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Urban Therapy with Sun
Urban Therapy with Sun is a movement that is focused on the improvement of physical and mental health. We hold regular exercise sessions, teach about better and healthier foods and the evils of GMO and high fructose corn syrup, processed foods etc. We charter field trips and constantly stress communication, fellowship and consistency. We cover every social topic that you can imagine from an intelligent, insightful, hood perspective. Love, family, health, sex, jobs, self-improvement and our youth are always on deck.
The Daily Gogetemism Show is a shorter daily affirmation show that covers the same as UTWS.
Legacy of s Nation is the movement that represents the Aboriginal Community of North and South America and the Caribbean Islands. Those are Black people to you and I.
Players mess up. Good people do bad things sometimes. Sometimes, they do things by mistake. Sometimes, they do things on purpose. Perception is a strong and consistent reminder that we have to take other people into consideration when we act on our emotions. Many times, we are only thinking about ourselves when we act out. We have to deal with the fallout of the next day when the dust settles and see if we can save face. Are you able to live with the bad things that you have done to others? Have you convinced yourself that they had it coming or that they would've done the same thing to you? Does that justify your actions? Let's talk.#podcast #create #crazy #pain #craft #beer #wine #smart #friends #internet #church #english #selfish
Mike Tyson fought Jake Paul tonight in an 8 round bout of 2 minutes each. Boxing fans remember a time when Tyson only needed about 3 rounds to finish anyone off with a knockout. We have seen him do it countless times, it seems. Everywhere around the world, it seems like the older guts are winning fights. Donald Trump just won the presidency from a younger Kamala Harris, so why wouldn't we think that a 58 year old Mike Tyson couldn't beat a 27 year old so-called hot shot? Tyson didn't win tonight, but were we wrong for thinking that he could pull it off? Let's talk.#boxing #aging #health #special #money #FreeFire #event #cancer #weather #group #hiphop #shopping #clothes
For people who have given up on love or have become non-believers in the promise of love, they may value respect more. They feel like respect is more attainable and easier to control. A lot of people don't like the way that love can be uncontrollable and hard to identify. They feel like respect is easier and more consistent. What do you think? Is love dead for you? Is it about respect? Still believe in love? Need both, love and respect? Let's talk.#grand #push #fried #bff #love #peace #internet #marriage #random #money #work #respect #friends
Humans are the only species that we know of that has verbal and written language. That still hasn't solved our problems with miscommunication. More often, it has increased our miscommunication problems. Many people feel like they are able to connect with people because, unlike people, animals make the needs and desires clear and it never depend on their moods, zodiac signs, day of the week, or anyone else. Although they can't talj, they can often communicate well and consistently. Why do some people ditch people in favor of animals? Let's talk.#podcast #animals #racing #love #summer #friends #fun #cats #videos #jazz #sun #gmo #school
Being a man of your word can make you stop using as many words. I made a bet with a supporter about the outcome of the 2024 election, and because Kamala lost, I have to wear a MAGA hat. This will be the 1st and absolute last time I will ever don this wretched cap. The good news is that tonight, I will allow the listeners to decide the topics that we talk about tonight. This could be fun. I won't be having any fun, but you might. Let's talk.#economy #podcast #green #share #internet #group #hiphop #comedy #drama #movies #live #black health
I saw a post on social media that said that if you want to see the kind of man that a man is, go to hos social media accounts and see who he follows and what he posts, and who follows him. I thought it was interesting, ridiculous, and so true for too many. Whether you have an iPhone or an android, your selection of a phone and the apps you dowload can hive a certain profile of who you are to other people. Do you agree? Is that totally off? Stupid? Facts? Let's talk.#craft #apps #news #jewelry #jobs #sleep #FreeFire #business #bff #home #internet #phone #food
There are limitations on everything in life. There's a limit on how much someone will give, take, or stand. What happens with the limitations change from a greater number that you were used to, to a lower number? Physical limitations. When your hair doesn't grow as long as it used to, or as much. When you can't run as fast, or move as fast as you used to. Sicial limitations. When you used to get more from someone and now you are getting less. Financial limitations. Cutting overtime. Not able to move up in position. Some people struggle mightily to deal with the new limitations that may be placed on them. How well do you deal with your new limitations? Let's talk.#podcast #special #health #money #cancer #relationships #beer #FreeFire #business #craft #taste #men #women #news #church
A lot of people do damage to their bodies in their younger years. Drinking, smoking, overeating, working too much, partying, having a lot of children, taking drugs, getting surgeries, being reckless, violence, etc. When we're young, we think that we can take anything that goes against our health. We don't always think of what our future may hold when we inflict damage on our ourselves. Do you think that you have done right by your body when you were young? Are there things that you wish you had done differently? Let's talk.#writing #food #body #vegetables #sex #music #diabetes #cancer #gaming #drinking #health #water #eating
Now that the election is over and Trump has won, a lot of the bickering and going back and forth can subside. Will it subside? What will people talk about now? There's no more campaigning, but there will be more rallies. Trump won't be sworn into office until January. What will happen between then and now? Now that the demographic of voters has been identified, how can we explain the reasons that they voted the way that they did? The media. What's up with them? Let's talk.#talk #podcast #sports #dance #women #news #scams #phone #win #beer #psychology #church #party
The time has come, and is almost over. Most of the votes are in. Are you satisfied with the way that things went? Is it a done deal for you? What's your outlook for the future? Will the candidate who wins deliver the results that you wanted? Let's talk.#bff #podcast #news #vote #travel #guns #craft #love #friends #healthcare #banks #create #gaming
What's your family got to do with what you're doing independently? Genetics? Nurture vs. Nature? Conditioning? When seeking out a government job, there may be times when your family's history may be called into question, such as when you need a security clearance. If you were raised in a family that followed a religion that was considered to be radical or nationalist. On a personal level, your family background can have an effect on how you deal with people socially. Has your family history ever gotten in the way of you doing something? Let's talk.#podcast #BFF #FREEFIRE #candy #black #health #friends #travel #family #breakfast #music #cleaninghacks #love
I wouldn't have to cheat if she/he was doing what they was supposed to do. This is a common excuse that is made by premium cheaters. I call them premium cheaters because with this excuse, it sounds like they have a legitimate reason for stepping out on their monogamous relationships. It's almost like they aren't cheating at all. If they did what they were supposed to be doing, then the cheater would be faithful, right? Right? Let's talk.#podcasts #diddy #music #debates #NBA #NFL #marriage #craft #love #health #drama #FreeFire #god
any women believe that a relationship runs smoother when a man is more in love with a woman than a woman is with a man. They say that it's better that way, even in the liking stage. Do men feel this way as well? Why would this be a better scenario? Some women say that this is a better situation because a man will treat a woman with more love and respect if he likes or loves her more than she does him. What do you think? Let's talk.#thrillers #mixes #quarterbacks #podcasts #music #history #news #watched #money #Dramedy #camp #marriage #friends
Sometimes, you get a bad vibe about a person. It might not be fair, but that's how it is. Should you go along with your intuition about someone even if they haven't given you a reason to dislike them? You have the right to like and dislike whoever you want, right? This can cause some social problems if it happens too often, as you could start to be known as a hater by people who know you. It could start to limit opportunities for you if it starts to go too far. Do you care? Let's talk.#podcast #news #watched #disco #live #1980s #sampling #eurodance #school #cats #wild #breaking #charts
Sometimes Pro-life and Pro-choice are issues that you have to ask yourself, which side of the argument you are in. It's probably a lot easier to be Pro-life when you're not the one in the situation who is deciding on what the best way to go is. The same with Pro-choice. It's probably easier to be Pro-choice when you're not deciding your own fate or your long-term consequences. Politicians have shifted the abortion issue to a woman's body choice issue. Do you agree with that? Should it be strictly a woman's choice of whether to bring a life into this world or not? Let's talk. Let's talk for real.#children #women #marriage #travel #family #respect #law #bills #juice #FreeFire #death
On social media, there is a lot of conversation surrounding the way that Puffy was arrested on racketeering allegations and sex trafficking. Some people think it was unfair that Diddy targeted, but when Playboy icon Hugh Heffner was alive, he did the same things that Diddy is accused of and was never charged, convicted, or even arrested. What do you think about that? Is it a Black vs White thing? Does it matter? Let's talk.#traffic #craft #weather #tv #broadband #signs #party #business #music #zoom #money #weed #bar
Last night at the Trump rally at Madison Square Garden, there was a lot of bigoted and stereotypical rhetoric coming from the opening speakers of the rally. With just 1 week remaining until the presidential election, is the Trump administration giving America a snapshot of what's to come if he wins this election? Can the racist rhetoric that was unapologetically spewed last night be written off as just passion? Have they finally gone too far with the anti-immigration rhetoric? Let's talk.#podcast #internet #courts #NBA #POV #business #politics #gaming #gastronomia #jobs #gentrification
What do you bring to the table? It's a hot button dating topic these days. What you bring the table is whatever skills, attributes, and values that will make you attractive to a person who wants to date you. Women have come under fire in recent years for expecting financial security, reliability and stability without necessarily bringing any sustainable attributes and assets, other than looks and sex. Is that the case? Should it matter what you brung to the table during the dating stage? If you're not yet serious about someone, should it matter what you bring to the table? Let's talk.#pov #stages #dating #jewelry #church #family #shoes #internet #jam #likes #school
People always think that someone else has it better than them, and they usually think it's because they have an advantage. Busy people often envy people who are doing well if they are successful without having to do as much as they do. They often have contempt for them. You will often hear people put down people who didn't grow up broke or if they didn't have to work after school. Sometimes it's fair, sometimes it's not. Let's talk.#bff #career #church #air #autumn #young #speed #jump #likes #plant #prepare #brand
Your parents are your 1st example of everything. It's safe to say that whatever they can do, you can probably do. On the downside, everything that happens to them can happen to you. When you witness your parent's life trials and tribulations, it can make you wonder what's in store for your future. Certain things can have a devastating effect on how you see life. Like when you see your parents struggle with love, relationships, finances, depression, abuse, infidelity, education, fear, mental illness, pain, sickness, addiction, structure, discipline, PTSD, it can really make you know what you want and don't want out of life. There may be times when watching their experiences makes you feel powerless. Let's talk. #podcast #clothes #parents #education #stream #power #children #makeup #SoundCloud #beats #depression
What makes you belive in something? God? The devil? The universe? Karma? A luck? Fate? People? Love? Evil? Everlasting life? The afterlife? Life on other planets? What makes you believe in anything? Do you have to be shown proof in order to make you believe in something or does it take something else to get you to have faith? Is faith and belief the same thing to you? Let's talk.#podcast #money #music #movies #goodvibes #life #people #beer #marriage #travel #aliens #God
With 17 days left til the presidential election, who is the from the election, it looks like a dangerous situation. We can't be sure if what our concerns have merit to be real or perceived, but we are seeing a lot of ghosts from the 2020 election creeping into this election cycle. MAGA is a subculture of the republican party. They don't practice the conservative values that traditional Republicans follow. They align their values to Donald Trump. We saw the fallout, push back, and confusion of the 2020 election and it seems to be shaping up to have the same effect on the 2024 election. Is it true? Is real? Will there be riots in the streets if MAGA doesn't win? Are democrats exempt from chaos and destruction ? Let's talk.#vote #podcast #pov #fall #green #MAGA #love #money #health #strong #america #streets #internet
A good test of how much you like something is to measure it by how often you could or would do it, without being tired of it. This could be a good thing like love, or work, or it could be a negative thing like getting high, or thrill-seeking behavior. Think about some of the things that you like, love, appreciate, or enjoy and think about how often you could do them, or deal with them. See what you come up with. Let's talk.#talent #power #home #cars #shopping #eating #speed #FreeFire #gastronomia #work #ptsd #emergency #grill #NFL #Masterclass
How old is too old to have a roommate ? What's the motivation for getting a roommate? We know that for many, roommates start out at a young age. Probably right after high school, or in college. What happens when mambers of the opposite sex become roommates? Does one person in a roommate situation have to be dominant and tell the other roommate(s) what to do? Would that work? What typically ends a roommate situation ? Money? Cleanliness? Company? Controlling behavior? Let's talk.#podcast #bff #apartment #rock #green #bills #motivation #cats #food #parade #stream #bff #power
The enemy within. Are they the bigger threat, or are they the ones who work on our paranoia? For example, the republican presidential nominee says that the enemy within the United States are a bigger threat than the foreign enemy, as far as politics go. As far as crime is concerned, he says that the foreign enemy is, or the immigrants are the problem. It's a little confusing. What about in your life?Are the people who are the closest to you posing a bigger threat to your peace than the people who aren't close to you? Do you know for sure? Let's talk.#podcast #bff #FreeFire #musica #Politics #influencer #exercise #gaming #friends #group #blackownedbusiness #SoundCloud #Cancer
When someone thinks that they are better than you, it can show in a variety of ways. There are a lot of ways that people can think they are better than someone. It could be in sports, or games, or school, or looks, or dancing , or business, or almost anything. It can just be friendly competition. The problem is when it shows that someone thinks that they're better than you for nothing except for being themselves, or because of their race, or neighborhood, education, money, family, or culture. It can be disrespectful . What about when someone who you are friends with thinks that they are better than you and it shows? What do you do? Let's talk.#culture #green #love #sun #pov #podcast #money #jobs #bff #family #junk #diabetes #biz
A lot of men complain that women don't apologize to men under any circumstances, and certainly not voluntarily. Is it true ? Is it consistent ? Is it valid ? It has become a running mene in social media to the point where it has become somewhat of a joke. Sort of like men not asking for directions. In this case however, there is a violation or a wrong that has been done and the guilty party has gotten the green light to not acknowledge their wrong. How come? What can be done to reverse this? Do men get away with not apologizing? Why not? What are the consequences? Are there any? No? Let's talk.#gifts #right #candy #blue #share #wrong #internet #coffee #rain #chance #exercise #food #parade
This show is about the way that you can't tell everyone everything because they will post your situations and your business on social media. It's not a cool thing to do and can have the ability to break trust. There is nothing worst than having a fallout with someone and know that they are going to post their version of it on social media. It's irresponsible and immature, but many people do it. Then you have the people who like to go live and put all your business out there, thinking that it's going to add validity to their claims. There are podcasters that you had better not tell anything to. But will you?Let's talk. #safety #trust #camera #show #people #training #skin #podcast #money #songs #work
With the economy being what it is, a lot of people are working full-time but only making enough money to cover their expenses. There isn't a lot of fun money left over. Or is there? Has the fun been factored into the equation of your expenses, to the point where you notice it? Do you drink or smoke or........? Do you really only have enough money to pay your bills? Have you made your fun a bill? What can you do to be able to pay your bills and be able to have money left over? Let's talk.#jobs #sleep #podcast #money #fun #news #fun #church #family #health #friends
Some people can cry on demand. It can be a useful skill in situations where emotions need to be shown in order get something or get out of something. Whereas some people may look at crying as something that only weak people do, we also have to remember that crying usually indicates sorrow or being apologetic. People give and give in to people who humble themselves enough to cry. What is the motivation of a person who knows how to make themselves cry on demand? Are they hurt? Are they sorry? Are they in need? Are they faking? We'll find out. Let's talk.#BFF #podcast #FreeFire #music #movies #church #love #prayer #poverty #animals #juice #guitar #fun #guns
How many times have you waited until the last minute to do something important and wound up biting the bullet for it? How many times has someone came to you in an emergency situation and tried to make their emergency your emergency, because they waited until the last minute to take care of things? Did you accommodate them? Did they make you rush? Did they do it again? Let's talk.#podcast #time #NFL #emergency #running #change #love #beer #travel #health #strange #facebook #talk #twitter #pain
Getting kicked out of a place is never fun, and we rarely see it coming. There are a lot of places that you can be kicked out of. Stores, movies, schools, churches, jobs, homes, clubs, cars, planes, etc. There may have been times when you were asked to leave, and there may have been times when you were escorted out or physically removed. The worst may have been when you were threatened to leave. Because getting kicked out of somewhere is such a surprise, we often aren't ready to go. Sometimes we fight to get back in, like in the case of losing a job or being evicted. Have you ever got kicked out and tried to get back in? Let's talk.#podcast #stores #parents #cash #repairs #stream #cars #movies #church #coffee #animals #hospitals #travel #news #drinks
What is the cost of your sanity and how far will you go to protect it? When we talk about our sanity, we are usually talking about situations that will take a bad toll on our mental and emotional health. We could be talking about staying in a relationship with someone who is abusive to staying in solitary confinement to avoid the dangers of being in population, while in jail. What situations have you been in that put your sanity at stake? We might be surprised at which things people consider might drive them insane. Let's talk.#podcast #internet #psychology #party #running #change #money #charge #share #food #beer #music #movies
All the way open, or just open on one side? What do we know about open relationships? An open relationship is a relationship where the parties involved are not exclusive to each other, and are able to see other people. It's like dating before a commitment. How does it really work though? What are the rules to an open relationship? In other words, how open is an open relationship? Is it open sexually, but not emotionally, or the other way around, or both? If you are in open relationship, are you really in a relationship at all? Diseases, feelings, selfishness? Do open relationships involvecall of those things? Let's talk.#emotional #crafting #counseling #green #vegan #money #love #internet #barber #salad #scripture #church
Why do today's young people seem to be so violent? Is it the media? Is it the video games? Is it gangs? Is it the surrounding violence that they are exposed to? Is it the internet? Does it start at home? Where and how does it end? Are our youth in bigger trouble and at risk than we were? What can we do? Let's talk.#summer #courts #church #school #safety #saturday #youth #cops #care #parents #risk
What did you think of the Vice Presidential debate tonight? Did it go the way that you thought it would go? Do you think that there was a clear winner ? Were there any surprises for you? Do you think that it swayed the election any? How do you think that tonight's debate compared to the 1st one? Let's talk.#hood #city #project #infrastructure #weather #zoom #astrology #speech #music #birds #water
You may have heard of the Passport Bros. They are men from the U.S. who go to Europe South America and Asia to find women who have more traditional values. Many of them have grown tired or disappointed in the women from their country because of their perceived arrogance, conceit entitlement, and selfishness. They go to other countries to find women who appreciate men more and may be prettier and more submissive than western women. The Passport Bros are men of all races, cultures, and ethnic backgrounds. The women that they choose are often younger, like in their early and mid twenties. Are the Passport Bros out for control? Let's talk.#BFF #travel #hair #passport #grief #sunshine #tall #weight #jewelry #zen #women #band #relationships
On almost every live show or podcast, people find a way to put Trump or Diddy into the conversation. There's something about these 2 that holds people's attention. Since these 2 live rent-free in so many people's heads, let's talk about why that's the case. Let's talk.#celebrities #fishing #camera #entertainment #internet #cancer #streaming #money #share #food
Some people say that things change for the worst when you move in together. One thing about moving in together is that you will be together. What happens when a couple that was living together decides to move out and live separately? Can a relationship survive if a couple once lived together no longer lives together? Is it the same as a divorce? If you move out from each other, will you have to move back in to make it work? Let's talk.#dreams #residence #cleanair #piano #movies #separation #time #travel #cancer #babies #cleaning #scam #writing
They say that the best things in life are free, but some some free things aren't given for the best. Sometimes a gift is like bait for a trap. Accepting a gift from the wrong person can leave you indebted for life. Not everyone gives gifts with good intentions. Has anyone ever offered you an expensive gift after only knowing you for a short time ? Did you accept it ? Would you accept it? Do you know the risks? What about a place to stay? Would you accept a place to stay from someone who you didn't know well, if you were down for a little while? What's your trust level for gift giving? Let's talk.#BFF #rock #chair #weather #money #stream #party #history #flight #gifts #organic #housing
Any trained, experienced thief will tell you that locks are for honest people. Thieves don't care about locks. They don't care about alarms. They don't care about laws, rules, security, or cops. Their mission is to take what you have, and very little will stand in their way. You may find yourself having to deal with someone who has very little or no respect for rules and laws. Can you deal with someone like that? Have you? Are you? Trust will always be an issue when dealing with people like this. Will you be the type that thinks that they wouldn't do it to you? We know that thieves will lie, but will they always cheat too? Let's talk.#europe #change #case #cake #fighting #blue #fear #school #park #running #locks #loans
A lot of people call the 1st time a person gets married a test marriage. People say that a lot of people get married for the wrong reasons the 1st time they get married. Other people say that the 2nd time a person gets married, they have more clarity of purpose and maturity. Are there things that a person might do in their 1st marriage that they wouldn't do in their 2nd marriage and vice versa? What about people who say that they'll never get married again? Let's talk.#love #candy #stream #weather #wedding #party #craft #playstation #plantbased #apologies #clothes
What has to happen for you to withdraw all financial support, assistance, and gifts for something? What would make you decide not to fix a car, house or situation? How far would it have to go? How far have you gone? Have you ever overspent for a long time, all for nothing? Are you the kind of person that will stop paying at the 1st sign of trouble? Have you ever backed out too early, like with a slot machine? Have you ever gone broke while fueling money into something? Let's talk.#financialaid #podcast #green #FreeFire #vote #repairs #shoes #jewelry #church #medicine #hiphop #love #sports #gaming
What if a guy told a woman that he had money, education, a career, a home, etc., to gain the interest of the woman and it worked? Let's say that he didn't have all of those things, but he said that he did because he didn't think that she would be interested in him if he told the truth . What if he had ambitions to have all of those things and might have been on the way, but he wasn't there yet? Should he be labeled a liar and should be broken up with? What if he was a decent person other than the initial lies? Could he be? Was he just doing what he had to do in order to get what he wanted? What if he really loved the woman that he lied to? Let's talk.#summer #speech #lies #juice #celebrities #vote #college #relationships #food #GOP #church #MAGA #music
Who would take care of things for you if you ever went to jail? Who would take care of your kids? What if you had pets? Who would take care of your house? Would you lose your apartment? Would you lose all of your stuff? Would you, could you afford bail? What if you got really sick and couldn't work? Would you lose everything and have to go on public assistance? What if you passed away suddenly? Are your affairs in order? We don't always think of these things, but terrible decisions can be made if we don't think about them. Let's talk.#funerals #affairs #home #sickness #america #money #drinks #diddy #food #sound #love #family #round
Some people require their current mate to stop all contact with exes or past live interests. Some don't even make exceptions for baby moms and dads. Is this realistic to you? Many agree that it's a good thing. What about trust? Can you say that you that you trust a person if you require that they focus ALL their attention on you? What would you do if you found out that a current love keeps in touch with some of their exes? What about the DM's? Let's talk.#messages #massage #friends #church #group #singing #love #business #food #beer #restaurant #body #travel
Many people believe that the world is a much more dangerous place than it used to be. It can have an effect on the way that you protect yourself and the ones that you care about. If you watch the news in a lot of cities, you will start to think that it's unsafe to ever go out, or to go to other places. Maybe it's true. Maybe it's not so true. The media may lead a person to believe that there are more criminals, assailants, wackos, freaks, and harmful people than there has ever been before. Is there? Are we experiencing more negativity, or are we just seeing more? Let's talk.#life #ban #cops #crime #family #safety #housing #money #animals #cats #beer #travel
A Karen. Originally, a Karen was a slang name to describe any white woman who was disruptive to ack people's parties, functions and personal business. She was seen as a racist and was often filmed calling the police on a cellphone, trying to get Black people arrested for some misunderstood infraction. Nowadays, the term Karen is being used to describe any woman, or man who uses racially motivated tactics to cause trouble. Not sure how that changed, but...... Karens usually are trying to stop some law from being broken, so there is a duty element to what they are doing. Do they really care, or are they just trying to make non-white people mad?Let's talk. #pick #psychology #cars #parking #friends #summer #football #training #internet #black #change #clothes
Do you eat at your kitchen table, or is that just for families with children? Do people eat at the kitchen table when they live alone, live with roomates, or cohabitate without children? What does eating at the kitchen table symbolize? Does it symbolize communication? If it does, does everyone participate? Does eating at the kitchen table as a family make families stronger? Does not eating at the kitchen table symbolize division ir weakness in a family? Let's talk.#food #housing #friends #money #summer #greenscreen #vacation #CleaningHacks #table #HomeWorkout #clothes #Right #musica
Does this correlation make sense to you? For a lot of people, it does. Some people think that if you have sensual moves on the dance floor, there's a good chance that you will be a good kisser, or will be good in bed. Some people swear by this. It can explain why some people would spend a lot of times in clubs to find dates. Some people correlate different things with other different things to come up with a conclusion of something. Sometimes it works.Look how many track stars are scouted for other sports like football. Is it making sense yet? Let's talk.#podcast #kissing #friends #clubs #dancing #news #money #fishing #black #drums #animals
Gender roles don't always play out the same way in every marriage or relationship. Traditional gender roles may be on the backburner for some couples. It may seem strange to see a couple where the wife takes out the trash, cuts the grass, fixes the cars, and disciplines the kids. A situation where the husband cooks, cleans, does laundry, and either stays home or works from home. It's their business, but does it work for you? Could you do it? Could you accept it for others? Is this new age relationship stuff too much for you? Let's talk.#love #gender #gaming #acceptance #psychology #hippies #new #music #math #money #FreeFire
Video games aren't just for kids anymore. When you really think about it, they never were. Adults have long enjoyed playing video games, and gaming has grown into a culture. Video games now tell a story, and they can define the personality of a person. The major video gaming console companies are Sony Playstation and Microsoft XBox. Both have a strong following, but which one is stronger? Which has stood the test of time better? Let's talk.#gaming #gambling #microsoft #FreeFire #food #clothes #share #money #playstation #callofduty
Well, it happened. It went down. History was made and it was completed. Who do you think won the presidential debate tonight? Who do you think rose to the occasion more? Who do you think was more prepared? Who do you think brought forth more facts? Who do you think was more believable? Who do you think won over more new voters? Who do you think did better overall? They say that debates don't determine results of elections. Do you agree with that? Do you think that this debate moved the needle for either of the candidates? The phone lines will be open tonight. Let's get to it. Let's talk.#debate #politics #podcast #FreeFire #music #SuperBowl #black #movies #KamalaHarris #Trump
The moment we've been waiting for is going down tomorrow night. This is probably the biggest presidential debate that we have ever seen before. The 1st presidential debate was very lopsided when Joe Biden could hardly speak. Donald Trump owned him that night. Now Kamala Harris is the new candidate and a lot has changed since June. Kamala is very skilled at debate and cross-examination and she is going to need to be sturdy in order to withstand some of the unpredictable antics that Trump may come up with. Will Harris expose Trump as extreme, incapable and unstable? Will Trump expose the inexperience and mental toughness of Harris? Will it be a wash? Who do you want to win? Let's talk.#answers #concert #debate #money #home #superbowl #green #policy #inflation #women #race #beer
Some fathers won't pay unless they're getting some play. If they aren't actively having sex with the mother of his children, they will withhold paying child support or providing financial support of any kind. It's a crazy situation, but it happens so often that almost everyone knows of a situation where this exists. The real reason for this probably because one of the two parents still has feelings for the other one and they are using this form of manipulation to rekindle a romance. This is probably the worst way to play a responsibility out, but it happens. This is not just what a man does either. Some women have withheld parental priviliges with the condition of whether they were with the father or not. Let's talk.#podcast #children #love #friends #gambling #summer #school #craft #money #support #sick
Most men have been taught to hide their pain and hurt. A lot of them have been told to walk it off and suck it up. Don't show your weaker side to anyone because they will take advantage of your weaknesses.Once a man accepts this way of thinking, it's unlikely that he will ever change and be vunerable. With so many single women these days, many of them have had to adopt a tough exterior too. Is that right? Is that beneficial to our families and our children? When it comes to illness, why are some people compelled to hide that they are sick? Why don't they want anyone to know? Is illness a sign of weakness too? Out in the wild, a sick animal is in big trouble, but in the human world, we take care of our sick folks. What's the fear? Let's talk.#health #friends #shampoo #sleep #horses #lions #food #hospitals #love #fear
Funerals bring more than just sorrow. When someone dies, not only can a life be taken, a lifestyle can be taken away also. What would you do is your parents left you out of their will when they passed? Aside from the material things, would a feeling of worth be attached to whether they left you anything or not? There are people who go crazy when they aren't able to capitalize on when their parents had when they were alive. If your parents didn't leave you anything, is that a reflection on the way that they felt about you? Should all children expect to be left at least a little something when their parents die? We know that situations like this can get really ugly. Let's talk.#funerals #love #rent #crazy #bills #home #water #movies #guitar #mortgage #trouble
Is it disrespectful to use a person and their resources as your soft place to land if you fail? Many people do this. You might not know it if you don't know a person very well. You might not know the way that a person may try a bunch of risky ventures as long as they have someone behind them who will take care of them if things don't go well. Children may move out, get kicked out of where they live, and spend all of their money if they are sure that their parents will bail them out, or will let them move back in with them. Lovers do this to each other at times. Imagine having children or getting married to someone with no regard for the consequences because you know that if things don't go well, there is someone who will pay things off for you and take you back. It happens. Have you ever used anyone as a backup plan on any level? Do you know if you have ever been someone's backup plan? Let's talk.#planB #safety #summer #news #movies #fair #plumbing #flights #money #music #bums
The job is the dating playground for a lot of people. For some people, that is where they meet their spouses. That is where they meet the loves of their lives. That is the place where they test the waters and get to know people. There are people who have a whole dating history on their job and everyone knows about it. They have no reservations about dating multiple people at the same time on a job. Then you have the undercover employee who doesn't appear to be available at the job, but is actually way more available than people think they are. They have been known to be good for a great time, on the low. many jobs have rules that apply to dating at the workplace. Some jobs require employees to disclose if they are seeing someone at the job because restrictions may apply. Does any of this matter or apply to you? Let's talk.#health #money #dating #work #marriage #drums #chicken #air #heart #friends #cars #politics #jobs
There has to be something or someone else out there doesn't there? Is it possible that earth is the only planet in the universe that has life? Human, plant, or animal life? The only planet in the universe that has life? From a religious standpoint, it would probably be believed that earth is the only planet that features life. Earth is where religion believes God works and the object of his image is human being. Science believes that there is life on other planets and seeks to show proof of different kinds to validate its claims. What about common people who study a little science and read a little bible? What do they think about life on other planets? What feelings or proof would the everyday thinker have about whether there is life on other planets? What would make the average person think that this could be true? How would life on other planets work? Let's talk#sun #money #weather #church #life #gaming #craft #cats #beer #stuff #clothes #plants #travel
These seem to be the go-to blame culprits when people aren't successful in business or love. Sometimes it's fair, sometimes it's just an excuse that the accuser hopes will be honored. Personally, I believe in parental responsibility. I think that every parent carries the responsibility of making sure that they raise their children in a way that they will stand a fighting chance of succeeding in life. They should teach their children how to do things and how to conduct themselves. The schools that teach the students should give them a decent academic education and also teach them life skills. Still, this doesn't mean that when things don't go as planned as adults that you can blame your schools, teachers or parents. Let's talk.#history #news #school #beer #education #race #love #cancer #brand #money #friends #network #bills
Are there people who had no way out than to become a criminal, or was it a choice that they made? When you hear someone say it out loud, it sounds a little ridiculous that someone couldn't find a better way to make a living other than to sell drugs, steal, or engage in some other kind of criminal activity. When you see it in practice, you get a different scope of how things can develop into the direction that they go in. When you think about it, poor people can't understand how people who have millions of dollars could ever be sad or unhappy, so why is it hard for people who have been taught to do things legally to see how lack of opportunities could steer someone in the wrong direction consistently? But is becoming a criminal a choice for all who do it? Are they somehow ordained to do it? Let's talk.#podcast #dispensary #family #money #men #gangs #music #care #group psychology #women #love
People who are not used to losing find it hard to come around when they suffer a crushing defeat. This might seem silly to a more rational person who understands that everyone wins some and loses some, but for the person who has been on a personal winning streak for a while, facing their haters can feel like a fate worse than death. Embarrassment is a different animal to some people. Some people would rather die than to be publicly humiliated, ridiculed or embarrassed. Embarrassment, or fear of it is what keeps some people in the same positions for most of their lives. Fear of failing in front of everyone is too much for them to bear. Is it all ego? Is it all self-grandizing? What could it be that would make a person hide out for days, weeks, months, or years after an embarrassment? Is it really that deep? Let's talk.#podcast #sorrow #snow #newyearnewme #french #wood #friends #prison #fighting #gas #food #music #women
Pillow talk is when you are laid up with someone and you feel comfortable enough to spill all of your beans with them. many crimes and escapades have been confessed about or bragged about in the afterglow of a sexual encounter. Pillow talk is usually done with people who you are comfortable with and who you think that you can trust, but you know how trust goes. What you share during a night of passion has been known to get some people in hot water and send many people upstate. Is pillow talk snitching? Probably not in and of itself. Pillow talk doesn't always involve telling on someone else. It can involve plans for the future and sweet nothings. It does often involve information that is sensitive and private. That's why it is usually shared between 2 people. Pillow talk can involve snitching and it can lead to snitching. Should you avoid pillow talk altogether? Let's talk.#reading #money #violence #friends #beds #love #cold #fruit #guitar #chocolate #bands #phone #health
The class of 2024 doesn't know what is in store for their future. They have no idea of the changes that will take place over the next 12 years of their lives. The next 12 years of their lives will rival the previous 12 years in ways that will make some wonder how they made it and why others didn't. Even though it doesn't seem like it when you are there, high school is the safest place to be in your life. It's the last time in your life when other people are responsible for what you do, where you go and all of the consequences of everything. Before social media, a class reunion was an eye opening thing. A lot of changes take place with people and life after high school. People succeed, fail, become strung out, have a bunch of kids, get married, divorced, get sick, hurt, move away, and many die. Through it all, big changes take place that will make you wonder if you ever really knew anyone who you went to high school.. Did they know you? Let's talk.#Europe #rice #school #weather #chair #casino #gambling #army #train #guns #friends #sports #jobs #hospital
Putting your good clothes used to be a thing. A real thing. There was always something that we were required to dress up for and we had to be ready to smile too. Family portraits at Sears. Class photos at school for all of the lower grades, starting at kindergarten. A party of any kind. Birthday, wedding, graduation, etc.. it didn't matter what the occasion was, you put your good clothes on. There was church. We would put on a suit just to go look for a job, even if the job didn't require a suit to work in. We were brought up to dress to impress. We were taught that 1st impressions meant a lot and they did. Dressing up got us into places where we would not be allowed into had we been dressed any other kind of way. What happened to dressing up? What has happened to it? Has it disappeared or has it taken on a new identity? What have been some of the influences that have disguised it? Let's talk.#numbers #dress #beauty #friends #clothes #craft #camera #money #video #hair #event #summer #show #store
Some people are turned off as soon as they hear the word tolerate. To them, to be tolerated is to be thought less of than loved, adored and wanted. A lot of people look at it as a diss, so many people keep the word out of their vocabulary.......whenthat person is around. Everyone tolerates someone. You may love them to the moon and back, but that doesn't mean that you appreciate their loud snoring, bad hygeine, loud talking, drinking, drugging, rudeness, inconsideration, jealousy, practical jokes, laziness, etc.. They may be an overall great person, but might have some things that you have to tolerate. Let's talk about some of those things. Let's talk.#kindness #podcast #craft #voice #fat #karaoke #bell #animals #summer #clean #health
Unfortunately, sometimes the people who we let get the closest to us prove to us that we shouldn't have let them get as close and we can't let them get any closer. It can happen for a variety reasons. They may have shared private information that you told to them in confidence, or they may give you the impression that they might tell on you one day. Sometimes you wish that you could take back all of the things that you told someone, even if they weren't secrets. Sometimes, just the fact that someone knows the way that you think can make you uncomfortable. Why is that? Let's talk.#live #news #cats #secrets #burning #love #soul #friends #craft #share
Who would do something like this? You would be surprised at some of the things that people will do to hold on to a part of someone who they were once in love with. The question becomes whether they were in love, or are they still in love with that person? Naming a child after an ex is probably not the best way to get that person out of your system. It's probably not the best way to show your current love that you are totally dedicated to them and that your love is uncontested. Is there any way that this can be an innocent act? Could a name be so appealing to you that you would name him/her after an ex? Could someone name their child after an ex and somehow be totally over that person? Is there any way to live this down? Let's talk.#history #comedy #love #news #animals #sports #war #marriage #roses #traffic #beards #women
It could be a loss of life, or it could be a birth. There is usually something that happens in our lives that thrusts us into adulthood, and no matter what the age you are, there is no turning back. It's rough when you have to become an adult even if you're not very mature. Some people have lost their parents and had to take care of their siblings. Some teens have had kuds and got kicked out of the house. Sometimes their is a different type of incident that happens that snatches away your innocence of youth.....even though you may still be a youth. Let's talk.#brand #Politics #family #youth #guitar #summer #foodie #Counseling #park #slide #bff
Some girlfriends say that they won't treat their man like a husband until he marries her. Some girlfriends withhold sex until marriage, even though they have had sex plenty of times with men who weren't married to her. Some girlfriends give their men the royal treatment and believe that it should be that way. A lot of outsiders have strong opinions about the way that a woman should conduct herself when she is a girlfriend and when she is a wife. Should those opinions be taken into consideration? Is a wife more dedicated and loyal to her husband than a girlfriend is to her man? Should they be? Let's talk.#podcast #music #FreeFire #beer #health #friends #games #love #movies #relationships #money #marriage
What kind of message is being sent when someone who you know walks right past you and might make eye contact with you and doesn't speak to you? Are they mad at you? Is there a problem? Did they actually not see you? Why didn't you speak to them or make them acknowledge you? This kind of thing happens all the time in hallways at work, at school and sometimes on the street? How do you handle the situation? Does it spell the end of a friendship, relationship, or acquaintance for you? Some people get very offended by this sort of thing. Do you? Have you done it to someone else? If so, what message were you trying to send to them? Let's talk.#walking #rude #friends #health #hairstyles #clothes #podcast #pop #music #talking #massage #text
How many times have you been asked how much money you have spent on something, or how much money you make? How many times have you been asked how you could afford the house, neighborhood, or car you drive? Have you ever been asked how you can afford to do things for your children or others? That is pocket watching. Do you entertain these questions, or do you usually keep them guessing? Do you know people who try to clock other people's finances, or hang around them because they have money? That's clout chasing. Let's talk.#health #friends #wealth #music #pop #grape #time #love #stream #hair #clothes #gambling
It could be a sibling, cousin, neighbor, classmate, coworker, friend, or foe. In the worst case, it could be a parent. Friendly competition is okay. It can be a motivating factor that can propel a person to do great things. Sometimes, it can be the thing that makesa person turn ugly and become a straight hater. How do you handle someone who has been competing against you, but never comes out and says it? Let's talk.#podcast #friends #craft #news #money #FreeFire #music #law #OPPO #school #games #sports
In these days of multimedia, GPS and social media, access to information is a big deal. Access to people is a big deal. People make assumptions about your whereabouts and your activities when they can't reach you if they have tried. This can put a big strain on a relationship, especially if you are dealing with someone who wants to track your every move. Some couples get down like that. They share their location so the other person knows where they are at all times. It could be for safety reasons if one partner works late at night and comes home alone, for example. Would you submit to sharing your location at all times with your man or woman? Is it a good idea to you? Let's talk.#love #money #music #gas #school #gps #breakfast #parati #games #location #wifi #crime
Nowadays, exposing someone is the thing to do. Nothing is totally private or secret anymore. You don't know who you can trust and the people who you thought you could trust will out you if you have a falling out. What does the whistle blower get out of exposing someone? Why are people hanging with people who they are waiting to expose? Let's talk. #podcast #friends #news #love #trash #music #games #learning #grass #kids #breakfast #parati
A lot of people really set the bar high when it comes to falling in love or getting to know someone throgh dating. You hear people say how they will bail out at the 1st sign of trouble when they are dating or are in a relationship. The stakes are high. People are protecting their feelings. They don't wanna get hurt. It's understandable. More than likely, they haven't always been as cautious as they are now. Something has changed the way that they do things. Things seem to be a little easier when it comes to a casual, sexual relationship. The requirement when it comes to a sexual relationship is just good performance in bed. As long as that good times roll in the sheets, everything is good....or is it? Let's talk.#camera #tapestry #fun #love #summer #money #jobs #light #travel #ring #news #parati #music #breakfast #friends
We have relationships and we have relationship complaints. It's the nature of humanity. Every woman has probably dealt with a man who had a roving eye for the opposite sex. It's natural for a man to be attracted to other women besides the woman who he is with. Where it can get difficult is when he acts on those attractions. In his younger years, he may make a lot of mistakes. The rarer man is the one that doesn't just want to "stick around" with other women besides the one who he is supposed t be monogamous with, but wants to establish whole relationships with most of the women that he messes around with. This can lead to not just infidelity but whole separate families, children and lifestyles. Some have done it successfully like Hugh Heffner. Usually men of means can get away with this, but some broke men have pulled it off as well. What's the mentality of this? Let's talk.#bread #animals #relationships #money #travel #bills #love #pay #friends #music #summer #tattoo #marriage
Things don't always look and act the same way in person as they do online. It is something that we have to deal with. It can be like expecting the movie about a book to be the same as the book. It's not gonna happen. Why would we expect for something or someone who we see on the internet to be the same as we see it in person. Because we see it? Can that be the reason why? By that logic, there would never be a reason to go to see a live show. We should just be happy with the CD, tape, or record. Internet shopping, clothing, or dating can often be a big disappointment for a lot of people. Is it the person online's fault for altering the image of what is being sold, or is it the consumer's fault for not understanding how the game goes? Let's talk.#shopping #love #summer #news #dating #music #money #beer #travel #peace #friends #animals #crime
Donald Trump and the MAGA GOP are saying that the illegal immigrants are coming across the border, committing violent crimes, driving up our taxes through welfare and taking Black jobs. Black jobs? What are Black jobs? Are there jobs that primarily Black people do? Is there a Black job market. Is there a place Black people live and everyone who works is Black? What are Black jobs and how can illegal immigrants take them? Is this some kind of racial dog whistle that only people who understand the language can understand? Could it be something totally innocent? Let's talk.#food #crazy #friends #love #bordercontrol #Trump #beer #politics #music #party #sale #summer #travel
Sometimes you have to accept that co-parenting is the only option. You probably have tried and tried and tried to make this work, even if it's just on the physical level and now you finally see that this cannot work. Maybe the two of you have grown apart. Maybe you have moved on. Maybe they had a child by someone else. Whatever the reason is, you may have come to the realization that any romantic activity between you and the other parent will lead to toxicity. Some people like toxicity. Maybe you don't. This situation can be especially difficult for men to accept, but many women struggle with this too. Do you think that coming to this final conclusion is harder for men, or women? Let's talk.#party #women #twerking #men #music #help #food #kids #love #summer #beer #sale #travel
Feed A Stray Animal and They'll Come Back For Food Everyday. Feed A Starving Man and they might find where you store the food and steal all of it. It's a crazy phenomenon, but people who are desperate and hungry can't be mistaken for being weak. Sometimes they become predatory when they start being fed. An animal will almost never mess up a gravy train, but a human being can barely help himself from ruining everything. Does this priciple apply to all people? Of course not, but when it does apply, it hurts. It can eventually stop you from being nice, kind and generous to people. Let's talk.#animals #hunger #fight #love #giving #music #food #beer #jobs #help #friends #summer #podcast #sports
Insecurity has a lot to do with fear. Fear that you aren't good enough. Fear that someone will leave you. Fear that time will run out. Fear that you are putting your all into something that may be fleeting. The good thing about insecurity it that with a good explanation, you can reason or rationalize insecurity away. You can go from being insecure to being secure after a while. Jealousy is more personal. It doesn't always have a reasonable starting point and almost never ends. Jealousy is relentless. It requires action. Jealousy will try to hide, but will reveal itself every time it gets a chance.Jealousy is ugly and it doesn't care about it's appearance. It almost always tries to justify itself and always makes excuses. The people who succumb to jealousy are often victims. Let's talk.#friends #podcast #music #movies #summer #bands #jobs #cleaning #history #sports #crazy #beer #love
IF you look or listen to social media these days, you will hear a lot of venom being spewed towards women by men. This isn't the traditional grmbling about nagging or spending too much money. This is about blaming women for the condition of a generation. It has been coming on strong in the past 10 years or so, but it seems like it has reached a fever pitch. It almost sees like an all out war, or deep disdain. In politics, it is to be expected that men are a little domineering about that field because they have dominated it for so long. It used to be an unwritten law that a woman couldn't hold a public office until 1916. At the homefront, it seems like a game of battle of the sexes these days. In the Black community, it is pretty alarming the way that some men feel and speak about women. So, what's the beef? Why are men mad at women today? What did they do? Let's talk.#podcast #FreeFire #health #news #women #friends #money #politics #music #cancer #sleep #party #fun
Strong families. Weak families. Who can say which is which? People think that a strong family is one that supports each other and finds ways to stay connected. A weak family may only have a bloodline between them that connects them. They will treat each other like insignificant factors in their lives when trouble comes. When we talk about a situation where a man is seeing a woman who his mother and sisters don't like, they are going to have to be a strong family to get through this and stay together. This ain't an easy one. Let's talk.#podcast #trees #fun #family #FreeFire #family #news #summer #tea #marriage #cancer #diabetes #cringe
Just like you can't trust everybody, you also can't accept help from everybody. Some people have ulterior motives when they help you with something. Some people look at helping you as a way of owning you. Some people will help you just to be able to tell others what they did for you. Some people only help people when they are down, as a way to feel like a hero. Some people only help you so they can get into your business.There are times when you have to let go of your pride and ask for help. How do you know who to ask for help from and how to ask for help? Let's talk.#podcast #FreeFire #help #fun #news #ImWithHer #MAGA #love #health #money #camera #pride
Have you ever felt like your involvement with someone could've changed the course of their life? Maybe you were helping them. Maybe you were disciplining them. Maybe you were encouraging, or inspiring them. Maybe you were their reason for living. You never know. It's hard to believe that things wouldn't have turned out better when you see someone taking a turn for the worst after you haven't seen them for a long time. There are some thing that we can never say for sure, like when someone dies of an illness. Maybe you were the one who used to make sure that they took care of themselves. This can sometimes cause a feeling of guilt. Let's talk.#podcast #health #crime #love #money #Ciara #summer #news #music #KendrickLamar #fun #Drake KamalaHarris #debate
Whether you interact and are close with your neighbors doesn't matter. It's almost impossible to live in close quarters with people and they not know some things about you that you might consider to be private. Your neighbors can figure things about you by the way that you dress, drive, eat and buy. They don't have to come in your house to figiure things out. Your neighbors can figure out if you have gotten a job, lost a job, or changed a job schedule. You may not know that they are paying attention, but they always are checking you out. You may not like that, but there is nothing that you can do. Sometimes neighbors know when you are having trouble in your home. It could be the yelling and screaming, or it could be the stuff that you moved out. Let's talk.#podcast #life #money #music #android #love #health #summer #animals #apple #neighborhood #hood #fun #news
Some people are really affected when their parents separate.They get really sad, try to keep them together and sometimes blame themselves.For some, it can have a negative affect on how some people conduct their own relationships.It may even rub off on their kids.Some don't seem to be affected that much.by their parent's breakup. There can be factors that may sway this one way or another, but some seem to take it on the chin pretty well. Is it real? Let's talk.#podcast #relationships #health #marriage #FreeFire #money #vacation #divorce #music #money #phones
The republican vice-presidential nominee has put his foot in his mouth big time. He said that the country is being run by childless cat ladies and althoughit was meant to be a dig at democratic presidential nominee Kamala Harris, it has been heard and felt by millions of women around the country who don't have children. They are not happy about what he said and because he has not apologized, or walked back his comments, it has made the controversy more severe than the party wants. Things like this have the power to sway an election in the opposite direction than the party intended. Certainly, there are plenty of women who are republicans who do not have children. Will this be a deciding factor in the upcoming election? Let's talk.#podcast #trump #money #food #jdvance #health #love #news #cats #FreeFire #fun #music #party
We could go on for days about how some people have used us for their own gain. We could talk about how people have used people for sex. We could talk about how people have used people for money or a place to stay. Sometimes it's true and sometimes it's not as true as it's being told. What about recycling ? When do we talk about recycling people? What does that mean to you when you hear it? Let's talk.#podcast #FreeFire #money #music #user #boss #health #food #news #dogs #running
Coparenting can be tough when the two parents aren't on the same page. When the rules that govern a child's behavior aren't agreed upon or respected by both parents, a child can manipulate both parents, or one parent may have a hard time getting a child to adapt to what's right. For example, if you don't feed your child a lot of sweets or junk food, but the other parent lets the child eat whatever they want, you might have a hard time getting the child to eat what is good for them when they are home with you. How do you deal with this? Let's talk.#podcast #food #church #fun #love #cats #beer #money #sports #play #gambling #news #health #cancer
Have you helped someone to get a job where you work and lived to regret it? Did they embarrass you by their work performance or some other infraction? Being a reference for someone at your place of employment is not a small thing. It can call your judgement into question and sometimes your integrity as well. Some people have had such negative experiences with getting jobs for people that they were discouraged from ever using their influence to get someone a job ever again. It can get that bad. Let's talk.#podcast #work #crowds #fun #love #play #jobs #sports #animals #church #power #money #news #beer
There are some people that you learn never to make plans with. That's whether you are just going out on a date, an outing and a vacation getaway. There are some people who will ruin the experience for you if you take them out somewhere. At 1st you don't want to admit it to yourself. You may make excuses for what happens, like it was a full moon that night, she was PMS-ing, or that he is going through something right now. The day will come when you will have to concede that this person is just bad for a good time. It may not have started out that way, but that's how it ended up and we have to deal with it....by not taking them anywhere or going anywhere with them. Let's talk.#podcast #writing #paper #vacation #news #love #beer #friends #party #animals #fun #power #makeup #sports
Have you ever had to wait until someone came home from somewhere far away, or from being gone for a long time? Someone who you care a lot about. Someone who you used to hang out with, or have fun with. Someone who you have a lot of plans for. Does it always go the way that you sketched it up when they came home? Sometimes things are very different than the way that you expect when people return home after a long time away. People change and it can make reunions difficult. When someone comes home from jail after a long prison stint, are they the same as they were before they went in? When soldiers come home from overseas, or from war. Are they ever the same? Even after a long hospital stay. Need I say anything more about that? Let's talk.#vacation #love #prison #war #psychology #party #welcomehome #guitar #friends #cancer #friends #gas #news #jobs #fun
As we know by now, Joe Biden stepped down as the 2024 Prsidential nominee. His VP Kamala Harris is now the frontrunner for the presidential bid. All of this happened seemingly after Joe Biden laid an egg in the 1st Presidential debate in June. A series of events followed that, which led up to Joe Biden dropping out of the 2024 presidential race. Now voters have to choose between and aging controversial former president and a younger, female vice-president.How did this all happen? Does everything seem to be on the up and up with this situation? SHould we go for it? Let's talk.#podcast #fun #people #vote #ImWithHer #Trump #church #love #health #friends #age #news #KamalaHarris
Back in the day, their were certain things that kids weren't allowed to see. It could be anything ranging from using drugs to using foul language. Every parent is different and each parent may have a different code of conduct that they demand for people when they are around their children. Some people don't allow people to smoke or drink in front of their kids. Some may not allow open displays of affection around their kids. Some parents may not allow certain subjects to be discussed around their kids. It is harder to guage what can and can't be done around kids anymor, with the legalization of maijuana and the emergence of social media. What is worse, smoking weed around kids or twerking in a video? Let's talk.#kids #facebook #marijuana #podcast #love #twerking #food #party #beer #chicken #gas #music #animals #Biden #Trump #school
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The decision to become pregnant and bring children into this world is a big deal. A lot of people seem to take this responsibility lightly. Some take it for granted. When it comes to pregnancy, only a woman can become pregnant. With that fact, you would think that women would exercise more control over whether they get pregnant or not, but they are not alone in the process. Only a man can get a woman pregnant and with the laws that povern parenthood, you would think that men would be more selective about how they spread their seed. Who should take more responsibility for making sure that they only become pregnant when they want to become pregnant, or that they only get women pregnant when the time and people are right? Is there a separation between having sex and pregnancy? What about moral issues? What about STD's? Birth control deals with all of these things. Let's talk.#podcast #love #children #summer #church #money #time #morals #psychology #cosmetics #dance #clean #doula
What can have a bigger impact on your emotional psyche, seeing someone who you are involved with talking to someone else who they are interested in, or reading a teaxt or letter that they have written to someone who they are interested in? Your choice may not be to see either, but in terms of hard the impact would be, which do you think would be worse? This may not be anything that affects you, or anything that you think about, but thisis real-life stuff. Sometimes seeing what someone has written to someone can mess you up for days. When you see what someone has written to someone else, you know that the person did not mean for you to see what they wrote and they may have been really candid, or explicit in what they wrote. You may feel guilty about seeing what was written because it could have happened not by you snooping, but by some other chance. It could've been something that totally caught you off guard. Not all findings are done because of distrust. Let's talk.#talk #love #podcast #god #money #psychology #trust #relationships #bae #rent #summer #food #apps
Acting like something belongs to you that doesn't belong to you happens all the time, but where does it come from? It could be money. It could be a car. It could be a house. It could be kids. It could be a man, woman or spouse. It could be an idea or a thought. Seeing someone act like this can really get in the way.It can make people start to resent each other or even start not liking people. Supervisors and managers go through this all the time and sometimes it's because they bring it on themselves. Your big brother or sister might have introduced you to this concept through babysitting......like they was the boss. Let's talk.#clean #podcast #rent #health #street #weather #cars #babies #money #cosmeticsurgery #drums #care
Call Me When You're Ready To Stop Playing. This might be what someone says when they interested in someone and attracted to them, but they are ready to be serious. They don't want to be involved in a casual, fleeting situation and that can be whether we are talking about love or business. Some people just want to toy around something that they are interested in. For example, a person may be good at singing and they like to sing in front of people, but they may not want to be a professional singer that sings for a living. Maybe they are sfraid of some of the dangers that the industry offers. People who are interested in honing their talent might not want to waste their time dealing with someone who isn't willing to do what it takes to be a pro. They may tell them to call them when they are ready to stop playing around with their art. I think we know how this goes in the area of romance. Let's talk.#podcast #dance #singing #movies #church #coffee #money #jewelry #music #God #summer #rent
At what age should a person stop trying to have children? At what age should an adult not have to be worried about pregnancy? We probably all know someone who either got pregnant or got someone pregnant and they were in their late forties or worse. We hear stories about Tony Randall, who had his last child at age 79, Al Pacino and Roberrt DeNiro who also fathered children late in there 70's with much younger women. What's up with that? It happens. That's the bottom line. It's something that we have to deal with. What is your opinion on when it's time to retire the ovaries, or stop the swimmers? Do we have a say so in this, or should we just mind our business? Let's talk.#podcast #roevwade #love #parents #prochoice #prolife #mothers #church #coffee #dance #jewelry #money #music
Does it matter to you whether someone is buying a car, leasing a car, or renting a car? How about a house? How about a dress, handbag, shoes or a watch? Does it matter to you if they aren't from the store that sells the designer items? How about jewelry. Does it matter to you whether it'd white gold or platinum? What if someone gives you something expensive instead of them buying it themselves? Does that matter to you? What does caring about how someone gets something say about us psychologically? Are we thinking in the wrong ways? Let's talk.#podcast #money #cars #jewelry #church #health #coffee #food #music #dance
In dating, we say that we want total honesty. We say that we want someone to be totally yransparent with us and not play games. We say that we want someone to tell us the truth and let us decide if we want to be involved. Is all of that true? If a person lied to to you about where they lived, or how much money they made, because they were intimidated by you and didn't think that you would date them, would you be angry with them? Would it cause you to cut them off? If a person is totally honest with you, do you think it is because they don't feel like they have anything to lose with you? A lot of people tell the truth when they have nothing to lose. What do you know about it? Let's talk.#podcast #time #money #dating #love #relationships #god #church #help
It's probably the saddest thing that could happen in a family besides a family member killing another. What does it mean to cut a family member off and why would it ever come to that? Let's talk.#children #podcast #music #parents #love #money #time #summer #vacation
Some people go right into enemy mode when they have a falling out with someone. They tell on them. They reveal their secrets. They defame them. They sometimes try to fight them. They talk bad about them. They contact their girlfriends, or spouses and give sensitive information, or sometimes try to get with them. It can get ugly. At best, they just never speak to them again. What kind of friend performs this way when the friendship goes through a rough patch? Is any of this stuff necessary? Let's talk.#friends #podcast #rent #marriage #animals #cats #dogs #beef #family #summer
This is a common theme and feeling amongst employees. A lot of employees feel like supervisors, managers and owners don't do anything and get paid higher salaries. Many can't understand why that is. It could be that management really is lazy, or it could be that subordinates don't understand the job that management is supposed to do. Either way, this breakdown in communication can lead to low employee morale and possibly result in unwanted trips to HR. Have you ever felt like you were protecting your boss by not telling about some of the inaproppriate things that they have been doing? Have you ever protected your boss because they let you slide with a lot of forbidden things that you were doing on the job? Not telling? Cool. Let's talk.#podcast #work #parking #jobs #love #friends #cancer #FreeFire #diabetes #music
Some people start acting like they have always had money once they start making a little money. I get it. It's hard when you have gone for a long time without being able to afford the things that you want or need. Then you finally start making a decent salary and now you can get the stuff that you have wanted for so long. Why do some people start bragging or putting other people down when they start making a couple of dollars? Do they forget where they came from? The same with people who finally find love after so many failed attempts. Sometimes they start hyping their lover up as if they are the best thing since sliced bread and often, their partner is not what that person claims that they are.Why do you seem to see when they don't? Let's talk.#podcast #love #animals #money #hair #movies #dating #FreeFire #music #jobs
Child stars like Michael Jackson, Gary Coleman and other young celebrities who went through tragic events say that they never had a childhood because they started working in their careers early in their lives. Regular people who had to start working early in their lives, or had to take on responsibilities early in life claim to never have had a childhood also. Are they correct in saying this? Is going to work the number 1 requirement for taking away someone's childhood, or are there other things that can also rob a person of having a childhood? What makes a childhood a childhood, to you? Some parents keep their children so close to them and shelter them so tight that they can find it hard to deal with the harsh realities of life, or possibly just the day-to-day challenges of being an adult. Things like being considerate of others, sacrificing for just reasons, paying bills and taking responsibility may be missing from someone who hasn't been allowed to grow up. What makes an adult, to you? Let's talk#podcast #children #bills #work #jobs #love #growingup #money #health #crying
Drinking alcohol and smoking anything are strictly human things that we do in the world. Some might say that they are the very things that separate us from the rest of the animal kindom. Whatever the reason that a person has for drinking and smoking, it can separate them from someone who doesn't indulge. Can they be together peacefully if they have that activity that differentiates them? If the person who indulges doesn't drink or smoke excessively, it might not be a problem. If the person who doesn't indulges takes a sip every now and then, it might not be a problem. If two people really want to be together, there probably isn't too much that will separate them for a while. What about in the long term though? Can they do it without there being serious problems? Let's talk.#podcast #reading #drinking #smoking #party #therapy #music #love #psychology #food
We usually look at daddy or mommy issues having problems forming, or functioning in relationships because of the problems that they have with their parents or their upbringing. When we think of mommy or daddy issues, we often think about the negative things that we think about our parents. We usually think about the feelings that we have about our parents that push people away from us, or make them think that we are crazy. Is that all that there is to mommy and daddy issues though? Could there be much more to them that we haven't considered? Let's talk?#podcast #mommy #daddyissues #family #home #vacation #toxic #relationships #animals #cats #dogs
Drinking, smoking and hard living takes its toll. Trying to get something that keeps getting away from you takes its toll. Falling in love and dealing with heartbreak takes its toll. We don't always thing about the long-term effects of the damage that we may infkict ourselves until it's too late. When is too late? Too late comes at different times for different people. Have you ever indulged in something negative that you know could hurt you badly if you don't stop? It could anything ranging from the physical, like boxing, or it could be mental/emotional like getting into bad relationships. How do we prevent long-term damage. Can we avoid it? Is it too late? Let's talk.#podcast #talk #relationships #pain #damage #body #sickness #diabetes #cancer #Biden #Trump
A lot of people are good people, but being a good person doesn't mean that you don't b.s. The b.s. could be that you're wishy-washy or disliyal. It could mean that you procrastinate, or that you court bad decisions. Your b.s. could mean that you find ways to please your enemies before your loved ones. Maybe you seek validation from people who don't care about you. What happens when a person finds someone who will put up with that kind of foolishness ? Will they be happy or will more b.s. be in store? Let's talk.#lotion #labels #relationships #cars #podcast #talk #law #crime
She doesn't like sports, so he has to enjoy that without her. He doesn't like soap operas, so she has to turn the channel when he wants to watch TV. What happens when you can't do the things that you enjoy with the one who you love? Can a couple make it in a scenario where they aren't on the same page about their pleasures? Let's talk.#talk #music #pleasure #smoke #car #music #FreeFire #Cancer #diabetes #recreation
Taking a little off the top.It's a common practice in business. It happens when in an exchange of funds, one of the parties may turn in a less than the amount that was supposed to be given. When there are large sums of money, it isn't easily noticed, but when it's a small and significant amount of money it is usually noticed and there are problems with it. Like when you buy a used car from someone or have mechanical work done, you may turn in $4800 instead of he $5000 that was agreed upon. It happens all the time.This is usually the reason that some people will not complete a business transaction until all funds are accounted for.People who collect money are often found to skim money from off the top. What do you know about it? Let's talk.#podcast #talk #money #love #theft #insurance #business #hospital #hair #car #house
A lot of people nowadays don't kiss. They have taken kissing out of the intimacy equation. How is this possible when kissing is probably the lowest level of intimacy that there is, right after holding hands. These days, things are different. A lot of people don't kiss, but they have no problem performing oral sex. In past days, this would be unheard of, but could it be symbolic of a bigger, more serious problem that may have gone unnoticed? Let's talk.#podcast #talk #kissing #body #love #intimacy #BBW #BBL #psychology #food #allergies
Whenever a person reports a crime, the police always investigate the person who reported the crime. They do this in order to clear the person of any wrongdoing, so that they can focus on getting the person who actually did it. But they suspect the person who reported the crime first. The messenger is always a suspect. Have you ever told a friend that their significant other is messing around on them? If you have, you may have received mixed reactions. With some people, they may have been thankful. With other people, they may have distanced themselves from you because you either know too much, or because they think that you have an ulterior motive for spilling the beans, You are the messenger, but you're a suspect too. SMH. Let's talk.#talk #suspect #gossip #dirt $podcast #love #trust #terminal #cancer #diabetes #cars #gold
An ungrateful so and so. The world is full of them. The real problem is that people go out of their way to accommodate them and their lack of appreciation, or their entitlement can really get under your skin. Parents complain about this kind of thing all the time. Friends complain about it all the time. Spouses complain about it all the time. How do you deal with someone who always needs help, but never seems to acknowledge the efforts that other people put into helping them. This phenomenon can be especially frustrating when the job requires doing research for someone......and they are acting like it's your job to do it.....plus they are giving your their butt to kiss. Let's talk.#love #research #music #loans #pain #cancer #heart #car #house #team #diabetes #children #prayer #parents #church
What effects does getting pregnant by someone who you didn't want to get pregnant by have on children and families? Let's make this a little more personal. When you have had a child, or multiple children by someone whom you didn't want to get pregnant by, how can that affect the way that you feel about life? Why would you have a baby by someone who you didn't want to have children with? There are a whole lot of reasons for this, but all of the reasons can have a negative effect on your emotional health and you might be ashamed to express it. Some ride it out. Some don't do so well with the situation.Who do you know? Who do I know? How come you never got a chance to have a baby by someone who you DID want to have a baby by? Let's talk.#podcast #mothers #children #love #pregnancy #cancer #music #diabetes #psychology #car #team
There are some people who you just can't seem to avoid getting into an argument with. It could be your parents, siblings, other family members,certain friends, neighbors, coworkers, children, strangers, or anyone. There are some people who just seem to like the back and forth. They seem to take everything seriously as a dig, or subliminal insult. People like this may think that you are being sarcastic or rude. Sometimes it's energy. When energies don't match, arguments can ensue. Have you ever made the conscious effort to be sure not to get into an argument with someone, only to get into another agument with them? Let's talk.#podcast #beef #arguments #socialmedia #green #redpill #trees #music #house #cancer #diabetes #heartdisease
When you are getting yourself together, improving your health and fixing yourself on the inside, does that remedy the hurt and pain that someone has inflicted on you? They say that when you change your diet, do some cardio and start reading more , you change your outside world by improving yourself on the inside? Do you think that is true? Can you exercise past abuse out of your system? Can you meditate the threat of violence away from you? Can you eat enough vegetables and good water to forget the times when you were rejected and insulted? Let's talk.#podcast #psychology #pain #selfimprovement #love #cancer #heartdisease #music #meditation
What do you do when you get mad? How do you express it? Do you get loud? Get quiet? Are you confrontational? Do you get violent? Do you have a quick temper, or does it take a while to build up? Are you uncontrollable when you are really angry? Has your anger gotten you into legal trouble, or turned people against you? Do people understand your anger, or do they consider you to be the type that gets mad over nothing? Do you think that the internet, particularly social media has influenced people to go over the top to express their anger? Does the internet have people showing out when it cmes to anger? Are people out here copying other people's anger tactics? Let's talk.#podcast #anger #windows #therapy #truth #lights #house #friends #funerals #cancer #diabetes #cats #dogs
It sound ridiculous when you think about it, but there may be times in your life where you might trust your secrets, your possessions, or even your life in the hands of someone who you don't know, or barely know before you would trust those things in the hands of your loved ones or people who you may have known for years. Why would anyone do that? Medical attention might be a situation where this might exist. In an emergency situation, you may not have time to do an unterview or a screening of medical personnel. You may have to just trust that they wil take good care of you. You may be right about it too. What about your secrets? What about your innermost thoughts and feelings? Some people thinkthat those things are better handled by stangers than by people who they know. What do you think? Let's talk.#podcast #weather #time #trust #friends #money #secrets #freefire #law #diabetes #cancer
They ay that no grown person is responsible for another grown person. I prctice, it seems to be a little different. Adults take on the responsibility of taking care of other adults all the time. It can be for your newly adult children, or for relatives, or friends that need help. We know that spouses take responsibility for each other, epecially in good times. When times are not so good, it seems like people take an audit of whether they are responsibility for others. It seems to be a lot easier to take responsibility for a person who is appreciative of the things that someone does for them. So, when does someone take the responsibility for another person and how long should that play out? Let's talk.#liability #comfort #money #love #birds #house #car #beauty #children
Lifestyle chnages. We talk about making lifestyle changes all the time. We talk about losing weight, eating better, lowering blood pressure, exercising, cutting out negative things, incorporating positive things, and a lot of physical things that we know that we have to do in order to be healthier and live longer. What about the lifestyle changes that go beyond the physical things? Have you ever thought about how permanent a lifestyle change has to be in order to be complete? Many of us think about lifestyle changes as a way to fix something that is wrong with us, but when you really think about a lifestyle change, wouldn't it be withthe intention of changing almost everything that is going on with you? Is that the way that it should be, or is just fixing your weight and vitals enough for you? Let's talk.#money #caring #fear #love #danger #trees #liestyle #burns #house #diabetes
Life can be heavy and a pain and you might be sick of dealing with the pain and that is whatever pain that may be. People get tired of trying to get ahead and trying to help soemone else get ahead. Sometimes the pushback that you get from people who you are trying to help can start to get on your nerves. You might consider giving up, or letting the process play out without your help. Are you able to let things play out in your absence? For example, are you able to let a relationship go? Are you able to let your kids find out how the world works without you trying to assist them? Let's talk.#podcast #relationships #love #givingup #paint #house #car #people
Those difficult conversations. There are many that come to mind. The difficult conversations usually involve having to talk about things that you would rather keep to yourself. The conversations about the things that you hope will take care of themselves in some way. It may be difficult to talk to your daughter who you suspect may be sexually active about birth control options. It may be difficult to talk about a violation that you have committed against someone who you love, like cheating or theft. It may be difficult to talk about an illness that you have either been diagnosed with, or that you suspect that you have. It may be difficult to an ex that you are supposed to be over, that you still have strong feelings for. There are plenty of difficult conversations that need to be had by the people who are involved. What do you know about having difficult conversations? Let's talk#podcast #talk #feelings #pov #heart #music #movies #FreeFire
Would you marry someone just so that they could stay in this country? Many have done it and plenty more have it in the works right now. The legality of it is one thing, but the morality of it seems to be a whole other thing. Marrying someone for citizenship is seen by some as a form of human trafficking. Certainly, many people have experienced it in this way, but many more have done it voluntarily, for money. Doing something for money and voluntarily may sound oxymoronic to some, but, uh.....Anyway, how are these unions set up and although it is just for money, does it ever blossom into a full loving marriage? Should it? Let's talk.#podcast #marriage. #citizenship #immigrant #car #house #musica #FreeFire #gas
Most of the superheroes that we know of work a regular job and come out to defend world domination. What if they came out for regular dangers and threats? WHat if Peter Parker quit the Daily Bugle and worked as Spider Man full-time? Clark Kent? Bruce Wayne? Tony Stark? Is it possible that we have been overlooking some REAL superheroes in our lives that have been doing great work and great things? Why are the men and women who are the most influential in our lives not being touted as superheroes when they are working full-time in their roles? Let's talk.#podcast #saving #heroes #house #car #pov #FreeFire #gas
If there was any sense to it, wouldn't the other parent of your children be your best connection? I mean, think about it. If there was ANY sense to it, the person that you chose to dedicate at least 18 years of your financial and social life with would be the person that you would feel the closest to, even if for some reason you couldn't be together. It is totally not like that for so many people though. Let's take a good look at why that isn't the case. Let's talk.#podcast #talk #soul #cars #pov #FreeFire #house #time
What do you do when you can't get the answers to the pressing questions in life that you need to know? For example, when your parents are gone and you need guidance, you no longer have them to turn to for wisdom. What do you do?When your children have questions with their homework that even you don't have the answers to. What dod you do. When you are trying to form healthy relationships with new people, or keep existing relationships with people who are resistant. How do do figure it out? When you want things that you can't afford, what do you do? SOme people find ways to figure these things out and some people don't. Have you ever left some to figure out a situation that you could have helped them with, but decided not to? Let's talk.#podcast #cars #POV #MothersDay #FreeFire
Knowing how to treat a man. What does it mean to know how to treat a man? Whenever things don't work out in a couple, some people say that she doesn't know how to treat a man. Is that a fact? Is it true? What does knowing how to treat a man mean? Does it only apply to women? Is it the case these days that most women these days don't know how to treat a man? Do all men like to be treated the same way? What are we really talking about when we talk about knowing how to treat a man? Let's talk.#cars #podcast #FreeFire #music #new
Anyone who has ever been arrested and processed comes into the reality of how much a person is handicapped when they get locked up. They are shown firsthand the way that when you get locked up, your entire access to the outside world that we mostly take for granted. When you go to jail, anything that you have going on in the world comes to a pause, because you can't be there to maintain it. There are little things that we often think about that have to be delegated to others until we get out. Things like projects that you may have started, appointments that you may have had scheduled, children that have to be raised, bills that are due every month, even small things like watering plants and maintaining a garden have to be delegated to someone else. Who can you depend on to do these things effectively for you and for how long? Let's talk.#podcast #POV #prison #free
Anyone who has ever been arrested and processed comes into the reality of how much a person is handicapped when they get locked up. They are shown firsthand the way that when you get locked up, your entire access to the outside world that we mostly take for granted. When you go to jail, anything that you have going on in the world comes to a pause, because you can't be there to maintain it. There are little things that we often think about that have to be delegated to others until we get out. Things like projects that you may have started, appointments that you may have had scheduled, children that have to be raised, bills that are due every month, even small things like watering plants and maintaining a garden have to be delegated to someone else. Who can you depend on to do these things effectively for you and for how long? Let's talk.#podcast #POV #prison #free
We often praise those who were with us when we were coming up. Those who were there when we didn't have anything. When we had no direction and sometimes no dreams, there were people who might have helped you out, or stuck with you through the hard times. Are the people who were there with you always the people who were on your side? Are there other ways to look at this situation? Let's talk.#podcast #loyalty #debtrelief #bills #success #FreeFire
Is it possible to please everybody? Many people have tried to please everybody and they never seem to be happy with the results of their efforts. What makes a person try to please everybody and does it ever work? Are they really trying to please everybody, or is that just something that people say to try to make themselves seem important, or helpful? What are the benefits of trying to please everybody? Let's talk.#podcasts #satisfaction #assignments #reiki #hospitals
Exhibiting anti-social behavior. A lot of people think that antisocial behavior is when someone is standoff-ish, shy and the type of person who doesn't like to mingle with people. There are different types of ways to be antisocial. There is a difference between being antisocial and exhibiting antisocial behavior. Criminals exhibit antisocial behavior. People with anger problems exhibit antisocial behavior. People who are loud, rude and obnoxious exhibit antisocial behavior. You can exhibit antisocial behavior in a lot of negative ways that we may not look at as being antisocial. Have you ever been in love with someone who exhibits antisocial behavior? Let's talk.#mingle #podcasts #history #criminaljustice #natural #free
As far as hair is concerned, the times have changed. When I was growing up, we didn't see a lot of young people with bald heads, or that were balding. There weren't a lot of people who had bald heads like the way that you will see today. There certainly weren't a lot of women who expereinced massive hair loss. At least it seems like there weren't a lot of women who experienced a lot of hair loss. Is that actually true? We'll take a look at that also. One thing is for sure, if you are dealing with a woman who is experiencing great hair loss, she is gonna be a handful for anyone. Do you know how to deal with a bald head? Let's talk.#podcasts #hotcomb #balding #love #natural #organic #GMO
Have you ever had to escape from someone? Domestic violence? Kidnapping? Criminal pursuit? It happens. No one wants to be in a position like this, but it happens and when it does, you have to keep your head on straight and try to do your best to come out with the best result. So, why would anyone have to run from anyone else? Obviously to escape some kind of danger, or to avoid some type of responsibility. Where does it start though? Can running from someone be successful? Let's talk.#marathon #lawenforcement #freedom #crossover #Diddy
They say that we are living in the times of equality right? They say that in a marriage, all things are equal, right? They say that a woman can do anything that a man can do and vice versa, right? Also, any person in a marriage, or relationship can fall on hard times, or structure their union the way that they want to. So, if a man loses his job, he can still contribute to the household by helping to raise the children, and doing domestic duties, the way that a woman would if she was married and wasn't working while the children were growing up. Do you agree with this? What if there are no children? Let's talk.#respect #housewives #family #unorthodox #cleaning
We say that we are at pesce with the things that we don't like about ourselves, but are we? Could it be that we have just accepted the things that we don't like, but can't change about ourselves? Can people tell when we are uncomfortable about the things that we don't like about ourselves and does that make us more uncomfortable? Everyone has insecurities. It's not that big of a deal, but when you don't see anyone suffering from their insecurities except for yourself, it can make life much harder. Sometimes people mistake insecuirty for conceit. Is that a good way to hide it? Have you ever known anyone who was insecure, but didn't let it show? Let's talk.#loveyourself #conceited #insecure #talent #hiddenmeaning
Almost everyone tries to paint their grandparents in a positive light. Even when people tell funny stories of their grndparents' mistakes and misunderstandings, they usually tell the stories from a place of love. Everyone considers their grandparents to be wise, loving and problem-solving individuals that have some type of power in the way that they influence others. It's like, if grandma couldn't get it done, then it couldn't be negotiated. So, what happens when grandparents fall short? What happens when they are the reason that mommy and daddy didn't do the right things? Grandparents are always better than parents, right? Let's talk.#grandparents #easter #mothersday #seniorcitizens #love #grandbaby
They say that everybody and everything has their price. They say that if you offer up enough money, that you can buy anything that you want and that people will sell eveything if the offer is high enough. We are usually talking about material items and some emotional items. Things like a house. Even if it's your family home that has been in your family for generations, you might sell it to someone, if they give you an offer that you can't refuse. Or would you? There might not be an off high enough, or good enough for you to part with some things. Are there things that you won't sell, no matter what? What are they? Let's talk.#buy #sell #emotionalpurchase #sellinghouses #realestatetaxes #apologies
Have you ever delt with someone who doesn't seem to be useful? Somebody who doesn't know how to do a lot of things? Someone who doesn't have a lot of useful qualities to you? Do you write people off as being useless when they can't do the things that you need them to do? Useless? What is being useless to someone? Is it not being able to cook? Make money? Can't fix things around the house, or can't repair a car? Can't produce children? Oops! Let's talk.#useless #gifted #swissarmyknife #nogood #punishment
We say that only God can judge us, but when you look at the way that things usually play out, when has God ever judged us more than man has? Would we even know what a Godly judgement looked like if we saw it? We tell people what they should and shouldn't be doing all the time. Sometimes it has something to do with the bible and sometimes it doesn't. What is a judgement anyway? Is there a difference between a judement and an opinion? Let's talk.#judgement #opinion #God #universe #morals #principles #values
If your brother has a problem with them, you have a problem with them. What if you didn't have a problem with them before and didn't want a problem with them? Guess what? You might still have to have problem with them. You have inherited a beef. You didn't ask for it and no one can fix this for you. Or can they? What happens in a situation where you have accepted a beef for a friend and may have even acted on the beef and now the originator of the beef, who gifted the beef to you, is now cool with the enemy? Do you become a friend too? Let's talk.#beef #chicken #conflict #worry #battles #loyalty
Brothers and sisters grow up together in the same house. They may share the same toys, clothes, experiences, friends and possibly attention. They have the same parents (well, most of the time). They grow up in the same house. (Well, most of the time also) They hung out with each other and loved each other. (Once again, most of the time). What can make brothers and sisters stop talking to each other? What has to happen to make people who share that close of a bloodline to stop talking to each other? Why would that happen? Why should it happen? Let's talk.#familymatters #parents #speakingterms #classof2024
We are starting to see it more and more these days, it seems. Young men, in their 20's are hooking up with women who are in their 40's or more. On the surface, it would seem like the motivation is money, or possibility of pregnancy-free sex, but could there be a different reason than we have thought about? Could younger men simply be attracted to older women for who they are and the way that they look? Is it the maturity? Mommy issues? What? Let's talk.#cougars #younglove #blacklove #security #friendswithbenefits
When one of you have checked out, but haven't checked all the way out, is there still a chance to stay together? Would you want to? Should you? On the mental side of things is what we're talking about. You may be physically still together, but in your mind, you may have already accepted your fate as being apart. You might hold out the possibility that things might improve, but you might be okay with if they didn't. Most people might say to finish the job and break up, but what if that's not exactly what you want to do? By the way, this could apply to a job. Let's talk.#breakingup #separation #poker #midterms #finals
Under the influence. Ususally, when we hear that phrase, we think of people getting drunk, high, or some kind of substance abuse, but under the influence can cover some things that we experience, but don't think of in that way. For example, what about the things that a person might do when the crowd is on their side, or when the opposite sex is around? People who need a lot of attention might do a lot of things, or promise a lot of things when they finally get that attention. What about when someone who you are trying to impress is around? Like when you go on a 1st date with someone who you have been wanting to be with for a long time? What kind of decisions might you make when you are under that kind of influence? Let's talk.#DUI #theholybible #craftbeers #bambooearrings #carcrashes #insurance
Some people like to be extra flashy and show the world all of the things that they have . It could money, jewelry, cars, or other toys that people know are exclusive and expensive. They know that material things will capture people's attention. Some people will tell how much money that they make and sread the love around. A lot of people won't tell an actual figure of how much they make, because it can give a profile of a person that can be dangerous. Predators love to know how much money a person has, so that they can take it away from them. Still some people can't resist telling. There are people who won't even let friends do their taxes, because they will know exactly how much they make from a particular job. Do you? Let's talk. #taxes #friendswithbenefits #trending #alimony #childsupport
We have all looked at someone as being larger than life. It could have been our parents, or a teacher, or a coach, or a community leader, or an athlete, or a celebrity, or a religious leader. It seems to be all good until it's not good anymore. When we find out certain things about people who we admired, or thought were so different than the average person, we may have had to come back to earth and earth may have not been where we wanted to be with this person. What happens when you find out that the man, woman, or child that you thought would never do any wrong, shows you that you may have believed in them a little too much? Does it crush your trust factor? Let's talk.#celebritybeef #gossip #DLHugley #ClubShayShay
Dealing with a woman who is always causing chaos and stirring up trouble is not usually fun, unless you are the same way.Dealing with a man who always has the scoop can be confusing, because we are more used to women being associated with gossip. It gets doubly hard when the men and women who are a part of this are the people who we cre about. We hate the mess they cause, but we might love the messy person who caused it. Let's talk.#gossip #rumors #spillthetea #messy #hottopics
Should a stepparent, or live-in boyfriend, or girlfriend be able to physically discipline your children? I guess the important question should be: What would be the reason that a stepparent would need to put their hands on your children, their children, or anyone else's children? This is a touchy subject because raising children needs to be done with care and today's children are so sensitive, that things can go left early, while kids born before the 80's may have been a lot more physically and emotionally tough. The other thing is that parents need to be good judges of character when choosing mates, especially if they are going to have those mates around their children. Every parent isn't good with this. Let's talk#parents. #householdnames #chores #discipline
They say that a drunk tongue speaks a sober mind. Is it true? Is it personal? By personal, I mean to ask if it only applies in situations where you hear drunk people who you know speaking about you and your situations? We know that testimony, that is made under the influence is not admissable in court, so why do we rely on it so much in our personal lives? Do we REALLY believe that people only let it all out when they are drunk or high? Does the way that they treat us when they are sober not matter? Let's talk.#DUI #undertheinfluence #N/A #sobriety #trust
Nobody like to be disappointed. Nobody likes to be stood up. Nobody likes to be let down. Nobody likes for their expectations to go unfulfilled. Is there a way that you can experience letdown after letdown and still be positive? Is there a way for you to consistently fall short on promises, or guarantees and still legitimately feel like things are gonna get better? How bad does disappointment affect you? Are you able to get past it without feeling like it was done on purpose? Let's talk.#disappointment #resentment #stoodup #singleparents
Some parents allow their kids to start dating and having boyfriend/girlfriends at a young age. Some parents make their kids wait until they are advanced teenagers before they can have suitors. Each set of parents has their own set of ideas of what it means for their teens to start dating. One of the reasons can be because of what dating usually leads to with young people and adults.. Are you approving for your kids to start having sex when you approve of them to start dating? For a lot of parents, that's exactly what they are saying and that could be the reason that some parents forbid their kids to date. Is this the right attitude to have? Let's talk.#girlfriends #boyfriends #dating #teens #parents
What does your inability to hold a job, or stay in a healthy relationship say about you? Could it be a rough patch in your life? Bad timing? Just not the right ones? Could it always be the othe coworker's, or lover's fault? Is it possible to go from relationship to relationship and not take a look at yourself to see your part in it? If you are on a new job search every few months or so, what does that say about you? Is it possible to ignore your contribution? Let's talk.#work #love #jobs #termination
Some people talk loud all the time, so you either get used to it, or you don't. It is just the way that they are. Other people may raise their voices when they get excited in some way. Whether they are angry, surprised, or serious, you may hear their voice go up a few octaves, or they may outright be yelling. Hearing someone raise their voice can be scary to some people. To some people, it symbolizes that they have either lost control, or are hell-bent on gaining control. Either way, even though they may be speaking loud, you may be listening hard and paying attention to body language to see if it is speaking louder too. What are some examples of when you may have had to lower your voice, right when you were beginning to speak loud? Can anyone hush you up when you get going? Let's talk.#loudmouth #passionmarks #insidevoices #quiettime
Do you think that you could survive if you were born in Generation Z? Whether you are a Baby Boomer, Generation X, or Millennial, what do you see as the biggest differences between your generation and this one? What are some of the positives that you see with our young people who were born in the 2000's? It can't be all bad can it? Do you think that they are more violent than we were? Are they more disrespectful? Are they more, or less educated than you were? Did we pave the way for them? How did they get so far away from us in similarity? Are the differences that far apart? Let's talk.
How would you feel if you found out that someone who you knew had been locked up for a much more serious crrime than the crime(s) that they told you about? For example, what if they told you that they were in jail for not paying child support, but you later found out that it was for domestic violence? Would that be accptable for you? Of course this could get a lot more serious, but how would you handle this? Let's talk.
It sounds tragic and possibly ridicuolus that someone would leave the peron that they were supposed to be in love with hanging because they were diagnosed with an illness, or a condition, but it probably happens more often than people give it credit for. The question is whether it is totally wrong or not? We know that people have the right to be with whoever they want to and for whatever reason they have for being with them, but do we really understand and accept that? What about when it gets tested this way? Let's talk.
Some people's parents would offer this optiokn for kids who misbehaved. Some kids would take the whooping because they could get it over with and resume normal life afterwards. Some kids would choose the punishment because the thought of being hit terrified them. The question could arise that why should you have to choose either? Later, when you became an adult, you may have had to make this choice again in some way. In what way? Let's talk.
We all need a little help sometimes, but we can't always get it. They say that if you want something done right, you gotta do it yourself. What if you're not the one who can do it right, but no one else will do it for you. Things like cutting your own hair, or needing a massage. When you have to do everything yourself, it's often because the support system for you is insufficient, or non-existent. Is that cool? Let's talk.
We all have our favorites, regardless of if we admit it or not. Sometimes, we just keep it to ourselves if we think it will cause trouble. Favorite, or not, there may be something that the one who we love the most may do that may be intolerable. What would you do in that situation? Remember, they are your favorite and everyone may be watching. Let's talk.
There are many Black people who don't identify with being Black, either because of their bloodline, or bacause they don't identify with the culture.Are Black people who aren't from the U.S. exempt from Black American culture? Let's talk.
Are the secrets that we are taking to the grave putting us in an early grave?Do you have anyone that you can talk to? Have the things that you have done really been that bad, or are you just embarrassed
We know that we are SUPPOSED to take days off to get ourselves back together to return to work, but does it turn out that way?
Is love or respect more important in a relationship? Of course there should be plenty of both, but if you had to settle for just the most important one, which one would it be? Let's talk.
Sometimes when you get what you want, it ain't what you wanted. Like when you have save up for a long time to buy something that isn't worth the cost.
They used to make you feel sexy, special and important. Now, they make you need to get close a trashcan, or toilet. Let's talk.
What gets us to the point where we would be ready to call it quits at the 1st red flag, or sign of trouble? How can you be sure that a red flag is always a red flag? Is our willingness to exit a situation an indication that we are being controlled by people from our past?
With the recent allegations against P. Diddy and the settlement with Cassie, does it make us want to believe that most major celebrities are freaks, or that it's most likely that they have done what was alleged by accusers? Do we pick and choose? Let's talk.
How many times have we heard this question/phrase form people to describe a man who is sexually active with a woman who he has not married? Is there a deeper meaning that we haven't looked into yet? Let's talk.
Does growing up being given lots of love and affection leave us unprepared for the cruel world that exists?
This was probably more important before having kids, but so what, better than nothing, right?
Your mentor isn't ALWAYS happy for your success. You would think that whoever teaches you how to play the game wants you to be as good at playing as they are, or even better. Well, that's not always the case. Let's talk.
There's a difference between having fun and enjoying yourself. Do you get to enjoy yourself?
We try to get off to a good start with things. A new endeavor, job, relationship, etc..We know that a good start makes a good impression that we hope to maintain in the beginning. We should also know that things change in any situation. Do we properly prepare ourselves for the changes that occur after the beginning of something? In relationships, we always talk about how things were in the beginning. Are things always good in the beginning of things? A lot of us seem to think so, but we also know that there are times when we have to fight through the hard times in a situation that we were hoping for a breakthrough in. Those might ne the times that we don't look so fondly on. Do we respect the breakthrough as much as we do the beginning? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/ka5Sz9ZN83E?feature=share#Relationships #Zen #Yoga #UsedCars
We talk about compatability. We talk about liking a lot of the same things in order to be lovers or friends. Is that what it takes though? Do you have to like all of the same things and be interested in each other's interests in order to like each other, or even attract each other? Not saying that opposites attract, but we know that a lot of people subscribe to that thinking. Have you ever been caught acting like you were interested in something that you KNOW doesn't interest you very much? How about something that totally turns you off? Would you be pissed off if a person's interests held your interests, but none of your interests held theirs? How about vice versa? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/C_CVV1om-OE?feature=share#Hobbies #ZipLining #SkyDiving #RaceCars #Makeup
Office romances happen all the time in the workplace. We may have see the problems it can cause and the damage that it can do. Still, it doesn't stop people from being attracted to each other, or stop folks from hooking up with each other. Many people pursue relationships at work because that's where they spend most of their time and it's a good way to get to know someone in a positive setting. With this being said, it doesn't mean that there won't be major problems with an inter-office romance. Many jobs have policies against this and managers can be fired for having relations with subordinates. Not only that, but having relations with coworkers can have a negative effect on employee morale. There can be a lot of social controversy.. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/o3CqWk3EZhs?feature=share#OfficeRomance #Managers #Resignation #Carpentry
Another cliche? We hear people say that they have made peace with something and we assume that it means that they have stopped letting something bother them. Is that what it means though? What does peace mean to you? For some people, peace may mean that their is no fighting. For others, it might mean that there is no threat. For some others it may mean that there is no noise. Do all the definitions mean the same things? Making peace with your health. Making peace with a death. Making peace with an irritating, or pressing situation. What is the last thing that you have made peace with? Was it really peace that you made? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/mnIy1kUcZB4?feature=share#Ukraine #Putin #Tresspassing #BallonnRelease
The internet talks about submission all the time. Who women should submit to. Why they should submit. When they should submit. We only seem to talk about men submitting when it comes to God. Do we ever? Why should men only submit to God? Why should humans only submit to God? Are we sure that we understand what submission means and how it works? Let's see if we do. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/HNjj7rIX0ks?feature=share#Submission #Marriage #BoyfriendAndGirlfriend #RulesAndRegulations
One of the hardest things to explain to some people is the reason that a job must be done. People who have never worked a formal job don't seem to understand this concept very well. Selfish people really don't understand this concept. You would think that kids would struggle with this concept more than adults do, but it seems like only spoiled kids struggle with understanding it. Anyway, having to answer to somebody goes deeper than just a job. Lovers have to answer to each other too. That's not a thing that feminists and independence advocates seem to want to understand. Do you agree? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/lv0TXg-TDpU?feature=share#IDontNeedNoMan #Independence #InsectBites #Cleaning
Out in the wild, an animal has to teach their young how to hunt, avoid predators and stay alive for as long as nature will allow. Theoretically, the way you were raised is the way that you learned to survive as human beings. Our parents teach us how to read, write, count, value education, love, avoid trouble, make friends, hook up with lovers, have children and stay alive for as long as possible. It's different from household to household and the order of important things will vary from family to family. Has your family shown you how to survive in this world? Do you think that you got what you needed from your family to make it in this world? Did you raise your children with the same values and survival techniques as the ones that you were taught, or did you switch up some things and improve them? Did your family show you how to make money legally? Illegally? Did your family show you how to avoid incarceration? Did your family show you how to love? Did they teach you how to learn? How to attract people? How to say yes, or no? Are you surviving or striving under the way that you were raised? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/LZ6Ug0GqJ44?feature=share#Prison #SurvivalMode #MoneyManagement #BrokenHeart
It's hard when you give your best to someone and it seems like they gave you their ass to kiss. It can make the pain feel worse and sometimes mess with your self-esteem. It's not easy to be vulnerable to some people. It might be easy to be vulnerable to anyone if your trust has been violated badly in the past. Have you ever heard someone speak highly of someone you have had a bad experience with? Like hearing someone heap praise upon the boyfriend or girlfriend who cheated on you, or rejected you. It can have you wondering how they pull the wool over the eyes of so many people? Is it possible that they are good to other people, just not you? Is it possible that they weren't really that bad to you either? It can be hard to rationalize logically when your feelings have been badly hurt, but there might be times when you have to. Have you been here? Let's go.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/4kXEIyxOsUQ?feature=share#ExLovers #ACA #RollingStone #Migraines
You can't be nice to everybody. Now that sounds like an internet cliche, but it can be true for better reasons with some people. Some people take your kindness for wanting to be with them. They think that any kind gesture, or nice words mean that you want to get with them. This can be a big problem in the workplace and might lead to allegations of sexual harassment in extreme cases. Now, it sounds ridiculous that just being nice to someone, or treating them decently would leave them to believe that you are flirting with them, or trying to give them sexually attractive cues, but when you consider how lonely, opportunistic and perceptive some people might be, it might make some sense to be more vanilla towards some people. When you treat the guy nice who everyone else treats like crap, it might have negative consequences. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/FB-4VyYOPU0?feature=share#IceCream #Femininity #Emasculation #CantBeNiceToSOmePeople
As many of you know, I am against almost all cometic surgery procedures, although I understand the mentality that leads to a lot of them. I thought that it would be a good idea to take a broader look at some of the cosmetic procedures that aren't thought about as much, but that are safe and maybe even necessary. Let's start with Dentures and Laser hair removal. These are probably the safest and more understandable cosmetic procedures that I can think of. Having a mouth with no teeth is not only unsightly, but it can stop a person from eating. Growing hair in certain places can be a problem for some people, because as ridiculous as it may seem to someone like me, not everyone knows how to keep themselves groomed. What other cosmetic procedures can you think of that are SAFE and NECESSARY? Let's talk.
That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/25-BnuWA_EU?feature=share
BBL #AtkinsDiet #SamsungGalaxyS23 #oxtailgravy
College is a scam. College is a scam. You hear so much of this nowadays that you would think that that education is just worthless. Obviously to some, it is worthless, if it doesn't reap some type of immediate monetary reward. Everything of importance these days is about what can be cashed in it seems. So, if college is a scam because so many people are not making enough to be able to pay back their student loans, does that mean that high school is a scam too, because most jobs don't ask to see proof of your diploma to get a job? That's what a lot of people are thinking these days. That seems to be the direction that our people are going towards these days. If this sounds ridiculous to you, you were probably born before 1980. Let's talk.
That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/cRnf-HQ7KVU?feature=share
studentloans #HSDiploma #jobs #unemployment
You ever deal with someone who may have been respectful, level-headed and calm before and now they are acting a fool for some reason? Have you ever seen a lap dog turn into a trained attack dog, seemingly overnight? Have you ever had to deal with someone's reaction to false rumors get out of control and you can tell the source of where it came from? Do you deal with the reaction or the cause? You may have had a child who was respectful and who was good in school turn into a gangster out of nowhere. How would you deal with his gang affiliation? How would you deal with a coworker who has turned into a monster? Let's talk.
That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/srmr45E-7oM?feature=share
hypeman #tmobile #flovorflav #Debo
Can you deal with not being good at everything? It's not the easiest thing to do for some people, especially when it comes to something that they really want to be good at. It could be a job, physical activity, sex, love, parenting, sports, reading, etc.. It can be demoralizing to practice hard at something and never seem to be able to compete at it. It's one of those things that turns a lot of people off about competition. Do you think that it's possible to think that you're really good at some, but be scared to compete at it? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/prui0qciz4k?feature=share#U.S.Open #NFLSunday #judgement #help
We know that family can sometimes sell you out and leave you feeling like the people who are supposed to be the closest to you are the ones who don't have your back. Is it a case where we blame the whole family for the what only a few have done wrong? In this case, we are talking about when you have fallen out with family members and are ready to write the whole family off, but you can't because there are a few good family members left. Some people will still write the whole family off though. Scenario: You and family member do a business venture and the family member messes up some money, or steals some money. Will there be a neutral family member who will step in and mediate the situation and try to fix it in some way, or will all family members take one side? The family always has a direct line to other family members Will you take advantage off that situation? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today on the Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/LlM0gc6w62E?feature=share#familyfeud #fighterjets #shoestringcandy #botox #breastenhancement
Yesterday, we got cut off from what would have been a really good show, so let's finish it.
If the 1st thing the title of this show makes you want to do is to say that you want to be a better person for yourself, then the question has already been answered. If you are not dealing with someone who inspires you to be a better person, by their impact on you, t of your time and ego on someone. If your ego won't even let you think this way, be toxic. No guarantee, but there is a chance. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't inspire you to want to do something for them? Something real, not something material. Is it trust that is missing, or is there something that is deep inside of you from your past that keeps you wanting to keep everything to yourself, for yourself? Let's talk.
That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/5UXgqDfqzCk?feature=share
love #ego #safespace #respectful
If the 1st thing the title of this show makes you want to do is to say that you want to be a better person for yourself, then the question has already been answered. If you are not dealing with someone who inspires you to be a better person, by their impact on you, t of your time and ego on someone. If your ego won't even let you think this way, be toxic. No guarantee, but there is a chance. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't inspire you to want to do something for them? Something real, not something material. Is it trust that is missing, or is there something that is deep inside of you from your past that keeps you wanting to keep everything to yourself, for yourself? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: #love #ego #safespace #respectful
If you ever want to see the professional best or worst in people, view the way that they act when their jobs are on the line. Some will step up and try to reverse the process and others will throw all caution to the wind and become as reckless as you could ever imagine. If you have ever been in this position, which way would best describe you? Things get real when your lifestyle and income are on the line. For a lot of people, their career defines their personality, so getting fired is not an option. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/NdE7KlychF8?feature=share#microsoftteams #officemax #toxic #unemployment
What has to happen to make you make the decision to end something for good? A relationship. A partnership. A support system. You might have been putting up with a lot of stuff from someone, or a situation for a long time and you may have put your personal feelings and your pride to the side, in hopes that things would get better somehow, someday. What has to happen to make you not only cut someone off, but to declare that there is nothing that can be done to fix the situation and you no longer wish to try? Have you ever done anything to anyone where you knew upon doing it that there would be no turning back, turning it around, or repairing it? When it ain't no coming back from that. What you know? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gopgetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/hhJohUeQeMk?feature=share#bitterness #backpay #crablegs #eatingdisorders
We live in the era of social media. We see many different ways in which people express themselves. Whether it is through the written word, or through pictures, we get a lot of different looks of the way that people command attention to themselves. What do you think about people who post, or show pictures of themselves? Do you think that it is vain? Have you ever dealt with someone who seemed to be obsessed with their self-image? Someone who bombarded you with pictures of themselves on a regular basis as if you don't know what they look like? Do you think that people who do that are full of themselves, or do you think that they need to hear how great they are? Are both of those things conceit to you? People have different ways of reaching out for help. Could this be one way? Does it offend you, or get on your nerves? If you praise them for their photos, would it make them stop, or do you think that it would make them show you even more of them? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/lkY7byi9Zh8?feature=share:#vanity #pictures #comfort #reels
If I could find a good reason for this phenomenon, I would tell you. There are plenty of reasons for this, but good reasons for it are almost non-existent. Some people treat the new people that they meet like royalty. It could be because they are trying to make an impression on them, or it could be because they are trying to get something from them. Nonetheless, sometimes when things don't go well with trying to woo new people to their advances, some people will take their frustrations on the people who have been faithful, loyal and supportive to them for years. It's a negative thing to do, but it happens so often and is so often excused and understood by those who are involved that we might look at this as a regular thing. Why do we excuse this? At what point do we cut it off? When was the last time this happened to you and yours? What do y'all know about this? Let's talk.
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verbalabuse #healthyrelationships #veganrecipes #carrental
I think that most of us told ourselves that we would be rich one day. At least, I would hope that most of us had that ambition. Of course this was before all of the life's lessons, the disappointments, the re-routes, the heartbreaks, the children, the drug use, the meltdowns, the depression, the troubles with the law, the unhealthy relationships, the unfinished projects, the school dropouts, the concentration on all the wrong things, the bad money and time management, the lack of focus, the laziness and the excuses up the wazoo. Still, just because we didn't make a whole lot of money doesn't mean that our lives weren't fun and fulfilling. Does it? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/ruhoNmb1A9o?feature=share#excuses #audible #fullmoon #photography
Which circumstances warrant a warning, heads up, notification, or report that it is going to happen before you follow through? Is it all personal relationships? All business relationships? Is it just a common courtesy or practice that everyone should follow? What happens when a courtesy call should or could be made, but doesn't? Is that a violation? A sign of lack of respect? A following of protocol? Nothing, since it wasn't a requirement? Something that should be taken personally? For example, if you are going to breakup with someone, should you have a face-t-face consultation with them first, or should you just make your exit? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/nIN3bz8Jgng?feature=share#rankingsystem #hurricaneidalia #floridarescue #mitchmconnell
We know how important it is to own things. Even if we don't all place the same value on things, we still know how important is is to own things. Some of us have been taught to label things, or arrange things in a certain way that will show us whether someone has tampered with, or disturbed something that we have set up. We do these things to preserve them for when we need them and also for safety reasons. When something belongs to you, it belongs to you and if others want to use what belongs to you, they should have to consult you to see if it's okay. What happens when what we want to own is a person, or something that belongs to a person? Animals do it to us with smells. Do we do the same things with people? Do we leave things behind to mark our territory? Do we do it openly, or do we do it secretly? If we do it secretly, how would we do it and is it legitimate? Do we even care if it's not? Let's talk.
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homeowners #AlaskanCruise #LaborDay #motorcycle
For a whole lot of women, being married at least once is a big deal. Even for some that haven't been married, the fact that they have been engaged, or at least been asked a few times is a big deal. There's a big difference in the way that men and women deal with marriage, in terms of their knowledge of relationships is concerned. For example, it is hard for anyone who has never been married to tell a woman who has been married anything about relationships. It's like they instantly become relationship experts because of their marital status. Men aren't that way. Men mostly focus on the mistakes of a relationship as far as being married is concerned. Most men don't look at marriage as a badge of honor, or a certificate of knowledge. Men secretly always wonder if they did the right thing in terms of marriage. Anyway, what does it say to a woman who has never been married, or never been asked to be married? Is it a blow to their self-esteem? Let's talk.
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shutup #proposal #trapmusic #happilymarried
Some people are different when they are around the one that they love, or are interested in. There can be a few different reasons for it, but there are some people that you might not want to be around when their man, or their woman is around? For example, have you ever known anyone who speaks in a different tone, or who may use proper English, or slang when they are talking to their man or woman? Have you ever known someone who talks very lovey dovey when they talk to their man? Have you ever known anybody who won't allow you to come around, or be around when they are with their man or woman? It's their choice, but it can raise some questions in your mind....especially if you are the nosey type. Let's talk.
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anxiety #privacy #loveydovey #familycourt
What comes to mind when you hear someone say "No judgement zone"? Does it make you think that think that someone is liberal to the point where they accept almost anything and everything that someone says, does, feels, or looks like? Does it sound like a sellout way to be to you? Does it sound like cowardice to you? Does it sound like a nice person to you? Does it sound like something that someone would say to protect someone else? Where is the no judgement zone? What path do you take to get there? Is it possible to not have anything negative to say about things that you don't agree with? Is it possible to to be acceepting of anyting? What has to happen for the people who never say anything bad about anybody to start dissing? What breaks the silence of no judgement? Let's talk.
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nojudgement #nonegativity #liberal #grandmothers
When you're going through it. When you are going through that time in your life when you are feeling the most alone, isolated and perhaps, paralyzed with fear, concern, or worry. Some people may be able to relate to your experience, but when you are in the middle of it all, nobody can go there with you. At least that might be the way that you feel at the time. A person has to learn how to ask for help and they have to learn how to ask for help at the right times. It's not always easy, but before you learn to ask for help, you might feel helpless and hopeless. Nothing feels worse than going through mental stress all alone, because no one understands. There is understanding and there is help. Let's talk.
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anxiety #fear #personalspace #therapy
The Conscious Community really comes down hard on Barack Obama. Worse than people who were raised by single mothers come down on their absentee fathers. Worse than single, entitled Black women came down on Kevin Samuels. It's hard to come down on someone harder than that! All you ever hear is how Barack Obama didn't do anything for Black people and how he was just a puppet and a clown for the LGBTQ. I have even heard it said that he set Black people back years in their development. With that being said, what did Barack promise to Black people that he didn't deliver? Why are they so mad at him now? Let's talk.
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KevinSamuels #LGBTQ #politics #expectations
Couples say a lot of nasty things to each other during the bad times in a relationship, especially during a breakup. How much is said in anger and how much had been being said during the whole time? This is a little bit different than abuse is because negative things that may have been said in a relationship may have been used to justify an exit from a relationship, whereas abusive things may have been said to get control in a relationship. When the outside world criticizes you, it may have an effect on you, or it may not. When your lover has negative things to say about you, it can really sting because you care about the way that they feel and think about you. If you didn't, why would you be with them? Regardless of what may have been said, or expressed, you might question whether your ex was right about you all along. What are you going to do about it? Nothing? Were they wrong? Have you thought about it? Let's talk.
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perception #breakups #exes #celebritybeefs
Sometimes you have to spend a lot of money and if you think about how much you are spending, you might not be able to go through with it. It might still need to be done though. You may be in love with someone and that might make you want to do things for them that you have not done before. If you think about it too long and hard, you might not think it's a good idea to do it. Sometimes we think about the mistakes that we have made before and if we think about it for too long, it might make us regret our total existence. These are some things that we might have to try to put out of our minds, if we can. There are more. Let's talk.
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mentalhealth #brainfood #rainforrests #onlineshopping
Life experiences can have a deveststing effect on how we see life and what we think that we can reasonably expect. Nowadays we get on the youth about their feeling of entitlement and much of it is warranted. The thing is that at least we have a clear expression of what they want these days. It's not that easy to get a clear understanding of what anyone wants these days and it could be that we have been told not to clearly express how bad you want anything anymore, that we get rattled if someone is honest about their expectation. So what about your REAL expectations? What is your seecret threshhold of your of your secret expectations? Ya, know, since we're not allowed to get our hopes up too high about love, money, success, or our emotions. What are our secret expectations? Ready? Maybe not, but let's talk.
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#secretlives #generationZ #whatyouwant #goldenshower
Wealth Incrimination is when someone brags about having money, or getting over on someone, but then they forget that they told you, as they are acting like they don't have any money. Sometimes this is done to people who are always in your pockets. You know how you can't tell some people that you are doing financially well, because they think that is the green light to ask you ca they hold something? So, it doesn't matter if you are living in a big house, with an in-ground , heated pool, driving a foreign car and have a wrist, hands and neck full of jewelry, you still have to pretend that you don't have any money around certain people. When you are looking for a discount, it's not a good idea to show people that you have a lot of money. When you are trying to get help to lower your bills, it's not a good idea to show that you could pay them without any help. Get it. It's wealth incrimination and you have to safeguard yourself from it. Let's talk.
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healthiswealth #needy #publicassistance #middleclass
You might trust somebody with your money, but not around your man or your woman. You might trust somebody to do a crime with you, but you might not trust them enough to let them know your real name. You might trust someone enough to have sex with them, but not enough to have unprotected sex with them. You might trust your partner enough to live with them, but not enough to leave your phone open around them, or enough to give them your credit card number. You might not trust some family members with your kids. Full trust ain't always easy. Some can get it. Some can't. It's up to you and what you know. Get it? What are your limitations of trust? Let's talk.
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halftrust #cousins #beergoggles #permission
Many people will come into your life and will go out of your life. Some of that you can control and a lot of it, you won't be able to control. You'll want to help some people when they are down and you'll be asked to help some people sometimes. What will be your expectations of your help? For example, if you help someone to furnish their place because they didn't have any money to do it themselves, will you expect that person to take good care of the furniture that you helped them to get, whether you paid for it yourself, or you found some other way? If you expect the person to take care of the things that you give them, the way that you might take care of them, you are probably are going to be very disappointed often. Sometimes you just have to accept that you gave someone something and now it is theirs. Forget about it. Sometimes you just have to give your blessings and get out of the way. Can you do it? Let's talk.
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charity #seededwatermelon #disrespect #cutthecord
Have you ever not have been in love with someone, but was somewhere in that ballpark? Have you ever felt this way about someone, when at the same time, someone was in love with you and they were either pushing you to be with them seriously, or asking you to marry them? What would did you do? What would you do? A lot of people don't think that it's that important to be in love in order to get married, so in this case liking them would be enough? Yes, or no? Right or wrong? Would you be honest about not being in love with someone if y'all had been together for a while and you knew that their feelings were growing faster than yours? Do you have to have a conversation about your feelings if there is no pressure from either side? Let's talk.
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likebutnotlove #marriageisabusiness #peanutbrittle 0%chance
Disclaimer: The people who this show applies to ain't gonna be trying to heart this s**t.
It happens though. People that you have known for years are growing farther and farther away from you and it's all your fault. It's your fault, because you are the one moving away from them. You still love them, but you may not be feeling them the way you used to be feeling them back in the day. Have you changed? Yes! Have they changed? Yes! They haven't changed in the way that you may have needed them to change though, so to you, they have stayed the same. And we always talk about how we don't want some people to change and when they don't, we tell them that their same wasn't the right same. Let's talk.
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Changes #Friends #SpousalSupport #Teamwork
How much of the truth and how often do you have to tell the truth before you get to 100? Do you know what I mean? Keeping it 100 is supposed to mean that you are honest with others and true to yourself, from what I understand, however, many people seem to think that people who they have never met keep it 100. Tupac kept 100. Donald Trump keeps it 100. DMX kept it 100. I have heard it said that a person should never meet their heroes in person. Do you think that is true? I do. Most fans aren't ready to deal with the reality of their idols being flesh and blood humans. My grandmother always kept it 100. Everybody's grandmother kept it 100? Obviously keeping it 100 is in the eye of the beholder. Who do you know that always keeps it 100? Is it you? Let's talk.
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keepit100 #truth #Granmother #DonaldTrump #Tupac
I might get in trouble for saying this, but I think that there are certain things that a person has to get out of there system before they Turn 18, or before they take that step into adulthood. ESPECIALLY if you are a young man. Sex is just one of them. I also think that you should learn how to drive a car, pay a bill and understand the tides of change in a person's emotions. Having sex changes EVERYTHING in a person's life, physically and emotionally. After 18 years old, it can be catastrophic for some people to find out that it's not like the storybook way that they may have cooked it up in their heads. Everything starts to speed up after you start having sex. It changes your whole vision of what loyalty is supposed to look like. Let's talk.
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SexualHealth #MentalHealth #RoeVWade #RightsofPassage
We like to say that nobody can force anyone to do anything. We like to think that every adult makes their own decisions and are never influenced to do things that they don't want to do. The truth is that we learn to accept being forced to do a lot of things that we don't want to do at a young age and we also accept being forced into relationships that we don't like. Blended families know a lot about this. Being forced to accept the actions of people who you think are shady because now, you are family. Where does it stop? Does it stop at your own choice of friends, family and lovers? Does it? Let's talk.
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ShowofForce #BottledWater #VeggiePizzawithPineapples #FosterParents
By now, most people have seen the drawl that took place in Montgomery Alabama in which a Black security guard was attacked by several Caucasian men over a dispute over the docking of some boats. More people joined in to help and the incident became national attention. Did the results of the situation situation symbolize a shift in the American racial landscape? Are people cheering for the right side and the right things? Who might be cheering silently? Let's talk.
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MontgomeryAlabama #FoldingChair #BlackAquaman #Justice
They say that friends can become enemies and that enemies can become friends. Is this true to you? I guess it would depend on what you call an enemy and what someone has to do in order to qualify to be an enemy to you. But it's really subjective. Have you ever experienced a situation where you and someone else really and seriously didn't like each other, but over time and possibly an understanding, were able to become friends, or even good friends? Never for me, but how about you? Let's talk.
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Friends #Followers #SocilaMedia #Instagram
I think that we all know what a gold digger is and what a gold digger does, but do we ever take time out to think about what a gold digger feels? We look at gold diggers as people, usually women who will only date and marry someone who has a lot of money and who will spend the money on them. In that way, you would describe a lot of people who have high standards for the people who the date. When we talk about the other characteristics that people have for the people that they date, or become involved with, like height, weight, complexion, sexiness, personality, education, etc., none come under more scrutiny than the money requirement in dating. Why is that? Why does only dating someone who has money seem to draw so much attention? We kinda know, but do we really know? If a woman wants to date a man for his money and the man uses his money to get women, what do we care? And is that all there is to it? Does dating someone for money reveal a more sinister flaw in a person's character? Are gold diggers incapable of love? Are they unworthy of love? Are they always pretty and worth the money? Let's talk.
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MarriedforMoney #GoldDiggers #DatingSItes #Indictments
Some people have a talent for bringing people together. Some people have a talent for separating people. Some people have a talent for getting people to talk. Some people have a talent for making people hus. Some people have a talent for being manipulative. Some people have a talent for being deceptive. Some people have a talent for making people believe them. Some people have a talent for making people spend their money, as in fund raising. Some people have a talent for spotting talent. Some people have a talent for building things. Some people have a talent for demolition. Do you know anyone who has a talent that isn't so evident, but that makes a big impact on those that they come in contact with? Do you have those talents? Let's talk.
That's what we're talking about tonight at 1:30PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/j3mMvcD3cWg?feature=share
Fundraisers #AmericasGotTalent #BeyonceTickets #Crafting
How many of you consider yourself to be too nice? Do people get on you about treating people nice, who don't do the same for you? Do you get on your own nerves about it? Are you the type of person who can't seem to talk yourself out of being nice to people, or seeing the good in people? Has anyone ever stopped talking to you because of your involvement with someone who was mistreating you? What about when the people who are mistreating you and taking advantage of you are your children? Do you keep bailing them out? Do you get mad at yourself for not being able to cut some people off in the right amount of time? Has this been your life story? Have you accepted this about yourself? Are you mad at yourself about this situation right now? Do you need to make some calls? Let's talk.
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mistreatment #BobbyandWhitney #KanyeandKim #SummerHeat
When was the last time that somebody fumbled you? Were they able to recover the fumble? Did you let them recover the ball, or did you try your best to cause the turnover? Do you know what I'm talking about? In today's hip lingo, when someone says that someone fumbled them, it means that someone didn't treat them right in a relationship and that lead to a breakup. Had that person acted right and treated the other person right in the relationship, the two of them would be together. As it is, they are apart for good now. Has anyone ever fumbled you, or do you consider your breakups to be more about growing apart? That's an important question because saying that someone fumbled you indicates that it was all their fault that the two of you are no longer together. Saying that someone fumbled you means that you did everything right and bear no responsibility for your breakup. Have you been fumbled? Have you ever fumbled anyone else? Can not making your intentions, or expectations be considered a fumble? Let's talk.
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NFL #Turnovers #Preseason #Breakups #Separations #TrainingCamp
As much as we might say that it doesn't matter, or that it is childish, sometimes it's who breaks up with whom that makes the difference in the way that you feel. Sometimes it is who breaks up with whom 1st that can give the ability to move on faster, or not. Relationships and marriages can take an emotional toll on a person. Imagine giving your all, or sacrificing your all in a relationship and being the one who was dependable in a relationship and then bein the one who got their walking papers. The one who got served the divorce papers. The one who was let go. The one who was told that they aren't needed anymore. Yeah, it can get that serious and to make things worse, you may have been the one who was doing all the forgiving in the relationship, or the one who thought that you two could weather the storm. Your heart and ego can be in the same place and take the same damage. Are you ready for this? Were you ready for that? Let's talk.
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Divorce #BreakingUp #Ego #Trust #Therapy #Timing
The biggest difference between winging it and faking it may be found in the intentions of what you are trying to do. It could be said that whether you are winging it, or faking it, you are still not what others think that you are. You could say that when you are faking something, you know what you are doing. When you are winging it, you may not know what you are doing, but you are doing what you can until you can learn what you are doing. Is it always innocent? Probably not, but let's talk about it.
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WingingIt #FakingIt #Ambition #JobSearch
In a city like Philadelphia, you can't escape the energy of violence. If you are not seeing it on the news, you may be experiencing it personally through the loss of a loved one. It is almost inescapable. From what I hear, this is happening in a lot of cities around the country as well. In fact, according to the internet, it seems to be happening internationally. I see video clips of fights and shootings in various countries. What has been your response to the violence where you are? Has it compelled you to stay in, or at least keep your head on a swivel? Where do you think that this violent energy is coming from and how will it end? Is it the end of the world, as a lot of religious theorists claim? What do you think? Let's talk.
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gangviolence #mediainfluence #massincaceration #94CrimeBill
Do you know anything about methadone? Have you ever known someone who stopped drinking, only to start smoking? How about someone who stopped eating a lot of sweets, only to start eating a lot of cholesterol? Sometimes when we are aware of our bad behaviors, we try to stop them, but we try to stop them before we are ready to commit to not doing them anymore. There have been people who have dated outside of their culture and got their heart broken....so they wrote off dating people from that culture, to start dating people of a different culture. Sound familiar? No? Is it just me? Maybe? Let's talk.
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badhabits #Cholesterol #sweets #tobacco
We all have to work. We all have to make money. We all have to agree to follow rules that the person who is paying us, implements to us. That seems to be the part where a lot of people fall short. Why do some people find it so hard to follow rules that are implemented at their job? What is the problem really? It's not like the rules are made up as they go along. They let you know what you could do and what you couldn't do up front, so why does it seem so hard to do what they are paying you to do? We all have a little bit of rebel in us, but when we pay our money, we don't settle for anyone being a rebel against us. Why do we defend people who rebel against people who pay them? A lot of people don't understand the way that Human Resources work and who they work for. Do you? Let's talk.
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Barbie #BarbieMovie #TonyBennet #EazyDaBlockCaptain #Jimz
Does it take a lot for someone to be your friend? Does someone have to be in contact with you every day in order to be your friend? Do you have a list of requirements for someone to be your friend? Are there hard rules to follow when it comes to being friends with you? Is it easy to be a friend to you? Are you the type of person who is quick to declare someone as a friend and someone who is just as quick to label someone as an enemy? What is a best friend to you? Does someone have to have a long proven record of loyalty in order to be your best friend, or can one act of defense, or loyalty qualify someone as a best friend to you? What does it take? Let's talk.
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BFF #Frienemies #requirements #Khakies
Think about your favorite artists. Now think about your favorite songs, movies and/or lines in their productions. You learned the words to their songs because the songs appealed to you and you wanted to understand what they were trying to say to you. They may have made songs that you lived by. Even though you may not have known them personally, you may have felt like you had a connection to them in some way. Now think about the people that you know. The people who have cared about you. The people who have supported you. The people who have listened to you. The people who have helped you. The people who have come to your aid, even when you didn't ask them to. Do these people know the lyrics to your songs? Your songs are your thoughts, feelings, words and actions. Some people study you so hard that they try to learn all of your lyrics. They want to sing your songs along with you. Who are those people for you? Let's talk.
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SongsandLyrics #Beyonce #Drake #Rihanna
When we are growing up, this might be a situation that a lot of us might face. What is it saying to us when someone gives you their blessing to date their sibling? Does it mean that they trust you, or does it say that they are watching you? Are you up to task to do either one? Not all siblings are close. To some people, a brother or a sister is just another family member, so inviting someone to date them might not be a big deal. For others who are close and protective of their siblings, they may not allow anyone to date their siblings, or they may require anyone who they know who wants to date their siblings to treat them with care. It can turn out to be a big obligation if you just want to be with a person physically. This situation can be a big strain on a friendship. It can end friendships. Let's talk.
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SiblingRivalry #CivilUnrest #Kci&JoJo #Beyonce&Solange
Decades ago, this scenario would be as familiar as eggs and toast for breakfast and most people would have seen the benefit and logic in it. Today, this almost sounds as ridiculous as supplementing a meal with cyanide. Do these types of family situations still exist? Let's get into some better and maybe more important questions. Would you prefer this scenario over the current state of single family situations that we see today? Did you grow up in anything similar to this? Would you repeat anything like this for your own family? Do you think that children benefit more from a 2 parent home, even if the home situation is not ideal, or the happiest situation? Would you, or have you ever considered staying with a spouse, or a partner for the benefit of the children? Let's talk.
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MarriedwithChildren #FamilyValues #SingleParentHouseholds #FuneralArrangements
Would you put it all out there for money? If not for money, could there be another reason that you would tell your life story? If you could do it, would the people that you would write about still be alive to dispute what you would tell, or would you only write about people who are not alive anymore, to protect them from any embarrassment? Would a tell-all book that you would write be more about you? Would it be to chronicle a journey that you have been through, like abuse, incest, mental illness, or life with a disability of some kind? Has anyone ever pushed you to rite a book? Let's talk?
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authors #eBooks #lifestory #familysecrets
In this age of cameras phones, almost nothing is sacred or discreet. If something is done in public, then there is always a good chance that someone has filmed you doing it if it film worthy. But what about in private? Isn't the most important benefit of doing something in private supposed to be that it is private and kept just between the parties involved? Have you ever been secretly taped having sex with someone by that person that you were having sex with? What would you do if you found out? What if they promised to only watch it with you and sent you a copy? What if they kept your face out the shot? Would someone doing that destroy your trust in someone and have you looking at them differently from that point on? What if someone shared text messages that you had sent them and you found out about it? People do these things for verification purposes and when they get angry at each other. Are you okay with that? Let's talk.
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phonevideo #privacy #SCOTUS #CarleeRussell
As you all may know, the 5th Amendment to the constitution is your right to remain silent. It means that you do not have to speak to anyone if you don't want to. That is whether it is in a legal matter, or not. This can be a useful idea when dealing with law enforcement, or in court, but in your personal life, it can cause a lot of problems for you. We say that we like for people to mind their own business, but we usually mean it on our own terms. For example, we want people to shut up about the things that they know could get us in trouble, but they want us to speak up about the things that could get us out of trouble, when asked. Am I being clear here? Nevermind, you don't have to answer that. LOL. Let's talk.
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5thAmendment #Beyonce #fitness #tellmeeverything
It was national news when Carlee Russell went missing last week and the citizens and media were in a frenzy. The alleged victim was returned home safe, but now a lot of information is coming out that is making the victim look like a predator. The police are still in the midst of an investigation, but don't seem to believe that the victim was hurt by anyone. If this situation is found to be a hoax, or a cover up of some kind, how will it affect situations in the future that involve abduction, human trafficking and missing persons? Has Carlee messed things up for many people? Let's talk.
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abduction #humantrafficking #missingpersons #kidnapping
They say that 2 is company and 3 is a crowd. If you add in some family members who didn't set up shop and who might not be contributing and you might have yourself a situation. Can you handle it? Have you already? Let's talk.
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inlaws #assistedliving #extendedfamily #MyrtleBeach
We are used to getting criticism and maybe even disrespect from our enemies. They might point out our flaws, speak with a snarky tone and be sarcastic. We might expect that from them. What do we do when those things are coming from our friends and loved ones. Now, before you start to say that they aren't your REAL friends, let's say that they are our real friends who have proven themselves to be that on multiple occasions over time. Does that mean that they will never say things that might hurt our feelings from time to time. Some of us like to be enabled and when real love and concern comes through, it doesn't always enable us. So we feel like that lone dog in the pack that got hit by the brick and we holler. What happens next? Do we cut off our supporters who have either told us the truth, or made a mistake? What is the solution to healing from freindly fire, when you survive? Let's talk.
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reallove #hurtfeelings #healthcare #recovery
Dealing with a childish person can be difficult. Dealing with young person can be difficult. Dealing with a difficult person can be difficult and that might make us call the person childish. Sometimes we see the potential in someone and when their willingness doesn't align with their potential in a timely manner for us, we might call them childish, or immature. But what about when the way they were acting was working for us? Why is it so easy to remember how resistance and wilderness was so attractive about a person for some of us? Whe we are able to mold a person into what we want them to be, we are in agreement, but when we see the rebel against us, we might declare that they need to grow up. Didn't they need to grow up before we got deeply involved with them? Let's talk.
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buildabear #complicated #agreement #submissive
Buying a car for someone is a major purchase. Even if the car is used and not very expensive, it's a major purchase. Even if you just sign the title of a car that you already own to someone else, it's a major purchase. That's mainly because most cars are worth more than a thousand dollars and all cars were worth thousands of dollars when they were new. Not only that, but there is a process that goes along with buying, or giving someone a car. There are title and registration issues that are involved. The state has to know who is responsible for every vehicle that is on the street, or that vehicle can't be on the street.. Buying a car for someone is also an emotional purchase. Cars are often bought as rewards for graduations, birthdays, for love and for prizes for winning a contest, but there is a lot that has to be done with paperwork before a car can be properly given. Most people don't even like to lend their car to anyone, let alone sign their name on a loan for one. So, what would make you do it? Have you done it? Would you do it again? Let's talk.
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autoloan #generalmotors #repossession #electriccars
Why do full-grown adults that have had plenty of experiences become bored, or not know how to relieve their boredom? What can make someone become bored with someone else? Have you ever became bored with someone who you were close with, or with a lover? What did/would you do about it? Are you the type of person who gets bored easily? Do you find many of the same things to be boring that your peers think are boring? DO you find it hard to entertain yourself? Let's talk.
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boringlovers #sixflags #ziplining #kayaking #reading
I swear that before social media, I had never heard the term "for the streets" used to describe a promiscuous woman, or man. We would say that they were "out there", if someone was into a lot of things that were street-related, or unconventional in some way. Back then, as it is now, we were victims of peer pressure. We sometimes let the opinions of others determine who we could, or would be with. Not all the time, with everybody, but there was definitely an influence, just like there is now. Back then, it was only people that we knew that would influence us. Nowadays, it could come from anywhere. With so many rumors going around on the internet, what is our level with being comfortable with the choices of woman/man that we choose? Are we allowing the media and our peers tell us who we can, or should be happy with? Let's talk.
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forthestreets #peerpressure #credibility #thegirlismine
It seems ridiculous that men and women would appear to be at odds the way that it often seem like they are, but this has become a familiar situation. Why do some men seem to be so bitter against women? Why do some women who are straight women seem to be so disgruntled towards men? Are any of these feelings towards each other justified? Let's talk.
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feminism #LGBTQ #heterosexual #IceCream
We kind of know the cookie cutter things that they tell middle-aged people to do about their behavior and their future. Things like settling down, buying life insurance, buying a house, getting a steady job, stop having random sexual partners, etc. A lot of those things seem to apply to men. In fact, it is usually women who say to men that they aren't getting any younger. Is it only men who have to make significant changes to their behavior as time goes on? What are some things that women need to do along with men to solidify their progression? IS it equal? Let's talk.
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SeniorCitivens #MILF #50yearoldbeauty #40isthenew30
Yesterday, we took a left turn and never really got into the material. Today we'll be back at it in full force.Let's get to it.
Food prices are through the roof. Gas prices are through the roof. Recreational activities are expensive as heck. Utility bills are going up and up. Real estate prices and taxes are very high. It seems like almost everything that adds to the quality of life and that we used to take for granted has gone up. Even the price of bottled water has gone up. What can we do? Where do we go? They say that the cost of living in some places down south are much more affordable than on the east coast and the west coast. I have also heard that those places are becoming more expensive as well. How challenging is it o make it in this world without making a 6 figure salary? Let some people tell it, it's almost impossible. And what about the money that you make? Are you making the same amount of money as you were 3-4 years ago? Do you have any control over that? Let's talk.
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inflation #realestateprices #food #gasprices
Food prices are through the roof. Gas prices are through the roof. Recreational activities are expensive as heck. Utility bills are going up and up. Real estate prices and taxes are very high. It seems like almost everything that adds to the quality of life and that we used to take for granted has gone up. Even the price of bottled water has gone up. What can we do? Where do we go? They say that the cost of living in some places down south are much more affordable than on the east coast and the west coast. I have also heard that those places are becoming more expensive as well. How challenging is it o make it in this world without making a 6 figure salary? Let some people tell it, it's almost impossible. And what about the money that you make? Are you making the same amount of money as you were 3-4 years ago? Do you have any control over that? Let's talk.
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inflation #realestateprices #food #gasprices
A lot of people smoke. A lot of people don't smoke. Some people who smoke hang out with people who do not smoke and some of those people who don't smoke don't mind if people who do smoke, smoke around them. Some people who don't smoke don't want to be around people who smoke, smoke itself, or anything dealing with smoking. Some smokers are sensitive to people and places who don't like or allow smoking. Some smokers who live among non-smokers will go outside to smoke to protect their housemates from the harmful smoke. What about the smokers who feel like it is their right to smoke and are in denial that their smoking hurts anyone else? What do we do about them? What do we do about that? Have you ever lost a loved one to second-hand smoke? Could it have been different? Let's talk.
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vaping #hookah #lungcancer #SnoopDog
This actually covers a lot of women, whether it is verbalized or not. IS it selfish? Maybe. Is it narcissistic? Possibly. Is it understandable? To some, yes. To others, it may be ridiculous. Just like a woman can choose whether to terminate a pregnancy if she doesn't want to have a child that she is pregnant with, can she refuse to get pregnant because she wants to preserve her body? Is that conceited? Maybe. She might be the most giving aunt, with the nicest shape. ...maybe. Y'all ready to talk about this? Let's do that.
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pregnancy #KekePalmer #narcissistic #bodybuilding
Do we always tell ourselves the truth? Do we always do what is best for us? Do we always KNOW what's best for us? Do we always listen to reason? Do we take care of our bodies? Do we eat right? Do we listen to medical advice, or health advice that we know is right? Do we always regulate, or mitigate ourselves? Do we always practice moderation? Do we eat right? Do we listen to our bodies? Do we listen to our bodies? Do we listen to our bodies? Just thought I would ask. Let's talk.
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self-care #moderation #self-esteem #insicknessandinhealth
Nobody hates a nice looking piece of eye candy. Most people value the looks of someone who they are with. Looks don't have to be the most important thing, but looks are as important as anything else that exists in a relationship, I would argue. We know as time goes on that looks can start to change. They can start to fade. Should the effort to keep yourself looking decent fade. For some, it does, but should it? Many men complain that after a wedding, many women who they have married let their looks go. Many women have complained about this with men as well. Is this an expected thing to happen, or is it just something that we have to deal with? Do you think that it is important for your lover to think that you are still attractive, no matter what stage your relationship is in? Let's talk.
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goodlooking #personality #career #parenting
A 2nd chance. A do over. A sequel. Another time. A new start. A 2nd time around. We love comeback stories. We love failure turning into success. Far too many times, we experience things that aren't planned well, or aren't executed well and we don't see that for what it's worth. It could be because we really wanted something to work because we created it, or because we supported someone who created it. There are times when we should chalk up our experiences as a loss and move on. Instead, we may try to recreaate something that we should leave alone. A movie can be one thing, but part 2's are based on money that was made in the 1st part, not because it was a good movie. Relationships are another thing that we may try to recreate and it may be based on love....or something else. Let's talk.
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sequel #cleanliving #blogs #cookouts #marriage
What would you say that the deal breaker item that you own is? Is there something that you lay claim to that defines your existence? For many, it's their home. After all, it is the roof over their head and everyone has to have a place to live. For some, it's their car. Their car may be more than just transportation to them. It may be a status symbol. For some, it may be their wedding ring. They would put it all on their wedding ring. Their marriage status may define their existence in more ways than love may define it. It can be whatever you decide that it is. So what, if anything is the most important thing that you own? Let's talk.
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materialitems #businessplan #ESPN #House
People say that God knows my heart after they have failed to live up to some responsibility that they promised to follow through on. It can happen when they stop going to church, or they refuse to help someone, or when they do something mean, evil, or unacceptable. The thing about when God knows your heart is that these aren't usually things that are against the law, or for things that anyone could be arrested for. It might be for dressing inappropriately . It could be for having premarital sex. It could be for cursing out loud. It could be for a whole lot of things. Let's talk.
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mercy #contentcreator #religion #help
They say that it's better to be late than never, but you wouldn't always know that. Sometimes being late can be equivalent to never being there if you miss the most important part of what is going on. For example, if an award is being presented to someone and you are late to the presentation, you may have missed a one in a lifetime occurrence. You can't get that experience back. This was way worse before the days of camera phones. If someone is looking forward to your presence, or support for something, being late can have dire consequences. How many people have missed seeing someone alive for the last time because they were late? There have been times when a dying person was trying to hold on to life until someone who they loved would arrive. If they got there too late, they got there way too late. This is just and example. Let's talk about more of them.
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terminallyill #SCOTUS #CanadianWIldfires #betterlatethannever
Should you take a day off after a conflict at work? Should you save up your PTO time? Should you cash in your sick days, if available? Should you use all of your vacation days? Are there secret penalties for using your PTO? If a holiday is in the middle of the week, do you take off the week, or do you just take that day off? Is there a way to get around being absent the day before, or after a holiday and still getting paid? Should you ever practice perfect attendance at work? Let's talk.
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paidtimeoff #paidvacations #gymmemberships #workbenefits
Can a relationship work where only one person is allowed to see other people? As crazy as it may sound, there are people who have this type of arrangement. Some do it for religious practices and some do it in agreement that that is what they want to do, as in the case of polyamory. Even though polyamory is supposed to involve the consent of everyone who is involved, the way that it works a lot of the times is that one person is seeing everyone and everyone is seeing that one person. I guess it is whatever works for you, but does it work out in the long run? Many things get off to a decent start, but do they have what it takes to keep going beyond a certain point? Could you do it? Have you seen someone else successfully do it? Do you have a mental block on any situation that isn't monogamous? Let's talk.
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polyamory #openrelationship #cheating #submission #UFC
Do this, or else. Do this, or suffer the consequences. It's going to be me, or them. It's going to have to be this, or that. Some of us hate being given ultimatums. It makes people feel like someone has dominance over them. It makes people feel like they are being bossed around by someone who may have no authority to boss them around. At the same time, an ultimatum is simply a choice that is presented and it is something that we all have to face, even if it isn't verbalized. For example, if you have a job, you know that if you don't work, you will be fired. No one has to say that, but even if someone does say it, it doesn't make the ultimatum any more, or less enforceable. How do you respond to being given an ultimatum? Do you usually rebel against it, even if you know that you will have to submit to it later on? Some people just don't like to be told what to do, but it is a part of life. Let's talk.
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choices #ultimatums #work #school #love
We all have to work and we all have to make money. Sometimes we work at a job that takes more away from us than the hours of body movement that we sign up for. In other words, sometimes we have a job that stresses us out a lot. Sometimes we have jobs that eat up all our time. Sometimes we have jobs that don't fit our environmental needs. What would you do if you had to move and accept a job in another city or state that paid you much less money, because your spouse was getting more money? Would you be okay? Would you take less money for more peace of mind? Let's talk.
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salaryposition #hourlyposition #jobstress #relocation #newjob
There is a video circulating the interne about a 14yr old son who eliminated another man after his mother was punched in the face by that man. The details that happened after the assault are sketchy, but now the man who assaulted the mother is no longer alive. Was the mother right in involving her son? Was her son right in becoming involved? Would he have been wrong for refusing to help? Did the man who is no longer here deserve to not be here? This story has no winners. Check the video here for reference: https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2023/06/26/14-year-old-shoots-man-in-chicago-directed-mom/70355974007/
At the end of the day, a man is eliminated and a family without a member. Let's talk about it.
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#chicago #familydefense #gunviolence #NRA
Does the race angle when you are in need? Would you, or have you ever refused help from a person who you knew was a racist, or who you knew would refuse you on the basis of race? Racism is one of the easiest things to spot, when you know what you are looking for, but it is one of the hardest things to prove in court, or in any arena where proof may be necessary. Discrimination is a lot easier to prove than racism is. Inequality is a lot easier to prove than racism is. Discrimination and inequality are often born out of racism. But do you put your personal feelings aside for business? When it comes to sex, or love, do you excuse race? For example, would you date, or marry someone of a different race if you knew that their family were racists? Would you be able to ignore that? What about sex? Need I ask the whole question? Would you work for a person, or a company if you knew that they only hired you because they had to fill a spot based on race? Let's talk.
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equality #immigrants #diversity #interracialdating
In these days of the internet, it can be odd to see people who want to be different from everyone else and don't want to blend in with everyone else. It's not that they are anti-social, but they may have a distaste for the way that people in the groups that are close to them interact with each other. This another way of saying that sometimes you can only deal with people up to a certain limit. Some people try to be different from other people on purpose. That might be their way of attracting people to them. Whereas some e just want to be part of the crowd and hope that people will notice them, others choose to make sure that they are noticed by dressing, acting, sounding and doing things differently than everyone else. Have you ever met anyone who has went out of their way to be different than everyone else who was around? Let's talk.
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misfits #nerds #antiscoial #titansubmarine #inclusion #diversity
Sometimes you get sick of hearing the excuses. Sometimes you feel like you need to cut people off. What do you do when you want to work things out with a person, but they keep frustrating you? They keep giving you the run around. They keep leaving you with few choices other than to cease contact with them, or take action against them. Bill collectors don't want to hear from you other than to set u payments. Have you ever had to handle anyone that way? Has anyone ever promised you that they were going to change for the better, but you knew from times before that it was all lip service? Have you ever cut them off because of it? Have you ever told them not to come around you until they were fully ready to commit to what they said they would do? Let's talk.
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change #billpayments #commitment #sayingimsorry #samsunggalaxyS23
It's a lot easier to give advice to someone about their relationship than it is to do the best things in your own relationship. You can often see the flaws and the solutions in someone else's situations than you can in your own. The thing is that when you give advice to someone about their relationship, you may be doing so from a place of love, but you may not be doing so from a place of being in love. The person who gives advice doesn't have to deal with the what happens afterwards if the advice gets followed. Even when they do, they can just make another plan. The person who follows someone's advice about love, or family, or work has to deal with everything that comes out as a result. Is it always good? Let's talk.
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advice #consequences #family #jobs #relationships
Let's not act like we don't hold the children of people of certain professions to a higher standard. The stereotype of the preacher's kid is often not a flattering one. We usually think that they are bad. They get into things. They rebel. They are hardly ever the more obedient kids. That's not true now is it? If there are multiple kids, at least one of them will be bad, but the rest seem to be okay. We just focus on the bad kid. All of the kids seem to know that bible pretty well though. Would you agree? What about the teacher's kids? Do we expect them to be exceptionally smart, good in school and obedient in school? Many of us do. Does it always turn out that way? No it doesn't. We sometimes expect the children of teachers to know their way around school, so to speak. We may expect them to be able to impress other teachers. We often expect them to perform at a higher level academically. The teacher's kid can't have a reading problem, or not be able to count well can they? Why not? Let's talk.
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pastors #preacherskids #teacherssalaries #clickbait #sickpay
If you went to college and didn't graduate, did you waste your time, or spend your time? If you were in a relationship for 5 years or more, did you spend your time, or waste your time? If you worked at a job for double digit years and never got rich, did you waste your time, or spend your time? If you play for a team for your whole professional career, but never win a championship, did you spend your time, or waste your time? If you follow a religion for your whole life and then become enlightened and convert to another religion, did you spend your time, or waste your time? Some of these questions are everyday questions that shape the way that we feel. Some of these are not. Many of us say that something is a waste of time when it doesn't end the way that we wanted it to. Some of us think that something is a waste of time when others tell us that it is a waste of time. How do YOU decide what is a waste of time? Let's talk.
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wasteoftime #Prime #studentloans #championships
We all have to work. We all have to make money. A lot of people who work and make money aren't sensitive to other people who work and make money. There are people who have no problem getting people fired, or teasing people about how much money that they make. It seems cruel, but it seems like that is the way that it is. A lot of times we don't concern ourselves with how anyone else is living until it affects us in some kind of way, like when it's our family, or someone close to us. Mean customers sometimes push to have employees fired. Disgruntled employees try to set up other coworkers to be fired. Companies set up employees to be removed and downsized. What ever happened to job creation? Let's talk.
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coworkers #jobtermination #fired #setuptofail
Boredom. Some say that they get bored easily. Some say that they never get bored. Some say that boredom is easy to satisfy if you have the resources. When your money is low, your list of resources may be low too. Your access to things that can give you things to do can be limited because you might not have the money to pay for them. In the hood, the more visible things that may be available to combat boredom may be sports, crime and drugs. Not that there may not be a whole lot of other things to do, but when you don't have money, you may need to get some money in order to find some things to do. A lot of the things that are available may be negative. When you have money you may be able to afford to go to places, or get away to somewhere that will let you have some fun, or at least occupy your mind. This is not to say that people with money don't engage in crime, or get high, because they also do. They just have access to more positive things on a greater scale. Their options are more readily available. Let's talk.
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boredom #movies #concerts #sports #gambling
Being able to fully express yourself, complete with expletives is a coming of age that is liberating for some and an alarm bell for others. You might have claimeall of your life that you couldn't wait until you were grown, until it actually started to happen and you found out about the responsibilities that came along with it. For some people, it just meant that they would finally be able to demand to be heard. Many people grew up around parents who wouldn't let them express themselves, or even be themselves and many have really resented it. Does cursing around your parents really mean that you will be heard? Does it mean that you will be respected? Does it mean that you have now been disrespectful?
What if you are able to curse and express yourself to your parents, but still are unable to feel loved by your parents? Let's talk.
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ParentalAbuse #ChildAbuse #Indictment #Trump
There are people who are against handguns. They feel that handguns are mostly for violence and theft. There are people who are against assault rifles. They feel that assault rifles are strictly for war and mass murder. Then there are those who are against all guns. They look at all guns as tools for unnecessary violence and world destruction. Which side do you think is right? Do you have a preference? Would you be comfortable if only certain people were able to have guns? People like police, or the army? Do you think that handguns and/or assault weapons should be confiscated and banned? Do you believe that every home should have a gun, maybe a rifle? Are you a gun owner? Should convicted felons be restricted from being able to own, or use guns for life, even if their conviction didn't involve a gun? Let's talk.
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2ndAmendment #assaultrifles #streettheater #tropicalvacations
The good news about karma is that you can't turn it on or off. You can't use it as a weapon or as a reward. This is important to understand because so many people fear karma because they think that it is some type of revenge. I'm saying all of this to say that when you hear someone say that you shouldn't do something to someone that you wouldn't want anyone to do to you, you can take that with a different understanding. Just because someone treats you bad, doesn't mean that someone else will treat them badly. Just because someone treats you good doesn't mean that good fortune will come to them. This is hard for a lot of people to accept in this world and it goes against most religious teachings. This is NOT a knock on religion at all. It's more o a indictment on reality. When we say that someone is so busy trying to do someone in that they wound up getting hurt themselves, we're usually talking about isolated incidents. Disagree? Let's talk.
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karma #dotherightthings #socialsecuritycheck #schoolcrossings
There really is no accounting for the way that a couple gets together, or stays together, but it happens in many unique ways. If you ask the average person what they look for, or insist on in a relationship, you will hear many of the same things. One thing that you won't always hear is the requirement to be able to talk to each other and relate to each other. You may hear variations of things that relate to that, such as checking in on each other, or being able to be heard. Do you carry the requirement of being able to talk to your partner in order to be comfortable in your relationship? Is there something else that's as good as that, or better than being able to do that? Let's talk.
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comeandtalktome #netflix #betweenus #flashbacks
When you were younger, you probably expected your friends to show you a good time and be supportive when the world was getting you down. Y'all may have gotten into trouble together, drank, got high and warned each other of relationships. Today you may be more independent and may not need the on-time support or validation of your friends like you may have needed back when you were younger. This is just an example. Everyone has their own story.. Let's talk.
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thelittlemermaid #I95 #nonewfriends #friendswithbenefits
We joke around about what we would stop doing something for, but what would happen if we got serious? What would encourage you to surrender your life's work, or ambition? Would it be love? Happiness? Spiritual enlightenment? Bringing someone back from the dead? Good health? The life , or health of another? If we were seriously fit his situation, would we really give up our most prized possession, or lifestyle? Have we been bluffing all this time? Have there been people that really have given everything up for someone, or something and realized that they may have moved too soon, or for the wrong cause? Let's talk.
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surrender #careerchange #spiritualenlightenment #love
Crack was a big problem in the 80's. Now it seems like the drug itself and its users are stuck in the 80's too. It's hard to believe that the drug that was so plentiful and prevalent in the 80''s and 90's is like an ancient substance that fell off like a old 1 hit wonder song. In the early 2000's, you cold hear countless rappers talking about the fortunes that they made off of crack sales. That's where the slang trapping came from and the slang still exists. The drug crack is said to have destroyed families and communities back in the day and in the very beginning, it was believed that crack would kill you if you got high too much. Something happened with that and the crack users of yesterday seem to be the only ones using crack today. Meanwhile heroin, pills and marijuana use is at an all-time high with seemingly new users cropping up every single day, as well as the deaths associated with their use. The rapper DMX was noted for his crack use throughout his life and career, but it looks like it was Fetanyl that caused his demise. What's up with this? Does crack kill or not anymore? Let's talk.
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crack #fentanyl #opiodcrisis #DMX
Most people try to keep the day-to-day activities of their homes and families private. It's not for the rest of the world to know. Nobody needs to know that daddy walks around the house in his underwear, or that there are some nights when meat cannot be afforded on the dinner table. Family privacy is one thing and family secrets are another thing. Both are to be respected, but family secrets are often private matters that may seem obvious that no one wants to be discussed further than inside the house. Mental illness is sometimes a family secret. Physical abuse is often a secret too. Both can be obvious if you know the family. That doesn't always serve the interests of a family member who doesn't want it discussed outside of the home. This is where it can get bad and where a breach may be more helpful than hurtful. Do you think that all family private matters should be kept secret? How does that affect protection for all that are involved? Let's talk.
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familysecrets #ifyouseesomethingsaysomething #AlBundy #Afamilythatprays
Looking for love under false pretenses. We do it all the time, even if we don't call it that, or if we call it lying. Some people call it kicking game. They know what the market is out there for getting the type of lover that they want and they portray themselves to be that kind of person who has what it takes. This probably doesn't become as much of a problem until expectations are unfulfilled after love kicks in. In the short term, everyone probably moves on and sees that they were dealing with a liar. What if instead of being seen as a liar, things work out and love blossoms? Does that justify the means that were taken? If a man isn't as tall, or as rich as he said that he is, would that be a major problem for you? If a woman's hair isn't as long as it seemed that it was, or her body parts were surgically enhanced instead of being natural, would that cancel her out for you? In this way, does love truly conquer all, or do we just say that when people are honest? Let's talk.
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catfishing #dogwhistle #hotbutton #pianoman
For the most part, nobody should judge, or have any so about the way that you the way you raise your children. People should mind their business and tend to theirs, but there are times when the state has to step in to tell you what you have been doing wrong and when it gets to that point, you are not able to tell the state to mind its own business. We have all come across parents who choose to home school their children, or raise them in an orthodox religion, or some other uncovnentional way. This is a parent's right and no one can say anything, as long as the child is kept safe and allowed to progress. We have all come across a child who has signs of being abused, or mishandled and we may have seen the need to step in to intervene. This is more than just the disrespectful child that we may see in the streets, or stores and wonder who their parents may be. Still, in the most extreme situations bad parents have claimed that they should be able to raise their children the way that they see fit. What do you think? Have you ever had any contact with the Foster Care system? Let's talk.
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fostercare #adoption #disrespectfulyouth #parenting
Kindergarten, elementary school and 8th grade graduations. Getting a new job. Getting married with a wedding, retirement parties, expensive birthday parties for adults, national holidays, religious holidays, personal holidays, holidays for clubs and organizations, etc. The list of what someone might celebrate can go on and on and on. Not everyone is going to agree, or approve of what you are celebrating. Will that have an impact on whether you will celebrate what you celebrate? Some people put people down for celebrating holidays in certain ways. Christmas is a big holiday that comes under fire each year, especially for Black people. St. Patrick's Day and Cinco de Mayo is another that comes under fire. Are Black people wrong for celebrating holidays that don't involve their culture? Should everyone be free to celebrate what they want to celebrate? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/KuOdLKctzdI?feature=share#holidays #graduations #celebrations #parties #IndependenceDay
If "What's for you is for you and what's not for you is not for you" was a person. Nothing can hurt like the pain of being cheated on for a lot of people. It can make a person feel used, lied to, betrayed, inadequate, taken for granted and a list of other negative things that may gnaw at you. To combat the terrible way that being cheated on can make a person feel, they may try to do the same thing to the one who did it to them. On the surface, it may seem like a one-off af a good idea. If you can do this once, maybe you can achieve the relief that that you think the person who has done it to you has felt. Does it work? Usually it doesn't work as well as someone who has sketched it up. Why doesn't it usually work out? That's what we need to talk about. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on Te Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/oj23OhfMaSk?feature=share#cheating #familycourt #revengecheating #mixtapes
This is for all the golden tongues out there who talk talk talk, but hardly ever deliver on what they're talking about. That's not to say that nobody who talks a lot ever does anything except talk, but the ones who overtalk and under-deliver will have you looking at all talkers sideways. What happens if you are raised by a talker? The type of parent that is constantly making promises, or setting dates, but hardly ever does what they say that they are going to do. Unfortunately, some of those parents deliver more on what they say that they are not going to do. Like when they said that they were not going to get high anymore, or that they were not going to mess up family money anymore. The saddest part is that when you are raised by a talker, you may wind up going with, or marrying a talker. Talkers aren't as unpopular as people may say they are. Truth be told, most of the talkers are the ones who make money and are popular. They have the power to inspire. They can inspire good or bad though. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/lmSJxyFhXUA?feature=share#BarackObama #KanyeWest #DonaldTrump #RonDesantis
Paranoia is one thing, but when people are giving you reason to be on notice on a constant basis, those who aren't close to the situation may start thinking that you are crazy. Have you ever been in a state of your life when most things had you looking at them sideways? Where you were very suspicious of the people who you were in contact with most of the time? Where you didn't feel as safe as you would like to be with some people, or situations generally? We may have all been there if we were ever betrayed by friends, cheated on by lovers, or stabbed in the back by coworkers. It's a lonely situation and an uncomfortable place, but it doesn't always last long and it doesn't happen to everyone at the same time. Do you think that paranoia and suspicion are the same thing? Does it matter when you are going through it? Will you get through it? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/6acdMY-8OhQ?feature=share#criminal #NBAplayoffs #heatwave #paranoia #fearmongering
People talk a lot about what they would or wouldn't do for, or to a person that they are in love with. The thing is that when you hear them talk about it, it might be publicly, like on social media. There is a lot of mystery in the people who don't comment on social media, but rather just like comments, or posts. Those people may make up the majority of the representations that we talk about. Publicly, you may never talk about how much, or how far in love you have been and what you may do. Privately, someone may feel the power of your emotions and may not know where it comes from. For example, if you talk about a sensitive, personal subject like salad tossing online, you will see some people who support it and some people who are against it. There's no way that you can know who is really doing what, with whom, behind the scenes. The world doesn't need, nor deserve to know, but the fact that you know and do what you do, shapes your world. The same could be said about money matters, or cheating. You get a lot of strong opinions about these subjects in public, but in private, we can see the results publicly. Let's talk.
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publicservice #familyprivacy #respect #NBAplayoffs
When the age difference is young, small, but significant, you might have a decision that you need to make and your decision can have life-altering consequences. The psychology of young love can be confusing and be enough to drive a parent crazy. Peep the scenario: Your 17-18 year old senior in high school has a thing for a young, pretty 14 year old who just entered into high school. The age difference between them is only about 3-4 years, but at the young stages of life, the difference can be like child and adult. Both of the parties are underaged, but 1 is about to become a full, legal adult and the other may be just finding out what it's like to have different classes than the rest of her homeroom. The maturity difference is going to be immense. That 3-4 years that separate them can seem like a sacrifice to submit to. A parent may be struggling with the decision just to let their teen date, let alone date someone who may be ready to start having sex. Yet, so many parents have been through this. What did they do? What would you do? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/VLlWfvX2Vas?feature=share#classof2023 #seniorprom #graduation #littlemermaid
Taking into account that you could afford it, would you retain a lawyer for someone who you loved, if they were accused, or arrested of a serious crime? Think hard about it before you answer. This is deep. A lot of people would get a lawyer for their husbands, sons and boyfriends if they were arrested for violence, murder, theft, or fraud, but what about sexual assault, or pedophilia? We know that many have retained legal counsel for people who have committed these crimes, but what does your heart say? What if you really suspected that they were guilty? Does a guilty suspicion weigh on your decision to let the legal system decide someone's fate? It's hard to have it both ways. You can't say that you don't trust , or do trust the legal system, but trust them, or don't trust them when your feelings are involved. Well, I say that you can't have it both ways, but you may feel like you can. We know that a legal defense is expensive, no matter which way that you slice it. It is something that we have to take into consideration. Let's talk.
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defenselawyer #violentcrime #chiraq #killadelphia #supremecourt
I never used to need a nap. A lot of people can say this. They were always on the go. They were riding out, they were pushing on, they were partying til late, they were never slowing down, they were running on very little sleep. They might have thought that it was insane to sleep a lot, or to need to sleep. That's them. Others have always required sleep, or used their sleep as a tool for their health. Now we're growing a little bit older and the need for a nap has taken on a whole meaning. A whole necessity. Why didn't some of us need naps when we were younger? Why do some of us need more naps now? Does needing naps symbolize weakness to you? For some people it does. The feeling that naps mean weakness or old age can make some people avoid them. Has that been the case for you? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/WNnQIk06amU?feature=share#naptime #oldage #benefitsofsleep #selfcare
What does it take for the longshot to be seen as the chosen one? So many times in competition, we go with the proven winner. Especially if we are gamblers, or if we have a dog in a fight. The Hulk Hogan's of the world understand what it feels like to be on top and be betted on for an extremely long time. The long time champions enjoy having people rely on them all the time to keep the streak going. There is always someone who is training and getting better who is ready to challenge for the title. Sometimes we believe that they have what it takes to be the winner. Some people only go with the hot hand. Some people only think that the newest thing is the best thing. When it comes to someone who we know personally, we might support them heavily, or we might hate, like: You're good, but you ain't no so and so. It depends. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/Zigwk7RLtVA?feature=share#no-winsituation #genderreveal #insicknessandinhealth #lovelanguage
When you are putting a project together, more than likely, you are going to select the people who are going to help you build it carefully. You are going to choose people who are serious and who believe in what the project is doing. More than likely, you are going to select people who are trustworthy, who believe in what is being done and those who can push the project forward. It's not always easy to choose the right people who will pan out in the long run. We know that everyone can't be chosen to work on a project. We know that some people are only going to want to come along for the ride. Some people are going to only come along to try to make some money. Some people are going to come along for clout-chasing reasons. The women. The sex. They just wanna be down. What about you? Are you ready to go for the things that you are going for? Yeah, you. ARE you ready? Should you be chosen? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/IXAasTX4xgg?feature=share#clout-chasing #culture #advancement #bloodmoney
Have you ever knew someone who was disciplined in money matters, but when it comes to the things that they do in their personal lives, they might be reckless, careless and all over the place? It can happen. It probably happens more often than people think. A lot of people think that because someone may be good with money, that they are probably disciplined in other areas of their personal life. That's not always the case. Ever know someone who runs a successful business, but has a lot of children by different partners? It happens. That's not to say that they were reckless in sex, but there is proof that their loins aren't as choosey as their money is. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/IWLAmgN3lQs?feature=share#businessplan #backonyourfeet #reckless #discipline
Some relationships are on and off, hot and cold. They take breaks from each other, get back together again. They have children with each other and sometimes have children with others while on breaks with each other and backgethr again. They leave each other and get back with each other again after they realize that they can't be as happy with anyone as they are with each other. It sounds very toxic to outsiders, but to the couple involved, they think that this is how true lovsoul companionship works. What do you think? Even if this situation isn't your cup of tea, do you think that it is totally out of bounds? Do you think that a couple could be in a on again, off again romance and still be made for one another? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/f4zPISY1uXg?feature=share#hotandcoold #onandoff #babymamadrama #brokenpromises
How good are you at sticking to a budget plan? Some are really good at it and make sure that they never overspend. Some are good at developing a budget plan itself, but not that good at following it. Some are downright terrible at budgeting and usually wind up making excuses for why their money is always messed up. Amongst the cheating, infidelity and distrustful ways to act, cheating can be an unbudgeted expense that can end up getting the cheater caught. Many times, cheaters have been caught because their spouse, or significant other noticed an expense on a bill that didn't belong where it was found. It could have been a hotel receipt, or dinner. It could have been a certain amount that was withdrawn from a bank account over a period of time. It could have been a few things that involved a paper trail. The bottom line is that infidelity can be an unbudgeted expense that can cause trouble, even when the expense doesn't damage the overall account. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/lnaSvHguado?feature=share#fiscalyear #budgetplan #savings #infidelity #cheating
Talking above someone's head is what is happening when you are speaking to someone about something that they can't understand because they haven't been exposed to what you are saying, or because their education level is not up to speed with the concepts that you are talking about. It can be frustrating when you are really trying to reach a person and they can't seem to get it. Some people like to speak above people's heads because it makes them feel like they are smarter than other people. It's like a feather in their cap. It's a way of quietly belittling people. It can backfire on people like that because communication problems usually work well for no one in the long run. Have you ever felt like you were speaking above someone's head and that's not what you meant to do? Have you ever thought that you were reaching someone, only to find out that they didn't understand a word you were talking about later? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/smJIyonQdtY?feature=share#intelligence #communication #keepthatsameenergy #sextoys
When you are at the low point in your life when your money, health and social life ain't right, it can be very hard to push on, but you have to. The biggest problem you can have when dealing with situations like this is that you might be self-medicating on substances, or destructive techniques that we think might be helping us. For example, to make ends meet, you might work extended hours and use caffeine to help you stay awake. You might start hanging around people who have none of your good interests at heart because you had a falling out with the people who mean you some good. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/zap33xQZGkk?feature=share#caffeine #substanceabuse #narcoticsanonymous #unemployment
After a passing, a firing, an embarrassment, a fight, or a loss of some kind, how much do you try to hold up? How important is it for you to try to remain the same after something bad has happened to you? How well are you trained to keep going forward after life's circumstances have knocked you back a few feet? We know that some people have no problem showing the extent of the damage that they have absorbed from tragic events. If you're not that way, what do you do to try to remain normal after you have been hurt? Is it important for you to appear the same to some people? Have people who know you told you that you have been different after a tragedy and you didn't notice it, or think so? Can they see some things that you can't see? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out:: https://youtube.com/live/pH9rv4BB4OE?feature=share#damagecontrol #painandsuffering #loudweed #dispensary
All we hear is free my ni this and free my ni that. Now, I'm not a fan of incarceration by any means, but when it comes to violent crime, I always think of the victims. Would you support the release of someone that you loved even if you kne that they had done what they were locked up for anf that they might not be remorseful? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/kKbL0bmUSKg?feature=share#incarceration #25tolife #notguilty #jurytampering
Trust is important to establish in a relationship. Can trust be established if certain topics are off-limits with your love? What I mean is that if you can't talk about certain things with your man or woman, without them getting too upset and making communication hard for the 2 of you, can you feel like you can trust your partner with your secrets? With your heart? With your soul? Can you be comfortable with someone who you don't think that you can release to, or do you have to find another way of being comfortable? How important is being able to talk to your partner? To some people, it doesn't seem to be that important. For some people, it seems to be a trade-off for something else of value, like financial stability, or something. What about you? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/WSMez-5lsd0?feature=share#trusttheprocess #comeandtalktome #thedatingscene #boysandgirls
If you have ever though that someone had your back in an important situation, only to find out that you had been abandoned and vacated and left to fend for yourself, you know that this can change you. Trust is hard to come by and unity is even harder. When you think that you can rely on someone, it is not a small deal. It's major. It is something that most people look for in friends and family all their lives. When people believe in you, it gives you confidence. It makes you feel like you can get things done. When you are crossed up, or left to fight an army by yourself, it can make you feel like you have lost the battle before a punch is thrown. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/4axlse2zOXU?feature=share#abandonment #betrayal #adoption #quietstorm
What do we mean when we say that someone belongs to us, or that we belong to someone else. The declaration of ownership can imply that permission was granted, or that a contract was signed and a product has been paid for. More than likely, at sometime in your life, someone has declared ownership of you. You may have agreed to it and you may not have. Is it ever okay to claim someone as belonging to you? A lover? A spouse? A friend? An employee? How long does ownership of a person last and how far can it go? There was a time in recent history where a wife had a really hard time reporting abuse crimes to authorities because she was married to a man. Is that the extent that owning a person can go to? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/tqxwOsn5ZbI?feature=share#rent-to-own #ownership #spouse #bestfriends
It can be said that the true character of a person can be revealed when you see them at their most abundant and when you catch them at their least. Do you think that it is true? What are your actions when you are getting close to having nothing left of something that you value? Do you tighten up your belt when you have spent most of your money, or the food is almost gone? Do you figure that you should just go ahead and spend the rest of the money when you only have a little bit left? It might surprise you of the way that some people perform when the inventory gets low. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/mmhTmERWfn0?feature=share#starvation #poverty #abundance #wealth #floss
Car parts, jewelry, food, accessories, batteries, phones, clothes, hair care, accessories, home furnishings, food. Did I say food? I meant to say food. The cost of living these days is beyond ridiculous and the higher prices rise, the more we seem to make excuses to comply. What are the options? What can we do? What have you tried? Have you changed the way that you want things, since prices of some of your favorite things have been rising? Do you know of any ways to get things that most people don't know? Is there any relief in sight? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/bteD4Vp0Vgc?feature=share#gasprices #food #sushi #weed
Many men think that they have to make a lot of money in order to have a beautiful woman. Do most women believe the same thing? Can a man who makes a modest salary keep up with a woman who is very pretty, or who has a lot of money herself? If so, is this a new thing? Does a man have to financially prepare himself for love? Does he have to increase his funds in order to have some fun? Does this work in reverse? Do women who don't make a lot of money feel like they have a chance with men who are financially gifted, or who are very handsome? We kind of know that it doesn't exactly work this way, don't we? Anyway, has this phenomenon negatively affected our ability to form loving and healthy relationships? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/gy4Ek9VgGAY?feature=share#singlesdating #nomoneynolove #latepayments #promsendoff #classof2023
When we say that you shouldn't go to parties that you're not invited to, we can be talking about eavesdropping on a coversation and giving unwarranted advice when it wasn't asked for. Sometimes people welcome the advice. Sometimes people push back and it can get ugly. Sometimes it just means minding someone else's business. Sometimes it means actually crashing a party that you weren't invited to. Have you ever gone to a party, or function that you weren't invited to? What was the reception that you received? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/m6uN5CKQeiU?feature=share#dinnerparties #enemies #friends #drama
Can you imagine how many lives would be spared if people knew their drinking limits? Alcohol directly takes about 100 thousand lives a year and that was before the pandemic. Who knows how many more have started hitting the bottle hareder since then. By the way, those numbers don't include drunk driving. They are strictly due to alcohol consumption. When it comes to knowing what to say and when the right time it is to say them, there's no telling haow far a person could go professionally and personally, if they could only keep their big mouth shut. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/I2x2Nv0Bwuw?feature=share#drugsandalcohol #diplomacy #addiction #termination
The elders told us that when someone tells you who they are, believe them. It is sound advice and when it's followed, it can probably make some things in your life easier, but you have to believe it first. Do you believe when someone tells you who they are, or do you believe what you see more than what they say? Actions speak louder than words right? Do they always? Sometimes it may seem like the actions are spoken more in the words than in the physical act. On the internet, for example, a profile is created and sometimes people put information on the profile that might not match who they are. They fabricate and embellish. Still, they are telling you who they are. Maybe we should use our better judgement. What about when we see the potential in someone who says that they aren't what you can see in them? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with un Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/U8oK54uFWAA?feature=share#actionspeaklouderthanwords #toxic #music #healthcare #freemovies
Does a rocky start dictate what the rest of a relationship will be? Have you seen red flags all over the beginning of a situation, but hung in there until you got to a place of understanding, acceptance, or peace? Do you expect the beginning of a situation to always start off well and usually taper off to being problematic? Can you get past a situation not starting off with the honeymoon first? Have you ever hung in there with a situation until it got better, but it never got better? How quick are you to make an exit from a situation that seems negative in its early stages? Have you felt like that was the best decision, in the long run? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/vvSENOgJniI?feature=share#rockystart #honeymoon #2023election #trapmusic
Securing your emotional perimeter is like making sure that you surround yourself with people and things that will make you feel better and safe. This is not as easy as it might sound. Some people secure their emotional perimeter by closing themselves off to the things that they don't want to see, such as unfriending people who they see as being toxic, or not watching things that are negative to them. No bad news. Other people may surround themselves with only people that they think that they can trust. They limit their circle. No new friends. Everyone has the right to protect themselves. Some people may decide that they will not fall in love, or let anyone get too close to them, or tell anyone their personal business. You have the right to protect yourself at all times. How do you choose to protect your emotional perimeter? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out https://youtube.com/live/VQcKL3_aS1U?feature=share#trust #admiration #love #protection #defense
Without thinking about it, we might expect women in a relationship to be shorter than men. It could be that we subliminally associate height with authority, or dominance. What happens when we see a break in this perception? Does it matter if a man is shorter than his woman is? Will a man be able to control a woman who he is shorter than? Control? Yes, control. That word that offends so many of us, but also the one that we can't get away from. Will, or can a woman respect a man who she is taller than if she is in a relationship with? As silly as it may seem, there might be something here that takes us back to our childhood perceptions of what strength, courage and acceptance is. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/AND8GIaRmes?feature=share#heightadvantage #talldarkandhandsome #menandwomen #love
What a lot of people hate about American football playoffs is that it is sudden death and you don't get another chance to recover, if you weren't your best on that day. That is also what a lot of peoploe love about American football. In most other sports, you have to win a series in order to advance in the sport. That means that you have to better than the other team multiple times in order to win a championship. How does that translate to the things that happen in your life? Do you usually win at things multiple times, or do you usually win in a series? What about when you lose? If you are defeated at something multple times, are you able to deal with what happened? Do you accept that someone, or something is better than you, or do you work on winning the next series? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/f26qTkN_EMc?feature=share#NBAchampionship #StanleyCupPlayoffs #SuperBowl #winning #losing
There might be times when we obsess about not knowing who we are dealing with, the way that we want to know. How many times has someone given their partner hard time about cheating, even though they never caught them cheating? Have you ever been afraid that you would catch a disease from someone that you were dealing with? Were you more afraid of catching the disease, or were you more afraid of dealing with the person? Is it possible to stress about the financial affairs that your job may be involved in, rather than the actual safety of yourself on a job? Fear of the unknown is actually acceptable. People saythat you shouldn't fear the unknown, but they may not be being reasonable. LOL Let's talk.That's what we'retalking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/nfRzmvNfSXo?feature=share#fearofgod #perfecttiming #relationships #theavengers
Have you ever invited a friend, or associate to a function, an outing, or a party and they bring someone with them, without asking you if it was okay 1st? We're not talking about a party where you should expect a guest to come with a date, we're talking about a business deal, or a matter where only the person that you invited was needed, or welcome. Sort of like when you schedule an interview with someone and they bring their whole entourage with them, which could breach the security of your location. We're talking about when you invite someone to an exclusive function and you pay for their dinner plate and they bring someone with them, who expects to be comped in as well. Sometimes it can be as simple as when you were looking for a one-on-one with someone and they bring someone else with them that totally ruins everything. Sometimes the friends of friends ain't good friends at all. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/hKvpsPBK6Fs?feature=share#plusone #and1 #businessplan #nbaplayoffs #invitation
At times a man can forget that his woman is more than just a rider. He can forget that she has a heart and that she is sensitive to certain topics of discussion and that she might be attracted to gossip at times. When a man is dealing with a woman who handles her business and seems to take a man's side in a lot of situations dealing with women, he can forget that she's a woman too and that there are times when her more feminine side is gonna come out. It can catch a man off-guard and make him have to reevaluate the way that he has been dealing with his woman. Hey brother, did you know that your woman was a girl at one time and still has a little girl inside of her? She cries sometimes and doesn't want you see her cry. Sometimes she might shut down if you raise your voice....even if she raises hers first. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/S1G7zW9o79w?feature=share#girlygirls #femininity #relationships #backintheday #rideordie
Being down is when your money is low, your confidence is low, your love life is low, your support is low and your meaning of life feels low. It can be a defining moment in a person's life. Unfortunately, it can lead to self-defeating behavior, self-abuse and at its worst, suicide. But let's talk about the surface part of being down. The kind that most can relate to and have experienced. The kind of being down that makes you have to eat the chuck steak on a regular basis and never be able to afford the good sirloin. The kind of being down that makes you have to choose the cloth seats option instead of the leather. It can make you think that you will never find love or happiness. When being down lasts for too long, it can make you start to believe that things will always be this way, so a person might take unnecessary chances to advance themselves, or they might stop trying altogether. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/zFz3evQc5wA?feature=share#depression #poverty #relationships #therapy #lobster #steak
If Black people Americans, who were the direct descendants of slaves, received monetary compensation for the 400+ years of unpaid labor that they were forced to endure, would they wind up giving the money right back into the system that enslaved them in the 1st place? Should that be a reason that they shouldn't get paid? This is one of the reasons that many Black opposers of reparations use to abandon the fight for Black reparations in the U.S. Is that good enough for you? What would you do with your money if you received a reparations check? Would it depend on how much the check was for? I don't know about you, but to me, I have seen our people start businesses from life insurance payments, so I think that a lot of us could do something great with reparations money. But what if you did mess up the money? Should the person who owes you determine what you should do with the money that you get paid back? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/emLTQdXNwuc?feature=share#Reparations #lifeinsurance #conditionallove #mirandarights
To some people, it's like when you go to a job interview, you go in on your best behavior and try to show them the most valuable and desirable parts of you. You talk nice, present nice, appear to be helpful and in no way seem to want to be in control. We all know what happens when we get comfortable with our roles at a job and get uncomfortable with the rules that the job has. That's when some of us start to let our hair down and reveal more of our less than desirable qualities. What can you do to get the person that you want to be with? What shouldn't you do when trying to pursue someone? How does keeping it real and being true to yourself fit into this? Can we talk though?That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/_Q7gerzhFIg?feature=share#toxic #iLoveYou #keepingit100 #honesty
As stupid as it may sound to some people, the richest among us are usually the ones who have to pay the least for things, or at least can skirt around the qualifications. Building a brand can have many advantages to it. A well-known brand can be like advertising. People will often allow you to enter their places of business and give you amenities because having you there will bring in more customers, or business. This is why you'll hardly ever hear of major celebrities having to wait for tables at restaurants,or even having to pay for meals, or things. People knowing that they will be there will drive in more business, so businesses will let them in for free often. Many rich and famous people are blessed with free educational opportunities for them and their children, even when they may not have the grades to get into the schools. Know of any cases like that? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/unLHoB4WaXs?feature=share#freefood #loanforgiveness #studentloans #TuckerCarlson
Some people are really the coolest people in the world, until you start having sexual relations with them. If you start having sex with them, they change a lot and start acting a fool. Not always because the sex is good, because the sex puts them into a different mindset of power, or submission, or obligation. For some, it's that you can't light the fuse and put it out. For others, sex may be associated with ownership, soul ties, or love. Are we saying that nobody acts crazy is crazy until you have sex with them? No. This only applies to whom it applies to and YOU KNOW who they are. People who have exes that they have had kids with understand this..So-called friends with benefits understand this. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/Zvw_4iWg0J4?feature=share#friendswithbenefits #babymammas #fatalattraction #arrangedmarriage
Giving up on something can be a hard thing to do. There are many people who believe that no one should ever be given up on, especially children. In theory, this might be true. In practice, we might have to look at each case individually. Just because something is a lost cause doesn't mean that you have to give up on it, but it also doesn't mean that you have to be the one to save it. It's really up to you, personally. What is a lost cause? A lost cause is something that can't be veered away from the path that it is on, no matter what the intervention is. It is something that has to complete the cycle that it is on It can be demoralizing to think of a person that can't be helped, or a system that can't be rearranged. The question becomes: What is our role in determining who and what a lost cause is and what our involvement should be? Have you ever dealt with a lost cause? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/EELCKXPWOIc?feature=share#thelastofus #lostcause #prison #juveniledetention
There are people who are so used to doing well at everything, or being near perfect at most things that when they have to struggle to get better at something, or really suck at something, it can really stress them out. The reality is that there is always something that we would like to do well that we don't do that well. There are usually things that we think that we are pretty good at, that we might not be so good at, like singing or dancing. You know how someone may be a wiz at math, but might not be able to dance worth a lick. When we were growing up in school, there were really good students, there were average students and there were students who could barely read, or write. All of them were good at something else, whether it had been discovered or not. Some people are good at people. They are good at making friends, or forming relationships. What happens when they fumble the ball with someone? Can they take it? Is it the end of the world? Let's talk?That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/IHKUXD3-isE?feature=share#friendship #school #DerrickHenry #PhiladelphiaEagles #Sixers
When a man is out on a date, or anywhere in public, is he obligated oprotect his woman at all costs? It seems like a fair deal to me, but I can see how it could have limitations and consequences. Is it the case where a man is supposed to protect his woman as a unit, or can circumstances determine if he should physically get involved? What if the threat is against another woman? What about in reverse? Should a woman get involved in a man's fight, if she perceives that he is in danger, or is getting jumped? Are a man and a woman supposed to be a an army of 2 when they are in the war of the public? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/TKLGVLMRHTY?feature=share#protection #army #viralvideo #rescueanimal
It can be amazing, the petty reasons that people stop dealing with each other. It can be even more surprising, the things that people let slide and keep dealing with each other. Have you ever know a couple who seemed to have been to hell and back with each other, only to finally breakup with each other over something so small, that only new couples might separate over? I guess when it comes down to it, the reasons that people get together ain't none of our business and the way that they break up is of none of our control. Even when it involves us. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/c-uLEFUL9CI?feature=share#separation #petty #creditunion #seedlessproduce
Anyone who has ever been hurt in a relationship knows what it feels like to regret almost every move that you have made, not just in a relationship, but in your whole life. Sure, that sounds extreme and maybe even a little childish, but the pain of a heartbreak is personal, so almost any feelings go. Many times, you may feel like the problem was that you fell in love 1st, or that you fell in love in the at all. Ever been there? Ever felt it? It's common. Falling and love and being hurt can cloud your judgement badly. Tonight, we will discuss some tactics that may stave off getting into your feelings too fast, or at least before the other party does. Warning: Some of these techniques are going to sound totally ridiculous, childish, immature and unnatural. That's love though. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/xPCgqqkcFQM?feature=share#fallingforyou #selfhelp #diy #brokenhearted
They say that once you invite an outsider into your bedroom, that you will never be able to be one-on-one with your lover again. Do you think that it is true? Plenty of people who have tried it would agree with this statement, but I am sure that their are people who would say that it isn't true. For example, people who believe in polyamory would probably disagree with that statement, but can they really disagree with what is said, or do they just disagree that it will be a disagreeable situation? If a woman grants her man the chance to be with another woman, with her consent, do you think that he will continue to see another person secretly? Is there a chance that he will be satisfied with the one chance that he was granted? What do you think? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/ZL7ravY-aFU?feature=share#Threesome #MenageTrois #Relationships #Marriage
What is it about our grandparents that makes us fall in line? The most gangster, thugged out, violent felon will do his thing in the streets, but will try not to lie to his grandmother, or put her in harm's way. Why do our grandparents get a level of love and respect that we don't always show towards our parents? Let's talk about it.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/PzC8Edu6MUU?feature=share#MothersDay #BigMomma #FamilyCourt #DinnerandAMovie
The magic word isn't abracadabra, alakazzam, hocus pocus, or open sesame, but those are words that a magician may use to make a magic trick come alive. For people, there may be magic words that will catch their attention, make them do something, or make them comply. A person's history and experience will have a lot to do with what the magic word for them may be. In other words, you may have to get to know someone before their magic word will work for you. For example, even a dog will not obey everyone's commands, even if they recognize the commands well. I love you, please and thank you may be the magic words for some people, when said by some people, but not all people will be able to use them for the same magic. At home, you are beautiful and I love you might get you an acceptance of a marriage proposal. At work, the same words may get you a warning from HR. What are your magic words? The words that turn on and turn off. Let's talk. That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism SHow. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/8bvh19fqShg?feature=share#Abracadabra #Magic #ThankYou #HocusPocus
Does the way that you look tell the story of who or what you are? Do people often mistake you to be something that you are not and leave you to have to explain to them the truth? For example, has anyone ever mistaken you to be from a city, or a country that you are not from, just because of the way that you dress, look, or talk? Have you ever tried to act like you are from a different place than where you were from, for any reason? How about people who wear expensive clothes? Do you assume that people who wear designer clothes make a lot of money? We know that some people do that on purpose. Do you think that it can backfire on them? What about people who portray themselves to be in a position of authority? Does that piss you off? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/4S1pSCeu6xs?feature=share#MistakenIdentity #Culture #PantsSuit #BusinessCasual
Going to work sad. We have probably all done it. Some of us reveal the reason that we are unhappy and some of us keep it to ourselves and try to work through it. Life goes on and bills still need to get paid. This truth becomes the most apparent when we have to go make the bacon, regardless of how bad we may be feeling at our worst times. Plenty of jobs offer bereavement days to compensate for we suffer a loss of a loved one. The problem can be that jobs put a value on the person who you have lost, in terms of how many days you may need to take off. So, you may get a week or two off for a parent passing away, but get no days off for a best friend passing away. It can be even more stressful when you don't have good bonds with coworkers to help ease the pain of dealing with a loss. This is what makes some people hide what they may be going through, while others may feel more comfortable expressing their pain. If you don't have good relationships with coworkers, you can wind up going to work sad and being at work mad. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/IvJkC0zPdV4?feature=share#Bereavement #FightingAtWork #CEO #9To5
A lot of relationship experts say that it is hard for a woman to find a man if she has a child, or multiple children. They also say that a single woman who has kids can't have high expectations of finding a decent man. Is any of this true? If so, where is the evidence of it? Whether you agree that single parenthood is a good thing, or a bad thing, you can't be inside of every single parent's home to see how things are going. Are there men who won't date a woman who has kids? Yes. Are there women who won't date a man because he has kids? Yes. How common is it though? How well does it stand up against when two people really like each other? Let's talk. That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/mHK4dNXlrGs?feature=share#Paternity #FamilyCourt #Relationships #BabyDaddy #FYP
We know a prenup is usually beneficial for those who have a lot of money, but what if there are less valuable things that you want to protect? We all have things that we hold to have high value, personally. There are things that we would rather lose our lives for, rather than to lose them in a bad marriage. For example, a family home. What if you bought a home while you were single, or during your 1st marriage? You may certainly want to leave that home to your children, or significant family members. Should you protect something like this with a prenup? Does getting a prenup symbolize that you don't have faith in your marriage, or spouse? Do you think that your partner would understand, or sympathize with your wishes? Would you reconsider marrying someone if they refused to sign the a prenup? It's definitely something that should be discussed in detail before a marriage is fully considered? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/bwg95ub4XrY?feature=share#MarriageForMoney #Assets #MarriageForCitizenship #AffordableHousing
Depending on where you live, there may not have been a bad bad winter. If we believe the myth of the Cuffing Season, that may mean that people didn't have the reason to hook up the way that they may have in previous years. 1st of all, do you believe that there is a such thing as Cuffing Season? Do you think that it's a real thing, or do you think that it's an urban legend? If you believe that it's real, that would mean that you think that when it starts to get cold, people start to get closer and commit to each other, or live together. If you believe that it's an urban legend, you think that it's just an excuse that people use to try to get up under each other. Surely there are lonely people in every season, but this winter was very mild and short for a lot of areas in the U.S. Did it end Cuffing Season too early for some? What happens when Cuffing Season is done? Let's talkThat's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/sDKPb-7PduU?feature=share#SummerVacation #SpringCleaning #SummerConcerts #DiscountFlights
Personal shipping and handling. We probably know how much it costs to send a package to someone. We take the item to the post office, or the another carrier and we give them the item and the weigh the item and give you a price, based on how much it costs to ship that item per pound. Now, relate that to where you want to go in your life. Your goals, your aspirations, your education, your dreams, etc. How much will it cost to get you where you want to be and would it become too much of a financial, or emotional burden for someone to get you there? For example, how hard would it be for a man to consider marrying you, if you wanted to get married? Would it cost him a lot of money from the beginning, in the form of a big wedding? Would he have to be 100% percent responsible for your financial costs? Are you bringing more items to ship in the situation, such as children, pets and a host of unpaid bills? Would he have to pay a lot for your physical upkeep, like hair, nails and surgery? We know that places like Amazon offer free shipping and handling. How does your shipping and handling compare top that? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show.Check tis out: https://youtube.com/live/z4s-6ZbmpEc?feature=share#Amazon.com #FedEx #UPS #PayPal
Heart can mean courage, or it can mean kindness. It's crazy how one word that is actually a vital organ can take on the role of so many vitally important things in our social structure. When someone say that someone has a heart, they mean that some is kind, or has compassion. It is almost like loyalty, dedication and tactfully letting someone down, or trying not to further disappoint them. When someone says that someone has heart, they mean that they will courageously defend themselves, or others. It means that they are not a weeping violet. It means that they will not be a punk. See how just the letter A changes so much in the meaning of the same word? When you take away the word heart in both scenarios, you get an equally less desirable person. In other words, when you say that someone has no heart, or is heartless.....Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/7Y8F-a8EY_g?feature=share#HaveAHeart #Heartless #CityOfBrotherlyLove #FamilyLove
Some people can't help themselves from dumping all of their problems on other people. Some people can't help getting other people involved in all of their mess. Some people can't help stirring up a bunch of chaos and confusion for their own purposes, but you will hardly ever see them bring joy into a lot of people's lives, or offer solutions to problems. Some people can only seem to focus on who the enemy is supposed to be. If you pay attention to these types of people, you'll notice that the only times that they are not stirring up trouble is when they aren't upset, but they never make sure that others aren't upset. They bring riot, but they never bring relief. Do you know anyone like that? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/GGAiTN_6p20?feature=share#PeacefulDemonsstration #Democrats #Republicans #MarjorieTaylorGreen
Sometimes you are in a mind state that won't allow you to enjoy yourself. Sometimes you are just not feeling the scene. It's like having to suck it up in a situation that you may have volunteered for. One of the worst things to happen is to do a good deed for someone that you are not in the mood for. For example, have you ever attended a wedding, or party where you didn't know anyone, or was of a different culture? Sometimes it can work and sometimes it can be a disaster to you internally. People around you may be having a great time and expecting you to join in. Meanwhile, you may be worrying about your home being foreclosed on. Have you ever blown your own high? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1-ish on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/h5X7VMA1yMo?feature=share#EasterEggHunt #MeanGirls #Branding #barmitzvah
Men aren't the only ones who complain about being used for money and simping. It's the hood's dirty little secret that almost everybody knows, but very little people want to talk about. There was a time when people thought that only overweight, or unattractive women would financially provide for a man, or be his primary source of income. There was a time when seeing women who thought that it was their job to take care of a man was rare, but is it as rare now? Captain Save a Bro. What is it exactly? Doo you have to have a lot of money to do it? Do you have to be a fool to do it? Do you have to be desperate to do it? Do you have to have low self-esteem, or not love yourself to do it? Is it a one and done thing? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemsim Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/atdzejg88VM?feature=share#MarvelHeroes #DCComics #PrisonWives #TilDeathDoUsPart #CaptainSaveAHoe
We call people clowns all the time, but what and who do we mean when we say it? A clown is a character that is supposed to be funny who is often seen in circuses and children's parties. We have happy clowns and we have sad-faced clowns. Although clowns are supposed to bring joy and be funny, we don't respect them in the way that we may respect comedians. No one seems to respect someone who is seen as a clown. It's not even a fact that we laugh at clowns, or if we laugh AT clowns. What are some things that will make you look like a clown to someone? Are clowns ever women? You don't usually hear men refer to women who they don't respect as being clowns. You might hear a woman say that about a woman, but you don't hear that term being used to describe a woman very much. A clown seems to be someone who keeps trying to get something that they cannot have. They are often nice , but they are hardly ever respected. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/KZbmvtljeag?feature=share#Clowns #PowerBook #Circus #CharlesFlenory
When it comes to the police, prosecutors, judges, lawyers, politicians, government officials, etc., or you don't. Sometimes there's some in between, but for a lot of OUR people, there isn't. We are often either on one side, or the other. You never know who to trust nowadays and the need to have to pick a side is strong, especially if you have ever witnessed wrongdoing on the part of the "Good Guys" and have watched them cover it up successfully. The George Floyd situation in 2020 changed a lot of people's minds about the way that the police do things and where their integrity stands. For a lot of people, the George Floyd situation did absolutely nothing. It depends on which side has the most influence over you. How do you think we've been doing since 2020? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/-p0lrnr2TdM?feature=share#Police #Indictment #ClassifiedDocuments #USA
What do you bring to the table? Arrogant people are asked this all the time. Sometimes they aren't asked this enough, by the right people. What does bringing something to the table mean? We know that it's SUPPOSED to mean the gifts, attributes, assets, or contributions that someone has to offer in an agreement. The reason why this is misunderstood by so many people is because the truth of what some people REALLY want in an agreement isn't always expressed to all who are involved. This can be why some people are accused of bringing nothing to the table and others are charged with bringing too much to the table. The facts about what needs to be brought to the table are usually expressed when the expectations are not met. Then we might find out why your great smile, body and personality might have not been sufficient in an agreement.. Prenuptial agreements clearly outline what each spouse brings to that table. Let's talk. That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/sGA68KWc3NA?feature=share#PrenuptialAgreement #ASeatAtTheTable #WhatsMine #TurboTax
Some people only talk a lot when they drink. Some people only relax when they smoke. Some people only stay at home when they are in a relationship. There are variations of these 3 things and many more things that you can add to your personal list. Some of the things that we do may be appropriate and some may not be appropriate, but we may wait to do those things until the right time. How many things can you think of that you don't do on a regular basis, that you might do if you are under the influence, or around good company, or if you are hooked up with someone? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1-ish on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/NP0Z_Dgz0SA?feature=share#Drinking #Smoking #Control #Flirty
They say that we all have triggers. We all have triggers. We all have those things that people may do, say, or show that might set a person off. It might make them get violent. It might make them burst into tears. It may send them back into a depressed state. It may make them become reclusive, or distant. Triggers have been the blame for the start of the process of breaking up, or separating from each other in relationships and friendships and it often happens without ever being explained. Triggers are memories that could viewed as traumas, or possibly PTSD. They are actions that bring about an emotional response, that can have devastating short-term, or long-term effects. What do y'all know about this? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/PT6u68jFC6g?feature=share#Triggers #PTSD #EmotionalResponses #Memories
There may, or may not be certain job patterns, or behaviors that run in your family. Does that mean that it can't happen to you, or for you? We are tribal people. For the most part, we believe that if someone in our family can do something, then someone else in our family can follow suit and hopefully it's for the positive. It's not always positive. We don't always want to accept that most of the people in our families are jailbirds, liars, thieves, deadbeat dads, or teenage babymommas. Unfortunately, those things happen too and it doesn't mean that that cycle has to continue and won't be forever broken. Should be use our family members as examples of what we have the chance to be, any more than what we could point to in any other random person as an example? For example, A large amount of Black men are incarcerated in their lifetime. Does it mean that, as a Black man who doesn't have any family members incarcerated, that my chances are better that I won't be?That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/mg_Psyqa2NU?feature=share#Malpractice #Lawyers #GrandJury #SiliconeValley
I don't know about you, but all I hear about being single, is that it's hard and that the dating scene is terrible. At the same time, we hear a lot of things about how hard it is to be in a relationship these days. With all of these single people in the world, dating must be easier for someone. Maybe we aren't asking the right people. Let's get straight to it. Do people who are in a committed relationship, or who are married have an easier time dating? On the surface, it may sound ridiculous, but there may be something to it. We probably heard single people say that they are constantly being approached by married people, especially online. Has having someone else made getting someone else easier? Just take some time to think about this for a few minutes. People who are hooked up already have a safe cushion, in case they are rejected, don't they? I don't usually hear married people complain about how they can't get rid of these single people bothering them. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/mMm8g8ImUSw?feature=share#DatingSIngle #Infidelity #ThrowbackThursday #UberEats
Have you ever paid someone a compliment, but it wasn't the compliment that they wanted to hear? Like, maybe you complimented them on their looks, when they wanted to be complimented on a particular job they had done, or a skill that they had? Maybe you complimented someone on their intelligence and they were looking to be complimented on their looks. This goes much deeper than compliments though. This is about paying attention to what someone needs in order to be alright. You don't always have to lie to someone about themselves, but you may need to hit the mark on exactly what they are looking for in order to feel affirmed. It's not always easy to do this, in fact, sometimes it may seem impossible to do, without sacrificing yourself to a certain extent. We do it for our children though, so we can probably do it for other people, if we care enough to do it. Let's talk. That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out:: https://youtube.com/live/BPd-kaeYPyo?feature=share#TellThe Truth #CarryTheLoad #SecretsAndLies #GoPro
After the pandemic, job security seems to have taken on a new meaning. Do you agree? You might, or you might not. So many employees had to make a decision about where they were gonna go with their careers during the COVID area. Some people have not returned to the traditional site of the workplace, like the office. Many people work from home. Many people have had to change jobs. Many people have had to close businesses, or have had to restart businesses that suffered during the pandemic. Then we have under the table jobs and independent contractors. Independent contractors receive all of their money from the work that they do, but they have to structure their own tax returns and they don't often receive a benefits package. A lot of people cringe at the idea of not carrying medical insurance, or retirement benefits. How about you? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: #IndependentContractors #HealthBenefits #ObamaCare #Jobs
It's like when you tell someone what your grand plans are and they find ways to get in the way of you seeing it through. Let's be more specific though. Have you ever felt unhappy, but were discouraged from using the word unhappy, because you thought that it made you look weak, or like a brat? You might tell someone that you are unhappy and they might associate what you said with being depressed, when you may not be depressed. What about if you are depressed though? Have you ever had a bout with depression, but didn't want to use the word depression, because some people associate depression with being crazy, mentally unstable, or emotionally weak? It's sad, but some people do, so even more people continue to live with a condition that goes untreated, because they don't feel like they can communicate the way that they feel. Sometimes, We are our own worst enemy, when it comes to using certain terms. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/D02CyeVDbmk?feature=share#Depression #PhiladelphiaWater #TapWater #Emotionless
You NEVER forget or IGNORE the 1st time your new car gets a dent, or a scratch.I t feels downright disrespectful. All kinds of feelings of sabotage come to your mind. Was it my scorned ex who did it? Was it my hating ass neighbors? Was it the wild, disrespectful kids that play in the street and have no respect for other people's property? Was it one of my jealous ass coworkers? Was it that car that I parked next to in the mall? A car is just a thing, but it is an expensive thing and it's one of those things that you try to protect from damage, as well as you can. Everything gets a little easier after the first scratch. The 2nd scratch is sort of like a surrender. You cam take whatever comes after the 1st scratch, just like in life. In life, we try to avoid the first heartbreak, that 1st embarrassment, that first rejection, that first fight loss, that 1st failed exam, or class. Have you gotten over the 1st scratch? Let'stalkThat's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/PmrsWNfFGd4?feature=share#ForeignCars #BMW #BadKids #MeanGirls #TechSupport
With working just to pay bills being such an unpopular thing to do, how do so many people find themselves doing it? Are they really doing it? People say that they only make enough money to pay their bills, but are they being truthful to themselves? A lot of people struggle to make as much money as they would like to make, but are they really as financially strapped as they say? Does making just enough to pay the bills mean that you 100% do not have any money to do ANYTHING after you pay your bills? Is it possible that we are adding some things that we do with our money in with the bills? What can we do to improve our current financial situation, before we search for other ways to make money. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1-ish PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/c6OqRPw3Uts?feature=share#TriggerAlert #TaxRefund #Part-TimeJob #SideHustle #FunMoney
It's usually easier to be fair when you don't know people well, or you don't have any dogs in the fight. It's easier to be fair when it's not anyone on your team playing in the game. When you are not emotionally involved with someone, you see them in a different way than when your heart is tied into them. That's not to say that you can't be fair when you are close with someone, but it can take a toll on your decision-making. Sometimes, it may not be the best way, to call things down the middle. Like in the case where you know that in a separate incident(s), there may have clearly been a guilty party, even if in this event, it was pretty even. Remember when O.J. Simpson was put in prison for assaulting someone who had stolen from him? Was he judged fair? Maybe there was some get back for that 1994 incident? Who can say? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/cGihDczp6rc?feature=share#OJSimpson #SuperBowl57 #FreeMumia #TheOscars #TheGrammys
It's hard to get over an ex. It's hard to get past what an ex may have done to you, or the way that they may have made you feel. It's double or triple times harder to get over an ex that has done you wrong when you have to still have dealings with an ex, because you have a child, or children with them. This is a situation that so many people have to deal with and so many people handle it differently. Some people refuse to deal with their exes, for any reason, even if it means that the children will not be able to see their dad, or mom again, or for a long time. Some people make a good effort to be mature and deal with their exes, sometimes that load becomes too heavy to bear. Have you ever felt ill will for your ex that it didn't matter that the two of you had a child together? How did, or how would you handle something like that? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/ne8HGNj6Yko?feature=share#ex-wives #coparenting #lovesick #childsupport #GrandJury
At the cost of sounding blasphemous, you could say that your faith may take care of things that you have planned for, but you have to rely on yourself for the things that need to happen right now. That is not to say that your faith doesn't take care of all things that happen with you, but consider this. We may pray that the future holds good health, prosperity, peace of mind and the same things for our loved ones. We try to set those things up as we go along, but along the way, we may fall down on doing the things that make our future more secure and we may encounter things that get in the way of those things happening. We may pray that our haters go away in the future, but we may have to get rid of a hater, right now. We may have to handle a hater now, but pray that he/she doesn't return in the future. Once again, this isn't the absence of faith, it's just taking care of things in real time. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/2f9NpS4BDyQ?feature=share#GodWilling #Faith #Responsibility #liability
Cleaning up behind someone is something that we may, or may not have been taught to do at a young age. If you were taught to clear the table and wash the dishes, as a child grownig up, then you might have less trouble cleaning up behind people, in that sense. Does that mean that you like to do it? No. Does it mean that you never rebelled against cleaning up behind people? No.It doesn't even mean that you continued the practice of doing so. But there are other ways of cleaning up behind someone. Like, when you have to fix a situation that someone may have messed up with someone else, such as when someone else has broken the heart of someone you are trying to get with. You may have to do more to disarm them from being afraid to trust than they would normally be. Can you do it? Would you do it? Let's talk about cleaning up behind someone.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/dLpuBaMj91o?feature=share#Housekeeping #Hotels #Resturaunts #China #January6th
The real question is whether you would be able to put up with someone who needed to live in your house if they were finishing their sentence? Would your house meet the requirements of the parole board in order to house the inmate. Some of the requirements are that there can't be a convicted felon near the premises. You have to have a landline phone in the home. You have to sign a contract of consent of responsibility for the inmate who is being housed, should they violate the terms of the house arrest guidelines. You may, or may not be ready, or willing to fulfill those requirements. You may, or may not be willing to do it for someone who may need it. Would you do it for someone who you loved? That's not a small favor to do for someone. It comes with a set of circumstances. It ain't for the faint of heart. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/kea81bYWWyk?feature=share#HouseArrest #FelonyConviction #CrminalJustice #Homebody #ProbationandParole
Sinning. Not sinning in the context of religion, but more so in the way of knowing that sometimes you know that you're going to do some things that ain't all the way right, but that you feel like you need to do, personally. These are the things that you may require forgiveness for, but they might not be the things that you promise not to do anymore. The saying "God knows my heart" comes to mind for these things. Not just things, though, we're also talking about the way that we are and the way that we feel, unapologetically. We may have accepted that about ourselves, but has God accepted it for us? Have the people around you accepted the way that you are? Do you care? Can you live with the sinner in you? Can you? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about this today at 1:30-ish on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/D4xIE3ATEJ0?feature=share#Sins #DivineIntervention #ChurchHats #Forgiveness
When accused of something, or when a conversation that applies to you comes up, do you feel the need to make your position known? Do you feel the need to let someone know your stance on the matter, beyond what your thoughts are? For example, if someone said that single parents shouldn't date, but rather concentrate solely on raising their kids, would you explain your situation to them? There is nothing wrong with making the way that you feel.be known to people. There is nothing wrong with people expressing their opinions about you. (within reason) When it gets to the point where you have to defend yourself to people, so that you don't look bad, or feel bad, how do you handle that? Do you feel the need to try to set the record straight, or do you just let people think what they want to think? Are you able to just let people think what they want to think, or do people who don't know you sometimes have you doing flips for them? Don't lie. LOL.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/dYSc49myPwA?feature=share#explainyourself #LifeCoach #TalkingAboutMe #NewLife
We know what bad parenting can do to the safety and welfare of a child, but is it always the right excuse? At which point does the adult child have to take responsibility for their actions, despite what the parenting was? We know that if you knowingly put your child in the company of a predator, then the parent has to bite the bullet for what happens to a child, but what about the decisions that some children make for themselves? Is it always a parent's fault that a child sells, or uses drugs? Is always a parent's fault that a child is violent, or can't stay out of jail? Is it a parent's fault that a child has bad social skills. Could be, right? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/wHjgLOpEbr0?feature=share#BadParenting #ItsAllYourFault #WhenIComeHome #BillCosby
Maybe when you met, you were a internet, twerking, loosie goosie, who used her body to attract men and keep them interested. Maybe when you first met, you were a hard hustling, hot shot that used his money to attract women and to get the things that you wanted. Now that people are getting older, their values and focus has changed. People stop doing things that they used to do when they were at certain points in their lives. With growth comes change and with change, expectations can shift. There's a big difference in what a street dude expects from his woman when he becomes a family dude. Not everyone can deal with that. There's a big difference in what a ride-or-die chick may expect once she learns more and becomes more concerned with her mortality. But what happens to what you did to get them, you gotta keep doing to keep them? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/cF_oTFYKGsk?feature=share#ChangeGoneCome #HousingDevelopment #GrownFolksBusiness #Boys2Men #RideorDieChick
From the time that we were very young, we were told not to stoop down to someone's low level of conduct. We were told that we should be the bigger person at times when someone was immature, or petty. We were told that we should rise above any foolishness that was waged toward us and that we would prevail that way. Did it always work? Did it work sometimes? Did it work at all? Has being the bigger person been easy for you to identify, in your experience? In other words, were you always sure of which times you should have been the bigger person? Does being the bigger person work at times when physical safety might be an issue? If someone tries to put hands on you, is that the time to be the bigger person? What is the opposite of being the bigger person? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/hQER-ADHs4M?feature=share#Safety #Unemployment #HeartDisease #ChickenWings
Some people battle with this situation all their lives. It can be very frustrating to be the kind of person who tells the truth and have it be overshadowed by people who will lie in order to prove their point. Is it still your word against theirs if it is you against more than one person? If a group of people tell a story of an event that differs from yours, are you likely to come out as being more credible? How successful have you been with my word against theirs? DO you respect people who remain truthful when then the odds are stacked against them, or do you have more respect for the person who is victorious?That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/ObLODBHCJ5k?feature=share#LiesAndFrenchFries #CourtOfAppeals #IceCream #PS5
Whether you think someone should be able to look the way you want them to look, or not, we all have standards of appropriateness and we are sure when someone crosses the line. What many of our girlfriends and wives might wear, is not necessarily what we would allow our daughters to wear, but where are we drawing the line of examples that we set? What is a trashy looking/dressing woman? We probably have our own ideas of what that looks like and we probably try to steer clear of what it looks like on us. We might be liberal when it comes to what our celebrities and girlfriends wear, but we might be very conservative about what our son's girlfriends wear. We might be very conservative about how our daughters look when they go to a place where they are supposed to look respectable. We are probably very red in the face when our son's girlfriend has a problem sitting down, because her skirt is so short. Let's not even get into the church, or the job. It's amazing what our churches will allow nowadays, as opposed to years ago. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/CgBIuNi2MQ0?feature=share#HumanTrafficking #Liberals #Conservative #IMDB
There's always one that gets us to break down, tell the truth, or get out of character. It could be one of your parents. It could be one of your siblings. It could be one of your friends, or one of your enemies. There is always somebody that always seems to manage to get under our skin and make you deviate from whatever plan that you were probably going to go with before they came around, or called. What does this mean though? What does getting into your head mean to you? Are you resentful of someone seeming to be in control of the way that you think, or the way that you act? If it makes you act in a negative way, this can be understandable. Just because someone was able to get into your head before, doesn't mean that they will be able to have control over you now, does it? Or doesn't it? Only you know, right?That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/jQMuua0nALM?feature=share#MentalStability #MarchMadness #Pandora #Addiction
Sometimes you need a day or two for your mind to regroup. Sometimes you need to get yourself together to be able to move on in a good way, but what are we talking about when we talk about mental health improved in a day? Is it possible? Are we really talking about mental health? Mental Days are what we associate taking off from work to get your emotions, moods and sometimes your body in shape to be able to be more productive. It is a term that is recognized in most industries, even though HR may not officially recognize days off for this sort of thing. Have you recently, or ever had to take a mental day off from work? Has it been the actual job that has gotten you stressed out, or have your problems just seemed to manifest themselves at the workplace? Is is just work that we need mental days off from? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Shu Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/Z-y8m1QSDC4?feature=share#MentalHealthDay #StudentLoans #HostileWorkEnvironment #MitchMcConnell
This is when you can't leave a situation because you are afraid to be without them, or because the sex is so good. Sure, this is going to sound ridiculous to some, but to people who are living this way, it makes total sense. Have you ever been with someone for so long that you can't imagine being without them, even if the relationship needs a tune-up? Have you ever been so physically and sexually attracted attracted to someone that starting over with someone new just seemed out of the question? Who do you think is more likely to stay in a relationship because of good sex, between men or women? Let's talk about this.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/iiSF-2xlyb4?feature=share#Ukraine #PalestineOhio #SexandLove #DaylightSavingsTime
We love our music. We love our movies. We probably listen and watch a lot of both and we probably judge ourselves and others on what we listen to, who we know about and how broad we can range. Sometimes we can go too far in the way that we look at people for the way that they choose their music, TV and movies. Have you ever gotten in an argument about what a good movie is vs. what a bad movie is? How about what a good song is vs. what a sucky song is? How about the types of movies that a certain actor may play in? What about Tyler Perry vs. Spike Lee, or someone else? Have you ever looked down on a person, or lost respect for them, because they liked Trap music, gangsta rap, or pop music? Come on now. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. heck this out: https://youtube.com/live/AjRm5r2mXrU?feature=share#Movies #Music #ChrisRock #WillandJada
It ain't easy being in love with someone, or being involved with someone who you have to show that things can be done to, all the time. It can be very mentally and emotionally taxing. There are plenty of reasons that a person can find to be skeptical. There are cultural reasons, political reasons, family history, genetics, the media, etc. I get it, but when you know that someone can do something because you have seen something special in them and they stay in denial of their own abilities, it can start to weigh on you, especially if they allow there pessimism to spread to other people who might be in need of inspiration, such as your children. So, what do you do when you are dealing with a self-doubting Thomas? Do you continue to try to inspire them to be great? Do you leave them alone to find themselves, hopefully one day? Do you just plant the seed and hope that it grows and blossoms? Do you start drinking, smoking and blaming them and the world? Hopefully, the last one is not an option. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/UFXGoLaZaRI?feature=share#NuclearPower #LebronJames #NBAStandings #NFLDraft
For some reason, people don't like telling people that they don't have a place in their lives anymore. This is bigger than just breaking up with a person. This is when you have to let someone be free, even when they might not want to be free. Not needing, or wanting a person is one thing. A person not serving a purpose in your life is a whole different, final thing. That could mean that not only do you not want a person around anymore, but you might not be willing to play the game of trying to make time for them anymore. Not even just to be nice. It is a thing that is so final, that it may even make the person who is making the declaration uncomfortable. It's almost like a death sentence. Why do people put off telling people that their time is up? Why do people who tell people that their time is up seem to be so cold? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/DHwDPxxCxb4?feature=share#Emancipation #Breakups #LastNight #Smoothies
You hear chatter online a lot about when someone criticizes a celebrity who is popular. Beyonce fans have been known to be vicious towards anyone who has anything bad to say about Beyonce, for any reason. Other major name celebrities have had people come to their defense too. People Like Kanye West, Donald Trump, etc. Let's flash to our regular daily lives. Do we give the people that we know the same energy on defense that we give to celebrities? For example, if someone invited you to go see a performance by one of their family members and the family member didn't do well, but the family member has made a lot of money outside of that performance, would you allow them to use the excuse that they have done so much before now, that they should not be held to standards now? Would you allow them to say how much money that they made? We gotta talk. That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/zyVitMEnBhs?feature=share#MoneyTalks #FoodPrices #GasPrices #LoveHandles
Domestic silence. that's what we're talking about. When you are not speaking to someone in the same house that you live, or the family that you come from. This can happen for a variety of reasons, from the most petty reasons, to the most serious reasons. There can be peace in silence and there can also be a war being raged in someone's silence. When someone is not speaking to you, you can feel it, especially if the two of you are in close quarters. What quarters are closer than in the home? Usually the reason for the silence is clear to the parties that are involved. They know what's going on, even if they don't share it with everyone else. What's the solution? Let's talk about it. This phenomenon happens in the workplace too. There is no place for it in the workplace, but it is definitely there. What 's the solution for it? Does HR have the solution for it? Let's talk about it.That's what we're talking about today at 1:30PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/cQd9vhmz-WQ?feature=share#BluetootheSpeakers #Silence #Brothers #InterracialDating
Cute can be a word to describe more than one thing. It can describe the way something looks. It can be used to describe the way that something acts. It can be used to describe the way that something feels. It can be used to describe something sarcastic, snarky, or condescending. When you look at it that way, you can probably see how there might have been times when you didn't feel so up to par with the word . The worst thing that can happen to a person is when they try to be cute and it falls flat. Imagine putting on an outfit that you think is great and it fitting all wrong. Imagine trying to tell a really funny joke and it bombing, with no laughs. You thought it was cute though. Being cute can go hand-in-hand with self-confidence. You don't want to go too long without feeling cute. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/SOzIlO3Jw30?feature=share#Puppies #Kittens #Friends #Hollywood
You only live once, they say. I'll try almost anything at least once, they say. Don't knock it, til you try it, they say. Think about all of the things that you have gotten yourself into. There's a good chance that most of the things that have gotten you into trouble, or made you a success are things that you have repeated. What about the things that you only tried once? Have you ever thought about those things? Have you ever thought about why those things were a one and done situation? If we only had sex with someone one time only, chances are that it wasn't a good experience, but is it always that way? Have you ever traveled to a place, just one time and never returned? Was it because you didn't like it? Not necessarily, right? Let's have a talk about the one-time experience and why we never did it again?That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/nxDd4Y4GhFU?feature=share#Experience #OneDayOnly #LimitedTimeOffer #Monogamy
We hear a lot of talk about the work husbands and the work wives. They have a lot of controversy surrounding them. A lot of different feelings and opinions vary concerning the work spouses. What we don't always talk about is the work parents. You know, the older employee at the job that took you under their wing when you worked at the job when you were younger. They may have trained you, straightened you out, guided you, gave you advice and/or straight up acted as a mother, or father figure for you. You never forget the way that your work mom, or dad made you feel, or the things that they did for you.. You probably never looked at yourself as a work baby, or if you have mentored someone else, you may have never looked at yourself as a work parent. Look at the way that you took up for them though, or the way that they took up for you. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/-5_4m7PuiSg?feature=share#WorkHusbands #WorkBabies #BusinessModel #InformationTechnology
Emasculating a man should never be acceptable right? A man should never be made to feel like a sissy, or like he is unimportant, right? The same thing for a woman, right? What if that man is not living up to the standards that a man is supposed to live up to? For example, what if he isn't taking care of his children, or paying child support for his children? What if he isn't protecting his family, but instead, putting them in harm's way? What if he is a cheater? What if he is a liar? What if he is violent, or abusive? What if he is unreliable, or makes promises that he doesn't keep? Not saying that these conditions SHOULD make it okay for a man to be emasculated, but these are the reasons that people give for emasculating men and at the times that they are done, lots of people may agree with them. We have some talking to do.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/97rxWszZ2PI?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#Emasculation #chicken #Abuse #SolarPower #relationships
We have all had the situation where one of our friends were around when some other people were talking greasy about us. Sometimes our friends even came back to us and told us what was said. We may, or may not have asked them if they defended us, or not. They may have defended us, or not. The question is whether our friends are supposed to defend us when someone is talking bad about us? What if they do? Do we owe them gratitude? What if they don't? Have they done us just as wrong? On social media, we see people sticking up for celebrities that they don't know from a can of paint, but they might not do the same for someone that they know well. Are you okay with that? I know plenty of people that defend the actions of people like Kanye, Trump, Beyonce, etc., but I don't hear them defend their fellow man. Are we good with that? Let's talk about it.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/kcyS5nb-gz0?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#slander #HitmanHolla #EazyDaBlockCaptain #CelebrityGossip
We know that the truth is relative. We have been taught that, since we have been taught to understand things. What we may not have been taught, is how much the truth can be manipulated, based on what we may think that we need at certain times. We might not have been taught that there will be times when we won't care about what is true. There will be times when we will make our own decision about what is true. The truth and reality is supposed to go together, but there are times when we separate the two things, becomes the time might not be right for the both of them together and that may be the truth. Does it sound confusing? Let's try to clear it up tonight. That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/j1EnloCpX5I?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#DonaldTrump KanyeWest #Tupac #Politics #Democrats #GOP
Well, let's talk about it, since you know that you probably talk about it privately, or personally. Do you think that a lot of men who work around a lot of women seem to exhibit feminine traits? Do men who work around a lot of women prey on their female coworkers sexually? Do men who work around a lot of females act feminine AND prey on women sexually? It's something like the elephant in the room, It could be possible that men who work around a lot of women don't display either of these traits, but what do you say? Have you thought about this before? Well, let's think about it now.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/rwARfC2a-jM?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#HumanResources #MenAtWork #GuestList #WorkplaceRomance
No. It's a very powerful word in its meaning and when it's correctly applied. Why do so many struggle with the word no? Why can't some people say no? Why can't some people accept the answer no? The word no is probably easier to accept when it's used more often, but when it's used more often, it can seem like a yes, because it becomes as predictable as when someone agrees with your advances all the time. Speaking of advances, sexual advances are when the word no really seem to come under scrutiny. This is the area where court cases and prison time often take center stage. It's really a serious problem, but should it be? If a woman rejects a man's physical advances towards her, should there ever be a question of whether she meant it or not? Should there ever be a question of whether the answer no should be honored? Does it, or should ever matter how long, or how well you have known the person? Can we have a talk about the word no today? Let's, please.That's what we're talking about today at 1-ishPM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/Ugmw0jF6jw8?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#NoMeansNo #MegansLaw #Justice #SocialMedia
Some people are beyond being spoiled. Some people are beyond being entitled. It can be mind-boggling, the way that some people seem to have gotten their way all their lives. I mean, how can that possibly be? Every dog has their day, right? True, but the real problem can be that they might be dealing with someone who they think is weaker than them and they may have into the biggest challenge of their lives, unexpectedly. Some people handle it with grace, and some people handle it like a coach who hasn't made the necessary adjustments at halftime. It happens. Let's talk about some things.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/7SEuFE6Q-PY?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#Entitlement #Spoiled #GoodLife #Challenges
Any of my middle-aged people know that we have had to accept many changes in our appearance over the years. Many have gained weight. Many have lost hair. Many have darkened up a bit and some have gone through a total transformation, because of surgery, or illness. What kind of physical changes are acceptable in a relationship? Are there any that are intolerable? Have you ever lost interest in a love, because they gained too much weight, or lost too much weight? As shallow as people my make it sound, it happens and the evidence of it is all over the place. What do you to prepare yourself for the physical changes that you and your partner will go through, as time goes by? Will you mentally prepare? Will you diet and exercise? WIll you take them as they are? Will you expect to be taken as you are? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/KD-eC3namS4?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#Looks #SpringChicken #Ageless #FabulousOver40
What would you do if you were in a sexually active relationship and your partner stopped having sex with you for some reason? Would it be a red flag for you? what it spell the end of a relationship for you? Would it be a compromise for you? What if they cut sex off for reasons that made sense to you, such as if you cheated on them and you were trying to rebuild the relationship? Would that give the situation a pass? What if they had a spiritual awakening and decided that they didn't want to have sex anymore until you got married, until God said so? Would you be understanding of that? People say that sex isn't the most important thing in a relationship and although you may agree, that might not mean that it isn't important at all. How do you feel about this? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/cIZabkMBNFA?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#SexTherapy #OnTheSamePage #SpiritualMarriage #Love
You know them and I know them. You deal with them and I deal with them. I out up with them and you out with them. You made them into monsters and I made them into monsters. When we talk about people who have a lot of stuff with them, were not talking about people who always do the right things. We're talking about people who get away with things that they probably shouldn't get away with, but for some reason, we have probably helped get away with it again. You could call them spoiled, or entitled, crazy, or just dead wrong, but there is something about them that keeps getting excused by you, or others. Is it their looks? Is it their background? Are they the only child? Sometimes people like this do often do the right things, but often, it isn't even for the right reasons. That helps move the chains for them once again. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/QdPK2OZE3-c?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#chaos #EntitlementPrograms #SpoiledRotten #Untouchable
Putting your kids in the middle of it. There are more ways to do this that we give credit to. Speaking of credit, how many of us have used our children in order to lower the cost of our bills, or to get sympathy for a situation, such as saying how far we have traveled with our kids in in order to get consideration for something that we were irresponsible with, or late for? Yeah, we do that. Why should it be surprising when we use our kids to settle matters of the heart? After all, wasn't it matters of the heart that brought the children in this world in the 1st place? I know, I know. We're talking about when we get trifling when putting our children in the middle of our adult stuff. Like, when we use our kids to get revenge on the other parent, or when we use our kids to do selfish things in parenting. Let's take an adult look at the way that we put our kids in the middle of our stuff tonight. Let's see if we can right this ship.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/KvfL3SBY5Ww?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#ChildProtectiveServices #TheBestSchoolDIstricts #ParentalNeglect #DateNight
We have heard this quote for years. Our old heads have told us. The ancestors have told us. Our parents have told us. We have told each other this. The thing is that we usually tell each other this when things go wrong. Like in the case of when a man is caught cheating, or supporting a woman, or cause that they ain't got no business supporting. How do men REALLY spend their money? What are their priorities? What are the consistencies across cultural lines? D we ask ourselves that enough? Is it possible for a man to exclusively spend his money where his heart is? What about men who take care of their responsibilities? Are responsibilities where their hearts are? Somehow, I think that when we think of this topic, we limit our thoughts to things like women, cars, drugs, gambling and other things that can be destructive. Could be something different though. What do you think?That's what we're talking about today at around 1-ish on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/s0KBHyksW1Y?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#cheating #usedcars #gamblingaddiction #opiodcrisis
We all like to play. We all like to laugh. We might all like a little back and forth, but at what point do we determine that enough is enough? When does a person go too far for you? When are you not playing anymore? We all have our limits and when people respect our boundaries, we're good. When folks don't know our limits, or don't respect them, the problem grows. The dissent magnifies and it can sometimes get physical. We don't waht to get into any of that, so let's just keep it funky right? How can a person know when to fall back from you? Speaking of being physical, how are you with people touching you? How much is too much? Are you the type that only likes for your man/woman to touch you? What happens when....Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/Nl3zs7JEIjE?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#Touching #violation #Playing #Church
Sometimes the people in your family don't want you to do well. It's not that they want you to do bad, but they might not want you to do better than the rest of them. They might not want you to break a familial curse. They say that misery loves company, well family members have been willing to spread the ball around a lot when it comes to throwing pity parties and sometimes trying to bring each other down. This isn't a popular subject, but it is a consistent enough situation, that warrants being talked about. We might used to other people saying things like: Who does he/she think she is? Well, when family members say it, they ain't playing around. It ain't just hate. Have you ever known whole families to be locked up over selling drugs? Is it just me? Let's talk.Thats's what we're talking about at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/U2_8a0O8P0U?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#FamilyValues #Crime #Depression #Blood
If she cooks and cleans and works, she's a keeper. If he works and takes care of his kids and is drug free, he's a keeper. If she is sexy without makeup and doesn't go out a lot, she's a keeper. We see all kinds of criteria online that is supposed to influence whether we should keep interest in someone or not, but does any of it matter? Who and what do we keep in our lives, past a certain point? What is supposed to make us discontinue our involvement with someone, or something? Is throwing something away the opposite of keeping something, in this context? Do we throw people away? According to social-media, we do. Cut them, unfriend them, block them. Forget about them. Do we subconsciously allow social media to dictate what we put up with and what we fail to tolerate? Are we living for ourselves anymore? Let's talk about it.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/gsGF2mJ4bIE?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#Marriage #longevity #Walmart #cravings
Finding yourself can take a long time. People spend years of their youth trying to figure this out. Accepting who you are can take much longer. The process can cause a lifetime of judgement and confusion. If anyone has ever "put you in your place" you know what I'm talking about. People will let you know who you really are to them when they get fed up with you. Why is pretending to be something that you are not acceptable when things are good, but so unacceptable when people get angry with you? There seems to be a wannabe culture that exists these days. We have to call it a culture, because anything that a lot of people do seems to get the label of culture these days. It doesn't seem to matter how ridiculous it may be. So, we have the wannabe culture. Trying to be something that you are not. Who is to say that you are not who you portray? If you are born into a culture, does that mean that you can't evolve into another culture? How deep can it go? Let's see.That's what we're talking about tonight at7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/eOPlLpKFPXY?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#Wannabe #Culture #Acting #Movies
What about your friends? What about you? How often do you call on your friends to help you with certain things? Are you the type that would rather be there for your friends more than you would want to need them? You know what I mean. Some people hate to be in the position of need. They will do anything to avoid that. They say that's what friends are for though. Do you believe that? Are you the type that is quick to label someone as a friend, but even quicker to drop them as a friend, if they don't act the way that you want them to? Do you have a lot of ex-friends? What does having a lot of ex-friends say about a person? Do you need a friend now? I mean right now? Do you have someone that you can call? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/Vqbp9zQ6J60?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#Friends #ValentinesDay #Candy #Personality
The say that there are only 2 guarantees in life, death and taxes. It seems like we spend most of our lives trying to escape both of those guarantees. We at lest try to put them off for as long as possible. Taxes are one of those things that are hard to like on any level. Taxes are monies that are taken away from you that you hardly ever get to see in the first place. Taxes are the things that make it sound like you make more money than you will ever see and the gross amount is what your bill collectors will make determinations of you by. When the 1st of the year rolls around, that is when it is time to pay the piper. The piper is the IRS. There are a lot of people that will help you get a decent tax refund. Why do a lot of us decide to get help from people who we don't know? There are reasons. Plenty of reasons. Let us look at a few.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/IWjI_dKYXDg?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#TaxRefunds #FinancialAid #Jobs #Hospitals
It doesn't matter if you ever become rich or poor. You either started out with no money, a little money, or a lot of money. Some people take issue with that and try to get people to ignore the facts of their origin. Does it matter where you come from? Does it matter that you came from a family of jailbirds if you become a law-abiding citizen? it doesn't matter that you came from a family of well-to-do, influential people if you never make any real money in your life? There might be times when where you come from might open doors for you, like in the case of if you are the family of a politician. There are also times where the place you come from might bring harm to you, like in the case where your family member may have committed a murder. Still, we have to deal with wherever we come from. We can always change where we are going. Let's talk about this.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/HYIQOKmJ_lo?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#Neighborhood #Hospital #HouseWarming #Special
A lot of middle-aged men and women date younger people when they get older. Some agree with it and some people disagree with it, but it is the choice of the individual to date who they want. How does a man, or woman look at their own child, or children as being children, when they are dating someone who is around the same age as the person that they are dating? Is that a pedophile mentality, or is it just a double standard? Should family and neighbors feel any kind of way about a situation like this, or is it nobody's business, if they are over 21? Anyone who is a full adult knows that people who are in their 20's are still very limited in their mature decision-making, but they are adults who can do what they want and see who they please. What are your thoughts about this? Is dating younger okay with you, even if your children are around the same age? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1:30PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/Sh-fPnOlm3k?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#SugarDaddy #Cougar #Dating #Emancipation
They say that a movement can survive without a God, but it can't survive without a devil. In other words, people will support a movement that doesn't guarantee that they will be everlasting life, goodness, or rewards, but they won't join a movement that doesn't have the purpose of an enemy. They won't stay focused on a way of life that doesn't have any opposition. It's a strange phenomenon, but there is some validity to it. People need to know that they are doing the right thing against the bag guy. What may be strange about this is that the so-called enemy probably feels that exact same way. Have you ever seen a situation where an enemy remained an enemy when the enemy ignored them time and again? We don't think about this kind of stuff all the time, do we? Tonight, we will. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/4KCZ7mAzR_I?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#Enemies #Opps #Oldhead #GunControl
What comes to your mind when you hear that someone is settling down? Probably that someone is committing to a monogamous relationship, right? Is that what it really means though? What are you before you become settled? Before you become settled, you are probably unsettled. There are a lot of different ways to be unsettled and they probably have way more to do with other things than just being in a monogamous relationship. Of course, being in a monogamous relationship can help you become settled, because it can mean that you are becoming more focused on one thing, instead of being all over the place with a variety of things. Settling down can also mean that you are ready to be open to being influenced and guided, rather than doing everything your own way. Are you ready to settle down?That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: Call 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.https://youtube.com/live/65gNhJHB50k?feature=share#Marriage #RoachSpray #CriminalBehavior #Resistance
We have had the debate for years about whether mothers value their sons over their daughters. We have some evidence to support it. We have some evidence to dispute it. What do you think? We also know that in the same homes where sons were more valued, we may have been taught that ladies were first and that you never hit a girl and that you have to learn how to treat a lady. We know that out in the world we have specials that attract customers in business, such as ladies night, ladies get in free before 11, etc. It's close to Valentine's Day. Who does that usually favor. Nonetheless, do you agree that boys may have it better in the home, but women have more advantages outside of the home? No? Yes? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/hzSUhThEYrs?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#LadiesFirst #AMansWorld #Bluetooth #Respect
Tonight, is the Presidential State of the Union address that the POTUS has to give every year. The purpose is to familiarize the American public with what accomplishments the POTUS has made in the past year. Some may be obvious. Many may not. What if you had to do this with your job, or with your personal life? How would you handle this? The POTUS has people who write the speeches for him and who keep score of exactly should be talked about in the SOTUA. Now that the sky has cleared of the new year, have you thought any more about what you want to do differently this year than last year and have you stayed on track for that? What if people were hanging on your every word and waiting to judge to see if your accomplishments were in line with their approval? Do we even do this at our jobs? When we get our annual review at work, do we understand that the review is about what you have done for the company, not necessarily for your job? Let's talk about this.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/5LV5c2JgxyA?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#StateOfTheUnionAddress #AnnualReview #PersonalLife #TaxRefund
Bonus kids. Bonus children. What are we really talking about. In this politically correct age of defining every single thing without saying exactly what it is, we come across bonus children. Bonus children are children that you may provide for and take care of, but who are not your biological, or sometimes legal children. It's really that simple, but it goes a little deeper than that. Why the word bonus? What comes to your mind when you hear the word bonus? It means extra right? At work, if you received a bonus, it would be the extra money that you would get for doing a good job in a particular pay period. It wouldn't be a part of your regular check. In fact, it would be taxed separately. So, what are bonus kids? Could they be kids that you could add to a tax return, to receive a bigger refund? Could they be the kids that you use for bragging rights, while in a pissing contest? What about the kids man?! Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/_mws4ugKpIQ?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#BonusKids #Hennessy #SuperBowlXVll #ChildWelfare
We might separate our money differently, but it all goes somewhere. Where does yours go? When you get paid, how do you divide your funds up? Do you get to keep most of it, or do you have to spend almost all of it? Do you get to save any that you make? Do you make enough money to save? Do you know how much money that you spend per day? Do you count that in with the rest, or is that on a separate budget? Do you have a budget? You might have one after today's show.That's what we're talking about today at 1:30PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/j7BFj_rFILg?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#Budget #deficit #CancerAwareness #SuperBowlXVll
Yeah, I like you, but I don't like you like THAT. Yeah, I fk with you, but I don't fk with you like THAT. A really good way to know if you like something is decide if you would do something for the person, or thing that you like. Would you take action to get the thing that you like? Would you work to keep something that you say that you like? Would you make a sacrifice for what you say that you like? I like you as a friend, but not as a lover. We know that this is a big problem when two people are not on the same page about this degree of liking each other. Speaking of which, if someone likes you like a lover, but you don't like them like that, what kind of like do you have for them? A friend? What kind of friend is that? Let's talk about this.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/2c6IYmAxWEg?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#NetFlixNChill #Friends #Sacrifice #FaceTime
Far few things have a greater impact on your life than getting fired from a job unexpectedly. Some people play it off like it ain't no thang, but truthfully, it can affect your health, your ego, your livelihood and your relationships. Sure, there are plenty of jobs in the world, but a bird in the hand beats 2 in the bush. Even when a job is stressful, or doesn't pay a lot of money, it is still the job and income that you have and finding a new job and adjusting to a new situation can be very hard. Have you ever been fired for no fault of your own? For no reason that you can point to? Even if you believe that, it might be hard to explain that to your loved ones who depend on your income contribution. When you get fired from a job unexpectedly, you are going to have to find out from the outside looking in. It might not even matter that much in the long run. You need to make some financial moves. Let's talk about this.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/42nq4qWEops?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#Unemployment #Indeed.com #HumanResources #TaxRefund
It would be a lot easier if we were talking about theft, which is crazy in and of itself. Really though. If we were talking about being careful not to flash your money during a time when people are extra predatory, like Christmas time, this would be easier. Instead, we are talking about people who will act like they love you, care about you, or want to be with you, just so they can get their hands on a few thousand dollars, because you are expecting the second-coming of Christmas time. Have you ever known any couples to get back together after a breakup, for the sole reason of getting the benefit of tax money? We see funny memes about this situation all the time on social media, but this is a real thing. Imagine having your heart repaired right around Valentine's Day, only to have it broken again, right around the end of spring, or so. Let's talk about this.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/XWxGRJdeMx4?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#ValentinesDay #ShrimpNLobster #Bills #FlyEaglesFly
You may have heard, growing up that you weren't going anywhere looking the way that you look. Where you think you going looking like that?! Teenaged girls went through this a lot back in the day. Miniskirts? No. Makeup? No. Wild hairstyles, or a rag on your head? No. Tight jeans, or pants? No. Low-cut blouses? No. Not all parents were strict and not all parents appreciated the way that their children dressed, but it seemed like they had different standards than the way that today's parents have for their children? This went for the boys too. It seemed like most parents wouldn't allow their sons to run around looking like little hoodlums, the way that you might see today. Since we are today's parents, what role have we played in the way that our youth look today? Is it acceptable? Are we okay with it? Are we responsible? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/SoMrTY38jLA?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat. #HairNMakeup #Sagging #Baldness #SuperBowl
Not everything will be told to you. Even if you really need to know. Even if you deserve to know. Even if you ask over and over again. It can be the smallest things, or it can be the most vital things, but you just might not get the answers that you need unless you find them yourself. Ever wonder why someone won't cooperate in a situation that would benefit them? It can drive you crazy. You can clearly see that they could have so much more if they would just flip a switch, or pull a lever, but for some reason, they refuse to do it. Then, you find out that it was because they were stealing money, or because they were secretly married, or because they were afraid of snakes. It can be very frustrating to try to get someone to do better for themselves. It can be very frustrating to do better for yourself, in the eyes of someone. Does it piss you off when you have to figure something out by yourself, or have you gotten used to it? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/CV2AASxlJS0?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat. #TruthSeekers #DonaldTrump #Virgo #Leo #Sagittarius
We have all seen verbal exchanges between people, where someone who was giving advice to someone else was dismissed because they didn't have their stuff together. "How you gonna tell me what I should do, when you don't have yourself together?" We have heard it all before and it makes sense to most of us, but does it really hold weight? What does sharing helpful tips about how to do something have to do with the person who is giving advice? Are you giving advice, or are you giving an instructional on how to be like yourself? Do you think that someone has to be an expert in the field that they are giving advice on, in order to be validated? Should the advisor be validated? Can you show, or tell someone how to do a plumbing job, if you are not a certified, licensed plumber? Of course not, right, But sometimes that is the very excuse that we use for rejecting someone's help, or comments. Who can we listen to then? Who can we take advice from? Who has the right to tell us what we should be doing? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtube.com/live/uXaVAXD20L8?feature=shareCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#therapy #firstAid #Grandparents #Experts
How do you express when you don't like something, or when you find something questionable? Do you say, out loud, that you don't like it, or do you express your displeasure in a bodily way? Does your face say it all? If a person presents themselves in a way that is too sexually explicit, do you usually express your approval, or disproval in a way that shows where you stand? Speaking of where you stand, is it wrong to take a stance on things that you approve, or disapprove of in today's society? In this modern age of being free, with no shaming, do you feel free to express how you actually feel about the way that people look and what they do? Do people tell you not to judge people who are gay, fat, ugly, ghetto, broke, unintelligent, or ignorant? Do you feel compelled to fall in line? Let's talk about this....if you stop being so judgey, that is. LOL.That's what we're talking about tonight at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/9zBpvEJI-LoCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#JudgementDay #CourtOfPublicOpinion #FreeLove #BBW
Unhealthy relationships are hard. They are even harder when you don't realize that you are in one. As crazy as it may sound, some people thrive and get off on toxicity in relationships. The drama works for them. It makes them feel excited and alive. The arguing, disagreements, cheating, making up, suspicion and sometimes violence doesn't scare them, but rather thrives them. They think that it's like that in everyone's relationships. It is all a game to them. A game with rules, at that. It can be a hard pill to swallow when they get into a relationship with someone who doesn't welcome, or like the drama. It can even be boring for them. Imagine thinking that it's boring to be harmonious, but fun when it's dangerous. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/eFncqCOLrPQCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#UnhealthySnacks #Toxicity #FlintMichigan #NancyPelosi
What exactly do people mean when they talk about your debt to society? We mostly hear this when people are talking about criminals who have gone to jail and have served their time. Have you ever thought about whether that is the correct term to use or not? When you commit a crime and are found guilty, either the state, or the feds try you for the offense and you serve time in one of their institutions. Does that sound like the work of society? A debt to society sounds like something that would benefit the people living in society. A debt to society sounds like a payback to the society that you have borrowed, or taken something from. If we look at it in that way, outside of doing prison time, what would be our debt to society? Are you with me? Can you get with this? Let's talk. This is going to get interesting.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/DX2edp4x18ACall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#ScratchNDent #FederalTaxes #Politics #DebtCosolidation
A lot more people have been asked to be married than the ones who have actually gotten married. In the U.S., we can only legally marry one person at a time. Plenty of people have had to postpone getting married again, because they were still married. How many times have you been asked to be married in your lifetime? What was the reason that you didn't marry the ones who proposed to you? Were you always comfortable with the acceptance, or refusal of the proposal? When you were asked to be married and you declined, did the person who asked you lose a good one, or did they dodge a bullet that they would be thankful about later? We know that some people just like to get married. Some people do it 4-5 times over their lifetime. Do you think that someone could get married more than twice and still be a good candidate for a husband, or wife? You know how people put down people for having multiple children with multiple people, does the same negative energy apply to marriages? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/EuO3A20o3qsCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#marriageofconvenience #overeating #NASCAR #divorcerate
We all know people who have high self-esteem. We all know people who have low self-esteem. Which one is easier for you to put up with? We know that when someone's self-esteem is high, it can come off as overconfidence, or conceit. When someone's self-esteem is low, they can be a sad burden on people, because you can feel like you always have to hype them up to believe in themselves and they may let people who believe in themselves take advantage of them and push them around. Of course, there are extremes to all of this, but in both examples, the people who display either of these traits can be obnoxious. How do you handle someone gives you a compliment on your looks? Do you brush it off as if they are joking? Do you say something arrogant like "I know"? Do you suspect that they are just trying to get something from you? Do you tell them that they are lying? The way that a person handles a compliment can say a lot about they way that they think of themselves, but does it always tell you the all that you need to know about them? Let's talk about this.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/xquWlYF18QoCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#LovingYourself #KanyeWest #conceited #Beyonce
Are transgender folk the only people who identify themselves with something different than what people see? What about other situations that we may not think about all the time? Examples? Let's look at some. We know that we can't argue well with our DNA makeup, but with adoption, we can grow up with and identify with a different family than the one we were born into. Do you think that people who were adopted always identify with their adopted family? What about people who weren't adopted by a family legally, but are loved by that family? What about people who grew up poor, or grew around people who they didn't think that they fit in with? Is it possible to be born in N.Y. but die feeling like you were from the west coast like Tupac did? Let's take a look at this identifying phenomenon. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1-ish on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/R0iWAVwS1i0Call 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#Tupac #Transgender #Adoption #Sexting
What are generational curses? Are we sure of what they are? Could we be overlooking some of the family traditional practices that we follow are keeping us from enjoying life and being fulfilled in life by making us sick and dying early in life? Could our generational curses be spiritually bankrupting us by limiting our options to do the right things? Let me be clear. The generational curses I'm talking about are Teenage pregnancy, having sex randomly and recklessly and having too many children from too many partners, selling drugs, using drugs, reckless spending, irresponsible financial behavior, criminal activity, submission to the wrong people and causes, eating disorders, etc. Are we cursing the next generation by not acknowledging, or recognizing what we are doing? Let's talk about this.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/7_RtzR8vXdkCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#FamilyMatters #FailedBusiness #ASPCA #DirtyJobs
High gas prices, licenses, registration, annual inspection, traffic, road rage, accidents, parking, repairs, maintenance, insurance, car payments, etc. These are some of the things that we have to deal with when we own a car. These are some of the things that people who choose public transportation point to as the reason that they don't drive. Do you agree? Are they just excuses? When you see this list of negative things about owning a car, it can make you ask what the positive things about owning a car are? There are some, right? Well, let's take a look at this.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/IAgHh7YwYUgCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#CarNote #BMW #Inflation #CreditRepair
We know that there are other options for love when we can't get the results that we're looking for in a mate, but what about when you only want the option that you have right there? This can be a tough situation because there can be times when things aren't going well in a relationship and there may be pressure to seek love elsewhere from people who care about you. There are other fish in the sea, they will tell you. You don't have to put up with this shit, they'll tell you. You deserve to be happy, they'll tell you. Things like this can keep you from sharing information about your concerns about love to anyone, because you might want to make it seem like you're not being treated right. How do you express yourself about a relationship without making your relationship look bad....even if it might be a little bad? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/2sPaecOVTFkCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#Powerball #Loving #RIP #Ukraine
How opeb are you to new people who try to get to know you? Are you usually inviting, or do you usually suspect them of something negative? Some people like new people, because it gives them a sense of a new start, a new adventure, or a new opportunity, where older opportunities have dried up. Some people get bored with aging routines and scenes and look for new people to introduce them to new things. These are strangers we are talking about though and I know that I made it sound really innocent. In reality, there are times when strangers aren't as strange to us as we think they are. Sometimes people know us, before we know them, so they already know what o do and say to get us to agree with them. Stranger danger. Are you always apprehensive of new people who try to get familiar with you? Are you the "Keep your distance until I invite you" type? We can understand why a lot of us would be that way. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/U6KdEo9ZzgUCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#StrangerDanger #NewFriends #RonDesantis #Braids
We complain about twerking, sexting and sexual behavior flooding the social media platforms. When live streams came to social media, we started to see people getting hurt in real time. We saw crimes get committed in real time. We could see the direction that the internet was going and it didn't look good. We thought that when social media started to be used to arrest and convict people of crimes, it would slow things down, or act as a deterrent. Nope. If anything has happened, it has actually gotten worse. It's not just criminals who tell of their crimes on the internet. It seems like random people just can't stop telling the world everything and then complaining about being told on. It's mind-boggling, really. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/hyvk3NEUOs8Call 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#Trolling #SocialMedia #Photos #SeniorLiving
Many people at work complain about managers and supervisors using the ideas that employees come up with and presenting them as their own ideas. It's a major complaint and can make a leader lose the confidence that his/her team has in them. The bigger question may be what can be done about it? Can you go to HR and report that your manager stole your ideas? Would it be worth it to do so? Having something stolen from you is a serious thing because it brings up the trust factor that may, or may not exist between parties. You probably wouldn't invite someone to your house if you thought that you had to watch them like a hawk to make sure that they didn't steal anything. Sometimes it's unavoidable, as in the cases where our family members, spouses, or lovers are they are thieves. Do you get really upset when someone steals something from you? Does it matter what it is? Does it matter who does the stealing? Which is worse, money, or ideas?That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/-XRc6xSp7jcCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#MissingPersons #NorthernLights #BusinessPlans #YoungThug
Black people are never short of labels and stereotypes. We do this. We do that. We don't do this. We don't do that. How much of it is true? What defines what a strong, independent Black woman is and why would Black men be intimidated by them? There seem to be so many divisive themes aimed at dividing the Black man and woman. What has been our role in fostering themes like this? Are we helping, or hurting ourselves with this type of rhetoric?Why would Black men have reservations about hooking up with Black women who exhibit strength and independence? Who are Black women showing strength and independence against? Are we at proverbial odds with each other? Is it even real? Well known, up and coming Hypnotherapist Belvin Jessup will be our in-studio guest today to discuss this very important matter. Let's do this.That's what we're talking about today at 1:30PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/UmSmL1XjHOICall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#IndependentWomen #Inclusion #Diversity #Blogging
When we say that something makes us sick to our stomach, do we mean it literally, or do we mean it figuratively? Do we mean it physically, or do we mean it mentally? It can be different for a lot of us. Some of us may use this term too much for it to be an actual thing. There are things that make us feel queasy by just looking at them. Things like a person being killed, the stench of a dead body, or the thought of your man or woman cheating on you by having sex with someone else? Can the thought of a person cheating on you really make you sick to your stomach? Many claim that it's true. Let's have a talk about it.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/eb6M3JQVgyECall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#FluSeason #Robitussin #Bugs #Reactions
A man has to protect his territory. A woman's got to do what she's got to do. You have to pay the cost to be the boss. What you won't do for your man or woman, another woman, or man will do for them. We could go on all day with the cliches. Many of them apply, but are any of them valid enough to justify someone skirting off with the one that you love, while you get left out in the cold? Opinions vary, but the feelings probably remain the same. Can someone steal your mate from you, or is it all a voluntary action? Is it possible to push your lover into the arms of another mate? Let's take a look at this tonight.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/ljkpTVNw3QUCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#Infidelity #JeffBeck #CallofDuty #Diversity
When a man and a woman are attracted to each other, they can express it in different ways. Some ways will be recognized by the other and some ways will be hidden for some reason(s). Have you ever been in a situation where you were attracted to someone in a relationship kind of way, but you had to keep it platonic because you were involved with someone else? Has anyone ever had to tone down their attraction to you, because they had someone else? Have you ever been questioned by your love about your involvement with someone you were friends with? Did you tell the truth that you, or they were attracted, or did you say that the two of you were strictly friends? Is it totally inappropriate to have dealings with someone who you are attracted to, even if they are just friendly dealings? Are you cheating in some way? Let's talk about it. That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/sRbluYnQ6dACall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#FriendsWithBenefits #WWF #RiskManagement #ScareTactics
Have you ever knowingly been on the verge of doing something that you knew would emotionally mess you up later? Like have you ever felt like you had to betray someone who you didn't want to betray, because there was something greater that was a reward for you? You may have known that your guilt would take over later, but you felt like the reward was greater than the risk and you might be able to explain it to the person later on? We have more examples. Let's get into it. That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/AZUROGCH1eoCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#Counseling #Ukraine #AffordableCareAct #MumbleRap
We all generate and protect own money in our own ways. It seems like whatever financial station that you share in life, you can be all about that money at that station. You can be the richest, or the poorest and still be about the paper associated with what your needs are. You can take care of your business of making sure that your pay your bills as a rich person, or just making sure that you keep a roof over your head. Have you ever known anyone who was broke as a joke, but makes sure that they collect every dime that is coming to them? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/bpgRvYbVghgCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#Gifts #Resturaunts #CleaningSupplies #Healthcare
All of us have victory runs and all of us have times when we are down and out and have fallen off. How does the falloff affect us? Are we able to make necessary comebacks when it comes to our careers, health, or reputations? What is a comeback all about? Is it about restoring yourswlf to the prominence that you once had, or is about getting healthy enough to be able to function properly again? How much does your audience play into your determination to get back to where you were before? When you have fallen off, do the people who you know are looking for you to succeed or fail play into your will to get back to where you were? Is your comeback for you to get more comfortable, or is it to shut up the naysayers?That's what we're talking about todat at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/qPv6kfwvhOACall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#PersonalAgenda #OldSchool #GeneralMotors #Recovery
People seem to respect when someone has worked hard for what they have gotten. We respect the trials and the tribulations. We respect the struggle. We respect the self-made man story. The person who has inherited a fortune is often teased about being fed with a silver spoon. They don't see being born into money as anything worthy of respect. Does being born into money mean that you don't have to try to get more money? What about other things besides money? What about inherited abilities, like athletics, or academics? Would you rather be born into it, or would you rather have to get it on your own? Which is better for our people? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/on8W-5H7CcACall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#SilverSpoons #HardWorking #DamarHamlin #Rockerfeller
Living together and staying together sound like the same thing, but are they? Staying somewhere can mean that you are living somewhere, with someone, or it can mean that you are living somewhere temporarily until something better comes along, or until you get your own place. Does the other party involved always know that you are only staying with them, not living with them? Maybe not, because staying together may be comfortable enough for the both of you. When you live with someone, there are a few things that have to happen. You probably need to accept that the place where you live is your address and the only place that you live. You probably have chosen this place to live as the place where you want to be. In other words, you have asked for this situation. It ain't always that way. And yes, there is much more to this. Let's talk about this tonight.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/lIXgCPr7DI8Call 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#AffordableHousing #BuffaloBills #MLKDay #KevinMcCarthy
We have male entertainers wearing skirts, dresses and carrying purses now. We have women who are the heads of their households who sometimes have to take on dual roles for their children, to make an example. We are in a free society they say. We are in a society says that anyone can be what they want to be, or what they feel that they are and the enemy seems to be the one who tells them that they are only pretending to be what they say that they are. Masculine energy. What is it nowadays. Is it what some people would call hyper-masculinity? Hyper-masculinity is seen as the traditional male roles that our grandparents probably taught us. What is femininity today? Is it wearing skirts, dresses and not having to carry heavy things? The lines have become very blurred, especially when one gender gets accused of having too much of the other's energy. Let's talk about the way that we feel about this. That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/IzK-tP4JEOICall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#Fashion #ElonMusk #Mancave #2ndAmendment
People have different ways of expressing the way that they feel about things. When that thing that they have different ways of expressing themselves about is you, it can come off as giving mixed signals. Mixed signals. What is more confusing than mixed signals, when we might not be that good at identifying signals in the 1st place. We judge whether people like us, or not by the things that we are told that people do when they either like you, or dislike you. It can be confusing because we are not all raised in the same way. Some are taught that people who talk to you nicely are the ones who like you and those who don't talk to you nicely don't like you. This isn't always the case. Do you always know when someone loves you? Have you ever been with someone who makes you wonder? Are you sure of when someone is your enemy? Are you sure of when someone hates you? Hate is such a strong word. Can you be sure? Love can be a strong word too. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/W2APIDsGshwCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#Love #Criticism #DrugRehab #SkipBayless
Control can be a beast. Control can make a person want the craziest things, in the craziest ways. In a situation like the one we're talking about tonight, a person wants to be needed and wanted as long as they don't have to be responsible for that person. Does it sound familiar? Not really? Let's explain some more. Have you ever dealt with someone who says that they want the best for you and that they want you to be able to make it on your own, but that's only when they don't have to provide your you under their own care, while you are under their own roof. If you are on your own, they want you to need them and they want you to have to come to them to get things. Sound more familiar? Let's talk about it some more.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/zdfjZITWaZYCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#independent #free #suckerfree #dependent #Needy
So, it's the new year. A lot of things will happen. A lot of thoughts will go through our heads. The new year is more than balls dropping, crowds cheering, black-eyed peas, greens and cornbread. A lot of people will buy gym memberships, plan vacations, clean out closets, delete people from their phonebooks and friend's lists, etc.. Why do people end relationships at the end of the year? Does it help? It may be true that people will try to start, or end the things that they can control. For example, you might be able to end a relationship, or a marriage, but can you end the feelings that you have about them? You may begin to workout and eat better, but can you end your urges to overeat and be lazy? We think that ending things is the thing to do, but is it? Is it really? Does the end always bring beginnings? Sounds right, right? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/_cM23kdWPmUCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#NewYearEve #NewBeginnings #Relationships #Friends
We say that we want people to be consistent in the way that act, but we want it that way on our own terms. Don't believe that? If a person was evil-hearted and mean-spirited all the time, I'll bet that you would wish that they had another side to them. We say that we hate when people are two-faced. We hate that right? We hate people who act that way, right? But, if you're a nosey person, you will be open to hearing all the gossip and information about the people that they talk about, even though you KNOW that they are talking about people that they are close to. Don't get me wrong, I'm not here to defend two-faced, or sometimey people, but we can't always have code-switching on our sides. Speaking of code switching. Do you respect the person who is different at work than they are at home? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/EFHzJr4mGPECall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#Two_Faced #Sometimey #Gemini #CodeSwitching
The decision to move someone in should always take a lot of thought, because moving in is always easier than moving out. We get settled in the place where we live and we should, but when the status of your home is in question, it can be the most stressful situation that you have ever faced. When a couples decide to live together, there are certain things that have to be worked out. Things like, do we get a place together and get a lease together, or does one of us move the other in. It's not always an equal situation, no matter how the good the intentions may be in the beginning. People move in with each other for reasons of love, finances, culture, sympathy, etc. It can start out great, but when it's time for that situation to end, it will probably be done for negative reasons. Have you ever had a problem getting someone to move out of your place? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/Lhh6dVvyU_kCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#LivingTogeteher #Eviction #AffordableHousing #MovingOut
It's not always easy to watch whet you say. It's not always easy to control yourself. It's not always easy to watch wrongdoing and injustice and not say anything about it. Sometimes it all gets to you and when you know that you're in the right and that you are the winner, it can make you want to scream it out like a professional wrestler. They always get to say how they feel about what's wrong and what's right don't they? Or, like politicians. Certain politicians throw political correctness to the side and say what they think, don't they? So, why can't you do that? Why can't you just yell out: You murderer! You thief! You monster! You bastard! It's probably because, for some reason, speaking the truth at the wrong time can validate you. It can validate you at work. It can validiate you in court. It can invalidate you in public opinion. It just doesn't seem fair....because it's not. That's how it is though. Let's talk. That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/r1BDkMbN27UCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#PoliticallyCorrect #WatchYourMouth #SuperiorCourt #HumanResources
There is a time when a man can't keep cutting his hair low, because he is balding. Some men accept this better than others. The time comes when we have to trade the comb and brush in for the razors. Knowing when will do wonders for your appearance. There comes a time when you can't act, dress, think like, or hang with the under 40, or under 30 crowd anymore. They are not your peers and unless you are making money from them, they are not helping you to advance in life. This is hard for a lot of the guys with their pants hanging down and booty shaking women to accept. Leaving your youth behind can be depressing if you don't fulfill your middle age in some constructive way. When you let something go, you accept that holding on to something that isn't serving you well is necessary. Do we know how and when to let go? Let's see. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/GZ00jTgyEHECall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#HairLoss #Aging #LostLoves #MovingOn
If someone balled up 10 dollar bills and threw them on the ground and told you to pick them up, you might do it, or you might not. If a person balled up 1 million, or more dollar bills and threw them on the ground and told you to pick them up, you might take your ego out of it and make it a game. With a small amount of money, you might bilk at picking up on someone's command, but with much higher stakes, we might see the benefit in it. Do we do this with gifts that we receive. Millions of people received Christmas gifts yesterday and millions returned gifts today. Did they return them because of the presentation? Let's see about it. Let's talk about it. That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/yAwnzg7tyKUCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#December26th #ReturnDate #Macys #FIndMyPhone
We are taught that everyone is created equal and that if you work hard, you have a chance to be very successful. We learn that the way it works is a little different than the way that we were taught, as life goes on. Those who hold on to the optimism of the original teachings are sometimes seen as being foolish. Those who reject the original teachings are sometimes seen as being bitter and pessimistic. Of course, there is common ground, but why does it seem so hard to reach it. For example, we are taught that the early bird catches the worm. We are taught that it's 1st come, 1st serve. Is it really like that though? Does the person who gets to an opportunity, usually get the opportunity, or do we find that the fix is usually in? Depends maybe, right? Let's have a talk tonight.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/o6-jpxitLNoCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#SpecialTreatment #1stCome1stServe #HeadliningAct #TruthAndLight
When you actually, really and truly love, care, and want to be with someone, the threat of them leaving you over something inappropriate is real. It doesn't have to be something that plagues you, but it will be something that will make you monitor your behavior. It will keep you honest. We have probably all seen how reckless a person can be when they have no fear that their lover will leave them. It tells you how much a person cares for someone. There are some offenses that will leave you to be single with certain people. It can by lying, cheating, stealing, disrespecting, overspending, being insensitive, having children outside of the relationship, gaining weight, changing appearance, or lifestyle, etc. Most people know what their partners likes and what they will do if you continue to do what they don't like. What's your fear factor in this regard? Is there any? Is your pride bigger than your love right now? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/cnqQB7lsmU0Call 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#divorce #single #breakups #love
We all know that people love people who they can control and manipulate. It can be strange that people like other people like that, because most people agree that you can't like someone who lets you walk all over them. Is that true? Can you like/respect someone who lets you walk all over them? We have all seen the charismatic who stays in power because the people around him are all Yes Men. Does that go against what we are supposed to like and respect? Let's talk about this looks thing for a minute. Can someone start to physically look better, or worse, based on the way that they are feeling on the inside about themselves? Physically, I mean. Have you ever witnessed a person starting to look better or worse because their self-confidence was high or low? Have you ever heard someone express that they wished someone weren't so high on themselves, because they were prettier when they were humble? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/5q6dkXBigFACall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#Self-Confidence #Self-Respect #Beauty #Judgement
Why are we contracting so many sickness conditions that we thought that we grew out of lately? Full grown adults are getting ear infections, sinus infections and upper respiratory diseases at a high rate these days? The ear, nose and throat doctors have become heroes lately. What part of the game is that? Mumps, measles and chicken pox are coming back to people who had them before. What's happening? It seems like the flood gates for old diseases have opened since the pandemic started. We may not have a reason for it that we can prove, but we can definitely talk about what we see can't we? Yes, we can, so let's do that...if we can breathe well enough to get through it. LOL.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/WoUrqLASiOwCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#Upperrespiratoryinfection #EarInfections #Measles #Vaccinations
Tis the season for giving, but as we all know, there are certain people who are on our do-not-give lists. There are some people who we have to give to, even if we don't want to. For example, if it were up to a lot of us, we wouldn't pay our bills, or taxes, but we don't have that discretion to do so. There may be people in our lives who may be expecting things from us that they may not receive. Why would anyone expect something from you that you would be willing to give? Is it that you have given before and are now not willing to give now? Who shouldn't expect anything from you this year in any way? Are they gonna be surprised when they don't get anything? Have you ever had an office Pollyanna that went left? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/Jj_h9Afa6wMCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#Christmas #Giftideas #Scrooge #Pollyanna
I guess when it comes to smoking weed these days, smoking weed never gets old, the weed smoker just gets older and older. The same could be said about the drinker. Does the legality of the substance have anything to do with the acceptance that people will have with it? Possibly, right? Regardless of whatever a person uses to get high, or drunk with, if they can maintain some type of self-control, they will be respected and accepted by most. It's a slippery slope though, because a person may think that drinking liquor straight may be okay, but drinking a 40oz. of malt liquor is old and unacceptable. Weird phenomenon when you think about it. Let's talk about the individual. Do you think that there are people who are okay with their addiction. We know that with cigarettes, there seem to be. With drinking also, but with drugs, it gets socially unacceptable, with junkie vibes to it. It will be very hard to convince someone thatyour heroin addiction is under control, although in many cases, it may be. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/LV-aRwqmVLICall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#alcohol #drugs #NA #AA #gettingold
Relationships come and go right? People come and go in and out of our lives right? Are we okay with that, even if we have little control over that? How likely are you to seek help for a relationship that is falling apart? We can clearly see that some people will let a marriage go all the way to divorce before they will do anything about it? Does that mean that they were okay with the process? It is really hard to help someone who you don't know is in trouble. Some people struggle with recognizing when they are in trouble, because not all trouble is the same and people are used to different things. If you have never been in a healthy relationship, then toxicity may just seem routine to you. The big problem with all of his is that it can apply to romantic relationships, jobs, family, or friendship. How do you know when you are in relationship trouble? How do you know when you need relationship help? What are your options? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/3SyJ8RZWahYCall In # 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#relationshiptrouble #relationshiphelp #Toxicity #relationshiphealth
Jobs, gangs, credit cards, drugs, prison, love, marriage, commitment, time, kids, church, money.It's easy to get swept up in the hype of things when you are young. That's the time when you are usually the most impressionable. That's the time when you are the most passionate. That's the time when you want to establish yourself the most and when establishment seems like the most important thing in the world. Think about the way that you looked at the world when you were young. Think of the way that you thought of change back then. Did you think that you could change the world? Did you think that the world was so much different then, than when your parents were young? What did you immerse yourself in when you were young? Are you as involved in those things now as you were then? Do you know why, or why not? Let's have this talk tonight.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/CTqZLrIj1zgCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.
There might be times in your life when it seems like people want to see you down. It can be that you have something that they want from you that they can't have. It can be that you are too happy for them. It can be that they think that you think that you are too good for them. It could be that they are jealous of you. It could be that they have a gang mentality and you are not in the gang. The life an outsider can be a tumultuous. If you are the kind of person who has to be down, having everyone against you can be an unbearable positin to be in. What do you do when you have to fight your way to success, like a battle royal? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/p0Gyy6Ll83MCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#competition #nolove #uglyduckling
Maybe you only know the family on one side of the family and they don't treat each other right. Maybe the family on both sides of the family act a little funny. Maybe you were told that only one side of your family was any good. Maybe your mom had multiple kids by multiple fathers and she got married to one of the fathers and that's who y'all considered your family to be, because that's all you were exposed to. Maybe that father adopted you all. Maybe you just never felt any love from your family, the way that you would expect for family to give. What if your family only came around when they needed money and they knew that you had some for them? There are a lot of ways to not have any family, but is any of it real, or right?That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/L6C8tLEf8YICall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#familyfirst #love #lbloodline #divorce #adoption
They say that it's not what you say, it's the way that you say it. Is that true to you? Any man that has had a good relationship with his woman has had to learn this. Sometimes the easy way, sometimes the hard way, but he has had to learn it. If he doesn't, he probably knows what it's like to get into a lot of arguments that leaves him wondering what happened. In business, it's always a good thing to learn how to frame your words in a certain way, because not doing so can put you in a position where your bottom line will be all messed up. Sometimes for good. It's never a bad thing to be careful and possibly think of how you would feel if certain things were said to you. A lot of us fail to do that and it often comes back to bite us. Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 7PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/Fb-MVigw5V8Call 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#CancelCulture #LGBTQ #DaveChappelle #KyrieIrving
When you need love, will you ask for it? We know that it can be hard. When you need money, do you ask for it, or do you hope that they will see that you're broke and will give you some? When you're in trouble, do you utilize your resources and get the team involved, or do you try to work it out on your own? When your emotions are in an uproar, do you ask for someone to offer you clarity, or do you turn to the bottle, or drugs? Sometimes, we know that we have done something that will keep us from deserving help. At least that might be the way that we feel. Does that stop you? It stops some people. Can we talk?That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/YYq5L5qU4LICall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#Needs #Wants #INeedYou #IWantYou
It can be a very controversial subject, with a lot of different opinions. What does it mean when a woman takes care of a man? Some people get pissed off when they just hear the mention of this. We probably all know a woman who pays all, or most of the bills for the men that she deals with. She may buy his clothes for him and she may even pay for his car, like Shirley from that old song. We may all know of women who take care of their men by emotionally supporting them and having their back during hard times. We may know women who don't want anything to do with the concept of taking care of a man, because that's what a man is supposed to do for a woman. We can't forget the woman who is with a momma's boy and can't break him out of his dependent issues. What are we talking about really now? Is it really anyone else's business how a woman takes care of her man? Well, we make it our business, so let's get into it.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/IojliDLUPwkCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#ManChild #IndependentWoman #RedFlags #GenderRoles
All my Sagittarius and Capricorn folks should weigh in on this. Do you get slighted around the holidays because your birthday is around that time? Do you feel like you have gotten less than other people have gotten? Has the reverse happened? Have you gotten more than other siblings and friends have gotten because your birthday was around that time? What if you're not a Christian? Does it, or has it made any difference? Have you found a way to beat out the competition? We have middle-child syndrome, do we also have Christmas birthday syndrome too? We probably have brothers and sisters who have complained about this phenomenon for years. Are their complaints legit? Can we talk about this?That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/T-ZpkWk407wCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#ChristmasTrees #HappyHolidays #Birthdays #Astrology
One thing about that we can all agree on is that we have all liked someone and have tried to take it to the next level of a relationship. What have we learned about other people and ourselves through our past? Have we tried to change our experiences from what they were before? Have you ever been blamed forchoosing the wrong person to date, as if you meant to fall in love with someone who was wrong for you? Has it ever been true? For example, have you ever dated someone because the had a lot of money, or just because they had a nice body? Maybe? Maybe a little, but not a lot? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/9g41IEe3smYCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#ExLovers #Breakups #Babymommas #Babydaddies
It's Christmas time again and all over the world, children will be lead to believe that a fat, jolly white man will deliver them presents, by reindeer driven sleigh, if they were good this year. As we get older, many of us have abandoned the decision to have our kids believe in such a character like that. Many have made an alternative decision to tell their kids the complete truth about the way things are and how they really happen. That can be a good thing, or it can be an irresponsible thing. It can be a good thing because the belief that a child will understand the way that the world works and building a foundation of trust between parent and child is important. It can be an irresponsible thing because a child isn't always ready to process the information that adults can, with the same ease. As we know, a lot of adults can't deal with the realities of life very well either. Children should be told the truth, but their age and maturity should be taken into consideration also. We should probably take a child through the process of the truth, rather than getting them from the beginning to the end too fast. Should a child know that the reason that he/she has a stepparent is because their biological father would not marry his/her mom when she became pregnant? There are probably better ways to handle that situation and others. Let's look at some.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/2g2oSxiktAICall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#SantaClaus #ChristmasStories #HolidayMagic #TellYourKids
The fear of losing the thing that has attracted people to you can be stressful, but you have to look at your life and the choices that you have made. There's no question that it's a good thing to be ambitious and work hard to be able to afford the trappings of financial success. Ya know, bigger check, bigger car, bigger house, but is it okay if it is at the expense of only attracting people to you because of those things? Can you live with your friends and access being bought? I have to ask, because some people are perfectly fine with people only being along for the ride, as long as the ride is long and the vehicle is theirs. What about your body? Be honest, does the fear of not being as young and pretty consume some of your peace? Do you feel the fear of your man running to someone else to compensate for your butt and boobs not being as firm as they used to be? What kind of shit is that right? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/3-aNkrwOPFwCall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#BBL #MBA #MontgomeryCounty #FriendsNFamily
The cat scratches up all the furniture and sometimes craps where it's not supposed to, but it catches the mice. Do you keep it, or do you get rid of it? The dog chews up shoes, steals food and will shit in the house if you don't walk the dog. Nobody likes to walk the dog, not even the kids, but the kids love the dog. Do you keep the dog? The dog is a purebred. Does it matter? Pet owners who are very humanitarian may put up with a lot of things that pet owners who have more human expectations will. Putting up with a bad pet can be similar to putting up with a bad lover, or spouse. They can both feel like you paid for them and might want to get a return on your investment. It's an odd approach to love, but not necessarily an uncommon one. Have you ever dropped a cat off at a place an hour drive away? Does that seem cruel to you? Plenty have done it. You have to be pretty fed up to do it.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/W4i-jjLeYv0Call 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#CatLovers #DogOwners #CatDad #DogGirl
No mind games. I don't want to play any mind games. I don't want anybody who wants to play mind games. No mind games. You need to stop playing. You're too old to be playing. I'm too old to be playing mind games. We hear these cries more and more as we get older. We assume that by games, or mind games, we are talking about dealing with someone who doesn't make us feel sure that they only want us. Of course, that's only an assumption. Could we all be missing the point about the way that love is solidified? Some people lead their heart to the finish line with their minds. There is a mental element to their love. They have to be mentally stimulated in or respect their lover. They find it hard to love someone who can't keep up with them mentally. Other people lead to love with their hearts. They fall in love with someone based on how they make them feel. Is one better than the other? Is the mental element missing more from one than the other? Let's talk.That's what we're talking about tonight at 7PM ET on The Daily Gogetemism Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/aG5NYJPidnICall 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat.#MindGames #MentallyDisabled #CrazyInLove
There's a difference between telling the truth and turning yourself in...or is there? It can depend on who you are and what you've done and what authority anyone has over what actions you take. For example, we all know the cliche' about being caught with your hands in the cookie jar, right? That's not exactly a case of turning yourself in, but it is a way of having to tell the truth. How about being caught red-handed? Did you know that was a saying, based off of handling money that was damaged by a dye-pack in a bank robbery? Once again, there's hardly any way to explain your way out of the situation, but you haven't volunteered any information yet. When you turn yourself in, you relieve an investigating party of having to investigate. Even if you plead guilty in court, you have saved the cops the hassle of having to take the time to get you. Would you do it? Have you done it? Does it make sense to do it to you? Can we talk about it?
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Surrender #Redhanded #CrinminalCharges #MurderRate
You may have endured what it was like the 1st time, or the times when you have dated someone who was significantly younger, or older than you were. If you were a minor and tried to introduce a twenty-something year old to your parents, it may not have gone well. What if it did go well? If YOU were the twenty-something year old and you brought a minor home with you to meet your parents, would it be okay? If her parents were okay with it, would it send a stronger message to you of confirmation? Sometimes the things that we decide for ourselves are a lot different from the decisions that we would accept for our kids. When it comes to our kids, sometimes the laws of the state, as well as the laws of nature come into play. Can we talk about this?
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You gave me alopecia! My acne didn't start acting up until I started messing around with you! As ridiculous as it sounds, you may have people who feel this way. If you are in an abusive relationship, or a relationship that causes you a lot of stress, it can take a toll on your physical heal, particularly your complexion and your hair. Is your partner to blame though? Well, let's take a look at it.
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Alopecia #Stress #Acne #Health #Skin
Strange things can happen when you catch someone in a lie. Some can't lie to you when they look you straight in the face. Some people scratch their heads, blink their eyes, or do some other revealing, physical motion when they lie. Some people get really passionate when they aren't telling the truth and they really try to sell the lie. They are yelling, screaming, crying type of liar and they are comparable to a boxing promoter that is selling a fight. Some people let them get away with the lie because it seems like there will be more negative consequences for exposing them. These people are like bullies and liars. What do you know? What have you seen? Let's rap it up.
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lyingandcheating #liarandathief #GrandTheftAuto
I don't know about you, but when I was young young, it seemed like everybody participated in the commercial part of the holidays. It didn't matter what holiday it was, unless you were raised in the church. If you were raised in the church, your participation in the holidays was probably more tied to religion. Of course, when you are younger, your field of vision is much smaller than when you get older and more exposed. Nowadays, it seems like more people are practicing a consciousness that sometimes excludes them from joining in holiday activities. You might not gather and eat on Thanksgiving. You might not give gifts on Christmas, or even call it Christmas anymore. Black people have become very divided over the decision to celebrate holidays, or not. Sometimes it turns into arguments and resentment. Let's look at a few things that surround this. Can we talk about this?
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Thankgiving #Christmas #Paganholidays #Christianright
This might be the most frustrating thing that anyone who loves someone else has to deal with. Whether you're a parent, a son, daughter, lover, spouse, aunt, uncle, grandparent, coach, teacher, neighbor, friend, fan, supporter, doctor, nurse, patient, client, giver, or recipient, you will have to face a situation where you will have to involuntarily be a witness to the damage, or demise of someone who you care about. You can nurse a person back to health, but it's nearly impossible to stop a person from getting to the point where they will need the care, because of some self-inflicted wound that they have caused. It's hard to deal with a knucklehead and most of us have been a knucklehead at some time, or some reason. Why can't we stop them? Why can't we accept that we can't? What can we do? Let's talk about this.
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Is the 2nd chance overrated in our world? Do we give people 2nd chances with unrealistic expectations of what they can give us? Do we outright give people 2nd chances, or do we start counting where we want it to count? Do we manipulate people with the whole 2nd chance declaration? What about the 3rd strike? How much faith do we put into the 3rd strike? Does it really mean that we're out? If the 2nd chance is questionable, what about the 3rd strike? Are these baseball related approaches to conduct working for us?
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Let's take a look at the 2 words. When you think of the word options, what do you think about? You probably think of the different ways, or things that you have at your disposal and may be trying to decide which one you are going to choose, if you're going to choose at all. What about your choices. When I think about my choices, I think about the things that I have already thought about and may have already done. My choices have decided where I am right now. My choices may have contradicted my options. Maybe. What do you think? Can we talk about this?
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Useless. Unable to use. Without purpose. Ineffective. Worthless. Valueless. When you think of the word useless and what it really symbolizes, it's hard to imagine that the word could apply to a person. Think about the things that you have called useless in your life. More than likely, you have used the term when your expectations of performance of something did not do what you really needed it to do at the time. It probably repeated the disappointment again and again, making you give it the label of being useless. Useless to who though? Useless to you, or totally useless? A remote control without batteries is totally useless for changing the channel on a device, but it could still be used as a paperweight. Anyway, let's talk about what is useless to us these days and how far we might take it.
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There are people who will lie, cheat, steal, or kill to get what they want. There are also people who believe that if you won't lie, cheat, steal, or kill to get what you want, then you must not really want it. A little extreme? Maybe, but even if these extreme tactics aren't done by you, you might think about doing them, until you can come up with a better way to get what you want. How bad is a want, compared to a need? Sometimes wants can feel as severe as a need. You might say that a want is more mental and a need may be more physical. Still, that's a judgement and an opinion. How far have you ever gone to get something that you have wanted? Have you ever gone too far? Would you ever do it again, if you had to? Have you ever lived to regret going far lengths to get something? Let's talk.
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We hear this kind of story on the internet all the time. We hear this story in real life all the time. We heard Mary J. Blige talk about it on Ain't Gon' Cry. We may have lived it in our own lives. It's a common theme amongst jilted lovers, scorned exes and divorce proceedings. How much weight does it hold? Is it for real, or is it a feeling? What does helping someone to get on their feet mean? What is the motivation of helping someone get on their feet? What does leaving someone mean? Would you ever get serious about someone who was at a much lower financial position than you are? Is someone moving on from you when they are in better shape a consequence? Is financing someone supposed to be a way of keeping someone? Let's talk.
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It's hard to deal with someone who doesn't know how things work, but wants what they see. For example, a man might want a woman who he considers to be beautiful, but he may not understand the process that some women go through in order to be attractive to the world. So. what that man gets at home might be a lot different than what he sees on the streets. People are very impressed by people who are rich, or wealthy. They listen to what rich people say, do and they admire them. They don't seem to understand what it takes to accumulate a large amount of money and keep it. All they care about is the results. Do you understand it? Let's talk.
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results #bossup #gettothebag #payday
It's not like we have never suspected that someone who we worked with who was receiving special favor and gratitude from the boss was doing this. It's not like we have never seen cases where we know that this was actually happening. It's not like some of us haven't actually done it and swore that it wasn't the case and were lying through our teeth. This has been the case plenty of times and almost every time it has happened, the parties involved didn't think that there was anything wrong with it. Carrying on sexual activity with owners of businesses, supervisors, managers, etc., hardly ever is good for employee morale, but how much does it benefit the parties involved. Does screwing the boss ever end well? Let's talk about it.
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Some people stop speaking to people to actually get their attention. It can be a form of control. If they know that the person that they are not speaking to is the kind of person that would rather work things out sensibly, than cut off communication, they might use them to gain a more advantageous position. Sometimes people stop speaking to other people because they can't agree on anything when they speak to each other. It can be frustrating to deal with someone who seems to want to undermine you, or pick apart your words to discredit you, every time you speak. Sometimes people stop speaking to each other because of rumors and hearsay. Sometimes, instead of confronting the situation, people just stop talking to the other person. There's more to it, so let's get into it.
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#communicationbreakdown #toxic #controlissues #manipulation
We all know some people who used to be able to eat whatever they wanted and wouldn't gain a pound. We all knew women who had multiple children who were able to snap back to their original size like it was nothing. We all know people who absolutely NEVER used to get sick. We all knew somebody who had a really great looking body, even though they didn't used to workout. We all knew someone who used to be able to work all day and not, or play sports all day and night. The Pandemic made a lot of us in touch with what we're not able to do as well as we did before anymore. How well are you dealing with your health status nowadays? Are you okay with it? Has it made you a little depressed? Are you not feeling well right now? Let's talk about it.
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healthandfitness #sickness #LAfitness #planetfitness
As the old saying goes: They hate me, because they can't be me! Well, it's not really an old saying and may not often apply to a situation, but when it does, it sticks hard. When someone tries to undermine you, they put your authority, or your position in question. They may do it face-to-face, of they may do it around others. They make it obvious that they don't respect who, or what you are. and they usually try to get others to question it too. An example of this may be when a subordinate employee tries to show a supervisor, or manager that they are not the boss. They might do it by showing that they can get around following their rules, or they may do it by going over your head to get something that they want. In your personal life, people may try to undermine you by trying to diminish your sense of self. Sometimes by pointing out mistakes that you have made with other people, or at other times. They'll do this when your confidence seems to be at a high point. How do you deal with a person who tries to undermine you? Let's talk about this.
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#toxic #disrespect #authority #ratchet
They say that being lonely is hard and it is, but the presence of one person can fix that. Being in love can be really hard, when the love that you have carries an expectation that won't be fulfilled. There is nothing worse than being in love alone. Nothing. Love is truly not for the weak. You have to be strong to endure the damage that love can inflict to your emotional stability. Love challenges your heart, your pride, your ego, your sense of worth, your ability to assess things correctly and a whole lot of other things that you think that you usually get right. It takes a strong person to take the punishment that love may give and like a championship season, it will all be worth it to you, while other people will question whether you were really the best team.
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#LoveHurts #LoveIsPain #MarriageofConvenience #TrophyWife #Toxic.
We should always be nice to people, but sometimes things get in the way that can make it hard to be nice to everyone equally. Do you consider yourself to be a nice person? Would most people agree with you? There are some people who really struggle with being nice to others and when they are nice to people, they will usually let you know that they are trying to be nice. LOL. Some people are only nice when they want something.This doesn't usually go over well with people, once they figure out that that is the only time that you are nice to them. Then again, some people fall for people only being nice to them when they want something from them. It can be weird. If it chews you up inside to be nice to people in general, what does that say about you? Let's talk about it.
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Everyone has that weird, quirky, eccentric thing that they do. Some people don't like it. Some people may hate it. Some people may envy it. Some people may try to copy it, but it's your thing and it makes sense to you, even if doesn't make sense to anyone else. You've been doing it since whenever and it's probably not gonna stop anytime soon. It could be your way of thinking. It could be the way that you eat. It could be the music that you listen to. It could be the people that you follow. It could be your beliefs, or your religion, etc. It's your thing. What is it?
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crazy #eccentric #quirky #unique
Whether you are looking to move on, or stay in the same company, here's what you should consider. What kind of company would you like to work for? This is actually your decision, even if companies that are available won't exactly match your choices. You can still decide which ones come the closest. Remember that looking fora job is a job within iself, so don't get discouraged when things aren't moving ahead as fast, or as smoothly as you would like them to. Try to be patient. The more you look, the more you will learn. Tune into this show to get some insight and some helpful tips on how to get the job that you really want. Go get that money!
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Jobs #Employmentbenefits #401k #unemployment
The leak in the roof might be able to wait, but that leak in the faucet has to go! We know that a faucet leak is a lot less expensive to fix than a new roof, so put the pots under the leak and hope that it stops raining. Like cars, there are always repairs that need to be done around a house. ALWAYS. It can be a real pain in the budget. It's also the thing that can discourage people from wanting to own their own home. They feel like it would be easier to just have the landlord fix the problems, while you withhold the rent until he does. Home insurance is a must for homeowners, but you would be surprised by how many people carry homeowner's insurance, but fail to use it, because they think that their premiums will increase. Let's talk about these home repairs.
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homerepairs #homeinsurance #Plumbingandheating #Roofing
Very little things can bring you down like needing your car fixed and not having enough money to get it fixed. Very few things are as publicly embarrassing as your car breaking down in the middle of the street. Cars are behind you honking, because they don't know that your car won't move and you are blocking traffic. It can make you feel extremely lonely and targeted. Car problems can seem endless. When you're dealing with a problem car, it can seem like you always have something else to fix on a car. A car does not care about any other bills that you need to pay. It can be a real drag. What can you do about it? Let's talk about that.
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carproblems #autoloan #transmission #newengine
People say that they're their own worst critics. Sometimes it's true. Sometimes it's false. When it's true, the smallest thing can bring a person down, when they do something wrong. We all lose a battle that we fight, at some point. Why do we beat ourselves up when we don't win, or do we get too the point where we do so well for so long, that we expect to win every time? We know that we can't win them all. Let's look at how it looks when we beat ourselves up after we lose. I mean, really beat ourselves up after we lose. How bad can it get? Let's get into this.
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People dream of breaking up with someone without being wrong, or having any hard feelings. Is it possible? If it is possible, why would we be looking for a situation like that? If you want to break up with someone, why would you be looking for absence of guilt, if you have done the right things? Are you breaking up with someone because of them, or because of you? SOme people have gone as far as to sort of pay people off at a beakup. What is that all about? Sort of like a severence package at a job. For example, they have set them up at their own place, gave them a substantial amount of money, etc. It almost seems like hush money. do you think that it's suspect to break up with someone and be worried about their feelings at the same time? Can it be done? Let's talk.
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When you're an animal, a lot of times, your worth is determined by your lineage. If you are a pure breed, with no mixed breed of dog, you will be worth a lot of money, even if you have never yelped, or barked before. Sometimes people get caught up in this kind of thinking for human beings too. Sometimes when we know where a person is from, or what family they come from, or some kind of history of a person's background, it can have an effect on the way that you see a person, before you know them. It can raise expectations of them that aren't realistic. What about you? Do you think that it would be an advantage for your city, or your family's reputation to precede you? Have you had good success building your own legacy, or has your background held you back? Which would you choose, if you could choose for yourself?
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reputation #heritage #repyourcity #Philliesnation
Have you ever known the truth about what someone was doing, or what they were saying, or who they were, but you didn't tell them that you knew? If so, what were you trying to do in your secrecy? Were you trying to see if they would come forward with the truth? Were you testing their integrity and honesty? Were you protecting them in some way? Were you waiting to see how it was going to play out? Did you want to see if they were a total liar and if they lead double life? Did you share the same lie, or circumstance in common with them? For example, some women have known that their man was cheating and who he was cheating with and they chose not to say anything, for whatever reason. Could you do that? Some have even known that their man had children outside of the relationship. Could you? Have you ever known that someone shared the same illness as you, but you kept it a secret as long as they kept it a secret? Let's talk about this.
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secrets #lies #xfiles #blacktruth
We all know as adults what it feels like to owe money. We know about bills, we know about work, we know about salary, we know about wants, we know about needs, we know about hardships, we know about pain, we know about debt, we know about having enough money. Sometimes we may fall into the thinking that money will take care of all of our problems...and then we get the flu, we get someone pregnant, we get into an abusive relationship, we have to care for someone who is sick, we have to go to court for an offense that we can't pay our way out of, welose something that we wanted to keep, someone who we love dies, someone wants to divorce us we.....
Which hits harder, money stress, or life stress that money can't fix? Let's talk about it.
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moneyproblems #lifestyleissues #hunger #sickness #Kanye
In your life's business, you are going to have supplies that you use. The life supplies can be love, family, friends, experiences, drugs, money, health, sex, sports, food, gambling, cars, houses, money, or anything that you make important in your life. Sometimes your life can get full, or it can become empty and you will have to decide what needs to be re-supplied, or thrown out. Feelings get hurt behind this inventory audit. Some people may benefit from it also. When you decide what you need and what you don't need, it might actually cause you some growing pains. It might make you question yourself about your judgement and your decisions. Let's take some inventory today.
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inventory #stock #rotatestock #outwiththeold
Have you ever been involved with someone who seems to want to concentrate on all of your flaws? Have you ever been with someone who seems to want to criticize every little detail of the things that you do? If you have ever been exposed to a black light, you'll notice how you can see every fiber and stain on your clothes that you would never see under any regular lighting. Black lights show things that shouldn't be seen. They expose blood, semen and all types of things that may be private, or even secret. A black light can make you very insecure. That's what being in love with someone who is a black light is like. It's like being in love with someone who is a hater and is targeting you, all the while, loving you at the same time. Got it? Let's talk.
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blacklight #exposure #flawless #toxic #emotionalabuse
We know how easy it is to appreciate the way that someone looks. Good-looking people sometimes get away with things and get favors that people who don't look as good don't get away with. What about pride? What about beyong the the good looks? What do you learn to appreciate and show off about a person that has nothing to do with the way they look? Does the person that you're with know that you are proud of them, or that you appreciate them for who they are, what they can do, or what they contribute? There are plenty of people who feel like they are ONLY appreciated for what they look like. There are people who think that they are appreciated for what they can contribute, but not for their looks too. Do you help to balance things out? Will you now? Let's talk about it.
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pride #proudmom #love #attention
Sometimes your worst enemy is your ex-friend who couldn't get over on you. One thing about used to be friends is that they know some private things about you and they have some strong, insider opinions about you. If your used to be friend is now your current opponent, you can probably expect him/her to give anyone who will listen, the skinny about who the "Real You" is. A lot of times, this is because you didn't give them their way, or you didn't allow them to blackmail, extort, or manipulate you. If can get very, very deep for them. It's a strange thing about some friendships. Some people's definition of friendship is building a comradery based on control. When you don't submit to that, all hell can break loose. Nobody acts angrier than a person who failed at getting over on you. Let's talk about that.
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frenemies #ex-lovers #useandabuse #vandalism
Finances can put a strain on a couple, even when they're in love. What happens when the financial setup of a couple's relationship is shaken up and the woman might have to pitch in, or actually provide? Can most couples survive this and remain together? Will the man feel emasculated and lose self-esteem? Will the woman feel overwhelmed and start to lose respect for her man? Will they both feel guilty for not feeling like they are contributing enough to each other? What will the kids see? What will the example to them be? What about everyone on the side that has something to say about it, but doesn't have anything to do with it? Let's talk.
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unemployment #payrate #stayathomedad #rolereversal
What happens to people who believe that no one is the boss of them? Is it even possible? Everybody answers to someone, but some people don't seem to recognize that in situations where they need to respect that. When any of us go to get a job, we grant someone the authority to tell us what to do. Still some people start jobs and lose jobs because they don't seem to understand that you don't get to guide yourself at the workplace. What about police, judges and prison personnel? Does it have to go that far before some people understand that they don't always get to make all the decisions about what they have to do? How do you have parents and not understand how authority works? Let's talk about this
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police #judges #jury #bosses
We have all probably known someone who was cheating on their lover, or their spouse, but accused their lover or spouse of cheating on them. We have probably all knew someone who took something that didn't belong to them and acted like someone else did it. We all have probably known someone who was using drugs when they said that they weren't using, or wasn't overeating when they were overeating, or whatever. What separates a lot of us who have done something wrong is how we act when we haven't been caught, or how we act when we think that someone is on our trail. Sooooo, how do the people who you know act when they are dead wrong? Let's get into this.
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deadwrong #politicallycorrect #districtcourt #courtofappeals
When you fall in love with someone who has children with someone else, there are going to be challenges. At a certain time in your life, the dating pool is going to have the expectancy that a person will have children. That will probably apply to yourself as well. If you get serious with someone, the issue of blending families will more than likely come up as the two of start to grow together. What did you do when you are dealing with someone who has multiple children by multiple partners? Is it a turnoff from the beginning? Does the way that that person treats you matter the most? Do you investigate how they treat each child and watch how their relationship with the other parent is? If you deal with someone who seems to prioritize the last child that they have over the ones that they have had previously, is that a red flag for you? Do you believe that there is a way for all children to be treated equally? Do you subliminally think that as long as your child is taken care of, that's all that matters? Let's talk.
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childcare #childwelfare #childabuse #childadvocacy
You never forget how you felt when you weren't getting better. The coughing, aching, weakness. The isolation, the uncertainty, the loneliness, the hopelessness. The feeling of why it had to be you and why at this time in your life? The lack of understanding, the hospital visits. the anxiety. The attention, the care from others, the medical advice. The recovery, the light at the end of the tunnel, the breakthrough. The relapse. Being sick or injured sucks! We all experience it at some time in our lives though. Some of us are very sick as children and grow up to be healthy adults. Some of us are very healthy and athletic as children and get sick later when we get older. Almost everyone reminisces about the way they were and the things they could do before they got sick, or hurt. Let's talk about it now.
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#pain #sickness #COVID #Phizer
We are all born to 2 parents, a mom and a dad. In the Black community, we have unfortunately learned to grow up without the presence, or guidance of our fathers. It's not a situation that we are proud of, but it IS a situation that too many of us have become familiar with. The woman and especially the mother has become the greatest and most important chess piece in our lives. The Black mother is often the head of our households, the chief decision-maker, the person who leads and influences us and our future. She often is the only one who raises us? What happens when we don't have a good relationship with our mothers? What happens when we see our mom as our bigger opposer, than our helper? Where does a young girl learn to be a good woman if her mother is not there to show her the way? Where does a man learn to respect women, if the 1st woman in his life is the woman that he can't stand? How deep can this get? Better get your scuba gear.
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motherslove #parentalguigance #singleparentfamily
You may not have been born with a handicap, but you may have developed one over the years. It could have come from an accident. It could've developed over time from a hereditary disease. It could be an on and off thing, or whatever. The bottom line is that we all may have some type of disability that we have to deal with, even if it's just a speech impediment, or brain freeze. A handicap is a handicap. What do you do about your handicap? Do you receive a check for it? Do you try to hide it? Do you use it to get sympathy from others? Do you literally you it as a crutch? Do you use it as an excuse for bad, or inappropriate behavior? What do you do to manage your handicap? Let's talk about this.
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disabilities #handicaps #specialolympics #socialsecurity
A breakup with someone who you've had kids with can sometimes bring out the worst in a person. It can happen to men and women. Our frustration and jealousy can be projected onto the children who came from the failed relationship. Why do some men become so concerned about who their children are exposed to after they break up with the mother, or father of a child? Were they that attentive to the safety of the child when they were together with the mother, or father of the children? Were they even the type of parent that was the best parent for the child themselves? In other words, should the kids even be around their own parents, if they are actin so erratic after a breakup? Is it just a form of control? Is it sour grapes. Is it fair? Is it even realistic? Can you basically tell an ex how to conduct themselves as a parent after you are no longer with them? Do you agree that you shouldn't have people who parents are dating around their children? Let's talk about it.
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relationships #breakups #children #childsafety
You can delete and block people off of your social media and your phone, but what do you do about the people that you can't handle that way? What do you do about the people who you consider to be toxic, who you have been raised by, who you grew up with, who you have been friends with for most of your life, who you have given birth to? What is social toxicity? We know that the word toxic means that something is poisonous and hazardous to us, so we can assume that when we call people toxic to us, they make us feel bad and it can spread to other areas of our lives and to other people that we care about. At the same time, most of us claim that we have our own mind and are not influenced by other people and their ways. Which one is it? Do we control the way that we think, or do are we influenced by the negative ways and actions of people that we are exposed to on a regular basis? Let's see about it.
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toxic #badinfluence #negativity #violence
Are you offended when someone gives you something to do before they will give you something that you think that you deserve? If you are an actor, or a musician, you would be used to having to audition for jobs that you want. You would know how to prepare for that. You would see the benefit of it. What about non job-related things? Would you agree to beat out other men, or women who want to be with someone you want to be with, in order to be with them? What if someone made it clear that you had to beat out the competition in order to be with them? We know that there are plenty of people who do, but would you? We do this for jobs that we want, We do this for things that we think will benefit us, but would we do it for love, or friendship? Probably not huh? Let's see.
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auditions #tryouts #competition #teams
We're talking about a real crime family. Your bloodline, your parents, siblings, aunts, uncles and cousins. What happens when you grow up around a bunch of cheaters, liars, thieves, drug addicts, hustlers and people who handle their adversity with violence? Will you be able to be the rational one? Will you be the one who goes straight? Will you be able to switch your values from street values to the kind of values that will allow you to live longer and more comfortably in life? When you are raised into something, it is a lot easier to see that as an easier was to become successful, especially if you have seen the crimes pay off big and uncontested. Do you think that it's possible to break free of a criminal life that you were born into? Let's talk about it.
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crimefamily #mobties #criminalbackground #mobboss
We have all probably been with someone who was so good in bed that they were bordering on being addictive. When it came to the other things that made you want to be with them, they may have been terrible. They may have had problems with communication, they may have been cheaters, they may have been mean, vindictive, petty, aloof, or emotionally unavailable. The only way that any of your troubles could be addressed was in the bedroom and they may have never gotten addressed properly. Still, the sex was great. Super great in fact. What do you do in a case like this? Most of the time, relationships like this don't last very long, but in some cases, they may have gone on for longer than they should have and even produced children. Now what?
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sex #sexaddiction #bedwives #sextherapist
If you have money, you're supposed to be happy. If you have love, you're supposed to be happy. If you're making it on your own, you're supposed to be happy. If you have friends and family who love you, you're supposed to be happy. If you own your own house, you're supposed to be happy. If you have money left over after you pay bills, you're supposed to be happy. Ifyou're pretty, or handsome, you're supposed to be happy. If your career is going well, you're supposed to be happy. If you're in good health, you're supposed to be happy. Well, is it working? People judge what happiness should look like from a lot of different angles, but most judge it from what they want for themselves. Some people never think about what the individual needs to be happy. They be like: You got it going on, you should be happy! Let's look at it now.
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loveandhappiness #depression #anxiety #suicideawareness
They say that when most men cheat, they cheat with someone who is not as pretty as their wives are, not as successful as their wives are, not as responsible as their wives are, not as desirable as their wives are, not as sophisticated as their wives are, not as well put together as their wives are. I have even heard that men usually cheat with women who ain't worth nothing and who are just whores. On the flip side, they say that when women decide to leave their man, that it is always a well calculated move and that they always cheat with a man who is an upgrade from their man. He is usually richer, smarter, more responsible, braver, better looking, more successful and the ONLY reason that she carefully chose this man is because her current man left her absolutely no choice, but the man that she cheats with will be the man who she will be with for the long haul. Is all, or any of this true? Do y'all believe that it is this way? I'm sure that we all have stories. Let's rock.
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cheatingwives #2ndmarriage #sidechicks #infidelity
What happens when you were once a thug, or a bum, or a whore, or were lazy, or were a thief, or a liar, or were uneducated, or were broke, or were a hater, or were on drugs, or were just one of the many nameless people, who were just getting by. Now, you have stepped your game up and are on your way to doing bigger and better things, but your circle is still full of people who are doing the same things that you stopped doing. Will you still be able to kick it with them? Will you still be in love with them? Will it seem like you have forgotten where you come from? Will they turn their backs on you, because they think that you have changed too much for the worst and become snooty? Can the new you stand up with the old them, without trying to change them? Let's see about it.
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newme #sameolething #newbeginnings #education
We hear singers say it all the time, but most of us cringe at the thought of ever having to say it. Don't leave me baby! Please, please, please don't leave me! Not even close? What about if you have ever pled with Gog to spare the life of a loved one who was dying? No? Not the same? What about if you have ever tried to convince a loved one to not move away? Never. Not the same? Let's talk.
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separation #begging #pleading #God
Honestly, there can be times in a person's life where they feel suicidal. If not suicidal, they may lost their zest for life. They may have forgotten their reason for living.. They may have lost their purpose for being on this earth. It could be because of a failure in their lives. It can be because of a death of a loved one. It can be because of depression, or mental illness. It could be because their placement in too many negative situations. It can be because of fear. Many times, there is something that can bring your quest for living back. It can be the birth of a child, or a newfound, unexpected purpose in life. New experiences can renew a person's quest for a more fulfilling life. Have you been there? Have you ever felt like life wasn't worth anything and then experiences an awakening that brought you back from wishing you were dead? Let's talk about this.
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#suicide #suicidehotline #newlife #licenserenewal
What are we talking about when we talk about worth? Usually, what we're talking about is how far we would go to get something done, or to have something that we want. How bad do we want it? What would we do to have it? What would you sacrifice to have it? Would you give up something else that you like, in order to get this thing? Would you sell it and if so, how much would you charge for it? How much would you pay to get this thing? Worth can have a sentimental value. Does a sentimental value make something less valuable, or does it raise the price? What are some things that are worth a lot to you, that don't seem to worth too much to anyone else that you know? Anything? Nothing? Let's talk about this. Would you steal to get something that you want?
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#jailtime #convictions #sentences #criminalcourt
People want to be happy. People want to be happy in love. People want to be happy in love together. Nobody wants to be hurt in love. Most people don't want to be in a situation where they feel like they are in more love with someone than someone is in love with them, even though they want to be deep in love.The fear of being hurt by someone can make a person do harmful things to someone else. Sometimes it happens in retaliation and sometimes it happens proactively, as a warning. Would you ever be petty with someone who you love, to show them that you don't play no games? Do you think that it's necessary? Does it work? How petty can it get? Let's talk about it.
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petty #smallchange #battleofthesexes #housewives
Nobody likes to go to court. Many people don't like the terms of a settlement either. Sometimes it's necessary when people are at odds and one or both sides really think that they are right. That's when you have to take legal action and let a 3rd party decide who is right, or wrong in a situation. In other words, you may have to sue. Are you ready for that? Can you take a friend, or a relative to court and still keep mutual acquaintances from taking sides, or alienating the other? For some people, taking someone to court is a very last resort, when all attempts at a reasonable compromise has failed. For other people, they will sue you in a minute. Nonetheless, most people would probably agree that things can never be the same if the courts become involved. So, have you ever done it? Have you ever had to take a friend, or family member to court to sue them? Would you? Let's talk about this.
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acquittal #judges #guilty #notguilty
Some of us used to drink, smoke, get high, cheat, lie, steal, gamble, fight, lose control, yell, sabotage, cause trouble, go to jail, repeat mistakes, use violence, bully, etc. You changed your life though. You got it together. You corrected the error in your ways. You're a better man/woman. What can make you backslide? What makes the new you revert back to the old you? Are their triggers? Is it by necessity? Are you able to turn it off when you revert back, or are you stuck when you get back there? Does the old you ever feel good? Let's talk.
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newlife #oldways #timemachine #pasttime
9 times out of ten, if you ask people how they are making it, they will tell you that they have made it on their own, or that they are making it on their own. Is it always like that when they say that though? What does it mean to make it on your own? Does it mean that you are doing well, or does it mean that you are still alive? It sounds like if you are making it on your own, you have taken matters into your own hands and created a life for yourself that is fruitful. If you are surviving on your own, you may be just making it and are only doing so, because you couldn't get the help that you needed. You may be helping others if you are making it on your own. You may really need help, if you are surviving on your own. Maybe they really are the same thing to you. Let's talk about it.
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independence #independentwomen #emancipatedminors #selfmademen
We gather friends over our lifetime and we separate from our friends and other loved ones. People move away, get married, get into things, join groups and have fallouts. As people start to become more distant, you may try to keep in touch. When you have a falling out with someone, you may be the one to extend the olive branch and try to straighten things out. If your people move away, you may be the one to try to make the distance seem less far. When children grow up that you care for, you may be the one to call them and see how they are doing and see if they need anything. You may be the one who looks for updates on people's condition. What do you when people don't reach back to you and you are left to do all the calling and checking? Do you get frustrated? Do you stop reaching out? Do you get depressed? Do you blame the other person? What happens to stop you from reaching out? Let's talk
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communication #outreach #publicservice #church
Who knows a cheater better than a cheater? Have you ever heard anyone ruin your impression of someone, because they guaranteed you that someone was, or is a drug addict, because they know one when they see one? Drug addicts and ex-drug dealers seem to believe that they never get it wrong when they say that someone used to get high. Interestingly enough, that's how professional witnesses are used in court cases. They are seen as being credible about identifying people who have done bad things. So, who do you go to when you want to be sure that someone is, or isn't a thief, a liar, a cheater, or an abuser? Do you go to a thief, liar, cheater and abuser? Seems logical huh? Let's talk.
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ceditrepair #credibility #professionalwitness #politicalhacks
We have all encountered people who have rubbed us the wrong way. We have all been around people who we thought would be great people, if it weren't for the negative traits and shenanigans that they have participated in. We all have personal hang-ups that we know irritate people and sometimes have limited us from opportunities in our lives. What if we could sell them? Let's sell them. Come and get some characteristics from this show. Don't like someone's attitude? Sell it. Don't like someone's drug problems? Sell them. Don't like someone's cheating, lying and gambling ways? Sell them. Get it? Let's go.
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auctions #selloffs #sales #firesales
When was the last time that someone disregarded your feelings? It doesn't have to be that you're mushy or anything like that, but disregarding your feelings can be like disregarding the way that you think. Nobody likes to be thought of a fool, but when someone acts like the way that you feel doesn't matter, it can trickle down to feeling like your thought patterns aren't respectable. What did you do the last time that your thoughts were disrespected? Let's talk about all of that.
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disrespect #disregard #GOP #affordablecareact
This situation with Nia Long had a lot of people talking. It was a little bit surprising because I didn't know that Nia was such a well-known star. For those who don't know, the actress Nia Long was in a long-term relationship with the Boston Celtics' basketball coach and he has been suspended for having an inappropriate relationship with the wife of a colleague. People seem to be surprised that something like this would happen to Nia. Is it because she's beautiful, talented and successful? This has happened to almost everybody, so why wouldn't it happen to someone like her? Let's talk.
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cheating #NiaLong #BostonCeltics #Relationships
Have you ever seen anyone sabotage an operation in order to get their way, or ruin it for someone else? Have you ever known someone who will rebrand themselves, rather than to improve the product that they built? Have to ever know anyone just likes to start over again and again and again? What makes a person become more destructive in their ways and actions, instead of adding on more? Let's talk about this for a minute.
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sabotage #FaceBook #Sprint #Guess
How much time can you spend with a person before you decide that no time is enough time, because you enjoy their company so much, or that any time spent with them is too much time, because you can't stand being around them? Have you ever hated spending time around someone because you can't stand their voice? Have you ever loved someone's voice so much that you could listen to them speak for hours, or days? What determines how much time you can stand with someone? What's the longest time that you have spent with someone before you have had your fill of them? Do you think that this is the kind of thing that has made people decide to move in with each other? Let's talk about how much time you can spend. with someone.
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If you are a man who hasn't heard this, you have lived an interesting relationship life. What does it mean though? What are the games that we are too old to be playing? We kind of know what it means. It usually means that by a certain time in your life, you should be ready to settle down and be monogamous. It sounds fair, if that's what it means, but there seems to be more to it than this. Does playing games mean monogamy, or honesty? Think before you answer. Is it both? What if it couldn't be both/ Which one would it be for you? Of course this isn't just a thing that applies to males, but since women seem to charge men with it more than men charge women with it, we went with that. Let's have this talk.
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It's a funny thing. You have some people who make good money, who won't hesitate to tell you about what they make and show what they make in the form of jewelry, clothes, accessories, or even flashing cash. Then you have people who make REALLY good money, who make people think that they don't make any money. They dress conservatively, they drive a modest vehicle and they may never carry cash. If you get to know them more, you'll see that they live in an expensive home, have expensive furnishings, send their children to expensive schools, have multiple streams of income and understand the difference between assets and liabilities. The same for some people who have a nice body. Some choose to show it off a lot and some cover it up a lot. What's going on here? Let's talk.
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Have you ever dated someone who was so pretty or handsome that you felt like they were out of your league? Have you ever felt like someone was too good looking for you to keep them all to yourself? Have you ever dated someone who was good looking that you wondered what they saw in you? Have you ever dated someone who was so good looking that you felt like the competition to get them was too fierce? What does that say about ourselves? Do we date people who are only as equally good looking, or less good looking than us, to make us feel secure and confident? Is this something that we only think to ourselves, even though we may physically put it into practice? Let's talk.
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Have you ever had to act like you don't care about something that you care about? Have you ever cared about something, or someone who didn't care about you? Have you ever cared about something, or someone so much that it felt like it physically hurt? Have you ever had to turn off your caring for a minute? People sometimes abuse your caring nature when they know that your caring nature is genuine. It can make you feel like that old saying "Good guys always finish last" There are few things in life worst than wishing that you didn't care so much. Family, friends, coworkers, neighbors, random, needy strangers, animals....Let's talk.
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They say that you can speak things into existence. If you want to be successful, buy something that is out of your price-range, find true love, be able to relax, get what you want for someone else, etc,, they say that you can speak it into existence. Do you believe that? What about the opposite? Can you deny things out of existence? If physical problems are befalling you, if your money is running out, if your relationship is failing, if you're not doing well in a situation, can you simply not claim it, or own it and reverse the situation? I ain't claiming it. You may have said it, or heard someone else say it and they really believed that it would work. Does it though? Can you fail to claim an illness and make the symptoms of that illness disappear? Can you fail to claim it and deny the claim of reality? Does the universe go the way that you say, or are we fooling ourselves when deny reality by not claiming reality? Let's talk.
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governmenthoax #January6th #LovenHipHop #DaveChappelle
It can be really hard for some people to function in a place where everybody seems to be against them and for someone else. It's normal to want to get along with everyone and not feel like a hunted animal all the time, but what about adversity? We all face adversity sometimes in our lives and the day will come when we will have to face it and overcome it. But what would you do if the people who you wanted to support you, seemed to be supporting someone who was against you? Could you make it? Would you still be able to perform well? Would you spend most of your time trying to get everyone to get on your side? Could you function when you think that you're the best, but are treated like you're 2nd best? It happens right in our homes with our siblings. Did you get through it?
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#nolove #switchsides #diversity #cakeboss
When we get upset and we get fed up and we're ready to leave someone behind, we may give people a warning. We want to be recognized for the effort that we gave them and we sometimes issue a threat to make people know what they're about to be missing...while we're still here.
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missmewiththat #Imissyou #biggerandbetter
We know that it's hard for someone to say that they're sorry. We know that some people never say that they're sorry. We know that some people say that they are sorry, just to get what they need, or to shut someone up. At times, that might not be that bad. We know that some people seek an apology for every little thing and seem to weaponize an apology. We know that for some people, an apology can seem like a surrender. We know that that there are times when a simple apology can make any bad blood go away. We know that failing to apologize can keep bad blood flowing forever, even through passing generations. Do we need an apology camp to show some of us when and where and who to apologize to? How good are you at apologizing? Would you benefit from going to apology camp?...if there was such a thing. Let's talk about this.
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publicapology #Imsorry #RIPJessePowell #RIPPNBRock
You know that OUR people put a lot of credence into growing up struggling. We talk a lot about coming from humble beginnings and having to work hard through a lot of adversity in order to make it. We speak like there are such low expectations about what we can do, that any accomplishment is going to be a big accomplishment. Is that true? Is that a fact? People expect people who grew up hard to be able to win every fight that they get into, figuratively and literally. Is it a win-win situation when you get it from up out the mud? Let's talk about it.
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thestruggleisreal #comingfromnothing #QueenElizabeth #colonization
There are people out here that be going through it, but you would never know it. Why do some people hold in their feelings and expressions? Are they afraid? Are they unsure? Do they have another way of letting it out? Does letting it out mean something negative to them? Some of us know that the more that you keep inside, the greater the chance that you will suffer from health problems. Some people know this, but they still keep mostly everything in, until they have no other choice. We all have things that we would rather keep to ourselves. Sometimes it's because we don't trust people with the information about us that they may know. Sometimes it's because we don't want people to worry about us. Who do you know that keeps it all in? Let's talk.
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It's not always in your best interest to stay and talk to the cops. It's not always a good idea to tell what you know, or what you've seen. Even if you are a good Samaritan, you might get yourself else in trouble by telling what you have seen, even if you're not associated with a crime, or an offense. Have you ever been with someone who broke something by mistake and y'all had to make the decision to act like neither of you did it, rather than to explain what really happened? Could itt be that reporting it now could mess up future contracts? In your mind, that may have been the consequence, so you opted to flee the scene. What about when you witness someone get seriously hurt by another person? Let's take a domestic violence situation. Would you call the police if you heard, or saw your neighbors physically fighting? It's a judgement call sometimes, as bad as it is. You might have to look the other way. You might have to call the cops. There can be a lot of grey area when it comes to that. Let's talk.
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domesticviloence #catalyticconvertertheft #NFL2022 #massshootings
Most of us have gained a little weight during the pandemic. Some of us have been able to shed the pounds, but many of us have had to get used to being heavier. Are you okay with that? Have you been able to return to the shape that you once had? Many of us have experienced a career change. Many of us were forced to develop other streams of income to compensate for lost wages, or adjustment of wages. Some of these forms of income were built to last. Manty weren't Many of us tapped into a potential that we may not have realized that we had. Think about it. Many people made money in ways that probably won't come back. People were making masks and selling other pandemic-worthy products that were selling like hotcakes. Now, they would be better to serve hot cakes. Can you do it? Can you fit back into your old pants? Do you need a new outfit? Let's talk about this, if you get it.
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pandemic #vaccinations #maskmandate #QueenElizabeth
This is a common theme amongst selfish lovers. How many men have claimed to be in it to win it, for the long haul, as long as they were being cooked for, cleaned for, sexed, sucked and praised? How many women were singing their man's praises, as long as he was bringing home all the money and treating her as if she was the last woman on the earth? How many women have cut off sex when the money got low, or the obedience wasn't the same. Everyone has complaints when they aren't getting their way. All of a sudden, things were never all that good and they can do better. before, when things were going their way and they were in control, the world was a beautiful place. Who knows what I'm talking about?
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partyfavors #QueenElizabeth #DavidArnold #love
Sometimes, you can be receiving financial help for so long that you might take for granted that it will always be there. It may have been there for so long that you can't imagine living without it and things can be difficult when it's gone. Children that have had the luxury of having their parents pay their way through school, including grad school and possibly their rent may find it very hard to make it when they have to finally have to start paying their own way. Even the parents may find it hard to stop providing. Mothers, or ex-wives who have been receiving child support for 17 years may experience a hardship in that 18th year when they won't receive child support money anymore. People who have been receiving government assistance may have really come to rely on that money and it may take a big adjustment to have live without it and maybe even a punishment for getting yourself together and being able to be more self-sufficient. People who have always been able to split the rent......Let's go.
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We know that weave natural, but it can look good. We look at braids as looking good and being natural, but it's really not natural. It's anyone's choice to wear their hair like this, but it does send a message to the world about what we think is acceptable and how we want to be seen. What are some other choices that we make, that show what we accept as being real, natural, or artificial, appearing real? What does it say about us? Do you believe that it says anything about us? Does it matter? Would you, or have you ever worn artificial leather, for any reason? It often looks good, but it doesn't hold up as long as real leather does. If you're a vegan, it might be the choice for you. Let's talk.
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Some people don't trust the last item of things, especially when it comes to food. They don't want the last piece of fruit, or a pastry. Mentally, they feel like the last one is the least fresh one. Why would anyone leave this item for last? The last loaf of bread in the store my stay until the next shipment comes in. This might, or might not apply to clothing items, or electronics, but it may very well apply to them too. The last phone, or T.V., or video game console might be broken. At least, ion our minds it might. At the same time, you may feel lucky to have the last thing that is available, because you may really need it. Things like the carton of milk, because you need to bake a cake, or some other item that you had a craving for. For a lot of people, the last thing available symbolizes that nobody else wanted it, so why should I take it? Does it matter to you that nobody else may have wanted what you want? Does that lessen the quality of what you want? Let's talk about it.
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lastcallforalcohol #feastorfamine #flygirl #foodshortage
People are unsuspecting of worms. They come out after it rains, they're good for the soil and they don't move fast, or hurt anyone. Is that right? Have you ever seen a snail, or a worm and left it by itself for a minute or two, only to find it gone when you came back? It had gotten pretty far away from where you saw it first. That's sort of how sneaky people are, or people who you don't think are alert, or aware, or care about things. Can you dig this yet?
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BrittneyGriner #lovejones #earthworm #studentloan
When love is at its strongest, it can survive the hottest summers and the coldest winters, but when you would marry them anyway, or in spite of everything, that's when you see the power of love and commitment have the diamond hardness and the bubblegum flexibility that only the people who feel it could understand. With everything that you know about them, would you marry them anyway? Ever felt this? Do you know about it? Let's talk.
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onewish #shakeshake #beatit #free
There are thousands of people running around in the world, putting on a good show. They're looking like they are financially well-off. They're looking like they are in love. They're looking like they have their business matters in order. They're looking like they're happy. They're looking like they don't have a care in the world. They're looking like they have it going on in the world. It's like a movie, or a TV show, where you believe that the actors are portraying who they are in real life. It looks good, but is it real? Why the act? Why do we believe them? Why do we care? Why does it matter? Let's talk about all of that.
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Are people who like to go out a lot missing something at home? I don't men the people who like to casually go to dinner and a movie, or enjoy a vacation. I mean when people treat the place that they live like it's a place that they have to stay away from. That can be whether they live with others, or they live alone. Have you ever known someone who was ever hardly at home, no matter what the circumstance were? Did you ever suspect that it was something bigger than just loneliness? Were they married? Let's talk.
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Anybody who has had signed a bad contract knows that you feel good about signing it in the beginning. It makes you feel like you're taking a gamble that is worth it. You figure that it will all work itself out in the long run, as long as you do your part. People who sign bad contracts often celebrate the signing. And then it gets ugly. A bad surgery is usually evident in the beginning, but not always. A life preserving surgery may take a while to show itself. it might make you think that the complications that you're feeling are just side effects that will go away. A bad cosmetic surgery usually shows itself early, because it doesn't look the way that you wanted it to look. Sometimes the evidience that a cosmetic surgery was bad takes time to show itself. Sometimes there are leaks and deflations, etc. A bad cosmetic surgery can be life threatening. Without asking which you would rather choose, what do you think of the severity of the two? What's the worst surgery that you have ever heard about? What is the worst contract that you have known to be signed? Let's talk.
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Does blending families, or romances in middle age have the same fire as when couples have kids together? We know that when couples are younger, they see themselves as having a future together and it often has a lot to do with them having, or producing children together. What happens when the children count on one, or both sides is maxed out and they don't want children together? Do relationships where there are no children have the same intensity and passion as relationships where there are children? How do the kids look mat it? Let's have a talk.
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havingchildren #raisingkids #gettingmarried #fallinginlove
Nobody likes to be embarrassed, but some embarrassments are magnified when they happen in front of people. Like, being broke can be embarrassing, but when you get to the cash register at the market and don't have enough money to pay for your groceries, that can crush some people, especially if the line was long and people seem agitated in line. Some people wouldn't be embarrassed by that either way, but other people won't be able to take it.
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embarrassment #humiliation #showingout #insecurity
When they can do it, but you won't let nobody else do it. We all have that person that we will make an exception for that we won't make for anyone else. People get mad about it, but they won't understand that you have to do what you have to do for that person. It's not for everyone to understand and they won't. Do you understand what makes you make an exception for someone instead of someone else? Let's talk about this.
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exceptions #Rules #exclusivity #soloact
We have all dealt with someone who we thought was weak-minded. We might have thought so because they seemed to let weaker individuals lead them, or they may have let people upset them who shouldn't have been able to. Basicailly, we think that someone is weak-minded who does the opposite of what we would do, at the provocation of someone who shouldn't have been able to get hem to do it. We don't consider weak-minded people to be leaders. Have you ever been in love with someone with a weak mind? Let's talk.
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Disappointment can be very hard to get over. It plays on our emotions and our ability to trust. It can make us question our own judgement about how we choose people to be in our lives and whether or not we should let ourselves be chosen. What are we saying when we say that someone never was a real friend, or that someone must have never really loved us, or that they must have been hating on us the whole time? How and why do we sometimes feel like we need to discredit everything about an experience, when the experience turns ugly, or goes bad? What happens when we do that to some physical things that we might be a part of. How would we feel if someone told us that we never really had any money, because we don't have the same amount of money anymore? What if our kids told us that we were never really parents, because they disagree with something that's going on with us now? Some of us actually have to deal with this. Let's talk,
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itsover #theending #onemorechance #discredit
Common sense, common sense, common sense! All you need is common sense. Common sense will get you far. Just use your common sense. Where has common sense ever gotten anyone? Looks like every successful person has used some stroke of genius, even if that stroke of genius seemed like simple common sense. Have you ever questioned your own intelligence? Do you consider your intelligence to be average, or run of the mill? How far does above average intelligence get anyone? Think Donald Trump and George W. Bush, before you answer.
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donaldtrump #georgewbush #miketyson #lindsaylohan
You would be surprised at how many people are in relationships with their fingers on the Ex button. You might be amazed at how many couples who are engaged, married, or even pregnant who have no intentions on being with that person in the long run. You can tell by some of the moves that they might be getting ready to make. Irnonically, getting ready to get married and preparing to be together aren't always the same thing. Getting ready to marry someone can mean that you are getting ready to have your union sacntioned by the state. Preparing to be with someone means including them in your plans. It can mean anything from building a family with someone, to making major purchases and building a financial base with someone. It's a little harder to have a fleeting relationship wit someone who you are getting money with. Still, there are many couples out here who are waiting for the sliightest mess-up to call it quits. What you know?
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Why is it so much easier to listen to advice when you have no money, than when you do? Is this a woman thing? Certainly, men have egos and are feeling themselves when they have a lot of money, but it doesn't seem like men look at having money as an excuse for not needing, or having love, but more as a bargaining chip for receiving better love, or extra love. With a lot of wealthy women, it seems like they look at financial wealth as a reason to not have, or need love, or cooperation. Am I off with this? Is seems like some women look at the need for love and cooperation to be connected with whether they can pay for what they want, or not. Men seem to know that they have to pay to play, no matter how much money they have. Let's talk.
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#submission #husbandandwife #happywifehappylife
They say that birds of a feather, flock together. Do you flock the same as your friends? Do y'all do the same things at the same times? Do y'all share the same ideas, in the same ways? Do y'all drive similar vehicles,. live in similar houses, work in the same industries? Maybe some of these things apply to you and maybe some of these don't, but what do you consider your position to be amongst your friend groups? Are you more of an innovator, or a copycat? Be honest, because, trust me, other people can tell. Do all of your friends make good money, or are y'all all struggling a lot? Are you all married? All single? All in bad relationships? Let's have this talk real quick.
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friends #supportgroups #powercircle #mafia
They said that you would be pregnant before high school was over. They said that you would spend your life in jail. They said that you would be anything. They said that you weren't right for their daughter. They said that you would just use him for his money. They said that you would never make it out of the hood. They said a lot of things about you that didn't happen to you. How did that affect the things that you did? What things were they right about?
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wronganswers #bougie #familyhate #elope
We have all heard of the jailhouse snitch. The person who shares a cell with you in jail, who listens to you confess your crimes and uses the information that you give him to get you convicted and get himself a lighter sentence. What about work? A lot of people befriend people at work and there might be times when people become so friendly at the job, that they might start to do things that violate company policy. Things like signing each other in, covering for each other when one person is late for work, or coming back from lunch. What happens when someone reports to management what other coworkers have been doing? What could be the motivation for doing that? Does the snitch get something for telling on someone? Is snitching a word that would even apply to workplace activity? What would be someone's motivation for snitching at work, or calling someone a snitch? Let's talk.
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jailhousesnitch #workplacesnitch #jobs #workingpoor
To some, compromising means to give someone as little as possible of what they want, in order to get what you want. Is that right though? What is the true meaning of compromising? Does it happen when one person wants something that another person can provide, or is there something else to it? Does it happen when 2 people were previously on the same page and are not anymore and they want to do something to get back on track together? Is it that I want you to do something for me and I will do something for you? Is it as simple as that? What happens when compromise doesn't happen? Sometimes when someone won't compromise, they are said to be set in their ways. Is it easier to deal with someone who is set in their ways then it is to deal with someone who won't compromise? It sounds like the same thing, but.....
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compromise #breach #illegalsearch #marriage
Love might be the most misunderstood emotion ever known to man. So many people think that they get it, when they really don't. The expectations that people place on people who use that word to describe anything is unreal. We can't seem to agree on whether love is an emotion, or an action, or if it can only be an emotion if it has action tied to it. Love makes you mind someone else's business as if it were your own and you might do it unapologetically. Love is something that we hope for with our loved ones, even if we blatantly have failed to give it ourselves. Love breeds hate and jealousy from others, as if someone else has a surplus of food, while we are starving ourselves. Having love missing from our life can feel like starvation, but it will make us feel like we have to act like we don't even need any food to live. Love can be a problem. What do you know about these problems?
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love #loveismisunderstood #lovehurts #nolove
Sometimes you need to say it just the way it is. Sometimes you need to pad it, so people don't get upset, or take it the wrong way. Some people can't help speaking their minds as they see it. They might not be as tactful as some situations might call for. It can cause problems. Some people can't help but beat around the bush, pad their words and try to be indirect, while being direct. These people often complain about getting played. There are exceptions to both. Which works better for you?
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straighttoit
Hot damn hoe! Here we go again! That's the song that plays in my head when I think of the potential that this unrest has. Last year, thousands of people descended upon the Capitol building in D.C. to infiltrate and stop the confirmation of the election results of the 2020 Presidential election, because they believed that the election had been stolen from them. Many still believe that the election results were false. There was a lot of violence that day and some people lost their lives in the melee. Yesterday on 8-8-22, former president Trumps Florida property was raided by the FBI to try to retrieve documents that are believed to be illegally removed from the white house and taken to Florida by Trump after he left office last year. GOP politicians and supporters of Trump are now talking about getting violent over this, in defense of Trump. Will citizens tear things up for a former president again? Let's see how this plays out if it happens. How will the white house handle the violence this time? Will the military get involved this time?
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January6th #Trump #Capitalriots #insurrection
Not everyone can go to their parents and talk to them about their problems. Some moms are more traditional and don't believe that children should have a voice, or that it's better to keep communication between a parent and a child separate. Sometimes someone else's mom is a better option to talk to. Children often find themselves in predicaments that they can't get themselves out of. We brag about how many of us were afraid of our parents back in the day. Was that always a good thing? The cool mom is often frowned upon by more responsible parents, but does being cool mean that you always let the kids lead? At least the cool mom was the one who the children and friends of children could go to for guidance, direction and help. The real problem is when you have to go to someone else's mom for help with a serious problem, because your mom might do more damage in your mind than help. Let's talk.
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parents #abuse #pregnancy #violence
When we are children, our parents usually teach us about the way that we should act when we go somewhere, whether it is the store, at school, in church, even at a relatives house. It's called home training and it seems obvious when people haven't been taught it. Outtakes are the scenes that they take out of movies when they get the lines wrong, or mess up in some way. Outtakes are the way it would've been done, if the editing hadn't been done. What would people see if the way that you act hadn't been edited out of your stories? Out of what's visible? How different are you at home than you are in public? Are you abusive at home, but gentle when you're in public? Many people are. What you know about it?
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outtakes #Hollywood #domesticabuse #secretlife
That fire that burned 3/4 of your body. That car crash that crushed your bones and stopped you from being able to lift your left arm freely. That sports injury that damn near made a Christopher Reeve out of you. That time that you got shot and destroyed your voice, like Beanie Sigel, or 50 Cent. That fight that you did not win and it shows. That stroke that made you lose half of your body's feelings. Pinch me! There are accidents that can change your life and the way that you do things forever. How do you deal with that?
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lifesavingtechniques #EMT #prosthesis #injury
For some people, their home is their sanctuary. It might be where they go to escape all the problems in the world. For other, home might be the hell that they avoid. Some people will do anything to avoid coming home to a toxic environment at home. Some people will work a bunch of overtime hours to avoid coming home. Some will hang out with their friends, drinking and drugging to avoid coming home. Some people will find another home to cheat, rather than to come home. It's a messed up situation when you help fix up someone else's house, but won't fix up your own house. That's not to justify infidelity. Who knows what I'm talking about? Who knows what to do about it?
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homelife #domesticabuse #homebody #cabinfever
If you haven't been with anyone who you have really liked, why should it count? It counts just like everything else that you have ever done in life counts. At least that is probably how the really important person in your life might see it. It can cause a disconnect. A rational person doesn't expect anyone to treat themselves like a hermit for years, just because you are not in a committed relationship, but a jealous, possessive, irrational person might expect you to do just that. They might expect you to be totally transparent about what you have been doing before you met them, or got with them. It's a disconnect that should be able to easily be worked out, but sometimes it gets sticky. You may really feel like you have been abstinent if you haven't had sex with anyone who you have liked. You may feel like you have not dated if you haven't been with anyone who you have been serious about. Does this make any sense to you?
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abstinece #celibacy #onlinedating #loneliness
Being scared is one thing. Being nervous is another thing. Most people feel no control over things that they are afraid of. Being nervous is another thing. When you are nervous about something, it's often because you are uncomfortable about something that you may feel that you shouldn't be afraid of, or uncomfortable about, but you just are. You can be nervous about doing something that you have done many times, because you think that this time might get a different outcome. Like meeting a new person might make you feel nervous, because you want to make a good impression. You have met plenty of people in your lifetime though, right? Someone else doing something that you think is dangerous may make you nervous, because you care about them. Many people say that their kids make them nervous. Whereas being afraid might make you want to run away, being nervous may make you want to do something a different way. So, what makes you nervous?
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fear #nervous #anxiety #fightorflight
It's like that person who got all A's in school, but still pronounces words wrong. Is it on purpose, or because they are lazy? It's like that person at your job that seems to make more money than everybody there, but they're not even the boss. It's that family member that skipped school all the time and stayed in all kinds of trouble, but passed every test that was ever put on their desk. It's that girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband that never went to school, or didn't graduate high school, but always had a successful money-making scheme. It's that person with only that high school diploma who can understand all of that college stuff that you talk to them about. It's that parent that never went to college, but put all their kids through college. It's that loud, obnoxious person that gets on everybody's nerves, but actually does have everybody figured out. Know who I'm talking about?
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There are people who move in and out with people all the time, but never really have their own place. There are people who move people in with them all of the time and don't put any outlined expectations on them, but get mad when people don't pay them. All of this gets worse when you consider the children that are involved in the situation. What' y'all know?
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homeless, #shelter #liveingirlfriend #rentallease
There was a time in music when begging was welcome. Certain singers would talk about begging for women to forgive them and take them back. It was a winning formula for Jodeci, Keith Sweat, and Boys 2 Men and others. Mary J. Blige begged her way through the whole My Life album, which may have been her best album. We usually associate someone who begs as a person that doesn't have anything, or is someone who is speaking from a standpoint of weakness. It isn't always true. Some people beg because they get what they want when they beg and so they have traded humility for success. Their are people who claim to be disgusted by people who beg, but will also accommodate people who beg them. What is your position on people who beg? What do you consider begging to be specifically? Do you usually show favor to the beggar, or do you turn them down? Do you, or have you ever told someone to stop begging? A dog maybe? Do dog people put up with begging more than cat people? Let's talk.
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Psychologically speaking, it's always a good thing to get your problems and concerns off your chest. It helps to express yourself and sometimes get feedback about the things that have been bothering you. That's from a mental therapy and psychological perspective. From a personal perspective, things may not be that easy. From a personal perspective, you may be keeping things private. You may be keeping things secret. It may not be the best time to say things. There may be people who would be better served to not hear what you have to say. Many people have been abused. Some people have endured the abuse, seen the abuser change somewhat and have either forgiven the abuser, or have moved on from the abuser. They might not want to relive the abuse by talking about the abuse. Sometimes talking about things that have happened in the past can make you mad all over again. Everybody is not a good person to talk to about things. Know what I'm talking about? let's talk about this then.
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#getitoffyourchest #psychotherapy #counseling #mentalhealth
Have you ever been in a situation where your attachment to your ex is what keeping you down? Some people remain friends when they end a relationship and some people say that that's that way it's supposed to be. Not everyone believes that though. Some people believe that when you break up with someone, you are supposed to cut all ties. They say that if you don't, you will take that energy into your next relationship, or you might not be able to get into another relationship at all. Do you think that that's true? Has your attachment to your ex ever gotten you, or your ex in trouble? Let's have this conversation.
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lovemeback #sexwithmyex #selfcontrol #backandforth
People will definitely show love if you give them things, especially money. It's the easiest way to get and hold someone's attention. There are only a set number of people who will employ this tactic on a regular basis, but you can't talk the people who do it, out of the results that it receives. There are people who would argue that prostitution is a more respectable game than true love is, because with prostitution, the levels and the rules are clearly understood, whereas with true love, the parameters can seem so unclear and changeable. People loved Donald Trump. A lot of people say that it was because he seemed to be genuine, but his moves and his politics were very corrupt. The fact is that he was very rich and seemed willing to put money in people's pockets. That can be very reinforcing as a politician. The way that people lure and calm wild animals is to feed them until they start to depend on you. It works hook, line and sinker. Even though a lot of people use the paying for love strategy, many don't want to be associated with the label, because it can make them seem worthless beyond what the money can promise. What do you think about this? Let's rock.
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It's like the tale of 2 wrongs that 1 will try to make right. Everybody hasn't been taught to make things right when they are wrong. Everybody hasn't been raised right. It's a reality that doesn't become an issue until it's really too late. There are people who will deliberately do people wrong, but they will try to put it all on the other person, if the other person will allow them to. See, the person who has been done wrong is sometimes guilty of doing someone else wrong, so they think that karma is coming back to get them. At least they have a conscience. The predatory, narcissistic wrongdoer will never admit that they were wrong, unless they have no other choice and even then, they might try to spin it, by saying that they only did it because their feelings were hurt. Any of this sound familiar to you? Yes? Then, let's go.
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People may have said discouraging words to you when you were younger. That's something that people do to people who they are jealous of, or do not like for some reason. When you tell a child that they are ugly, or stupid, or worthless, or bad, or unworthy, or isn't special, or inferior, or not good enough, or is subpar, or is just okay, etc., you can break a child's spirit, especially if favor is shown to another child who is close to that child. It can make a child jealous, envious, bitter and depressed, in extreme situations. Fast forward to when we become adults. What happens when you become the subject of jealousy, rumors, speculation, judgement, hate, slander, insults, suspicion and things like that? How long can you stand up to those things, without breaking, or bending to the other side, in order to get along? Do you start to believe them, or do you stay strong, fight back and prove them wrong once again? How long do you have to be strong? Can they all be wrong? Let's talk.
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emotionalhealth #usagainstthem #strongwill
Only you know how many people at work you have slept with, but you're never the only one who thinks that you know. Is it anyone else's business who you have sex with at work? Probably not, but if you are in management, they might see it much differently and invite themselves right into your love life. Many jobs have rules against this behavior, for good reason in a lot of cases. Another problem with this thing is that a lot of people who seek out sexual relationships at work are not single. It can become a big trust issue for spouses and significant others. I mean, if you can't trust your man, or woman to go to work and at least be faithful, where can you trust them anywhere else in the world? Let's go.
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loveatwork #workwife #workhusband #cheating
We have all known someone who was creepy. We have all known someone who some thought was creepy, while others didn't. Have you ever had to get to know a person who you thought was creepy, only to find out that they weren't creepy? Have you ever had to get to know someone who you didn't think was creepy, only to find out that they were creepy? Being creepy is different from being a liar, or obnoxious, or even crazy, even though they can be crazy. When a person is creepy, they may seem sneaky, but more than that. They seem like they are hiding something sinister, or dangerous about themselves that needs to be known. Creepy people may stare, or ask weird questions, or appear in places where they aren't supposed to be. How do you define someone who is creepy to you.
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When it comes to the N-word, it comes down to whether you should ever use it, or should it be used by some, but not by others. It really is a word where people are able to pick and choose, discriminate, make excuses for, or ban altogether. It's a polarizing word that can easily separate people. People who don't like the word say that it should never be used by anyone. People who don't mind the word feel like it should only be used by certain people. Historically, the word has been used to describe, or demean dark skinned people in the Americas, however, in recent times the spelling has been changed. They have even changed the meaning of the word in the online dictionary. Let's get to it. Are you offended by the N-word? Do you think that only Black people should be able to use the word? Do Hispanics get to use the word? Do you feel like white people who use the word should be prosecuted?
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#theNword #racism #prisoncomplex
It's pretty hard out here these days. There seems to be a lot of pressure for people to change who they are. I think that to change who you are, you have to discover who you are 1st. Discovering who you are sounds like it should be easy, but a lot of times, self-discovery comes through the way that you affect other people. I'm not sure if that means that you don't know who you are before then, but that seems to be the way that it goes for a lot of people. A lot of people who have been finding themselves don't seem to like what they have found. Let's get straight to it. Can a man love himself openly and find himself attractive if he doesn't have a lot of money? Does money fix everything for him? Can a woman believe that she is pretty, if she doesn't have a fat ass and big titties and maybe very long hair? As ridiculous as that sounds, it seems to be a struggle these days. Let's talk about it.
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bodyselfimage #senseofself #moneymakers #creditrepair
Have you ever dated someone who was considerably older than you, but not old enough to be your parent? Have you ever dated someone who was old enough to be your parent? Is someone who is 15 years older than you, old enough to be your parent to you? Many of us are middle-aged now. Does an age difference at this stage seem possible to you? If you were 45, would you date someone who was 60 years old? Would you consider it to be a long-term situation? Would it be a health concern for you? Do you think that it could be a physical situation? Has your parents and your parental upbringing influenced your decision to be with someone who is older than you? Let's talk.
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olderdating #grannyfetish #agedifference #ageaintnothingbutanumber
When it comes to insurance, we are talking about paying for something that you may have to get hurt, or even die for, n order to see a return from. Some insurance policies are required to be mandated by the state, like car insurance. Most people hate to pay their car insurance. Who would you all to covered on an insurance policy? Your kids? Your spouse? Your significant other? A beloved family member? A great friend? Nobody? We know that putting someone on our insurance policies means that we will be spending money on them. How much do we love and/or trust someone in order to do that? Let's talk about this.
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lifeinsurance #carinsurance #health.gov #affordablecareact
It didn't happen last night, but we will talk about this tonight.
We All gotta eat. We know that much. We often hear debates about what kinds of things that a boyfriend should expect to receive, versus what a husband should expect to receive form his woman. We also hear debates about who should pay for what during the dating phase of a relationship. Some see it as a way of building things up and see it as one should get what the other gets immediately. Lately, a lot of women seem to desire a man that will cook for them. Are there scenarios where that is actually a deal breaker? We know that it is with some men. Where are we going with our expectations in relationships these days? Who would you pay for a meal for? Who would you cook for?
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cookforme #eatforfree ##ruthchrissteakhouse #homecookedmeals
They say that misery loves company. How much are you willing to be a guest? The problem with someone trying pull you down with them is that they are usually people who are close to you. Toxic people usually infect those who are close. They don't always reach out to people who they don't know, because people from far away can see them for who they really are. Have you ever allowed anyone to pull you down with them in any way? What influenced you to go down? What woke you up from the nightmare? Let's talk.
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misery #toxicity #happiness #abuse
Some people talk about the times when they were at their low points. Some people talk about how well they are doing now. Some people give off an energy that shows that they are confident and feeling themselves in a healthy way and some express it in ways that are kind of obnoxious. Does low confidence have more to do with looks, finances, skills, love, or something else? Some people who get cosmetic surgery try to play down the importance of looks. Do you believe them? Should we? Let's talk.
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looks #money #skills #love
Have you ever been asked to help someone write a paper, all to find out that they wanted you to write the paper for them? Have you ever been asked to help someone move, only to find out that you'll be doing all the work and maybe transporting too? Have you ever been asked to help pay for something, only to find out that you were expected to pay for the whole thing? We all need a little help sometimes. It doesn't matter whether we have a lot of money and resources, or not. Things can be easier when you have someone to help you. There's a difference between someone needing your help and someone expecting you to do the whole thing for you. Does it make a difference to you?
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In certain cities throughout the United States and even in the suburbs, it doesn't seem to be safe to go to public gatherings, or even go to school in many cases. People have gotten shot in their own homes. Has your decision to buy a gun been more influenced, or less influenced? Do you feel the need to protect yourself, your family and your home with a gun? Are you a gun owner? Do you have a problem with assault rifles, or automatic weapons? Do you think that they are the problem with these mass shootings? Guns, or no guns for you? Let's talk.
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massshootings #gunreform #NRA #secondamendment
When we are young, most of us are taught that the male is supposed to make the 1st move. The man is supposed to initiate the courting process. Even as we grow up, this method is ingrained within us. We have even seen it stated as a defense in arguments when things have gone bad. The dynamic and origin of relationships has changed so much over the years, but have we held on to the traditional principles of how a man and a woman get together? Can a woman ask a man to marry her and can that work out well? Many women scoff at the thought of a woman asking a man to marry her. Many men resent it too. What about you? Does it matter to you which gender asks to get married?
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marriage #commonlaw #divorce
We hear people say it all the time and it's usually a joke, but some people believe that it's a real thing. But is it a real thing from the beginning? Are there people who didn't drink, or use drugs at all, who started to drink and/or use drugs because they were stressed out by someone else? Is there a difference to you between being driven to drink and being influenced to drink? We probably all know of the pretty young girl who hooked up with the slick drug hustler, who introduced her to coke and crack and now she's a crackhead. Did he drive her to do it, or did he just get the party started? Let's talk about it.
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opioidcrisis #crackcocaine #crackhead #fentanyl
Our children can drive us crazy with the amount of the problems that we have to solve for them. We know that they can drive us crazy with the way their learning process makes them get into trouble. Sometimes they make us forget about the ways that we used to be and the things that we used to get into. What about the ways that kids earn their keep? Do we forget about that? We know that there are ways that parents use their kids for various things. We know that as much as children keep us broke with the way that they always want things. Kids can be expensive. Sometimes they can be really expensive. Sometimes they save us money too though. Like, it's great to have multiple kids during tax time. They save us a bunch of money for that and when we're trying to get on a budget for our utilities. Does the good and the bad of our children balance out.
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children #subsidies
Sometimes you might declare yourself to be close to someone, because they have shared some things with you. Maybe they told you some things about their upbringing, their love life, their fears, their hopes and dreams, etc. This person might have told you a lot of things, but they may only consider themselves to be close to people who they have known since they were young. That disqualifies you, but you're just finding out that you and that person aren't close. Has anyone ever thought that they were close to you, when they really weren't? What does being close to someone mean to you? Let's talk.
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justtobeclose #closure #clickclak
Nobody likes to hear anyone brag, but there are people who do it in a way that lets them get away with it every time. There are people who have great accomplishments, who never talk about, or even acknowledge the great things that they have done, or contributed to. Some people are cool with just working behind the scenes. That's cool, but sometimes when people work behind the scenes never get the credit that they deserve. Should that be a price to pay for humility? What are some things that you will excuse people bragging about, or is all bragging bad? Let's talk.
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creditrepair #credit #acknowledgements #bragging
It can happen with a lover. It can happen with your friends. It can happen with your family. It can happen with your kids. It can happen with your coworkers. It can happen with your neighbors. It can happen with your customers. It can happen with almost anybody, but wherever it starts, a lot of people who didn't have anything to do with it will feel the effects of it. It's about more than being mean. It's about when you are fed up with being mistreated.
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There's a video going around that has the internet going crazy. It's about a father who takes his son a bag of McDonald's food to eat and none for the other children that aren't his. The mom films the exchange between the both of them and the video ends with the mom throwing away the bag of food that the dad bought. It has been a real hot-button, conversation piece ever since. It's time for us to talk about it.
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thoseaintmykids #mcdonaldsforone #allornone
Only time will tell what you will look like when you get older. Time doesn't always tell how you will handle it. Only time will tell how successful you will be in life. Time might not tell if you will ever accept what you have as being a success .Time will tell if you will ever find true love. Time may not tell if you will ever recognize it. See where we're going with this?
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timeandspace #seniorcitizen
There is more than one way to end someone's life. How does it feel when you are responsible for it? Life ends physically when there are no more vital signs and you lose your physical functions and flesh. Life also ends when you have to totally change the way that you do things, because the way that you used to live is no longer available to you. We understand how life is taken physically and the details are usually clear. We make a lot of excuses for taking a life spiritually/emotionally, because there are so many other factors that go along with it.
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death #massshootings #NRA #spirituallydead
So, you were married to someone and were getting divorced. Neither of you had the resources to be able to live separately, so for the time being, you lived in the same house, in separate rooms. To prove that you were apart, the two of you began dating other people, but those people weren't allowed to come to your house, out of respect for the both of you. This has the ability to put a big strain on any blossoming relationship that may be brewing. How does a couple handle this? Let's talk.
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cohabitation #separation #divorce #RoevWade
How can something belong to everyone, if only one person paid for it and they didn't give to anyone else? There are times when it's not good to get everyone involved, until the focus on the focal point is complete. What I'm saying is that when it comes to struggle, pain and justice for that, sometimes you have to finish what you start, before you can let others continue. I'll explain more on the show. Let's go.
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Blacklivesmatter Alllivesmatter #RoevWade
So, what's gonna happen with women who are raped, or are victims of incest? Are the people who fought for this really ready for the results of this?
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roevwade #abortionrights #prolife #prochoice
Starting off in a new situation is tough when you are struggling to get to know someone, get comfortable with someone and trust someone....and then they leave you alone in their house with their phone open, with no pin number. Just you and a bunch of easy to open drawers and a phone full of personal information. What will you do? How will you handle this? Even if this sounds like a ridiculous scenario to you, to some people, it is very real, even if most of the elements in this situation don't exist. In their minds, they do exist and they need to be acted upon. Are you the type to snoop through someone's things, if you are left alone with them? Even if you aren't honest about it to others, at some point, you'll have to be honest about it to yourself. These things can fulfill a curiosity thirst, or they can ruin a relationship that may have had a chance. Let's talk.
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Snoopdog #FBI #CIA #privacy
We praise people for being the same. We commend people for keeping it 100 with everyone. There are a couple of things about this that we should probably ask. 1. How do we know that someone besides ourselves are the same around everyone, even privately? 2. If everyone doesn't look at you, or treat you the same, how can be expected to treat everyone the same? Would that even be fair? For example, if someone consistently disrespects you, would you, or should you show them a high level of respect? We have some things we need to talk about.
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personalitydisorder #amazon #walmart #keepingit100
Two crazy people can make it together, but their crazy has to match. A lot of people end relationships believing that the person that they were dealing with may have mental issues. Outside of being clinical, could it be that their crazy just didn't match? Crazy is only crazy when it's misunderstood...or misdiagnosed, but let's stay positive. If you have ever seen two people crazily make it together, you know what I'm talking about. Have you ever tried to hook two people up, because you knew that they could stand each other? Hooking them up with anyone else would be like introducing toxicity.
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suicideawareness #lifelessons #blessings #churchofgodandhrist
Things like I'm gonna stop smoking. I'm gonna stop lying. I'm gonna stop cheating. I'm gonna stop giving in to them. I'm gonna stop hanging around them. I'm gonna stop spending my money on that. I'm not having any more kids. I'm gonna stop eating junk. I'm gonna stop acting crazy. I'm gonna stop acting immature. Actually, almost no one ever admits to acting immature, but I thought I would throw that in there. I'm gonna stop reaching from now on.
People make proclamations all the time. For what? For who? Let's talk.
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liarliar #january6th #maga #ukraine
When you see a motorcycle rider riding without a helmet, do you cringe? Are you still following the mask mandate guidelines, even if there is no mandate anymore? Do you wear your seatbelt in a car, even if you're only going a short distance? How would you rate your level of concern about your health while you are out there in the world? Has the pandemic raised your level of personal safety when you are around strangers? How about familiar people? Do you trust your health status overall? What are some of the things that you do safeguard your health these days? Vitamins? Exercise? Yoga? Eating better? Anything? Do you just put it all in God's hands?
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fathersday #juneteenth #shopping #organicliving
What happened to the daddy's girls? There seemed like their used to be a lot of them. Daddy's girls were girls who loved, respected and saw men through the eyes of what their fathers meant to them. They were in love with their fathers. Their fathers were their first examples of what they thought a man should be and they looked for characteristics of their fathers, in the men that they found to be attractive. It was usually a good thing, but sometimes it wasn't so great. For a lot of women, their dads went from being a hero, to being an enemy, but why? How? How could this happen? Why does there seem to be so little daddy's girls than there used to be? What have these daddies done? Have they actually done anything? Has the internet messed up again?
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familyties #daddysgirl #mommasboy #blackfamilyreunion
You can call it knowing your place, or you can call it knowing your role. You can call it getting in where you fit in. Whatever you choose to call it, if you fail to acknowledge it, you could be doing yourself a big disservice. When you know your place, or your role, or when you take your ego out of it, you can take the position of upgrading yourself, or removing yourself. When you go to get a job, you are made aware of exactly where your place is, what your role is and what will happen to you if you fail to submit to it. If we can deal with it in that sense, why do we reject it so much in our personal lives? Let's go.
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genderroles #feminism #stayathomemom #blackbusiness
This is bigger than staying together for the kids, or to keep the money. Sometimes people are together because other people think they look good together. Sometimes people are together because they literally think that there's is nothing left out there. Some people are together because they started out getting together for citizenship and then....
There are many reasons that people are together and some of them are really ridiculous, like when people are literally together so that they can change their Facebook status and post pictures. Some people are together because one of them is gay. yeah, that part.
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relationships #togetherforever #marriagevows #transgender
Have you ever heard a person complain about a problem with a situation that you were close to and had knowledge of, but weren't a participant and didn't know that people would be affected. It's probably not good for you to take the stand in a trial, because you would have to tell the truth about what you know happened. It could get some people in trouble. In a situation where you were intimately involved, even though you may not have been an actor in a plot, taking the stand could implicate and incriminate yourself. When you're guilty, it might be a good idea to avoid the law and possibly be on the run. Trouble is trouble, but let's see where we fall in this.
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guilty #murder #theft #deception
We all know about women who have left clothes and under garments at a man's house who they were dealing with. Sometimes it has been done in situations where they weren't even together. Is that right? Don't get it twisted though, men do it also. Men have done things like leaving the seat all the way back on the passenger's side of a car, to symbolize that a man had been riding in the car. Is that right? There are harmless and legitimate ways to mark territory too. Parents used to label things like pencils, crayons and clothes to make sure that their children's stuff came home with them at the end of the school day. We all make sure that we label our luggage when we travel on planes and trains. It's a common practice with our belongings. Does it work though? Does it backfire on us sometimes? Is it always necessary? Let's talk.
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territory #belongings #Russia #Ukraine
We talk about emotional scars all the time, but we don't always talk about those scraped up knees, thighs, arms and the reason that you walk a little funny. You ever see a funny looking scar on someone and find out that they have been stabbed or shot before? You ever see a stitch mark on someone and ask about it and they tell you that a family member that they used to fight with all the time threw them through a glass door before? They might talk about it like it ain't nothing. One thing is for sure, we're talking about the kind of scars that won't go away by putting cocoa butter on them. So let's talk then.
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mentalscars #emtionalscars #bulletwounds #stabwounds
The man who spends a lot of money fixing his car and his car is always sharp, but can't seem to be on time with his child support payments. The woman who keeps up with the latest trends, fashions, makeup and whatever, but let's her phone get cut off every other month, even if it is only for just a few hours. The dude who will make it rain in the strip club, but is late with the rent all the time and winds up having to pay late fees on credit cars. The one that can't stay out of default on their student loans, no matter how much money they make. Know what I'm talking about? Good. Let's go then.
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paying bills #moneymakingschemes #credit repair #latefees
Why do some people who are really good looking seem to think that they aren't? Could it be that not enough people have given them confirmation of it? They say that opinions are like assholes. Everybody has one. We haven't been taught to ask: If everyone has an opinion, how can an opinion not matter? Instead, we have been taught to only accept the opinions of ourselves that make us feel good. Is that a good thing? Sometimes maybe? Why haven't we been taught how to tell which opinions are good and which are bad and what we should do with the information? Well, let's see how the rest of this goes.
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opinions #fakenews #january6th #insurrection
Past relationships can have many miscues, mishaps, misfires and missed periods. Sometimes you have to be happy for a clean break. The break isn't always clean and you may share a bond with a person that doesn't go away. Having a child is the greatest blessing known to the world, but when you have a baby with someone who you no longer like, respect, care for, or want to know, it can feel like the greatest lesson ever taught. It can feel like a curse. Most times, a baby doesn't come out of a failed relationship. Sometimes that can be the best blessing that can happen. Amazingly, it's not always both parties who feel this way. Let's talk about when you were able to move on from a relationship without the strings of children that keep you in contact.
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childsupport #children #childabuse #childcustody
At least they didn't mess my money up. How many times have you been able to say that about a situation where you may have damaged your reputation, your standing, your placement and an opportunity. Have you ever been with a person who may have dragged your heart through the ringer, but at least you could say that they didn't break you financially, or you didn't have a baby by them. Are you ready?
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money #cryptocurrency #bitcoin #electronictransfer
My dad was in my life. How far in it was he? We're not together, but we're still in each other's lives. He's not their biological dad, but he was the only dad they knew and he's been in their lives all their lives. My dad didn't come into my life until I was almost grown. I know that we're breaking up, but I wanna always have you in my life. He wants to be with me, but he didn't wanna be in my kid's lives, so we couldn't be together. Does being in someone's life mean providing for them, or does it mean that you're just around.
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childcare #therapy #daycare #vouchers #parents
It's like being able to afford the down payment, closing fees and the monthly payments of a house, but not being able to afford the taxes of the house. It's like being able to afford to buy the expensive car, but not being able to afford the repairs and upkeep. It really boils down to not being ready for the long road of what it costs to have something, so can you really afford it? You have to know the difference between being able to buy something and being able to afford to buy something. People do the same thing with relationships. They may be ready to get with someone, but are they ready to deal with everything that comes with being with them? Let's talk.
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4easypayments #installmentplan #afford #cheapgasnearyou
You never know when somebody is stacking their dough to make a better life for themselves by leaving you behind. By leaving everyone behind. They may be working day and night and never speaking about their secret ambitions to take the next one-way flight. This can be a problem with some couples where one person can sense that this is what the other one wants. Imagine wanting to be supportive of someone's success, when you know in the back of your mind that as soon as they make it, you're outta here. Would you still continue to support, or would you hope that they never really make it, because you know that will ground them? Is this too much to think about? Lovers and spouses of struggling entertainers go through this a lot. Let's talk.
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fame #almostfamous #moneybags #gucci #prada
There are some people that just kill your vibe when they are around. It doesn't matter whether they mean to, or not. Sometimes,it's because they're stuffy. Sometimes it's because they are judgemental. Sometimes it's because they are jealous. Sometimes it's because they are suffering from depression and can't be any fun at the time. What do you do when you are close to someone who won't let you get loose and be yourself when it's really time to? How do you remain close to them, when they are constantly killing your natural, or substance-induced high? Let's go.
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buzzkill #nofun #haters #party
Man, at work, you hear disgruntled employees saying this all the time, but why do you hear it more when people get in trouble, or when things get bad? Is it the case where people don't know what they're getting paid when they start a job? We al know what a job is hitting for when we take a job. The thing is that we actually want the jobs that we take when we interview for them. Why don't we scream about not getting paid when we are disciplined for misconduct on the job? What about other parts of our lives that cause us pain and stress? Relationships, parenting, diet, exercise, friendships, love, marriage, religion, etc. Re we getting paid enough for those things? Oh, we don't get paid anything for those things, do we? LOL. Let's rap.
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employment #unemployment #jobs #termination
Sometimes people who love each other hurt each other's feelings. Sometimes it's on purpose and sometimes it's by mistake and sometimes it's by just being yourself. Let's talk about being yourself. What do you do in a situation when the way that a person is hurts your feeling all the time? Let's say that a person is inconsiderate, to you? What if a person is selfish, to you? What if a person is unfeeling, to you? What if They're unaffectionate, to you? It may not be any of these things for real, but for the level that you need it, they are. So, what do you do? Do you breakup with them for being the way that they are, or do you try to change them? DO you just hang in there and be mad at them all the time? Is this real to you?
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turnoffs #turnons #perspective #stayingpower
Not all wake up calls are alarms. Sometimes they are signals. They can be warnings. It can happen in the form of an accident, a death of someone else, a near miss, etc.. It's supposed to be something that gets you to change your behavior, but does it? Has it ever worked for you, or someone else?
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wakeup #warning #changes #lifechange
We all have to split our time up for things that take priority. Something is gonna suffer along the way. You might make time to work more than 40 hours per week, but do you make time for recreation? Maybe you make time for recreation, but you don't make time for relationship related things. Maybe you make time for your honey, but you act like you don't wanna go to work. Maybe you make time for YOUR side of the family, but not your SPOUSE's side of the family.
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time #distance #recreation #work
In 2020, unemployment money and stimulus money was popping. The streets were supposed to be shut down and the quarantine was supposed to be in effect, but people were out in the streets and still gathering, even in secrecy. In 2021, there was stimulus money and we thought we were safe because of the vaccinations, so the cookouts and gatherings were going down. This 3rd year of COVID is showing us a different view. High gas prices. High food prices. No free money. Can you see and feel the difference? Let's talk about this.
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#stimulus #PUA #freemoney #unemployment #freefood
Ya know, there was a time that doesn't seem like it was that long ago, when you had to call a person wherever they were. If they were at home, you had to call them at home. If they were at work, you had to call them at work. There was a time when you had to wait for your favorite song to come on the radio. Even if you bought a record with your favorite songs on them, you had to put a needle on a record, or fast forward to the song that you wanted to hear. There was a process to things and the process seems to have gotten lost. Do you think that getting to know someone has gotten lost with the microwave society that we live in? Do you think that our tolerance for each other has decreased? Let's talk about this.
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filters #processedfoods #trusttheprocess #BBL
We all gotta pay bills. We have bills that we don't mind paying and we have bills that we almost refuse to pay. Let's sort them out. Car note? We probably hate the price, but you probably like the product and at least it comes to an end...only to be started again when we see another ride. Child support? Most men hate it, but you should value this payment more than your car note. Women almost never pay this when they're required to. Rent? This is a bill that some people brag about, because it's status. Go figure that. Mortgage? Most people value it, but keep it a secret. It tells too much about who we are. Credit cards? Lawd have mercy! Does anyone like these swindling bills? Let's talk about the rest.
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bills #latepayments #creditrepair #bankruptcy
There are times when you have to do something that you may not want to do, but someone else may want you to do. For some people, that's all they seem to do. Everything they do is in service to someone else. Does that work for them? Many of us have kids and when you have kids, you know that you have to do a lot of things that you may not feel like doing. You'll do it for them though, constantly. That works for most parents, but some parents really resent it. What about your spouse? Is it okay to do things all the time that they want you to do, but that you don't really want to? What about when things go against your spirit, intuition, or gut? Will/have you still do/done it? Let's talk about it.
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selfish #selfless #altruism #allaboutme
You used to roll with a whole crew back in the day and you were close to all of them. Now you only have a few friends, or just a couple of good friends. Maybe just one good one. Maybe it's just you. What happened? Where did they all go? Where your homies at?
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friends #memories #popularity #reclusive
Is this life boring? Is it even true? Does anybody really just work and take care of their kids? If it's true, was it always true and if it isn't true, what and where are the exciting things that adult parents do? A lot of times, kids will keep parents very busy, soooo... And what about 2-parent households? Do all they do is work and take care of their kids? Let's rap.
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parenting #kids #truancy #grouphomes #jobcorps
You have to know when it's time for you to move out from under someone else's roof. Many times, we only see it when arguments happen and things start getting uncomfortable. What happens when you know that it's time for you to leave, but someone insists that you should stay? This happens a lot around this time when children are graduating from high school, or coming back from school after graduating from college, or coming back from the military. How do you know when it's time for you to be on your own, or live on your own? Do you know? Are you ready?
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housingauthority #realestateinvestments #century21 #FHALoans
We have all been done wrong by someone in the past, whether it's a past love, spouse, friend, job, family, or whatever. Many of us get past it, look past it and/or grow from it. For those who don't, you'll hear about it almost every time that they speak. There are even successful people who still look to the darkest, most insignificant times in their lives as the springboard for their success, or their demise. Think Michael Jordan at his NBA Hall of Fame induction, talking about how his high school teammate was picked over him. Like WTF Mike?! Is it possible for everyone in a person's past to have done them wrong, or are people just drawing attention to themselves and playing the victim?
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exlovers #unemployment #termination #divorce
How well do you deal with the workplace talker? Do you consider them to be harmless, or dangerous? Are they neither and just irritating? How far can this go?
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#thebigtalker #foxnews #msnbc #icecream
Anyone who is really smart will tell you that it gets tough when everyone expects you to literally know everything. Anyone who is a super-talent will tell you that it's tough when everyone expects you to be able to do everything and never ever lose. The problem is that we may have embraced those roles when everything was good, but when times get hard, we expect to be remembered that we are only human. If you have ever had a woman who vibes with men well and even solves problems and shows emotional restraint the way that some men can do, we may forget that she's still a woman. In fact, she's still a girl and needs to be treated like one at times. You can't always go hard on her. Remember? Let's get into this.
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feminism #women #womensshoes #men #girlsscouts
When I went to vote yesterday, I knew little about what I was voting for, but I found out that there was a vote to have gender references removed from your identification status. Why would anyone need to have their gender removed, as a way of identifying them? After thinking about it, I remember that some may use gender as a way of discriminating against some people in the application process of employment. Really, it looks like another way that the LGBTQ may getting their way again with the whole transgender thing. What do you think? Do you agree with this legislation? Do you think that it would be useful, or necessary? Let's talk.
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LGBTQ #Transgender #Genderroles #Genderpreferences
Sometimes you can't cut off the people that you would normally cut off. Sometime s the people who have stolen from you are the same people that have given you the biggest opportunities that you have ever had. Sometimes people think that they have been robbed, but they don't realize that that's just the way the game goes. They don't really understand that that is the way that contracts go. Sometimes it's your relative who is on drugs and you just can't cut them off. Sometimes you just have to take the loss on the chin. It can feel dirty. How much do you think that the company that you work for makes for your labor, or have you only concentrated on what you were getting?
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theft #contracts #robbery
There are people who have had to make it own their own since they were young, because they got kicked out of their parent's house, or their parents weren't available. Then there are those who decided to go out on their own since they were young, because their homelife was messed up and they needed to leave. Then there are those who have never had to be on their own, or make it on their own and they have never really been on their own, but they try to make everyone believe that they have been on their own since they were young. What's your deal?
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#parents #apartments #independent #publicassistance
Self -discovery can be a muhfuh, but we can only get but so far without it. Sometimes you have to come to terms with the role that you play in the things that happen to you, whether they are good things, or bad things. It can't always be them....or can it? Let's talk.
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self-love #self-hate #fault #changeisnecessary
Name recognition can put a lot of money in the pockets of businesses and can take a lot of money out of a customer's pockets. You might feel good about having what you bought, but what you have may have good quality. Ever had a relationship like that? Ever just wanted to be down? Let's talk about it.
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highcreditline #creditrepair #freecreditreprt #creditscore
There are couples who curse each other out on a regular basis, but claim to love each other more than anything in the world. To the outside world, it looks like the most toxic thing in the world and it may actually be toxic, but to the people involved in it, it's just a Thursday. This exists even in some friendships. I guess it depends on what you're used to. Can a person talk violently, but not be violent? Let's talk.
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toxicrelationships #loveandhate #domesticviolence
One thing that people hate is when someone gets credit for something that they did not do. When they get credit for someone else's work, time and effort. Supervisors and managers are notorious for taking the credit for getting jobs done, when they were only the overseer. We all should know that we don't all receive our blessings at the same time. We also should know that there are times when someone likes us more than someone else and will hype us up over someone else, even if someone else is a little better. Would you call it straight down the line, if you were the one benefiting from the credit? Let's talk.
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credit #freecreditreport #theblamegame #allyourfault
Have you ever felt like someone only included you in something so their numbers would look stronger? Let's get a little more specific. Have you ever been dated because you were a particular complexion, race, economic status, religion, etc.? If so, how did it make you feel? Did you get something out of it, so you let it slide? Did you bail out because of it? Let's rap.
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affirmativeaction #strengthinnumbers #tokenblack
Have you ever been dating someone who introduces you to their whole family and no one in the family tells you that the person that you are dating is married, living with someone, or seriously involved with someone. This whole time, you thought that it was all about you. Were they wrong for not telling you, or were they just toxically loyal to their peoples? What about when you start a job and nobody on the job tells you how things really are on that job? Nobody tells you how messed up management is, or how the money doesn't really compensate for the work. Is that just business? In all kinds of situations, there may be times when people may be looking at you kinda funny and then later on, you find out why.
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familysecrets #lies #protection
People get mad when people who probably should be supporting don't come around as much. It's common to see things that way. Like, don't come around here when the money starts flowing, or when you think that you can get something for yourself! The truth is that people like to be involved with things that they think are hot. The hot thing is always the IN THING. Do you get pissed off when the people that you feel should be there for you consistently, only come around every now and then? Do you send them away? Let's talk it up.
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fame #KevinSamuels #Random #CryptoCurrency
I 'm not sure that we have ever seen a reaction to a death of an icon quite like this one. Kevin Samuels was an immensely popular internet relationship blogger. Known to many people and mostly to the Black community as either a hero, or an enemy. His passing has brought something out of us that I'm not sure that we have seen before. Maybe more than his life did. Let's talk.
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KevinSamuels #kevinsamuelsdeath #relationshipblogger
When a man talks to his woman, it's a lot different than a man-to-man talk. What is it about though? What does a man talk to his woman about when he sits her down for a conversation? Is it usually about something good, or is it about some problems? When a woman sits her man down to talk, many men feel like it's always about some static. Is that true from your perspective? Let's have this talk, man-to-woman, or man-to-man.
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#man-to-man #woman-to-woman
There are a lot of things that we wouldn't morally do on our own, but if we were desperate and broke enough, the game has been known to change. Let's talk about a few things that we probably wouldn't consider doing, as long as we have the resources to take care of what we need to, but might do if we were damn near broke and possibly starving with no way out. Prostitution? Drugs? Stealing? Stripping? Murder? Performing on stage? Let's see. And Let's not forget the things that people do, just because they have a bunch of money.
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cryptocurrency #internetscams #bitcoin #newmoney
It's not hard to get into thinking this, when you trust someone who isn't trustworthy. When it's a lover, it's one thing. When it's your kids, it's another thing. Have you ever defended your children for telling the truth, just to find out that they lied to you?
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Lies #Halftruth #Deception #Children
Sometimes when it looks nice, it doesn't matter if you need it. This can apply to things and to people. Some people abuse this concept. Some people don't even know when they're caught up in this concept. Let's talk.
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Pretty #GoodLooking #Attractive #TrophyWife
Sure, the body might hurt more and take longer to heal, but the REAL PAIN is the reality of mortality. Why does it seem like the end is happening all around us?
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living #dying #sickness #COVID 19 #vaccination
So, you're going into a relationship practicing abstinence. What are you giving in return?
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Abstinence #Sex #Love #Celibacy
There is nothing worse than seeing all your worst decisions in your life all wrapped up in one person. It's a hard thing. This isn't to say that you don't love your children, or that you wish that you didn't have them, but every good parent wants to see their children do better than them and take a better, easier path to success than they took. What happens when you can clearly see that your kids are making the exact mistakes that you have made? Is it all your fault? It can surely feel like it. A lot of parents try to blame their children's flaws on the other parent. We know the truth when we see it though, right?
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Grouphome #NC17 #RatedMature #Genetics
It might be for protecting your kids, or your family, or for a large sum of money, or for a way of life, or to defend your religion, or because your life was in danger. Nobody wants to go to jail, but if you had to take the chance, what would it be for? What would be worth it for you? Do you know a lot of people who feel the way that you do? Have you thought a long time about this? How much time do you think that you could do? Would it be worth it, if you had t do double-digit years? Let's rap about this.
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jail time #incarceration #prison reform
You don't always know what you're gonna get when new people come into your life. Have they been serviced correctly? You know how when you buy a used car, it's usually in good looking condition. It's running well, it may have low mileage on it, it may still have the new car smell and it may seem like a steal and a good buy. Maybe it only had 1 owner. Over time, when you're driving the car more, the check engine light may come on and you're gonna have to get it checked out. It could be something as small as an oxygen sensor. It could be something as expensive as a transmission, or a catalytic converter. The bottom line is that you will find out why the car was probably for sale in the 1st place. Sometimes the people that we meet and take into our lives are like the used cars. How have they been used and will you be able to afford the maintenance that it costs to keep them? Do you get it?
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usedcars #checkenginelight #nonewfriends #usedandabused
Dedicated to that friend of yours who is Johnnie on the spot when they are single, but MIA as soon as they get somebody to love. Not that you shouldn't give time and attention to a person who you are in love with, but if you have a pattern of abandoning friends and family when you get a man, or a woman, how are the people who you left supposed to feel when you come crawling back to them for sympathy when things don't go right between you and the person who you forgot about them to be with? People do what they do right? Let's talk about this.
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friends #lovers #abandonment #unity
Would you use another person's address so that your children could go to a better school? How about to be able to take advantage of some governmental opportunities? How about to get cheaper car insurance? Sometimes people have to go to desperate measures in order to achieve their goals, or to get ahead a little bit. Is it wrong? Who does it hurt? Ya know that they prosecute people for this stuff right?
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location #Europe #Taxes #Insurance
You might be broke this week, or you might be planning this week. For some people, the week that they don't get paid is their most productive week, while with other people, this might be the week where they have to borrow just to make it to the next week. What can you afford to do on your off-week? What if you get paid every week and it is still not enough? Let's talk.
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paydayloans #broke #paid #payingbills
How do you handle a situation where you might have feelings for a person, but you're not sexually attracted to them anymore? Not even a little bit? Can you think that someone is still good looking, but still not be physically attracted to them anymore? What has to happen for a person to make your skin crawl if they touch you? What do you do when you are married to the person who makes you feel that way? What should you do in order to be able to function in a situation like this, or is it done for good? Can it be fixed? Let's talk about it.
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metoo #yuck #turndown #donttouch
Sometimes 3 strikes get an extension on fouls. Some batters can wear a pitcher out on fouls. When your love, sympathy, or affection for someone makes you allow them to keep crossing the line. You know what happens when someone knows that you are not going to punish, or reprimand someone for wrongdoing, right? They won't respect you and they'll keep violating. You're a softie though and you believe in them, so you'll take your chances. Let's talk about it.
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3strikes #MLB #KEWL #baseball #chances
We talk about people not doing it and it makes some of us really angry, to the point of possibly coming to blows. How do we identify it though? What are the boundaries of respect? How far, or how close can someone come before they have crossed the line? Is it personal? Are we claiming things that aren't really ours sometimes? Your space, your house, your man, your woman, your job, your neighborhood, your thoughts, your feelings. The boundaries can be endless at times, so how do we claim it? Let's talk about it.
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#respect #spaces #territory #boundaries #Kewl
What if you workout and have a nice body? What if you have a natural nice figure? What if you get your hair cut, or done nice? What if you are genetically blessed with beauty? What if you have a talent that keeps people coming back again and again? What if you are a perfect balance between brains and beauty and even have a great personality? We see people on the internet everyday who are SCREAMING for attention and plenty of them get enough of it, to the point where they probably have to sift through the mess to get the attention that will serve them. What about the people who aren't looking for any attention, but get it because of who and how they are? Let's talk about them.
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attention #nicebody #prettyandsmart #wanted
When you hear people talk about what they used to do on Easter and how things used to be, you usually hear them talk about fond memories. Was it all good back in the day, or are we hyping the old times up too much? What about now? Are our children getting the good Easter that they are supposed to, or is there something else going on? Does it seem like Easter has gone the way that network TV has gone when cable came along? This is bigger than new clothes and candy. Let's talk.
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EasterSunday #Newclothes #Eastercandy #Resurrection
Somen people build things. They develop plans, find out what it costs to get supplies, determine how long it will take to complete a project and how many people need to be involved in order to get it done. They envision a work of beauty when the project is complete. Demolition experts deal with projects that are referred to them that need to be removed, so that new buildings can be constructed, or so that older, unsafe buildings don't pose a danger to the public. They also have to plan, use tools and determine how many people are needed in order to tear a structure down and how long it will take to do it. The difference between the two is how the projects make each team feel. The similarity is that neither action can be done totally independently. Do you see how this would play out socially? No? Have you ever felt like someone tried to build you up? Have you ever felt like someone tried to tear you down? Did you understand the reasons for either one? Let's talk.
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construction #demolition #conspiracy #termination
It's easy to have financial problems due to unforseen circumstances, plots, schemes and bad deals, but what do you do when the real problem with your money is YOU? It's one thing to have a shopping habit, or a spending problem, but what do you do when it seems like having money is when everything seems to go wrong for you? Do you know how to get out of your way? Do you know how to get out of your financial way? Do you know how to stop your financial situation from running your life? Like I said, it's one thing when being broke is what's causing your problem. What do you do when having a little bit of money is makes you go get high, or start helping people to hurt you? Can we have this conversation?
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moneyproblems #brokeandugly #lifelessons #success
There are different ways to fight. Did you know that there are different ways to be afraid to fight? Some people are afraid to fight people that they don't know. Some people are afraid to fight people that they know, because of the outcome of the fight if they do win. Hard to understand? Think about this. Have you ever loved someone so much, but were aware that the person that you are dealing with may not be as much into you as you were into them? These are the kind of situations that may make you bite youyr tongue at times when you really want to speak up, for fear that they may break up with you, or stop speaking to you. Yeah, I know that it sounds weak, but it's real and it happens. So, let's have this conversation.
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fear #fighting #arguing #worldstarr
We all grew up somewhere and wherever we grew up, there was a culture there and some ways that people thought the same ways. Some of those things made sense to us and we may still think that way til this day. What happens when we move on from those original teachings, ways and thoughts? What happens when you start talking above your conditioning to those who conditioned you?
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conditions #soulfood #hood
Have we been purposely misinterpreting the struggle? For example, we know that we have to workout and eat right in order to lose weight and be healthier, so when we stop dieting and end exercising, are we consciously accepting our fate as being a bad health target? Yeah, consciously accepting our fate. Is that what we do? If so, how often and how openly do we do that? How many of us really listen to the advice that our doctors give us? Do we do what he/she says, or do we only do the things that fit what we really want to do already? Do we even trust our doctors? Is trusting the advice of a doctor or a lawyer accepting your fate? Let's rap.
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nowayout #shaderoom #rockthebells #healthcaremarketplace
It's Monday, so we may as well air some things out. A lot of the kids are on vacation, because of the holiday coming up. You know that they're gonna be running around, going wild. The weather is about to break, so a whole bunch of summer sounds are about to start irritating you beyond end. Sounds like 4 wheelers, dirt bikes and motorcycle convoys that make traffic even more hectic. Allergies are about to be on tilt. Unfaithful lovers might start acting a fool. What are your beefs? What are the things that you won't put up with at this time? Let's talk about it.
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nono #nana #restricted #beatit
When prices go up on the stuff that we were buying, do we ask ourselves if we were comfortable with what we were paying before? With the wages that we are making staying the same, how are we affording the rising prices on the stuff that we're buying? Are we contributing to the problem by continuing to buy products that cost too much? Is there anything that we can do? Let's have this conversation.
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food #gasprices #chickenwings #inflation
People shed tears for their pain. Their pain can come in a lot of ways. It can come in the physical, in the emotional, in the spiritual. It can come when you least expect it, or when you were trying to hide it the most. There are situations that will make you try to hide your pain, no matter how bad it hurts. A lot of times, it's the people who may see you cry that make the pain of what you were crying about even more unbearable. What's up with that though? Why are there some people who we would NEVER allow to see us hurting and expressing our pain? Let's talk about it.
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crying #hurting #sorrow #pain
Anyone who knows about traveling within the U.S. knows that Spirit-Frontier Airlines is the cheapest flight that you can afford and you are more than likely to arrive in one piece. The flight might be terrible though. You may be cramped beside someone else and there probably won't be any food served, or services granted on the plane, but you will get there. Anyone who has known someone who worked at an airport knows that they can get buddy passes that will allow you to travel for free. It's a great deal, until you find out that your boarding passes are contingent upon paying customers having priority over you. Your 1PM flight may become your 11PM flight. See, it's a great gesture, but it doesn't always turn out right. Do we choose some of our friends in this way? Don't get it? Let's talk about it.
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spiritairlines #frontierairlines #buddypasses #cheapflights
Sure, there are plenty of reasons that people breakup, but what reasons do they stay broken up? Do you know?
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What does it mean when someone who you know does not like you, speak up for you against someone else? Have you ever found out that your enemy voted for your success in some area of your life? Have you ever found out that someone who you thought was out for revenge against you, helped you win at something? What could be the reason for something like this? What could be their motive for doing something nice for you? Are they setting you up for only them to do you in? Situations like this aren't good for our paranoia is it? Let's have this talk.
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We all know what a one-night-stand is, or do we? Some people say that a one-night-stand is when you have sex with someone and never see, or hear from them again. Other people say that a one-night-stand is when you only have sex with a person one time, whether you see them again or not. How do you see it? What is a one-hit-wonder? I call a one-hit-wonder a sexual encounter where you have sex with someone, but you don't want to have sex with them again. You might know why and aren't telling them, or they won't have sex with you again and aren't telling you why. One of you is wondering what happened, even though the both of you have clues to exactly why. You might still wonder why wasn't there a second chance. Let's talk about this.
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People complain about where they work all the time. Some love what they do and some people seem to hate their jobs. What are the benefits to working at a job that you don't like? Is the pay good? Would you take a job that didn't pay you well? Is money the biggest factor, to the point where the low pay can make a good job seem good and where good pay can make a bad job seem goo? What would you do in a situation like this? Has the pandemic and the stimulus money changed everybody's perspective about working and jobs? Let's talk.
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You can have sex without trust, but can you be all up under somebody without trust? You can have sex with someone without kissing them, but can you hug the stress out of someone without caring about them? You can have a baby with someone who you barely know, but can you share the same bed with someone night after night, without trusting them on a high level? We always remember the first person who we had sex with, but do we always remember who taught us how to be affectionate? Do we always remember who taught us how to love? We usually remember the first person who rejected our affection though, right? Why would anyone resist a cuddle?
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You can always find reasons to break up, but let's explore some of the obvious reasons that we stay. This list will state some of the obvious reasons, to the ones that will make you ask: People really stay together for that? Yes! Yes they do! Let's talk.
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Most women will tell you that all they really want is someone that they can love and trust. Most men will tell you that they can trust and love. It sounds like the same thing, but look at the order that each lists which one they need 1st. A lot of women will give their affection freely and wait for the rest to come. Many women try to make the best of it, until they see otherwise. Men will often concern themselves with trust, but will often throw caution to the wind, if love comes over them. What happens when a man has mommy issues? In other words, what happens when the 1st example of a woman in a man's life has somehow failed him? It can be an uphill battle for a woman who is dealing with him, especially if she is trying to give herself to him. Let's have this conversation though.
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Do you feel better when you go shopping and get some new stuff? Does it make some of your worries seem manageable? Do you just like getting new stuff? There's nothing wrong with that. A lot of people are that way. What happens when the new things aren't the things that will get you going? What about the people who feel better when they can recover the things that take them back to another time when things were a little better? What happens when people are happier to get something old back, than they are to get something new? Can this be a good thing?
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Some people associate loyalty with exclusivity. Like some people will only buy things from people and places that they know. How about you? Do you deal openly in business with strangers, or do you stick with who you know? Are you usually happy with who you know? When you aren't, what happens? Let's talk.
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Most of the world knows about what happened at the Oscar's this year. Will Smith slaps comedian Chris Rock for making a joke about his wife, then goes on to win an Oscar for best actor, later on that night. There are a lot of differing opinions about whether Will went too far to defend his wife, or whether he did the appropriate thing. Who's to say? While some applaud Will Smith, others say that he was totally out of line. Where do you stand with this? What do you think? Let's get into this.
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It's no secret that inflation is going through the roof these days. It seems like between food and gas, it's really hard to afford a lot of things that we may have taken for granted before. How have you been holding up in the wake of this everlasting pandemic? Are you just getting by? Are you doing as well as you always have? Are you struggling? Re you spending more and saving less, but otherwise remaining the same? This is a serious issue that affects each of us. Why doe it seem like some people are immune to these rising prices of everything? Is it me, or does it seem like some groups of people are feeling it more than others? Is it more of an US problem? I hope not. Let's have a talk about it. That's what we're talking about today at 1PM ET on The Urban Therapy with Sun Show. Check this out: https://youtu.be/6OJwKZR-ADo Call In # 319-527-6199 to listen live on the air, comment live, or chat. #money #gasprices #foodprices #inflation
Has anyone ever asked you to do a favor for them that you agreed to, but when you did it for them, it made you feel bad? It might have made you feel dirty. It may have made you feel guilty, or culpable. For example, let's say that a friend, or family member asked you to drop them off at an airport, but when you were driving them to the airport, you found out that they were going on a trip with the person that they were cheating on their spouse with. You didn't expect that, even though you may be aware that your friend is a cheater. You didn't think that they would make you an accomplice to their dealings. Stuff like that. Now you're walking around all day with this nasty feeling like you washed your face with a mildew rag. You can't shake the smell.
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You know that keeping their mouth shut is really a challenge for some people. Some claim to do it way more than others do. Sometimes it's for good reason and sometimes it's because they might not know what to say, or who to say it to. When you see something going on that you don't agree with, do you speak up about it, or do you speak up about it? Have you ever kept your mouth shut about something bad that was happening to you? We probably all have for different reasons. Has keeping your mouth shut done you more good than harm over the years, or has it been the other way around? Are you unsure about either? Let's talk.
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It's a common situation that deals with couples today. Financial problems can cripple a romance. The question is why does it take a while to become an issue? Is it okay to be broke in the beginning of a relationship, or is it that in the beginning, you're concentrating on all the physical things of a relationship, that you believe that all the other important things will fall into place? On the issue of not knowing how to treat a man, how does that work? What does not knowing how to treat a man mean? Does it mean the same things to every couple? It's time to have this talk.
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If kids knock over something in the house and it doesn't break, they can put it right back where it was and nobody will notice that it was ever missing, or out of place. A dog can't do that. A cat can't do that. They have to just leave things the way that they were and implicate themselves. They have no choice. They don't have hands, and they don't understand the way that things are supposed to be. They just stand there with that silly look on their face when they know that they are about to get in trouble. Some human beings do the same thing and we often wonder why didn't they just put things back the way that they were? Why didn't they just make it right? Why didn't they avoid the trouble? Why didn't they keep the question from being asked? SMMFH! This is gonna be kinda deep tonight.
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It's the beginning of the spring and every year when this time comes. People like to start fresh. All the things from the winter start to be tucked away and room for the new stuff must be made. It's a whole vibe and a whole feeling. Do some people take it too far? Do some people renew things that can be reused, or can continued to be used? Why does Walmart and stores like that sell so many TV's around tax season? Tax season is around the same time as the spring. Why do so many people buy used cars around tax time too? Is it that they didn't have a car, or did the car that they had from last year break down? Is renewing something in sync with having enough money to get something and do we go overboard? Do we renew relationships every year?
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When you're not friends anymore and it's the fault of one of you. One claims that the other sold them out. The other says that that they didn't sell out at all. They just did what they had to do. What does that mean? Which one is telling the truth? Whose story is the right one. What does it mean for someone to turn their back on you? Is it that your expectations of loyalty are more than what most people can deliver, or did someone really do you dirty and leave you stranded in your time of need? As they say, there's 2 sides to every story and then there's the truth. Let's get to it.
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Just To Get A Reaction. Babies have to do it, because they cannot communicate any other way. We know that children do it because they learn that it works. When does it stop? Probably when it stops working? We know that there are people who swear by this and those who get off by doing this. We may also know that there are people who may hate this, but still feed into this. This might actually explain the entire entertainment industry when you think about it. How can this affect you personally? Let's get into this.
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Why do people gotta assume that just because I'm Black that I been to jail before? Unfortunately, it could be because it is often so true. How many of us is it though? What does it take to be a Black man and never have a clash with police that may end in an arrest? Is it to a point where we are suspicious of a Black man who has never been arrested, or incarcerated for a little while? Is incarceration our identification of a Black Card? Let's talk.
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What are we talking about with staying with someone? We can be talking about if you stay with someone in a relationship under certain circumstances, or you can be talking about staying with someone under their roof. Either way, you are going to have to make compromises. Can you do it? To some people, these are called conditions and a lot of people don't like the word conditions. We all have them though. What are yours?
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I can shake it off like a dog does when it gets wet. Things don't affect me the way it does to some people. I can take it. I can handle it. IDGAF. If it ain't paying me, it don't matter to me. All these sayings sound good and they can be convincing until you find out that someone that you like and respect thinks that you're stupid or ugly. Yeah, ugly. It is amazing how that little word can do so much damage when you hear it being said to you at a young age. Stupid does the same thing. How far do we go to hide our hurt and pain. Are we just saying it, or are you truly living it?
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When you say that you are on top of things, what question are you answering? Are you saying that if you were asked if you finished what you were supposed to do at work, you could confidently answer yes, or are you saying that you should be in talks of a raise and/or a promotion? What would being on top of things mean in love? Would it mean that you relationship is going well and the two of you are in tune with each other, or would it mean that you know for a fact that your partner is, or is not cheating on you and doing you wrong? Are you ready?
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So happy to get that ride that you didn't even care about the monthly payment. So happy to finally get that girl that you ignored all the warning signs. You was so happy to get that house that you didn't even pay attention to the interest rate.
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A lot of people agree that you need to be able to trust someone in order to keep the love going, but what about understanding? We know that opposites attract, but you can probably understand someone who is different than you, even if you don't agree with what they do. What if you don't understand them enough to function with them? Understanding can deal with being able to trust someone. If you understand the reasons why someone does something, it will probably help you to feel comfortable that they will do the right things and be reliable. What do you think?
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If you have ever battled depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, etc., you know that there can be certain triggers that will set off some of the mental issues that you may have experienced and may make you seek help to keep from going over the deep end. The question that people may have is that, if you know what can trigger you to have an episode, are you really having an episode? Are you really out of control of what's happening to you? Is it a chemical imbalance, or are you just acting out? Does every deep negative emotion require professional help? Let's have this talk.
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In gambling. At work. In relationships. With legal matters. In business. What does getting yours mean? It can mean good things as we know. It can mean bad things. Some of us dream of having this type of timing. What if you knew the exact time to get in and out of situations? Would you still play fair? Would you be able to? Would you share what you know? Many of us have made the mistake of either staying too long, or leaving too early. After that happens, do we get better at it? Is there a way to get better at that?
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There's a difference between someone who is convincing and someone who has a golden tongue. A person who is convincing may present enough evidence of something that seems logical, that you see the sense in believing, or doing. The person with the golden tongue is usually slick, smooth and fixes the words that he uses to put you in a situation that makes you want to take a chance. The person with the golden tongue is a hustler, who knows his audience and makes sure that he targets them every chance he gets. Your children may be influential, but do they have golden tongues? Let's look into this.
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When you have stress in your life, it can be hard to not say things like: When it rains, it pours. Why do we feel that way? Why do people often agree with it? It seems like when one good thing happens to someone and they talk about it being a sign of more good things to come, we look at them a little funny and tell them not to get carried away. Is that right? Well, let's see.
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Love? Sex? Food? Money? A ride somewhere? A conversation? Some oxygen? Sleep? What do you do when you need it right now? What happens when what you need is delayed until later? What about when you can't get what you need right now? What do you do as a substitute? Is a substitute available and sufficient? Can I get some answers right now? I need that.
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A graduation? A baby being born? A court date? A move in? A marriage? A divorce? A death? A windfall? A fight? A lot of things will get family members to come around, but there also things that will make family become invisible, or hard to reach. Things like needing money, a place to stay, or when you need help moving furniture. Let's talk about when family is on its way, or out of the way.
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Get with someone who is easy to have sex with and have children with them, then stay with them as long as you can for the sake of the children. Have a baby with a gold digger and keep up your child support payments. Date men who make their money on the streets and spend your time trying to get him to go straight and stop going to jail. After all, opposites attract. Move in with someone who is good looking and who is good in bed, as soon as possible. Don't let a month go by. Marry them before you get to know them too well. Getting to know someone takes too long and it spoils all the fun. Plus, who gets married after they get to know someone nowadays? More tips will be given out on this very important show.
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Do you clearly understand what your expectations are? When someone says that they are going to do something for you, or to you, what do you expect from them? When you start a new job, what are your expectations of the job? When you start dating someone, what are your expectations of them in the beginning? How long does it take for your expectations to change? Is there a difference between what you can reasonably expect and what you hopefully expect? On the internet, people who expect people to think exactly the way that they do wind up deleting and blocking people a lot. Do you agree? Let's get into it.
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You know how some people act when they haven't had sex in a long while. You know how people get when they have been broke for a long time and finally get their finances in order. Some people go hog wild when they get a little piece of the action. What happens when people finally find peace though? How do people act when people become comfortable in their own skin? Let's get into this.
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We pick up things in our travels. Games, gadgets, trinkets, souvenirs, etc.. How do you decide what should be valuable to you, or not. Have you ever tried to keep something that belonged to a lover that you were dealing with? Some things might be given to you like money, holiday gifts, birthday gifts and things that you may have helped pay for. Some things might have to be given back, like an engagement ring that didn't result in marriage. No, an engagement ring is NOT a keepsake. An animal is not a keepsake. Children are not keepsakes. What are keepsakes? Try that stuffed animal that you won at the carnival. You can probably keep that. See where we're going with this?
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I didn't know that this was a thing. Just when you think that you have the Black struggle all figured out, we get thrown a curveball. Some of our conscious leaders are posting videos of Africans in the Ukraine and Poland being mistreated. They are saying that what is happening to the Ukranian should be none of our concern, because the Eastern Europeans have mistreated people who look like us. Some of the blogs and videos go on to suggest that what is happening in Ukraine is somewhat of a just desserts for the way that they have treated darker skinned people. What is your take on this? What are your thoughts about the Ukrainian situation, as it relates to our struggle? Do we have the luxury of being able to just write off this situation, or is there more at store than just what is going on overseas?
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All of us were younger at one time and when we were, there's a good chance that we used to like to go out a lot, drink, talk, get high, meet new people, etc. As crazy as it may seem, that might not fully qualify you as an extrovert. It's the same as just because you stay in the house a lot, might not fully qualify you as an introvert. Today, we're gonna talk about what it means to be an introvert and an extrovert and what can happen to reverse that way of being. Are you ready for this? This is for your friends that might not see you a lot anymore. It might not be their fault....but it might be.
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Have you ever gotten really hyped up, cut up and dressed up for an event, or an outing, only to have the whole thing bomb? Sitting there looking and feeling crazy, because you spent a lot of time and money on an outfit, hairstyle and transportation, all to have it all be worth nothing, because the date, or event got all messed up. Has it ever happened to you?
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There's a New Edition Show going on in the city tonight. Some people who have tickets ain't gonna be able to go, or they're not going to have a good time, because they are going to the show with someone who doesn't want them to cheer for another man, or men. Even as just a fan, they don't want it. As ridiculous as this seems, this happens often enough with a lot of couples that struggle with jealousy in their relationships. Sometimes is soft jealousy, like making sure that someone isn't disrespectful in their flirting, to hard jealousy, where someone can't even look at someone else, without getting into an argument about it. What about you? Would you go off if your man, or woman expressed an appreciation of someone else's looks? Have you ever had it done to you?
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Being a dependent is not an easy thing. When someone knows that you need them for the smallest things that they have to offer, they can sometimes become arrogant, controlling, or insulting. We all fall on hard times at some point in life, but there are levels to this. For one person, it may be that their car is down. For another person, it may be that they need a place to stay. for someone else, it may be that their washing machine, or refrigerator is broken. You never know how someone is gonna act when you have to depend on them for some minor things. Of course, it may not be that minor if it goes on for too long, which may be the real problem. Let's have this talk.
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We hear about crazy stories about lovers on social media blocking each other, calling each other's friends and followers and showing out on social media. We hear about couples putting all of their business out there for people that they don't know to see, hear and judge. We see people put up dozens of pictures for the world to see, only to have those pics removed a month, or year later. We know that there are people who abuse social media, but is the problem social media, or is the problem the behavior of the people on social media? Let's talk about this.
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Not everyone dates, or marries someone because of their looks. Some people are more concerned with personality, finances, family ties, affection, future prospects, love, loyalty, decency, education, intelligence and other redeeming qualities that don't have anything to do with looks. That's not to say that people who aren't good-looking always have those qualities and people who are better looking don't, but those qualities might be what some might substitute for not being able to stomach the Prom Queen. Could you do it though? Could YOU do it? Maybe you already have before. Let's talk about it.
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There is a whole lot of inboxing going on these days. What does it mean? How does it affect us? Why do some people have their inbox flooded with greetings and offers, while other people's inboxes are relatively quiet? Have you ever wanted to get in contact with someone on social media, but decided not to do so, because you didn't know them personally and you thought that contacting them on social media might make you look desperate and thirsty? Is social media further changing the way that we date and get to know someone? If a man contacts another man on social media, does that mean that he is jealous, or gay? Let's have this talk.
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Have you ever been involved with someone who tries to set the negative tone of a relationship from the start? Have you ever dealt with anyone who lets their negative ways sneak up on you? Have you ever been involved with someone who finds fault with any and every little thing that comes up and tries to make you feel bad for not engaging? Have you ever been involved with anyone who tries to make every situation about them, or tries to play the victim all the time? Have you ever been involved with anyone who sees nothing wrong with any one of these?
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Have you ever been involved with someone who tries to set the negative tone of a relationship from the start? Have you ever dealt with anyone who lets their negative ways sneak up on you? Have you ever been involved with someone who finds fault with any and every little thing that comes up and tries to make you feel bad for not engaging? Have you ever been involved with anyone who tries to make every situation about them, or tries to play the victim all the time? Have you ever been involved with anyone who sees nothing wrong with any one of these?
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They say that a man spends his money where his heart is. Is it possible for some men to love hard, but be tight with the budget and the wallet? What about women? Are women often stingy with helping out with bills, gifts, etc, but otherwise very loving and attentive? Is that the way that they're supposed to be?
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There are so many ways to get in touch with someone nowadays. You can call, text, check their social media, email, video call, etc. It didn't used to be this way. There was a time when getting a phone number was everything towards getting to know someone. It was the best way to get to know someone, besides being right there with someone. Some people still live by those standards. Some people are extremely selective about who is able to have a direct line towards contacting them. In this day and age, what would be the reason that people are guarded with their phone numbers? Let's talk about what it could mean.
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You see a whole lot of expression online. We see people who want to take all their clothes off. We have people who don't even want you to see their faces. We have people who want to show you how many people that they know and people who don't want you to see their children. There are people who portray an image of wealth and affluence and people who display all of their depression and sometimes violent tendencies online. Where do you draw the line of what you want the internet to see? Where does it go for you?
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We be like: That did it! That's the last straw! I ain't doing this no more! Of course we're not always yelling it, but are we always meaning it? And what about the day after? How do we add to our lives by subtracting? Not saying that it can't be done, because it certainly can, but how much are we thinking about that when we proclaim to end something for good? Have most things that have been ended for good, been done by us, or by something else? When we close the door on something, we close the door on opportunity, right? How does it usually play out?
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Some people get tattoos of almost anything. Some people get tattoos of special things and some people can't be convinced to get a tattoo. Which one are you? Is it just body art to you, or is it more symbolic of something greater? What would it take for you to get someone's name tatted on your body?
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Sometimes distance makes you forget why y'all aren't together anymore, but if you talk to them, or meet up with them, they'll remind you.
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Have you ever dealt with someone who may be pretty, smart, motivated, hard working and compassionate, but might be otherwise ratchet, loud and ghetto as hell? How about a man who knows how to get money at work, or on the streets, but might not be the type of person who you take to a formal dinner. No disrespect. Being ghetto is about more than roaches in the house and raising pit bulls. It ain't all pig's feet and Kool-Aid. Let's make some comparisons.
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Have you ever dealt with a person who might be an enemy, but you can't tell, because they don't talk to you, they talk to your peoples? They might be hating, but you'll never know firsthand, because they only talk to your peoples. They might be a fan, but you can't be sure, because they only speak to you through your peoples. Being non-confrontational is one thing, but what is it when someone tries to get to know you , only through your people. Has it ever happened to you? Have you ever done it to someone ? What's the reason for it?
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Everybody can't get graded on the same scale. Some are worthy of going the extra mile for and others might have to wait. Others might get an excuse. Others might be told no. Others might not be agreed with and might be bailed out on. What makes the ones that you would take a risk for worthy? Is it because they are blood family? Is it because they would do it for you? Is it because you love them? Let's see how we handle this one.
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Have you ever been involved with someone who won't let you be yourself? Someone who insists that you live up to the standards that they have set for themselves, or have set for you. Have you ever been around someone who makes you feel silly and stupid because of the way that you think, or the things that you do? Have you ever been around someone who tries to stifle your talent and personal growth? If so, how long did it take for you to realize that this was going on? How long did you put up with this? Are you still putting up with it and wondering how you got there? Let's rap.
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When have you ever heard anyone verbally abuse someone, but treat them like kings and queens otherwise? Think about it for a minute, because it requires some thought. Kings and queens get respected y everyone. There is no one who will get away with openly disrespected a king, or a queen, so to say that someone doesn't talk to someone else respectfully, but they treat them great otherwise, stops their treatment of being a king or queen in their tracks. We probably all grew up saying that it doesn't matter what anyone says about us, as long as they don't put their hands on us. Is that right? Does it feel that way? What lasts longer, getting a bloody nose and/or a black eye, or being called ugly and stupid at a young age? Marinate on that and let's get into this.
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Sometimes you're on the fence about whether you want to be in a relationship, at a job, in a house, in a club, etc. It's not always an easy decision to make, when the living, or existing conditions aren't what you want to be a part of. You may hate the place, but like the people, or vice versa. The thing about it is that when you play the game of being in and out, other people who want you to be in have a hard time being comfortable with you. You begin to seem unreliable to them. They don't know if they can trust you, because they don't know if you're going to be there. There can be a loyalty issue.
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Unfortunately, the end of a relationship might be the best time to find out about the integrity of you've been dealing with. Some people are ruthlessly petty after a breakup. It can seem like they have been building a file on you during the entire time that you have been together. Not everyone handles hurt feelings well. Some people act out, even if they aren't hurt in a relationship. They employ the mantra of: I'll get you before you get me. Does anything go after a bad breakup? What if you are still connected by children that you have together? What's the worst thing that you have ever done to someone after a breakup? Were you justified in doing it? Did it make you feel better?
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We hear people say all the time, that a drunk tongue speaks a sober mind. Some people take this literally and don't believe people are honest about their thoughts and feelings when they are sober. What does this mean? Does it mean that when some people are sober that they are liars and are deceptive? Maybe some are that way, but could it go for that many people? There seems to be some trouble with this way of thinking, because by the premise of this saying, the only time when you would be able to believe something that someone said would be when they are under the influence of drugs or alcohol. If someone said that you were pretty, or handsome, would you believe it when they said when they were sober, or when they were high? What about if they said that you were ugly? What role does our insecurities play in this?
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So, they were there when it happened and you were there when it happened. The way that the story was reported was a lot different than what really happened, so you filled in all the blanks that were left out. Now, you're the enemy and you thought that you were setting the record straight, to protect that people who were involved. Now what?
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Metaphorically, we've been eating things that we hate for years. Who has been serving the meals? When we eat something, we seek to satisfy our hunger. That hunger could be for food, knowledge, money, success, love, spirituality, etc. We seek to feed ourselves. Sometimes the meal is good and sometimes we have to eat things that don't really taste that good, but will keep us from starving. From the time that we were very young, we have eaten a variety of meals and our satisfaction has been dependent upon who was serving the meals and how they were preparing the meals. When was the last time you had to eat something that you didn't like? Was it food, or something else? Do you eat what you like on a regular basis?
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From the time that we are young, we try to fit in with the people that we grow up with, the people who raised us, or the people that we are exposed to. Oftentimes we find out that we just don't vibe with them, even though we may get along with some of them. This can be a sour spot for you if you're the type of person that HAS to fit in with the crowd, or HAS to be accepted by others. Why wouldn't you fit in though? Are you that different from the rest of the pack? Do you not listen to the same music, watch the same shows and movies? Do you not read the same books? There are probably many things that would explain your individuality. Wanna hear about it? Here it go!
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Many men fear marriage because of the financial loss that comes with divorce. What happens when they don't even fight for their stuff in a breakup? It happens. Some men stand to lose everything in a pending divorce settlement, but they just let it go? Is it guilt? Do they stand to gain something more, if they sacrifice what they will lose for now? Are some men just too emotionally spent in a divorce to fight for their assets? Do women do this? Women have been stereotyped to take their spouses to the cleaners when it comes to divorce. Do they all do this? Are there well to do women out there who allow themselves to lose assets in a divorce, or do they usually fight for every penny? What do you think? What do you know?
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Your brother might lie and you might cover it up. Your brother might sell drugs and you say that it's just to make ends meet. Your brother might steal and you may feel like your brother only steals from the rich. Your brother may be a cheater and you may feel like your brother just does what your brother does and other people do the same. There will eventually become a time when your brother does something that you cannot defend him and where you will have to reevaluate your feelings in your relationship. How will you handle it when that time comes? Will you be able to confront your brother about who he is and what he is doing, or will you have to pretend that nothing has changed and that things will take care of themselves? Well?
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Too many take kindness for being weakness, or an opportunity to take something away from you. Have you ever just been nice to someone who sees you as a love interest, when you don't see them that way? That can have you reevaluating whether being nice to someone is the way to go. You might do better being stoic, or indifferent towards them. At the same time, appearing poker-faced to new people that you meet can come off as being cold. You may not want to come off that way. How do you treat people nice and ward off predators at the same time? It's not easy to have to be mean, when you really just wanna be nice. Let's take a look at it.
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Maybe I shouldn't have gone down on them on the 1st date. Maybe I should have gotten her/his number from her/him before I decided to call them. Maybe I should have made sure that other job was gonna hire me before I quit my other job. Maybe having sex without that condom that I had in my back pocket wasn't such a great idea. Maybe I should have done this. Maybe I shouldn't have done that. Yeah, we all go through it in some way. How do you deal with it?
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Do you try to place limitations on the way that you feel about things? Do you try to only love but so much, get sad but so much, get angry but so much, GAS but so much? If so, why? Why do we try to put a cap on the way that we feel about the way we feel? Is it to protect ourselves from something? Could it be to protect other people from panicking for some reason? What could it be?
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Is it possible to take away a person's adult experience by allowing them to be a child past their time? When you see someone as being forever young, as in the case of being a son or a daughter, do you limit their responsibilities and stunt their growth? Is the adult experience all about struggling, paying bills and raising children to do the same? Is that all there is to being an adult? Do we surround ourselves with people who take that away from us and can that be a good thing? Is it all bad? We know about taking away someone's childhood and we resent that. Do we resent having our adulthood taken away?
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You ain't ever had nothing before. You ain't used to having nothing. You ain't ever had no home training. We judge a lot of things off of the way that people look and act in the here and now. Does it serve its purpose for us to assess the way that a person is? What if a person came from nothing, but now they have a lot, or a little something something? Does what they didn't have before mean anything to us? Can we tell just by looking?
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It's a point of contention with some people, but it should probably be a no-brainer. Let's look at why it's not. There are a lot of things going on with couples today, by the way of gender roles and positioning. We hear questions everyday about who should be the provider, who should do the cooking, the cleaning, the laundry, paying the bills, etc.? Everyone seems to have a different opinion on who should do what. So, if a man and a woman are together, is there a certain way that a woman should act when she is around other men? Is there a way that she dress? Should a woman conduct herself in a way that should discourage other men from trying to court her? What are the boundaries of respect that need to be recognized by both parties? Are y'all ready for this?
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Everyone has a struggle and everyone deserves a break every now and then when they slip up. Some people make things bad for others on a regular basis and they are always the ones that people seem to try to get you to be sympathetic to. That wouldn't be that bad, but on top of that, they want you to do nice things for them in the name of teamwork, or not being petty. Is this alright with you? Can you do it? Are you the type that believes in giving people what's coming to them, or do you take the high road when people violate you?
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Some people retire before retirement age in order to take advantage of the benefits. Some people travel, or start new businesses of their own. Some people retire after the retirement age and they may not have been ready to retire. Sometimes they get bored with not the daily routine to keep them busy and preoccupied. This can lead to a variety of problems with depression. Sometimes marriages and relationships end because of infidelity. It can sound ridiculous that retirement could cause cheating, but with the invention of ED drugs, a lot of men are catching their 2nd wind. Some people just don't know what to do with themselves after retirement. What y'all know about this?
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A lot of people start a lot of shit at home. They reserve all their messiness for the family, or roommates that lives with them. These are the people who can make living with them a living hell. They always have some craziness going on at home. Then you have the housebroken adults who do their daily dirt, but they do it outside of the home. They are housebroken. They don't like a lot of shit going on in the home. They may reserve their shit for the job, or anything else that they may be involved with. Which one of these would you say more accurately describes you?
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We all know what happened after what happened happened. We had to do the clean up, the damage control, the explaining, the excuses, the alibis and the identification of who was to blame. What about before what happened? Did we prepare ourselves for what happened, or were we completely blind-sided? For example, are murderers surprised when they get arrested and charged for murder, or do they really believe that they got away with what they did? Do drug dealers get surprised when their spots get raided, or when they get charge with federal offenses? We might ask: How can they be surprised? Well, rest assured that they are often very surprised. It's easy to get caught off guard when things are going well, especially when you have people telling you to stop worrying so much, when you try to alert them to the dangers of what they may be getting involved in. So what about you and the day before you had your tragic events? Was everything all good, or did you know that it was coming?
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Every single one of us has a cousin who just came home from jail, or a brother who is still in the streets running shit, or an uncle who has changed his life around, but is still ready to get busy on anyone who messes with his peoples. Many of us have an aunt who used to be able to kick any girl's ass when she was growing up and she has never lost that fire. These are the people that we go and get when someone tries to play us, cheat us, hurt us, disrespect us, or outnumber us. For SOME reason, no matter how many people try to come at us wrong, the family member that we go and get seems to even the odds in the situation, with just the addition of himself. But what about them? Who takes care of them? Who takes up for them? Who defend them? We let them take charges, do time, be reckless, etc. and what is their reward for their protective service? Think about that. Let's get into this.
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Why does being rejected seem to have such a powerful effect on some people? Why do people get rejected and get upset about someone that they have seen move on, even if the person has moved on in a negative way? Does that make any sense? On one hand, they may feel like the story would have turned out better if they had been the chosen one, instead of the person that was chosen. On the other hand, sometimes people get upset that they weren't chosen to be part of the story, regardless of how the story played out? Like: Oh, you'll cheat on your wife and have a baby with her, but not with me?! Get it?
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What do you do when you have a lot of free time? Do you do constructive things, or is that when all the trouble starts? It matters. Trust me, it matters. Think about it for yourself and for other people that you know.
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How has the recent surge of COVID infections affected your desire to go out and be around people? Does it make you not want to go out to eat, party, gather, worship, date? When the 1st wave of COVID came, we had quarantining, masks and social distancing to keep us aware of the risks that were involved. Now the world is open, but the situation is worse in some ways. For example, children weren't getting infected in high numbers the way that they are now. Now, the babies are getting it and the vaccine doesn't seem to be working. How has it affected you?
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How do you get someone to stop teasing you, if they think that it's playful and you don't? How do you stop someone from embarrassing you when they think that it's cute? How do you get someone who you are close to to change their behavior, when they see nothing wrong with what they're doing? These seem like really hard things to do when you have no ideas to arm yourself, only your anger and frustration. Let's look at some things that we CAN do though. You ready?
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abuse #mistreatment #habits #self-control
How do you get someone to stop teasing you, if they think that it's playful and you don't? How do you stop someone from embarrassing you when they think that it's cute? How do you get someone who you are close to to change their behavior, when they see nothing wrong with what they're doing? These seem like really hard things to do when you have no ideas to arm yourself, only your anger and frustration. Let's look at some things that we CAN do though. You ready?
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They say that when you forgive someone, that it's for you, not them. Who is it for when you haven't really forgiven someone? When someone has done you wrong, you have the choice to forgive them or not, but sometimes your heart wants you to forgive, but your mind and ego says not. That means that the heart will have to go it alone. It can work, because it looks like you have forgiven, but your actions say otherwise. Are you wrong for not forgiving all the way? Do you have to? What does fake forgiveness look like? Let's get into it.
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There are times when people just really wanna believe the wrong things about you and there's nothing that you can do about it. Like when people believe that you grew up with money. If someone believes that you had money growing up, they'll use that to explain any time that you act spoiled, or entitled, even though you may be just fighting for your due rights. If someone believes that you used to be a hoe, or a player, it's very hard to prove to them that you were never that way. You might be better off explaining that you are just not a hoe no mo. Get it?
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liesandtruth #rumors #grapevine #falsehood
Let's deal with the question of ownership in a relationship. Do you think that most relationship and marriages are set up with a 50/50 mindset, or do you think that it might take time to get to that point? What about when a couple moves in together? Does that automatically mean that they are ready to share? We know that when a couple isn't legally married, the state doesn't consider any of their assets to be community property. When you leave, you take what's yours and they take what's theirs. So let's talk about it.
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Are we gonna have to stop making our food taste good in order to stay healthy this year? We have tried everything outside of social distancing and wearing masks and we've still gotten the virus. Will we have to not only change our eating habits, but change the way we make our food too? Will it work?
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coronavirus. #deltavariant #omicronvariant #vaccine
Red flags should be placed on the head of anyone who says this. How is it that a person can have a good job and make good money, but can't find a place to stay, or can't keep any money? So, that's where YOU come in.
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houseguests #welcome #badblood #eviction
It's not the ideal situation for anyone who has ever been involved in this situation. It can be embarrassing for the man, woman, or even the children born into the relationship outside, or the kids inside of the relationship who have to explain to their friends how they got a new brother, or sister, without their mom being pregnant. It can be an uncomfortable situation for all parties involved. The toughest part can be the fact that the two of you are still together, instead of being apart. Yeah, it's never easy when your unity comes into question. What do y'all know about this?
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outofwedlock #unwedmothers #singlemothers #halfbrothers
There are a lot of people who don't get along with their mothers, which can be a serious thing, because in many of OUR homes, the mother is the only parent that we have. Some people have disrespected their moms, or even stolen from their moms. Of course there are situations where some moms have stolen from their children, or neglected them, because of their drug abuse. Nonetheless, when you and your mother aren't on speaking terms, it can leave a large void in your life and cause a lot of stress. Many people go through this with their dads and they seem to get through it pretty well. No so much when it's your mom. Let's have this conversation.
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separation #familymatters #brokenfamily #familyfallout
This is bigger than your reaction to disappointment. For some people, when things don't go their way, it's symbolic of worst things to come. Some people say that it's just overreacting, but for some people, some things that don't happen are the result of patterns that they have been paying attention to for some time. For example, if you are sick and the treatments are not working the way that medical professionals said that they are supposed to work, it could be symbolic of a deeper problem that needs to be addressed. For some, it could symbolize the beginning of the end. Do you know what I'm talking about?
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expectations #results #panic #symbolism
Vaccine mandates, returns back to work, stimulus checks, COVID breakouts, murder rates at an all-time high, quarantine endings, troops leaving Afghanistan, inauguration of a new president, riots and invasion of the capitol, numerous surprise celebrity deaths, Betty White, Colin Powell, Hank Aaron, DMX, Biz Markie, numerous ups and downs concerning this year. Speaking of this year, whet grade would you give it, if you had to grade 2021 on a scale of 1 to 10, how would you grade it? Would you get above 5, or would it fail below 4? A lot of the things have a lot to do with our perspective when we look back at a year. Do you think that our disappointments color our opinions on whether a year is good or bad for us? Let's look back this past year and see how we did overall.
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newyearsresolutions #chnage #gains #losses
Some people like to be dependable, reliable and Johnny on the spot. When they care about someone, they want them to know that they can be called upon to help, no matter what. That's what it is when it's healthy. Other people want to be the only person that you can think of when you are in trouble, in need, or anything else. They want to be the ONLY thing in the world that you want for ANY reason. This is when it can be a big problem. SOme people will go to great lengths to be sure that you are removed from family, friends and any other significant contacts. They want to be the only one that you can call on. This can get dangerous. Let's have this talk.
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possessive #control #toxic #friends
There are coworkers who try to take your spot, block your growth, get you fired, have you written up, embarrass you, make you look incompetent, break up your team, disqualify you, demoralize you, have your integrity questioned, even fight you in some extreme cases. Can the things that a work enemy do cross over into your personal life? Can a coworker do damage to you outside of the job? Let's have this talk.
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coworkers #teammates #jobsecurity #haters
It was all good when we went from $1200 to $2000 and we were able to get business loans and food stamps and didn't have to even work. All we had to do was work the year begore, or prove that we were gonna work the year after the pandemic. It was sweet. Money and assistance was coming from everywhere. Was the money really free though? Did anyone really do us a favor? Are you any better off now than before the pandemic? Let's take a quick look at this.
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A lot of dudes have a multiple children. Many take care of their kids and are there for their kids. A lot of men are not. What happens when a woman gets with a man who has multiple kids by multiple babymoms that he doesn't take care of? How do some women justify that he will take care of theirs. Tonight, we're gonna pick up where we left off and try to figure this thing out for sure. This ain't ghetto. This is real life. Are you living it? Have you?
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A lot of dudes have a multiple children. Many take care of their kids and are there for their kids. A lot of men are not. What happens when a woman gets with a man who has multiple kids by multiple babymoms that he doesn't take care of? How do some women justify that he will take care of theirs. Have you seen this?
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Here it is, Christmas and you didn't get any presents. Is it a big deal? Should it be? Is it a pattern? Did you give any presents? Is it really that much of a big deal when you get older? Do you even celebrate Christmas on any level?
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With over 70 million people receiving the COVID shot over the past year, how do you feel about taking it? Did you have a lot of hope when you took it voluntarily? Did you think that it was the key to ending the pandemic? Have you taken a booster? For those who have had to take the shot involuntarily, how do you feel about it after the fact? Have your feelings about it changed in any way? Are you regretting, or resenting having to take it, even further than when you initially had to? How do you think that it has affected your health? Did you have any complications after taking any of the doses? Have you noticed anything different since you took the shot? Will you take a booster when the time comes? Did you take it in order to get, or keep a job? What do you think that the future holds in terms of where this virus is going? Let's please have this talk.
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moderna #pfizer #johsonandjohson #vaccines
If you ain't got nothing nice to say, don't say nothing at all. Maybe there was a time when this held more weight. I agree that good people with good intentions shouldn't be torn down by negative rumors, or insults, or jealos haters, but there are some people who you might not have anything nice to say about, because of the things that they do. Some of those things might have, or need to be reported. The fact that our elders are the ones that gave us this saying says a lot. It says that sharing negative information is nothing new. People doing dirt is nothing new either. People choosing who they share negative information about is nothing new either. So when is the best time to something bad about somebody, or when to say nothing? Let's have this talk.
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gossip #secrets #reporting #telling
On the surface, it makes sense that you would resist doing something because someone didn't talk to you respectfully, or they yelled at you, or they tried to make you feel like you had to do something. Where it gets bad is when people use this way to control the situation of others, or when they use this as an excuse to not have to do something that they are responsible for. Like, I ain't paying my half of the rent if you don't talk to with some sense. Know what I mean?
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nice #mean #respect #disrespectful #bills
Petty means small and insignificant, but many people have adopted the term to just mean disrespectful. There are many people who feel the need to be disrespectful for whatever reason these days. That might, or might not be you. What happens when it is them, but you cannot respond to them in kind for some reason? For example, a manager at a job is contracted to keep his cool, even when he may be getting insulted and cussed out by an employee. Is that fair? No, probably not, but it can get considerably worse if the disrespectful employee doesn't even receive a discipline worthy of the acts that he/she displayed, There are plenty of other situations that might warrant you taking the high road, instead of matching disrespectful energy. What are the emotional after effects of not matching the petty that is displayed against you? Ready to talk about this?
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You might be mad when you see someone with food stamps being able to afford more food at the grocery store than you, but what are you REALLY mad about? Have you ever noticed that the filthy rich don't hate on the middle class and not enough of the middle class hates on the filthy rich? Have you ever wondered why? Let's take a look at it.
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welfare #middleclass #elite #poverty
If I leave her, she'll tell child support what I did and I won't be able to see my kids. I can't leave him because he'll cut me off and I'll lose the house and be broke. I can't leave her because she'll tell everybody about my secret sexual activities. I can't leave him because he'll tell welfare that I work under the table....These and other things can keep people together for toxic reasons and make things even worse, but they happen on a regular basis. How bad can it get? Can it survive? Let's talk.
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Pro-Choice for democrats and Pro-Life for republicans right? That's not always the case when it comes to the issue of abortion in the Black community. Personal politics are usually what takes center stage in our community. When we talk about Pro-Choice in politics, we're often talking about a woman's right to choose whether she will terminate a pregnancy, or not. It's not usually about men trying to decide what a woman should do with her body in the Black community. It would seem like most Black men support abortion in the Black community, instead of what the media says about the overall situation. Do Black men support abortion more than other races, or ethnic backgrounds do? Let's talk about that. Pro-Life? Have you ever seen a lot of Black people participating in Pro-Life rallies, or violent protests against abortion clinics? Ever wonder why? Let's talk. We all know about Planned Parenthood and the Black community right? Do we understand? Let's talk.
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Pro-Life #Pro-Choice #abortion #Adoption
The cancel culture in entertainment deals with celebrities that get bad press for perceived inappropriate behavior. What about your cancel culture? Do you have one? Is there something that someone who was popular in your life can do to be eliminated, or slandered to the point where they can't recover financially, or personally? This is more than just being mad at someone. This is about when you put someone in position to have to stop doing what they are doing that you disapprove of.
In Entertainment, when you get cancelled, you don't just lose a show, or a performance, you lose your ability to ever work again. The people who were once your fans will be encouraged to turn against you and not financially support you anymore. Some people have done some questionable things, but have been hard to cancel. People like R. Kelly come to mind. Kevin Spacey is another and there were a bunch of people who made it through the "Me Too" movement. Bill Cosby still hasn't been able to be totally cancelled. Ready to talk?
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BillCosby #Rkelly #MeToo #Dave Chapelle
Back in the 90's, Mary J. Blige said that all she wanted to do was be happy. The song resonated to a lot of people, but did it make them think about the the way to be happy? People talk about the things that get on their nerves, but some of them stay around the things that they say get on their nerves. Like the way that people complain about the things that they see on their pages, but they continue to be active with those accounts and those same types of people. Many of us are totally surprised when people deactivate their social media accounts. Should we be surprised about anyone eliminating something that they believe is making them unhappy, or are we surprised that people can't find a way around something that is so popular to people? People stay in abusive relationships. It can make some of us wonder if those situations really make them unhappy. This talk will be serious, but can you take it?
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maryjblige #behappy #irritation #trouble
They why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? Many people who have said this were talking about sex, but it applies in other areas too. Many women believe that if you treat your boyfriend as good as you would a husband, that a man won't marry you. Do you think that this is true? What if neither of you in the relationship are selfish, or calculating? What if you believe in treating the person that you are with really well? Does this concept only apply to women and if so, does it show a bigger problem between men and women about the value of marriage? Will a man stand a woman holding out on him for marriage, if he knows about it? Would you do it? What are some of the things that a girlfriend might hold out on in order to make marriage seem more desirable? Let's talk.
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The one you gave away is the one that you may not have valued at the time. The one that got away is the one that you may, or may not have valued, but they kept it moving in the process. You may have been able to keep them if you had done something different. The one that died is pretty self-explanatory, but the thing about them is that you may have looked at them as the best thing that ever happened to you, but that never got a chance to play out. Sometimes you knew them well and sometimes they made a big impact on you in a small amount of time. Are y'all even ready to have this conversation?
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How do you handle it when someone is getting on you about something that seems petty, but you know that they are really mad about something bigger?
When you know your people, you know your people. You know when they are upset, or rattled by something. You know when they are going through something. You know when they are hiding what they're going through too. You know when they are trying to mask their hurt for some reason and you might even know why they're hiding it. Maybe sometimes it's you. What makes a person lash out to someone about something when it's really about something else? What can make them come out and express what's really going on? Can hiding it help? Can we please talk about this?
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They made it look like y'all were the best of friends. They made it look like they were really trying to do something for you and your peoples. They made it look like. They made it look like y'all were together exclusively. They madee it look like they was gonna look out for you. They made it look like everybody was against you.when they wasn't . They made it look like...
People will come into your life and make things look like a lot of different things that will benefit them in some way, but they will make it look like they are doing something for you. What's up with that? What's the motivation? Let's rap about it.
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illusion #deception #perception #fakenews
Some people grew up in a loud house where people were yelling at each other all the time, so someone raising their voice at them is not anything that they are not used to. Still, those people can tell the difference between someone talking with a loud voice and when someone is yelling at them. Other people may have grown up in a house where people talked quietly most of the time, so their response to someone raising their voice at them may scare them, or make them want to defend themselves. What is your response to someone yelling at you? Is it a big turn-off for you? Does it depend on who is doing the yelling? Does it matter if the person is talking directly to you, or whether it's about something other than yourself? Why do some people get violent when someone raises their voice at them? Can we have this conversation?
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When it comes to people, obviously, color is very important to a lot of people. Is it color, or is it culture though? For many in OUR community, it actually IS about color. Color, even when your culture is similar. When it comes to things, does color matter a whole lot? Are you the type to take the favorite color thing seriously? Does your car have to be a certain color that you like in order for you to drive it? The clothes that you wear? Do you think that you or other people are ugly in certain colors? Is color somewhat of a OCD syndrome? Can color really not matter to some people? Well, let's talk.
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One thing about the internet is that when you hear a word and it catches on, you're gonna hear it a lot along the way. For example, before Jada Pinkett described her affair with August Alsina as being an entanglement, I had never, ever heard that word used to describe that siyuation. Now, you hear it being used all the time. The same way as people throw around the word toxic, toxic people and toxic relationships. We hear difficult relationships and people being described as toxic an awfulo lot these days, but are we getting the truth? Are we getting the whole story? Are these people and relationships really toxic, or are the people describing them just a little too sensitive? Have you ever been with someone who can't take a joke, or someone who takes life a little too seriously? Have you ever been with someone who can't tell sarcasm from seriousness and complains about their feelings being hurt all the time?
This is not to say that some relationships aren't toxic, but how can we tell the difference? Let's talk.
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They say that anyone can get with her, then she's no good and no good man would want her. Do you know that to be true? Were the easiest girls always the loneliest girls, or the most popular? Not to encourage women to be loose, or anything, but the truth is the truth. Do most people try to do easy jobs, or the harder jobs? Some people revel in the fact that they can do difficult things. Sometimes they consider themselves to be a little better because they can do difficult things. Are they right to feel this way? Are you the type that likes things to be easy, or to be hard? Is it true that people respect other people who are more complex? Let's talk.
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Are you usually ready for what might come when you're on your way to going where you're going? When you buy an expensive, foreign car, are you ready to pay for the premium gas and the price of maintenance? When you buy a big home, out in the burbs, are you ready for the price of the taxes, upkeep and utility bills? Are you ready for the deed restrictions? When you chose that private school for your children, were you ready for the total cost of tuition and other things? When you took a chance on that love on a whim, that you were not that compatible with, were you ready for the on-the-job training that comes along with marrying someone who you don't really know? There are plenty of potentially good situations that we enter into without understanding that it's not always a smooth ride that we're about to be on. You ready? Street Acne baby.
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It seems to be the general consensus that women who are educated, motivated and upwardly mobile are harder to control for men than women who live by modest means and may lack direction in life. Is it true?
On the surface, you may agree that women who have it going on will not easily submit. When you start really thinking about it though, you may see something different. Ask yourself this. Is the willingness to submit, or be controlled a characteristic of weakness? Is control a bad thing? Can we please have this talk tonight?
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The house, the clothes and the ride are 3 things that if you have straight, with some money left, you're in a pretty good position in life. Or is it? A lot of people only have 2 of these. Some people have to rock out with just 1 and they usually do the 1 to death. Is this just a cultural thing? Do only Black people feel this way about success? We know that there are many other things to achieve in life, but is this a comfortable position and should you be happy with this? Let's see. Let's talk.
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We hear stories about men who are in relationships with women who don't get along with their mothers. Sometimes it's a situation where the mother is jealous of the wife, or the girl, or the mom doesn't think that the woman that her son has chosen is good for her son. Sure, it may not be any of the mom's business, but if a man loves his mother, he will take her advice into consideration. Why should a man have to choose between the two though? What happens when he has to choose? Can this be worked out in a way where all parties involved can be satisfied? Let's have this talk.
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What age should a woman stop dressing revealing, or extravagant the way younger girls do? What age should men stop wearing braids in their hair? You might feel like there is no age where you should stop doing the things that you like to do. Maybe you feel like it shouldn't matter what other people think of the way that you dress, or the way that you act. Are you right? Are they wrong? Is there ANY right or wrong? What about the men and women who act younger and dress younger to attract younger people to date? Is that okay? Maybe just not for you, but okay if that's what they wanna do? Do you think that there is a way to dress and act younger, or older, or is it just a judgement call by haters? Let's talk.
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How much money would it take for you to consider doing something that you may have said that you would never do? How much would you have to get paid to have sex in front of a bunch of people? Some people do it for free. How much would you have to get paid in order to run through a crowded mall? Some people do it for nothing? How much money would it take for you to ruin your reputation in some way? Many people do this, while in search of trying to get something else. Would you face your fears for money? Would you sacrifice your money for true love? Many people do it, only to find out that they weren't getting what they were paying for. So, what's your price? Is there one, or don't you look at it that way?
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The Pandemic saw a lot of people who weren't working receive big checks and people who weren't working struggle with rising prices of stuff. Food is off the chain. Gas is through the roof. Even other things that can't be explained are much higher and they have not come down. The price of going out to restaurants, bars, clubs and other forms of entertainment have gone up, with no sign of coming down. Even the salary of certain jobs have had to increase. How has this affected us? Well, let's talk about that.
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Some people get kicked out of things all the time and it doesn't seem to affect them emotionally. Others get banned from things and never seem to be the same again. Some people revel in kicking people out of places, clubs, organizations, etc. It makes some people feel powerful to be able to kick people out and they relish in that power. Some people seem to do everything in their power to be kicked out of things. They will break all the rules.
There are times when being banned from something can have dire consequences, like when you get kicked out of your family, or family home. Is it ever permanentt? What about when you get fired from a job and are banned from the premises? There are some churches who ban people from entering . How does all of this affect you? Have you ever been banned from anything? Social media? Let's talk.
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They are actually above-average in the look department. Face and body are up to par, but something about them that isn't an instant turn-on. What is it? How can this happen? Why doesn't good looks automatically mean that they turn you on? Are they dumpy? Frumpy? Goofy? Doofy? Is it the way that they dress? Do they walk funny? Talk funny? Have no swag? What about people who are not very good looking, but have a lot of sex appeal? What do they have that the good-looking, non-sexy don't have? Is it possible to be sexy, but not be at least a little good looking? Does sex appeal have everything to do with actual sex? Do people have to want to have sex with you, for you to have sex appeal? Let's have this talk tonight.
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We have all seen it. A very affectionate person who has to dumb it down, because they are dealing with someone who is rather aloof. Someone who can only et close when they are having sex. Someone who treats full sex sessions like quickies. It's the case of the "Let's cuddle" person who has hooked up with the "Why you always all up under me all the time?" person.
Why don't some people like to hug, or caress, or kiss, or just hold sometimes? Are they cold? Did they grow up being discouraged from showing affection? Does affection make them feel weak? Is there something else to it? Let's see.
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What happens when you're really good at doing something bad, or when your weaknesses are easily taken advantages of? Let's say that you're really good at giving oral sex. For your partner, that could be a wonderful attribute, but if you do it to the wrong person, or to too many people, you might have to wonder if anyone is ever dealing with you for who you are, or if they are experimenting with you? We all know what happens when you are too nice to too many people. People will take your kindness for being a weakness. What happens when your kindness is actually a weakness though? Get it?
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The mechanic who overcharges women for auto repairs because he thinks that they don't know better. The Contractor who promises everything at a cheap rate, but milks you for the entire price and never finishes the job. Can't forget the one who is more skilled at sabotage than actually fixing anything. Oh, and the one who shows you all the amazing pictures of the work that he has done to draw you in and leaves you wondering why your place never came close to looking that way? What about the one who seems to prey on the elderly? You know the one who nickels and dimes them to death. Have they no shame? Let's ask them tonight.
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They say that a man can't be a man anymore. They say that women ain't ladies anymore anymore. Are men forced to act like they are okay with certain things that they would have been against in the past? For example, are men being forced to act like they agree with the more homosexual tone of today's political society? Can a woman who is a single mother keep her femininity, while still raising men to be in touch with their masculinity? What are the pressures that are on men and women to be, or change their natural masculine, or feminine nature? Let's talk.
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Ever worry about an elderly family member who has health problems? You ever lose track of their doctor's appointments and can't get in touch with them and feel yourself going crazy, all to find out that they are okay?
Ever have a family member who is about that street life and you can't talk them out of it, because they think that they have the situation well in hand? You know that the streets are ruthless and only lead to one end, but your family member thinks that they have cracked the street code? Ever have a family member who drinks too much? Does drugs? Weighs over 400lbs.? Your family man. Your family. Let's talk.
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Ever fall in love and get scared, so you ditch the person, run from the person, or avoid the person? Some people run. Other people feel uncomfortable about their feelings for a person and they try to do something to sabotage the relationship. They act extra jealous, or accuse the person of inappropriate behavior. What y'all know about this?
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Can a relationship survive on primarily sex? Can screams and moans really keep it together?
Jokingly and sometimes seriously, people will say that the reason that they stayed in a bad relationship for so long was because the sex was good. Is good sex worth physical, mental and emotional abuse? Can good sex trump that? If sex can be a trade off for bad behavior, why do so many people claim that when the relationship started to go bad, the sex went even worse? Is it that only mediocre sex doesn't hold up against problems in a relationship? Have you ever stayed in a relationship because the sex was so good? Have you ever been tempted to? What about communication and companionship? Can good sex be the compensation for lack of those things? Can a relationship survive on good sex alone? Well, let's see.
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Do this have to be equal in order to be fair to you? If so, how come? Is there another solution? In politics, we talk about equality all the time. The poor want it and the rich reject it? They say that we are all created equal, but is that true? Are we all born the same? We are all flesh, bone and hormone, for sure, but socially, economically, ethnically and culturally, are we even close? What do you think? They describe equality as an even playing field, but how can the playing field be even when there has been such an unbalance of power for so long? Would the rich give up their status to be equal with the poor? Would most of the poor be willing to step up and do the things that rich people do? Would they ready themselves for that type of commitment and change? Let's talk.
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On your way to trying to set goals, do things and make it out here, there are going to be things that happen out of the blue and slow you down. Sometimes things get in the way of you doing what you want to do and it may be a major thing, such as a a fire at your house that takes all of your time and money to get it back together. What if it is a relatively small thing, like someone stealing your identity, but being caught early, before any major damage can be done? Does that get under your skin as much as a live in lover running away and taking all of your stuff with them? Some people don't separate the big stuff from the small stuff. How well do you do with it?
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I swear that some people treat people like cellphone and cable companies do. They will do any and everything to reel you in. They will give you the world and treat you like you are the center of their world, but as soon as you get old to them, they kick you to the curb, or treat you like a second-class citizen. Meanwhile, they are entertaining someone who is brand new and giving them the royal treatment that you used to get. On to the next conquest, I guess. What y'all know about this?
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Some people are born and raised in the hood and are loyal to the hood. Other people who were born in the hood spend their whole lives trying to escape the hood. Why is that? Some people describe the hood as the most progressive place in the world, where roses grow in the cement, while others describe the hood as a place that is similar to a warzone. What happens to people who grow up in the same areas, but see their experiences from a totally different perspective? Let's chop it up.
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Sometimes you fall in love with the one who seems to care about you and your dreams the least. It happens. You may like almost everything about this person, but this person just doesn't seem to have any interest in the things that you do. Maybe it's that out of the many flaws that you see in this person, the biggest flaw is that they don't show any concern, or interest in the things that mean the most to you. One of the biggest problems with this kind of thing is that it can start at a very young age, to where the people who you grew up with didn't support your dreams, aspirations, feelings, ambitions, goals, or accomplishments, so you were raised to think that that was okay. It's not okay. Let's rap.
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Things wear off on children. Sometimes the good things wear off. Sometimes the bad things wear off. Sometimes the quirky, or crazy things wear off. A lot of times, we don't like to talk about the crazy things. The truth is that no parents are perfect, but some don't even seem to want to try to be better. If you were raised by a parent that suffered undiagnosed mental illness, it could have devastating effects on a child. They can pick up on all kinds of reckless and irresponsible behavior. Let us see about it.
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You can take an old car and change the tires, put some new rims on and put a fresh coat of paint on it. You can clean up the interior of the car and add some new car smell fragrance to it and people will be in awe about how great the car looks. They'll tell you haow great the car looks and what a great job you did. It will all be for nothing if your car sounds like it needs a new muffler when it starts, or if you can see and smell thick exhaust when it runs. It will be even worse, if you are stuck on the side of the road with your car broke down, it's not gonna make your pretty car look good. Was it a good idea to fix all the cosmetic things on a car, before you fix what's mechanically wrong with it. SOme people get an entire makover and come away looking fresh and brand new and people tell them how great they look. Have they fixed what's going on inside though? Will the makeover work? Let's see about it.
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It might be the perfect job for you. The pay, the benefits, the opportunities for advancement, but the house of the shift might totally throw you off. Would you write it off altogether? Some people would. She might have the perfect body, face and personality. She has a good job and she is known to treat her man right. The thing is that she used to mess around with some dusty cat that you know and you figure that anybody that would mess with him has to have something wrong with them. Really? This is a big yes for some. Can you deal with this type of logic and methodology? It makes perfect sense to some and absolutely no sense to others. No one is perfect, but that one point that keeps them from perfection can spoil the whole picture for some. Let's talk.
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Loyalty is something that we all look for in order to feel secure in our lives. So is love. So is trust. So is exclusivity. These things can be shown in a variety of ways. When it's done right, these attributes make people feel special. When it's abused, it can make people feel negatively empowered. Let's talk about it.
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They say that women don't apologize. Men say that women don't apologize. Do women agree that they don't apologize, or is it a one-sided agreement? Do women apologize to other women, or it thought to be reserved just for men that they don't apologize? If it's true that women don't apologize, what could be the reasons for that? Where does the refusal come from? Let's see what this phenomenon is all about.
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The popular tailor Dapper Dan made an interesting observation when he was making clothes back in the 80's. He noticed that all of the hustlers that he made clothes for would act cheap when they were among each other, but when women came around, they would spend like there was no tomorrow. They didn't want to appear to be broke, or stingy when the women came around. This is a regular thing that happens with men. Do men think that only men who appear to be rich will attract women? Could be. What about women though? Do they have any problems with appearing cheap, or stingy? Let's look at it.
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The friend zone is not a place where nobody strives to be, but everybody loves having good friends. When you get friend zoned, it's usually because, although you may be physically attractive, something about you says that you would be better suited to be a friend than a lover. It could be your hygiene , your pest-like tendencies, or your creepy ways. Sometimes the problem is not all that identifiable. Whatever the case is, you are not chosen to be boyfriend, or girlfriend material. What happens when this becomes a pattern for you? Is it possible that a good-looking, or successful person can't find a love that wants to be their love? Can this be their eternal fate that they get used to? For how long?
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We all have to start over at some point, because nothing lasts forever. How well do you deal with the process of putting the pieces back together? It can take a long time to get back to the status that you were in before, whether it's social, mental, emotional, or financial. Can you deal with the process of taking the steps? It's not always easy. When your team is trying to get younger by recruiting young talent right out of college, can you deal with the learning and losing stage that teams go through? Do you understand? After a breakup, are you able to get back on your feet and find your way through the hurt and loneliness? Do you respect the rebuilding process and practice patience, or do you try to rush to get back to your comfort zone? Well?
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buildbackbetter #buildwiththegodsandearths #rebuilding #inthebuilding
You might hide your money from family, beggars, bill collectors, charities, etc. You might give your money to women, children, bars, restaurants, strip clubs, the dope man, etc. What does who you hide your money from, or give your money to say about you? What if a man hides his money from his kids, but gives his money to his woman? What does that say about him? What if a woman hides her money from her man, but gives her money to the bills? Is she doing the right thing? Let's get into this.
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makingmoney #cashrules #moeyandpower #moneypowerrespect
We have all seen people wearing these things on the streets. It seems like sometimes, it's wearing on our emotions. Why does it piss some of us off to see someone dressing inappropriately? Is it a big deal? Is it our business? Is it an indication of a bigger problem? The bonnet thing. Is it a hairstyle, a preservation of a hairstyle, or an absence of a hairstyle? How did so many women start wearing these things at the same time? We have seen young men wear the pants hanging down for 2 decades now at least. Now the ones who were doing it when they were younger are doing it now that they're older. What is the REAL meaning of why they are wearing their pants that way? Let's get it.
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uggboots #pantssagging #bonnets #furryslippers
When you give up, you quit. When you give in, you continue? Think of any of the times when you have given up on anything. Did you stop altogether, or did you discontinue a certain portion? Have you ever given in to something? Have you ever given into someone? Did you give in because you were resisting? Do you have to love someone in order to give in to them, or is there some other force at work?
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#givingin #givinguponyou #sleepdeprivation
What happens in your life when things start to get old and don't work as well as they used to? Do you identify what the problems are and go about fixing them, or do you put them out to pasture and get a new one? Cars? Electronics? Homes? Jewelry? Friendships? Loves? Jobs? You would be amazed at how many people feel like a relationship is done for when the butterflies stop. What about you? A lot of people do a personal housecleaning at the beginning of the year. Do you agree with that? Yes? No?What is it? Let's talk about this.
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outwiththeold #inwiththenew #oldschooljams #reneworreplace
People are quick to say that they want the best for you, especially when they're wrong, or are not providing the best for you. What's that all about? Is it just something to say? Kinda like: I don't f**k with you like that, but I wish you all the best. Really? Can we even say that? Well, people do say it, which can lead you to ask if people are really serious when they say that they want the best for you. Has anyone that was doing things for you, besides your parents ever done their best for you? Let's hash this out.
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best #2ndbest #somethingtosay #thebestforus
Why do some people become afraid to start over as they get older? Whatis the fear about? Of course it doesn't apply to everyone, but for those who it does apply to, what is that all about?
More than likely, if you have reached middle age status, you have had to start over several times. Was it so bad? Was it so hard? Did you have to lose everything in order to start over again? Do we lose confidence as we get older, or are we afraid to even have that conversation? Whether you are talking about a relationship, a job, a house, a marriage, a life, or whatever it is, have you had bad luck with starting over? If not, why does starting over scare some people into staying in bad situations for years? Does it start when we're young, or does the fear increase over time?
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newbeginning #startingover #newgrowth #fearofflying
Unfortunately, sometimes you can get used to something not being done right. It could be the way that something is written, or the way something gets fixed, or the way that you say something. It can be a sexual act, or a date, or the way that your car runs. It can be the way that business is done, or how something is taught, or the way that a door closes. Yeah the way that a door closes. I've been in houses where none of the door work right, or the locks don't work correctly. People go for this for a long time. What about you? When was the last time that something in your life that's being done wrong, was done right?
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mrright #dorightwoman #dotherightthing #rightandwrong
They say that when you lay down with dogs, that you come up with fleas. What does that mean exactly? What are people trying to say? Is it just something that people say when someone that they love cheats on them? Is there any validity to when people say that? Have you ever seen it? Have you ever lived it? Have you ever said it? Did you think about what it really might have meant?
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dogs #fleas #character #infection
I could have easily called this show too upset to sleep. That would cover almost everybody at some time in their lives. You know how it be, knowing damn well that you ain't gonna get no sleep, but you took your ass to bed anyway. Staring at the ceiling, tossing in the covers, trying to fall asleep watching t.v. You might have even tried reading, or posting on social media. It ain't working. Have you ever been so upset that you was scared to close your eyes? For some people, this goes on for days or weeks. Therapy should probably be your better option, but you'll probably try to self-medicate with alcohol. Some couples have agreed not to go to bed mad at each other? Does that work? Let's get into this.
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sleepproblems #sleepapnea #sleepaids #upsetstomach
Let's finish up from where we left off from yesterday when we ran out of time. It's never a good thing when someone catches you off guard and disrespects you. Let's get into it.
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disrespectingyou #respectdue #nuffrespectdue #dissingyou
How do you handle when someone catches you off-guard and disrespects you for no reason? Do you immediately get hyped and come at them, fighting fire with fire? Does it usually take a minute for you to get your bearings? Do you try to diffuse the situation? Do you have sympathy for them and try to help them in some way? Are you non-confrontational and try to exit from the situation and handle it from a distance? Does it hit harder when you get disrespected by someone who you do not know?
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disrespectful #confrontation #anger #resentment
Have you ever done it? Cried over nothing? Did while watching a movie? Did it while washing the dishes? Did it while talking to somebody about nothing? Did while you were alone? Did it while around a bunch of people? What is crying over nothing? Is it literally nothing, or is it nothing that you think you should cry about? Emotions can be confusing even in your own body? Some people cry when they are in pain. Some people never seem to cry over anything. Does it make more sense that a person would cry over nothing, or that a person wouldn't cry about anything? Can a person literally never cry? Why would that be the case? Wanna talk? We can do this.
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crying #cryingovernothing #sadandemotional #counselingandtherapy
We know that hearing bad news is always hard, but there seems to be something worse about getting it over the phone...or does it? Does it really matter? Is it worse when people give it to you in person? Some people will not relay bad news over the phone, no matter what. Are there some things that should never be told over the phone? A break up of a lover is something that people say shouldn't be done over the phone. Do you agree? Sometimes giving bad news over the phone can have far-reaching consequences. What do you think?
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badnews #terriblenews #cellphones #tragedyandtriumph
Sometimes you get into a loving situation that you can't label as a relationship. That's cool, as long as a relationship isn't what you're looking for. Sometimes a lover is really just a friend and you couldn't identify it, because y'all never really had that conversation. And yes, that conversation is whet you needed to have. SO, when was the last time you were in a real relationship? What makes one relationship real and another one fake? Probably the way you felt about it deep down inside. More than likely, any relationship where you haven't established a specific position may be a relationship that you might not consider to be real. Who determines whether you are in a relationship, other people, or you? Sometimes it can get a little sticky.
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reallove #fakefriends #monogamy #situationships
Anybody who doesn't use drugs knows that just being sober doesn't mean that you don't have any problems, stress, or worries. What else are you free of that counts? Are you worry-free? Money problem-free? Lack of love-free? family problem-free? Lack of self-esteem-free? The point is that even if you don't use or abuse drugs, there can be other things going on in your life that may give you the similar problems that having an addiction might. Don't take a drink yet though. We're gonna talk about this.
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drugfree #alcoholfree #justsayno #warondrugs
You might be surprised at how many couples have experienced this. Would it surprise you more about how many couples respect it? We have probably all heard of it. Is it always something that you know that such and such did, or have you experienced it for yourself? No one likes to be cheated on, but if you cheat, is it reasonable to think that you will be cheated on one day by that person? Can you be mad if someone revenge cheats on you? After all, you went 1st. Can revenge cheating make you feel better? Does it turn out to be revenge at all? Let's rap.
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cheating #infidelity #unfaithful #revenge
How realistic are your expectations for a half of a year? Are you patient enough to see the big picture, or do you set limits for a time before you abandon a project, or start making demands? What have you realistically expected from things in 6 months? A raise at a new job? Paying off a bill? An established relationship? Control of a situation? A considerable weight loss? Let's have this conversation?
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6monthstoayear #isitreal
Anyone who has a lot of money can pay their way through life. Those who have modest means have to use other things about themselves to make it happen. The things is, even people who don't have money still live their lives as if they have to use their money in order to attract people to them. How do you trick without having a lot of money? How do you get the things that only a lot of money can buy when you don't have a lot of money? Men are usually associated with using their money to attract people to them, but do women do the same? Is using your body the same as using your personality?
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moneytalks #payitforward #makingmoves #moneyispower
How often have put your freedom, or your salvation at risk? Have you ever helped someone cover up for a serious crime? Have you ever helped someone escape justice? Have you ever acted as an accessory after the fact? Have you ever helped a friend cheat on their spouse, or girlfriend? How close to a person do you have to be before they can reasonably expect you to go all out for them? Sometimes, all you gotta do is to not tell what you saw, or what you know. A favor is a favor, but when you are actually asked to help, does that make you more, or less accountable? Will God forgive you for what you have helped with? Will the courts? Will the affected party? Well, let's see.
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accomplice #aidandabetacrime #salvation #jesussaves
How do you know that you are all the way over something that has happened to you? How do you know that you have truly moved on? Some people show a lot of resolve and seem to move on quickly after something meaningful has happened to them. At least they say that they have moved on. Have they really? Usually there is proof that someone hasn't really moved on from what happened to them. For example, someone may not be able to stop talking about the incident, or they may still show a lot of anger, or remorse about it. Maybe they keep in touch with people who were involved in the incident, trying to figure things out. Confusion about what happened can keep a person from moving on, even if they really want to move past things.
Are you always sure that you have moved past something that happened to you? Let's get into it.
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gottamoveon #stuckinarut
Your father might be around, as well as his side of the family, but are they in your life? Do you know their phone numbers? Do you know their health status? Do they know yours?
People may claim to have grown up with you and some may claim to have helped raise you, but is it true? Were they IN YOUR LIFE as you see it? Let's rap about it.
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inyourlife #outofmylife #bornandraised #whereimfrom
For example, a family lawyer may only represent on spouse in a divorce preceding, but he may not like either one of them. You may hang out with players that play on an opposing team, but you might not care about the team mates on either team. Graduating students may be choosing scholarships for multiple schools that they don't want to go to. Maybe you have had to choose between two or more jobs that you don't want to work at, or in a field that you are no longer interested being in. If you have little to no interest in something, can you be wrong for choosing none over the other?
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#nolove #interestfree #nomoneydown #worryfree
What happens when you have really wanted to get with someone and they finally give in...after you have watched everyone else get a turn.
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sloppyseconds #thirstythirds #firststring #waitandsee
Most people care about the way that they look. They care about the way that people see them. They care that people think that they are honest, trustworthy and will not sell them out. They care that people see them in a good light. They want to be seen as the one who will associated with the good and won't fraternize with the bad. It drives some people to pretend that things that are not right and complete are right and complete. It drives some people to act like they have their shit together when they may be nowhere near it. When people who are against you see this, they may use it as a weapon against you a lot. They may use it to control you.
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#image #reputation #fakenews #realpeople
Have you ever gotten so used to something not working the way that it's supposed to that you can't accept that it could change? When you start out with something being the way that it is, even when you know that it ain't right, it can become what you're used to. It can be a relationship, a job, and electronic device like a phone, or computer. It can be politics, or a family. Getting used to something not working the way that it should can blind you, or confuse you and make you think that something that's working right is corny, or scripted. Have you ever noticed the way that people who have been abused look down on people who have never been abused? How about the way people who live a miserable life look at people who appear to be happy? The shit is real. Let's et into this.
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abuse #happiness #jealousy #hurt
People control the things that they say and do when they are sober and conscious. Some people, I should say, because not all act like they have good sense. Some people really have a hard time controlling what they say and who they say it to and when they should say it. Sometimes we mislabel these people as being "Real". They're not, they just don't have good training, or presence of mind to know how they affect other people than themselves. Many of them know what they're doing. But having the balls to do something is different. When you have the balls to say, or do something, there's a good chance that you have weighed the consequences and are going through with it anyway. For example, do you have the balls to ask for more money at work, even if you know that things aren't in your favor? Most people wouldn't. Would you ask your woman for a threesome, or a polyamorous relationship, knowing that she is insanely jealous? Would you approach a cop, while in your car, while you know that your license ain't straight? Some things take bravery. Some things take balls. Let's talk about balls. LOL.
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biggerballs #bravery #nerve #audacity
biggerballs #bravery #nerve #audacity
When people speak of soulmates, are they speaking of someone who was born to them, or are they speaking of someone who was made for them? Is a soulmate someone who you can mold, influence, or inspire to be your soulmate? Does a soulmate always have to come from Gog, or is there another way? Does being a soulmate have anything to do with compatibility? Does it have anything to do with having things in common, or is it strictly something that is spiritual, that has everything to do with how you feel about someone? Does a soulmate always have to be someone that you can identify?
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soulmate #spiritualconnection #somethingyoucanfeel #eyesarethesoul
We used to hear our grandmothers talk all the time about those fast ass little girls and how you better stay away from them. Nowadays, grandma would be silenced for being insensitive. Do we excuse any and everything these days? It seems like it. They even created a term to make you feel bad about your negative opinions and statements about what you don't like. It's called shaming. Shaming is supposed to be wrong. Shaming is supposed to be insensitive. Shaming is supposed to be judgemental. Shaming is ant-liberal. Anti-democratic. Do you agree? If you know someone who abuses drugs and alcohol, and you call them a druggie, or an addict, are you somehow wrong? Well, the people who are against shaming think so and they are plentiful.
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slutshaming #bodyshaming #drugsandalcohol #lifelessons
What does it mean when the time has run out on your heart? Does that mean that you were ever all in? People talk about how people are in their lives for a reason and a season, but is that the way that love works? How can you love someone and then not love them anymore? Was the love based on something more physical than something emotional, or spiritual?
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loveisblind #nomorelove #marriageanddivorce #timeout
Maybe you always wanted to be a certain height. That's one of those things that even surgery can't fix. At least there's no surgery that I know of that can change that. Anyway, most of us have to live with what height that we are. There are a lot of things that are that cemented in life. We talk about settling for things like it's taking one for the team with the ugly blind date chick. Many times the 1st option of things that we want is either too expensive, or unreachable. Does it mean that what you had to choose was a terrible choice? Anyone who has gone to a store where what they wanted was sold out understands this. Anyone who has missed a sold out concert understands this. How do we know how useful and popular the instead of has been over the years? There's no way that we can know, unless someone admits it. Let's admit it toni9ght.
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secondbest #secondoption #generic #justasgood
If you could sketch up a picture of your own government, would drugs be totally outlawed the way they are in our society? We have had numerous wars on drugs, but some of those wars seemed to have made things worse. Why is that? Do you have a problem with people who use drugs? Do you have a problem with people who use, or abuse drugs? Do you have a problem with people who sell drugs? Have you ever used drugs and may see it from a different perspective? Have you ever sold drugs and see it from more of a supply and demand standpoint? Is it the case where you can put up with some drug users and not other drug users? Like maybe you can put up with heavy weed smokers, but can't put up with crack heads? Do you think that people should be incarcerated because of their drug activity? Let's have this conversation.
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drugs #drugabuse #drugrehab #drugdealing
Have you ever known someone who talks all the time and can't hold water? Can't keep a secret? Will talk until everything comes out? Can't be trusted with personal information? The crazy part about this is that these are the ones that too many people seem to tell things. It starts out innocently enough. They start a conversation about just about anything. The next thing you know, you know all of their favorite sex positions and the combinations to their safes. They swear up and down that they never tell secrets though.
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blabbermouth #nosecrets #truthordare #tellall
Maybe you grew up without a father. Maybe you were always the shortest in your class. Maybe your parents were very strict and wouldn't let you do things that your friends did. Maybe you had to go to church all the time. Maybe you didn't get to sys the things that you wanted to say. Maybe you had to share a room, bed, clothes, etc. Maybe you didn't have any money. Maybe you grew up in the projects. Maybe you didn't have any bothers and sisters. Maybe your parents played favorites. Maybe you had to start paying rent at a young age. Maybe your parents didn't raise you. Maybe you had to take care of a sick parent when you were very young. Maybe you had to babysit a lot. Maybe you had to follow in someone else's footsteps, whether you wanted to or not. Maybe you were expected to follow a certain career path that you didn't want to follow. Maybe you got teased a lot. Maybe you had to fight all the time. Maybe a whole lot of things. What would you change, if you could? Have you changed the impact of those things as an adult? Have you made a different way for your children?
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comingofage #growingupbroke #twoparentfamily #singleparentfamily
People pray for things. People ask for things. People lust for things. People dream about things. People secretly want things and secretly go for things. When you have had your eye on something for a long time; let's say years, there's a good chance that you're going to grow with what you learn along the way. Does your desire for something grow along with you? For example, you may have wanted a motorcycle when you were younger, but couldn't get one for some reason. When you get a motorcycle 5 to 10 years later, is the desire still the same? Will you do the same things with the bike that you wanted to do before? The same thing with love. The same thing with money. Do you keep the same energy that you had before, when you have had to wait a long time to get yours?
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getyours #yourtimehascome #timeismoney
A lot of people have things to say about the way that you and your significant other spend time together, or treat each other. Some of the opinions might be what you agree with and a lot of the opinions may offend you, or make you stop talking to them.
Have you ever been in a situation that made you happy, but seemed to make a lot of people unhappy? Let's talk about it.
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cookingandcleaning #providing #financialassistance #submissive
Is it the case where someone can yell and scream at you and maybe even call you names as long as they don't try to push, shove, punch, or kick you? For a lot of people, it's a version of the opposite. They can stand a little pushing and shoving, but they don't like to be yelled at. You'll hear people say all the time: Don't talk to me like that! I'm not a little kid! Or I'm not your child. Everyone likes to be treated nice, but what are your limits? Is it when someone tries to get physical? Is it when someone calls you out of your name? What does it take to take your temper to the next level and change the game?
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There may be some bad people that you let get closer to you than you would some good people, but you have your reasons though. There may be some people who have a better chance of hurting you than some people who you might consider to be safer to you, but you have your reasons though. A snake is way sneakier than a cat is, but snakes feel safer around snakes. Interestingly, I have never seen a snake fight, but I have definitely seen a cat fight. I love cats though and hate snakes. Go figure. The people who we let get close to us says a lot about us. It says a lot about our comfort level, our culture and social status. The people that we keep away from us may say even more about us. Let's have this conversation.
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If it's trash day and your neighbor's trash comes on your side of the house, do you clean it up? Do you ask them to help you? Do you ask them to be careful not to let their trash come onto your side? If you have housemates who eat, make dishes and don't clean up after themselves, do you clean up after them, or do you make them do it? Do you just let it pile up until you can't take it anymore? Do you stay mad at them? At work, when coworkers are sloppy, do you clean up after them? Do you report them? Do you clean up after your kids, or do you train them to clean up behind themselves? Let's have this conversation.
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There is Black Business that we want to advertise and patronize and then there is Black Business that you don't need to be worrying about. There is Black Business like hair salons, restaurants clothing stores, exotic jewelry, plants and flowers, spiritual items, church, music, art, comedy. health and beauty products, law practices, accountants, financial advisers, wholistic practitioners, tailors, etc, Then you have Black business like: What you need to know that for? Do the two mix sometimes?
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