12 to the case for traditional roles in the home, as a declining birth rate is setting us up for nothing good.
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Today we go back in time, and add a little history lesson to the argument for the right to bear arms.
The emotions of the current media coverage around violence is leading the sheep to scream for gun control, and gun safety. Which equals more laws, which allow for all kinds of work arounds to infringe on our rights. I caution even those on the left, listen all the way through and see why when the checkmate is in sight, all the pawns will be of no use. Then you'll be looking around wondering where the cavalry is.
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We complain about the wifi, long lines in drive throughs, and traffic. Meanwhile many third world countries have no fresh water and die from mosquito bites. The decades of modern advancement and technological breakthroughs has created a society where words hurt and feeling matter over facts. Weak men truly are making for hard times.
Today we discuss in the preparation for war, the idea that more sweat in training will prevent bloodshed when the bullets are real.
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A gun is merely a tool in the hands of the person using it. It's the person's intent we should question, their mindset and the circumstances surrounding how they employed their weapon of choice.
As we work through our emotions when children are killed, we need to remember the bigger picture, and see how the enemy capitalizes on chaos to get what they have always wanted, to disarm the American citizen.
Today we discuss how a weapon in the hands of the good guy, how evil is going no where, and how disarmed Americans will be told to shut up, or else.
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While we cycle through the emotions following another senseless tragedy, we can not be blinded in this moment to lose sight of the enemies objective, to ultimately disarm the American citizen.
Today we discuss why schools should stand alone, and questions to ask your child's school to ensure it's as prepared as it could be in the event it's met with evil. Crazy can't be legislated and laws in place have yet to stop bad people. Guns in the hands of dangerous men give the good guy a chance to protect, defend, and eliminate the threat.
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Don't listen with small children in the car. Today's discussion is a true throw down, where I don't hold any punches.
Cause and effect
Pay the price
Why states should compete
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The military was built to go to war, and if called, we will be ready. But the systems in place that support it, give a glimpse of what more government intervention in our lives would look like.
Multiple examples of inefficiencies and time wasted
Do as your told, no choice
No recourse, nobody cares if your not happy
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We've already woken the lions, put our spin on fight club, and welcomed the criticism. Today we lay the ground work on how to escalate the conflict and hit the enemy where it hurts, in the pocket and close to home.
What are Rules of Engagement
Eyeballs equal advertisers equal dollars
Where you spend your money
Why you need to stay close to home
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“In order to avoid criticism, do nothing, say nothing, be nothing”. - Aristotle
Difference between criticism and feedback
Who is giving it to you matters
The environment your in matters
Why it's inevitable and worth it
We have sat on the sidelines enough. No longer can we wait for a return to normal, we need to get in this fight.
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Talk is cheap, and people are less likely to listen. Instead of wasting time on the Karen's of the world, or convincing the nice guy why finishing last is a bad thing, focus on the people who matter most. Draw your perimeter around your tribe, increase the attention you give them, and settle to not solve the world's problems. Then, show everyone what it means to be a good man, and why we need men on the path to becoming dangerous.
First rule, don't talk about fight club.
Second rule, DON'T TALK ABOUT FIGHT CLUB
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We all have fears, and whether they are healthy and slow us down in the moment, or are debilitating and hold us back altogether, we all have things we can do to help in our response to fear.
- Face it head on.
- Talk it out with friends and family.
- Fight the fight in our heads.
- Put pen to paper.
On our path to becoming dangerous, we will make enemies, and courage will be required of us. Listen today for tips to help in the battle.
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I wish I could claim that title, but it's a quote borrowed from Emily Frisella, and one that, like Jordan Peterson's quote about good men being very dangerous, set this path in motion.
Listen as I discuss the sheep and sheepdog relationship, why I have the upmost respect for sheepdogs, but why the lion's are needed now more than ever to secure our freedoms and ensure our future and what it means to be American.
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The removal of physical education from many public schools has created problems far worse than it's being given credit for. The consequences reach far beyond the individual kids, and hit society in ways we need to discuss.
Who will pay the bill?
Who will do the work?
Who will take our place?
Who will fight for us?
Today we discuss the effects of childhood obesity and its impact on our society.
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In today's episode, I outline the FOUR key areas we need to look at in our life and improve upon each. In the battle to restore what it means to be a man, we will face adversity and challenge. This will not be easy, and we need to do our part to be ready. If there were a dangerous man health pyramid, it would look like this, starting at the bottom:
Sleep
Nutrition
Stress Management
Self-Care
We discuss general ideas and rules around each topic, everything is easily implemented and understood. But when combined, and constantly evaluated, you will be in a better place and more prepared then ever for the path ahead to becoming dangerous.
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You wake up and your flight home has been canceled, and the next available is two days away. But you need to get home. What do you do? And when your doing everything right, but encounter bad actors, evil with no F’s given for anyone around. What do you do? Today I reflect on how I performed when a lot of things didn’t go my way. Let me know how I did.
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Today I wanted to share where we have common ground, and where we can always return to when we disagree. It's about the end state, and where we are headed. Each of our paths are unique and we will all face different challenges, but we're all on a path to becoming dangerous.
America is the greatest country on Earth.
A family unit is stronger and better suited to raise children.
A man is a man and a woman is a woman, and our differences strengthen us when we accept them.
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Today's episode is an example of needing to pivot, with all the best planning in the world, you'll still be thrown curveballs and can't strike out.
You can of course hope for the best, but have a plan when things don't go your way.
Two is one, one is none, and raising kids takes at least two parents working together.
Finally, our children are our future.
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Today we finish up a 3 part series on becoming a threat, and specifically intention. It's a sand alone episode, but if you enjoy, be sure to check out 1 and 2.
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Today's episode we look to the Art Of War and its arguably most famous quote, "to know yourself and the enemy, to not fear the result of one hundred battles". It's a little more then that, and we really dive into the enemy we all face, and how each of us is unique to what we bring to the fight.
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If a bad guy has a gun, is in a position to use it, and has made it clear he intends to. This is the concept known as the deadly force triangle, and your right to escalate force up to and including deadly force to defend yourself and loved ones. This week we talk about learning new skills, assessing our current strengths and weaknesses, and why fitness isn't about a bench press or run time.
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There are things in our life that add no value, or worse, impact us negatively. Meanwhile, we are bombarded with distractions, and can lose focus on the people and things that really matter. Today is another lesson about focus, impact, and getting on the path to becoming dangerous.
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If the bad guy has a gun, is in a position to use it, and has made it clear he intends to. This is the basic definition of the deadly force triangle, and your right to escalate force up to deadly force to defend yourself or those you love. In becoming dangerous, we're taking a stand, and this week we cover how to flip this triangle for our use, and specifically, 4 tactics we can use to create opportunities, or be ready to respond to a situation presented to us.
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Today we break down the quote that set this podcast and movement in motion; "A harmless man is not a good man, a good man is a very dangerous man who has that under voluntary control" - Jordan Peterson.
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The Who, What, When, Where and Why of Dangerous Man. After 20 years in the military, and with a desire to continue serving my country, this is my journey to helping other men get on the path and become dangerous.
For those seeking "in your face" advice on life as a man, in a world giving you every excuse not to step up in your role as the leader of your family and your tribe, I'm here to say, wake up, your not alone, we are many, and together, we will not lose.
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